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| 7 | How to break off a LTR | Beardy26 | /r/askTRP | 14/09/18 10:02 PM | |
| 1 | I’m going overseas, how to handle LTR? | Beardy26 | /r/askTRP | 28/09/18 05:45 AM | |
| 1 | Dealing with LTR and moving overseas | Beardy26 | /r/askTRP | 13/09/18 01:31 PM |
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| 1 | Training 7 days a weekSounds like your concerned that your heading down the addiction route. Seek balance, bro ... find other things in life that interest you. intense, two times a day, 7 days a week does not sound like balance.... As with most things in life, moderation and consistency in fitness are the keys to success. Too much of anything can be a bad thing, and there is no need to do more than the minimum needed for maximum results. It is important to realize that overtraining in fitness not only doesn’t deliver… | /r/askTRP | 16/02/19 03:28 AM |
| 1 | Plate has chlamydiaGo to planned parenthood for free. Antibiotics are like $6 so prob won't need to put thru insurance. Tell planned parenthood you don't have insurance and you'll be fine | /r/askTRP | 16/02/19 03:17 AM |
| 1 | Ways to self improve.I agree - learn a skill. Don't waste your time on Video games and TV. This is the time in your life that you should make something of yourself. At least your reading, thats good. Do you work? Don't underestimate the value of getting a job, hard work and earning your own $. Nothing is sweeter than getting a paycheck and buying something you saved up for. Soon enough you'll be on your own and that paycheck will go to mundane things like a gas or electric bill. That shit burns me when I get a $350 … | /r/askTRP | 15/02/19 04:47 PM |
| 2 | [16M] Should I quit playing video games entirely?Well, I can't speak for you or anyone else, but... The only major regret I have in my life is the time I wasted playing video games earlier in my life. As you get older, you realize that the only thing of true value in life is time. We are all dealt 168 hours a week and nobody, no matter how rich or powerful can ever get more than anyone else...time is a truly the only non-renewable resource. When I was younger I spent A LOT of time playing games (especially World of Warcraft for 7 years). Now I… | /r/askTRP | 15/02/19 04:12 PM |
| 1 | Dilemma with Future + FamilyAre you the one that posted a few weeks ago in /MMA that your parents are letting you take a gap year to go train in Thailand & Australia? If thats the case, I think your pretty fuckin lucky and sound a little spoiled. But hear me out, because I was young too and made many mistakes. I ultimately wished I had listed to people I trusted. MMA is a hobby. Nothing says you can't be serious about your hobby and honing your craft. But everything in life comes with balance too. If you REALLY want to emb… | /r/askTRP | 14/02/19 09:09 PM |
| 1 | At the end of highschool and not sure what to do next?What is passive income? Hustling? As a job? I read through your previous posts and I’ll be honest I’m genuinely worried about you. At 18 you’re doing some pretty high test shit. What happened to that kid that was just a year ago telling another kid “don’t ever do drugs”. You’re obviously of above average intelligence... so how did you slip into what looks like pretty heavy drug use? | /r/askTRP | 03/11/18 04:04 AM |
| 1 | At the end of highschool and not sure what to do next?I assume your graduated. What’s your plan? | /r/askTRP | 03/11/18 01:34 AM |
| 1 | At the end of highschool and not sure what to do next?Very true. I don’t disagree. But the kid should know that they are making a huge life decision based on what they are receiving in advice from an 18-year-old who admits they use drugs and are an alcoholic No disrespect meant. | /r/askTRP | 03/11/18 01:26 AM |
| 3 | At the end of highschool and not sure what to do next?Hi. I agree with what you say about military. Please Don’t take this the wrong way but (GrimTRP) I’ve noticed on a number of previous posts you label yourself as a self-professed alcoholic and pill user (your words, not mine)? Please be careful telling a kid to not even give college a try. I was that SAME kid at 18. Wish I hadn’t listened to the BS of people telling me I didn’t need college to make good money. Yeah it happened to Bill Gates etc but that’s just not the norm. Most 18 year olds get… | /r/askTRP | 03/11/18 01:20 AM |
