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| 29 | Frequency of conversations revolving exTo me it looks quite obvious he is not ready for a relationship of any kind, and that this will end up hurting you (if it’s not hurting you already). You’ve only been dating for two months and he has already talked about her several times, when he should be extra focused in you and in seducing you. He is hurt and resentful and needs time, and it’s not your job to “help him heal” or to be there for him while he does, at least not as someone who dates him. How can that relationship grow or be sati… | /r/askFDS | 06/07/21 06:24 PM |
| 16 | Imagine if we became a collective mindI thought about this in the form of a dating app in which it was possible to state your experience with a man in case it was somehow abusive, degrading, etc. Obviously the idea has many flaws and would be difficult to implement, and it’s unlikely that men would want to join a community like that. But it was a reactive idea. It makes me mad there are guys saying to one girl one thing while meeting another (something that has always happened, but with OLD is the norm), or have one just ghosted aft… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/07/21 09:07 PM |
| 47 | "there's a darkness inside me"OMG. I lived this. The guy that fucked my mind up said “there’s demons that don’t allow me to be happy”, and that I was the first person in years to be worth it (fighting them). He made me empathise and abused my good will until he discarded me and finally ghosted me. I couldn’t imagine by then that “demons” simply meant “I cheated on my exgf and I’m not over the end of that relationship, I still need to find circumstancial justifications for what happened instead of accepting I wasn’t brave/hon… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/07/21 12:14 PM |
| 24 | Texting all day is low value.If I could change one thing of my last relationship/situationship/stupidmistake, I would start for texting WAY less on a daily basis. I gave too much information, I invested too much emotional effort, I trusted too many things he said over text and made it easier for him to excuse himself, I had conversations that would have been much more enriching face to face... A sense of false intimacy was created and things went faster than desirable partially because of it. Now I realize how badly that im… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/06/21 10:30 AM |
| 80 | Quickies ain't worth it, babesIf the circumstances are appropriate and you’re lucky enough you can also get coldness and an evasive attitude that makes you feel like shit as a part of the offer! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/06/21 02:10 PM |
| 11 | ‘No social media’ guysI’ve been thinking about this for quite some time. I’m a very private person and have no social media accounts, or at least, not accounts with my name. I don’t post pictures of any kind and I don’t even have a profile picture on my chatting apps. I met a guy through OLD time ago (first and last) and we were “dating”/meeting for some months; I’m still recovering from that experience. He was also very private, and that for me wasn’t a red flag but a good sign. He has similar values, I thought. His… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/05/21 12:45 PM |
| 1 | my therapist "not all men'd" meThe least sensitive and supportive therapist I’ve had, to the point of making me feel judged or that some specific situation I was living with a man was more about me than about him doing something wrong (it definitely wasn’t), was a woman. That woman later attented that man (separated therapies but we both talked with her, amongst other issues, about our mutual relationship) and she pushed him to be more demanding regarding sex, and to see it as something I was doing wrong (not having it) becau… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/04/21 06:27 PM |
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