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| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 37 | 🤮There’s nothing stopping him from opening his own Onlyfan’s account | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/12/20 03:45 PM |
| 11 | Ladies y’all need to be grateful to go to the SOUP KITCHEN! 🥴😩Loooooolll!!!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/12/20 07:52 PM |
| 10 | This RIDICULOUS New Yorker Cover is SUPPOSED TO BE an accurate reflection of today's modern woman and her love life. The cover is called " Love Life" and the illustrator's name is Adrian Tomine...This illustration says more about the man who drew it and his views on women. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/12/20 03:17 PM |
| 41 | What are your thoughts on this ladies, would you divorce him?What he did was wrong on so many levels. Not to mention the infection risks from exposure to urine from several men. Gross, degrading. What kind of a man would let that happen to his wife. Good on her for divorcing him, it would only get worse. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/11/20 07:02 PM |
| 1 | Do you know of any examples of High Value Men? Do you have any type in mind when doing the work on FDS?Same..brilliant idea :) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/10/20 10:47 AM |
| 5 | are British men actually gentlemen?That’s a thing of the past. It is rife with fuckboys of all ages doing their best to dismantle society. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/10/20 10:35 PM |
| 92 | And there are STILL men AND WOMEN in the comments saying "not all men 🥺🥺🥺". DisgustingScary..I hope she made it out okay. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/10/20 06:16 PM |
| 1 | Don’t even let them get to the punchline of their shitty pickup lines 😂Disagree, look at the wording. You’re making a lot of excuses for him. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/10/20 11:20 PM |
| 2 | Don’t even let them get to the punchline of their shitty pickup lines 😂That is clearly offensive, she has self-respect so she stood up for herself. No one should put up with negging and insults. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/10/20 11:11 PM |
| 22 | My profile mentions I’ve played tennis since I was a toddler.Well done, but sis..no need to explain to him...they just get better at hiding their true nature. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/10/20 04:58 PM |
| 8 | I like him. How do I get him to initiate a date? Or is the ball in my court? I am green texts.This 💯 His replies are so short and meh, doesn’t seem to be trying to have a proper conversation with you. Meanwhile your replies are long and enthusiastic. Match his energy. One shouldn’t have to prompt or hint at a guy for a date, if he’s interested he will ask you. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/10/20 04:55 PM |
| 26 | Is going 50/50 on rent the norm?It’s only the norm for cheap low value men who are broke and/or want to save money. Some of them actually set out to get ‘serious’ girlfriends specifically to help with splitting the bills. And of course the expected free housekeeping duties. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/09/20 05:28 PM |
| 3 | Tomorrow is My BirthdayHappy birthday!! 😊♥️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/09/20 09:35 AM |
| 56 | Thought I found a HVM, then I told him no to hanging out on weekend, explained I’m only comfortable socializing about three times a week to keep my social battery happy...Gosh. Once a week is more than enough. His messages that angrily reprimand you - sound so condescending. Who is he to test you. I think he’s definitely one of those red pill followers. Block | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/09/20 06:42 PM |
| 8 | How do you guys feel about the term "Bitch."I dislike it, & won’t tolerate any guy speaking to me like that. It is degrading. Completely unacceptable in a work environment. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/08/20 08:12 PM |
| 12 | The Real Reason He Should Pay for DatesBeautifully explained. Generosity and kindness are fundamental, a miserly man keeping score will resent giving in every way. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/08/20 05:55 PM |
| 78 | ‘Most of words we use for sex are violent, not just fuck. Think about it…. bang, screw, hit it, pound, smash, rail, plow, pound, like our entire culture has tried to remove the concept of intimacy/vulnerability/emotion from sex by associating violent words with the action.The photo of the page is from a book called ‘The Will To Change’ by Bell Hooks. Haven’t read it, but heard it’s good? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/08/20 04:51 PM |
| 38 | another day, another LVM bullet dodged ✨‘You’ll have to earn that’...😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/08/20 10:51 PM |
| 118 | I don't argue with men. Not over anything, for any reason.“I live the minimalist life - so don't mind me if I don't clutter my home with losers. You might enjoy it too.” This post is 🔥💎 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/08/20 10:33 PM |
| 69 | All The People Who Judge This Sub are FULL OF SHIT💯. I see a lot of anger toward this sub. I’m amazed at how simply having values, high standards, self-respect, & prioritising ones safety as a woman in an unjust world is seen as toxic. FDS shares the truth, one can take it or leave it. At the end of the day- it’s up to each of us to take responsibility for ourselves. We all pay the price for our actions sooner or later, and mistakes can end up taking years to recover from. One has a choice to look on with hope at the world, to see the good, but… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/08/20 09:16 PM |
| 10 | In the absence of your own desire to improve yourself, lie to the allegedly superficial women who want an educated, driven partner. His post, my answer. The comments were a cesspool of twisted validation for him and denigration of her. I had to say something.Love your eloquent response, it’s captures everything perfectly 👌 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/08/20 05:24 PM |
| 24 | This is 80% of men on dating sites now and I'm so.fucking.tired. Even when I specify in my bio that I'm strictly monogamous they'll still try to message me?Haha..yes, the revolting variety | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/08/20 06:02 PM |
