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wtf is even innocence? It is and was an illusion.... a psychological setup that leads to heartache. We're all just people and to be looking for Pollyanna silliness is looking for a betrayal that you set up yourself. Don't put that on women. It makes you sound bitter to say there are no innocent girls nowadays. There never were, there were just women scared to be honest with the men they were with. There were just women trying to survive in a world where men could beat or rape their wife without …
/r/seduction03/12/25 03:14 PM
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This is it right here. Focus on your montage, the montage of you becoming the superhero you. Best shape of your life, sharpest intellect, most focused mind, a certain path you can see for yourself. Then meet a normal assed woman to share time with, become friends. Genuinely connect mentally and emotionally, then eventually physically and spiritually. The actual ACT of sex is the tiniest part of good love making. Love making should have been going on for days, weeks, or even months before you get…
/r/seduction19/01/25 12:59 AM
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Life likes men who create value. Men who live their life with commitment to their cause or meaning. With integrity to each moment, to live up to their own (hopefully self examined) standards of behavior and performance. Men with enough self reflection to have some level of humility such that it allows them to continually be open to learning and taking advice. Men who decide what they want to do or who they want to be, and sacrifice everything to make that happen to their highest potential and le…
/r/seduction09/07/22 11:54 PM
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I'm not sure, but I think hetero women like men, hetero or bi men would seem to be a preference as well. So, if a decently healthy (physically, mentally, spiritually) man does what men do (notice/enjoy female sexuality), and is still able to maintain his air of civility (ie... don't leer, etc..), then I believe it's an exciting part of the courtship ritual and something that most people (females) can appreciate. But, we're all so socially deprived, emotionally ignorant, and porn-brain-addled tha…
/r/seduction07/06/20 06:58 PM
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It's a micro vs macro scale issue. The tribal micro defend the indefensible and unethical macro. The warrior creed and lessons of being a man are personal and micro. Many are ascribing, correctly, to this. It's good for men to learn the lessons of being willing and able to fight to the death(among other life lessons the military teaches)...it's a real part of survival in this meatsuit. But, part of that ethos is to pledge yourself to something bigger so that you can "transcend" your personal ide…
/r/TheRedPill28/12/16 09:39 AM
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Sorry bro. Just teasing. It's not that bad. I'd rather drink the ginger ale personally, but yea.. if the peer pressure is bothersome, then it is a fine substitute.
/r/seduction18/10/16 12:26 PM
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"de-acoholized beer"--- eww....
/r/seduction18/10/16 08:28 AM
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can confirm. The worst part is they'll expect you to partake of their copious drinking shenanigans.... Problem can be dealt with, but it is an issue.
/r/seduction17/10/16 04:19 PM
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I'm pretty sure BlackDragon has some online dating specific ebooks. Not sure about FB, Twit, IG, etc... Mostly because other than as marketing tools for your business, most RP men aren't going to be connecting a huge amount over social media, there are irl issues to deal with and warm women near by to be playing with. So, what exactly is the benefit of manicuring a huge social media presence? If you're one of those very high SES folks already and your life is basically super cars, beaches, and b…
/r/RedPillBooks12/09/16 01:27 PM
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There's an element of SES and connections that this person is either not recognizing or not sharing. Guaranteed.
/r/TheRedPill12/09/16 10:21 AM
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yup. girls I date now....well, friends I make now, look at pics of me when I had full head of hair and unanimously state the bald look fits me better. A big part of that is actually "I fit me better". I have grown up and I make no apologies for my bald head, my hairy body, or my short dick. Screw the world. I'm doing what I can and am proud of what I do. THAT's what they really are experiencing.... hair is just hair.
/r/TheRedPill10/09/16 04:36 PM
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yup. girls I date now....well, friends I make now, look at pics of me when I had full head of hair and unanimously state the bald look fits me better. A big part of that is actually "I fit me better". I have grown up and I make no apologies for my bald head, my hairy body, or my short dick. Screw the world. I'm doing what I can and am proud of what I do. THAT's what they really are experiencing.... hair is just hair.
/r/TheRedPill10/09/16 04:36 PM
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The most appreciated by actual adult men who can actually comprehend the big picture. There are still a lot of boys(and still broken/angry divorced men) here that do think the silliness and the bitterness is what it's about. Just gotta sift through that mess and see the kernels of adulthood that are sprinkled around. As we heal/grow, we feel the actual effects of TRP, which is primarily leading a better life. Takes time.
