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| 4 | I genuinely hope I traumatized her for life and she is never able to love again.Not nice but I get it | /r/Divorce_Men | 23/05/23 09:38 AM |
| 13 | She's so in love now and wants away from me so much she is now agreeing to 51/49 me, no alimony, no child supportNo alimony and CS, sign it | /r/Divorce_Men | 07/05/23 10:22 AM |
| 8 | Love at First Sight-Need advice from random internet strangersFree cleanings for life, rock on brother | /r/Divorce_Men | 03/05/23 12:15 AM |
| 1 | Will the judge be upset that we haven't tried to mediate anything?I doubt it. I didn’t even try cause mine was so crazy. I think the judge figured out it was too far gone | /r/Divorce_Men | 06/04/23 07:33 PM |
| 1 | Spousal Support DisgustI have one of those too. | /r/Divorce_Men | 05/04/23 11:51 PM |
| 1 | Consultant with LLCThink outside the box. I always had a few hundred $ in receivables but still got out of sharing my company | /r/Divorce_Men | 05/04/23 10:45 AM |
| 1 | Consultant with LLCMy ex wanted like back pay for years of marriage and all kinds of crazy shit. Once I told she could 100% of the company things turned as she new I wasn’t an ATM machine | /r/Divorce_Men | 05/04/23 01:08 AM |
| 2 | Consultant with LLCTell her half of 0 is still 0. The company produces her alimony and support so it stays with you 100%. It has no value without you. Tell her you will just open a new one after the divorce and she will be left with a company with no revenue stream. That’s how I stopped that conversation real fast. | /r/Divorce_Men | 05/04/23 12:51 AM |
| 1 | Consultant with LLCDoes she contribute to the company or are you the only real worker? | /r/Divorce_Men | 05/04/23 12:44 AM |
| 6 | Consultant with LLCMy ex wanted half of my consulting LLC. She wasn’t legally on it. I told her she could have 100% of it as it would be worth nothing without me running it and I could go start another company with a new name and all my clients would move to that. If the company is about your business, it has no value to her. | /r/Divorce_Men | 05/04/23 12:43 AM |
| 1 | How did you guys deal with the guilt in regards to your kids financial support?I stay together for the kids for far too long. It was a huge mistake. Just be clear with her that she initiated it and her lifestyle will probably change. You may want to Google the gray rock and that is how you deal with people like this. | /r/Divorce_Men | 28/03/23 02:13 PM |
| 1 | How did you guys deal with the guilt in regards to your kids financial support?She needs to realize that the lifestyle you provided her with no longer exists. That is a tough pill. | /r/Divorce_Men | 28/03/23 12:35 AM |
| 1 | Venting. This really really sucks.Yes it does. The new world is much different . The kids exist but they are not the same | /r/Divorce_Men | 24/03/23 10:38 AM |
| 2 | Venting. This really really sucks.Go to the gym. Volunteer somewhere and make new friends. The old world goes away. It takes years to be normal | /r/Divorce_Men | 23/03/23 11:54 PM |
| 2 | Future ex wife is asking for full physical custodyNever agree to anything less than 50/50 shared legal and physical custody. You will regret it | /r/Divorce_Men | 22/03/23 01:15 PM |
| 1 | How far will a narcissistic mother go to get custody of kids & to punish the ex-husband?Zero contact and zero give in. The only way | /r/Divorce_Men | 18/03/23 12:17 AM |
| 3 | Need some major help. My ex got a job for 96k, but won't share her W2 and her lawyer says she will quash any subpoena to her employer (NYC)In my state we request an evidentiary hearing and the judge will require both parties to provide financial | /r/Divorce_Men | 11/03/23 08:37 AM |
| 3 | My ex blatantly lied in her financial affidavit by $2300 a month. My lawyer has subpoena’d her bank statements. Will anything actually happen due to her lies or will the judge just blow it off? Anyone with experience in this matter…Judges don’t do much | /r/Divorce_Men | 04/03/23 11:29 PM |
| 2 | This was passed on to me recently. I thought it might be of use to some here: Tactics and Mind Games of the Female Covert NarcissistMine too | /r/Divorce_Men | 25/02/23 01:38 AM |
| 2 | How to deal with the alone timeLots o chicks at the shelter. It’s a good thing | /r/Divorce_Men | 21/02/23 01:07 AM |
| 2 | How to deal with the alone timeGym, books , cook, run, hike, bike, volunteer at a veterans shelter or food bank. Coach, deliver meals. Do something rewarding that you can tell your kids about | /r/Divorce_Men | 21/02/23 01:06 AM |
| 1 | **Do I inform my ex spouse that I’m bringing my new GF to meet our son ?**Nope | /r/Divorce_Men | 15/02/23 01:04 AM |
| 1 | If you have found, much better women after divorce, where?Your moms house? | /r/Divorce_Men | 04/02/23 03:56 PM |
| 20 | For those who's divorce has been finalized for a year or more.Just requests for more money. She can’t live within her means. Ignore | /r/Divorce_Men | 30/01/23 10:16 PM |
| 2 | STBXW is delusionalIgnore. I no longer take phone calls or texts from my ex. She can only email me which keeps her in line as she knows I can use those emails in court | /r/Divorce_Men | 30/01/23 10:14 PM |
