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$297 USD and asks for a shipping address. What are these guys up to?
/r/seduction13/05/26 06:27 AM
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You will get really crafty. My cousin and I just watch that old ass 80's movie Weird Science and then you pop in here with this shit lmao
/r/seduction08/04/26 02:35 PM
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"Hey, have you tried [new product on shelf], how is it?" works with existing products that you love or don't love too. Using the environment is such a simple tool that really does go a long way (sometimes)
/r/seduction09/03/26 03:52 PM
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Then she just calls me Daddy I can fix her
/r/seduction19/12/25 05:44 PM
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What is the turn off for approaching a group with dudes mixed in? I'm thinking it doesn't hurt to just be generally outgoing and social. It could boost social credibility and one of the guys might be a brother or gay bff to a single woman. What's your take?
/r/seduction26/09/25 02:37 PM
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tldr: a warm up doesn't have to be a captive audience NOR a cutie Just to add on to this, it doesn't even have to be people that work there and are "obligated" to talk to you. Talk to older women, older men, other guys your same age, and everyone else too. I once had a conversation with a 50's lady in line at a grocery store for absolutely no reason, just practicing being social. I saw she was getting some wine and I asked her if that's her favorite, then if she believes they actually repackage …
/r/seduction17/09/25 02:21 AM
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agreed and it sounds like OP didn't, until the last day (ish) missed opportunity?
/r/seduction13/08/25 01:36 PM
8

You get laid more than he does
/r/seduction21/05/25 02:54 PM
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physically conservative but mentally & emotionally liberal is what I'm hearing
/r/seduction21/05/25 03:36 AM
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nice! Nearly perfect one for each day of the week. That's a mistake though. Never buy an item in multiples of 7 ... that's how you end up with a Friday Fedora Always buy 6 or 8
/r/seduction15/05/25 10:21 AM
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Why not? Would you dance with the woman in a club? Would you talk them up over drinks at a bar? Would you approach her at the grocery store? Would you talk to them on the bus/train/in an Uber pool? Would you talk to them in a park? Would you talk to them in line for a concert? It's the same thing. OP was trying to move to a (still public) location so that they could have a conversation
/r/seduction30/04/25 02:40 PM
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I'm 50/50 on this. I felt the same way until my mid 20's, now I feel like if I know the dude then I'll give that respect. If he's a stranger, well.... a ring doesn't close a hole 🤷‍♂️ Here's my Pro & Con: Not Respectful of the Marriage It's not OP's relationship, OP didn't make an oath and commitment to the guy she's married to. As long as OP doesn't know the husband, OP doesn't really have to show any respect or owe anything to the guy. Pro Respectful On the other hand Not showing respect for t…
/r/seduction30/04/25 02:28 PM
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ok gotcha show her that you have interests other than her, show the passion you have in those interests. Share with her shit that you find interesting, doesn't matter if she would or not - share it regardless this lets her see that you have something to offer to her/her life, instead of her offering everything to add to yours I think that makes sense Thanks man
/r/seduction25/04/25 08:09 PM
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a couple quick questions .... treat her like an update you need to upload about your cool life lemme see if I understand what you mean here let's say I buy a new car, so I want to share it as an update about my cool ass life, ya? Now, how do I do that with a woman? I share to insta or snap or whatever, that I'm talking to a girl? nah... info what cool your doing right naw what does this even mean? perception and opinion from time to time throughout a month or week I'm guessing you mean to messag…
/r/seduction25/04/25 07:43 PM
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that was my first thought too
/r/seduction23/04/25 02:43 PM
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I 100% agree, I'm just saying that your comment wasn't helpful (in it's entirely) even though it has a good point in there
/r/seduction13/03/25 05:53 PM
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I'm good at it. Experiment. this isn't helpful
/r/seduction13/03/25 01:27 PM
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lol I saw this meme that said "if she can still walk to the kitchen to make a sandwich, then you don't deserve a sandwich"
/r/seduction08/03/25 04:08 PM
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I pictured an AI generated Toyota
/r/seduction30/01/25 05:11 PM
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yep, I got it earlier but that's a great explanation. Thanks for taking the time to write it out!
