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I'm a woman, and haven't gotten hit on much since I've been in a relationship in my 30s, but in my 20s it was a similar story to you. Felt like I got hit on more by women than men. I think being tall and having some stronger facial structure played a big role in my case, honestly. I think women are drawn to those features...
/r/seduction02/07/21 05:32 AM
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you probably are the man every girl wants! You’re enough This account has to be a troll. (Or at least not a woman. (Or at least not a woman who has self esteem and experience with men.))
/r/seduction02/07/21 05:28 AM
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Don't ask for "thoughts" on your idea if you're too sensitive to handle them.
/r/seduction23/11/20 05:41 PM
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That has got to be the most offputting suggested exchange I've ever seen.
/r/seduction23/11/20 07:57 AM
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And dads do “you go son !” when their 13 year old son has sex with the hot teacher. That's bull. Most parents of both genders would flip their shit if a son is having sex with a much older lady. Every time a teacher has gone to jail for an illegal situation like this it's because the parents alerted the authorities.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/19 10:08 PM
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That's subjective. And that subjective opinion is one that I would consider sexist.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/19 10:04 PM
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Asking a girl to go back to her place is generally rude and too forward. We're not idiots. If we want you over we'll invite you.
/r/seduction30/12/15 05:36 PM
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Oh god. I've had guys try this on me. I HATE it. There is nothing sexy about having to use the bathroom, and if I wanted you in my apartment I'd invite you in goshdarnit.
/r/seduction30/12/15 05:34 PM
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That set had a big influence on me because I learned two things: This stuff actually works. With all due respect, a lot of women will chat back with a strange guy in a bar just because they don't want to be rude, not necessarily because they're finding him attractive. And when two women who are friends keep glancing at each other when a strange man is talking to them, that's a common indicator that they're uncomfortable.
/r/seduction25/12/15 03:19 AM
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I just didnt respond cause I figure my comment could of started a plethora of convos. Whats my job in the Army? Whats basic training like? Have you met X' s wife(our mutual FB friend)? Maybe she had family in the military and she could of talked about that. Maybe she has a certain view on a military/government policy she could of talked about. The list goes on. All those conversation topics center around you. If you expect women to lead the conversation every time, and to always center it around…
/r/seduction25/12/15 02:55 AM
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So did you get those two girls' numbers? Or wind up going on a date/hooking up with either of them?
/r/seduction25/12/15 02:52 AM
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Actually, it's not. You might think it's implied, but it's not clear.
/r/seduction24/12/15 01:06 AM
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So you have never hooked up with a woman on a plane, yet you made an entire post to tell other people how to do it? You do realize this makes you look like an idiot, right?
/r/seduction24/12/15 12:53 AM
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Exactly how many times have you wound up hooking up with a woman you sat next to on a plane, opening with a line like that? And what is your ratio of success to failure? If you say the line has never failed, we'll all know you're lying...
/r/seduction24/12/15 12:37 AM
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I'm sorry to hear that you haven't been approached by guys that you find attractive That's not what I said, and I'm not sure where you're getting that from. I've absolutely gone on dates with guys I met who are strangers, but the reason it worked is because they didn't come off as having an agenda within the first few minutes we talked. Instead, we got to know each other in what felt like a low-pressure way, and then we both showed interest in taking the connection further.
/r/seduction24/12/15 12:19 AM
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I am a woman, who is sometimes approached by men in public, and who is turned off by the approach I/you described, genius...
/r/seduction24/12/15 12:06 AM
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I think Lorde and her boyfriend are about comparable looking. This coming from a woman. They're both a little "unconventional" and maybe they have a lot in common and a compatible personality. Those intangibles are always hugely important.
/r/seduction23/12/15 10:02 PM
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The reason giving perfect strangers a physical compliment first-thing is a bad idea actually isn't because she knows that already. It's because from that point on she'll be thinking that it's the only reason you are talking to her, and unless she finds you immediately attractive as well she'll be on her guard.
