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| – | I don’t respect women who expect chivalry beyond basic respect, the same basic respect that everyone is entitled to, regardless of gender.I'm not buddha but he might ask, forget coexisting, Can anything exist at all ? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/08/26 08:17 PM |
| – | I don’t respect women who expect chivalry beyond basic respect, the same basic respect that everyone is entitled to, regardless of gender.Me too... Actually I don't like those types of people too. Like don't go into other people's personal space. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/08/26 08:07 PM |
| – | I don’t respect women who expect chivalry beyond basic respect, the same basic respect that everyone is entitled to, regardless of gender.No it's greedy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/08/26 07:49 PM |
| – | I don’t respect women who expect chivalry beyond basic respect, the same basic respect that everyone is entitled to, regardless of gender.My husband loves to spoil me with his time, energy, effort and money. We’re both very happy & it works for us. It sounds like you’re selfish. Do I need to say anything? 🤔 Also buddha said no one is happy, life is suffering. 🫡 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/08/26 07:47 PM |
| – | I don’t respect women who expect chivalry beyond basic respect, the same basic respect that everyone is entitled to, regardless of gender.Congratulations you see yourself as baby machine... Also doesn't the child will be yours too? because you said his baby? Patriarchal men wet dream about women who reduce them self to someone who gives them baby. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/08/26 07:43 PM |
| – | I don’t respect women who expect chivalry beyond basic respect, the same basic respect that everyone is entitled to, regardless of gender.It's rare that princes marey someone out of royal familes also princes are becoming rare with race of democracy. Still best of luck keep finding your prince. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/08/26 06:28 PM |
| – | I don’t respect women who expect chivalry beyond basic respect, the same basic respect that everyone is entitled to, regardless of gender.4 words:- Beggars can't be choosers. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/08/26 06:26 PM |
| – | I don’t respect women who expect chivalry beyond basic respect, the same basic respect that everyone is entitled to, regardless of gender.I said **hate | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/08/26 06:24 PM |
| – | I don’t respect women who expect chivalry beyond basic respect, the same basic respect that everyone is entitled to, regardless of gender.Yes, I said it. I also once told my 5-year-old niece, “Don’t be greedy, you’re only getting one chocolate.” I had no idea I was committing the grave moral offense of “moral failing” her. 😭😂 Calling someone greedy is crime now ?? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/08/26 06:21 PM |
| – | I don’t respect women who expect chivalry beyond basic respect, the same basic respect that everyone is entitled to, regardless of gender.So we aren't supposed to hate parichay and it's effect? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/08/26 06:21 PM |
| – | I don’t respect women who expect chivalry beyond basic respect, the same basic respect that everyone is entitled to, regardless of gender.I don’t think that. I believe that, statistically, many women end up in horrible relationships because there are more powerful, abusive men than powerful, abusive women. However, the ones who make themselves dependent on men or heavily reliant on male validation can make it much harder for themselves to leave those relationships. Also, just to clarify, I believe men have historically held more power because of centuries of patriarchy, not because men are divine or biologically superior. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/08/26 06:17 PM |
| – | I don’t respect women who expect chivalry beyond basic respect, the same basic respect that everyone is entitled to, regardless of gender.I also don't respect people whose morals are based solely on some book. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/08/26 06:08 PM |
| – | I don’t respect women who expect chivalry beyond basic respect, the same basic respect that everyone is entitled to, regardless of gender.Sorry what ? I posted this on some other sub reddit recommend to post on this sub (now reddit does that) you can see my post history lmao I'm not interested to make counter posts here. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/08/26 06:05 PM |
| – | I don’t respect women who expect chivalry beyond basic respect, the same basic respect that everyone is entitled to, regardless of gender.I didn't said any of the things you are saying in your comment. Please read post again. I'm not being sarcastic seriously I said none of the things you are talking about, it would be helpful if you will quote and respond to particular things I said. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/08/26 06:04 PM |
| 3 | Having good morals has never been implied to be sexually attractive.I don't agree with everything you said but yes I agree with overall premise | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/08/26 08:00 PM |
