Beautiful-Act-8639 Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

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5	Article writer uses ancadotal experiences to fearmonger Not that this is the point, but 24% of a dating app's profiles being women is bleak, especially considering how many profiles (especially women's) are fake/scammers.	/r/EverydayMisandry	28/07/26 04:05 PM
9	So… subject elderly men to abuse… bc they were “bad parents” Exactly! Especially because we're talking about older generations. Nowadays men and women are more likely to both work full time and, surprise surprise, childcare and house work are divided more evenly (despite feminists refusing to acknowledge this is the case). Because that's how it works: you divide work up depending on who is available to do that work.	/r/EverydayMisandry	28/07/26 03:58 PM
6	Are misandrists this ignorant of their prejudice? This reads not much different from white supremacy. They essentially said "separate but equal" without acknowledging the history behind that or why it's wrong	/r/EverydayMisandry	28/07/26 03:02 PM
9	Are misandrists this ignorant of their prejudice? There's a reason most "empaths" are women, and "empaths" are narcissists 99% of the time. They think they're feeling overwhelming empathy, when in reality they find it almost impossible not to constantly project onto others.	/r/EverydayMisandry	28/07/26 03:01 PM
8	Is this group even left winged? This sub is very big tent. There's some Marxists and some anarchists, and then there's some SocDems, and there's also some liberals. I wouldn't consider liberals to be leftists, and even SocDems are more just center left, but I think it's more important for this discourse to spread than to be a specifically left wing space. There's also definitely a contingent of anti-idpol leftists on here as well, and I disagree with a lot of the things they say about certain things. But I think they bring som…	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	26/07/26 05:30 AM
4	Terrible mother This kind of bigotry always hides behind "jokes" and "irony" until they no longer have to. The jokes and the irony creates the circumstances for these kinds of ideas to spread. That's why the "just joking" excuse (outside of genuine satire, although I'm more and more convinced that most people creating satire don't actually know what satire is; also, people are generally really bad at actually understanding satire, so it may be more harm than it's worth) has always been bullshit. It's just a way…	/r/EverydayMisandry	24/07/26 02:38 AM
30	Misandry targeting unborn boys These kinds of people should not be parents. They shouldn't even be around children.	/r/EverydayMisandry	23/07/26 03:40 AM
18	Volunteer wants to stop feeding orphaned boys because they are ‘future oppressors’ Exactly. It follows perfectly from the logic of radical feminism. I'd be disgusted but unsurprised to see a racist saying equivalent things about black people. I'm not sure why it's so hard to believe a radfem would say these kinds of things about men.	/r/EverydayMisandry	22/07/26 10:07 PM
5	Feeling bad and ashamed of being a man I get what you're saying. I definitely think the environment and discourse we have right now could essentially shame people into transitioning when they otherwise wouldn't do so, or not transition (mainly to masculine genders) when they would normally do so. It's going to take a while before things even out and people aren't essentially transitioning under duress. People in the trans community say "easy, if you aren't that gender and you start taking the corresponding hormones, you'll know becau…	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	22/07/26 02:53 PM
8	Feeling bad and ashamed of being a man I'm a nonbinary pansexual person, and I think you're right. The negativity, judgmental attitudes and general toxicity is everywhere, aimed from outside the LGBTQ+ community inwards, from inside outwards, and from within sections of the community towards other sections (just a couple examples: anti-trans sections of the lesbian and gay communities, as well as biphobia within lesbian and gay communities). TBH, it is incredibly discouraging because it seems like it's coming from all directions all …	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	22/07/26 07:22 AM
9	"Men are the ones donig all the harm" I know a woman who was molested by her aunt and abused in many different ways for decades by her mother. She was similarly abused by her father. But 99% of the time she places the blame for the vast majority of the abuse she experienced on her father, despite how incongruous it is with what he was actually responsible for. Which is way too much already, I'm not trying to discount that, it's just that these two women abused her just as much and it's sometimes like they almost get a pass because t…	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	22/07/26 06:58 AM
