BeNick38 Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
7	Online dating advices makes me feel insecure about myself People spread that garbage and endorse it because it makes them “feel” big and important but all it really does is make them assholes that will never have a lasting and meaningful relationship. Also, many of the dude pushing redpill ideology are single and are generally failing at life, so they post content about how it’s everyone else’s fault that their life sucks. Repillers are man-children that don’t take responsibility for themselves.	/r/ExRedPill	26/05/24 01:47 PM
1	Not sure what's happening... I’m certainly viewing this through the lens of my lived experience, so consider that, but it sounds like there’s something bothering her about your relationship and she doesn’t have the ability to tell you what those issues are. Did she suffer from narcissistic abuse or have a very emotionally immature parent/guardian? She may feel stuck because she loves you and doesn’t want to hurt you, but also feels she may be happier if the relationship were to end because she can’t verbalize what her needs…	/r/Divorce_Men	08/04/22 07:15 PM
13	When I should I report cheater to HR? Unless your employer is a religious organization, or has some kind of code of conduct in the employee handbook which states that marital infidelity is a terminable offense, your HR will most likely do NOTHING with this information. HR exists to protect the company. They don’t care about your personal issues unless it impacts your ability to perform at work. HR may take this news as you saying you can’t work with or around your former best man, and it may put you under additional scrutiny. Don’t …	/r/Divorce_Men	02/04/22 01:58 PM
10	Anyone here want more kids but are afraid of the risks of what the mother might become afterwards? Following the stats, that’s smart!	/r/Divorce_Men	30/01/22 01:48 PM
2	The Golden Uterus Can confirm that this is detrimental to the child. I was that child. You lose your sense of self which is not a good way to become a happy and well adjusted person.	/r/Divorce_Men	26/01/22 04:05 AM
5	The Golden Uterus EXACTLY!	/r/Divorce_Men	26/01/22 03:58 AM
3	Something I always get stuck on as I contemplate Divorce (pretty sure I've asked about this in the past) I’ve contemplated the same OP. If my wife and I were to split, I think we could do it amicably. I’ve considered buying two condos right next to each other or a house that’s been split into two apartments. That way the kids don’t have to shuffle back & forth and we have our separate space. However, this may be too close and impede future relationships for her and/or me. We’re still working on stuff and things seem to be getting better with lots if work and lots of therapy, so it’s just a thought …	/r/Divorce_Men	25/01/22 05:05 PM
1	When does staying together get harder than leaving? You can do online therapy now and it’s super easy. That’s what I’m doing and it has helped me a lot. Also, if your employer has an Employee Assistance Program or EAP, you can usually get a few free sessions with a therapist.	/r/Divorce_Men	10/01/22 12:01 AM
9	Violent deranged men be like...I just don’t getttt it- why do women stay away from me 😢Our primal instincts & creep radar goes off for solid reasons Toxic masculinity is a rot that is killing our society.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	14/08/21 12:35 PM
3	Hypergamy, female subjugation & male sexlesness. So…the lesson here is that for an ugly guy to get the pretty girl she has to become ugly like him?! That’s messed up…	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/06/21 02:25 PM