| 3 | You shouldn't compare people you've been intimate with eachother. It's a breach of trust and privacy for everyone involved.😂 lmao. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/08/26 03:40 PM |
| 2 | You shouldn't compare people you've been intimate with eachother. It's a breach of trust and privacy for everyone involved.To answer your question, No, I say it was rage bait because of phrasing and words used. Do you often target people and get passive agressive when they make point by making everything about them ? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/08/26 01:16 PM |
| 2 | You shouldn't compare people you've been intimate with eachother. It's a breach of trust and privacy for everyone involved.I think about pizza, I think about burger. I never compared them with sandwich. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/08/26 12:34 PM |
| 1 | You shouldn't compare people you've been intimate with eachother. It's a breach of trust and privacy for everyone involved.Lmao I didn't 😂😂 I never. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/08/26 11:49 AM |
| – | You shouldn't compare people you've been intimate with eachother. It's a breach of trust and privacy for everyone involved.This. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/08/26 11:35 AM |
| 1 | You shouldn't compare people you've been intimate with eachother. It's a breach of trust and privacy for everyone involved.Did I say about absolute privacy or I said just not to compare? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/08/26 11:28 AM |
| 2 | You shouldn't compare people you've been intimate with eachother. It's a breach of trust and privacy for everyone involved.I personally can't even compare physical attributes. But I think some people who are obsessed with hight and figure can do it. I genuinely think we can't compare most traits because people are really very different from eachother. But that's just my way of thinking. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/08/26 11:25 AM |
| 0 | You shouldn't compare people you've been intimate with eachother. It's a breach of trust and privacy for everyone involved.That said, the psychological dynamics going on here is different from this discussion. Nobody likes being compared negatively with others in almost no circumstances. No one is on the other side of this. What the original poster was on a about is how she's handling wanting a safe husband and an exciting sexpartner. They used word dominating to rage bait men who are insecure about their mescularity (red pill, blue pill) ethire it was smart rage bait or it was lack of imotional intelligence. They s… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/08/26 11:20 AM |
| 3 | You shouldn't compare people you've been intimate with eachother. It's a breach of trust and privacy for everyone involved.What is scale of someone being kinder? Why are you with someone who you don't consider kind? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/08/26 11:17 AM |
| 0 | You shouldn't compare people you've been intimate with eachother. It's a breach of trust and privacy for everyone involved.As I said, they're different people. You can compare them, but the comparison doesn't really make sense, it would be like comparing a fish to a bird. At best, you can compare their physical appearance. Beyond that, almost everything about a person is multidimensional and interconnected, so it can't be reduced to a single scale. Any meaningful comparison requires a common scale, and human beings simply don't fit onto one. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/08/26 11:10 AM |
| -1 | You shouldn't compare people you've been intimate with eachother. It's a breach of trust and privacy for everyone involved.Do you compare them with your current partner? It's pointless even if you do, people change with age, time also different people have different personalities. You can't compare people atleast in my opinion. People aren't one dimensional statistical problem you can put in equation. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/08/26 10:57 AM |
| -2 | You shouldn't compare people you've been intimate with eachother. It's a breach of trust and privacy for everyone involved.People who moved on from their exes usually don't... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/08/26 10:53 AM |
| 0 | You shouldn't compare people you've been intimate with eachother. It's a breach of trust and privacy for everyone involved.As I said people must be smart enough to not do it in real life but if they are doing it they are dumb. Most people on reddit are just writing fiction anyway. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/08/26 10:48 AM |
| 1 | You shouldn't compare people you've been intimate with eachother. It's a breach of trust and privacy for everyone involved.I'd still say it's better to avoid saying things like that for two reasons. First, your ex didn't consent to you sharing details of your intimate life with your current partner, so it's a breach of their privacy. Second, those comparisons can make your current partner feel uneasy, insecure, or awkward. It's perfectly fine to say, "I like this," or express your preferences. But there's no need to add, "My ex used to do it better." P.S. I don't know how true this is, but sitcoms often joke about w… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/08/26 10:47 AM |
