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For too long I sought validation from the wrong sources. This kind of seems like the whole point of the post. I understand the desire to share, but these type of posts always seem come off as validation seeking bragging to me. If it is, you're still looking for validation in the wrong place. That said, glad to see the results beginning to show in your life. Keep up the momentum.
/r/TheRedPill24/09/18 03:01 AM
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I believe the point is that TRP says to accept responsibility for who you are so that you can make the necessary changes. BP'ers dont see the obvious problems because they blame others for their lack of effectiveness and results. Without taking responsibility, they will never be able to improve. So they accept themselves while putting the burden of their problems outside of themselves. It is a disempowered approach to life. If the fault is not theirs, they have no ability to change anything and …
/r/TheRedPill23/09/18 04:08 AM
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Perhaps you should avoid sounding so angry then. Why would an angry teenager take your word when you seem just as angry? If you want to solve their problems, you can't approach it sounding so. defensive. From this end of the post it looks like you are and angry teenager with a problem. And you basically blamed women of every race except the black girls, so I'll leave you to calculate the percentage of women that you are placing the blame on. Really, the message read as 'don't blame the women for…
/r/TheRedPill07/09/18 12:48 AM
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OP comes off as an angry, racebaiting BP. His responses to the comments are even further diminishing to the original post.
/r/TheRedPill06/09/18 10:28 PM
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The approach that seems to work best for me is asking them what is their intended outcome. If you choose A then you can expect B to be the outcome. If you choose C then you can reasonably expect D to happen. Then tell them to make a choice. The real value is when they make a choice and end up with the predicted results. And they have also learned that they have choices and should use them wisely instead of running blindly into situations hoping for an unrealistic outcome. Instead of giving advic…
/r/TheRedPill06/09/18 10:00 PM
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Would that be a psychopath that kills, or a killer of psychopaths?
/r/TheRedPill31/08/18 11:43 PM
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Wouldn't it be ironic if she would actually be raped while in jail. Who would believe her?
/r/TheRedPill25/08/18 01:04 AM
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And a scumbag like you deserves exactly that, because you will be too disgusting to look at for real value women. Because they will know the insecurity that drives you to use women to get sex with other women instead of relying on your own manliness. It seems feminist are out playing shame game today. All that sounds good until she bites you in the ass of your own beliefs.
/r/TheRedPill16/08/18 05:58 PM
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The other side of that coin is the social butterfly with all of the social skills because they require them to fulfill their codependent neediness for the validation of others. The problems come in when one side of the coin, that has no idea what the reality of other side is like, tries to proclaim complete understanding and judgement based on an external view of an experience that they don't have any actual knowledge of nor the ability to understand.
/r/TheRedPill13/08/18 05:50 PM
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I'm 100% on board with helping others in times of need. We all go through hard times and we all need support and we should all be there to support others when necessary. It is out duty as men and leaders. But to approach this like he was some kind of hero is an injustice to those who stay with the struggle until they succeed. And it is a lie. Richard did not die a free man. He was completely bound to the effects of his conditions and apparently saw no way out. Now that is truly the sad part. His…
/r/TheRedPill13/08/18 02:25 PM
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Do what you do by all means, but if you're preaching against plate spinning, you're losing the abundance mentality which is vital to Red Pill theory I understand that this is a sexual stategy sub, but all the rest of the discussion aside, isn't this a mindset a limitation? It has been said here many times that the RP is so much more than sexual strategy. It's an approach to life. So if spinning plates is a requirement of being RP, it becomes a neediness, which is never based on abundance mentali…
/r/TheRedPill12/08/18 05:14 PM
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Sure, because denomination B is all about "love, forgiveness, tolerance," etc. So they are not living like Jesus commanded and neither is she. She's most likely lost, not born again. Where did Jesus teach against these things? Your comment about someone you never met seems pretty judgemental and arrogant. Where did he preach these qualities. Even if you are correct about her, I find the approach is flawed.
/r/RPChristians12/08/18 02:44 PM
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Please explain unchurched. Not sure I'm understand your use of the word.