| 96 | Fds has my block finger strong. Even asking annoys me.He’s got such a chip on his shoulder, the minute he asked that he disqualified. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/08/20 05:55 PM |
| 95 | This is 80% of men on dating sites now and I'm so.fucking.tired. Even when I specify in my bio that I'm strictly monogamous they'll still try to message me?Yawn. Mind-blowingly all too common. Next | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/08/20 04:57 PM |
| 99 | “Dodged a crazy bullet”If you’re cheap, don’t reach for diamonds 😉 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/08/20 09:34 PM |
| 2 | Scrote gets what he deservesThis 💯 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/08/20 09:16 PM |
| 2 | When a former ghosting LVM you haven't talked to in 6 months finally "checks in" to see how you are doing during the pandemic and you are now on the enlightened FDS Queen journey...Genius 🤣🤣🤣 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/08/20 09:56 PM |
| 40 | Ab so lu te ly worthless. I felt like a generous goddess today so I told him off instead of just blocking him outright as is tradition. You can't polish a turd to make a sparkly diamond, unfortunately.Why bother sis. He will not unlearn bad habits from your message. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/08/20 12:44 PM |
| 106 | LVM PUA tactic: 'Dreadgame'. Make your wife/gf feel so insecure, unvalued and jealous 'so she will start giving bj's and sex, not to lose you'. What a bunch of 🤡 clownery🤪🤣‘Demote your wife to plate’. He really doesn’t see women as human beings, no empathy, respect, love..nothing. This is just blatant worship of sex at the cost of everything else. Utter madness. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/08/20 05:02 PM |
| 66 | I have no wordsI just commented, there are serious health implications to this- risk of infection for both mother and baby. The bacteria in the adult mouth can cause difficult to treat infections. In a vulnerable baby - this is dangerous. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/08/20 10:07 AM |
| 106 | “I can’t think of a specific neg so I’m just going to keep it general.”Sounds like a dweeb who copied negging lines from his PUA guru. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/08/20 11:01 PM |
| 35 | Flirting in 2020.In other words, his brain cells have long left the building. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/08/20 09:34 PM |
| 17 | Whisper is a goldmine for LVM!💯💯 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/08/20 08:14 PM |
| 10 | FDS changed my lifeSo happy for you!! ❤️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/08/20 08:11 PM |
| 37 | 90,000 Members Party!!! 😃😃😁🎉🎉🎉🙌🙌Yesss...love how this life changing sub is growing ❤️❤️❤️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/08/20 03:20 PM |
| 6 | I ignored high sex drive. Men are so annoying. I bet he can’t “find” these things bc he’s an asshole. Idk why men pretend to ask for simple qualities most women have.This 💯💯💯 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/08/20 07:57 PM |
| 14 | Why are we so hated?Because FDS speaks the truth about men and patriarchy. And many want women to not be any wiser to the games and manipulation a lot of predators and scrotes play. They want discount women who are subservient, do all the work, and think abuse is normal/love. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/08/20 07:35 AM |
| 18 | Sick men deriving pleasure from women’s pain and tears. Notice how the man playing golf has tied the woman up in the chair for his ‘peace and quiet’. Comments in that post are also sickening. If they hate women so much they should just stay away from us.I think the level of violence and cruelty has risen. And with internet nowadays, it’s easier for these types to congregate and spread more hate. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/08/20 09:44 PM |
| 11 | Sick men deriving pleasure from women’s pain and tears. Notice how the man playing golf has tied the woman up in the chair for his ‘peace and quiet’. Comments in that post are also sickening. If they hate women so much they should just stay away from us.Yes..and they look to be in pain. The lady in the photo looks like she’s being held hostage. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/08/20 09:40 PM |
| 12 | Sick men deriving pleasure from women’s pain and tears. Notice how the man playing golf has tied the woman up in the chair for his ‘peace and quiet’. Comments in that post are also sickening. If they hate women so much they should just stay away from us.Lol that was the first thing I did, hope others here report it too | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/08/20 09:37 PM |
| 19 | Sick men deriving pleasure from women’s pain and tears. Notice how the man playing golf has tied the woman up in the chair for his ‘peace and quiet’. Comments in that post are also sickening. If they hate women so much they should just stay away from us.I reported it | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/08/20 07:32 PM |
| 9 | Sick men deriving pleasure from women’s pain and tears. Notice how the man playing golf has tied the woman up in the chair for his ‘peace and quiet’. Comments in that post are also sickening. If they hate women so much they should just stay away from us.Exactly | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/08/20 07:32 PM |
| 56 | Sick men deriving pleasure from women’s pain and tears. Notice how the man playing golf has tied the woman up in the chair for his ‘peace and quiet’. Comments in that post are also sickening. If they hate women so much they should just stay away from us.The ones that support violence and derive pleasure from another’s pain are cruel and worse than animals. Many of the comments in the post are truly disgusting. Please ladies - be super careful who you let into your life. There are good guys, do your in-depth vetting to avoid evil ones like these. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/08/20 06:08 PM |
| 27 | Real Big Brain sh!t there!It’s because of the inherent deep rooted belief that women are inferior to men- and we exist to ‘service & pleasure’ them. How dare we think otherwise, or of our own good and safety. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/08/20 06:45 PM |