| 1 | It makes perfect sense to have different standards for casual sex and relationships and in fact, men do it tooI mean the neighbour was her ex. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/08/26 10:38 AM |
| 1 | It makes perfect sense to have different standards for casual sex and relationships and in fact, men do it tooImagine your mom telling your dad, "You're such a softie. Our neighbour used to dominate me in bed and make me his bitch, but he wasn't financially stable, so I settled down with you. I have different standards for marriage and for one-night stands." Most people would find that deeply hurtful. Nobody speaks to their partner like that in the real world if they care about the relationship. Those kinds of comparisons can permanently damage trust and make the other person feel devalued. You also sho… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/08/26 10:36 AM |
| 1 | It makes perfect sense to have different standards for casual sex and relationships and in fact, men do it tooImagine your mom telling your dad, "You're such a softie. Our neighbour used to dominate me in bed and make me his bitch, but he wasn't financially stable, so I settled down with you. I have different standards for marriage and for one-night stands." Most people would find that deeply hurtful. Nobody speaks to their partner like that in the real world if they care about the relationship. Those kinds of comparisons can permanently damage trust and make the other person feel devalued. You also sho… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/08/26 10:27 AM |
| 1 | It makes perfect sense to have different standards for casual sex and relationships and in fact, men do it tooMany describe wife material as someone who’s not a slut. I don't like the s word or any similar word because it target women for their sexual identity, still it's better than triggering your own partners insecurity. If you don’t want to be settled for then remain single, rather than having someone put on an act for you. "If you want to be treated like an animal, call it "dominance." I'd rather stay single. And be the animal for men who won't stay in your room after he is done fucking you." (/Jus… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/08/26 10:22 AM |
| 1 | It makes perfect sense to have different standards for casual sex and relationships and in fact, men do it tooYou're an inconsiderate AH if you don't care about making your partner feel insecure. As OP said, men often have different standards for casual hookups and long-term relationships. Many describe "wife material" as someone who is loyal. Likewise, many women in the real world make similar distinctions. However, if someone says they "settled" for their partner because they were less dominant, less attractive, or simply more suitable as a spouse, that's insensitive. As a rule of thumb, don't praise … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/08/26 10:08 AM |
| 0 | Men get approached by women less because women rarely cold approach.Both men and women get judged for approaching multiple people with little seriousness, no matter what people claim. But women are judged more harshly. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/08/26 04:50 AM |
| 2 | Men get approached by women less because women rarely cold approach.No approaching doesn't mean talking. Approaching means asking out, asking for number, texting with intrest of asking out. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/08/26 04:33 AM |
| 1 | It makes perfect sense to have different standards for casual sex and relationships and in fact, men do it tooI know that, but no—it will definitely trigger many men who have experienced the harsh side of patriarchy. It's okay to settle in marriage; everyone does to some extent. As I said, people even settle in different ways during hookups. But using those kinds of terms is hurtful, and it will definitely trigger people's insecurities. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/08/26 09:20 PM |
| 2 | Men get approached by women less because women rarely cold approach.I didn't say women approached me because I'm tall. I said some women approached me because they're the kind of women who approach any tall or attractive guy they find interesting. It wasn't just me, I saw them doing the same with multiple other guys. So I don't know why you are trying to make this about me when it's clearly more about them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/08/26 08:58 PM |
| 1 | Men get approached by women less because women rarely cold approach.I didn't say women approached me because I'm tall. I said some women approached me because they're the kind of women who approach any tall or attractive guy they find interesting. It wasn't just me, I saw them doing the same with multiple other guys. So I don't know why you are trying to make this about me when it's clearly more about them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/08/26 08:58 PM |
| 4 | Men get approached by women less because women rarely cold approach.I didn't say women approached me because I'm tall. I said some women approached me because they're the kind of women who approach any tall or attractive guy they find interesting. It wasn't just me, I saw them doing the same with multiple other guys. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/08/26 08:58 PM |
