BayleShira Archive

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1	Men are power objects, women are beauty objects Visually, most women aren't into dicks at all. It's very few and far between to hear a woman say she finds them arousing to look at. I can't speak for size, because I have only had experience with one but the size is irrelevant to my orgasms. Again referencing my personal friend group, I have never heard any one of them say a dick was too small, but we have all expressed concern that they can be too big. Vaginas are only a few inches deep and being hit in the cervix fucking hurts. At least half …	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/02/23 08:27 AM
1	Men are power objects, women are beauty objects Every woman is different in what she finds visually appealing. In my friend group, we very rarely found the same guys attractive. I only had one friend in the entire group that fit the RP narrative. She constantly said she needed a man who was 6' at least, and he had to be super fit, and an 8 inch dong, blah blah. We all hated how shallow and obnoxious she was about it. She also didn't have much success dating anyone who wasn't a total loser (tall, fit men who had no fucking jobs and cheated on …	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/02/23 07:52 AM
6	Men are power objects, women are beauty objects You're right in saying that women are valued by their body and looks, generally, by society. All the rest that you said was garbage. Here's the thing: women are valued this way because we live in a patriarchal society. We don't want to be viewed that way. We don't typically view men that way, either. Generally speaking, women want relationships that embody emotional connection, compromise, intimacy, etc. Looks are a very miniscule component in selection criteria for those looking for a long term…	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/02/23 07:16 AM
4	Every man pays for sex in one way or another. And sex is a big enough factor for men to the point that some of them become rapists. I would even go so far as to say the majority are interested mostly in sex, so if we extrapolate that according to your theories, is it safe to assume that if consent runs out, the majority of men will become rapists? Obviously that's not logical because reducing one negative behavior into a projection on the entire gender is fucking absurd.	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/02/23 07:05 AM
5	Every man pays for sex in one way or another. Reread my response. I said I'm sure it happens. It is not the majority nor can it be proven as such.	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/02/23 06:47 AM
5	Every man pays for sex in one way or another. In this instance, it means "made up stories that I made up, just now."	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/02/23 06:42 AM
9	Every man pays for sex in one way or another. women leaving a guy when he goes broke Countless cases? Like, proven in a court of law in which, on the record, a woman states that "I left him when he went broke and stopped making me feel good about myself"? You're just stating anecdotal situations that I'm sure have happened her or there, but are absolutely not the majority and cannot be proven as such.	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/02/23 06:32 AM
12	Every man pays for sex in one way or another. I think you are confusing "transactions" with healthy, balanced, partnerships based on compromise. In an interpersonal relationship, there is always give and take. It's a pretty baseless claim that women are not able to love a guy for who he is.	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/02/23 06:27 AM
12	Here is why traditional women/wives are becoming more and more rare Also, women can get together with some rich new partner and she will still be collecting a ton of money from the other man. That is completely anecdotal and irrelevant. A lot of the men that don't get to see their kids are men who are completely uninvolved. Start asking around how many fathers can recite all their children's birthdates, or know how to administer medications, or know intimate details about their children's mental and emotional health. These are the gaps in active participation in…	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/01/23 01:13 AM
0	Q4W: You wake up a man, how long would it take you to have casual sex and how do you go about it And I literally responded lmao	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/01/23 07:10 AM
0	Q4W: You wake up a man, how long would it take you to have casual sex and how do you go about it That was not stated in the original post. What was said was that those answers are a cop out. If you find my response invalid just because it doesn't support your theories about incels and casual sex, you are free to keep scrolling.	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/01/23 07:04 AM
0	How are men supposed to meet women these days? Driving slowly back and forth is creepy behavior. While it may be explained away because, in your case, you were looking for a house number, the behavior itself is still creepy. I'm autistic so I completely understand being viewed as weird or awkward despite doing nothing wrong. On the other hand, men are vaguely unaware that things like "driving way too slow back and forth" are extremely frightening for vulnerable people. Because of the climate where men are literally murdering women for reject…	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/01/23 08:41 PM