/r/TheRedPill10/09/16 04:33 PM
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It's the energy part that eats me up. The older I've gotten the more I have to feign interest in somewhere upwards of 85% of the people I talk to... if not more. It just becomes a negative expenditure of energy, yet if you don't do it, you never meet the extremely small % of humans (specifically girls in this instance) that are genuinely interesting and enjoyable to share time with.
/r/seduction14/07/16 07:41 AM
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First rule of dating... be attractive
/r/seduction14/07/16 07:38 AM
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With the prevalence of TRT in some cities and the increasing amount of our population utilizing such therapy... I bet you can expect legit Dr run cycling being done across the US in the next twenty years. I happen to have a friend who's on TRT. His Dr found out that my friend had acquired black market Test/ Dbol and offered to put him on a bulking cycle with proper blood work at proper intervals to make sure he didn't hurt himself. It wasn't as wild as far as dosages as my friend had self prescr…
/r/TheRedPill25/01/16 09:27 AM
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I'm saying that it takes both types of behaviors in order for the prehistoric man to survive. Sometimes the old man of the tribe gets to make the decisions and the toughest warrior just sits back down and goes along with the old man's dictum's. Also that the individual circumstances of a persons birth could have greatly affected how "alpha" they turned out. Not disagreeing that there are people due to maternal diet, genetic bloodlines, and simple variance in personal biology who are simply more …
/r/TheRedPill18/09/15 04:19 PM
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I have a friend that does that down in the Caribbean... does RPR mean anything to you?
/r/TheRedPill18/09/15 12:40 PM
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Always make time for mass.... praise be the iron. amen.
/r/TheRedPill18/09/15 12:39 PM
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Call me optimist, but I believe every man is somewhere deep inside an alpha. Socialization which is influenced by all sorts of things like culture, resources, and specific life circumstances typically suppress the urge to be alpha. As herding primates, 99% have a beta somewhere inside, just as they all have alpha inside that if given the right circumstances, would exhibit itself. We are much more fluid than our socialization allows us to believe we are. Once in the herd, you find the level of as…
/r/TheRedPill18/09/15 12:20 PM
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I know right??? Ever talk to guys that are that way naturally? They don't typically think a whole lot of folks (like me) who spend alot of time on the internet studying on how to be, what to them is just the natural state of a male. I also think this is what women are referring to when they say stupid stuff like "just be yourself"... I think the truth is that they believe (subconsciously, but correctly imo) that "yourself" is the you that is working at optimum performance, the man you are meant …
/r/TheRedPill18/09/15 10:18 AM
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"what matters most to a woman is her body"---- does anything matter to a woman? really? What matters most about a woman to a man, is her body. Thus, she takes her cues on what matters from the man who values her, or not. Right?
/r/TheRedPill18/09/15 07:23 AM
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yea, being a black guy, who's SMV would have started with a "handicap", he (and alot of others) had to really figure out the "rest of the story". It's part of the reason (imho) so many guys from the street have so much game, they can't just depend on their pedigree/ inheritance keeping the girl around. Plus, (in my white guy opinion) the black community has an issue with monogamy as a whole. Part of that can be attributed to the men being kept in roles that were not feasible to raise a family on…
/r/TheRedPill18/09/15 06:56 AM
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My ex subconsciously did this exact thing during our marriage, with my complete complicity, of course. Looking back at the constant barrage of messages to be more "domestic" and give more and generally be more controllable (ie church, priority of social climbing, academic research brought home from uni, etc)..... I have no idea how I lasted as long as I did. But, know that if you guide another sovereign human into being something incongruous with what they want to be, it will backfire and they w…
/r/TheRedPill16/09/15 08:05 AM
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Agreed, though I think that our system still makes adults out of our boys quicker than it does our girls. The prejudice of our divorce courts towards men is one example of that. Both parties were very likely immature and childish during the marriage, yet he gets stuck with the bill. Being chained financially for something you only had partial responsibility for, will mature you. Also, I like that you point out that we are half of a whole. Women are great. I love'em. But, the system and the ideol…
/r/TheRedPill14/09/15 12:23 PM