/r/seduction23/12/15 09:59 PM
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"I cried to keep her with me, I think she just want sex, but I want a relationship, I can't stop crying" You know good and well we wouldn't support that shit I don't think people would support a woman making a post like that either. But if it was a story about a guy who cried because he realized he wasn't getting what he wanted out of a relationship, guess what, that does happen.
/r/seduction23/12/15 01:14 AM
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I'm a 29 year-old woman, who has started letting guys know on date one that I'm interested in something meaningful. Here is my perspective: I tried the casual thing a little when I was younger partially because I was curious and partially because I thought it's what "cool girls" did, girls who guys would think were cool. In any event, I keep finding that most guys treat their casual partners like crap. Like with very low levels of respect compared to the way they treat women they're in a relatio…
/r/seduction22/12/15 09:29 PM
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Remember her tears aren't because she is in "Love" or "hurting", only a child cries , she has the emotional majority of a child and will drop you in a hot minute Wtf kind of twisted thinking is that? EVERYONE cries. EVERYONE. Unless you're like, a robot.
/r/seduction22/12/15 09:26 PM
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(and I get around 50 messages per day on average According to the New York Times the woman who receives the most messages of anyone in New York City only receives 25 per day. So based on that, as well as some other stuff in your post, I don't think you're really a woman. I think you made that part up.
/r/seduction21/08/15 05:45 AM
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I'm not disgusted because you seem weak, I'm disgusted because you are incredibly whiny. I am disgusted by men or women who are overly self-centered and whiny. And you clearly view women as the "other" despite the guys here trying to set you straight. You think women don't have challenges in their life? You are ridiculous. Until you improve your shitty attitude, I wouldn't expect you to have much success.
/r/seduction18/08/15 08:46 PM
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You're not a beta. You're just a guy with his head far up his own asshole. You're oozing an entitled attitude through every whiny sentence. The world doesn't revolve around you. Guys who try and make others happy regardless of any benefit to themselves are 100% more attractive than those who are just in it for what they can get out of it. When I go out in the world and flirt and compliment people I'm not always expecting something. And I'm not expecting that being nice will make me as successful…
/r/seduction18/08/15 03:20 PM
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I skimmed the post but I didn't read it all. I'm not an alpha, I'm a woman. And you're not a beta, you're whiny and self-absorbed. I was trying to insert some perspective here, because you chose to ignore the guy giving advice before you and I feel like you're still missing the point. I'm not here to give advice to guys like you, I'm here to pick up some tips of my own. But your posts were too annoying to completely ignore.
/r/seduction18/08/15 01:20 PM
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First of all, I didn't read your whole post because it's self-absorbed, whiny and I don't care. Second of all, no obviously sex isn't just about her doing something nice for you, ideally. But your typical good sex encounter is her doing something nice for you, and receiving something nice in return. Spending time with someone is the same way. If you don't think you're getting anything positive out of it, then you shouldn't be doing it. But if you're enjoying spending time with a girl, then you s…
/r/seduction18/08/15 12:55 PM
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You're painting two very extreme examples though. Most women fall somewhere in the middle.
/r/seduction18/08/15 05:16 AM
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Why should it be my goal to provide positive emotions to women that would never have done the same to me? Presumably if a girl is sleeping with you she things that she is doing at least something positive for you. Girls tend not to sleep with people they despise.
/r/seduction18/08/15 05:08 AM
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So to clarify, you would literally verbally ask a girl at a bar "hey may I put my hand on your lower back?"??? I assumed he was talking about asking permission to touch sexually, which I think is fine.
/r/seduction10/08/15 01:40 AM
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As a woman, I sometimes kiss guys I'm not that interested in. As someone else said here, kissing is a pretty casual activity. However, IMO if you're kissing someone you should enjoy the kiss. If the only reason you're kissing someone is to get sex, that's a little sad (but again, a female perspective).
/r/seduction26/07/14 07:10 PM
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