1	Q4W: You wake up a man, how long would it take you to have casual sex and how do you go about it I'm trans-masc, so I have been waking up as a man every day of my life. I would thoroughly enjoy waking up in the correct body for once. I'd enjoy an increased calorie burn and more efficient muscle building biology. I don't do casual sex - I never have. Sorry if those of us on the asexual spectrum don't exist in your eyes, but that's the truth. I imagine if my confidence and masculinity that I already have were matched by being in an actual male's body, straight women would be all over me.	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/01/23 08:27 PM
3	CMV: All the character traits women despise in men they display far more frequently I'm wondering if you have actually met any women, ever. All the points you've tried to make are extrapolated arguments from RP dudes. These are not stances that are common among women - they are projections that RP dudes think are common among women. "Entitlement. Is there a more entitled belief than assuming the gender you are attracted to is 100% responsible for initiating a relationship with you?" The majority of women do not assume anyone is "responsible" for initiating a relationship. "Chea…	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/01/23 08:21 PM
1	How are men supposed to meet women these days? If you were labeled a creep, it's cause you're a creep. Ask me how I know.	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/01/23 08:05 PM
3	Women often use fear as an excuse to be rude to men even though men have assaulted/victimized more men than women There are so many things wrong with your statement, it's hard to pick a jumping off point. Let's start with: Almost any time you see a woman be rude to men, the common response is that she was scared. Women are rude to men all the time nowadays. I've never heard anyone say, "she was scared." Women cite a general fear of men when discussing the current anti-male climate, but in the moment, women aren't being "rude" out of fear. You seem to have your stereotypes mixed up. Also, men are constantly …	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/12/22 12:34 PM
1	How many of y'all are actually in successful LTR? I know what you wrote because I can (and did) read it. It's a lot for someone who doesn't give a shit. I said what I said.	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/12/22 09:24 AM
1	How many of y'all are actually in successful LTR? Sure, Jan. You wrote a pretty big paragraph for not giving a shit. But okay.	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/12/22 09:17 AM
1	How many of y'all are actually in successful LTR? It's a bonding experience when I read the dumpster fire posts to my partner. It's a public arena, and I can literally do whatever the fuck I want. Why do you care what subreddits I read?	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/12/22 09:11 AM
1	How many of y'all are actually in successful LTR? I hope he picks you, bruh.	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/12/22 09:08 AM
1	How many of y'all are actually in successful LTR? Married 17 years. It's been a long journey, and we've both grown and changed together. We barely survived conservative xtianity. We realized I'm queer, he's a narcissist, and now we're healing together and having the best sex ever as liberal Jews.	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/12/22 09:00 AM
1	Is having mental illness or being neurodivergent the most unattractive trait a man have? That's not selection bias, nor is it gaslighting. The only bubble we are in is called Reddit, where you gave an anecdotal opinion and then I did the same. Neither of the things we said were irrefutable facts, and I didn't intend for mine to come across as such. Read the room, bro. You're on the internet.	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/12/22 09:50 PM
1	Is having mental illness or being neurodivergent the most unattractive trait a man have? Nah. You really do. And you know that, but I'm sure you'll double down to be "edgy."	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/12/22 12:37 PM
1	Is having mental illness or being neurodivergent the most unattractive trait a man have? You seem to have a fundamental misunderstanding of autism.	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/12/22 12:14 PM
1	Is having mental illness or being neurodivergent the most unattractive trait a man have? This is honestly a huge factor. While you are showing indifference, women pick up on that as being respectful and safe; if you're not trying to manipulate them or seduce them in some way, they will be more drawn to you in most settings.	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/12/22 12:13 PM