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" Pregnancy and labor are very difficult, fraught with risk,"... Alot less risk nowadays... and personally, I believe that alot of the immature behavior we put up with "women" nowadays is due to this. They know that the mortality rate is very low in modern hospitals. 100yrs ago? It was very very high and every girl 13 or above had to start thinking about the very real chance that she was going to be playing russian roulette with her uterus every 2 yrs for the rest of her life... it would mature …
/r/TheRedPill14/09/15 11:20 AM
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In my entrepreneurial studies, simply knowing that you are bringing value to your customers is generally considered a vital source of motivation for successful business owners. Not that they run their business to just see people happy, but that they understand that they are improving some aspect of their customers lives and in turn reap profits. This has made my several attempts at starting a business much more palatable to my blue collar roots. Somewhere deep inside my psyche, in my working cla…
/r/TheRedPill12/09/15 10:31 AM
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yea, I totally agree. It wasn't a big deal to me, as in, the mistress wasn't really a big deal. She was fun, I really liked her, but I wouldn't have walked away from my investment into the preferred baby mamma I had groomed (supported and basically raised) for over a decade. (I know now the faults of that plan btw)... however, the feminist trope that women are sold on today though... that tells them it's the same... and they have the legal backing to enforce punitive actions for such infractions…
/r/TheRedPill11/09/15 02:40 PM
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"I am a bad person."-- not a particularly helpful frame or judgement to carry about oneself....imo. I also cheated... five months overseas for a job, working 84+ hours a week, in Singapore, assigned to working with a cute little, big tittied, Irish engineer who liked to drink and knew how to have a good time on a night out... I'm not a bad person, I just really like women... it's part of me that I've come to accept...I'm simply a primate and that's ok. (Not that it makes breaking my word ok, not…
/r/TheRedPill11/09/15 12:20 PM
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I literally envision Mars working out with/ through me sometimes. I see within my recent conversion to weak assed "gym rat", the closest to a religion as I've ever genuinely had. The God of Iron and Fire is fair and merciless. There is no cheat. You do or no do. Simple. You can't fake picking the bar up. You can't fake the results of the offering of blood that's dripped from my palms (yes, I started via Crossfit, sue me).. I've bled and sweated and even had moments of such inner fight against th…
/r/TheRedPill16/06/15 03:43 PM
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Agreed. I work with alot of Brits who played football (soccer) for most of their lives and never lifted anything heavier than a pint of Guinness. The calf development on average is actually really impressive. The rest of their body is a pasty, gelatinous mass, but their calves are great.
/r/TheRedPill16/06/15 03:16 PM
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I'm no seduction expert or anything like that, but I actually outgrew some of the silly advice and "alpha" bs that gets spouted in here a while back.. seldom do I open any threads anymore. Not sure if that's just old age and "maturity" or if the "game" has just gotten that much more silly to me. Just be genuine and have fun, in whatever you do. You don't need anyone else nor do you need sex from anyone in order to be happy, content, and actualized in life. Be happy.
/r/seduction11/06/15 05:02 PM
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I'd like to see this study. Do you perhaps have a link?
/r/TheRedPill24/10/14 10:53 AM
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Yea, I went and read his "about me" section.. I didn't take it as he finished all those degrees.. just that he attended those programs. But he certainly is much more intelligent than my first impression from watching his video. From simply his meat head, Jersey shore-esque speaking style, I didn't give him much credit...my loss.
/r/TheRedPill16/10/14 08:32 AM
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for real? That guys a lawyer? ah-mA-Zing... gives me hope if it's true though..
/r/TheRedPill15/10/14 11:00 AM
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maybe not clarinet, but what about jazz flute
/r/TheRedPill11/10/14 05:32 PM
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I don't know about that... but an embraced redpill lifestyle does require looking beyond your own national/ cultural boundaries. No matter where you are from.
/r/TheRedPill02/09/14 09:14 AM
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thank you. 39 and just getting around to being serious about meeting new women after my divorce 2.5 yrs ago... not optimistic.
/r/seduction31/08/14 11:34 AM
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I'm partially in agreement with you...or I just don't really care. I intend to collapse into bed exhausted from a properly fucked day. BUUTTT... I believe this is mostly about what women want to get naked in and stay in. As far as I've seen, they want soft. Soft, smooth sheets and soft mattrress/ bed... that's just my experience though... Might be my reference point.
