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Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

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2	How Do They Turn It Off So Completely? These three things are exactly what I came to realize. The first she flat out said in a format available to anyone in the world—though she denied it when I confronted her on it (gaslighting me). The second I noticed as I reflected on the recent spiraling that “we” (i.e. me) we’re working on at the end. The third point I mainly awoke to through friends pointing out those projections (even her friends at times) as I would talk about why she wanted the divorce and events that happened following it.	/r/Divorce_Men	26/08/23 04:44 PM
1	How to deal with my daughter asking why we divorced? Kristen Bell (voice of Anna) is also a child of divorce.	/r/Divorce_Men	15/08/23 03:12 PM
1	Serving papers In my amicable case, I warned her and asked how she wanted to be served. Not saying that’s good for everyone. She was mad even though she asked for the divorce, but then asked for my neighbor to serve her at my place so I could explain it all after. I explained everything and she isn’t going to respond, just sign an agreement.	/r/Divorce_Men	23/08/22 04:51 AM
6	I still love my wife, she broke my trust Nothing truer. It took a while to realize that. But now I see all the things that I ignored or didn’t notice. You realize even more as you date or, more so for me, hangout with friends (old and new) that this person didn’t respect all of you. Not say they couldn’t, but it must have been long down a path of that not being possible for this to be the outcome.	/r/Divorce_Men	22/08/22 03:22 AM
2	Give it to me straight fellas Depending on the processes you take the custody agreements can be very specific on those sort of details. Or not if you prefer, but anything you think may ever be important to you, put it in now. Your custody documents can give details down to who “pays” to drive the kids back and forth, or what time on Veterans Day they have to be dropped off as opposed to the time on Presidents Day. It’s all up to you two. Or just you if she doesn’t respond and/or work on an agreement with you.	/r/Divorce_Men	14/08/22 02:34 PM
4	Kids at stbx Don’t let up. Sounds like you’ve got an ideal situation right now for them. They get some time with your ex, but it’s supervised as it should be in that situation. You get some free time to wallow/recoup/live. Hopefully you have family/friends to help so you can get the time you deserve and need to heal and rediscover yourself, without the concern of leaving them somewhere risky. Those first few times away are the hardest but it gets better!	/r/Divorce_Men	28/07/22 08:19 AM
2	Kids at stbx That’s how I read the title. Despite being in this community for a while.	/r/Divorce_Men	28/07/22 08:15 AM

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