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Okay, so my fitness binder is divided by motivational articles, nutrition articles, training routines divided by cardio, full body strength, upper body strength, lower body strength, core/back strength, and (becauseI have nowhere else to put it) various beauty information. Honestly, it's my heaviest, fullest binder because it was started before I broke down and started a Pinterest. I should probably go through it and build a routine I love. I love paper, so having a ton of binders is the only wa…
/r/RedPillWomen07/01/16 07:37 PM
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Binders are my life. I have a home management binder, a fitness binder, a recipe binder for things I've made, a recipe binder for things, I want to make, a binder for holiday things I think are neat and want to try divided by holiday, a binder divided by my kid's names for school stuff, and a binder of diy projects I'm interested in working on. Now that I think about it, I'm possibly over-doing this binder thing, but they really make things so much easier.
/r/RedPillWomen07/01/16 04:21 AM
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That's really awesome! Something about lifting makes women downright sexy.
/r/RedPillWomen19/12/15 12:08 AM
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This is one of the most motivating posts I've ever seen on Reddit, seriously. I'm pretty sure you just dug me out of a month-long rut. Thank you :-)
/r/RedPillWomen18/12/15 12:11 PM
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Exactly this. No matter how you come across to him you're still not the one hiding (and betraying) an entire family.
/r/RedPillWomen17/12/15 06:03 PM
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I think a good way around this is to consider coming up with your own kind of "signature" treat or side, or whatever. I have a sweet and a savory that I have perfected that I am now kind of known for. I think the best thing in this situation is to just do it. Find something either unique to you or upgrade a classic recipe that isn't already spoken for by one of the other women. It's awkward at first being the one no one expects this out of, but after a few times you'll have your niche carved out…
/r/RedPillWomen15/12/15 09:10 PM
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I downloaded the FlyHelper app. It puts all of the routines in one place and is so much easier for me than checklists, binders, and dragging around my planner. Added bonus: Little self-care tasks and routines. I also take advantage of the fact that editing the built-in routines is super simple. If you thrive on structure, this is a good option.
/r/RedPillWomen07/12/15 07:44 PM
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I can't even lie. When I'm feeling a little disconnected from my purpose in my relationship with my man, your posts and comments definitely snap me back into reality.
/r/RedPillWomen04/12/15 04:58 PM
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I want to hug you. Would an upvote suffice? You're doing great. I feel like you're going to accomplish everything you're trying to accomplish for yourself. :)
/r/RedPillWomen04/12/15 01:41 AM
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I once had a situation where an ex refused to acknowledge the breakup. Basically what I ended up having to do is tell him firmly that he is welcome to think whatever he wanted, but that I was no longer a participant in the relationship. I cut off all contact and moved on with my life as if he wasn't in it. If you're serious about extracting yourself from this relationship, there isn't really any reason to continue interacting with him beyond telling him what your intentions are.
/r/RedPillWomen21/11/15 02:41 PM
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"This is supposed to be a safe place and I feel violated."
/r/RedPillWomen15/11/15 04:11 PM
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Waymint... has this author even been to TRP and seen the focus on lifting and self-improvement over there?! It's not the purpose of RPW to focus on their improvement... it's theirs. And they do.
/r/RedPillWomen14/11/15 08:09 PM
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A woman who does this sort of thing will put you through an infinite push/pull cycle and drain everything from you until your best of everything is gone. It honestly sounds like she's trying to do dirt. I'd say you're better off running as fast as far as you can. Most women aren't okay with sending their SO away for indefinite time periods in the name of "getting some space". Not if she values the relationship, anyway.
/r/askMRP14/11/15 04:33 PM
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Having one of those names that usually was shared with at least 2 other girls in class, I feel like if you're going to go through the trouble of spelling a name all crazy, just give the poor kid a unique name.
/r/RedPillWomen11/11/15 02:51 PM
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Can confirm. My oldest daughter's name is Amaya, and she's the prissiest thing on Earth - My youngest is Willow, who also is about what you'd expect.