| 16 | Never Help a Man Do Anything - Deb Cooper. Controversial. What do you think?I was reading posts in the FIRE sub - and one guy mentioned that he was specifically looking for a serious girlfriend so that he could save money on the rent & achieve his FIRE goals. That’s a goal digger to me. And trust me, loads of guys think like this. They specifically say they ‘want a strong, independent woman who has a professional job’. They basically want someone who is going pay their bills/rent- be a bangmaid/housekeeper/therapist/mother/etc- they want to ride ahead on the back of a w… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/08/20 06:35 PM |
| 26 | Real Big Brain sh!t there!Same, unsubscribing from this s****. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/08/20 06:17 PM |
| 47 | Real Big Brain sh!t there!👌👏 Having agency and free will is empowering. It’s ironic that they essentially are saying we don’t have any say over our choices for our bodies/lives. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/08/20 06:11 PM |
| 3 | Ladies, I just wanted to share my recent victory.Well done ❤️❤️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/08/20 05:50 PM |
| 110 | Real Big Brain sh!t there!What crazy times these are. Just because patriarchy advocates for women to indulge in self-harming practices doesn’t mean it’s right. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/08/20 05:36 PM |
| 20 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered: August 8 2020 💜He could easily use other means to record your nudes (maybe he already has). Also, sometimes by playing others you only invite yourself to be played. Please be careful | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/08/20 05:31 PM |
| 7 | "If you're old enough to assert your power, you're old enough for a man to attempt to take your power away."Nonsense. He should be reported. That’s wrong on many levels, also publicly condoning pedophilia is definitely something his employer/family won’t want to be associated with. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/08/20 04:16 PM |
| 78 | Guy spends days talking about plans Sunday to go for an early run and then brunch. Saturday he stops responding to my inquiries about time and place at 1:30pm. Sunday morning expects me to jump to fulfil non-plans. Thoughts?He thought you’d be a pushover who is waiting on him. Why say sorry to him.. He’s a grown man, he knows how to make and keep appointments etc. Communicating properly and confirming plans should be simple. This is just a blatant disregard for your time. Plus he just assumed that you would spend the whole day with him. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/08/20 02:43 PM |
| 8 | A real catch‘Looking for my slave’. Abysmal. I wish we had more protection & support for women in desperate circumstances. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/08/20 02:21 PM |
| 49 | Step 1: Try to sound smart while not actually saying anything. Step 2: Make it known that you don’t know how to plan dates. Step 3: Get blocked.Just a low level stingy guy- who wants everything served to him on a plate without any effort. And then he shows you contempt because you have standards. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/08/20 01:56 PM |
| 17 | Male (7 years older) wants me to go visit him in different state that’s in lockdown.This 💯. Please look out for yourself, if this was me - I would block. He has shown his true colours. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/08/20 08:25 AM |
| 65 | He just wants someone he can abuse (Original post from another sub)The arrogance is astounding. This one thinks women exist to ‘serve’ him and be his prisoner/slave. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/08/20 07:08 AM |
| 139 | Male (7 years older) wants me to go visit him in different state that’s in lockdown.He didn’t really ask you, but rather told you to come. It’s almost as if he thinks he is ordering something online. And that you’ll run at his beck and call. Sounds very selfish, with no consideration for you. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/08/20 07:02 AM |
| 12 | What I have achieved since the break up vs my LVM exThat’s amazing! Well done you :) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/08/20 10:17 PM |
| 21 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered: August 8 2020 💜Massive red flag. How someone does one thing is how they do everything. You want someone who is genuinely kind at heart..not selectively when it suits him. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/08/20 10:14 PM |
| 13 | An email from my ex (because I blocked him on everything) A man who cheated on me with ELEVEN different women and dumped me 15 times just to keep coming back to me because (his words) “No other women want me.”I wonder where those brain cells of his went.. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/08/20 09:40 PM |
| 124 | His ex showed up on the date and said “we broke up yesterday, good luck, hes an asshole”‘I am not interested’ - so he’s basically trying to one up you on rejecting him.. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/08/20 09:03 PM |
| 4 | Am I doing this right?This..don’t show them how to manipulate you. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/08/20 04:58 PM |
| 10 | Are Men Trash? Article on how this in-joke has become a whole movement💯 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/08/20 04:54 PM |
| 29 | Are Men Trash? Article on how this in-joke has become a whole movementMany today are just useless sex/porn obsessed losers that look down on women and expect us to ‘serve’ them in all ways. And put up with selfish behaviour. Screw that, I’m cool being happily single. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/08/20 04:54 PM |
| 3 | Old dudes on dating apps be like...Lol! There’s so many of them that do that. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/08/20 04:37 PM |
| 10 | I have no words lolYes..big earner is minimum 200000 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/08/20 10:40 AM |
| 15 | Has anyone else here been banned from r/sex for no reason?This 💯 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/08/20 10:33 AM |
| 101 | This is why we should never play housewife (especially besides a job)What a horrible man. Always vet and look for a compassionate caring person. They do exist. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/08/20 10:28 AM |