| 2 | At the end of highschool and not sure what to do next?Jesus don’t join the military if your afraid of being tied down for a 4 years commitment in College. At least you can just get your associates (2 years) quit, move, transfer or whatever if you want if your just not digging college. With the military, it’s literally a jail sentence you can’t get out of if you decide you hate it. And you will, if your 1/2 way smart. Because you have to follow a bunch of dumb ass rules that you can’t ever question no matter how much you disagree. Your programmed to… | /r/askTRP | 03/11/18 01:02 AM |
| 1 | I’m going overseas, how to handle LTR?OK, but I’ve never broken off an LTR. Can everybody give me some ideas about how to go about doing it, with causing the least amount of pain for the girl | /r/askTRP | 28/09/18 03:26 PM |
| 1 | I’m going overseas, how to handle LTR?In my head, I know you’re absolutely right. But of course when it comes to actually doing it I’m a coward | /r/askTRP | 28/09/18 03:25 PM |
| 1 | I’m going overseas, how to handle LTR?I think I do love her, yes.... but if your asking me if I’d marry her in the future, I’d say No. | /r/askTRP | 28/09/18 06:08 AM |
| 2 | Plate cancels to go fuck another guy who could make it an hour earlierSounds like A lot of crying over spilled milk. Understandably Your ego is bruised | /r/askTRP | 16/09/18 02:49 AM |
| -4 | How to not pay for stuff on dates?Apparently chivalry is dead. Just seems like a lot of squirming around to avoid buying a cup of coffee | /r/askTRP | 16/09/18 02:35 AM |
| 1 | How to break off a LTRAnother country | /r/askTRP | 16/09/18 01:07 AM |
| 30 | Do you greet everyone in the room?Definitely always say hi and acknowledge them. Otherwise they will just talk about you like you’re some asshole. Let them feel totally awkward, by acknowledging them | /r/askTRP | 15/09/18 04:37 PM |
| 1 | Can't tolerate parentsOK then, there are plenty of things online that will Help you to figure out who their relations are if you type their names in Some ideas 1) Whitepages.kr 2) In South Korea, the “Hojeok Deungbon” is a family registry similar to a census that maintains records of births, marriages and deaths. These records typically give the person’s place of residence, marriage status, occupation and children’s names, and they’re assumed to be very reliable. 3) https://www.familysearch.org/wiki/en/Korea,_Directo… | /r/askTRP | 15/09/18 04:30 PM |
| 1 | Can't tolerate parentsAnd you want somebody else to bankroll it? .... Because you don’t want to make the effort to actually work as a piano teacher | /r/askTRP | 15/09/18 04:26 PM |
| 1 | Can't tolerate parentsSometimes people have to do things they don’t necessarily love doing. That’s called life | /r/askTRP | 15/09/18 04:26 PM |
| 1 | Can't tolerate parentsDo you know your parents names? Or do you just call them mom and dad | /r/askTRP | 15/09/18 04:24 PM |
| 1 | Can't tolerate parentsDo you know their names? | /r/askTRP | 15/09/18 04:22 PM |
| 1 | Can't tolerate parentsThey may be too old for the Internet, but you aren’t. If you have their names you can find their telephone numbers on the Internet | /r/askTRP | 15/09/18 04:21 PM |
| 1 | Can't tolerate parentsSouth Korea? I would say you should pay your grandparents a visit | /r/askTRP | 15/09/18 04:20 PM |
| 1 | Can't tolerate parentsTwo very different cultures | /r/askTRP | 15/09/18 04:19 PM |
| 1 | Can't tolerate parents$30 an hour is good money…. Maybe you need to expand your availability | /r/askTRP | 15/09/18 04:19 PM |
| 1 | Can't tolerate parentsWrite to them? | /r/askTRP | 15/09/18 04:17 PM |
| 1 | Can't tolerate parentsIf you know their names, you can find anything on the Internet | /r/askTRP | 15/09/18 04:16 PM |
| 1 | Can't tolerate parentsWhere do they live, and where do you live? In the same country? | /r/askTRP | 15/09/18 04:15 PM |
| 1 | Can't tolerate parentsThey probably aren’t going to give you money to buy a laptop, because what you’re saying is you’re going to drop out of CS. Buying you a laptop will only enable that. That seems dumb to them. You have nothing to show them Why this is a great idea. What is the most money that you have made so far in app development? The most successful people already have an ongoing successful business in the works with run away growth that forced them to drop out. They couldn’t do both at the same time and they … | /r/askTRP | 15/09/18 04:10 PM |
| 1 | Can't tolerate parentsIf you were able to accomplish all these things, then you are able to go out and get a job and make 3K for a laptop. I guess this is the reason why people are questioning your motives. What are you doing for work right now? | /r/askTRP | 15/09/18 04:04 PM |
