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Lmfao
/r/seduction11/04/21 04:54 PM
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I’m so tired of reading bullshit misogyny on this sub that “men don’t peak until their 30’s,” as if to imply women peak earlier. Anyways, OP, I'm a female in med school too and I think you need to work on YOU for a while before you'll be successful with women. You sound burned out as hell and also a little bit depressed (ie "I have no life, no friends, no personality, didn't go to a prestigious school or residency, my failures, not good enough", etc). Dude, you're a doctor, and in the real world…
/r/seduction11/04/21 06:41 AM
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This is a great question! Clean bathroom with soap, clean towel, plenty of TP, a waste bin with a liner. No pink rings in the shower or toilet, this is my litmus test. Some kind of individuality, one guy had a bunch of books and surf boards and I thought it was kinda hot. Another dude had art and guitars.
/r/seduction10/04/21 08:17 PM
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That’s perfectly fine to take it slow. Shows you’re genuine. But you still have to be confident with your intentions. I don’t know the context to your dating situation but generally speaking, even if you want to not rush anything, you can still give her compliments and try and break the touch barrier early. Make steady eye contact during conversation and go in for the kiss at the end of the date if she wants to too. Just basic normal stuff and then amp up as you feel more comfortable. She’ll get…
/r/seduction07/04/21 07:11 AM
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You show her you're interested but don't need her by having a solid life outside of her that you love living... goals, friends, hobbies, career, gym You should never fall into the "I'll never be happy without you" thing, even in a long-term relationship. That's co-dependent and emotionally needy... not healthy A better substitute would be, "you make me so happy and I want to make you feel like a queen" and yeah, as a woman, I'd respond to that honestly at any stage
/r/seduction07/04/21 02:27 AM
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Being dominant is different from being aggressive
/r/seduction02/04/21 09:37 PM
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Nope. Just nope. You're far better off wearing just a plain black tee. Think of how you're portraying yourself... it comes off as silly and boy-ish on a date. There's zero sex appeal. You might get away with it with a younger woman but most won't take you seriously. Keep it for yourself and wear it at home and if she eventually becomes your girlfriend then you can have a pajama party and wear it then.
/r/seduction24/03/21 04:14 PM
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....I have great style actually lol
/r/seduction24/03/21 04:12 PM
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On behalf of all women everywhere, thank you. Wasn't planning on reading the whole post but the first one was so oddly specific (yet spot on) that I kept going and wasn't disappointed. That actually happened once where an otherwise good looking dude showed up in a graphic dragon tee to a rooftop bar date and I was instantly turned off...
/r/seduction24/03/21 04:34 AM
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Not particularly but I'm older now and I know better than to make sweeping generalizations about people, especially when my sample size is n=1.
/r/seduction22/03/21 05:12 PM
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I have a story that might be helpful. So I'm a girl that is attracted to tall guys. But back in the day I met a shorter guy. He was confident, ambitious, smart, treated me well, had good style, and was in great shape. He just seemed miles ahead of everyone else. We went to a club and he came home with me that night. We actually ended up together for a couple years. Towards the end of our relationship his insecurities came out - about my exes, his height, his "size" down there, etc. None of that …
/r/seduction20/03/21 07:50 PM
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I read your post a few times.
/r/seduction15/03/21 11:30 PM
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This.
