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Oneitis
/r/askTRP17/12/18 09:12 PM
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This guy fucks
/r/askTRP17/12/18 08:58 PM
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Nuclear shit test She's out of options and trying to see if she can chip away at your frame. Don't be surprised if she gives you an ultimatum soon.
/r/askTRP17/12/18 08:53 PM
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Go talk to the girl by yourself but don't be surprised if she's not interested anymore
/r/askTRP17/12/18 08:47 PM
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Girls have way more sexual partners than 80% of guys, get used to it unless you are Chad. It will haunt you forever if you don't
/r/askTRP17/12/18 08:45 PM
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That's the whole point bud
/r/askTRP17/12/18 08:40 PM
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Want to encourage bad behavior? Cave in to her tantrum and show her that it works on you. Want to punish bad behavior? Your only leverage is your time/attention/commitment. Withdraw those and she will get the message.
/r/askTRP17/12/18 08:34 PM
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Oh yes
/r/askTRP17/12/18 08:27 PM
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Seems like some cringe troll who got ghosted a lot in the past and is having PTSD about it
/r/askTRP15/11/18 04:31 AM
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No sex no attention
/r/askTRP14/11/18 03:56 PM
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You didn't cheat, you don't get in relationships without the other knowing.
/r/askTRP14/11/18 07:37 AM
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Sidebar
/r/askTRP05/11/18 08:10 PM
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Or not
/r/askTRP02/11/18 01:29 PM
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Hypergamy doesn't give a fuck about your love man
/r/askTRP01/11/18 08:26 AM
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I think you should let her know you are serious now and tell her you think she's the one. Man, she'll get so wet
/r/askTRP25/10/18 12:59 PM
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Why? All of this makes perfect sense if you only see 20% of guys
/r/askTRP23/10/18 11:43 PM
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She sounds real empowered if you ask me...
/r/askTRP18/10/18 09:36 PM
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looking to meet that night, clearly DTF or at least hold my attention. We meet, good date, lots of talking but I'm taking this slower then usual, just trying to decide if I want her. The male hamster in action
/r/askTRP18/10/18 09:34 PM
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Hit the sidebar brother, golden info for people at your stage
/r/askTRP16/10/18 05:06 PM
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They spend 24/7 glued to the fucking thing.
/r/askTRP16/10/18 05:04 PM
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Hahahaha mans worried about his T levels cause he gets roasted at work Cheers up man why so serious?
/r/askTRP13/10/18 04:01 AM
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She is giving you the responsibility. That way it's not her fault when she cheats on him. Just find an excuse to hang out 1 on 1 and escalate. Don't address the boyfriend shit just ignore it. Contact her next week to go do something fun.
/r/askTRP13/10/18 03:56 AM
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Sounds like you did amazing, next time you see her there will be a lot less LMRs. Next time have your logistics tight and should be an easy lay
/r/askTRP10/10/18 05:01 PM
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You believe that shit? Really? we met infornt of the mall and as soon as we introduced ourselves her friend ran into us and asked if she could tag along and it would have been rude to say no so she tagged along with us. Riiiiight, and she also coincidentally happened to be into you while hb7 was swiftly getting out of the way. To me it sounds like some retarded chick game that I don't have time to play. The best part is that now you are off limits for hb7 because of her friend.
/r/askTRP10/10/18 04:53 PM
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Don't fucking listen to all those people telling you your bullies will become losers and don't fall into the trap of being cynical towards them. So many become losers that way. You have a lot to learn from them. Look at their confidence, their social skills etc. The only way to stop a bully is to speak his language and that means violence. There's no way around it. Work out and stand up for yourself. No one's going to do it for you.
/r/askTRP10/10/18 04:15 PM
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Why help her? If it was you in that same situation, would she do the same? Hint: Fuck no she wouldn't. She would laugh at your pathetic ass for being weak
/r/askTRP09/10/18 11:21 PM
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All about push pull. Show interest early, make your intentions clear and then don't give a single fuck about the outcome. Have barely enough time for her. Those are your best chances. Basically act like you have 3 other easier girls lined up for you to fuck them at a moment's notice. How much effort would you put into the new one? Probably not a whole lot.
/r/askTRP09/10/18 10:49 PM
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Just don't piss her off, you don't wanna end up in a cage...
/r/askTRP09/10/18 11:18 AM
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Lmao the nerve on these chicks nowadays. She was sleeping in your bed naked and you could touch her ass but nothing else and when she got up she was talking about what a good night sleep it was? I'm so happy for you that you didn't pound her tho. You could have been put in a cage forever if she regretted it.
/r/askTRP08/10/18 09:45 PM
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Not all chicks are like that, just sounds like some incompatibility that you'll have to figure out by yourself. Don't think there's an easy fix
/r/askTRP06/10/18 11:59 PM
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Yeah sure its preselection. The fact that there's a hot girl around some dude increases his value tenfold. Also adds a bit of competition anxiety making the girls act on their best behavior / making themselves easy for them. Limits the amount of shit test needed to weed the pussies out. It's the same reason why girls are more attracted to guys in a relationship compared to single guys. All makes sense doesn't it? Having a girl wingman is basically the good old "I get lots of pussy!" in a languag…
/r/askTRP06/10/18 07:28 PM
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It's not cheating if they are plates how many times do we have to tell you. Why do you care if your plate is fucking other dudes? She wants commitment from you and is poking around to see your reaction. Talking about another dude she's fucking, talking about other girls you are probably fucking etc. Don't change anything. Keep fucking her until she brings up the talk, when she does just be honest with her that you are not looking for something serious. Easy...