18	Man vs. Bear: an analysis Imagine for a moment a woman who is trying to have a normal life and all over the internet feminists of all sorts are saying they’d rather die than to be raped again. I don’t know. Maybe I’m being abhorrently obtuse but this feels…off to me. [It reminds me of that episode of the Boondocks where this character Luna kills herself after her friend said if she were in her shoes, she’d…well…kill herself. I made this point when I saw similar comments on Reddit a little while back. I initially got down…	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	19/07/26 04:41 PM
11	Common Liberal Misandry I think they're assuming people associate crime with men already, so it automatically equates to white men. Which just confirms what we're arguing already. With no other group would it be acceptable to use explicit prejudice and systemic oppression to argue why that prejudice is valid. Imagine if they did this with black people. They're invoking white supremacists, but they're using the same logic as white supremacists.	/r/EverydayMisandry	18/07/26 05:10 AM
1	Classic misandry - can't ever hold a woman accountable, even when she's trying to infect sexual partners with an STD I am 100% pro choice, but people have to realize that it's still normal to go through a grieving process after an abortion. Complaining about him online because he's grieving is fucking crazy.	/r/EverydayMisandry	11/07/26 05:37 PM
3	In Defense of Gen Z Men Kamala managed to run a historically bad campaign in her short presidential bid. I didn't vote Trump, I voted PSL. But even just a few changes could have gotten me to vote for Kamala. There are the things you mention, and then there's her stance on Gaza. Honestly, if she had just changed her stance on Gaza, I would have held my nose and voted for her. Her excuse for maintaining Biden's position was actually insane. She said she had to maintain the same position because she was his VP. Who fuckin…	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	11/07/26 05:13 PM
3	Criticizing Feminism = Misogyny None of these are actual arguments against feminism. She says she's been arguing with me about feminism for years, but she can't even do more than present a strawman to argue against.	/r/EverydayMisandry	11/07/26 04:56 PM
7	Am i overreacting or is this misandrist?.. Or how women with teenage children were obsessed with Twilight	/r/EverydayMisandry	09/07/26 07:18 AM
8	Economist: Height preferences in relationships are just as strong today as they were two decades ago Not really, since one end is 1-4 inches, and the other is 13-16 inches. Women are more likely to marry a man who is a foot taller than them than they are to marry a man who is an inch shorter.	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	29/06/26 08:04 AM
1	I believe the failures of the gender war to meaningfully affect any change or improve the culture lies in the fact that man vs woman is not a real political struggle Unfortunately left wing spaces get derailed by feminists all too frequently. You could set a clock to the instances of feminists posting on major left wing subreddits shaming the left for not being feminist enough. And the left has major problems with regressive positions originating in feminism, although the specific positions often depend where on the left you fall. For example, ML subreddits generally fall into SWERF and anti-porn positions based on radical feminist political influence. Which…	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	17/06/26 10:42 PM
26	How come the "patriarchy" harms men but white supremacy doesn't harm white people or heteronormativity doesn't harm straight people? It's because they don't want to admit that the patriarchy no longer exists. There is a gender system, but a gender system ≠ patriarchy. Patriarchies and matriarchies necessarily exist within a gender system, but gender systems do not always exist alongside patriarchy or matriarchy. Since there is a gender system, and a rather narrow and strict one at that, people are held to the standards of that system, no matter how out of touch, convoluted or harmful it may be. This harms men, women, nonbinar…	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	29/05/26 08:13 AM
6	They are projecting pretty hard I am concerned for my physical safety when I am in public around men Despite the fact that the least likely place to be attacked is in public. Like what exactly do they think is going to happen?	/r/EverydayMisandry	28/05/26 06:29 PM
46	19-year-old guy is victim-blamed and kicked when he's down in a mental health community instead of getting support I mean this respectfully... (sarcasm) So... not respectfully then. Do these people even read what they write?	/r/EverydayMisandry	28/05/26 04:49 PM