| 4 | How can I date HVM when I have no career or education?Agreed! Don’t give up on it..build some projects and keep applying. There’s some good advice on r/moneydiariesactive r/girlsgonewired Edit: this is also a good sub r/fireyfemmes - check out the post about how one lady used a bootcamp course to transition into a new career | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/08/20 10:03 AM |
| 158 | Pick me begging for male approval and validation with a post about why she thinks it’s wrong to call out men for being the trash they are, with a heavy heaping of male ass-kisseryThat kind of naivety is going to get her really hurt. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/08/20 07:41 AM |
| 6 | I think I am dating a NARCISSIST ... am I? Here are my red flagsLoads of red flags here, you know what to do..trust your gut. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/08/20 06:14 PM |
| 17 | How should I reject an Instagram thirsty man after 2 months?I wouldn’t go on the trip or explain why you are ending things. Just say you’re not compatible and good luck. You have already given him chances and spoken about your boundaries to him. Despite that- things haven’t changed. You can’t change a person, that has to come from within. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/08/20 06:08 PM |
| 57 | Just no!Let the Man get himself to the kitchen, pronto. 👋 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/08/20 05:06 PM |
| 10 | Vetting strategy: How to read between the lines, use power of deduction to read motivations/possibilities and how to make educated guesses.Brilliant advice. Thanks for the write up! Saved it too! It’s so important to see what is actually being ‘said’ beyond words. And I’m definitely paying way more attention now | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/08/20 04:31 PM |
| 22 | The most LVM I’ve ever met, I finally came to my senses and left him. 3 months later I get a text and after not responding/ immediately blocking, the next morning I get a LinkedIn notification. 😂He saw you moved on, and didn’t like it- this message is just an ego thing to get you hooked and thinking about him again. The bye bye at the end sounds flippant. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/08/20 04:23 PM |
| 49 | Guy raped his ex-girlfriend "as his prize" and doesn't feel it's wrong.Why do we women make so many excuses for men when the truth is staring us blatantly in the face. When you see red, run! Don’t second guess anything that could jeopardise your safety. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/08/20 04:19 PM |
| 31 | So trueExactly | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/08/20 04:17 PM |
| 74 | The lies we are toldLol. He wants women to conform to whatever porn sick fantasy he has of what is ‘hot’. Fried brain.. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/08/20 08:04 AM |
| 52 | Does this approach ever work?Porn sick..it’s literally messed up their brains | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/08/20 08:01 AM |
| 10 | Thought i'd finally found someone just to be dumped without warning.💯 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/08/20 07:11 PM |
| 7 | Making A List & Checking It Twice - Maintain Objectivity When DatingBrilliant write up..thank you ❤️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/08/20 07:35 AM |
| 12 | It just dawned on me that the type of man I want is legit Gomez Addams ....Yassss..sweet couple | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/08/20 05:05 PM |
| 26 | Men Bring Things To The Table But Women Are The Table?This. Risk of STI, violence, rape, mental health issues due to emotional/sexual abuse. Giving up your time and best years. Loss of earnings and career progression with pregnancy. And there is so much risk associated with pregnancy- risk of health conditions & possible death if things go wrong. The changes the body goes through- making many women feel unattractive. Child rearing and looking after the household is mostly dumped on women. And if you end up divorced with kids- there is a high likeli… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/08/20 04:49 PM |
| 3 | I finally did it. I broke it off with him.👌👏 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/08/20 04:36 PM |
| 70 | Gentle reminder, ladies! Don't even change the course of your life for a HVM, don't lose yourself for anyone! It'd always end in tears.Exactly, don’t play as an extra in your own life movie. Stay in the drivers seat: ‘I am the master of my fate: I am the captain of my soul.’ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/08/20 01:53 PM |
| 66 | Ladies beware when guys "unexpectedly" cancel dates.If a date cancels I lose any interest instantly :) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/08/20 01:49 PM |
| 24 | Had an awkward hook up with a HVM and don't know how to continueIn your post there seems to be a lot of emphasis about how he feels, what he thinks, and how much you are trying to accommodate him and seek his approval. You seem to have put him on a pedestal. There’s not much consideration for yourself here, start with that. Please read the handbook too. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/08/20 10:51 AM |
| 25 | American dating style?I wouldn’t call that American style dating, it’s just being practical. When you look for jobs, you don’t just apply for one single one- you apply to many with the criteria that you want. This increases the odds in favour of you finding the right fit. Luck is simply a matter of proper preparation. The same applies to dating. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/08/20 10:47 AM |
| 37 | Know your worth girls!Exactly..don’t ever allow yourself to be half-loved. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/08/20 10:43 AM |
| 44 | Guy from OLD gets angry because I didn’t have sex with him after 2 weeks and 4 dates of knowing him.Exactly- please don’t put yourself in danger ladies - loads of predators/opportunists out there with bottled rage toward women. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/08/20 09:56 AM |
| 6 | Why isn’t he making a move?!Read the handbook. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/08/20 09:50 AM |
| 122 | Once again, men freely telling the Internet how broke they are!There is a pandemic of stingy, broke, entitled, sex-obsessed men with little ambition. I’m self-isolating :) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/08/20 12:50 AM |