/r/askTRP04/10/18 10:06 PM
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Yeah dude, NAWALT then. Gj on finding the right one
/r/askTRP03/10/18 09:43 PM
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You dont, trust me there's at least 15 other faggots spamming her phone 24/7. By 18 she has seen it all... You build attraction push pulling on dates.
/r/askTRP03/10/18 06:25 AM
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Some bitches are so fucking cringy I don't know how you guys do it
/r/askTRP03/10/18 06:18 AM
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^
/r/askTRP02/10/18 10:02 PM
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Depends if she's dumb or not She might have heard some rumors, she probly laughed it off at first but then couldn't stop thinking about it 24/7, she's so curious she breaks frame and reaches out but uses your son as an excuse so that she doesn't have to be so vulnerable. You called her out on it, she realizes it's not going anywhere so she ends the conversation abruptly so that you don't get to have a the last word. (And that she can lie to herself that she ended the conversation because of YOUR…
/r/askTRP26/09/18 07:31 PM
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So you come to trp to get validated on the idea of providing for a girl with an extremely promiscuous past. Right... Where do we start?
/r/askTRP26/09/18 10:32 AM
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Hiding your smile or not being able to smile confidently is a massive blow to ones frame... An insecurity right there on your face where everybody can see. Also, I just think fucked up teeth leave a bad first impression for most people. Just get em fixed. Source: personal experience
/r/askTRP23/09/18 07:42 PM
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Lmao yes
/r/askTRP20/09/18 05:12 PM
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You need to fuck her asap or else she will think you are a massive pussy. She probly already does...
/r/askTRP17/09/18 05:44 PM
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Oh she's from Harvard? Oh yeah marry her then!
/r/askTRP17/09/18 05:37 PM
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She's telling you she's in a ldr to put that responsibility on you. Go out have fun with her and escalate and if something happens, it's your fault so it's ok
/r/askTRP16/09/18 10:55 PM
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Go for chicks that think there's a chance you will fall for them and then magically don't because you have way more options than they think. Sounds like you go for chicks that wouldn't have a chance with you anyway and trust me they are aware of that... They already had it done to them multiple times by multiple chads by 18.
/r/askTRP16/09/18 02:54 PM
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Actions > words. Always. She wants to cuddle all the time and hold hands and then her friend tells you she doesn't want a relationship and you believed it?
/r/askTRP16/09/18 02:09 PM
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You must be joking
/r/askTRP16/09/18 02:01 PM
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Easiest lays ever in my experience
/r/askTRP12/09/18 05:07 PM
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I get the same with my job, lots of status for young people. They all want to be the special one that will ride off of your success and they will make you wait. You have to be ready to walk away as soon as you get this vibe and on to the next one. Next.
/r/askTRP02/09/18 02:06 AM
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Why go on a trip to see her? That's entering her frame. What if she doesn't give the pussy up right away? Wtf do you do then? You are setting yourself up to get played because you can't just walk away and that's a problem
/r/askTRP31/08/18 07:36 PM
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Bad beta! Stay beta, team women is gonna need you for a divorce by 35!
/r/askTRP24/08/18 06:18 AM
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Love is just that feeling you get when you think you can't do better. You then feel vulnerable and weak because you care too much about 1 prospect and since you don't have much control over her you are just hoping it works out. Don't fall in love. I told myself the next time I fall in love with a chick to just ghost her out of the blue. Not because I want to hurt a the chick, I probly won't hurt her at all since 22yo chicks can find 100s of guys at their fingertips. It's because I truly believe …
/r/askTRP21/08/18 07:17 PM
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I usually ignore and change subject... If they don't get the point I tell them straight up that I have 1000 other things more important to care about. I actually did that yesterday and she apologized. I gotta say I was a bit surprised. A woman will only treat you as bad as you let her.
/r/askTRP20/08/18 05:48 PM
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/r/askTRP19/08/18 12:07 AM
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That or she is trying to make OP wait so he thinks she's special.
/r/askTRP12/08/18 01:15 PM
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She will lose it to someone else one day and you will realize your unicorn wasn't so special after all
/r/askTRP11/08/18 05:15 PM
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There are these new procedures that are scalpel free meaning instead of cutting your balls open they somehow grab the tubes from outside and make a small hole to pull the tubes out of and put small metal brackets to make sure the tube stays blocked. So no, the chances of the tubes fixing themselves are pretty low.
/r/askTRP11/08/18 02:28 AM
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All you senses and instict are screaming at you full blast that this is NOT ok and yet you are here on r/asktrp of all places asking us to hamster you into thinking this is common practice. How confused are you my guy?
/r/askTRP09/08/18 08:21 PM
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She wants the roller coaster of emotions and it sounds like she is getting it. OP what's the problem again? I bet you get better sex from her since then too
/r/askTRP08/08/18 04:25 PM
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What are you talking about I love white knights and orbiters. They are making it easier than ever to be in the top 10% and I appreciate them for it. Never tell an opponent about their mistakes
/r/askTRP08/08/18 03:54 PM
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Dropkick her to show her how alpha you are
/r/askTRP02/08/18 07:06 AM
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God I'm getting upvoted... I was massively sarcastic. Chad's get cheated on too all the time lol. I was just making fun of the comment before mine
/r/askTRP01/08/18 12:05 AM
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Trp is amoral. I'm sure OP is old enough to make that decision himself.
/r/askTRP31/07/18 11:08 PM
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You are already fucked cause he asked you to fuck his girl. Find another job and if and only if you find that other job very quickly you can fuck his girl