/r/RPChristians12/08/18 06:47 AM
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The bigger issue IMO, is that we all see the bible through two lenses. Our current state of consciousness (ie. how we currently see and interpret the world) and the interpretation of the church we attend. That leaves understanding up to our previous experience and the collective narrative of the pastoral stream preceding us. And we have to resolve the differences. The problems enter when our experiences are not easily married to the teaching we hear, especially when they move us to deny anything…
/r/RPChristians10/08/18 08:43 AM
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You do you man. Let Mo do Mo, until he is Mo Betta or Betta Know Mo. When you put yourself in the judges seat, you take your mind off of your own game. Dont do that. We all have to learn our own lessons and you can't learn for Mo. He is right where he needs to be for his own current lesson. This is where he will either learn it or fail and have to go thru it again the next time around. What should you be focusing on for your own improvement right now?
/r/TheRedPill09/08/18 03:37 AM
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we are free FROM bondage to sin Please clarify.
/r/RPChristians09/08/18 01:40 AM
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Are you absolutely sure you're born again? Sadly, I cringe every time I hear that question. So many Christians walking around claiming to be born again and saved, but acting like they have a license to do anything now that they are safe from eternal destruction. I wish more people would actually take it more seriously. Sorry if that was a random rant. I am not implying that was the context of your post so much as a general response that I get. So please pardon me if it came off that way.
/r/RPChristians09/08/18 12:42 AM
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Lol! So Tinder is fucking men who are hoping to be able to fuck women. Hard to believe men actually pay for this shit.
/r/TheRedPill08/08/18 10:15 PM
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You people need to stop this, previously you came up with some mystical brain fog from masturbating and now you're trying to persuade people to cut back on sex as well Research the science behind it. Orgasm causes a drop in dopamine and a rise in prolactin. Dopamine is the primary prolactin inhibiting factor. Look up the effects of increased prolactin in men. High levels lead to ED, premature ejaculation, lowered testosterone and depression. It affects the function of the testes and can lower se…
/r/TheRedPill08/08/18 04:27 AM
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So you would rather do all the work and she give nothing? Good luck captain save-a-hoe I never said that. That's your words, not mine. Think before you respond with such nonsense.
/r/TheRedPill05/08/18 09:49 PM
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If you knew red pill youd know there is no quality women, some are just better than others Isn't that basically the same as higher and lower quality women.
/r/TheRedPill05/08/18 09:48 PM
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That sounds like a great way to pull in the low quality and desperate women. High quality men usually prefer higher quality women, even as a plate. A higher quality woman will realize that she gets nothing from the interactions and will ghost. She'll be right when she tells everyone that she gave you everything and got nothing in return. IMO, that's PUA shit, not RedPill.
/r/TheRedPill05/08/18 08:24 PM
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You can be there for her emotionally, but no, you shouldn't talk hour after hour with her about her emotions. Just be there and show understanding, but don't try to actively help. Let her live the emotion. There is value in understanding a woman's emotions and how they cycle. Just letting her wallow in negative emotions can be unproductive. Why not let her simmer for a little while and then lead her to a more positive emotional state. Learning how to elicit positive emotions in others is a power…
/r/TheRedPill05/08/18 08:07 PM
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How is it that you didn't dump her first? With all of those red flags, I'd think a redpiller would drop so fast she wouldn't know what happened.
/r/TheRedPill05/08/18 07:40 PM
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"For whoever has, to him more shall be given, and he will have an abundance; but whoever does not have, even what he has shall be taken away from him." If you remove all religious context, it still applies and you can see that happening in the world all around you if you choose to look and see. Always be moving yourself to the "he who has" side if the equation.
/r/TheRedPill03/08/18 02:54 PM
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The difference between counter argument and correlation seems to get confused by those looking for an argument. I don't advocate marriage, whether by arrangement or agreement. Bring your arguments to the blue pill sub.
/r/TheRedPill03/08/18 01:35 PM
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What specifically did I write, or even imply, that lead you to that inference. It was a direct statement, the inference is yours. And the correct terminology is indentured servitude. That doesn't make divorce rape any more acceptable as a societal norm either.
/r/TheRedPill03/08/18 08:10 AM
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...indentured slavery... That would be the poor sap going thru the divorce after the hypergamy process fires off. It was love at first sight, until biology took over. Now it's half the property and a regular paycheck.
/r/TheRedPill03/08/18 01:20 AM
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Reading that seems like a peek into the blue pill version of Bizarro World. He is an emotional mess and she seems like she has the balls that should belong to him. I seriously thought the actors were the other way around until I got to the bottom and saw the names listed.