/r/seduction15/03/21 05:45 PM
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Non-verbal communication is important for both genders. That aside, this is written to suggest women are somehow different creatures incapable of communicating directly, guided solely off of emotions as opposed to logic, society, and personality. Your comparison of women to an animal is quite literally dehumanizing, and I sincerely hope your readers understand the underlying misogyny of this. If you want to be good with women then yeah, read her body language and try and pick up on her emotional…
/r/seduction15/03/21 01:53 PM
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It’s the tone and the focus of this post that is cringy. For one, it came across as OP humble bragging that he’s been with 100 women. That, and some of the commenters wanting to get to “those numbers” which is just a cringy way to look at women and dating in general - as a notch on the belt for validation as opposed to a human to have a connection with, be it in a casual sense or as someone to build a more serious relationship with. My other issue with this is that you do NOT need 100 women to f…
/r/seduction22/02/21 01:19 AM
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This sub has great advice but posts like this are unbelievably cringy
/r/seduction22/02/21 12:03 AM
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I’m not sure what you mean by jumping up a level or two in attraction. I will say.., She does seem a little odd for pressuring you to open up so soon or maybe there was a disconnect in what she wanted from you and how you perceived it, not sure. Either way, what I said earlier still stands. It’s cool that you recognize that and can admit that to yourself. It’s hard for me too and I see a therapist to help me. There have been times where I’ve intentionally pulled out of the dating market to work …
/r/seduction08/02/21 10:47 PM
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Can confirm... had an ex tell me about how his dad died, how it affected him, how he became more spiritual afterwards... he was so calm and mature the way he talked about it. I still remember that conversation even years later because I saw him differently afterwards. And yes, shortly after he opened up he got laid lol
/r/seduction08/02/21 09:40 AM
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this\^
/r/seduction08/02/21 09:36 AM
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Hang on, hang on, hang on. This is an overgeneralization of sorts and I think a lot of things are getting muddied. Sensitive can be very attractive, but being emotionally unregulated is not. There is a difference. "Sensitive" is as a man who is in tune with his emotions, is empathetic, isn't closed off to feeling things, can talk about what he feels and address it in a constructive way instead of bottling it up, is honest, has a softer side (likes animals or cuddling for example) and/or can rela…
/r/seduction08/02/21 09:32 AM
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Fair enough. Shouldn’t have generalized. That’s also a valid point
/r/seduction06/02/21 08:39 PM
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This is true and is a big part of sustaining attraction in anything long-term. Just another perspective - this sub is mostly dudes but as a woman, I asked my mom once how I should deal with one day not being physically attractive when I’m older. This was her answer. Enjoy life, find passion in little things, radiate positive and authentic energy - you learn to make yourself happy and be true to yourself and people will be drawn to you automatically. Ever since then, I’ve started to notice older …
/r/seduction06/02/21 06:52 PM
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When I see a picture of a guy holding an animal, I instinctively think of myself as the thing he’s holding and am attracted to that protective instinct. I think most women are like me
/r/seduction06/02/21 06:34 PM
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To the previous commenter, good on you for going to therapy and that’s a great point about having a self-confirming bias. I agree and I hope OP realizes he has this. To be honest, it’s surprising to me that people care so much about what a future wife will think of him getting an escort or that OP will have to hide it. If he does eventually want to meet someone (which it doesn’t sound like he does) I would not encourage you to hide anything... strong marriages are built off of open communication…
/r/seduction31/01/21 05:59 PM
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Well said
/r/seduction31/01/21 10:33 AM
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This makes me sad. First of all, nothing wrong with escorts and if you aren’t having luck and need your needs met then by all means partake! Just wear a condom and don’t be a dick to her just because you are paying. Sex workers deserve respect just like anyone else. Other than that have fun, maybe you’ll boost your sexual confidence a bit and have some new experiences. That said.... no.... escorts are not better than a girlfriend and anyone who tells you otherwise has not been in love with someo…
/r/seduction31/01/21 10:19 AM
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Believe them
/r/seduction27/01/21 02:13 PM
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What are the 12 Attractive Traits and Behaviors of a High Status Woman? Just curious
/r/seduction23/01/21 02:36 AM
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Also, I would add 13. Comfortable being vulnerable and honest about how he feels without being needy, clingy, or overly attached.
/r/seduction22/01/21 08:59 PM
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Female here... I read this and a few guys I was hung up on for a while popped into my head. Good list.
/r/seduction22/01/21 08:58 PM
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Narrative is powerful, totally agree. To add - if talking about a relationship, women also choose men based on connection and compatibility as well. Don't discount that.
/r/seduction23/12/20 08:32 PM
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This! Consent is always sexy
/r/seduction11/12/20 01:13 AM
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Yeah! Cheesy in the right context is a great way to make her laugh and let her guard down just enough for you to swoop in without it being some big nerve-wracking thing. This works if she's giving you the vibes, but if you say it out of the blue when the date doesn't have clear chemistry then yeah, I guess it's the bad-kind of cheesy
/r/seduction07/12/20 02:57 AM
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Female here. Why isn’t this upvoted more? That made me smile just reading it. Now that I think about it, I had a guy use a pretty similar line mid-date and we kissed right there in the bar.
/r/seduction06/12/20 07:05 PM
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Don't do hair ties or bobby pins. I dated a guy with a stack of those and I instantly got turned off thinking he has a girlfriend or that I'm one of many women (which may have very well been true but it's a turn off to know that)
/r/seduction29/10/20 07:48 PM
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YES! I heard this advice long ago and it has really works well. So underrated but probably the most important element of attraction. Also, for ladies especially, if there's a lull in the conversation just continue to make eye contact and give a sweet smile. Obviously don't be creepy about it but it's not as hard as it sounds. I tried this once and the guy complemented my smile. It also has the byproduct of making YOU more attracted to THEM if they match you, which makes total sense when you thin…
/r/seduction09/07/20 11:54 PM
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