1	Is having mental illness or being neurodivergent the most unattractive trait a man have? That's an interesting take because I personally love short men and I've spoken to many women who also find short men attractive. I know several short men who have had no trouble at all with dating. I really can't figure out where this emphasis on height came from.	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/12/22 12:08 PM
1	Addressing Two Common RP Misconceptions RP tends to be a "vibe." It's the spirit of the law rather than the letter. I don't know what to tell you. By my own etiquette, if I had never asked anyone out it would make sense if I had never paid. I have paid, but the point remains.	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/12/22 10:58 AM
1	The dad bod preference is nothing more than virtue signalling Ope! I found your problem. It's right here: "Having a dad bod as a man is unacceptable, it shows that you lack the discipline and drive to maintain a healthy and strict diet/workout routine." "being fat isn't attractive." You're not able to separate your opinion from someone else's. You have determined that a dad bod is unacceptable. A lot of women don't agree with you. A lot of women don't care about "discipline" or "drive to maintain a healthy diet." You're really going to shit a frisbee when …	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/12/22 01:40 AM
0	Addressing Two Common RP Misconceptions The second point is inherently misunderstood by a lot of RP men. Women laugh at men who refuse to pay for dates not because they are expecting anyone to pay for dates. It's not ridiculous to say, "we should split the bill." It's the motive behind the act of refusal. Men who are refusing to pay for dates are essentially, in this day and age, advertising that they expect women to put out in exchange for the meal. There are no respectful men who want to "stick it to feminists" by saying "I don't pa…	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/12/22 01:29 AM
1	Are men capable of raising kids by themselves? I'm not going to read any of these toxic comments (the homophobic crap about all kids needing two separate, opposite-gendered biological parents was enough for me). To answer your question, men absolutely can raise a child alone and be damn good at it. I honestly don't know why most men don't seem to have that drive aside from the possibility of having the mentality deeply engrained in them that raising children is "woman's work." The fact that you are even considering embarking on such a diffic…	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/09/22 07:01 AM
1	What is an average guy? When we met/started dating, he had just turned 24 and I was a few months from turning 18.	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/09/22 08:11 PM
7	Are Fat Woman Aware Of What They Are Doing To Themselves If you were any farther off base, you'd be on the moon. The "active" lifestyle is a lot different for a man than it is for a woman. Losing weight is easy when you are overweight. When you get to a moderately healthy weight, it becomes increasingly difficult. Saying "it's easy" minimizes the fact that there is a lot of variation from one person to another. And please don't sit here and explain to me how to be fit - I have an education as a personal trainer.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/05/22 09:44 PM
3	Are Fat Woman Aware Of What They Are Doing To Themselves Women with children are very lucky to find time to work out. They are also incredibly lucky to have the time to eat well (or at all, sometimes) or hydrate or even sleep, so working out does not end up at the top of the self-care list. Yes, we realize we are visually less appealing in very general terms when we begin gaining weight - but our priorities are keeping children alive and healthy. We are not concerning ourselves with trying to look attractive for your sexual gratification. Women who ar…	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/05/22 09:35 PM
1	The problem is that women do not have real sexualities, and as society becomes more liberated, this fact becomes more relevant. Thank you for informing me. Now, can you tell me what symptoms of low testosterone, progesterone, oestradiol, and oestrogen I am experiencing? Can you explain to me why low estrogen has almost the exact same "symptoms" as high estrogen? Do you know why OBs will do a "dating scan" on your first prenatal appointment even though they have no way of showing how far along you are? Do you know why doctors still think you can diagnose a yeast infection by sight when the cm they consider abnormal has ne…	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/05/22 08:11 AM
3	What can actually be done to improve the dating scene for everyone That all depends on what you believe the issues to be stemming from.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/05/22 08:00 AM
1	Women hurt women as a group by lying or hiding their own age It doesn't affect me, practically speaking. But also, hear me out; you're wrong. You can't tell a difference of 5 years in most women who are doing the bare minimum to keep themselves healthy.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/05/22 06:09 AM
2	Women hurt women as a group by lying or hiding their own age I feel like you have not met very many women.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/05/22 05:18 AM
