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| 1 | Does anyone else stop talking to girls on dating apps if they don't try to continue to the conversation by asking questions back?That's a little different than what you wrote previously. But I get what you're saying now. | /r/askTRP | 01/05/16 07:41 PM |
| 1 | LTR wants me to delete girls I follow grom Instagram, what to do?It doesn't really matter because it sounds like he already lost the power long ago. My main point throughout has to do with how much he cares about this particular relationship. She doesn't sound like anyone I'd want to be with, but he's the one with her. Don't patronize me with the "read the sidebar" garbage. I never said anything about him adjusting his behavior. I've done nothing to go against the rules either. Just the fact that he asked the question makes it sound like he doesn't want the r… | /r/askTRP | 01/05/16 07:37 PM |
| 1 | LMR, "we're not having sex" and ghostingIt's not rumors because it's true. Just that you aren't as pissed off about it as you'd probably sound. | /r/askTRP | 01/05/16 07:24 PM |
| 1 | LTR wants me to delete girls I follow grom Instagram, what to do?Interesting. Maybe you should just go after one or many of those IG chicks. Doesn't sound like you and her are on the same page. Otherwise she'd know to back off and that she didn't have anything to worry about. | /r/askTRP | 01/05/16 01:07 PM |
| 1 | Does anyone else stop talking to girls on dating apps if they don't try to continue to the conversation by asking questions back?I find it strange that the one girl who was married, with husband present, was the one who approached you. And called you handsome and all that. Sounds like a weird night. And, no, I've never seen anyone find their soulmate at a Starbucks. I think that's universal. I see that friend options are limited for you too. That makes things tougher for sure. No one to be your wingman. Maybe you should just move away. Start fresh somewhere. A place with a bigger and more diverse population as well. I'm j… | /r/askTRP | 01/05/16 01:03 PM |
| 1 | LTR wants me to delete girls I follow grom Instagram, what to do?You're the one that brought up "nice mystery". I was quoting you. She seems aware and made her case. Whether it's her business or not. Also, if it affects their relationship then yes it does matter, and they're better off discussing it. Sounds like she has all the power as it is. Doesn't seem like her behavior is going to change any time soon. Kind of get the impression that if she doesn't get her way, she'll walk away. If he likes his IG girls that much, all power to him. | /r/askTRP | 01/05/16 12:53 PM |
| 1 | LTR wants me to delete girls I follow grom Instagram, what to do?Should she be? If not, and she can't trust your word, that doesn't sound like a healthy relation. How long term is it? | /r/askTRP | 01/05/16 12:17 PM |
| 1 | Does anyone else stop talking to girls on dating apps if they don't try to continue to the conversation by asking questions back?I feel ya. Making friends is tough in any capacity. But that's where you might have to start. Hell, next time you go to bar, if there's a group a guys watching a game/match on tv, or playing a pub game or something, join in. Buy a round for the boys. Talk to them. Get to know them. Say you had a shitty day at work and needed to drink, but didn't have time to call friends. And going back to the woman. Was her husband actually there? I'm sure you try to be moral guy, but if she's calling you hands… | /r/askTRP | 01/05/16 12:15 PM |
| 0 | LTR wants me to delete girls I follow grom Instagram, what to do?If she gets to follow guys why don't you get to follow girls? Sounds like she has more power here. Is she afraid you'll cheat? | /r/askTRP | 01/05/16 12:03 PM |
| 1 | LTR wants me to delete girls I follow grom Instagram, what to do?It doesn't sound so nice or mysterious. Sounds like she already knows a lot. lol. | /r/askTRP | 01/05/16 12:01 PM |
| 2 | I got bigger, studied stuff I like and put myself out there. Yet, I still feel crippled in the face of confrontation.Have you asked other people in the office what they think? Chances are they hate him too, but since he's zeroed in on you, they are able to sit back and avoid it being them. More of a self preservation thing on their part. Your initial post was more general, but it sounds like it's specifically that one jackass. Don't lose your shit in front of him either, that's what he wants. Then, like you said, he can go and tell others how you are the one causing problems. With this guy you have to keep you… | /r/askTRP | 01/05/16 11:58 AM |
| 3 | dumb question, but how do I begin cold approaching people?That, and you stop worrying about screwing it up because you learn that you can in fact survive it. And learn what not to say and do, and what works with some might not work another. You learn to read the room and person fairly quick. | /r/askTRP | 01/05/16 11:47 AM |
| 2 | LTR wants me to delete girls I follow grom Instagram, what to do?How about instead, what compels you to follow other girls on Instagram? If it's something she doesn't need to feel concerned about, then tell her. But also, what's her concern with you following girls on IG? Is she worried that you get some sort of sexual, or emotional, arousal from it? Ultimately, if you want to look at other girls, and she can't handle it, it's time (for you) to move on. | /r/askTRP | 01/05/16 11:44 AM |
| 2 | Does anyone else stop talking to girls on dating apps if they don't try to continue to the conversation by asking questions back?That says it all. If they're engaging you at all, that means something. Leave the heavier getting to know you for in person. Just be like "when and where?" If they do stop replying or don't seem interested it probably means they're bored or think there's something wrong with you that you haven't transitioned to the real world yet. It's pretty straightforward through the veil of confusion and complication. | /r/askTRP | 01/05/16 11:33 AM |
| 2 | Does anyone else stop talking to girls on dating apps if they don't try to continue to the conversation by asking questions back?I can't say for sure what you're doing wrong, but there's obviously something. Like if a woman approaches for any reason, and you find her attractive, work on her. Give her every reason to get her to want to leave with you. Convince her that she approached you for her not her friend. And why are you going alone to these places? It screams, "I have no friends and I'm desperate!" As for you "ending it all", if you're referring to suicide, get help now. | /r/askTRP | 01/05/16 11:27 AM |
| 1 | Does anyone else stop talking to girls on dating apps if they don't try to continue to the conversation by asking questions back?Are you one of those guys who ends up on those tinder disaster websites? Where the guy goes from "hello" to "wanna get your pussy licked tonight?" at lightning speed? Not judging here, but it would be interesting to realize that it's not always uncalculated perversity. | /r/askTRP | 01/05/16 11:18 AM |
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