| 19 | When they lurk FDS and know all the talking points 😂Meh. The bare minimum isn’t something to brag about in hope of a prize. The bar is truly low. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/08/20 10:14 PM |
| 19 | Once again proof that HVM behavior does not have to be expensive and also needs to be maintained over timeSo sweet | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/08/20 08:53 AM |
| 11 | How soon after a first date should a man ask you out again?After a first date I don’t initiate any texts, I leave it to them. The way they respond, how long they take to respond etc helps me gauge more about them & their interest level. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/08/20 08:17 AM |
| 20 | I don’t believe this man has ever had sexPathetic. Worshiping sex & manipulating women to get it. Surely there is more to life. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/08/20 12:16 PM |
| 16 | Mormons brought a man over to my house, he showed me his dick pic without warning after they left to their car.Frightening actually. Today it’s a dick pic, tomorrow it will escalate. This needs to be reported to the church and police - bearing in mind the risk of harm to other women he will have access to through the visits. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/08/20 12:08 PM |
| 59 | Girl drives from California to North Carolina for a guy she met off Bumble. He ghosts her as soon as she gets home.Why do this to yourself.. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/08/20 12:05 PM |
| 1 | “Ask your other peers what they make — especially your male ones.”Wholeheartedly agree with this..let’s close the gap | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/07/20 11:43 PM |
| 59 | Wow. You girls know what this means: girlfriend experience without responsibilities. I am always chocked that women would accept to have a heterosexual male roommate.Yes, exactly..there’ll be cameras for sure. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/07/20 11:32 PM |
| 9 | Just randomly found it on fb. Ugh.The diagnosis is ‘no brain syndrome’. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/07/20 10:34 PM |
| 104 | FDS a hate group?Women having standards and dignity is seen as hate. It’s still very much a mans world. I personally am so happy I found this group, it’s made a world of difference..You all are so supportive and amazing! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/07/20 05:41 PM |
| 30 | Another guy who has never heard of dinnerHe knows, he’s just a low effort guy | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/07/20 05:37 PM |
| 1 | FDS Playlist Pt.2Glad you like :) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/07/20 08:49 AM |
| 24 | How pickmes look 🤡 I used to love howls moving castle. Seriously be careful what movies you watch and show to you kids/younger siblings as they can promote misogyny and pickme culture.Oh yes, many movies/shows have lost their charm for me because of pick-me/misogynistic narratives. Makes me wonder about the views of the screenwriters/producers. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/07/20 09:54 PM |
| 6 | I fucked up and became too emotionally vulnerable too quickly, and I’m not sure if I should cut my losses and move on or continue.Agree.. The bit about talking about love so early, ‘wherever this goes/no labels’, darkness- seems to be red flags. One thing to be aware of sis- is that when you share your wounds/trauma/vulnerabilities it can easily be used to manipulate you by opportunists. Trust needs to be earned as not everyone has good intentions. And actually a lot of these PUA/‘gurus’ teach guys how to use these shady methods to get girls to emotionally connect just to ‘pump & dump’. Just to be safe- I think until one h… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/07/20 09:41 PM |
| 3 | FDS Playlist Pt.2Thanks for sharing your favourites! A personal favourite is ‘This Mountain by Faouzia’ - a really powerful song.. https://youtu.be/hw8MegWR24Q | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/07/20 01:22 PM |
| 13 | Anytime I see “hang out” or “coffee” I already know it’s a red flag.By saying hangout, he is effectively implying that you shouldn’t expect any effort from him. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/07/20 09:51 PM |
| 2 | How you love yourself is how you teach others to love you. Your value doesn’t decrease on someone’s inability to see your worth. 💎Welcome 😊❤️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/07/20 05:20 PM |
| 17 | Caitlin Roper: That any objection to pornography is characterized as anti-sex puritanism illustrates just how effective the porn industry has been in aligning its product with sexual liberation rather than sexual exploitation.Thanks for sharing! It is very telling that the porn industry is worth big billions. Just like the arms industry as well as pedophilia. The fact that it’s protected and defended is no coincidence. There is money to be made out of perversity, cruelty, & exploitation- packaged up nicely in 21st century marketing and faux empowerment slogans. Money and power is all the sharks at the top of the food chain care about. And many joyfully comply. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/07/20 10:33 AM |
| 15 | Saw this ad on facebook, smh. Comment section too is full of women tagging their boyfriendsThis!! 👌👏👏 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/07/20 08:27 AM |
| 4 | Is this method really effective?/u/foxybreath Aww thanks very much for the award! 😊❤️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/07/20 08:18 AM |
| 21 | Saw a bunch of pickmeshias defending this on Facebook, because 10 years “is not a big deal”😂😂😂Your comment sounds really condescending. This isn’t about you. Just because you don’t want to get married, doesn’t make those that do lesser than you. And vice versa. The point is that men that don’t propose with 1-2 years are likely not to. And are using the woman as a plate, until they find their dream woman. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/07/20 07:44 AM |