/r/askTRP31/07/18 06:13 PM
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Prime example of watch her actions, not her words. "I don't want to share you with someone else lol" "Are you free tomorrow?" "Wanna hang out?" Hahahahahahaha
/r/TheRedPill29/07/18 11:20 PM
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Yeah bro I know he didn't read sidebar or else she would have never cheated! Chad never gets cheated on!
/r/askTRP29/07/18 08:28 PM
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Good reaction man, textbook trp. Now keep the radio silence or else she wins... Don't give her attention or thoughts, those are your currencies and you wouldn't want to give em to a cheating hoe would you
/r/askTRP29/07/18 08:27 PM
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Hating women.
/r/askTRP20/07/18 02:38 PM
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GeT A BiTcOiN mINiNg RiG Broo, come print money like me bro.. oh wait
/r/askTRP20/07/18 01:40 PM
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Lol sure man I understand that. Let's say 5"11' then
/r/askTRP16/07/18 11:11 PM
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It's all about the 20% of guys fucks 80% of women rule. OkCupid even has a study proving that women find only 20% of men as "better than average looking" and 80% as "worse than average looking". And here at trp we know that those 80% of guys are invisible to women. So the height average for men that women can physically see is the top 20%, or about 6ft tall.
/r/askTRP15/07/18 12:27 PM
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Sounds like she's projecting man. Whatever you do don't justify yourself, don't even entertain her retarded claims.
/r/askTRP10/07/18 07:01 PM
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Depends on a lot of things, not enough info
/r/askTRP10/07/18 06:33 PM
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Music that is catered for the braindead masses to spam on the radio is bluepilled because society is bluepilled. Women love to hear Chad being all beta and approachable. Makes them feel like they have a chance Don't get me wrong tho, there is lots of music that's red pilled. I swear I listen to most old school rap song and it's as if they read and talk about TRP everyday. Oh and can't forget this meme https://youtu.be/4AHH0bdNKyM
/r/askTRP02/07/18 10:50 AM
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I get the whole being a good listener tactic but isn't that not putting yourself first? Are you actually interested in accounting sewing and all of that?
/r/askTRP01/07/18 05:33 PM
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She changed the way she saw you because she got a better option. Don't take her back she fucking someone else 100%.
/r/askTRP30/06/18 04:54 PM
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When a girl says something like "we're not gonna have sex" that means 100% you two are gonna fuck. If she actually didn't want to have sex with you, she wouldn't mention it, she wouldn't even think about it being a possibility. She just says that because she doesn't want to sound like a slut and wants to gage your reaction so she can hamster herself that she's not being a cheating slut.
/r/askTRP26/06/18 10:13 PM
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Yeah that's how it goes usually. Youll feel amazing for 4-7 days and then that's when you start to feel sad. Just go through with it, you did it for a reason and have pulled the trigger, there's no going back.
/r/askTRP17/06/18 09:35 PM
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Do not answer. 5-10 guys are gonna respond to that and you don't want to in that Category. Your attention is more vuluable that that man. If she wants it, then it's one on one.
/r/askTRP17/06/18 06:38 PM
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You did get stuff in return. You 2 gave to each other and now its the end, you will do that with countless other women... By saying it was a waste of life you make it sound like you want to invest all of your time you have left into someone else and that will somehow make you happy the day you die or some shit. Just live in the moment.
/r/askTRP16/06/18 09:10 PM
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You are not the first person I hear say that and I just don't understand. How do you see this as a waste of life lol?
/r/askTRP16/06/18 06:10 AM
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Months of beings friends and you didn't make move yet? If you are attracted to a chick, then you make a move. What do you think she will think when you reveal to her you WERE attracted to her the whole time but didn't have the balls to do anything about it? You have a lot of reading to do in the sidebar my friend.
/r/askTRP16/06/18 05:56 AM
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You can run down the hill and fuck 1 chick or you can walk down the hill and fuck them all. Get on the link mode train with me brother, it's gonna be a long one
/r/askTRP14/06/18 11:17 PM
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Jesus fuck I'm having brain aneurysm reading this shit
/r/askTRP13/06/18 03:09 PM
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No script here man. TRP is not a cult, it's just here to make you think clearer and free of biases. An alpha man does whatever he wants to have fun. If your hobby is to build legos go fuckin build legos and have fun doing it cause you come first
/r/askTRP13/06/18 02:47 PM
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If you come fast the 1st time, after you cum and she is getting ready to get up or go cuddle, grab her, get her back in bed and tell her "where you going? I'm not done with you" and eat her out / get her to suck you off a bit more to be fully hard and go for round 2. They fuckin love that shit.
/r/askTRP13/06/18 02:40 PM
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I love traveling alone, im pretty spontaneous so it's fun to do what i feel like doing 24/7. Be fun to be along and go socialise. It's fun to talk to complete strangers that you won't ever see again sometimes lol. I like to bullshit them on what I do and where I'm from and shit lmao
/r/askTRP13/06/18 05:18 AM
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The fantasy is being at the controls of your life and pursuing dreams while getting what you want out of women because it just so happens they love that shit. Also, its using your rp knowledge to dodge the unpredictable minefield that is the dating scene nowadays. Just a group of guys sharing notes on life.
/r/askTRP12/06/18 05:41 AM
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she liked having you to herself as backup nice and secure. Now you are more attractive so she knows she will have to compete with other women and she doesn't feel like it because she saw your beta side. That's why its easier to start something new
/r/askTRP11/06/18 07:36 PM
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Hahahaha
/r/askTRP10/06/18 10:58 PM
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That situation sounds fucked lmao. I wouldn't make a move either, ain't that thirsty
/r/askTRP10/06/18 10:46 PM