/r/PussyPassDenied05/04/23 09:30 PM
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Thanks, I'll have to dig into this after work
/r/PussyPassDenied04/04/23 05:31 PM
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ah, I think I see what you mean. I was taking it as non-mutual + mutual = 100% thanks
/r/PussyPassDenied04/04/23 05:30 PM
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the quote contracts itself, unless I'm interpreting it wrong. 70% of non-mutual violence was perpetuated by the female. next sentence: 70% of mutual violence, the batterer was the female. so which is it ... 70+30= 100%? or 70+70 = 100 %?
/r/PussyPassDenied04/04/23 12:51 AM
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nice! How'd it go?
/r/seduction08/12/21 04:49 AM
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it sounds to me like you're dating bubbly and physically attractive girls, and you're physically attractive yourself. So they talk and talk and carry the conversation and are just satisfied with being out with "that hot guy that all my friends know is hot" just my take on it, but what do I know
/r/seduction10/07/21 04:57 PM
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Can you imagine this situation from the other guys perspective? Just out, have a great night at the club. A little conversation with a a random shy guy. Then out of the corner of your eye you see rando's posture change, his sleeves roll up, and his energy just kinda magically..... adjusts. Then that guy starts slaying. All because of you and your inspiration. Damn, that has to feel good
/r/seduction04/07/21 05:20 PM
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Her: I have a boyfriend sorry!:) You: cool, would you also like to get some coffee? Well done though! It takes courage to have fear and push through anyway. Cold approaches are nerve wracking for anybody. For what it's worth though, if you try and just be an outgoing person... talk to fucking everybody about whatever... cold approaching the hot girls does get easier. Talk to the lady behind you in line at the grocery store, talk to the guy getting gas at the pump next to you. Just, everyone. And…
/r/seduction19/06/21 03:14 PM
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this applies to friendships as well, not just romantic relationships great points OP
/r/seduction16/06/21 04:17 PM
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you need grammar education, that's my opinion. It's not a big deal when your grammar is fucked up but people still understand what you're trying to communicate. But you don't even make sense. Are you already drunk?
/r/seduction30/03/20 06:48 AM
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Leaving my wife.
/r/seduction11/01/20 07:52 PM
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find something that you're not great at, spend time getting proficient at it... eventually you'll become confident in that activity. The more things you do this with, the more you'll feel confident in general. No good with dressing well? study it and change how you dress. Not good with cold approaching? get out there and be okay with failing and getting rejected. Approach strangers (guys and girls) and over time it'll become nothing to talk up a 10. Eventually you aren't hitting on a hotty, you'…
/r/seduction08/12/19 05:55 PM
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damn, that's a long couple of sentences. answer: yes, girls do this for reasons. It's stupid, but they do. Probably trying to make themselves feel/look less like a slut than she feels she is. In other words, she feels like she's slutty and by telling you she isn't slutty, she's actually is trying to convince herself she isnt a slut. I dunno, girls are confusing.
/r/seduction10/11/18 07:23 PM
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is there a way to describe what it is good for?
/r/seduction04/04/18 10:41 PM
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that's a good point, this works every. fucking. time.
/r/becomeaman06/01/14 09:40 PM
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Oh, I'm sorry, did the middle of my sentence interrupt the beginning of yours FTFY Apologizing (in this situation) seems passive-aggressive, which doesn't really get your point across direct and clear
/r/becomeaman06/01/14 05:59 AM
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just wondering... after you two decided on making Wed happen, did you continue txt'ing from Monday on? as in just to get to know each other better or decided the day and both of you went radio silent?
/r/seduction13/12/13 10:00 PM
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as in... you're not a minor but trying to get closer to minors? as in... you are both minors and want to avoid to much "public displays of affection" as in... you're looking for minor movements/escalation 'techniques' that are more subtle than what DiCarlo talks about? as in... this isn't a complete thought?
/r/seduction07/12/13 03:31 AM
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I agree with \u\anameijustmadeup and at the same time I feel like doing what OP said, to/with a girl. is entirely possible. it's a matter of finding out what turns on/attracts that particular girl, then dangle it just out of her reach
/r/seduction05/12/13 09:07 PM
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shootin from the hip here, but it sounds like she's saying a line from a song or a movie she likes. Has me stumped though. I can't really tell a girl what she will or won't know/do. I can tell her I'll take care of it and when she feels lost and confused I'll be the one to fix the pieces... but that's pretty beta material lol good luck!