5	Imagine If a Man Said He Would Kill His Cheating Wife Feminists have been promoting cheating on your husband and killing your husband as progressive and liberatory forever unfortunately	/r/EverydayMisandry	28/05/26 08:01 AM
3	Let’s Apply This to Minority Groups Next This reminds me of an episode of the Bad Hasbara podcast (a podcast with a couple of cohosts who are anti-Zionist Jews). Basically, they talked about the hasbara talking point that Israel is a country where Jews can be safe, and how uncomfortable it makes them when non-Jewish people say those same kinds of things. "Are you saying I'm not safe here? Are you going to do something to me???" That kind of rhetoric actually makes the person sound like a Nazi. And it's the same thing happening here, ex…	/r/EverydayMisandry	27/05/26 11:31 PM
1	I See Nothing Wrong with What He Said It's such a childish term. It makes anyone who says it look like a toddler. I hate that it caught on.	/r/EverydayMisandry	27/05/26 11:17 PM
2	Autistic man mistreated, and a "feminist" group mocked it and muted me for respectful disagreement. Oh yeah that shit was fucked. I saw some people wiith tourettes saying he should publicly apologize because they claimed "I can control my tics" and therefore he should have been able to as well. Which is an absurd thing to say, as there is a huge range of severity. I had a roommate with tourettes who I never actually saw show any symptoms (not saying he didn't have it; just using this as an example of one end of the spectrum), and I had a classmate who had near constant tic attacks for the enti…	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	27/05/26 10:20 PM
22	I found a new leftist content creator that challenges misandrists and harmful feminist rhetorics. This is what I've been thinking. I think there will ultimately be a movement pushing back against feminism, and the only question is whether it's going to be something from the left or something like MAGA. It will take a while to break through the wall of discourse that feminism has developed, but I think it will get there, and it's our opportunity and our responsibility to make sure it's a principled left wing perspective that breaks through, not something from the far right.	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	17/05/26 07:27 PM
4	On incels. Yeah it's just a thing you get called if you disagree with a woman. Keep disagreeing and they'll say you're mansplaining.	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	10/05/26 06:55 PM
6	What actually is the patriarchy? The main difference between Nazism and feminist talking points is that feminists haven't been as successful as the Nazis were in accomplishing their goals. Why can't we compare feminists to Nazis if feminists want to reduce men to 10%? The only difference is that feminists haven't succeeded in reducing the male population, despite their sincere desire to do so. Do we have to wait for them to start genociding men before we can make the comparison?	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	10/05/26 05:20 PM
1	What actually is the patriarchy? This is why I prefer the term "the gender system" (if anyone has anything catchier but also accurately deacriptive, I'm all ears). There have certainly been patriarchies; 19th century/early-mid 20th century America could be deacribed as a patriarchy. But the patriarchy was abolished (as suited Capitalist development at the time), and the language never caught up because it suited feminists to fight a bogeyman to lap up more and more power. The gender system is something adjacent to, but technica…	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	10/05/26 03:58 PM
6	Man I still can’t believe how acceptable misandry is “It is 2026, if a woman kill her husband it means she set herself free. Wow, that's fucking insane. If it was 1950, it might mean something like that. 2026? What world are these people living in??? These people are ghouls	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	07/05/26 02:52 PM
2	Man I still can’t believe how acceptable misandry is I'm not saying that comment is specifically, but these kinds of comments are so typical, I wouldn't be surprised if many of them are bots. It's very easy rage bait to drive up engagement.	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	07/05/26 12:59 PM
2	Why is it assumed that the same content that young men are getting rage baited by has no effect on women? Yeah I've noticed this too. It's gotten to the point that I just don't believe most people who say they're a therapist on the internet	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	25/04/26 05:24 PM
2	American Female Popstars’ Sexualisation of Young Boys: An Underdiscussed and Harmful Phenomenon Taylor Swift dated a 17 year old boy. The most popular female pop stars tend to be enormous pieces of shit.	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	25/04/26 06:46 AM