1	Women hurt women as a group by lying or hiding their own age My mom was the last generation of women who would say she was "29 again" on her birthday. This isn't a thing anymore. And even if it was, the difference between a woman who is 30 and a woman who is 25 is SERIOUSLY negligible. Also I am 34.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/05/22 05:11 AM
10	What can actually be done to improve the dating scene for everyone We need to raise or kids with more emotional maturity so they can respect others properly and then maintain healthy relationships if they desire it. And then we need better sex education that is also inclusive.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/05/22 04:50 AM
7	Nearly all women are incentivized to lie about what truly attracts them as it would make it harder to find the "natural" There is so much irony here. Women say we all have different tastes, then men say we are lying and it must be part of this magical mathematic formula that no one can figure out. It's ludicrous, honestly. I look at my friend group - we will call them M, J, H, and myself. M and I have had similar taste in men, but she married a man who I find unattractive and his personality repulses me. He is tall, a little heavier, and an ex-military man who is now kind of a hobo. We all agree that J's husband i…	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/05/22 04:46 AM
-1	The problem is that women do not have real sexualities, and as society becomes more liberated, this fact becomes more relevant. What hormones do you think are contributing to decreased libido? I'm very curious. Please tell me which hormonal deficiencies I began to experience about four years ago when I lost most of my interest in sex.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/05/22 04:03 AM
1	The problem is that women do not have real sexualities, and as society becomes more liberated, this fact becomes more relevant. It's not from hormones. You are talking about hormonal changes that occur usually at the onset of menopause. I am nowhere near the onset of menopause. It is also something that is accompanied by other hormonal changes in women. When sex drive decreases due to hormones, it is a dramatic hormonal change that will also contribute to painful sex, dryness, inability to orgasm, and a lot of other symptoms like weight gain and poor sleep. The idea that a woman in her 30s is experiencing decreased libid…	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/05/22 03:25 AM
2	Q4W: Do you like being held to a lower standard even though it is sexist? I mean... if you are being completely honest and women seem receptive to this and it puts them in a friendly mood, I don't see any reason to change. Purely from my perspective though, since you asked, I have told people off for much less. I have had men try to help me pack out fish I have caught and then get mad at me for refusing help. I have had a male friend even try to explain to me what a treble hook is - when I am a stream fishing guide. I have had men reach for my 50 pound bag of dog food…	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/05/22 02:26 AM
1	Do bisexual men have a difficult time with women because of their orientation? Would you date a bisexual man? If not, why? That's true. I hadn't really thought of a bisexual male being filtered through the lens of homophobia. I'm pansexual so it's not even on my radar, but I can imagine women being weird about it. I suppose that would limit a bisexual man much more than it would limit a bisexual woman, which is many degrees of shitty.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/05/22 02:00 AM
4	What is an average guy? He's 5'3.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/05/22 01:48 AM
3	The problem is that women do not have real sexualities, and as society becomes more liberated, this fact becomes more relevant. It's weird, because when I was in high school, my friends and I all had CRAZY high sex drives. It wasn't until about ten years into marriage when we were all exhausted, emotionally unsupported, and entirely overwhelmed with our workload that we began to express to each other that sex just wasn't happening much. Weird, right?	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/05/22 01:07 AM
2	What happens when a married woman goes on tinder? This is laughable. Rule number one for women putting themselves out there in this capacity: every man will say the nicest and most flattering shit. They all do it. They want sex. What did she think was going to happen? The reason the husband was tossed aside is because of those same men; being harassed on those apps by men who will be completely sleazy because they don't care about anything besides getting that sex. What did he think was going to happen? I don't really understand what this post …	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/05/22 11:17 PM
3	What is an average guy? I agree. I think that a lot of RP is anecdotal accounts that can never be accounted for. There's a lot of "women say this" and "women do that" but it's really just stories these dudes are telling each other - there's no actual woman involved. It's just like with the "short guys" trope, and how they think you can do all these things to fix your physical attractiveness, but if you are short, you're screwed. My husband is short. He had four very serious relationships, dated from his teenage years u…	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/05/22 10:36 PM