/r/seduction03/12/13 05:00 AM
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Nadasurf
/r/seduction21/11/13 04:23 AM
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well said. I also watched your video about fear as your GPS... I like that concept a lot, and it makes prefect sense on so many levels. you just earned yourself a new subscriber
/r/seduction11/11/13 05:55 AM
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Love's passed down this way: Men - Women - Children Men can "love" women and children. Women can only love children (their children.) I'm new to TRP and am working through the sidebar readings, so bare with me. But did you just summarize Red Pill philosophy?
/r/TheRedPill16/08/13 04:07 AM
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This picture minus What this picture is... plus The stuff in this picture equals Not a rick roll
/r/seduction08/08/13 11:44 PM
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really? That's some bullshit. Now, correct me if I'm wrong... but isn't voting pretty much the point of reddit?
/r/TheRedPill24/07/13 03:56 PM
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and what's insane about this entire concept is that the submissive, nice, chivalrous, respecting, beta guy is completely taught by SOO many mothers (Definitely mine!) the entire time I was growing up. at 29 years old I'm finally just realizing "holy fuck, my entire interactions with all women have been shit because I was taught to be a pussy. I was taught to be super nice." Fucking blue pill was injected at birth. I think I'm starting to get it (the red pill) - and holy shit, what a god damned e…
/r/TheRedPill31/05/13 03:04 AM
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and quite frankly, I don't want to fuck a virgin anyway. They get all emotional sticky and... ya fuck that.
/r/TheRedPill31/05/13 02:50 AM
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Interesting point of view I haven't seen the movie and I read the book something like forever ago, but as I was reading the OP I kept thinking of the movie Casino. It's been a long time since I've seen that movie too, but everything that happened all of it was because of 1 single, blonde haired, woman. A single female brought down the mob in vegas, crazy. Thanks for posting this -I've been a red pill lurker for a month or 2 now and am trying to apply what I read to real world situations/examples…
/r/TheRedPill27/05/13 09:58 PM
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I've never heard of this site (tubecrush.net), so thanks for throwing it out there. It's good they have the little voting system: +33 or -7 out of total votes... (usually just over 200) gives a better idea of what's actually attractive to the visitors. I'm finding it difficult to find any common trends other than the following: In good shape (obviously goes to gym/isn't a sloth) Short hair - a fade with long on top seems most upvoted Shaving doesn't matter as long as it isn't long as fuck - keep…
/r/seduction26/05/13 04:15 PM
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Sounds like you're talking about a 2m2f situation... I'm pretty sure that OP was in a 2m1f situation. Good tactic for 2 and 2 though
/r/seduction22/04/13 09:40 PM
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It should be noted that if the bra is too small (or the girl too big) it's going to be difficult to get the grip that you need on the bra straps so you can snap your fingers to unhook it. So if your first "live" attempt goes south... find a skinnier chick, or assume she's wearing a bra that's too small Step 2. Go practice more, and try and up the difficulty.
/r/seduction22/04/13 09:35 PM
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you should invest in a bag of mints before your shift and when you drop off the check start to walk away then turn around and throw a "I just wanted to thank you guys for being such great guests, I hope you enjoyed your service" and pull out and set on the table a mint for each person at the table (four top gets 4 mints) Why? Because Reciprocity, that's why.
/r/seduction19/04/13 04:32 AM
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As someone who is absolutely fucking TERRIBLE with names, I can confirm that this method works well.
/r/seduction18/04/13 06:41 PM
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Personally, I'd follow it up with something along the lines of " well that's the vibe you seem to be putting off, I'm man enough to admit when I'm wrong so we should get to know each other better -" then some crazy ass question with no real point to it, like "if you had to choose one, alligator or a lion?" Let them decide if they're going to eat, wrestle, feed, hunt, bathe the alligator... It gets a laugh, then go on from there.
/r/seduction08/01/13 11:39 AM
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Interesting situation... Maybe instead of completely shutting down, instead find a different person in the group to fuck with while the game is still going. Then when it's over with, go to that friend (her boyfriend) and just be yourself with him as well. What I'm trying to say here is that Maybe it's not the unawarness throughout the night that got you into an awkward situation, but the idea that you were exclusively focusing on the one person (your female friend). Instead, try and spread it ou…
/r/seduction08/01/13 11:06 AM
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This guy's hurting for some game, but isn't is said that the best way to learn is to get out there and try shit out... Anyone have a YouTube channel of GOOD daygame?