| 1 | Can't tolerate parentsOK, this is helpful to know for understanding the situation better. I assume you are getting help and are on meds to help control that now? Sounds like they were in denial. Do your grandparents know about this? | /r/askTRP | 15/09/18 04:02 PM |
| 1 | Can't tolerate parentsYou have to ask your parents for permission to talk to your grandparents? That sounds odd but I imagine culturally appropriate. I would just reach out to my grandparents directly and not worry about it. It seems you’ve burned bridges with your parents anyway | /r/askTRP | 15/09/18 04:00 PM |
| 4 | Can't tolerate parentsBitch? LMAO | /r/askTRP | 15/09/18 01:44 PM |
| 2 | Can't tolerate parentsAre your mental issues related to drugs or alcohol?. I could see how that would play heavily on them not giving you money | /r/askTRP | 15/09/18 01:41 PM |
| 1 | Can't tolerate parentsHave you talk to your grandparents about this? What did they say | /r/askTRP | 15/09/18 01:38 PM |
| 1 | Can't tolerate parentsDo you have any siblings? | /r/askTRP | 15/09/18 01:37 PM |
| 3 | Can't tolerate parentsSo I don’t understand what you’re trying to get from TRP if you’ve already cut ties. Generally speaking I think it’s always best to be the bigger person. It sounds like you’re very stubborn and feel entitled, and may have created a lot of this situation yourself. So they won’t give you a laptop, so you delete their phone numbers and walk away | /r/askTRP | 15/09/18 01:35 PM |
| 2 | Can't tolerate parentsIt sounds like you don’t have a very good relationship with them. So why should they give you money? You literally do nothing to develop the relationship. If you’re fighting with them all the time, that’s really no incentive for them to give you anything | /r/askTRP | 15/09/18 01:30 PM |
| 2 | Can't tolerate parentsSo just because your parents and your grandparents have money, you expect them to give it to you. Why don’t you talk to them about providing a loan, where you would pay it back in six months or a year? | /r/askTRP | 15/09/18 01:29 PM |
| 2 | Can't tolerate parentsHonestly, that’s why you see a therapist. They can help you sort through all of that and Either validate how you’re feeling or tell you to stop being an ass wipe | /r/askTRP | 15/09/18 01:28 PM |
| 2 | Can't tolerate parentsAre you seeing a therapist now? Because honestly I think you’re not going to get the answer you need from TRP. You have way too much shit to work through. | /r/askTRP | 15/09/18 01:11 PM |
| 1 | Can't tolerate parentsHow was it a different story? So what, they are affluent? | /r/askTRP | 15/09/18 12:59 PM |
| 3 | Can't tolerate parentsWow. So apparently they didn’t take care of you for the first 21 years? So if they don’t buy you a laptop, you won’t help them out when they get older and they need help? | /r/askTRP | 15/09/18 12:56 PM |
| 3 | Can't tolerate parentsSo basically you’ll just cut them out of your life because they won’t buy you a laptop or give you what you want? Sorry But I think most of us you sound like a giant spoiled brat. At 21 years old you should be able to get a job and buy your own laptop. You sound very entitled. You find no “utility” in your parents because they have stopped throwing money your way. | /r/askTRP | 15/09/18 12:52 PM |
| 2 | How to break off a LTRYes she knows and yes she expects one. Or at least every time we talk about at the crying start al I avoid saying the obvious that we will break up | /r/askTRP | 15/09/18 12:04 PM |
| 1 | Dealing with LTR and moving overseasI feel you’re right. But how do I deal with the crying part. The problem is I really do like her | /r/askTRP | 14/09/18 09:57 PM |
| 1 | Dealing with LTR and moving overseasSo what should I do? Should I break it before I leave, or just leave and deal with it from afar Hoping she will come to her senses and realize a LTR is not for her | /r/askTRP | 14/09/18 09:56 PM |
| 1 | Dealing with LTR and moving overseasThis is probably the best, I have read so far, the best advice even though it’s hard to follow through with dumping somebody really like. It would be easier if she did something shitty to me | /r/askTRP | 14/09/18 09:54 PM |
| 1 | Dealing with LTR and moving overseasYou think that women are more likely to cheat? I feel like I would be more likely to cheat and that’s why I’m considering ending it soon | /r/askTRP | 14/09/18 09:53 PM |
| 1 | Dealing with LTR and moving overseasDo you really think she would do that? | /r/askTRP | 14/09/18 09:52 PM |
| 1 | Do you all usually smash on the first date?I guess it all just depends on what you want out of it. If it all you want is a quick meaningless fuck then yeah. | /r/askTRP | 14/09/18 09:45 PM |