| 2 | Divorce MA AlimonyMy first lawyer told me to take a bad deal. I told him to take a hike, and got better counsel | /r/Divorce_Men | 29/01/23 01:14 PM |
| 4 | Divorce MA AlimonyMA courts are a nightmare. Since you were married a long time she can make a case for alimony. Probably better off to look for new counsel and not let them drive the bus. Tell her to take a deal like $1k a month or you will fight in court forever and you have the means to do it and she doesn’t | /r/Divorce_Men | 29/01/23 11:31 AM |
| 10 | Filing from the Couple that "had it all."That’s what happened to me. All good until the lawyers show up | /r/Divorce_Men | 03/01/23 02:09 PM |
| 32 | Women who lurk in the Men's Divorce subreddit, why are you here?To pick up dudes of course | /r/Divorce_Men | 31/12/22 12:14 PM |
| 1 | Should I pay off my wife’s implant before proceeding our divorce?Just pay for one | /r/Divorce_Men | 23/12/22 09:15 PM |
| 3 | What do Stay at Home Mom's "Deserve" Out of a Divorce?Mine was a stay at home at her choice not mine. After 20 years she asked me to pay her back salary for those years. Chicks are nuts. Tell her to get a job | /r/Divorce_Men | 22/12/22 03:35 PM |
| 1 | Ex wife calls kids everydayNew phone who dis? | /r/Divorce_Men | 11/12/22 08:35 PM |
| 3 | Is it normal to find your ex wife incredibly attractive ?Ah no. Mine is a hag | /r/Divorce_Men | 10/12/22 03:44 PM |
| 5 | Men who filed, what pushed you over the edge to finally do it?Narcissistic bitch | /r/Divorce_Men | 09/12/22 12:37 AM |
| 11 | Just heard from my Ex's Attorney...Cant Pay b/c she wants the house...Tell her to sell it and live within her means | /r/Divorce_Men | 02/12/22 02:40 PM |
| 2 | Starting my new lifeSounds perfect. My youngest is about to goto college and my ex will have nothing left so she can be miserable by herself. She tried to alienate and the kids caught on that I was not the problem . Hope she’s miserable forever. Be strong brother | /r/Divorce_Men | 30/11/22 09:54 PM |
| 1 | Starting my new lifeGood job keep going. I’m a few years past my divorce and still dealing with issues but things are getting better | /r/Divorce_Men | 30/11/22 09:10 PM |
| 2 | Wish she’d grow up.Pay her in Pennie’s | /r/Divorce_Men | 28/11/22 12:58 AM |
| 2 | My ex hasn’t agreed to sign for 3 years, so I forced it to court.Mine did. All messed up as she weaponized them to get back at me . Pure evil | /r/Divorce_Men | 26/11/22 01:59 AM |
| 3 | My ex hasn’t agreed to sign for 3 years, so I forced it to court.Her behavior sounds narcissistic and there is no cure for that. Take care of your kids and stay as far away from your ex as possible. Once they exhibit the symptoms, there’s no going back. | /r/Divorce_Men | 25/11/22 12:15 PM |
| 7 | So my ex wants to bring her boyfriend to mediation...Stand your ground man | /r/Divorce_Men | 24/11/22 04:51 PM |
| 1 | For the men who initiated and filed for divorceBrother from another mother | /r/Divorce_Men | 23/11/22 07:09 PM |
| 1 | For the men who initiated and filed for divorceI’ll have to try that. I’m going to make the last payment in Pennies via dump truck | /r/Divorce_Men | 23/11/22 02:27 PM |
| 1 | For the men who initiated and filed for divorceSo true. She hates to see me happy for sure. I even mess with her alimony payments for fun and send her cryptic emails with bible passages because she claims to be a good catholic | /r/Divorce_Men | 23/11/22 11:40 AM |
| 10 | For the men who initiated and filed for divorceGood for you | /r/Divorce_Men | 22/11/22 07:35 PM |
| 6 | For the men who initiated and filed for divorceMy ex was a narcissist and my mental health wasn’t good. I had to get out. She turned my kids against me and is all about the money. 3 years later in a healthy relationship and my kids are slowly coming back around. My ex with hopefully be miserable forever | /r/Divorce_Men | 22/11/22 07:34 PM |
| 2 | STBX wants sole legal and physical custodyDon’t settled. Start taking him 50/50 now and push for 50/50 legal and physical. Guys give in too easy. I did. Don’t give her an inch | /r/Divorce_Men | 17/11/22 07:52 PM |
| 5 | Wife filed for divorce after 10 Years while I was on an intl. work trip. I was served by her sister at the airport on the way home and returned to an emptied out condo and no dog. Who does that?Good you got the dog. Let the crazy woman go | /r/Divorce_Men | 13/11/22 12:58 PM |
| 1 | The sense of entitlement is insane - it's like she thinks we're still married!Mine is an alienating narcissist and took it out on the kids. There is only one thing to do with a narcissist - silence | /r/Divorce_Men | 11/11/22 12:13 PM |
| 3 | Just announced divorce to wife of 15 years, telling kids today. Need helpThe kids should be fine. Focus on co-parenting with calmness. I recommend therapy for you and the kids. I was anti-therapy my whole life, now i recommend it. | /r/Divorce_Men | 12/10/19 03:13 PM |
| 1 | I don't sleep well anymore.I am with you, dont sleep well at all, separated 6 months, going to see a doctor soon. Hoping for something to help sleep. | /r/Divorce_Men | 07/10/19 04:49 PM |
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