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I never post my partner on insta despite being active in stories. I prefer to keep private life private in this aspect because who knows... jealous people, etc. One ex of me started once to get unpleasant anonymous messages about me. It was all a lie and I don't know if it was somene jealous from my circle or his but it was very hard. But things I want to protect, I don't post them. It's very reasonable in my opinion.
/r/RedPillWomen17/10/25 04:15 AM
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Haha. I am lucky to be very slim from nature, so I keep my body in tonus with general cardio and do strength training on parts I want to grow: booty+hamstrings and back + delts. Gives me already the hourglass shape. Unfortunately in stressful times I tend to eat less and lose muscles, so this is always ongoing work with those features. That's for physics. I'll mention the self developmemt work, career, education and hobbies but those things are much harder to describe in exercises terms.
/r/seduction12/10/25 07:41 PM
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You mean how it looks now? Google Henry Cavill back. My friend is still slimmer, less arm muscles but a clearly visible V and especially delts are defined. He said he does tons of pullups with added weights.
/r/seduction12/10/25 07:00 PM
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I'd say shoulders=back😁
/r/seduction12/10/25 03:40 PM
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I don't say this is 100% the way for being chased. But to increase the chances and being perceived as a more attravtive person physically yes. Wide male shoulders are I guess just like height one of those features that we instinctively perveive a s a sign of stength. Like you guys perceive women with wider hips and bigger boobs as more capable of birth. Instinctively, that's why it's desired by majority as an attractive feature.
/r/seduction12/10/25 03:02 PM
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But being tall is also relative. If you aim conventional models who are tall, you won't be that tall compared to them. Saying as someone who is 175cm myself, which is 5'9 I guess. And yes, you can't change the height after a certain age but why not wear those shoes that make you an inch taller then. We women adjust our festures with makeup, also high heels etc as well. And even if that's not an option, worked out body is still more attractive than not.
/r/seduction12/10/25 02:34 PM
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I checked wikipedia "Average human height by country", my country is in 180-182cm average, so yes. There are many guys taller than him around, the height is not his trump. But combination of nice personality, body worked out especially with features that imho are the most attractive in male body. And voila.
/r/seduction12/10/25 02:05 PM
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We also call it triangle back and not V-shape as it is propably more common in English😁
/r/seduction12/10/25 01:47 PM
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180cm, average or slightly under average for my country. But I saw he now wears those nike sneakers that give him like 3-4 more cm of height, also looks nice :)
/r/seduction12/10/25 01:46 PM
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Sorry, not a native speaker, yes, that's what I mean. We call it sandclock in my language.
/r/seduction12/10/25 01:41 PM
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Here I'm only speaking for myself and my female friends. We literally discussed once a guy who passed by and had an outstanding booty. It's hard to not look at it😆 It's super rare and men absolutely abandon this part of the body, pity!
/r/seduction12/10/25 12:41 PM
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Yes, I love the side delts, also train them as a girl to get the upper part of the sand clock body. But by men... this is absolutely very attractive.
/r/seduction12/10/25 12:06 PM
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My friend isn't getting matches now because he doesn't need dating apps. Girls are literally coming to him themselves now kn real life. Guess, I'm not the only one to lile his worked out parts of body.
/r/seduction12/10/25 11:59 AM
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I'm sure there is still statistics about features that are physically attractive to the majority. And on some of them we can work while others are not changable. So, working on those that are statistically attractive we imrpove our chances and self-confidence. Of cause I'd say, personality matters most. But for the initial attraction physics are quit important as well.
/r/seduction12/10/25 11:39 AM
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Some guys are just annoyed because it's not like to just learn some "game rules" and apply them. It actually requires some decent work and time, no shortcuts. Same with other self-confidence boosters like high education, career, nice interesting personality etc. It requires actual work, not remembering the pattern how to "escalate".
/r/seduction12/10/25 11:31 AM
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I agree. And this post is not to say that the physical features I mentioned are required for self-confidence. But just like I found myself more attractive after I started going to the gym and made focus on the "bubble butt" and since then get much more attention from all sorts on men... Just like that there are features that are objectively physically attractive to the majority of the oppisite sex. And these are features you can work on in comparison to something like height that is not changabl…
/r/seduction12/10/25 11:19 AM
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Yes and this is great. But in the gym the leg area is mostly domimated by girls, just my observation😆 Most guys are training the bizeps. On leg day they train quads. Just observation. I don't say all. But nice glutes by a guy is rather rare. I think they don't realize how very attractive it is for women too.
/r/seduction12/10/25 10:51 AM
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Well then don't. But someone else will and I'm sure the advice will make him more successful in dating life. Seeing my friend now with different eyes after his glow up.