| 20 | Why am I starting to miss a toxic relationship?I strongly advise that you read Attached by Dr Amir Levine. It will give you a lot of insight and help you. It’s normal to miss people that were in our lives. But loving someone shouldn’t come at the expense of your wellbeing. It’s sounds like you really dodged a bullet. Please focus on what will help you move forward, make better choices that honour you as a person. Choose you. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/07/20 07:19 AM |
| 22 | This poor girl is complete covered in bruises after viewing that horrid “365 Days” movie on Netflix with her “guy friend”.Covered in bruises and happy about it? Horrific. I think she needs help.. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/07/20 12:26 AM |
| 12 | Is this method really effective?Exactly! This is a sign of some serious deeper issues. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/07/20 12:21 AM |
| 6 | Is this method really effective?Yes getting something in action would be great! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/07/20 12:16 AM |
| 77 | Is this method really effective?These kind of uninvited perverse comments should be subject to some sort of legal consequence. Because..it is in the spectrum of sexual harassment. Dating apps need to step up on protecting women from perverts, it’s not the early days of the Internet anymore. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/07/20 09:45 PM |
| 31 | Just saw this on TwitterIn the script and the movie we have a narrative that plants the seed of normalising paedophilic behaviour. The exposure of viewers to such behaviour can have long-term effects on what they consider permissible. Especially as a lot of men admire the male lead. Also notice the suggestion of making her seem promiscuous. The scripts are creepy and give a chilling insight into depraved views of these famous producers. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/07/20 09:21 PM |
| 11 | This is why when a sex deprived SCROTE comes back in your life you should just BLOCK. They see you explaining things as an attack or challenge. They will not apologize. Cut your losses.I hear you sis. You can’t reason with the unreasonable. They speak a different language. Best to block, & save your precious energy & time. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/07/20 06:48 PM |
| 48 | Apparently it's Opposite Day on twitterFor sure. Probably calls himself a stoic too | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/07/20 06:43 PM |
| 33 | Imagine being so insecure you can’t event hold a conversationGrown men these days. 🤦♀️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/07/20 06:39 PM |
| 71 | Apparently it's Opposite Day on twitter***Breaking news on Bloomberg: The stock value of men has depreciated. The market has reached an all time low. Time to short!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/07/20 06:32 PM |
| 118 | Don’t let any man waste your time, no matter how short.He’s so disrespectful. I wouldn’t wait longer than 10 minutes sis | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/07/20 09:31 PM |
| 10 | Know your worth, you are a miracle ❤️This is because: ‘People can only meet you, as deeply as they've met themselves’. ❤️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/07/20 08:26 PM |
| 2 | Know your worth, you are a miracle ❤️We live and learn, the beauty is the journey of growing into our better selves ❤️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/07/20 08:24 PM |
| 2 | Know your worth, you are a miracle ❤️❤️❤️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/07/20 08:23 PM |
| 2 | Know your worth, you are a miracle ❤️😊☀️❤️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/07/20 08:23 PM |
| 4 | Know your worth, you are a miracle ❤️Same, and yes...😊 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/07/20 08:23 PM |
| 17 | LVM HALL OF FAME: Bodybuilder Yuri Tolochko to Wed His Sex Doll Girlfriend After 8 Months of DatingIt’s probably because he lacks one :) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/07/20 08:12 PM |
| 32 | LVM HALL OF FAME: Bodybuilder Yuri Tolochko to Wed His Sex Doll Girlfriend After 8 Months of DatingCould this be a publicity stunt? Ah well, they’re better off with inanimate objects. With the high use of sex dolls & porn I do wonder what the long term impact will be on men’s mental health, self-esteem, emotional intelligence, empathy, & general health. And wider effect on society. Short term pleasure for permanent pain. This quote comes to mind: Hard times create strong men. Strong men create good times. Good times create weak men. And, weak men create hard times. G. Michael Hopf | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/07/20 08:08 PM |
| 27 | Cool Story BroShocking that he openly shows such a lack of empathy on a public platform. He’s a sociopath. According to google: ‘People lack normal empathy, or the ability to feel what others are feeling, when something has gone wrong in their brains....’ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/07/20 06:13 PM |
| 3 | Know your worth, you are a miracle ❤️Oh I hear you! I like Seth Godin’s book called Linchpin- it basically encourages one to make the most of ones abilities/talents & be indispensable. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/07/20 05:58 PM |
| 4 | Be extremely careful who you have children with! I can’t believe she’s still asking for advice on how to fix the relationshipExactly | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/07/20 05:47 PM |
| 11 | "I am still dead set on it" haahahahahaha👏👏👏👏 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/07/20 05:12 PM |
| 20 | Blocked my LVM boyfriend with no explanation. He doesn’t need one right?Trust yourself..no need to second guess. Just move forward. He had plenty of chances to make things right. Don’t feel bad for sticking up for yourself, put yourself first. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/07/20 05:09 PM |
| 54 | He really called his son being brought into this world “B.S” I have no words...Not all men are fit to be fathers, that’s why it’s so important to vet them properly. Responsible parenting starts from conception, lack of proper parenting can lead to so many developmental problems in the child (emotional, mental, physical etc). The consequences are real. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/07/20 03:19 PM |
| 10 | Thanks FDS: Starting to be happy being singleWell done sis! So happy for you! ☀️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/07/20 03:03 PM |