1	Do bisexual men have a difficult time with women because of their orientation? Would you date a bisexual man? If not, why? Purely anecdotal. Why would they have difficulty? I mean, I'm sure they can have difficulty but nothing jumps out at me that would make me think that.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/05/22 10:09 PM
1	Do bisexual men have a difficult time with women because of their orientation? Would you date a bisexual man? If not, why? I don't think bisexual men have difficulty. I would date a bisexual man.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/05/22 01:27 AM
1	If you are 30 and marry a 30 year old man then there's an 99 percent chance that he is settling. I'm going to need you to cite some sources for the following claims: Married men in their 30s are getting consistent sex Married couples in their 30s are sharing bills 99% of older men ditch their wives for younger women	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/04/22 09:46 AM
2	How seriously do you take the debate on PPD, and why? How seriously do you think people should take the debate here? I take it seriously insofar as I take debating, in general, seriously. I like giving my perspective and I like to read the perspective of others. I like to argue, obviously. Do I take it seriously in the capacity that I step away from Reddit and cry into my red bull? No. Not at all.	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/04/22 07:49 AM
0	What do small penis guys do? I've never tried hard at anything in my life, Jan.	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/04/22 07:40 AM
0	What do small penis guys do? It's not an assumption to point out the behavior you displayed in your responses. You want so badly for everything to be an attack on your penis size because you are self conscious about it and that is something that comes across very strongly in your post, supported by your erratic responses. It's like you are just picking a fight so you can say, "see? this woman insulted me! I was right, women are the worst!" And the second, it's not "criticizing others" to respond to the post that "others" ma…	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/04/22 07:31 AM
0	What do small penis guys do? Your attitude shows that you are bitter about your penis - that's not me being judgemental, it's you having character flaws. Penis size doesn't matter... But being close-minded and wallowing in a self-righteous pity-party is extremely repulsive. You didn't post this to get perspective, you posted it so the RP yes-men will bolster you while you drown out any opposing voices.	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/04/22 06:52 AM
0	What do small penis guys do? And your post was a long ass way to say that you are bitter about your penis.	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/04/22 05:35 AM
1	What do small penis guys do? There's no evidence here of any of the things you are claiming. The best I can gather is that she is having casual sex with a guy and she is not enjoying that sex. And the general response seems to be that if she is not enjoying these sexual encounters, she isn't obligated to continue. Somehow from that, you have projected that: His penis size is his worst trait (your words, not hers) Girls leave handsome men over their dick size (again, completely unfounded) The man in question has a dick large…	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/04/22 11:03 PM
1	Women are more abusive than men in relationships and don't think that they could be because of society's messaging - "Men bad, women good" That's not even remotely accurate. A shocking number of DV calls end with an officer informing the caller that both involved parties will have to be separated for the night; often they will agree to tone it down so there is no eviction. Many of these couples are repeat offenders because they can call the police and there's very little recourse.	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/04/22 10:32 AM
0	Are there many women who subscribe to and believe in Red Pill beliefs? I didn't realize we were still peddling the "stretched out vagina" garbage. I lost my virginity to my husband - vagina didn't loosen. We have been having frequent sex for 15 years - vagina didn't loosen. I have sprung 5 out of 8 children from my vagina - vagina didn't loosen. The vagina is made of similar tissue as your mouth. Your mouth doesn't stretch out even though you eat every day.	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/04/22 10:05 AM
2	What exactly forms a man into a "natural" ignoring uncontrollable genetics and circumstances? I am a mother raising 7 boys and I feel like this is very accurate and intuitive. Really it boils down to basic life skills - but boys are not being included in this knowledge. I see a lot of people pushing to "teach boys how to become men" instead of "teach kids how to become adults." I especially agree with having at least one close relationship with each gender. That's just not something that is usually encouraged, but it truly is integral in being a successful adult in society. Thank you for…	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/04/22 09:51 AM