/r/seduction12/10/25 10:47 AM
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Self-confident people win. Assholes are self-confident. But there are also nice self-confident guys and they win in terms of building happy relationships. Basic logic.
/r/seduction12/10/25 10:39 AM
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In the gym I almost never see the guys training them. But when I see a guy with nice glutes, I LOOK 😆 It's a very gaze catching part of the body in all humans.
/r/seduction12/10/25 10:35 AM
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You don't need but it will definitely add to your attractiveness :) I could feel it with this friend, I found him suddenly so attractive, my body was electrified. In the university he was just a friend. He didn't change in character, also stayed true to his values. But was smiling more and looked happier now.
/r/seduction12/10/25 10:33 AM
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Did you start dating?
/r/seduction28/09/25 05:08 AM
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But it's different when a guy has mindset to "get layed", get as many girls as possible to sleep with or however it's called here. By any means, pretending and lies. Or he is really interested in me and wants to learn me, puts effort into it and then it just doesn't work because we are incompartible in some levels. The first type of guys I want to avoid as much as possible. And all my female friends, from what I know.
/r/seduction27/09/25 08:00 AM
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There is nothing worse for me as a woman than to spend my time and energy on someone who is not looking for a relationship and just wants casual sex from me. I get it that in the learning phase it can happen that we find out, we are not comprtible. But many, just so many want sex only from me and PRETEND they want more at the begin. This is the most hurting lie and I will ask anything and observe anything to make sure, I filter out such liers.
/r/seduction27/09/25 07:36 AM
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You are female? Honestly, I have such a psychical blocade to do something like this directly😅 Probably I'm not the only woman.
/r/seduction26/09/25 08:10 AM
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What is clear interest for you other than inviting for the first date from a girl? Literally this is the only thing I would expect from a guy.
/r/seduction24/09/25 10:40 PM
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Oh, this video is painful to watch. Now that I think of it the way you see it. Yes, I need to show the interest much clearer. But at the same time I have this blokade, I need a guy to make the first invitation move or I'll of course think he is not interested in me. I know it doesn't make sense to guys probably.
/r/seduction24/09/25 03:47 PM
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May I ask, what was she doing what meant for you "taking you for granted"?
/r/seduction24/09/25 03:25 PM
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I think we are not yet at the stage where hugging him or touching his leg is appropriate. If he would ask me for a coffee, I would probably be brave enough for a hug. Gosh I'd love to touch him😁 Will maybe try "by accident".
/r/seduction24/09/25 03:16 PM
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I'd love to learn how to blow men's minds in the bed haha. But that is something you can only find out when you have slme foundation, trust, feelings (for women) already.
/r/seduction24/09/25 03:09 PM
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Yes, the meaning of the word seduction is different for women as most of us obviously don't mean sex by that but feelings. So qualities and behavour that help me to keep his interest longterm. Of course if I plainly suggest sex, almost every man, single (or even not) we gladly agree🙃
/r/seduction24/09/25 03:05 PM
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Well I think he likes me. When we see each other he always comes to chat for a bit. If he wouldn't like me at all, he would just say hi and go do his business further. But there is nothing more than that right now and gosh, is it hard for me to initiate something first.
/r/seduction24/09/25 02:56 PM
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The second sentense is top, I like😁
/r/seduction24/09/25 02:52 PM
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I think I wil continue giving very obvious signals😁 I see he takes it positive, so even if he is not into me, he will just have a pleasant feeling that someone likes him a lot.
/r/seduction24/09/25 02:47 PM
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Wow, thanks for such a long and helpful answer! Most things I think I try to do intuitively but it's very very nice to read it like that from a male perspective. I think I need to work more on ahowing clear interest😁 And also I'm getting a bit too shy with those who I find attractive, need to be more self confident.
/r/seduction24/09/25 11:40 AM
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I show my interest by making him many compliments, laughing at his jokes and keeping the eye contact consciously a bit longer than usually. Like giving all the signs. I see the very positive reaction. But it's extremely hard for me to invite him on a date myself🫣
/r/seduction24/09/25 11:24 AM
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All those years our mothers teach us girls "men like to chase". I just get a feeling it's all wrong, men like to see the girl is actually interested clearly😁
/r/seduction24/09/25 11:10 AM
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Thanks for the answer! What's emotional maturity for you?
/r/seduction24/09/25 11:08 AM
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As a woman I'd also like to know. Dear men, tell us more what is really important for you. Everything and everyone around was telling me since childhood that the men are chasers, hunters and I shouldn't do more than a smile and an eye contact. Only I'm still single in my 30s and reading the answers here have a feeling, the whole chasing thing is a myth.
/r/seduction15/09/25 08:08 AM
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