| 2 | Men get approached by women less because women rarely cold approach.No one warm approach because you rarely get feelings for someone. Also it's little bit hard to approach but people easily mistake cold approach as genuine intrest and go with the flow and then end up in relationships as well sometimes. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/08/26 06:39 PM |
| -1 | Men get approached by women less because women rarely cold approach.And it's right men should do same. Actually cold approaching doesn't mean you respect other person or you are interested in them. It's just you trying your short. Some red pill and black pill men act as if women are so much desried and they aren't desired just because no one cold approach them. 😂 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/08/26 06:19 PM |
| 3 | Men get approached by women less because women rarely cold approach.Did you read the post? I make some point. Cold approaching is so uncool and desperate. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/08/26 06:16 PM |
| 0 | Men get approached by women less because women rarely cold approach.No it says, women want or not want to touch my pp tell nothing about me, women in gernal or society, it's more complicated than that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/08/26 04:23 PM |
| 1 | Men get approached by women less because women rarely cold approach.I literally said that in the post but you didn't read it, did you? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/08/26 04:19 PM |
| 0 | Men get approached by women less because women rarely cold approach.Life experience. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/08/26 04:19 PM |
| 2 | Men get approached by women less because women rarely cold approach.Aren't we making same point. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/08/26 04:19 PM |
| 1 | Men get approached by women less because women rarely cold approach.Yes I too agree things are getting changed at slow rate but yes they are getting changed. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/08/26 02:57 PM |
| 2 | Men get approached by women less because women rarely cold approach.So we are making same point?? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/08/26 02:48 PM |
| 0 | Men get approached by women less because women rarely cold approach.Translation :- "I don't have the attention span to read the whole post, but I somehow have the audacity to comment on it and call it BS." | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/08/26 02:44 PM |
| 1 | Men get approached by women less because women rarely cold approach.I don't like people who think calling someone a sl** is an insult. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/08/26 02:44 PM |
| 3 | Men get approached by women less because women rarely cold approach.No, I meant that most women who approached me weren't actually interested in me, at least not in an exclusive or romantic sense.😭😭 How is it bragging ? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/08/26 02:42 PM |
| 0 | Men get approached by women less because women rarely cold approach.“Everyone's a whore, Grace. We just sell different parts of ourselves.” ― Tommy Shelby (Peaky Blinders) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/08/26 02:41 PM |
| -7 | Men get approached by women less because women rarely cold approach.Translation :- "I don't have the attention span to read the whole post, but I somehow have the audacity to comment on it and call it BS." | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/08/26 02:40 PM |
| 0 | Men get approached by women less because women rarely cold approach.Translation :- "I don't have the attention span to read the whole post, but I somehow have the audacity to comment on it and call it BS." | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/08/26 02:40 PM |
| 1 | Men get approached by women less because women rarely cold approach.Who used the S-word? I even personally respect prostitution as a profession. I was simply sharing my observations. “Everyone's a whore, Grace. We just sell different parts of ourselves.” ― Tommy Shelby (Peaky Blinders) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/08/26 02:39 PM |
| -2 | Men get approached by women less because women rarely cold approach.On the other hand, many more men cold approach because patriarchal, capitalist, heterosexual norms encourage that behavior without costing them much social respect, whereas women are judged far more harshly for doing the same. I litrarlly said men do it more than women 😭😭 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/08/26 02:36 PM |
| 2 | It makes perfect sense to have different standards for casual sex and relationships and in fact, men do it tooThe OP is deliberately trying to trigger men's insecurities by using loaded terms like "less dominant." That's not an argument; it's emotional manipulation. Most people settle in marriage, but realizing that your partner settled for you would be devastating. People settle for hookups too, but since they're primarily about sex rather than long-term emotional commitment, it's naturally less painful. The reality is that people settle far more often than they'd like to admit. Instead of addressing t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/08/26 02:15 PM |