/r/RedPillWomen11/11/15 11:54 AM
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I could kiss you for the last part, lol. My best friend is a daycare provider and there really is no shortage of these names, some of which are the same but "we spelled it differently so that it's different" ...No, it's really not.
/r/RedPillWomen11/11/15 11:50 AM
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I'm the one to know when we're out of them anyway because they're a necessary evil for building an eyebrow arch I can live with. I'm so confused about all of these things being such an issue that she has managed to turn it into A) A fairly long post, and B) A reason to be compensated. The things she is suggesting "women" should be paid for are things most people do. Now I'm all furious again.
/r/RedPillWomen09/11/15 12:23 AM
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My husband laughs at me because I read things like this and it sends me OVER. The. Edge. Lol. She wants a paycheck for being a decent human being with concern for something outside of herself.
/r/RedPillWomen08/11/15 08:28 PM
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Seems like her friend has too much sense to be there, honestly.
/r/RedPillWomen08/11/15 08:26 PM
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It's hugely disappointing to read these things. My generation was known as the "Slacker Generation" but was never trying to make it a "cause" like what's obviously happening in this um... article? I guess? We knew we would have to get it together eventually and we did, but this is something else entirely. How about you remember birthdays because it's just the right thing to effing do for the people who count? How about sex should be something where both people mutually "worry" about each other's…
/r/RedPillWomen08/11/15 07:54 PM
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He was my supervisor at a resort. His niece knew that he was interested in me and basically cornered me to tell me as much. The following day we were talking about breakfast and I said he should make me some and he responded with "You should wake up with me, then." Something about that witty and confident response won me over. We started taking our breaks together and buying each other dinner. Before long we became exclusive. Through talking about our pasts we realized there were a lot of times …
/r/RedPillWomen08/11/15 02:56 AM
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I always admired her commitment to her husband throughout his illness. I can't imagine that was easy for her.
/r/RedPillWomen07/11/15 12:53 PM
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Honestly, I feel like Nancy Reagan was a wonderful and supportive wife and mother. She took excellent care of herself, and while I know her Just Say No campaign was huge, I don't feel like it was ever am attempt to outshine Ronald, but rather the best way she knew to further his successes as president.
/r/RedPillWomen07/11/15 03:16 AM
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I was looking up something on YouTube (Most likely feminine demeanor... I do that, apparently, lol) and discovered her channel. I had never heard of ASM before and was absolutely captivated by it and her. I can see falling asleep watching her videos just because they put me in another headspace.
/r/RedPillWomen07/11/15 03:07 AM
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I think that it's important to also throw in there that, when women are violent and aggressive in relationships, the man on the receiving end won't typically report it. Having known many lesbian couples I can honestly say they have some of the most violent, aggressive relationships I've ever witnessed.
/r/TheRedPill30/10/15 12:00 PM
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I thought the same thing, but I think somehow I knew you already had noticed it too, lol. I found it interesting that the men were the ones in charge of the Littles.
/r/RedPillWomen28/10/15 03:03 PM
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Can I just tell you your post about Farmville 2 is probably one of the most entertaining blog posts I've ever read? Having never played, I kind of want to now, lol.
/r/RedPillWomen28/10/15 01:17 PM
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If I had known you had a blog I would have bookmarked it forever ago. What a brilliant post!! It doesn't matter how pretty a gift is wrapped if it gets opened and you got socks and underwear again. Femininity is more than pinup style and domestic talent - It's a total package that requires work if it's not your typical manner. It's softness when those around us are abrasive. Genuine femininity is the ground wire of relationship dynamics. It's seeing beauty where it's difficult to find, particula…
/r/RedPillWomen28/10/15 03:30 AM
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Brilliant advice! I'm going to put that in my mantra box for when I'm dealing with a difficult person: "It's not my job to tell this person their behavior isn't acceptable.""
/r/RedPillWomen20/10/15 12:15 AM
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Just discovered I was auto-subscribed to Two X so I decided to read a couple of things... All I can say is that cleaning out the litterbox could produce better nuggets of wisdom.