/r/TheRedPill01/08/18 11:56 PM
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Why do you need every girl you meet to be attracted to you? The fact is that no matter who you are or your frame, not all girls will be attracted to you. And that's ok. It's a numbers game. Don't be needy about validation. It's unattractive.
/r/TheRedPill01/08/18 03:59 AM
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How do you take this seriously. A Christian woman talking about the cock carousel. That's funny shit.
/r/TheRedPill27/07/18 12:41 AM
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just start doing things 'for yourself', instead of doing things to "get something out of it". That's a contradiction This doesn't mean you can't have goals, or desire the admiration of others, but you should absolutely desire and fully embrace every step that it takes to get there; Another contradiction. All action is outcome dependent. Everything we do, we do because we "get something out of it". If everything we do, we do just for ourselves and focus on our purpose, yet we don't act to move up…
/r/TheRedPill25/07/18 12:39 AM
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A better plan is to ditch that job for one that you love so much that it doesn't seem like work. The one that allows you to get up in the morning thinking, "Wow! Look what I get to do today!" The one that doesn't seem like work, it's just what you do. The one that allows you freedom and independence to make your own schedule.
/r/seduction18/07/18 09:05 PM
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In the beginning, it is also hard for many people to talk to women. So practice relaxing on yourself first. Dont be afraid to be over-the-top with this at first. Have fun with it and allow yourself to not take yourself so seriously. Fun is what women want too experience anyway. The mirror is for beginning because it give visual feedback. It actually isn't necessary, just a good exercise. Practice on your family and friends, or random people you meet. Don't tell them you are practicing, just try …
/r/seduction15/07/18 07:32 PM
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Practice emotions. Make a list of emotions and work down the list. Look in the mirror and try to really feel the emotion. Make the facial expression. That alone can help. Stand like you would stand if you felt that way. Speak and use the tone and volume that conveys the emotion. Watch how others use emotions. Observe the posture, facial muscles and eye behaviour. How do they move their bodies and gestures? Work on duplicating them. You have really to feel the emotion. Use your body and avoid clo…
/r/seduction15/07/18 05:19 AM
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The real question is why are YOU here?
/r/TheRedPill14/07/18 05:13 PM
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That's their words. When reading a report by a woman on what women find attractive, you can't listen to the words. How many times do you see that here - Don't listen to her words, watch what she does? Read the article and pay attention to the information and the intent behind it, not the words being used. The words tell a story but the message is subversive. And how is putting a woman on a pedestal not being accomodating?
/r/TheRedPill14/07/18 12:14 AM
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And that is the problem with the study. If the woman overlooks obviously flawed behaviour so that she can maintain her pedestal, it is already an unhealthy relationship. She will eventually lose respect for the man who is basically supplicating himself to her. Usually, the beta male does this in hopes that she will reward him with sex (a equally flawed and unhealthy relationship trait). And yet nothing dries the vagina faster than the lack of respect that she now feels. And so she looks to the a…
/r/TheRedPill13/07/18 02:34 PM
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That what I read. As long as the benevolent sexist puts her on a pedestal and caters to her, she can overlook the obvious patronizing and undermining behaviour.
/r/TheRedPill13/07/18 03:30 AM
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It is perfectly fine to have different opinions. This is easy to handle without sacrificing your own or having to be the silent partner. Always add information to the conversation instead of criticism. You can always say something like "He really like restaurant A (and) I really like restaurant B, because..." . Always use "and", never use "but" in that context so that it is presented as additional information instead of contradictory or conflicting commentary. A true RP man will have no problem …
/r/RedPillWomen12/07/18 03:07 PM
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All that is true and the big differences that need to be mentioned is that it is possible to learn a different approach. When one is moving toward what he wants, his motivation is consistent. When one is moving away from what he doesn't want, he tend to lose motivation once he is far enough away to not feel the sting of what he is fleeing from. Without the initial level of motivation, one risks settling and backsliding until the pain returns. If you are an away-from individual, the key is to use…
/r/TheRedPill12/07/18 12:27 AM
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Quite possible that he was working those hours to avoid his wife. I took that route for a very long time. Made plenty money, lost plenty time with the kids. Intolerable woman, she did everything to push my beta ass away while continuing to let me fund her life. I don't know why I put up with it for so long. Then I realized that she was covering her tracks when she started talking about having "so many emotions going on in her head" and the sex suddenly got very abundant after years spent in the …
/r/TheRedPill10/07/18 06:22 AM
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