| 52 | Thought this was a joke at first, but there are legitimately lvm in the comments complaining about having to propose? It's a privilege! I'm just at a loss for words.Shame on him. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/07/20 02:53 PM |
| 42 | Looked up Female Dating Strategy on YouTube and it's all mockeryWomen who have high standards and look out for themselves are a highly unpopular demographic today. How dare we do so, it’s a man’s world after all. So pickme women and nvm all over are trying to put us in our ‘place’. I guess this is a provocative topic - so if spoken about - it means YouTube views, fandom, and of course male validation. Which is what some pick-me’s want. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/07/20 02:50 PM |
| 189 | Male socialization means earnestly expecting women to act as charities that do everything for themIt’s just a really self-centred narrative from men. Women aren’t rehab centres and don’t owe men therapy. So many women are taught to overlook their own needs/dreams/fears to please & serve men. Its time for women to recognise their self-worth & stand up for themselves. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/07/20 11:36 AM |
| 3 | My partner is very smart and he has potential... But he's not going to go to college. And in our country, starting your own business isn't really an option. What do I do..?It sounds like you’re taking on the roles of coach & mother. Ultimately, he’s a grown man who can think for himself- & you trying to fix him will lead to resentment on his side. It’s not a woman’s job to be fix a man, & be bob the builder. Look out for yourself, & please read the handbook. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/07/20 11:30 AM |
| 9 | Is a guy [25M] whose friends are mostly attractive women whom he’s previously crushed on but with whom he’s remained friends, is he a LVM?More like NVM. Please don’t waste your time and energy, block and focus on yourself. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/07/20 03:01 AM |
| 19 | Creative men of Tinder🤢🤮🤮 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/07/20 10:27 PM |
| 8 | It isn't feminist to pay on dates, it is patriarchalBrilliant post, belongs in the handbook :) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/07/20 10:04 PM |
| 7 | A view into what goes on inside some men’s heads: this is truly disgusting- ladies please vet them extra carefully so that you don’t meet someone like this.Thanks for explaining the terminology. Really horrifying. That whole site is full of racist misogynistic guys. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/07/20 07:40 PM |
| 7 | LVM using CashApp to get my attention after I blocked him everywhere else. I accepted the ONE DOLLAR, then blocked him on CashApp too :)🤣🤣🤣 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/07/20 06:36 PM |
| 7 | The world is disgusting.Exactly, ladies.. don’t do anything that can harm you. Protect yourselves. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/07/20 06:26 PM |
| 34 | The world is disgusting.Surely there must be a way to get these shut down due to privacy laws etc? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/07/20 06:11 PM |
| 4 | A view into what goes on inside some men’s heads: this is truly disgusting- ladies please vet them extra carefully so that you don’t meet someone like this.Same here, we live and learn :) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/07/20 06:08 PM |
| 67 | Cmon reallyLOL...Any guy who acts like he’s the prize, & expects me to prove myself ‘worthy’ is an instant no from me.. :) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/07/20 06:08 PM |
| 2 | Your body goes where your mind goes, you control your emotions, not the other way around, self-responsibility is the key to ultimate happinessYesss!! 👏 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/07/20 05:33 PM |
| 3 | A view into what goes on inside some men’s heads: this is truly disgusting- ladies please vet them extra carefully so that you don’t meet someone like this.Some people are good at hiding their true thoughts... thorough vetting is crucial. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/07/20 05:16 PM |
| 16 | A view into what goes on inside some men’s heads: this is truly disgusting- ladies please vet them extra carefully so that you don’t meet someone like this.Exactly, some of them are so experienced with this stuff and see it as sport. I wish more women were aware of these calculating predators. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/07/20 05:12 PM |
| 6 | A view into what goes on inside some men’s heads: this is truly disgusting- ladies please vet them extra carefully so that you don’t meet someone like this.My thoughts exactly, which is why I had to share...I want women to be aware of what some men do- so they don’t get hurt. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/07/20 05:10 PM |
| 16 | A view into what goes on inside some men’s heads: this is truly disgusting- ladies please vet them extra carefully so that you don’t meet someone like this.I think she doesn’t know better, given the kind of toxic dating culture that exists today. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/07/20 05:08 PM |
| 42 | A view into what goes on inside some men’s heads: this is truly disgusting- ladies please vet them extra carefully so that you don’t meet someone like this.True, I just can’t fathom how despicable some men are. What we see in the text- is a raw & unfiltered thought process of a calculating predator. Ladies remember: just because they show interest, doesn’t mean they respect you as a human being. For those interested- if you look at looksmax.me - you will see how some of these guys crudely discuss women. You won’t look at men the same way, you won’t want to at all actually. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/07/20 05:06 PM |
| 6 | literally one day since blocking a LVMHappy for you, way to go ❤️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/07/20 12:42 PM |
| 17 | 'You should feel lucky that I picked you, because for our first date I will cook for you, fuck you for free, and judge you for being promiscious while doing so' SMHOh dear.. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/07/20 12:38 PM |
