BecomingAssertive Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

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1	[FR] need help deciding if shes interested or not I'd wait, she possibly doesnt know that her name is so common that you can't find her profile and is probably waiting for you to add her but if you wait some more she will add you if she's interested. I wouldn't mail her, if she never adds you move on.	/r/seduction	30/11/13 05:01 PM
2	I need help with my mid game. (transitioning from mental to physical contact) I don't think you should really see it as a transition. Physical and emotional communication should go hand in hand. If you are just talking, the longer you wait with physical contact the stranger it will feel not just to you but to her too. ("He's been talking to me all the time without doing anything else, seems like he wants to be friends." And then you suddenly start touching her, could feel weird to her.) That is why escalation is so important so you don't go from no touching to trying to k…	/r/seduction	01/09/13 05:36 PM
1	[mini-FR] First post, HB 9/10, made eye contact, didn't approach. What can I do to motivate/improve myself? When you start thinking like that just before an approach you need to try to stop thinking, otherwise your brain will come up with numerous reasons not to approach to keep you in your comfort zone. I don't want to be that guy to say to just do it, but just do it. Tell yourself not to leave before you talked to her. Even if she rejects you, you'll notice it's not that big of a deal as you thought it would be. Heck, you might even laugh after because atleast you fucking tried and have nothing to r…	/r/seduction	12/05/13 01:28 PM
1	I stayed in tonight. It feels terrible. How do I make sure this never happens again? I'm also working on this. To get invited to more things you need to invite other people to do stuff. Instead of texting 3-5 friends to see what they are doing, invite them to go to a party/club/bar/whatever you wanna do toghetter. Also I suggest you find some places you like that have stuff going on. I am not American so this is kinda different for me, but here there are some places that will usually have stuff going on at day X and Y while another place has this thing going on every Z. Also I'm…	/r/seduction	12/05/13 12:39 PM
1	Rejected two nights in a row rant + FR. Can skip to paragraph 5 for FR. Are you waiting till the end to kiss? Are you leaving immediately after you can't kclose? Do not wait till you're leaving, this builds too much pressure on it. Also just because a girl doesn't want to kiss you at one exact moment does not mean she won't do it 10mins later. Unless she wants to get away from you just keep conversing and try again later.	/r/seduction	11/05/13 11:12 AM
-3	Shit test : Why are you looking at me like that ? "Because I want too"	/r/seduction	11/05/13 11:08 AM
9	What's the worst rejection you've ever gotten? She rejected you in the cruelest way you could imagine, however you're still here gaming. It did not stop you. Your story could inspire people that might go completely AFC after such a rejection.	/r/seduction	21/04/13 04:34 PM
1	[xMODx] Seddit Simple Questions Thread 2/22/13 (please upvote - zero karma) wait a bit, maybe she'll send, if she doesn't do not propose another date but rather ask for her schedule. That way you'll notice if she really does want to meet up again or not	/r/seduction	23/02/13 08:49 PM
2	What have you done this week? monday: went out alone, 2 approaches only, no success thursday: went to party with friends, met some new people, 2 girls, 1 taken the other one fancied my mate. Approached 1 girl I didn't know (waited a long time before i could finally get myself to approach), no success so pretty bad.. but I'm glad I atleast did some approaches. I need to work on smalltalk with random people to build some social momentum I think.	/r/seduction	16/02/13 12:26 AM
0	Couldn't get it up last night. First time it's ever happened. For those who've experienced this, what are your tips to avoid this? The more you eat, the more blood the stomach will require to digest all of that food, this results in less blood to the penis. You can test this, if you haven't eaten much you're erections will be much harder and longer then when you have just eaten alot.	/r/seduction	28/10/12 02:20 PM
1	Couldn't get it up last night. First time it's ever happened. For those who've experienced this, what are your tips to avoid this? chill, drink less or no alcohol, eat only a light meal before going out(make sure you don't consume too much fructose aswell)	/r/seduction	27/10/12 08:51 PM