/r/seduction29/08/14 06:56 AM
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Thanks. 39 here. 2.5 yrs out of a divorce and I'm serious about "getting back out there"...finally. Figure most women on the dating/ bar scene are going to be younger. That and I'm pretty sure I'm going to want children, need a younger woman to do that.....well, if you want the kids safe and healthy you do. Figure I'm about to move to Vegas just because of the number of tourists I can practice this stuff on, to get a bit of practice in/ break the anxiety. Cure for Oneitis is a copious dose of bo…
/r/TheRedPill19/08/14 08:45 AM
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so op got negged, right?
/r/seduction29/06/14 07:16 AM
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This is what I first thought.. there's some emotional gunk going on. She's having sex because social pressure or revenge or whatever... something in her just wasn't in a place to have sex with a guy she barely knew. There's a place, time, and phase of life where that is acceptable and enjoyable. But, a) not for everyone and b) sometimes people grow out of it.... not to say it doesn't happen when people get older, of course it does, just not as often.
/r/seduction28/06/14 01:17 PM
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Awesome. I'm off the coast of Africa right now and can't watch videos because our internet is really crap. So, your summary is immensely helpful and I (again) appreciate you pointing this out...it helps my decision process. I found nice apartments in the MGM Grand for ~$1500/ mnth, which is less that I'm looking at for an equivalent in SD. So, taxes are better, rent will be better, nightlife is better.. sounds like I should start packing.
/r/seduction17/05/14 03:12 PM
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ex wife is there. history is there. you're absolutely correct though. SD is awesome, I love it there. My condo, that she left me living in, is out in the suburbs though and it's very difficult to be single, 39, balding, and a oil field technician (instead of a Marine Corp pilot or research scientist like so many in SD)....this "getting back out there" has been incredibly difficult and not helped by those contributing factors. I'm thinking at least a temporary relocation to Vegas, with it's const…
/r/seduction17/05/14 08:55 AM
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agreed. just last week I was looking at the benefits of relocating from San Diego to Vegas. The tax reasons are a major benefit in my eyes. The way I work, it would be no problem and very "tax efficient". Obviously there are other benefits as well..... and thanks for the synopsis of the video, I've saved it for watching later when I can.
/r/seduction17/05/14 07:08 AM
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and what are the odd's of anyone actually prosecuting or even shaming her for it? It's taboo and taboo's are generally in some way hot, but it's not so taboo that she could get in much trouble. and agreed for the young man... he's obviously doing something right.. but I don't know that she was mesmerized by his incredible skill as much as rewarding him for being funny enough to actually attack much larger prey. Him being symmetrical, clean cut, and obviously practicing his courtship ritual didn'…
/r/seduction03/05/14 05:11 PM
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well.. imagine 16yr old girl "games" or attempts to initiate sexual contact with 31 yr old man... "oh no! girls that age are incapable of doing that! She was obviously manipulated and he was subversively making it appear that she was initiating things." Even still, it wouldn't matter as a male that "partook" in such a dalliance would be expected to "be above it" and realize the power differential and why it's "wrong"....
/r/seduction03/05/14 04:01 PM
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Regardless of whether it's bad science and cultish behavior, jerking off is still a waste of time. Shouldn't you be busy building your life instead of playing with yourself? Maybe doing something productive like meditating, reading, exercising, or connecting genuinely with a real human? It's immature and used as a salve to numb the perceived lacking of the modern human experience. If the guy has found a method that is working for him and is creating more structure, strength, and positive outcome…
/r/seduction03/05/14 09:57 AM
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for science...
/r/seduction07/01/14 06:39 AM
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Good on ya getting back "out there" after your divorce. I'm slowly warming up to dating after my divorce....it's not a comfortable process. My guess as far as the question is concerned is, until you start getting funny looks or pervs staring... wherever THAT level is, just shy of that. Good luck
/r/seduction25/11/13 03:05 AM
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...your hands aren't really that empty now are they???
/r/seduction06/10/13 08:22 AM
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sarcasm and banter... you're supposed to improv and be able to roll with a little shit talking. This isn't a computer where you say certain magic lines in a certain order and your rewarded with a BJ.. young men are dense and there are thousands of us chasing the same few girls... are you in the moment enough to actually be good in bed?? prove it verbally and maybe she'll give you a chance to prove it in other ways later. rote imitation makes for boring conversation.
/r/seduction21/04/13 06:50 AM
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