| 2 | It makes perfect sense to have different standards for casual sex and relationships and in fact, men do it tooMost people settle in marriage, but realizing that your partner settled for you would be devastating. People settle for hookups too, but since the relationship is built around sex rather than long-term emotional commitment, it's naturally less painful. The truth is that people settle 99% of the time, no matter how much they try to deny it. You're deliberately overcomplicating the discussion by throwing around words like "dominated" because you know they'll provoke men who are insecure about thei… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/08/26 02:13 PM |
| 1 | It makes perfect sense to have different standards for casual sex and relationships and in fact, men do it tooMost people settle in marriage, but realizing that your partner settled for you would be heartbreaking. People settle for hookups as well, but since the primary goal is sex rather than a long-term emotional commitment, it tends to be less painful. The reality is that people settle 99% of the time, regardless of what they say. You're making the discussion unnecessarily complicated by using words like "dominated" simply to trigger men who are insecure about their masculinity. That says a lot about… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/08/26 02:10 PM |
| 1 | Theres nothing wrong with porn, the industry is the problemYes, I agree that all media involving humans sells some degree of human suffering or labor, but it also depends on what the audience is actually interested in: the performance or the performer. I don't think most people watch Spider-Man primarily because they care about the actor. They may appreciate the actor's physique or attractiveness to some extent, but the vast majority are there for the character, the story, and the performance. Still the morden media is highly specialised that's why I av… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/08/26 06:19 PM |
| 0 | Theres nothing wrong with porn, the industry is the problemAs I said, porn is wrong for many reasons. It objectifies human beings, commodifies intimacy, and turns sex into a product. But let's not pretend it invented misogyny or abusive attitudes toward women. Long before pornography became widespread, there were countless men and women who believed mistreating women was completely normal. (Or considered disrespecting or harmful behaviour as normal or agressivenes.) Porn is not the root cause of people being uneducated about sex or holding embarrassing … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/08/26 02:18 PM |
| 0 | Theres nothing wrong with porn, the industry is the problemAs I said, porn is wrong for many reasons. It objectifies human beings, commodifies intimacy, and turns sex into a product. But let's not pretend it invented misogyny or abusive attitudes toward women. Long before pornography became widespread, there were countless men and women who believed mistreating women was completely normal. (Or considered disrespecting or harmful behaviour as normal or agressivenes.) Porn is not the root cause of people being uneducated about sex or holding embarrassing … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/08/26 02:17 PM |
| -1 | Theres nothing wrong with porn, the industry is the problemSo, do you expect porn producers to show three or four dates, meaningful conversations, emotional intimacy, and then sex? 😭😭 That would defeat the entire purpose of pornography. Porn can't be realistic because it's porn. Porn isn't sex; it's a performance designed for an audience. Porn is porn, and sex is sex. Confusing the two is exactly why pornography becomes problematic. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/08/26 12:17 PM |
| -1 | Theres nothing wrong with porn, the industry is the problemI also disagree with the OP, but I think your argument is really about the violent aspects of sex rather than pornography itself. Violence and roughness can exist in real-life sexual relationships too, BDSM, roleplay, love bites, hickeys, and countless other consensual kinks demonstrate that. There are even far more extreme fetishes. Porn is problematic for many reasons, but neither sexual violence nor children being exposed to inappropriate adult concepts is a problem unique to pornography. Tho… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/08/26 12:02 PM |
| 6 | Theres nothing wrong with porn, the industry is the problemEven amateur creators are still performing for the camera. Whether it's a couple or strangers doesn't matter, a performance is still a performance. The distinction between amateur and professional pornography is about the industry, not the underlying concept. The problem isn't confined to the porn industry; it lies in the concept of pornography itself. Two people recording their intimacy for the purpose of a third party watching it, especially in exchange for money, turns intimacy into a product… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/08/26 11:56 AM |
| 9 | Theres nothing wrong with porn, the industry is the problemThere are two fundamental problems with relying on pornography for sexual satisfaction. First, porn is not sex. Most pornography is scripted, edited, and produced to entertain viewers, not to portray genuine human intimacy. If your sexual satisfaction comes primarily from fiction rather than real intimacy, that's a problem. Second, pornography commodifies and objectifies human beings by turning intimacy into a transactional, parasocial product. Human beings are not commodities to be consumed. As… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/08/26 11:37 AM |