0	What exactly forms a man into a "natural" ignoring uncontrollable genetics and circumstances? My only experience so far is in watching my teenage son navigate social situations. He just turned 13, and has not had a girlfriend yet - but girls are all over him everywhere he goes. His best friend's gf was even pursuing him. I started to notice that he treats girls differently than the other boys do. They are already learning to harass girls, "flirt" with them (even though it's in an intrusive and obnoxious way) and play annoying little games. My son doesn't do any of that. He just talks to …	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/04/22 09:42 AM
1	Most men don't have trouble dating and "betabucks" is mostly fantasy I think the biggest indicator of this is that probably 95% of people (men, women, single, taken, casually dating, banging for fun) read these absurd scenarios that are posted here frequently and go, "what? That's never been my situation or the situation of anyone I know." It's funny because most of the scenarios begin with "most men" or "most women."	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/04/22 09:25 AM
1	Do more prudish/absitent societies have more "satisfying" sex lives? I spent years in ultra-conservative, fundamentalist circles. I was in groups with hundreds of women who felt comfortable being honest about their sex lives. It's worse than you think. No one is enjoying sex, but the men are still asking for it anyways. The women do not have orgasms. They are encouraged to allow their husbands to penetrate them even when it is absolutely not something the wives want. They think that oral is a sin and they mostly only do missionary. No, prude societies are not hav…	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/04/22 11:41 PM
3	[Q4A] What are some examples of "high-value men" that are popular with the ladies? Who I find very nice to look at and who I would actually have sex with are two very, very different things. So is this asking high-value as in... attractive to look at? Men I would sleep with? Men I would date? Men who are all around good people?	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/04/22 11:25 PM
7	Do you have a pre-set range of attractiveness you look for, or is this something that you approach case by case? I feel like it's pretty pass/fail for me. I have never had much of a type, and even if I generally have a preference for one physical feature, it's not a deal breaker on finding someone attractive. I tend to find shorter men attractive, muscular or heavier men, bald men, scruffy men, etc. But there is always someone who doesn't fit the mold at all that I find attractive. From what I can gather, most women feel the same way. The attractiveness scale that RPM come up with is bogus. Even just betwe…	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/04/22 11:18 PM
9	Women say most men are “awful,” toxic or undateable, or that “the bar is so low” which is such a joke. Most men worship the ground women walk on, even attractive ones, and women are ridiculously selective. The whole "women only want assholes" trope is so ridiculously overstated. Yes, a handful of women date and then even marry toxic men. A handful of men date or marry toxic women. I find it quite alarming that you take what you perceive to be a "majority" of women dating toxic and abusive men and somehow use that as a weapon to show how unfair life is for men. Yuck.	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/04/22 11:01 PM
-2	What do you think is average body count of a "top 20% man" is? It's hard for me to imagine being with a man with a body count that high. A doctor once told me that the more vaginas a man enters, the more it squeezes and shrinks your penis. So I am trying to find a man with much fewer partners than that. Ew.	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/04/22 05:35 AM
1	Men have almost zero opportunity to meet women unless it is organic or through mutual friends, coworkers or in the short window of time they are in college if they go. You can be the hottest guy in the room, but rarely is it fruitful if you approach. This shows men have it far worse than women. I honestly can't wrap my head around the logic here: The number of men that women can meet is different than the number of women that men can meet. That doesn't compute.	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/04/22 05:29 AM
2	Why don't women have fetishes at the rate of men? Sex can be an emotional experience but it doesn't replace orgasms. It's not "sexy" to be close to someone. If I was expecting to finish (which is pretty much every single time) but it didn't happen, I wouldn't be placated by just knowing we had been intimate.	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/01/22 11:49 AM
1	Why don't women have fetishes at the rate of men? I don't know what you're on about. I have a lot of fetishes. Most girls I know have quite a few.	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/01/22 11:45 AM
