BeDiamond Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
1	Hmmm...she doesn't have to own him? No expectations? I guess it was worth it to stay married, no matter how he behaved. The worst part might be that he wrote a song about it!	NAH, SIS	BeDiamond	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	14/03/21 05:18 PM
1	LVM celebrity spends an interview raving about his former girlfriend's beauty, business skills and "cool girl" hobbies. He even says he'd love to get back in touch with his ex!	FDS MOVIES & TV	BeDiamond	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	02/03/22 03:48 PM

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
13	“If Beyoncé can get cheated on, then there’s no hope for us” is a cope, not the standard. I guess Beyonce is so rich at this point that it doesn't matter to her that her husband is destroying her brand, which is supposed to be of a beautiful strong woman who makes her own decisions and doesn't allow disrespect. Those self-aggrandizing Tiffany's ads painting them as a glamorous, deeply in love couple backfired as far as I was concerned. All I could think of was that he cheated on her repeatedly and she stayed.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	15/04/22 11:57 PM
-10	Beware of the man with a female friend/female friends I warn my teenage son to watch out for the girls who are always around.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	29/03/22 03:06 AM
89	Recently posted to Will's Official FB. Thoughts on a man who does what he did then apologizes publicy about his actions? My first instinct was that his attack on Chris Rock was performative. He is always bringing attention to his marriage and his wife in very contradictory ways. Something's up with that. The apology is something a publicist put together and is highly inauthentic.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	29/03/22 12:08 AM
14	Made a mistake and fell backwards. Devastated and need help with feeling grounded back into the real world. “If he wanted to, he would.” has never hurt so bad. I suggest one last kiss-off: Say that you have thought it over and you totally get it -- it was a life experience for you to date an older man from a different generation, but on some level you always knew eventually you would both go back to dating age-appropriately. Then wish him the best and block him.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	21/03/22 09:10 PM
1	LVM celebrity spends an interview raving about his former girlfriend's beauty, business skills and "cool girl" hobbies. He even says he'd love to get back in touch with his ex! I should clarify in case people don't know: He is married to an actress and makes bank doing ads with her about what a cute couple they are.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	02/03/22 03:50 PM
69	Saw this as I was waiting in line and had to share 🤣 I've tried one of these before, and frankly, they are not as good as they look. It's a case of chocolate art imitating life.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	11/02/22 11:29 PM
17	Older women of FDS, your wisdom is requested I want to remind younger women not to go on autopilot once they get married. HVM can and do become LVM over time. Protect yourself, always. Know what's happening to your money, even if you aren't working outside the home. Pay attention to what he's doing in his leisure time, in particular online. Watch out when he has a disappointment or sad moment -- failure to land a job or promotion, a physical condition that makes him feel vulnerable, death of a parent. Men don't respond well to events like …	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	26/11/21 01:37 PM
226	are guys allowed to roster date? While there is nothing wrong with this guy dating others, I'd be done with him: First of all, "fond of" is the kiss of death. You know what I'm fond of? Having a cup of hot chocolate on a crisp fall morning. The sweet little dog I see sometimes on walks. It's not a term one uses for an equal. Second of all, his explanation comes across as both patronizing and overly blunt: "You, too, should keep looking for someone else, because while I'm fond of you, I'm still looking for the RIGHT one." Third,…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	05/11/21 02:57 AM
8	What do you wish someone had told you about men when you were 14? Beware the ones who dote on you. You are not a child or a pet.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	31/10/21 11:03 PM
108	do men just turn into complete POS when they hit 50 or is it that generation? Their testosterone is plummeting, they are starting to experience the aches of late middle age, they haven't had dating experience for decades, and they are aware that they aren't going to go higher in their careers. It's a time that most women would use to take inventory and plan their next steps. The men skip the inventory and go straight to blaming their personal limitations and failures on the women who have supported them for many years. They have deluded themselves that they deserve a wors…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	29/06/21 07:56 PM
4	Amy Winehouse Extremely talented and charismatic, zero self-esteem. A predator latched on and took everything he could. If she'd lived, I suspect she would have continued that pattern for her entire life, because her miserable personal life made big money for a lot of people.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	22/01/21 03:47 AM
5	"He knows if you're the one within a day/week/month of meeting/dating you." Propaganda or reality? I think the moment he meets you, he knows if you're NOT the one but will still waste your time for months or years. The good news is that there is always some sign early on -- you just have to look for it and accept it.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	05/01/21 07:35 PM