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Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
1	How are Buy-Out amounts determined?		BePresentNow-Namaste	/r/Divorce_Men	04/04/25 06:24 AM

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1	How are Buy-Out amounts determined? Thank you for what 'the judge says' RE sales costs not included. Good to know.	/r/Divorce_Men	08/04/25 11:07 PM
1	How are Buy-Out amounts determined? Glad to hear it.	/r/Divorce_Men	06/04/25 02:24 AM
5	She is officially out Good for you Helpful-P, May the space she left soon fill with Peace as this big part of the journey is behind you now. Now, on with the journey of a thousand miles, your life, one step, one moment at a time.	/r/Divorce_Men	06/04/25 02:07 AM
1	How are Buy-Out amounts determined? u/FantasticAudience305 Thank you for the good info and comments, esp. being specific for state of CA. No big deal on sales cost not to be included. I just thought if we sold the house instead of a buy out, the (≈ similar) equity to split would be reduced by maybe $50k (the 5-6% Realtor fees, docs, and general other fees). I may be missing something here, but the above example feels like an apples-to-apples comparison. If the house was sold on the market, wouldn't both parties would walk away wit…	/r/Divorce_Men	05/04/25 06:21 AM
1	How are Buy-Out amounts determined? Yes, I do plan to pay for a fam. law. attorney for advice with this question being just one of many. Wondering of ways to find a decent competent attorney. The recommendation here 'Fundamentals: You Need a Family Law Attorney'(not enough Karma to use links yet), says to physically go to your county courthouse, find their Fam. court scheduled days. Come back on Fam Crt days and ask to sit in. See what lawyers are on the docket most. Listen to them in court. etc. This sounds like a great idea, but…	/r/Divorce_Men	05/04/25 05:46 AM
1	Filed on Monday Better Pizza, I can certainly relate to the being chipped away at. I had to move out of our bedroom after a year of 3-nights per week of blackout drinking where she would be as hateful and demeaning as you could think to be. It was one of the hardest things for me to decide to do. She stopped drinking a bout a week after that. She later told me she was motivated to get her shit together before getting divorced. To this, day a year or so later, she blames ME for crushing her by moving out of the …	/r/Divorce_Men	04/04/25 06:49 AM
2	Filed on Monday Furtive, I hear your pain and feel for you. Sending a prayer and some positive energy your way. I may not be far behind you in this process. We are currently in month two of a separate parts of the house separation. I, too, feel we have irreconcilable differences. For me, finding these threads in the past two days have been helpful. To at least not feel like I am the only one. Hang in there, my friend. As they say, this too shall pass. These days, we gotta take a chuckle when we can. I did have …	/r/Divorce_Men	04/04/25 06:38 AM