/r/RedPillWomen19/10/15 03:06 PM
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Sometimes I feel awkward initiating, and trying to be sexy very easily makes me feel more silly than anything else. This is going to sound pretty ridiculous, but reading Ian Ironwood of The Red Pill Room's blogs directed specifically toward the First Mate seem to be the kickstart I need. His advice always motivates me to put in the extra effort.
/r/RedPillWomen15/10/15 09:45 PM
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You sure can! You have to go to the Help section on deactivating and deleting to get there and it takes 90 days or less. Edit** I went ahead and deleted it. I figured I was already there looking up how to do it, lol.
/r/RedPillWomen14/10/15 06:15 PM
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I'm sure that makes it next to impossible to let go of it permanently. Luckily my family are all in the US, although they're scattered. I eventually got all of their phone numbers because of my love/hate relationship with Facebook. At this point mine is deactivated about 85% of the time. I'm leaning toward deleting it permanently. I've already taken the step of moving all of my mobile album to my computer. Honestly I'm a much happier, more relaxed person without it. Could you potentially remove …
/r/RedPillWomen14/10/15 03:12 AM
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I deactivated Facebook again because I really started to feel like I was falling down the rabbit hole of compulsively checking. I found myself in a Mom's group, which is basically just an online hen party of women being ridiculously bitter toward their SOs and other women.. Unfortunately my dearest friend is the admin, and while she's unknowingly quite RP, she can't control what's said by other women so she just kind of lets it go without adding to it. I actually had to stop getting notification…
/r/RedPillWomen13/10/15 07:59 PM
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The item I covet most... I think I'm going to finally acquiesce to that inner nagging and buy one.
/r/RedPillWomen13/09/15 10:12 PM
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You're very welcome! I feel like when I started pursuing a more feminine way of life I was more inspired when I found people who were super optimistic and had something a little "extra". I tend to devour knowledge when it comes from a bubbly person.
/r/RedPillWomen13/09/15 06:56 PM
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Lol, no problem!! I feel like I'll never read everything that exists on it because it's PACKED with information.
/r/RedPillWomen11/09/15 02:34 PM
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Are you my twin? Seriously it's like you put all of my thoughts out there. I have the same kind of issues with my weight making me feel somewhat masculine because the side effect of it is I can be sort of frumpy. I play video games, I like things that perhaps aren't feminine. What I have done to start mastering my own femininity is working on my weight (I do POPpilates because Cassey Ho is so cheerful and girly and she kind of rubs off on me) and putting on makeup. Find some tutorials that focus…
/r/RedPillWomen11/09/15 02:19 AM
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INTP **Edited to include: INTPs live in the world of theoretical possibilities. They see everything in terms of how it could be improved, or what it could be turned into. They live primarily inside their own minds, having the ability to analyze difficult problems, identify patterns, and come up with logical explanations. They seek clarity in everything, and are therefore driven to build knowledge. They are the "absent-minded professors", who highly value intelligence and the ability to apply log…
/r/RedPillWomen02/09/15 10:36 PM
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*PATIENCE (With myself, with others, with life in general) I am lacking so much in this area and I'm sure a great deal of my problems will be solved when I can get a handle on this. *Profanity (Refer to 'patience'). *Health and fitness, which I feel go hand in hand with making sure meals are cooked at home and getting the family on board. *Supporting his career by sending treats with him and making sure the kids are respectful of his 3rd shift schedule. *Speaking of which, teaching my girls to r…
/r/RedPillWomen30/08/15 04:04 PM
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Mine is definitely more wavy than curly, but I'm part Puerto Rican and part American Indian if that tells you anything, lol. Very long, very thick, and depending on the day medium to very wavy. Thanks for the product recommendations!
/r/RedPillWomen25/08/15 11:48 PM
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*Taking a moment to appreciate Target's affordable beauty buys. There are always good finds in their health & beauty dept.
/r/RedPillWomen25/08/15 08:25 PM
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Sounds about right. It's either straightened into submission or thrown into a ponytail, neither of which are good for hair. I have noticed it behaves for awhile after it's been colored...