5	Why is it assumed that the same content that young men are getting rage baited by has no effect on women? I'm convinced that 90% of the "go to therapy" women don't go to therapy, and in fact only have a vague clue about what therapy is, mostly based on pop versions of therapy presented to the public and shorts on tiktok. The way they speak about it, and the cliched therapyspeak they all use makes it obvious they've never actually gone to therapy. One way I've seen it put is that "go to therapy" is really just a passive aggressive way of saying "fuck you", or worse, telling someone you think they're …	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	25/04/26 06:10 AM
1	Weaponized Credulity as a Tool of Power (Reflection on the Cesar Chavez Situation) I've been very busy lately and so I didn't have an opportunity to discuss this while it was happening, but I'm very glad to see the sub talked about this. It is absurd to me that accusations, regardless of their veracity, can be lobbed at someone who has been dead for decades, and hence who cannot defend themselves, and those accusations can be taken so seriously that they not only affect the memory of that person but also the movements they were a part of. Like how is this healthy? How does tha…	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	25/04/26 05:27 AM
2	TIL why autistic men have it so much harder indeed, while reading "The assertive woman" by Bloom/Coburn/Pearlman from 1975. Non-assertive men are interpreted in a very malicious way, further encouraging aggressive and dominant behaviours while activly punishing sensible characters. Yeah I've definitely noticed this too. I'm convinced they do it just to keep steamrolling over you	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	14/03/26 06:43 AM
7	Why opinion of highly regarded academicians means almost nothing. (Read “insert feminist author”) Looking into feminist arguments: Part 1? That sub is a cancer. It was one of the first things to get me questioning feminism. You would think "feminism is a large, diverse movement" would imply that r/AskFeminism would also be diverse, meaning that it should have people who hold the very ideas being criticized. In other words "feminism is diverse" doesn't mean that subreddit is the wrong place to bring up those criticisms; on the contrary, it is exactly the place to bring up those criticisms. It's not an actual argument, just a way of …	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	08/03/26 04:19 PM
43	For the women and non binary people on this sub I'm an AMAB nonbinary pansexual person. Over time I've used labels like gender queer, bigender and bisexual as I explored my sexuality and gender identity. I've dated men, women and nonbinary people. When I dated men, I had some of the same experiences with men that feminists complain about; combining this with discovering my own gender identity, for some time I became a feminist. Most of my early dating and relationships were with men, and that shaped my view of things significantly. I saw a lo…	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	28/02/26 08:23 PM
16	“You should be happy your girlfriend hates your demographic.” Black people: if your white friends are going to klan meetings and talking about how much they hate black people then I automatically think you must be a cool dude bc obviously their standards are super high and they chose you	/r/EverydayMisandry	28/02/26 07:46 PM
15	Preaching to the misandrist choir Slide 2 is why I'm opposed to the phrase "the Epstein class". Feminists understand the phrase to mean "men". It obscures the fact that it's the capitalist class	/r/EverydayMisandry	27/02/26 07:16 PM
5	Is the same men who are afraid of false accusations are also the same ones making deepfake porn of women in the room with us now? Waffles and Pancakes ass post. Lol people won't talk about the Epstein files? That's all anyone can talk about! These people are literally headcanoning reality.	/r/EverydayMisandry	27/02/26 05:19 PM
9	Feminist Artist Lainey Molnar Thinks Husbands Don’t Do Anything You're right, I gave them too much credit; the kind of person you're talking about does exist, and might be more common. I always think about the same thing when someone says "every single woman I know has experienced SA". Not to make light of it at all, and it is all too common, but every single one? And so many people say this. They use the same phrasing when they talk about the supposed uneven divide of housework, despite studies showing the parity of the division of housework in relationship…	/r/EverydayMisandry	27/02/26 02:49 PM
59	Feminist Artist Lainey Molnar Thinks Husbands Don’t Do Anything I'm certain there are relationships exactly like this out there. I'm certain that the reverse is also true. This is something for those people to work out, because their relationships suck. It's not a gendered thing.	/r/EverydayMisandry	26/02/26 10:09 PM
