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Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

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2	If a man ever says something along the lines of "I am a terrible person" or "I am an asshole", take him at word, thank the Gods that he showed himself early on and GHOST/BLOCK AND DELETE. Men who say such things have nothing good to offer you. I promise you. I know a lot of us have stories like this but let me share mine: This post takes me back to ... 2015 back in the darkness of my pickmeisha days. I was desperate to hook up with one of my male friends who was constantly playing hot and cold with me. I remember we were at a party and I kept trying to talk to him and he kept saying "I'm such a bad person" ... what did I say? I was like "no! You're not a bad person!" Thinking to myself oh 🥴 poor you, you've been so hurt but you are not a BAD person …	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	06/10/21 09:16 AM
3	Stay away from damaged goods - porn addicts Jesus that's awful	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	25/09/21 12:31 PM
2	Stay away from damaged goods - porn addicts In my experience my male acquaintances get SO defensive and SO angry if you even mention that porn is disgusting (w/o even telling them they shouldn't watch it) That to me is a sign of addiction, thar you FREAK OUT at an offhand critique of your "hobby"	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	25/09/21 12:30 PM
38	The 'Harmless' man I dated and the mutual guy friend that advocated on his behalf. Why men close to us can be dangerous too I HATE this about men. They are so terrified that people will judge them for their actions so they invent all types of rules that don't make any sense "A guy is only harmful if he physically assaults you...seriously...several times...and while he meant to hurt you" It's like, bro! Threatening suicide is not "being awkward" it is a HOSTILE manipulation tactic. Whyyyyyy do they stand up for each other	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	25/09/21 12:27 PM
7	Weekly FDS Check-In This week it's been 6 years since I met my HVM husband! We're going for a weekend getaway to celebrate. Been reflecting a lot about our relationship and I love reading all the posts here and thinking about how bad all my exes were. My husband just randomly gave me 100$ last weekend. It was just....so sweet? I feel a bit materialistic but it just felt so nice. We earn similarly and have some shared finances which he encourages me to use for my self-care spending...so it was just cute to randomly …	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	24/09/21 06:15 PM

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