BeautifulPeony Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

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2	Most men do not want “direct” unflattering communication from women Hyperbole. People can and have communicated since the dawn of time different ideas through tropes and figures, this is a way that higlights certain aspects of any given situation. Trying to refute a trope as false isn't getting at the core of the argument. The statistics show that men are more likely to be killed by a stranger, and women more likely to be killed by an "intimate partner"... that tells me that the problem is not men as a whole, but the men that women tend to get into relationships…	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/01/26 09:48 PM
2	Most men do not want “direct” unflattering communication from women Women are sometimes indirect so that they can avoid the unpleasant situation of being attacked, beaten, and possibly losing their life, due to having expressed slight disagreement with something. Although, it is not only men that are unable to take criticism, both genders can and do plead that they haven't been instructed thorougly enough, as if they are children, and any given group project confirms that. This isn't really a gendered issue, I believe it to be related to a small and very vocal m…	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/01/26 01:02 PM
1	What is emotional labor, really? Emotional labor is when I have to compensate for someone else’s lack of manners, organization, maturity, upbringing or situational awareness.	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/11/25 02:08 AM
1	Do women generally prefer to date someone who is to the right of them on the political spectrum? The whole world is not America. Not all party systems are two party ones. American Left/Right is a joke in Europe. Also, the TikTok thing is your personal algorithm, meaning it reflects your personal preferences. “Left” and “Right” do not work the same way across the world.	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/11/25 01:18 AM
8	Being funny is not attractive to women Being funny is attractive, but you cannot use this as a sole quality to attract, or as a sole substitute for a personality. You need to combine qualities for it to make a difference. And, how do you know whether or not the women that found you attractive did or did not find you funny?	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/11/25 12:44 AM
2	Would you cheat for $10 million dollars; let your bf/husband cheat for $10 million; or neither. I’d flip a coin, chance seems to be the most fair way to go about this.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/11/25 11:28 PM
4	Would you cheat for $10 million dollars; let your bf/husband cheat for $10 million; or neither. How about we both cheat for 20M? Joke aside, 10M is 10M. I don’t care who cheats. As long as the money is considered a mutual asset, the husband abides by the ground rules, and that the money is invested wisely. Context: I won’t be marrying a spender, this would have to be invested. Our children and grandchildren would never ever worry about anything. And I have the mentality that if he does not consent to this, he is a selfish fool, given the state of the economy. Otherwise, this means that we …	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/11/25 06:01 PM
21	Conditional love Once again it's men shaming women for having standards. Men always go on about being accepted for who they are and yet they call women over 25 'old', non-virgin women they believe to be 'used up'. Women get judged on their looks daily, even slightly chubby women get called 'fridges' and 'whales', men have always claimed to be 'visual'. This is evident in the size of the plastic surgery industry and cosmetics. Women who refuse to date down get called 'superficial' or 'golddiggers'. And on the inc…	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/10/25 11:45 PM
6	Dating is insanely inequal and unfair for men, yet no one’s adressing it even though it affects fundamental human Men to women population ratio is roughly 50:50 across the globe. How come "the majority of women are coupled yet most men are single"? This math isn't really 'mathing'. Average looking men have unrealistic standards and insult average girls, then complain that the top tier ones reject them. Social media has absolutely ruined for men the notion what 'average' really is, men are overexposed to beauty.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/10/25 03:12 PM
–	Women aren't going to drastically change their lifestyle so that someday you might want to marry them. Most western men can't afford foreign women. If you are poor, you'll be rejected in most cases. And bringing a non-Western woman in your country to go 50/50 with her isn't much of a deal.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/10/25 11:57 AM
1	State-sponsored prostitution SW is heavily linked to human trafficking and corruption, worldwide. I argue, legalizing it would not bring much revenue or make it a significant part of any country's GDP. The state should involve itself in the crimes and abuse related to SW activity. SW is legal in the Netherlands, yet SW it still involves gang activity. The honourable memorial services are remind me of the Handmaid's tale. "Except it would be women who devote their lives to the sexual needs of the nation.", you say. The abort…	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/10/25 08:58 PM
0	The advice that “men need to stop showing interest in order to actually attract women” only works for certain top % men. It’s horrible advice and a catch 22 situation. The black-and-white thinking on top of the fact redpill uses questionable at best (if not false) premises for this type of advice, mainly that women are immature and childish, overly emotional and reactive, as well as egotistical. This twisted disinterest of theirs borders on hostility, like negging or triangulation, and relies on the slim chances some revese psychology works out somehow. Not only will men go unnoticed following this advice, hostility may lead to social exclusion by word of mout…	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/10/25 05:17 PM
1	Why do women expect traditionalism in relationships? I accidentally posted the unfinished comment. "Traditional gender roles" are upper class behaviour, combined with post-WWII American propaganda. It is not true that women en masse do not reciprocate effort and use patriarchal excuses. Many women do the 50/50. Also, many people seem confused on the topic of social constructs. They seem to believe that social constructs don't exist at all, that since gender roles have been different in history, they don't exist. To most people the material = exist…	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/10/25 04:34 PM