6	Not even hiding it atp Just another example of feminists being in lockstep with the far right.	/r/EverydayMisandry	26/02/26 04:32 PM
9	“Women should get to speak over men about men.” It's because feminist culture is just mean girl shit	/r/EverydayMisandry	26/02/26 03:13 PM
20	Feminists ignoring female predators and male victims women and children aren't safe anywhere Correct, assuming you ignore the fact that the vast majority are in fact safe 99% of the time 🤦‍♀️ In many ways the ready access we have to news and unfolding events is a good thing, but in this particular way it's really quite awful. It makes people like this actually feel justified in their paranoia, when the kind of thing they're panicked about is by far the exception, not the norm. Btw, no credible anthropologist or archaeologist accepts the claim that…	/r/EverydayMisandry	26/02/26 03:11 PM
1	Time Magazine 2016: "6 Feminist Myths That Will Not Die"—Ten Years Later: Still Not Dead maybe Kamala was also trying to do that "its her turn" thing? She absolutely was. But she combined it with her identity as a black person, like the 2008 Obama election. But this was far from enough to get her elected, considering that she was supporting a genocide, bragging about being further to the right on immigration than Trump, and exclaiming that she would make the US military the most lethal force in the world. It's like she was running on "see, I'm Donald Trump, if Donald Trump was a bla…	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	25/02/26 11:37 PM
53	I think its normal to be mad about that When feminists say this shit it makes me think about how they would handle trans, nonbinary and agender people. I mean it's far from the only problem, but it quickly reveals just how transphobic they actually are.	/r/EverydayMisandry	25/02/26 08:43 PM
5	Reactions and comments to 2 posts posted in Subreddit, where clients share their bad experiences with their therapists. (Those two posts were discussing about the male issue) "Stephen Hawking is a PDF, and pervert, even if he cant move, he still did abuse minor girls, in that island... Cause he hates women, in their mind." I think it's obvious that there were different groups of people who were taken to the island and given different experiences. It makes sense that part of covering up what was happening would be to take a number of people there and give them an innocent experience so they could honestly say that they thought nothing bad was going on. I of course can…	/r/EverydayMisandry	25/02/26 06:57 PM
12	Reactions and comments to 2 posts posted in Subreddit, where clients share their bad experiences with their therapists. (Those two posts were discussing about the male issue) well it's hard imagining men as victims It's crazy that they can outright state the problem while ignoring that it's a problem, and then use that to reverse the blame and make men the problem somehow	/r/EverydayMisandry	25/02/26 05:32 PM
1	“Men are dumb.” This is the "if everywhere you go smells like shit, check your shoe" scenario. If you think everyone you meet, or everyone from a certain demographic is dumber than you, chances are you're the dumb one.	/r/EverydayMisandry	20/02/26 09:45 PM
11	I mean at least they admit it Feminist separatism/political lesbianism is one of the most psychotic ideologies to ever exist. I don't understand how anyone can actually believe any of this shit.	/r/EverydayMisandry	18/02/26 07:45 AM
11	I mean at least they admit it Males aren’t and never will be actual allies to women. Male feminists are the most dangerous of all Oh so they don't want people to become feminists, or to become allies, or to succeed at all in their stated goals? What kind of movement thinks it can succeed by actively pushing allies away? Unless the stated goals were never the point to begin with	/r/EverydayMisandry	18/02/26 07:39 AM
8	I mean at least they admit it The thing that gets me about this is they never say a thing about gay porn, or male porn stars in general. So porn is exploitative and harmful to women, but that logic can't be extended to men for some reason? Not that it should be; it's a dumb logic. Some people are always going to naturally want to put themselves out there like that. Banning porn will never change that, and it doesn't make things safer for women, or for anybody for that matter. It just drives porn underground, completely unreg…	/r/EverydayMisandry	18/02/26 07:35 AM
2	Huh? I've listened to mostly hip hop my entire life. People saying stuff like this only have a stereotype of what hip hop is in their head. Yes, hip hop has issues with misogyny and homophobia, but it's wildly reductive to treat it like that's all it is. They want vulnerability and emotion? I don't think it's inaccurate to say that hip hop is the most vulnerable and expressive genre. Maybe that will come as a surprise to people who just think hip hop is violence and misogyny, but that's the point: if…	/r/EverydayMisandry	14/02/26 06:46 PM