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Same shit happens to me a lot cause I'm sudo famous. They think it's a big deal even tho to me it's not. It's a lot of comforting, letting her know she is not bothering you when she hits you up, making sure she knows you are still interested. Etc Still absolutely use your rp knowledge... It's just another dynamic
/r/askTRP09/06/18 10:30 PM
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The question is, do you want to fuck her? If yes then go on the date, isolate and escalate. If no, then ignore her If you want to fuck her and you don't go on the date then that just means you still salty. In the end she was just being a woman ya know... Don't take what she says seriously
/r/askTRP06/06/18 01:57 PM
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Next
/r/askTRP06/06/18 01:45 PM
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Yes
/r/askTRP05/06/18 08:58 AM
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Because you are not acting like all those thirsty betas she's used to. She is used to society bending over backwards for her attention and the fact you didn't validate her right away makes her think you are different / higher value. That being said being an ass is not necessary always good. Assholes are not fun to be around. It's all about treating them the same as you would treat some randos on the street.
/r/askTRP05/06/18 06:12 AM
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And that's why all of this me too shit is so scary. We now gotta be extra careful that the girl really wants it before, during and after sex and make sure she doesn't regret any of it without explicitly asking these questions because it's such a turnoff / bad for your frame. Weird times
/r/TheRedPill05/06/18 05:59 AM
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Just schedule the date?
/r/askTRP03/06/18 12:18 AM
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she only kisses when in relationships? lmao Sounds like she was testing to see your reaction cause she plans on making you wait a while. Hopefully you didn't give any BB vibe. If she makes you wait one more date/ is boring, then hard next
/r/askTRP01/06/18 09:20 AM
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Next
/r/askTRP30/05/18 07:18 PM
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Woah stop. Single mom without a job? Tries to manipulate you by breaking up with you multiple times you say? Wants to do "lots of things in life" with YOUR money? And acts entitled to it??? Any of those are hard nexts to any self respecting man. Go fuck her hard one last time and give her the keys to her appartment back and tell her you two have different goals and you are parting ways. Then block her on everything and in 5 years you will laugh about putting up with any of this man. Best of luck
/r/askTRP30/05/18 07:15 PM
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Nah fam, just a normal question since the guy is not sure if it should be a red flag or not. Move along
/r/askTRP30/05/18 06:43 PM
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you are talking about it as if there is 1 girl in the entire world and every dude is competing for her lmao. Be in the top 5% and you win... that simple
/r/askTRP30/05/18 06:46 AM
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Act as if you get compliments all the time.
/r/askTRP30/05/18 04:47 AM
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Lmao wat
/r/askTRP30/05/18 02:52 AM
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All ages. There's no script here man, do what you want. This is the very core of trp, men doing what they want without needing anyone validating them
/r/askTRP20/05/18 06:49 PM
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It doesn't matter if she is into you or not. Assume attraction. Escalate and see where it leads
/r/askTRP20/05/18 06:38 PM
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Ayyy my man Bro you didn't do anything wrong, she's just being a woman and there's nothing more to it.
/r/askTRP20/05/18 06:27 PM
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The beta thought he would get their pussy wet by white knighting them and defending the holy, so important females but it backfired on him and he got real pissed cause this whole situation went exacly opposite of the little dream world he thought he lived in. Now he will adapt, or stay stuck. Guess time will tell
/r/askTRP20/05/18 06:21 PM
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I honestly don't put up with LMRs too much. I'll try to work through it a bit but I don't think it's worth doing all the things guys say they do around here. You're just gonna get called a rapist and put in a cage for years. If a girl plays stupid game I just go cold and hit up another girl right in front of her on my phone and tell her to leave. They usually change their minds by then but I keep frame and go on with my new plans
/r/askTRP20/05/18 06:02 PM
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Soft next if you want to punish bad behavior but dont do too much ignoring or the plate will break. It's a balance you have the gage for yourself. Honestly I don't hate receiving emotional messages from women that are into me. They usually screw up their whole game and tell you the truth in those moments and you can then use it all to your advantage later. It's adorable Or maybe I'm a psychopath idk lmao
/r/askTRP20/05/18 05:53 PM
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What?
/r/askTRP20/05/18 05:46 PM
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He gets to the point without being emotional about it. Nothing's a big deal to him
/r/askTRP20/05/18 05:45 PM
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There won't be LMRs because she has to go and is abroad so no one will find out. Easy lay
/r/askTRP20/05/18 05:42 PM
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Go and fuck her so you realize how meaningless sex is. You are 100% hyping it up. I bet you're gonna say "is this it???" After fucking her
/r/askTRP20/05/18 05:36 PM
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Fake TV is fake lol and you are all getting baited. I work in the industry and im positive all of it is fake as fuck
/r/TheRedPill20/05/18 05:48 AM
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lmao thats fucking hilarious but wouldn't that make her feel good that you got butt hurt over her denying sex?
/r/askTRP19/05/18 09:39 PM
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Its over, the ONLY way she would come back is if chad doesn't call her back after dumping a fat load in her throat. You are the backup plan here
/r/askTRP19/05/18 08:43 PM
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dont be one of those people that all of the sudden go out everyday and uploads tons of snapchat stories in the hopes your ex sees them lol. why do you even check that?
/r/askTRP19/05/18 06:14 PM
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Female only co working huh? Let's try male only co working... oh wait... I'm a sexist all of the sudden
/r/TheRedPill18/05/18 07:38 PM
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GFTOW
/r/askTRP18/05/18 06:32 AM
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yep
/r/askTRP18/05/18 05:41 AM
1