| 2 | whats the youngest an 18 yr old should be withWell if you’ve ever dated a 15-year-old, and dated an 18-year-old you wouldn’t have to ask this question. They are two totally different types of women emotionally. A 15-year-old is but a child. So if you want lots of drama, crying, passive aggressive behavior, having to share her with all her girlfriends and just basically ridiculousness… Go for the 15-year-old. Quite honestly 18 is the cut off for a decent relationship. | /r/askTRP | 14/09/18 09:36 PM |
| 1 | Social Game: Do you kino attractive female friends?Mind fuck them? Umm ... I would be so careful with this…So if the whole college thinks you’re a creep, why would you do stuff like that to reinforce you’re already in the toilet reputation Don’t tease a girl only to Reject her and make her feel like They are some piece of shit. Then all the Girls will be flapping again about you. Right now based on everything you’ve said in previous threads, you need to work on Getting your reputation back. The girls right now see you as a user. I don’t think mi… | /r/askTRP | 14/09/18 09:17 PM |
| 1 | Can't keep erection during penetrationGo to the doctor. If this is not something that was normal for you, something else is going on with you physically. Have Some blood work done. If your blood work comes back perfect then it truly is all mental. Are you under a lot of stress at work/your relationship? | /r/askTRP | 14/09/18 07:07 PM |
| 1 | Do you all usually smash on the first date?LMAO. Well I think that all this advice is coming from men so far, and I honestly think that perhaps women have a better perspective on how to answer a question on “Should I try to smash you on the first date”. So I’ve asked a few more women just to be sure, and everyone said to me that any guy who does that on a first date I think is a total prick. But my women friends aren’t slut/idiots/desperate. So OK, yeah if all you want is a one night stand slut, the answer is probably yes. But if even th… | /r/askTRP | 14/09/18 05:24 PM |
| 1 | Dealing with LTR and moving overseasSo it seems the consensus is to have the “remain friends” conversation? I’ve started to do this, and the crying is starting to be a bit much and of course draws me back in and then I just avoid the conversation again. Of course I have feelings for her, and I don’t want to hurt her feelings | /r/askTRP | 14/09/18 05:20 PM |
| 1 | How do you qualify high school girls?Are you from that country or from overseas? No campus/no dorms ... Sounds more like a community college back in the US. Def Not an easy set up if so | /r/askTRP | 14/09/18 05:17 PM |
| 3 | How do you qualify high school girls?This comes down to my thing about treating a girl the right way. Be a gentleman, and this kind of thing doesn’t happen. You really set yourself up good for the fall. Is there anyway to correct it? Tell the girl you were an idiot, and the comment was mean and taken out of context. Tell her it’s things that you would never have normally said, but you were trying to act cool or that you were frustrated and you know Can see how stupid and idiotic you were. Tell her whatever it takes to help her cool… | /r/askTRP | 13/09/18 02:51 PM |
| 2 | How do you qualify high school girls?OK wow, that explains a lot. So is this really a campuswide thing, or are you just expecting that any girl you try to date will then be confronted by the friends. But honestly, what the hell were you thinking. Apparently you already did shit where you eat lol. But putting it in a text to anyone, let alone another girl. Boy that is a lesson hard learned. At least if it’s verbal, you can always deny it. But in writing… That could haunt you forever | /r/askTRP | 13/09/18 02:46 PM |
| 1 | How do you qualify high school girls?What the hell did you do Sorry… That is probably too personal a question but it might help in the context of the conversation | /r/askTRP | 13/09/18 02:21 PM |
| -1 | Do you all usually smash on the first date?So I have seven sisters. I asked them all individually what they thought. Every single one of them has a different personality. From prude to slut LOL. But they all said the same thing. They appreciate a man that acts like a gentleman on the first date. It’s better to leave them wanting more. You’ll find that when it does happen, you get much better sex as well. | /r/askTRP | 13/09/18 02:16 PM |