14	Discussions of male loneliness always results in some feminists chiming in and oversimplifying the issue Men: We want to be vulnerable and bring attention to the mental health struggles that so many men are facing. Some women: THIS IS YOUR OWN FUCKING FAULT BECAUSE YOU'RE NEVER VULNERABLE AND YOU NEVER SHARE YOUR EMOTIONS, SO SHUT THE FUCK UP!!! It's that "never again" box meme. The one where a cartoon blob is inside a little box and decides to venture out, just to get attacked, goes back in the box, only now the walls of the box are reinforced, and says "never again". For people who say they want …	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	14/02/26 05:39 PM
11	The Entire Democratic Spectrum Shames Short Men To sooo many wen, men simply aren't people. They couldn't possibly have feelings. Not too long ago my wife's cousin mentioned that when she was younger she genuinely didn't think men had feelings. You couldn't torture a confession like that out of me. That's not quirky or silly. It's a fundamental lack of empathy.	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	14/02/26 08:20 AM
18	The Entire Democratic Spectrum Shames Short Men "Well if other people don't get it, that's their problem. It's not my responsibility to coddle their fragile egos." It's always the loaded language that gets me. It's not "coddling their fragile egos". It's communication 101. Don't alienate your audience. It's so fucking stupid. But loaded language is a core tactic of feminism, to try to make it seem impossible to argue against. You're put into the position of having to unpack the loaded language and why it's loaded just to set the conversation …	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	14/02/26 08:15 AM
91	Discussions of male loneliness always results in some feminists chiming in and oversimplifying the issue There's more than enough evidence that male loneliness is a systemic problem primarily, not an individual one. You can do "the work" (sidenote, I am so sick of therapy-speak used in everyday conversation, especially when it's clear half of these people don't even know what the hell they're talking about) for years and years and years, and it might help a little, but it only goes so far while structural harms are not being addressed. This should be obvious for anyone on the left. We look at class…	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	14/02/26 07:42 AM
11	Anybody notice how often women named in the Epstein files are presumed to only be accomplices, and not pedophiles themselves? Yeah, the biggest problems in feminism almost always come from White Feminism. It's infuriating how patronizing, gleeful and self-righteous white feminist women can be when they're often some of the most racist, bigoted people around.	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	14/02/26 07:12 AM
3	"I wonder about the current state of feminist discourse, it can't be that worse—" Oh yeah that's another good point. If you bring up the same kinds of things happening to men, you just get called a misogynist.	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	06/02/26 08:26 PM
5	"I wonder about the current state of feminist discourse, it can't be that worse—" I feel bad for all the men who fret daily and try to give his wife the best life possible by not having her do all of that for him, just to be called manchildren who treats his wife like a maid anyway. I've heard so many say that he has his own 2 hands to do all that work and that he's looking for a woman to love, not a servant. Do we just conveniently ignore all those men? That's the thing about this kind of rhetoric and the internet. The internet gives anyone with a particular experience a way…	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	06/02/26 03:16 PM
1	"I wonder about the current state of feminist discourse, it can't be that worse—" Being attracted to adult women is... checks notes... pedophilia!	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	06/02/26 03:06 PM
3	Personal advice in optics: Do NOT let them call you 'anti-feminist' I half agree, women do still suffer from very serious issues, but I'd argue those issues are lack of safety rather than counting as oppression. You cannot call acts perpetuated by criminals oppression, or at least that's what I believe. I think we mostly agree. I'm not saying women don't face any issues. But for the most part those issues are individual and not systemic. And by "individual" I don't mean uncommon. I mean they experience things like misogyny and bad behavior from individuals (such…	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	27/01/26 08:15 AM