I just saw an example of this in the subway. There was a young dude who bumped into an older man, said sorry and backed off a bit. The older man started talking shit and even threatening the young guy. The young guy just looked at him in the eyes with a grin on his face and kept quietly laughing as he was getting insulted by this crazy old fuck. It was clear he knew old guy wasn't gonna do a fucking thing and wasn't even taking the situation seriously anymore. That's amused mastery.
/r/askTRP17/05/18 11:04 AM
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Don't give a fuck. Oh and don't hit her up lmao
/r/askTRP17/05/18 10:57 AM
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wtf? fuck no
/r/askTRP17/05/18 10:52 AM
1

I had to cut a ton of friends once I became successful. They just became very polarized with me for some reason, its weird. They were either trying to be my BESTEST friend or talking mad shit. I have no time to deal with any of it so I just cut them off and didn't think much of it. Do that
/r/askTRP17/05/18 10:50 AM
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No
/r/askTRP17/05/18 10:48 AM
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Don't shit where you eat. Ok so you texted too much, killed the attraction, she got the validation she wanted when you were wasted, trying to fuck her aaand she's gone. Makes sense to me
/r/askTRP17/05/18 10:43 AM
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You made your stance on the subject known. Obviously don't change your mind if your gf calls you an asshole.. that would be breaking frame.
/r/askTRP17/05/18 10:37 AM
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I'm the same! To me its crazy how many times TRP principles have been confirmed over and over and over again right in front of us when no one's looking. Every damn time I tried unplugging friends / family it went horribly. People react and protect their little dream fake reality that the only way for them to wake up from it is to experience trauma first hand. No matter how fucking clear you make it to them, they will hamster it all in a nice package they are happy with to avoid making changes in…
/r/askTRP17/05/18 10:34 AM
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lmao bro do whatever the fuck you want.
/r/askTRP17/05/18 10:11 AM
1

