| Upvotes | Title | Category | Author | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
|---|---|---|---|---|---|
| 311 | That's a nice way of asking if I want to drive half an hour for a coffee date. | FDS TRANSLATES MEN | BeautifulLeek | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/08/21 06:48 PM |
| 1 | I just learned my (26F) (now ex) boyfriend (31M) is married and I’m devastated. | FDS RESCUE MISSION | BeautifulLeek | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/09/20 05:09 PM |
| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
|---|---|---|---|
| 95 | Oh no....turns out I'll miss you because I'm going away for a few weeks.... 😆"come visit me!" "am i on tour?" | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/11/21 10:58 PM |
| 6 | That’s why you should always demand proof, don’t just accept their wordsI did, but not before he stole money from me!! 🤡 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/08/21 02:33 PM |
| 85 | That’s why you should always demand proof, don’t just accept their wordsi've had this happen to me. they want you to go "WAIT NO im not a gold digger actually you can walk all over me, dont call me that!!" | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/08/21 10:51 PM |
| 71 | That’s why you should always demand proof, don’t just accept their wordsbroke liar calls his financially responsible wife a gold digger, more at 11 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/08/21 10:48 PM |
| 27 | It was too good to be true.I don't think it was a publicity stunt, I think banks tried to crack down after dealing with millions of chargebacks. And then were forced to backpedal | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/08/21 05:34 PM |
| 29 | That's a nice way of asking if I want to drive half an hour for a coffee date.He's selling a timeshare 💀 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/08/21 10:16 PM |
| 85 | That's a nice way of asking if I want to drive half an hour for a coffee date.Lmaoo the accuracy. It does sound like something no actual human would say, ever | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/08/21 08:35 PM |
| 60 | That's a nice way of asking if I want to drive half an hour for a coffee date.I'm sure it's the cafe right next to his apartment | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/08/21 07:50 PM |
| 37 | That's a nice way of asking if I want to drive half an hour for a coffee date.Definitely a copy-paste, because the message before it was totally normal. lol | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/08/21 07:49 PM |
| 51 | That's a nice way of asking if I want to drive half an hour for a coffee date.I know, it's frustrating that they presumably have some success with their lowball efforts. I hope more and more women start rejecting these delusional offers | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/08/21 07:12 PM |
| 143 | That's a nice way of asking if I want to drive half an hour for a coffee date.Also the assumption that I've never been to this mythical beach town 😅 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/08/21 07:01 PM |
| 76 | That's a nice way of asking if I want to drive half an hour for a coffee date.Already done! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/08/21 06:52 PM |
| 259 | That's a nice way of asking if I want to drive half an hour for a coffee date.He didn't even attempt to meet me at a location between us, just expected me to drive to his neighborhood. Blocked and deleted obviously :) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/08/21 06:52 PM |
| 14 | You can learn a lot about a guy via his social media profilearchive them or make them private if we're dating. honestly i don't understand why people leave photos of their exes up, it usually signifies baggage | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/08/21 11:42 PM |
| 19 | Just doing pick me things, oopsie! 🤪Yeah, this is literally just to drive the new gf insane. I'm surprised more people in the tik tok comments aren't picking up on that | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/06/21 04:36 AM |
| 9 | Just doing pick me things, oopsie! 🤪For free.. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/06/21 04:33 AM |
| 38 | Men playing guessing games with my age.There you go - it's always about them. Kind of sad and insulting to realize at first, but gradually freeing. Try not to internalize their bs | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/06/21 03:01 PM |
| 44 | Men playing guessing games with my age.I think it's projection. They're obsessed with and fear their own aging. At its core, it's a reminder of their own mortality and insignificance. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/06/21 02:50 PM |
| 70 | Men playing guessing games with my age.I have very frequently had people praise me for looking significantly younger than I am, like 16-20. I doubt men are getting the same number of comments about their youthful appearance. Some of this is probably based on my actual appearance, but it has always confused me because I don't dress particularly childish? I behave confidently and professionally? I don't know how people calculate age in their head but it's definitely a number of factors besides looks, and the equation is off. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/06/21 02:42 PM |
