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I completely agree with the traveling situation. You get to know people that are interested in new things and exploring. Even just going to cafe lingo's where you get to know different cultures can get you a long way in personal growth.
/r/seduction08/12/16 07:31 PM
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I can imagine the situation might've been awkward for her because it was a cold approach, so if you followed your lead, you are doing well. Good luck.
/r/seduction08/12/16 07:27 PM
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How old are you guys? If she's young and she is used getting hit on, that might be one of the reason she was shy about it.
/r/seduction08/12/16 07:19 PM
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I noticed girl friends were curious about how many girls I've slept with. In a social setting, you will also see people you met coming to you to say hi and exchange some banter because they enjoy your presence.
/r/seduction07/12/16 01:29 PM
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If you planned for a date, alone. If you planned for a night with friends, invite them.
/r/seduction28/10/16 03:58 PM
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Just ignore her. You just said it, she is doing it for entertainment. She either stops as well, or gets more flirty to the point where you call the shots. Also, work flings always end up bad.
/r/seduction25/10/16 10:20 PM
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I followed this train of thought when it happened to me with my ex. It's fair for both of you: she doesn't deserve a guy who is not 100% sure and thinks he is "settling", and you don't deserve to be in a relationship were you are constantly thinking "what if". Be honest about your feelings, that's the most important part of break ups. You don't want to leave her thinking there is still a chance. God, I hate break ups. BTW, you will be better off posting in /r/relationships.
/r/seduction25/10/16 10:12 PM
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One time, a female friend told me that one of her guy friends was hitting on this girl but she was not really into it. I told her to help him out by going with him and start flirting, hugging him and kissing him in the cheek. After she did this, the other girl completely changed her behavior towards him, it was amazing. If you female friend is open to this, it can help you out.
/r/seduction25/10/16 09:58 PM
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I completely agree with this, social validation goes very far. Be sure to bring a male friend so you are not the "gay friend".
/r/seduction25/10/16 09:56 PM
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You can ask for an advice on something (clothes, relationships, etc.) then outright reject anything they suggest. Later on, you can keep teasing them on the "outrageous" advice they gave you.
/r/seduction25/10/16 09:48 PM
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If she holds my stare and/or smiles back, I go.
/r/seduction25/10/16 09:36 PM
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All the behaviors are common sense. Don't be a douchebag and you are fine.
/r/seduction25/10/16 08:19 PM
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I like the content but it needs some formatting to distinguish dialogs, replies, etc.
/r/seduction24/10/16 10:27 PM
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I've found that the best outcome is when you immediately act on an IOI. I know it is hard, but I as soon as a girl gives me one or two gazes, I smile and go for it. Granted, I am tipsy when I do this with confidence, but before I couldn't even do it because I thought about it too much. I had a couple of girls tell me "wow, you are fast" when I approached them 5 seconds after I felt their gazes. Just imagine how much you would stand out from the rest of the guys who just look at them and do nothi…
/r/seduction24/10/16 10:03 PM
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Probably, you could've turned the conversation to a more playful context after the "can you smell it?" by responding "Yeah, I just came here to tell you how bad, before you went anywhere else" or something like that. I practice trying to be playful with my friends when having a numb conversation, so when I talk to a girl, it comes more natural.
/r/seduction19/10/16 08:36 PM
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Have you asked the women you chatted with out?
/r/seduction16/10/16 09:56 PM
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Personally, I find it easier to have female friends around because other girls don't see you as the creepy guy that's only looking to get some. Also, since you are already talking to girls, you get a confidence boost. It's important to project a sexual image among your friends though; I've been in situations where I felt like the "gay friend" and that didn't help at all. I've also been in the position where my friends are playful and flirty (in a friendly way), and I can feel other girls looking…
/r/seduction16/10/16 08:14 PM
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All good, it was a good break up.
/r/seduction15/10/16 11:10 PM
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Damn, for a moment you made me miss having a girlfriend.
/r/seduction15/10/16 05:22 PM
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As a side note, you should take the picture down. Last thing you want is her finding out you posted some pictures of her. She's cute nevertheless.
/r/seduction30/08/16 12:04 PM
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Good job, mate. Keep it up.
/r/seduction24/08/16 11:18 PM
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Yes, you are right, maybe that was the only thing she consciously noticed. And yes, the dynamic of the whole night led to that moment to work out. My point was that she pinpointed my confidence as something attracted her, which is nice to hear.
/r/seduction17/03/16 05:06 PM
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I liked your straight-forward writing style. One question, why did you act attentive in the first place? Did you feel that to work more than rather being cocky funny since the beginning?
/r/seduction22/02/16 06:46 PM
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IIRC, the ladder says that in case of any resistance at escalating, you can keep doing what you were doing before. But take it as a general guideline, it is not a by the book thing to flirt with a girl. Maybe she is particularly self-conscious of her legs or arms, so she doesn't like you touching them yet.
/r/seduction03/02/16 04:50 PM
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Oh, yeah that's true. What I did was grow it for 1-2 months without trimming (except upper cheeks and lower neck) then went to a barber shop so they could shape it. Going to someone who knows what's doing really makes a difference. Your beard is supposed to make your jawline look stronger and your face longer, so if you don't shape it well, you may just make your face look rounder.
/r/seduction31/01/16 05:00 AM
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What do you mean by investment on getting one? I wouldn't go that far as to implants :) Well, a hairy face attracts more women, that's weird.
/r/seduction31/01/16 04:36 AM
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Look at their ankles. Younger girls tend to have skinnier ankles. A hot 24+ girl has thicker ankles compared to a hot 18 year old.
/r/seduction31/01/16 03:28 AM
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After I got my beard, I could feel more girls were looking at me. Even girls I knew changed they way they behaved. I remember a couple of girls that wouldn't notice me or pay much attention to what I'd do/say. After I got my beard and met them again, I could feel their gazes and smiles. You look more attractive, which gives you confidence, which makes you even more attractive.
/r/seduction31/01/16 03:22 AM
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The "checkin" part seems like "hey, notice me". My opinion though.
/r/seduction28/01/16 09:57 PM
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I want to try this out and see if I can change the energy of a date.
/r/seduction20/01/16 08:20 AM
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You've probably read it before, but texting should be done mainly for logistics, especially if you don't have good texting game. So, you would avoid sending things like "hey, what are you up to?", "how's work?" just for the sake of talking to her. Try to text only with the intention of meeting up. I understand that sometimes a conversation happens, and what I do is that if whatever they reply doesn't keep the spark of the conversation, I don't reply. Don't be afraid of leaving a message in "read…
/r/seduction20/01/16 08:16 AM
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