| 6 | What it is about women-only spaces that energize me and calm me at the same time? I've come to believe that it's finally feeling heard by someone who understands. I want a lifetime membership to this gym!I’m cool with that | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/07/20 12:37 PM |
| 31 | As a professional woman, you can never win. No matter how far you get in your career, you will always be an object to some men. Seek out the HVM in your field (like the one who wrote this tweet) when you're dating, ladies.3 guys created fake profiles and spied on their female colleagues to ‘collect data’. What they did was completely unethical and unprofessional. This so called ‘research study paper’ was based on the narrow minded opinions of 3 men. The fact that it was then also accepted for publication is deeply disturbing. What a circus. I’ve heard that the article has since been retracted. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/07/20 11:37 AM |
| 15 | Communicating standards: no commitment no sexLooking out for oneself and having boundaries is a healthy sign of self-respect. Men don’t have a right on our bodies. As women in a world that openly objectifies & commodifies us, we should be assertive agents for our own well-being. The word ‘weapon’ has no use here. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/07/20 07:30 PM |
| 23 | DO NOT GIVE MEN YOUR REAL PHONE NUMBERWell done :) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/07/20 07:14 PM |
| 68 | DO NOT GIVE MEN YOUR REAL PHONE NUMBERPlease let a close friend or family member know of his details..just to be safe 🙏 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/07/20 05:51 PM |
| 108 | DO NOT GIVE MEN YOUR REAL PHONE NUMBERWow. Be safe ladies. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/07/20 05:33 PM |
| 39 | BeardfishingOh yes, it’s sadly a world of double standards. I love this supportive sub though ..gives me hope :) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/07/20 04:03 PM |
| 60 | Communicating standards: no commitment no sexBy telling them upfront what you expect, they’ll know exactly how to future fake and play you to get sex. Why not observe their behaviour to see who they really are: let their actions speak for them- as to whether they are worthy for consideration of your time and commitment. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/07/20 03:43 PM |
| 256 | Beardfishing‘Beard contouring’ to hide a double chin is a thing... And then some complain about women using makeup to trick men :) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/07/20 03:35 PM |
| 22 | Simple stock trading/how to readThank you so much for sharing this with us! Trying to learn so this is really helpful :) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/07/20 11:11 PM |
| 10 | Here is the follow up to my post from last nightThat’s very true. Agree with everything you said. I think that if a guy from the outset is being sloppy & already showing lack of respect for one’s time- it’s a huge red flag. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/07/20 10:43 PM |
| 95 | Pickmeisha mad 😂Brainwashed into needing male validation, & disregard serious issues that many women face today. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/07/20 10:06 PM |
| 12 | He was 30 minutes late to a screening phone call. Tell me I'm not crazy?You totally did the right thing, when people show you who they are- believe them. It saves from so much heartache later | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/07/20 09:47 PM |
| 10 | HVM or LVM? Having a hard time telling with this oneFull of red flags, definitely sounds like narcissism/love bombing. Also agree he is probably in a relationship/+ definitely still playing the field. Please leave, you deserve better. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/07/20 09:45 PM |
| 10 | On January 2nd I gave up dating and instead focused on my net worthCool..I’m really interested..will check it out :) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/07/20 07:18 PM |
| 8 | The King of Scrote TownSounds like he’s employing warped PUA tactics. An instant left swipe...no brainer 🤡 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/07/20 07:15 PM |
| 6 | On January 2nd I gave up dating and instead focused on my net worthGo girl 💪 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/07/20 06:10 PM |
| 15 | A scrote making dehumanizing joke about women, his defenders whine for attacking his family after being told he's nasty and poorly raisedWell done for calling him out on that! It’s so horrible to see how much dehumanising and crude behaviour is laughed off as humour. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/07/20 06:07 PM |
| 16 | Here is the follow up to my post from last nightYes..I can see this playing out 👌 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/07/20 06:01 PM |
| 10 | Here is the follow up to my post from last nightAgreed.. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/07/20 06:01 PM |
| 15 | There’s no other reasonExactly, actions speak louder than words❤️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/07/20 06:00 PM |
| 26 | Ladies please get a google number!!!Yes...can never be too careful | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/07/20 04:19 PM |
| 5 | I'm loving this new song from Taylor Swift's new album, Mad Woman. Major FDS vibes from the lyrics, and I'm feeling empowered through them, so I wanted to share!I love her ♥️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/07/20 04:04 PM |
| 25 | A perfect example of a LVM and his self-centred thought process 😑His whole thought process is so messed up 🤔 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/07/20 03:46 PM |
| 119 | Here is the follow up to my post from last nightHopefully this will serve as a lesson in time management, paying attention, and communication for him. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/07/20 03:30 PM |
| 14 | When you send your best friend the FDS Handbook & 1 week later she dumps LVM and texts you thisYay!! So happy she is doing better, women looking out for one another is beautiful :) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/07/20 05:20 PM |
| 21 | Daily ReminderExactly. Love yourself, and don't accept anything less than the best for yourself. Society brainwashes women to feel guilty about wanting good, but don't lose sight of your values. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/07/20 03:11 PM |
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