| 6 | UPDATE: I got a job! (From: "I'm an escort and camgirl. The FDS Podcast made me realize I need to quit")Getting back into the traditional workforce with a gap in your resume (SW related or otherwise) can be extremely daunting. Congrats OP, proud of you! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/06/21 04:28 AM |
| 3 | Ladies, ready to play MANSPLAINER BINGO?! New square suggestions welcome."You're gaslighting me" (immediately after you explain to him the definition of gaslighting); "I'm sorry you feel that way" | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/05/21 06:56 PM |
| 8 | Why there's no such thing as a green flag to confirm a guy as high valueThis is a great point. Men also internalize/display misogyny in different ways, which is one of the reasons why no green flags are truly universal. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/05/21 01:54 AM |
| 12 | Why there's no such thing as a green flag to confirm a guy as high valueMy boyfriend has his paychecks direct deposited into my account, and then I transfer him the remainder after putting most of it toward bills, groceries, etc. He suggested this so I'm not sure if it's how he was raised? But it works well for us and it's the only way I feel comfortable being more "traditional". | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/05/21 01:42 AM |
| 143 | How abusers use your anger against you"An abuser doesn't have a problem with his anger, he has a problem with your anger" | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/05/21 01:46 AM |
| 2 | Every “girls should make the first move!!” Post in a nutshell 🌰 🥜I believe she obtained a Park Date | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/04/21 09:51 PM |
| 12 | Typical LVM: breaks up with girlfriend of 4 years because a medication decreased her sex drive, is now looking for advice on how to find hornier women 🙄 (bonus: commenter who suggests low sex drive means the ex-gf was “using” OP)"So far being honest isn't working" lol | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/04/21 11:35 PM |
| 11 | The Eternal Girlfriend 😳😬Waity Katie | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/04/21 02:42 AM |
| 24 | The popular webtoon Lore Olympus is conditioning young women to date older men.I hate that comic. The author throws in topics like rape to seem "woke" and then just presents a sexist, unoriginal story. Also Hades cheats on his girlfriend which is a whole madonna/whore complex thing And why does Persephone have to permanently stop developing at 19? 🙄 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/04/21 11:23 PM |
| 5 | I have to laugh at this, but I worry for the PickMes who will fear that their value might decrease (hint: it won’t).Exponential? Lmao | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/04/21 11:10 PM |
| 4 | That fucking slug story broke meI would love to help too | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/04/21 11:32 PM |
| 4 | That fucking slug story broke meI don't believe in hell, but I know he's going there | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/04/21 11:31 PM |
| 4 | ANOTHER SLUG UPDATE and honestly, this one is much worse. He was clearly exploiting her mental illnesses for his own personal amusement. One of the most disgusting, depraved, and truly evil things I've ever seen.This makes me sick. I don't know what else to say. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/04/21 05:16 AM |
| 14 | Awake from anesthesia and ready to tell a story 🥳That is peak anxious supportive dad, love it | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/04/21 09:34 PM |
| 18 | Awake from anesthesia and ready to tell a story 🥳It was definitely scary! Sadly anesthesia rape does happen and I was also a virgin, so it compounded into some serious anxiety. But imo that's where men can help the most: supporting women in situations where we're vulnerable. I'm glad you have that with your boyfriend, and your father it sounds like too. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/04/21 08:39 PM |
| 23 | Awake from anesthesia and ready to tell a story 🥳When I was in high school I had to get my wisdom teeth out and was terrified of being raped by the surgeon while I was unconscious for 8+ hours. So my dad sat in the waiting room, facing the open door of the room I was in, and waited the whole time. Talking about anesthesia made me remember that. I'm glad you have someone to lean on. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/04/21 08:23 PM |
| 17 | The advice on dating subs will have you down bad. Reserved guys ask women out too. It’s actually even more obvious when they’re into someone.Yep, I'm bi and have asked out plenty of girls before. It's really not a big deal. And I've never met a guy too scared to ask a girl out.. only half-assed, disinterested ones. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/04/21 07:56 PM |
| 22 | (Xpost) "Today this gentleman brought me a flower... He wow’s me every day" I just wanna get myself a gentleman like him...My cat brings me catnip champagne bottle toys and crab stuffed animals. Wined and dined! (And bugs too, sometimes.) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/04/21 02:08 AM |
| 4 | Just an FYI if you are on birth controlThat is the ultimate breakup excuse - "Sorry, my hormones were artificially skewed!" 😅 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/04/21 02:05 AM |