So imagine you have a friend group, a bunch of low-SMV gamer nerds with no success. One day you decide to fix your teeth, start lifting, get a better haircut and go out more often. Well your gamer friends will see all of those improvements and get jealous because they are too lazy to do those themself so they'll just talk shit about you behind your back and tell you that you changed and that you are an asshole now, that you are pushing your friends away and all that cringe shit. It just hurts th…
/r/askTRP17/05/18 10:09 AM
1

Bitches flake, no biggie, that's why you should always have a backup plan if she flakes on ya. Usually if they're interested they will reschedule the date, if she didn't then wait like a week and try again. If she can't then hard next. Oh and text is for logistics only, when will people understand.
/r/askTRP17/05/18 10:00 AM
1

If you take shirtless pics of yourself you put yourself in the fuckboy category. Unfortunately for you its incredibly easy for low SMV girls to get high SMV guys for quick side fucks. Especially online where hypergamy is made simple for them.
/r/askTRP17/05/18 09:44 AM
3

having trouble believing op here tbh. why the fuck would you waste your time with her then?
/r/askTRP17/05/18 09:38 AM
14

Say you do but dont do it. Always be too busy to hang out normally. That's usually the advice here
/r/askTRP17/05/18 08:54 AM
2

Yes.
/r/askTRP17/05/18 01:24 AM
40

Do not try to help him, he will tell everything to his unicorn cause he puts her on the pedestal. I once tried to help my friend of 9 years with his unicorn because she was completely manipulating him and getting him to cut ties with me (she was an ex plate of mine, trying to make me jealous) and then the fucking rat snitched everything to her like the good little beta he was. I lost a good friend and learned a lesson that day. Don't trust beta men. They will do anything for pussy.
/r/askTRP12/05/18 05:43 PM
1

No but you have to remember they have a lot more options so don't expect much from them. Don't change anything just have no expectations and see where it goes
/r/askTRP11/05/18 11:03 PM
1

It's about doing what you have to do and not what you want to do. That simple. Take your feelings out of the equation completely.
/r/askTRP11/05/18 04:55 PM
1

Yes
/r/askTRP11/05/18 04:46 PM
1

The fuck lol? You overthinking this shit bro. She told you she's on her period to inform you she's on her period. Tell her to come over and you 2 will fuck, easy.
/r/askTRP11/05/18 04:33 PM
1

Hahahaa that exact thing happened to me man! She told me she didn't care at the time but I knew it was eating her insides. The next time we fucked she was soo proud and happy to have made me cum it's like it was a mission for her. They are just chasing validation at the end of the day.
/r/askTRP11/05/18 04:23 PM
1

What women will often do is tell you the lowest N-count possible -for you-. Meaning, the amount of people that she fucked that you know of. If she tells you 5, then she fucked 5 dudes in your circle and a whole lot more that you can't verify.
/r/askTRP11/05/18 04:12 PM
2

6? I would bet my dick she had more than 6 bud. I have yet to meet a girl who doesn't lie about this. Let me tell you a story, I once had a plate, let's call her R. R told me multiple times that she only had 1 guy before me but her stories were not adding up. She kept pushing for commitment and being weird as fuck with me e.g. telling people that we were in a relationship behind my back etc...) One day I confronted her about this and she flipped out, pushed for commitment once again, I told her …
/r/askTRP11/05/18 04:07 PM
1

Even if a girl is a 10/10, virgin, nice firm tits with a nice perky ass, wakes me up with a blowjob every morning, gives me no drama at all, arranges threesomes for me weekly I still wouldn't marry. The day you marry you lose everything that made you attractive in the first place. She will stop competing for you, feel secure and stop trying because she knows you can't run away now since she holds all the power. A married man is a tamed man. Oh and she will also steal HALF of your hard earned mon…
/r/askTRP11/05/18 03:45 PM
1

She doesn't HAVE to know about it, she just has to know that you don't need her. She will figure out the rest on her own
/r/askTRP02/05/18 09:11 PM
1

She knows you can fuck other girls easily and doesn't want to be just another thot and thinks you will want her more if you can't get her right away. Make her understand her retarded game isn't working by withdrawing attention and fucking other girls. Oh and please don't tell her overtly that you are fucking other girls like I see sometimes here lol.
/r/askTRP02/05/18 08:37 PM
1

Bud, I have the same thing going on. I always masturbated with tensed up legs and now, I can't cum unless I'm in that position. I also can't get fully 100% hard with my legs spread. I can be really close (like 90-95%) but not quite 100%. I had some ED issues because I was stressing out about it but when I started seeing it as a good thing (it really is if you use it to your advantage) it boosted my confidence and the ED went away. Learn to work with it eg; get your girl to get you ready, push he…
/r/askTRP02/05/18 12:05 AM
1

I had a buddy of mine completely let his onitis unicorn manipulate him into cutting ties with me. She did that because I wouldn't have a relationship with her so she tried to make me jealous by going to him. Needless to say they are both out of my life and I didn't spend a single second worrying about them. Funny thing is she doesn't want him at all and only faked it as long as she had to to get back at me. I knew that guy for 9 fucking years but once a girl got involved, the dude pulled a compl…
/r/askTRP27/04/18 04:16 PM
3

Live in are a mistake the huge majority of the time, the girl's gonna get really comfortable and will stop competing this she will stop pleasing you. If it's one of those situations where you REALLY had to move in together, then you need to apply dread. Read up on the 12 levels of dread. Oh and start going out on your own.
/r/askTRP23/04/18 01:04 AM
1

Thanks for the reply man, yeah I think there's a bit of depression in there. I hate to think of myself as being depressed tho, just sounds like a bad excuse. I think you are right about setting hard time limits to make sure to keep some balance. When you are your own boss its so easy to tell yourself you'll go to sleep whenever you are done but the thing is, you're never done... Literally every night I went to sleep during that period, I was stressing about how much work I had to do the next day…
/r/askTRP22/04/18 07:24 AM
1