| 2 | How do you qualify high school girls?OK, reading back some of your previous messages it all is making a bit more sense. So you’ve put yourself in a situation where it sounds like you’re a social outcast at college, and you’re reaching out for different avenues. I would say, really work hard on improving your rep at college. Dating high school girls is just weird, When you’re that much older and have been in the military | /r/askTRP | 13/09/18 02:10 PM |
| 4 | How do you qualify high school girls?How do you qualify this *** kid *** Exactly, She’s just a child. You’re a man. Even more so if you’ve given military service | /r/askTRP | 13/09/18 01:46 PM |
| 2 | How do you qualify high school girls?I think you might want to check out your math. That would mean that most highschooler’s would be graduating at 20 or 21 in your state. That’s not the norm. Most freshmen are 14 or 15. Most seniors are 17 or 18. | /r/askTRP | 13/09/18 01:42 PM |
| 1 | How do you qualify high school girls?5000 people is a lot of choice. Saying you don’t want to shit where you eat is like dating someone you work with in an office with 10 people, not a 5000 person college. So bare with me as I’m playing devils advocate a little bit but, If you’re worried about dating people at your own college are there no other colleges around you? I just think you’re asking for trouble. And You’ve been in the military? How do you think her father is gonna think about you, a grown man who’s been in the military, c… | /r/askTRP | 13/09/18 01:36 PM |
| 0 | How do you qualify high school girls?OK so if you’re a senior in college, why on earth would you have any interest and a 16/17year-old. Just sayin. Do you really need that drama. You can’t find College girls to fuck? | /r/askTRP | 13/09/18 01:17 PM |
| 1 | How to rebuild your life and mental health after tough times?I think you need professional help. Not trying to be mean, just thinking you have way too many issues to be taking advice from strangers | /r/askTRP | 13/09/18 01:11 PM |
| 12 | Advice on getting a vasectomy at 22 years oldWhy on earth would you do this? What if you later decide you want to have kids | /r/askTRP | 13/09/18 01:09 PM |
| 1 | Depression recovery: RP advice?Prozac. Hate to say it, but it helped me out of depression. I’m happy as shit when I’m on it. I haven’t been on it for a few years now, don’t need it now but it did help me get out of depression in high school. I so didn’t want to go to college, but glad I did. I thought it would be like high school II and I couldn’t stand the idea of that. It was nothing like high school. I blossomed in college, as I think many people do. The first semester can be tough because of all the change, but you finall… | /r/askTRP | 13/09/18 01:05 PM |
| 7 | Do you all usually smash on the first date?A man who isn’t as scared of his sexuality? Honestly that’s a bunch of BS lol. I mean, you are on a date with a female right? I think she probably gets that you’re into chicks, if so. OK, I’m guessing you’re probably a teen. That’s ok. But take it from a guy who has done it both ways and If she does like you, then your just scaring a good one away. If you like the girl, then show some respect. It’s OK to be a gentleman. That will make you more desirable. If she likes you, she’ll be anxious to go… | /r/askTRP | 13/09/18 12:44 PM |
| 2 | Closing Date with just making out - bad idea?Always good to leave her wanting more | /r/askTRP | 13/09/18 12:23 PM |
| 1 | Do you all usually smash on the first date?Only if you don’t plan on seeing her ever again. Because a girl who does it on the first date, is definitely not a girl you want for an LTR. I used to do that type of thing when I was in my teens, and I found that those type of girls always give me an STD. It happened three times over a two-year period, and it was always with the type of girl who would have sex on a first date. if your OK with the fact that she does that with every single guy she ever comes into contact with, then if you like he… | /r/askTRP | 13/09/18 12:20 PM |
| 2 | How do you qualify high school girls?First to make sure she’s not 15, otherwise you’re probably committing statutory rape LOL Sorry for the buzz kill | /r/askTRP | 13/09/18 12:10 PM |
| 2 | [M25] How to get a better circle when you know literally no one?Americanize yourself as much as possible. Get yourself a set of threads that help you to fit in better. Sadly Americans are afraid of Foreigners, at least at first. What you wear after you become there friend makes no difference, but you’re trying to make yourself approachable. Americans tend to see Indians as geeks, and geeks tend to be boring dudes. What kind of hobbies do you have? | /r/askTRP | 13/09/18 12:04 PM |
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