| 4 | Just an FYI if you are on birth controlThat's awful, both being forced to go on it and that it's still being suggested. I'm sorry. But that's awesome that you're prioritizing your safety and health! Seriously. We don't exist for male consumption. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/04/21 02:04 AM |
| 11 | Just an FYI if you are on birth controlI'm so sorry you had to go through that, that's awful. How are things now? It blows my mind too - there isn't any screening. If I hadn't known about my family history I would have ended up in the same situation. Fortunately I did know, and was able to get a non hormonal IUD - 10ish years ago, when they were generally refusing to give them to young women who hadn't given birth. 🙄 What killed me was when I had my IUD removed this year, and the doctor was trying to prescribe me hormonal bc as I had… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/04/21 12:51 AM |
| 24 | Just an FYI if you are on birth controlHormonal birth control can cause potentially deadly blood clots.. my mom developed one that traveled to her lung and gave her a PE. This happened to my aunt as well. Be careful with hormonal birth control and Plan B!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/04/21 09:36 PM |
| 3 | I have been laughing about this all day. Went to his page and its full of cringey content like this. He talks about going 5050 with women as well. Also, he seems to be very short. Someone please give this broke hobbit some sense 😂😂😂It's the Tumblr daddy dom reincarnated | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/04/21 07:43 PM |
| 42 | They always come back...Exes almost always come back after a breakup but it's usually for their ego, not you. Someone should never have to lose you to recognize your value anyway! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/03/21 12:35 AM |
| 6 | ‘Studies’ showing dad bods are more attractive to womenI will never date a guy with a dad bod. Never have, never will. Lol | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/03/21 12:15 AM |
| 37 | The 🍵 is piping hot 🔥 this morningYeah, this is just common sense, nobody respects a doormat. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/03/21 02:57 AM |
| 17 | Breaking things = domestic abuse. It’s physical intimidation that counts as DV.Yep, one of the earliest things I can remember an ex doing is throwing a glass bong at my head. I ducked and it shattered on the wall behind me. “Real” physical abuse came pretty soon after. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/12/20 07:16 PM |
| 9 | How much, if at all, does a guy's past sex life matter to you? What behaviors or details would be unacceptable to you? Is dating guys that have not dated before the safer option? What do you do if you can't get over one event from an otherwise perfect man's past (before you were together)?Guys who are/were into bdsm and choking are a red flag | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/06/20 08:52 PM |
| 8 | Meghan Markle: Lessons in Not Tolerating DisrespectThank you for summing this up so well | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/06/20 03:37 AM |
| 56 | Meghan Markle: Lessons in Not Tolerating DisrespectCan we stop with the Meghan Markle posts? The royal family is covering for a pedophile. She knowingly married into an outdated system (the monarchy) which holds truly sickening wealth. As another user said, people tend to project their fantasies onto her. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/06/20 03:27 AM |
| 2 | A few days ago someone reposted a post of mine from r/deadbedrooms. Today I broke up with him and kicked him out.I know how much it hurts, but once you meet a healthy man who prioritizes you and doesn’t have a crippling and sick addiction, you will be so so happy. You can’t even comprehend at this moment how happy you will be in the future. Sometimes self-care is doing something that makes you feel like shit in the present, so you can have an unbelievably brighter, happier, and healthier future. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/06/20 08:33 PM |
| 20 | Blocked him on whatsapp and then he texted me 😒“I don’t respect boundaries” | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/06/20 12:08 AM |
| 5 | Does anyone else think "Responsive Sexual Desire" is Horse Shit?My first thought too | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/06/20 01:40 AM |
| 13 | Good luck, sis.Chore charts.. with prizes? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/06/20 10:19 PM |
| 15 | Early signs of narcissism.Triangulation | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/06/20 09:26 PM |
| 11 | This made me chuckleKarma farming at its finest | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/06/20 03:14 PM |
| 2 | Moral of the story, never date a LVM male: UPDATE I [32\m] overheard my girlfriend [32\f] tell her sister [27\f] that she is "dating down" being with me because she makes more money than me... and is "surprised that I don't have roommates" I make 135k a year she makes 205k.Honestly the whole thing sounded fake, but I was pretty grossed out with the sheer amount of comments gloating on his behalf | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/05/20 08:44 PM |
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