I just started eating a lot better and cutting on the caffeine and I do feel better. I used to drink 2 large red bull can per day (~500ml each so ~1L of redbull/day lmao). Stopped when I started having heart palpitations. Scary shit.
/r/askTRP22/04/18 07:19 AM
1

will look into it, thanks
/r/askTRP22/04/18 07:17 AM
4

This kid memeing us hard, don't feed the troll
/r/askTRP13/04/18 09:43 AM
6

Just from the title alone, oneitis
/r/askTRP09/04/18 03:39 PM
8

Yep so true man, at first I did all of that self-improvement shit to make my ex unicorn sorry. That was some real good motivation back then. After a while I slowly realized she wasn't that special and I can do better than her. That's when I started doing things for myself.
/r/askTRP30/03/18 11:37 PM
1

There's tons of very good advice here but the very first thing you need to do is to drop the victim mentality you are in. At the core of all that is RP, what unites us is the fact we reject the victim mentality that so many other groups are preaching. Once you understand that you will be on your way to self improvement like all of us.
/r/askTRP26/03/18 10:46 PM
7

You have a good head shape man, looks wide and manly. Focus on what you can change: Lift heavy, grow a beard, get some tattoos and you gonna look like a real bad motherfucker.
/r/askTRP26/03/18 08:14 PM
1

They're from the same friend group. Im not gonna go out of my way to keep it all under cover or some shit. But I get what you are saying
/r/askTRP25/03/18 01:56 AM
1

I mean I was trying to plan something fun and all of the sudden plans are out and I got both of them bitching about the other to me.
/r/askTRP25/03/18 01:43 AM
4

Got fucked over by my oneitis showing me fake love to get money and status out of me, figured out what went wrong (fucking everything) and moved on from it all using it as motivation to never put someone before me ever again. These days whenever I talk to BP dudes I find it amusing to talk about girls with them. It reminds me of how much progress I've done and how ahead of the curve trp took me.
/r/askTRP19/03/18 06:39 PM
6

lmao chill
/r/askTRP19/03/18 03:15 AM
7

Thanks, had a feeling. Good to know its something I can control and change.
/r/askTRP12/03/18 03:20 AM
1

You sound like some freshman high schooler that's really excited about getting female attention for the first time in his life, dreaming about marrying a girl he talked to once or twice at the lunch table.
/r/askTRP08/03/18 04:39 AM
2

Next
/r/askTRP07/03/18 05:56 PM
1

Don't try to qualify yourself to her, you are the catch, not the other way around.
/r/askTRP07/03/18 05:45 PM
8

Next time don't even bat an eye. Just be like "oh you cheated? Aight well come get your stuff. Do it quick I have a busy day." And don't talk to her ever again. By bitching and insulting her you are displaying how much she meant for you and how valuable she is. You are basically complimenting her.
/r/askTRP07/03/18 12:44 AM
2

You are really close to looking butthurt. Make sure you are outcome independent here, especially with how you acted in the past. Doing a 180 like that in a relationship is usually pretty obvious and doesn't work out well. Make sure you have a good time next time you see her
/r/askTRP07/03/18 12:11 AM
1

What the fuck is going on here? Have some self respect and stop hamstering that everything is fine. Save this post somewhere and read it in 2 years time, you won't believe that this was your life at some point. Tell her you are breaking up and don't act bothered by it all. She clearly has 0 respect for you and its all your fault. Trust me I know it sucks to hear that but there is no way to save this one
/r/askTRP06/03/18 11:59 PM
1

Just stop talking to her that's it. Ghost her... If you see her around and she asks you about it, just say you were busy.
/r/askTRP06/03/18 11:34 PM
2

I can relate to this 100%, I'm the same and I fucking hate it. I can think of everything I want to say and it all makes sense in my head but as soon as I open my mouth and start talking, its like i'm bombarded with a thousand other ideas and lose my train of thought. It sucks cause its often the first impression people get of you. People say meditation helps a lot with that so maybe try it, I haven't had much success with it cause I just can't seem to shut down my thoughts. GL with that.
/r/askTRP06/03/18 11:31 PM
1

You need abundance. This is a prime example of ''she's not yours, its just your turn''. There's nothing special about this girl, nothing special about you, nothing special about the relationship between you two. Stop trying to read into it more than you need to, you have a cute girl that loves having sex with you... Enjoy it and move on with your day. If you can't then move on from her, nothing good will come out of that.
/r/askTRP06/03/18 11:22 PM
1

wear a condom and enjoy some good sex in the meanwhile
/r/askTRP02/03/18 08:38 PM
1

Why are you asking us if you should escalate? You are not trying to be best friend with this chick are you? If not then of course escalate. Months is a long time too, chances are she thinks you are pretty beta and taking forever to make moves.
/r/askTRP02/03/18 05:23 AM
1

That's so good lol, will start doing that.
/r/askTRP02/03/18 05:21 AM
3

Same thing happened to me. Its perfectly normal to be a bit nervous at first. Just focus on the moment and having a good time, do what YOU want with her. She's yours to enjoy. Be selfish, she will love it.
/r/askTRP02/03/18 05:13 AM
2

Read sidebar, lift. Don't let anyone ever get in between you and your mission.
/r/askTRP02/03/18 05:09 AM
2