| 1 | Men struggling to date don't deserve free advice from women online.Can't the same be said about anything on the internet? These days, people on Reddit often don't try to help each other. Instead, they assume your question is rhetorical and immediately start pushing their own agenda or propaganda. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/07/26 01:29 PM |
| 1 | Having women as friend makes your dating life significantly easier as a manFor few people it's true but for most it's not true. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/07/26 02:23 AM |
| 2 | Not having sex is an acceptable outcomeAs hetroesexual male I don't even ask I think if women is comfortable she will ask. But I was making general point. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/07/26 02:15 AM |
| 10 | Not having sex is an acceptable outcomeIf someone said no two times . you wait until they ask 🤔🤔 don't ask third time. It's not specific to sex. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/07/26 05:02 PM |
| – | Women of Reddit, I genuinely want to understand something about long-term relationships from your perspective.I said it's a figure of speech. People use phrases like "the only valid reason" all the time. It's a common expression, not a literal claim that no other valid reasons exist. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/07/26 04:47 PM |
| – | Women of Reddit, I genuinely want to understand something about long-term relationships from your perspective.I meant that it's one of the valid reasons for shifting from a casual to a serious relationship mindset, not the only one. For me, stopping the need for external validation is one of the most widely accepted reasons. And yes, I was speaking figuratively. There are plenty of other valid reasons as well. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/07/26 04:45 PM |
| – | Women of Reddit, I genuinely want to understand something about long-term relationships from your perspective.This is only valid reason. (/Obviously it's just figure of speech not literally the only reason.) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/07/26 04:36 PM |
| 0 | Urbanization Is Contributing to Both Sexlessness and Hypersexuality.People used to go out primarily to build community, and intimate or romantic relationships often developed naturally from those social connections. Today, many people go to third places specifically with the goal of finding a date or hooking up, which can contribute to a more hypersexualized social environment. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/07/26 03:46 PM |
| 1 | Tradwives reduce men to a paycheck and a bodyguard while Feminists want an actual partner.It's not about being a feminist or a tradwife. I respect people who are genuinely true to their values instead of pretending just to fit in with a group. Many people follow conventional roles simply to maintain a certain social image, and those are often the kinds of partners who make life miserable because they care more about external validation than the relationship itself. When a relationship is about the two people in it, rather than showing off or creating the image of the "perfect couple,… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/07/26 02:20 PM |
| 0 | Urbanization Is Contributing to Both Sexlessness and Hypersexuality.Cities and urbanizations are different things. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/07/26 01:25 PM |
| 1 | Urbanization Is Contributing to Both Sexlessness and Hypersexuality.🥱 you are just racist. Just say multiculturalism don't need to mention your white race twice in the sentence as if it's problem cause by non-white people. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/07/26 09:57 AM |
| 0 | Urbanization Is Contributing to Both Sexlessness and Hypersexuality.I don't find dating it self romantic small town or big town but I was talking purely in terms of people getting action or not. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/07/26 08:40 AM |
| 0 | Urbanization Is Contributing to Both Sexlessness and Hypersexuality.When you and your friends are in the same school, school becomes as much about socializing as studying. Suddenly, you have two jobs: getting an education and maintaining your social life. It's hard to do both equally well. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/07/26 07:19 AM |
| 0 | Urbanization Is Contributing to Both Sexlessness and Hypersexuality.So urbanization ruin the dating in both villages and cities. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/07/26 07:16 AM |
| 1 | Gold Diggers Are Mostly a Myth, Truly Wealthy People Rarely Date Outside Their Social CircleOhhh I didn't know it 🫡 will delete this post... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/07/26 07:13 AM |
| 1 | Gold Diggers Are Mostly a Myth, Truly Wealthy People Rarely Date Outside Their Social CircleHow much poor person (like us) can spend which worth wasting time on them? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/07/26 07:12 AM |
| – | Men should also wear wigs, height boosters , normal makeup etcMen don't care about fake nails, and they get ick from painted faces. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/07/26 06:56 AM |
