Bconz56 Archive

Upvotes	Title	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
45	A billion isn't enough. Ex-wife of U.S. oil baron to appeal $1 billion divorce award	Bconz56	/r/MensRights	13/11/14 10:22 PM
2	On the precipice of the end of a divorce, the game has changed significantly need advice	Bconz56	/r/seduction	23/02/17 03:28 PM
0	MOM NO!!!	Bconz56	/r/seduction	12/12/18 05:58 PM

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
11	Anyone ever feel like there is a bias against fathers when meeting with teachers/ judges etc? Schedule your own parent teacher conference alone. Your perfectly within your rights to do so. My ex monopolized the conversation making me feel similar. Now I go alone and I’m able to express what we do alone at my house for school and what I experience with my kids education. It’s great.	/r/Divorce_Men	12/03/20 10:20 AM
1	Brother's divorce He’ll be fine in time. Meditation helps. Your or him PM’m me for anything.	/r/Divorce_Men	03/03/19 03:18 PM
5	Brother's divorce This is literally the worst advice I’ve ever seen here. I’m sure your going through some shit right now, so if you need support just ask man. Tell us what’s going on.	/r/Divorce_Men	02/02/19 12:33 PM
18	Brother's divorce Honestly the easy answer here is always lawyer up and while that's true your situation reminds me of my own (no the cheating or anything). First unless he's actually abusive and its well documented courts don't want to remove a parent from the equation, their mindset is to do whatever is best for the kids. A good lawyer will avail him of these fears and put a temporary custody agreement in ASAP. I would have advised him not to move out of the family home as it sets a bad precedent regarding time…	/r/Divorce_Men	01/02/19 09:44 PM
1	Everyone's situation is unique... "It doesn't get easier, you just get stronger" Louis CK Do yourself a favor and get a therapist, venting here helps but I imagine there's a lot more emotional conflict to work through. Best of luck with the job situation, I find the shut down ridiculous but its the cards you were dealt and you can only control how you play the hand. If you need any support feel free to PM me with any questions. I'm about 2 years out and the guys here were a big help and support so I'm obligated to pay it forward…	/r/Divorce_Men	10/01/19 03:54 PM
1	Arizona Dad - Looking for Advice 1- If you guys are amicable and reasonable then you can do mediation. Things will get contentious its just part of the human condition but if you can both cool of and really think about whats best you should be ok. If things get too contentious or you feel like your being treated unfairly get your own advocate/lawyer. Shelling out the money now is better than shelling out the money over the next 10 years as your kids reach 18. 2- standard 50/50 can have numerous splits but the most common is 5-2…	/r/Divorce_Men	27/12/18 08:13 PM
3	Not sure if ex-MIL won't let go or is just trying to be spiteful. Just block everyone on social media, watch how quick you mood improves when you don't have to deal with that childlessness anymore.	/r/Divorce_Men	26/12/18 05:37 PM
1	Does it get easier? People who don’t know what they’re talking about say ‘move on’, they’re trying to help but it’s useless advice. You’ll move on when you’re ready it’s a process not a decision.	/r/Divorce_Men	19/11/18 10:37 PM
1	Does it get easier? I think it was Louie CK who said "it doesn't get easier, you just get stronger", that stuck with me when I was at my worst. You deserve better, there are plenty of women out there looking for devoted men like you. If your not ready to move on, and don't let anyone tell you when you should, focus on yourself. Get involved, find new hobbies, hit the gym, update your wardrobe, get in therapy. Don't listen to advice of "you need to move on, stop thinking about her or what she thinks" these are all n…	/r/Divorce_Men	19/11/18 10:13 PM
2	Spousal Maintenance Advice I'm not a lawyer and I don't know what your state you're in but in PA my lawyer told me alimony didn't come into play until about 10 years of marriage. You'll obviously paying the vast majority of child support (80% based on above), but you should have some leverage regarding alimony; based on how much, how long or even at all if you're required. You can always negotiate away alimony in other ways, such as taking on a larger portion of the debt etc. Obviously speak to a lawyer.	/r/Divorce_Men	30/08/18 04:58 PM