/r/seduction03/01/13 02:42 PM
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I hate to say this, but it's posts like this one that give /seduction a bad reputation. Which is the most vulnerable, what girl will my techniques work best one, etc. They aren't prey and we aren't hunters looking to scam a girl into fucking us because she was tricked by a couple of smooth lines. What this community is about is improving our selves as much as we can, with the goal in mind that we'll be more attractive... In turn, we'll become seductive mother fuckers So, OP, I suggest you read t…
/r/seduction01/01/13 12:08 AM
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I used to have the same mentality about approaching women and getting their number and all that... I had this idea that if they knew I was hitting on them, they'd turn cold and my pickup would fail. So I was trying tricks and tactics to "outsmart" the girl into coming back to my place or giving me her number without realizing she just fell for my well set trap. One morning I woke up alone and realized my friend (more or less a natural) gets laid all the time and has tons of friends, why don't I?…
/r/seduction30/12/12 03:50 PM
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Agreed with the other 2 responses, get a job. Get a job, volunteer, join a pool league, dart league, bowling league (some areas have these for.minors, some don't.) You say you're "a teen" - but that doesn't say if you're 13 or 17... Either way, if your parents are sketchy about these things you need to build trust with them. They need to see, believe, and KNOW you'll make the best choice in questionable situations. I'm about to sound like a lame ass dad here, but this is the truth... Do your cho…
/r/seduction29/12/12 04:03 AM
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If a girl I was interested in said this to me, I'd assume we're in the friend zone and either redouble my efforts to change that, or move on. If it was a girl I was NOT interested in said this, I'd totally agree with it "yeah, it is, right? It's nice to be able to be completely open with a friend."
/r/seduction28/12/12 06:37 PM
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Definitely. Make plans to do something you think you'd enjoy... share those plans with other people. The most important part is to follow through with those plans, whether alone or not. I read in a magazine (psychology today? Maybe it was Wired... idk) that a study revealed what people look for when it comes to creating trust. to get people to trust you they need to see your own self control... so for instance, when sitting down for a meal slip in that you're on a diet - then pass on extra dress…
/r/seduction21/12/12 02:18 AM
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Love the irony of your name and the comment promoting action. I too recommend meditation, I really should get back to it daily... even for just 5 minutes a day.
/r/seduction04/12/12 04:34 PM
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from one extreme to the other... well, that's one way to find a balance lol
/r/seduction09/11/12 03:45 AM
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no it sure doesn't... airplane mode turns off all communication radios so it doesn't interfere with radio signals, especially useful when 100+ people with cell phones group into a single location... like an airplane. Hope that helps
/r/seduction05/11/12 08:29 PM
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oh sure thing, I was attempting to do the same actually. Just in case someone was on their phone, looking for the save option... figured I'd save them some time lol
/r/seduction29/10/12 05:38 PM
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there's no save button when I'm reading from my phone... edit: apparently there is a way to save without commenting... maybe it's new in a recent update? I had to "click" or touch on the title of this thread, a menu pops up and the third option down is SAVE.... I stand corrected
/r/seduction29/10/12 01:01 PM
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high 5s, nice job pat on the back, pat on back while hugging, a soft slap on the shoulder..... let me put it other words: we're friends, we're friends, we're friends, we're friends. These are exactly what tells people "hey, were just friends, nothing more," but a shoulder to shoulder "bump" while teasing, or playfully telling the girl to get away... she steps away then you wrap an arm around her and pull her closer than before, keep the arm there for a moment or longer... rest your hand on the l…
/r/seduction22/10/12 03:15 PM
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Upvote for managing to bring hockey into a /seduction post.
/r/seduction10/10/12 01:25 PM
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Perhaps, instead of the word "cesspool"... the word "orgy" would apply more acutely, in this context.