–	Those Who Complain About OnlyFan/Instathots... What Would You Actually Like Them To Do Instead? There's quite a collective (whom I've interacted with first-hand) who honestly seem to just /hate the idea of a woman having the privilege of being sexual on her own terms/. I've never seen a good argument against it. It all points back to purity culture. Society hates a woman using her own resources her own way, and hates women being in control of their sexuality. When they see these two elements intersect, they will stumble over themselves faster than a fat kid after the last piece of cake in …	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/01/22 09:30 AM
1	Is it really bad if, after a woman asks me what my height is, I ask her what her weight is? I basically said that in my first comment; a man's height can't change but a woman's weight can. I don't see how it's "hypocritical nonsense" though. Having specific traits that you find attractive seems even across the board. It's not wrong for either gender to be particular about what they want in a partner. Personally, tall guys kinda freak me out. I find short men far more attractive. It's just personal preference.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/01/22 09:01 AM
1	Is it really bad if, after a woman asks me what my height is, I ask her what her weight is? Dress size is not ideal either. It is based very proportionally. A tall woman who is average weight would wear a larger size than a short woman. A woman with large breasts will wear a much larger dress size even if she is fairly thin. Dress size is probably worse than weight alone. I also loathe BMI because muscular builds and short athletic builds get screwed 90% of the time. I guess if you want a twiggy gal it would work. Personally I would just ask a girl to describe her body type. She's not …	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/01/22 07:01 AM
1	Is it really bad if, after a woman asks me what my height is, I ask her what her weight is? The height thing is incredibly weird in my opinion. But let's play devil's advocate: When asking a man's height, he can't reasonably change it either way. A woman's weight, on the other hand, can and probably will change. So are they really the same? The number given when asking a woman's weight is arbitrary. Different women hold their weight very differently. You aren't necessarily going to properly gauge her fitness based in this number alone. From my experience, most men have no idea how to i…	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/01/22 09:40 PM
4	Dating for Women is like being an employer; for Men it is like being a job-seeker. And just like you would rather be the employer; you much rather be a Woman I love the trope of "women can pick any man they want." Perhaps I am an outlier, but I certainly didn't have the option of picking any man. I had only ONE boyfriend, EVER, before I started dating my husband. And even that boyfriend was a typical middle-school relationship. There are plenty of women out there who struggle with the opposite sex the same as a small percentage of men do. Of course, in hindsight, I was a pansexual in denial so maybe if I would have been open to more options I would h…	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/01/22 09:29 PM
2	It is NOT INSECURITY to want to be the best sex your partner has ever had. Period. Well, to begin with, just because it is the most intimate act to share with your partner does not mean it isn't insecurity that you feel to be the "best." As far as the scenario that a wife actually tells her husband that he is not the best - that just kind of sucks. I would feel bad too in his position. The biology of sex comes down to those feel good hormones, and over time, those hormones should essentially blind you to mundane comparisons between sex with different partner. That is, unless y…	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/01/22 09:23 PM
1	What do women truly want? And please gentlemen refrain from the disrespect. I’m literally trying to save us lol It's funny that you mention good sex because I've seen many RPers who mention that oral is a Beta move. Personally it's my favorite and I'd rather have a partner talented in that aspect than penetrative intercourse if I had to choose one.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/01/22 08:28 PM
2	What do women truly want? And please gentlemen refrain from the disrespect. I’m literally trying to save us lol I always just wanted a strong man who could make me feel emotionally safe and be fun to be around. I didn't have crazy high standards for physical appearance, just that he actually try to keep good hygiene. I didn't think it was an impossible standard.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/01/22 04:24 AM
1	Women are blatant Homophobes and Racists but will pass it off as a Male Trait Welcome to the internet: all people are garbage, regardless of gender. And that's something you know now.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/01/22 04:20 AM
2	What standards are TOO high? There is no such thing as standards being "too high." Your preferences dictate your outcome. If your standards are so high that no one really meets them, you get to be alone. It's natural consequences for a choice you have freedom over.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/01/22 04:14 AM