| 3 | Urbanization Is Contributing to Both Sexlessness and Hypersexuality.They don't have those connections simply because of the nature of metropolitan cities. Most people barely know their neighbors, and it's rare for children of family friends to grow up together, something that's still common in smaller towns. There's a big difference between being friends with someone whose parents have known your parents since high school (or childhood) and being friends with someone who comes from a completely different linguistic and cultural background. I'm not against divers… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/07/26 06:53 AM |
| 1 | Most people in comitted relationships retain backup options. So much that I think it’s completely normal and reasonable that they do.Most people also cheat 🥱 I don't know how you define normal, but it's not good or okay if you are in exclusive relationship. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/07/26 06:26 AM |
| 1 | Asking Someone Out Doesn't Feel Right. It Simply Should Not Be Treated As The Universal Standard Or The Ultimate Measure Of Confidence And Romance.See again I never said, "People shouldn’t ask someone out" not even once. >Pretty sure this is a universal norm in dating This is exactly the nuance I'm talking about. People treat it as if it's a universal norm, but it isn't, at least not in the textbook version of modern dating (exchange numbers, chat, ask each other out, kiss on the first or second date, maybe have sex on the third date, etc.). There's nothing inherently right or wrong about this approach. Like almost everything else in life,… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/07/26 03:05 PM |
| 2 | Asking Someone Out Doesn't Feel Right. It Simply Should Not Be Treated As The Universal Standard Or The Ultimate Measure Of Confidence And Romance.Ultimately, I do not think there is one correct way for relationships to begin. Friendship, shared experiences, mutual circles, family introductions, and direct dating can all lead to healthy relationships. My point is not that asking someone out is wrong. It simply should not be treated as the universal standard or the ultimate measure of confidence and romance. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/07/26 01:20 PM |
| -1 | Asking Someone Out Doesn't Feel Right. It Simply Should Not Be Treated As The Universal Standard Or The Ultimate Measure Of Confidence And Romance.The reason I clarified the definition in the very second line of my post is because someone in the comments argued that what You was describing wasn't "asking someone out." That's why I expicitly defined the context in which I was using the phrase. I also think that, in everyday usage, "asking someone out" generally implies romantic or sexual interest rather than simply getting to know someone. Again, I'm not saying we should ban it or that people should never ask someone out on a date. My point… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/07/26 01:16 PM |
| 1 | Asking Someone Out Doesn't Feel Right. It Simply Should Not Be Treated As The Universal Standard Or The Ultimate Measure Of Confidence And Romance.So, are you arguing that this culture doesn't exist, or that it isn't treated as a universal norm for meeting new people by certain people? If not, then I think the only real issue you have with my post is that I could have chosen my vocabulary more carefully. Actually, I want to thank you for pointing that out. English isn't my first, second, or even third language, so I do make mistakes with vocabulary from time to time. But I think we largely agree on the substance of my argument. I also hope… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/07/26 01:11 PM |
| 4 | Asking Someone Out Doesn't Feel Right. It Simply Should Not Be Treated As The Universal Standard Or The Ultimate Measure Of Confidence And Romance.When I say "asking someone out," I mean approaching a stranger at a club, bar, concert, church, or any public place. I also include asking out a colleague or an acquaintance who is not your friend. I clarified that in the very second line of the post. I think you're projecting an interpretation onto my argument that I never made. I'm not naive enough to think that "asking someone out" only refers to asking out strangers. In this context, I was specifically referring to cold approaching and the "… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/07/26 01:07 PM |
| 1 | Asking Someone Out Doesn't Feel Right. It Simply Should Not Be Treated As The Universal Standard Or The Ultimate Measure Of Confidence And Romance.I want to clarify one thing: I'm not commenting on Western culture as a whole. I don't even think it's uniform; it's incredibly diverse and accommodates many different cultures, values, and ideologies. I'm specifically talking about modern dating culture, or what you refer to as "cold approaching," which I believe has been largely popularized through certain forms of Western media. That said, I'm open to being corrected if it has a different origin or if I'm placing too much emphasis on Western … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/07/26 01:03 PM |
| 1 | Asking Someone Out Doesn't Feel Right. It Simply Should Not Be Treated As The Universal Standard Or The Ultimate Measure Of Confidence And Romance.Did I make a comment about Western culture as a whole, or did I simply say that this particular dating culture originated in modern Western media, which is consumed across the world, including in India, and then comment on that specific cultural phenomenon? As someone from India, especially an urban area strongly influenced by Western media, I find myself somewhere in the middle. I support individual freedom and have no issue with people choosing modern dating. I simply do not find pickup lines,… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/07/26 12:53 PM |