/r/seduction10/10/12 01:22 PM
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I'd like to think that I'd respond as if it was a shit test "your absolutely amazing eyebrows, I couldn't control myself. I just had to talk to them, but then you got in the way..." But the noob that I am would probably fall back into AFC mode in a panicked state.and be totally honest, and instead say "you caught my eye from over there... I thought you were cute as hell and wanted to know if your personality matched... so I came to talk to you. Any exciting plans this weekend?" just call me 'sup…
/r/seduction06/10/12 12:31 PM
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Thanks, the video examples help a lot... I'm a terrible dancer, but I can do this with confidence
/r/seduction05/10/12 02:49 PM
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The clothed part, would you say that's optional? lol
/r/seduction25/09/12 01:12 PM
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Posting to save comment, can't save from phone.
/r/seduction25/09/12 04:32 AM
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Yes, this and more of this. If I wanted to be inspired I'd go look at some fancy pictures you'd see in some Dr's office. If I want to get over my AA and overall awkwardness in social settings, I'll go to this sub. Confidence comes from knowing that you have what it takes to accomplish a task. So provide me with the tools to accomplish a task (getting the girl) and I'll have the confidence I need. But tell me to feel good about myself and just "be who you are"... well, I've been doing that since …
/r/seduction18/09/12 04:31 PM
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This. Asking "can I x..." makes me feel like the AFC I've always been. Some things, like messing up her hair or something that could possibly affect the rest of her night... I'd be willing to ask. But "can I smell your hair"... F that, I'm picturing this situation in a bar or loud club, I move in as if we're going to kiss then at the last second turn to her ear... this is how we're conversing. After about the 3rd or 4th sentence I'd pull back enough to look her in the eye, then switch sides and …
/r/seduction15/09/12 02:29 AM
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No, Not already in a conversation. As in, if you see 1 another from across the room And have not yet gotten to know each other. Make eye contact and wait for her to look away, after a moment or 2 If she does not look away then you crack a small smile. More like a smirk. Then if she still doesn't look away Get off your ass and go introduce yourself. ??? Profit!
/r/seduction13/09/12 06:08 PM
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This guy, understands boldness. Not so sure about confidence
/r/seduction13/09/12 12:19 AM
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I remember that one! RIP indeed
/r/seduction07/09/12 01:13 AM
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well said, thanks :)
/r/seduction30/08/12 07:01 PM
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And SCIENCE! ... science whores, yes.
/r/seduction24/08/12 06:43 PM
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This. Exactly this. Creepy, and also... when I was in 8th grade this girl accused this guy of rape (happened for real? Who knows, doesn't matter for this) then other girls saw the attention she got, and started claiming all this "he touched me" and "he said this to me" etc. This carried over into high school, but died out pretty quickly. As a result of seeing these guys be put though the modern witch trial, it's still in the back of my head before I hit on a girl/go for a kiss. TL:DR - rape accu…
/r/seduction23/08/12 05:57 AM
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I'm also new to this sub, but here's how I see it: the OP didn't say he had plans (this could allow her to eliminate herself by trying to not interrupt his precious plans) and instead told her she needs to find better people to be around (slightly implying himself). Also, if you were to say "I have plans with the guys" then you blow them off and go to her place, that says a lot about how you handle previous laid plans... and she may start to think things like: are you a man of your word? His fri…
/r/seduction18/08/12 11:48 PM
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I see what you did there
/r/seduction06/08/12 08:47 PM
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How about "I'll get some fresh air, but you can keep me company" put it on her to follow you around
/r/seduction05/08/12 05:16 PM
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This reminds me of something I heard once You can't control the direction of the wind, but you can set your sail and control your rudder.
/r/seduction04/08/12 05:36 PM
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Ebbs and flows, ups and downs, strikes and gutters, wins and losses, pop-flies and home runs, hole in 1 and a double boggy. Keep trying, the tides will change.
/r/seduction04/08/12 05:35 PM
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was getting gas, car with a couple girls pulled up a few pumps away. I finish, pay, then get in my car and wait for the girl to come out from paying and buying her soda. My friend asks what we're doing so I tell him "Hang on, I'm going to get a phone number real quick" She comes out, I yell over "Excuse me... Yeah, hi... I noticed you're wearing heels, which club are you headed to?" (it's a saturday night, around 10pm) She tells me she hasn't really decided, so I tell her the name of the place w…
/r/seduction03/08/12 05:06 PM
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This is exactly what I was thinking when reading the original post. on phone, so excuse any misspellings
/r/seduction25/07/12 02:59 PM
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Short, Sweet, to the point... well said
/r/seduction16/07/12 07:56 PM
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