1	The rock? You have any of those websites available?	/r/Divorce_Men	24/04/18 01:20 PM
1	7 places to meet women that aren't bars and clubs Volunteering events Any suggestions for the best ones?	/r/seduction	23/02/18 10:18 PM
1	Child Support in Washington State If she is the primary custodian and your income disparity is 62/38 then you will pay her 62% of what the state decides is needed monthly for the kids. For example if you have 2 kids and its 2k a month then you'd pay $1,240 a month. This is similar to what I'm paying but both my kids are in daycare which is really a large chunk of this (daycare for both is about $1,000 a month). If it wasn't for daycare I'd be paying closer to 800 a month. I know it doesn't seem fair when you have them 50% of the…	/r/Divorce_Men	14/02/18 03:41 PM
1	Child Support in Washington State Depends on who the primary custodian is, which most of the time is her. Then you’d pay her 62% of the total amount of child support. In pa there’s a very mathematical way they figure it out based on combined income. I’d assume Washington is similar but I couldn’t know for sure. Washington might have an online calculator where you can get a ballpark.	/r/Divorce_Men	14/02/18 03:06 AM
17	If this advertisement/video was on fb with the roles reversed there would be major backlash. Heyooo!	/r/MensRights	27/10/17 01:33 PM
1	On the precipice of the end of a divorce, the game has changed significantly need advice Chicks dig the double loop maneuver.	/r/seduction	23/02/17 07:33 PM
1	On the precipice of the end of a divorce, the game has changed significantly need advice another that insisted, repeatedly, that I take her to Busch Gardens. To be honest though, it's easy to fall in love riding the Loch Ness monster. I can't wait to take my kids when they're older because that mistress's siren has been calling me for years now.	/r/seduction	23/02/17 07:08 PM
1	On the precipice of the end of a divorce, the game has changed significantly need advice Question, did you mention your kids (maybe even that your divorced) right up front in those bios or wait until it came up naturally in conversation? I have no idea how to build a bio and was curious. Tolle really helped me, as someone who had problems with trying to figure out and solve everything out at once, which was making me crazy. "Watching the watcher" is s big theme and allowing yourself to see what the primitive consciousness (inner monologue) is trying to convince you of...hint...its p…	/r/seduction	23/02/17 07:00 PM
3	On the precipice of the end of a divorce, the game has changed significantly need advice late 30's, 2 kids part time every other week Same position actually. Did you start out by using any apps or anything to meet new people? I feel like not having any available friends to go out with will really put me at a disadvantage. You say 'go out alone' are you referring to bars etc or other activities. You just went out alone and tried to start random conversations? I'm a pretty forward guy, but that seems like it would take some iron balls; not that i wouldn't be willing to try. "The 4 agr…	/r/seduction	23/02/17 06:26 PM
2	On the precipice of the end of a divorce, the game has changed significantly need advice thanks buddy	/r/seduction	23/02/17 03:51 PM
0	Meninist (1.3M followers) just got banned on Twitter pol tard manchildren I'm going to start putting this on my resume.	/r/MensRights	08/02/17 06:40 PM
7	Bill Burr denies the pass during a stand up. Just saw him Friday night in philly. He's fucking hilarious how he cuts down the line, he makes shit uncomfortable and then makes you laugh at the uncomfortableness.	/r/PussyPassDenied	08/11/15 04:14 PM
372	"PLEASE TELL ME..." ...and posting on Facebook.	/r/PussyPassDenied	27/02/15 12:47 AM
9	An angry woman throws drink and then reaps what she sowed. "Well I speak English and I'm conscious, so yes, I know what you are saying."	/r/PussyPassDenied	27/02/15 12:44 AM