4	Personal advice in optics: Do NOT let them call you 'anti-feminist' I'll do it when I have time. I've been thinking about this parallel for a while	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	22/01/26 09:54 PM
7	Personal advice in optics: Do NOT let them call you 'anti-feminist' I think part of it is the historical oppression of women being a very real thing that's easily demonstrable and which was systemic (and which doesn't itself deny the fact that there was a parallel systemic oppression of men, which is of course the part they don't want to think about) which makes it a very easy trap to fall into. Add to it that the loudest and most visible feminism is white, imperial core feminism, you also get a lot of the persecution fetishism you often see with white people an…	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	22/01/26 09:36 PM
9	Personal advice in optics: Do NOT let them call you 'anti-feminist' Especially on the left, where feminism usually places itself, critique is supposed to be the bedrock. A left wing politic that cannot bear criticism or perform self-criticism is doubtfully left wing.	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	22/01/26 08:29 PM
7	Different framing, same gender expectations Actually Existing Feminism recreates traditional Western male and female gender roles and frames it as progressive (as you frame it: to protect women). These same gender roles get pushed onto nonbinary people as well, with the caveat that we're generally expected to perform female gender roles unless we insufficiently perform femininity (which is its own problem; nonbinary people are not just fem-lite), in which case we're treated like men. I don't understand how they don't see that they're just…	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	16/01/26 09:13 PM
4	Curious to hear from trans men about misandry Remember to take as much time as you need to figure out your gender identity. IME there's a limited usefulness to trying to figure out a specific label or whatever unless it's completely obvious. Over the years I've used the terms bigender, genderqueer, nonbinary and other more specific labels. All I know is that it's complicated. When the whole man vs. bear thing was happening, it made me think of all the trans men and boys who might be prevented from coming out because of the stigma. As I cont…	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	13/01/26 03:21 AM
10	Curious to hear from trans men about misandry I'm AMAB nonbinary, I identify partially with masculinity and partially with femininity, but not fully with either. I have the same concern. I've also seen detrans people ignored or their experience denied unless it fits a specific mold (i.e. they detransitioned due to lack of support or because of social pressure). None of this negates the reality of trans and nonbinary people, but I think somewhere between 5-15 years from now we're going to see a bit of a fall out, where some people who had tr…	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	12/01/26 08:05 PM
1	I hate that you can’t talk about misandry in leftist spaces Until recently I would have considered myself to be a feminist. Part of me still wants to believe that these people are just bad feminists. I still want to believe that feminism is for everybody. I mean it's plain as day that everyone, male, female, nonbinary straight, gay, bi etc. is hurt by the gender system in their own way. It's straight up delusional to believe otherwise even based on what feminism says what patriarchy is. So it blows my mind that there are people who claim that patriarchy …	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	11/01/26 11:32 PM
2	Hip Hop as a Mode of exploration and an Avenue For “young men” I was going to comment (but I’m temp banned😭) in the original thread that female mcs also do the same “bragadocious” lyrics, like it is just music but music can be powerful and empowering Although it can sometimes get unhealthy, this has always been one of my favorite parts of hip hop. There's something to be said for how positive and empowering that kind of content can be, especially in light of the social context and oppression hip hop originally comes out of, and also for the fans of the musi…	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	11/01/26 11:20 PM
2	Hip Hop as a Mode of exploration and an Avenue For “young men” For some context, I'm AMAB nonbinary and Hip hop is how I got into the left. Hip hop is how a lot of young amab people get into the left. Breht from Revolutionary Left Radio is a great example of this. Of course there is misogyny and homophobia. But hip hop is also closely connected to the black radical tradition, and I think the left and feminists shoot themselves in the foot when they downplay just how radical hip hop is. Critique and self-critique is of course important, as it always is on th…	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	11/01/26 09:59 PM