| 0 | Asking Someone Out Doesn't Feel Right. It Simply Should Not Be Treated As The Universal Standard Or The Ultimate Measure Of Confidence And Romance.I never claimed it was universal. In fact, I explicitly said in the very first line that it isn't. My point is that across social media and popular culture, it is often portrayed as if it were the universal norm. That said, I also think the culture genuinely exists, and many people view what you call "cold approaching" as a sign of confidence. In fact, an entire self-help industry has been built around promoting that idea. There are entire industries built around this idea. Bars, pubs, and clubs… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/07/26 12:51 PM |
| 1 | Asking Someone Out Doesn't Feel Right. It Simply Should Not Be Treated As The Universal Standard Or The Ultimate Measure Of Confidence And Romance.Lol, on almost any global online platform, the largest share of users is likely to be from India because it has the world's largest population. The second-most populous country has a firewall that restricts access to much of the global internet. It's funny how delusional some of you are if you think that's surprising. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/07/26 12:43 PM |
| 1 | Asking Someone Out Doesn't Feel Right. It Simply Should Not Be Treated As The Universal Standard Or The Ultimate Measure Of Confidence And Romance.Lol, on almost any global online platform, the largest share of users is likely to be from India because it has the world's largest population. The second-most populous country has a firewall that restricts access to much of the global internet. It's funny how delusional some of you are if you think that's surprising. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/07/26 12:43 PM |
| 1 | Asking Someone Out Doesn't Feel Right. It Simply Should Not Be Treated As The Universal Standard Or The Ultimate Measure Of Confidence And Romance.Lol, on almost any global online platform, the largest share of users is likely to be from India because it has the world's largest population. The second-most populous country has a firewall that restricts access to much of the global internet. It's funny how delusional some of you are if you think that's surprising. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/07/26 12:43 PM |
| 1 | Asking Someone Out Doesn't Feel Right. It Simply Should Not Be Treated As The Universal Standard Or The Ultimate Measure Of Confidence And Romance.I'm curious about your perspective. How do you distinguish asking someone out from cold approaching? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/07/26 12:40 PM |
| 1 | Asking Someone Out Doesn't Feel Right. It Simply Should Not Be Treated As The Universal Standard Or The Ultimate Measure Of Confidence And Romance.The phrase "asking someone out" usually carries an implicit expectation of romance or dating rather than simply getting to know each other... This was the point I was trying to make. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/07/26 12:35 PM |
| 2 | Asking Someone Out Doesn't Feel Right. It Simply Should Not Be Treated As The Universal Standard Or The Ultimate Measure Of Confidence And Romance.How do you make friends with people from the sex you aren't sexually attracted to (the same sex for most heterosexual people and the opposite sex for most homosexual people)? Also, I never said that either arranged setups or modern dating culture is completely right or completely wrong. My point was simply that both have their own strengths and weaknesses. Neither is perfect, and neither should be treated as the universal norm. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/07/26 12:35 PM |
| 2 | Asking Someone Out Doesn't Feel Right. It Simply Should Not Be Treated As The Universal Standard Or The Ultimate Measure Of Confidence And Romance.>when people say "asking someone out" they don't mean cold approaches. I know that, and I'd even say there's nothing wrong with asking someone out if you find them attractive or charming, want to know them better, or simply like their vibe and want to become friends. But here's my point: do people usually ask out someone from the sex they aren't sexually attracted to (the same sex for most heterosexual people or the opposite sex for most homosexual people)? Generally, they don't. The phrase "ask… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/07/26 12:31 PM |
| -4 | Asking Someone Out Doesn't Feel Right. It Simply Should Not Be Treated As The Universal Standard Or The Ultimate Measure Of Confidence And Romance.I don't have firsthand experience of Western culture, but there is an entire industry built around it, from pickup artists to shows like Friends, How I Met Your Mother, and Sex and the City, all of which either portray or comment on this dating culture. I also know this isn't true for everyone in the West. As I said, even there this is a relatively recent cultural development. I never claimed it was universal. In fact, I explicitly said in the very first line that it isn't. My point is that acro… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/07/26 12:25 PM |
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