/r/RedPillWomen25/08/15 08:22 PM
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Thank you!
/r/RedPillWomen25/08/15 08:08 PM
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I have natural waves as well. I have a tremendous amount of trouble with them making me look like Ms. Frizzle. Do you do anything that "tidies" them up, for lack of a better word? I like letting my hair remain natural, but natural for me looks unkempt and fluffy at the ends. It's really bizarre, lol.
/r/RedPillWomen25/08/15 07:55 PM
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I just bookmarked this. Amazing post that I am particularly appreciative of!!
/r/RedPillWomen17/08/15 11:39 PM
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Another good option is baked goods to share with co-workers. This makes him feel loved and buys him goodwill at work. I have one recipe for brownies that I use for this purpose. ;)
/r/RedPillWomen09/08/15 05:44 AM
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You're both super lucky to have each other. You sound like great people!
/r/RedPillWomen31/07/15 07:45 PM
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When I read the part about being naked in bed with a guy she barely knew discussing the holocaust and how awful that was for her, my first thought was: "Well. That's what you get for being ridiculous."
/r/RedPillWomen24/07/15 05:47 AM
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This has been my experience with being too much of a people pleaser. At 32 I have finally started turning off the sweetness when it's necessary, but it took some rough situations to get me there.
/r/RedPillWomen17/07/15 11:25 PM
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My best friend is dealing with a very similar situation. She has recently found out she is not the only person he's done this to, and it's been a pattern in other relationships prior. My advice to her has been essentially the advice you've been given already, but your responses here have been more eloquent than mine to her because I'm invested in her happiness. A man who does these things is looking for an ego boost that no person is capable of providing him. I'm not one to offer "leave him" as …
/r/RedPillWomen09/07/15 05:38 AM
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This sums my feelings on feminism up nicely. It's become a caricature of what it once was. At one point being a feminist meant something. What it has become, however, is so completely ridiculous (free bleeding, for example) that it isn't even humorous anymore. It's scary.
/r/RedPillWomen03/07/15 06:56 PM
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I lost almost 60 lbs doing the elliptical for 30 minutes 5-6 days a week and doing the beginners Blogilates calendar. Edit: I do this at home because I have a child who is still not in school. My best friend gave me an elliptical and a calorie counting watch for Christmas. I chose this because as much as I dislike following a routine, I am one of those people who pretty much requires one to be successful.
/r/RedPillWomen29/06/15 04:36 PM
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Ugh. I know. I left a busy coastal area for a small town 3 states away and it was really difficult. Hearing things about your SO's past life all of the time can be draining.
/r/RedPillWomen27/06/15 01:29 AM
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"If only I had that kind of power over people... No, he's come a long way with support, but he did the work himself." On another note, GOOD FOR HIM!!! That's fantastic!
/r/RedPillWomen26/06/15 10:13 PM
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:) Of course. Thank you for asking. I had a lot of what I would call battle scars from an ugly past and I was kind of going through the motions. He was miserable, I was miserable, and the kids were miserable. Sex felt like a chore, and we had essentially been downgraded to roommates for years. I cooked and cleaned and did the bare minimum, but I knew it was destroying a really good relationship. For his part, he was fantastic and way more understanding than he should have been at times, but it r…
/r/RedPillWomen26/06/15 05:19 AM
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Agree with you completely. I am lurking and not commenting, but I love what I'm learning and my 8 year marriage is flourishing.
/r/RedPillWomen23/06/15 03:53 PM
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I'mnew both to Reddit and Red Pill as a culture (I've always had a bit of RP philosophy, but just thought of it as "traditional"). I have a pretty spectacular recipe I use with my crockpot that isn't your standard fare. Slow Cooker Cuban Beef 2 lbs boneless chuck roast Salt and pepper 2c. Beef broth 6 cloves minced garlic divided 3.5 tsp. Oil divided .5 tsp cumin (I use a bit more because we love cumin almost to the point of obsession) 3tbs oj 1.5 tsp grated lime zest 2 tbs lime juice 1 thinly s…
/r/RedPillWomen19/06/15 05:04 PM
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