Its beta, don't do it. Do it during sex instead.
/r/askTRP02/03/18 05:07 AM
3

Yeah man that's pretty common. They literally take hundreds of pictures and only show the best 1-2. Thing is, the value of a women is almost solely based off of her looks. So it makes sense...
/r/askTRP02/03/18 05:05 AM
1

Unless she is coming over soon there's really no point in talking to her imo. She's just looking for some validation, trying to see if you're still into her.
/r/askTRP02/03/18 05:01 AM
2

Cock Carousel A metaphorical place that (unfortunately) women will go to in their 20's. They will essentially give out free fucks to all the Chads, and will then act as if they are entitled, justified and free to now settle down with any beta male for the purpose of having a family.
/r/askTRP02/03/18 01:56 AM
1

She's trying to break up and she is literally putting it on you. Its your fault if we're breaking up, you don't give enough of a shit about me to let me go ride the CC for a little bit. ''I don't want to spend my young years in your room'' is literally telling you she is dying to ride the CC. Drop her and don't act bothered by it all. This is done for. Good luck man I know it sucks.
/r/askTRP02/03/18 01:40 AM
1

if you're average then you're good lmao. There's dudes with 4 inchers that have to deal with it for the rest of their lives with more confidence than you. tf out of here worrying about your average dick
/r/askTRP01/03/18 01:10 AM
1

Nothing you can do about dick size so it shouldn't even be on your mind. If that makes you feel better here in canada its really cold in the winter and I've never had a girl comment on how small my flacid dick was or some shit lol. They don't give a fuck about your soft dick, you care way more than they do.
/r/askTRP01/03/18 12:12 AM
6

Man, LDRs don't exist. I tried one in my BP days and I cringe so much just thinking about it. You give her all the validation in the world for very limited sex and you also show her your lack of options because who in their right mind would date someone they can't fuck on a regular basis? Cmon man get real and end this. Don't act bothered by it all just tell her you are moving on from this and wish her best of luck, then ghost her.
/r/askTRP24/02/18 03:03 AM
2

That happens all the time man. If a girl can't get you and she can't stand seeing you with someone else because of jealousy, then she will try her best to slander you to make the other girls lose interest. Happened to me with a girl that went behind my back and told other girls we were in a relationship together and that I had a small dick lmfao. Funny how losing that ''small dick'' was the END OF THE WORLD for her. It just made it a pleasant surprise for the other girl when she realized she was…
/r/askTRP23/02/18 04:23 PM
1

Don't talk about it, don't show it. Girls want a finished product. Make it seem like it comes natural for you, you were born with big muscles and you just get it.
/r/askTRP23/02/18 12:31 AM
7

cant fuck pixels
/r/askTRP22/02/18 01:32 AM
2

I know it sucks dude, the first time I had sex was fucking horrible and cringy. Hurt my ego a bit until I got to fuck another one properly this time. I think back every now and then and laugh it off. It doesn't matter, just get another girl. That one's probably done with you tbf.
/r/askTRP18/02/18 04:02 AM
1

You don't need anyone else's approval than your own.
/r/askTRP18/02/18 03:27 AM
8

Hey man just a heads up, you have to ask for advice on here. If the mods see this they'll perm ban you
/r/askTRP18/02/18 03:25 AM
2

I have that whenever I'm not focusing on my online business. Social media makes me feel a bit better about wasting my time and its a vicious cycle. Every time I feel addicted to it its because I am not happy with other parts of my life. Does that sound familiar to you? Anyways, better cut that shit out quick before you become addicted to those small meaningless dopamine hits.
/r/askTRP15/02/18 02:11 AM
11

Man I know its hard to think that way because you are still in the moment but that girl really doesn't matter. There are TONS of other girls out there, that's abundance mentality. Who cares if you blew it, who cares if it was cringy and all that shit. It was your first date and you got some experience. Man the first time I had sex was a fucking disaster. Trust me, cringy as fuck... Sometimes I think back about it and laugh it off because it really doesn't matter. Its all about getting out there …
/r/askTRP15/02/18 01:48 AM
1

You must only give validation by and while having sex with her. Compliment her, tell her what she does to you and how you can't control yourself etc... That way she's always gonna want to fuck your brains out because that's when you make her feel good. Its like training a puppy in a way.
/r/askTRP15/02/18 12:28 AM
3

agree, amplify and then look at her as if you are amused by the stupid shit she just said to you
/r/askTRP14/02/18 10:27 PM
2

I think you should be the one answering that question. If it keeps you busy and makes you feel fulfilled then I think you're good. You know, at the end of the day, you're the captain of the ship.
/r/askTRP14/02/18 09:06 PM
2

yeah I have the same problem lmao. Its funny like, I always feel like they are over estimating my value and I'm just not backing it up with that same level of confidence. Just something to work on I guess. But yeah just calibrate it as best you can but plates do eventually fall... One day she's gonna want answers and being vague won't be good enough.
/r/askTRP14/02/18 09:02 PM
1

Yeah that happens to me all the time. I got lucky with an online business and I now have this status where girls think I'm always out of their league when really I'm not. Take it as a comfort test. Just make sure you give a little at a time to stay colder/ less invested than her obviously. Calibrate from there.
/r/askTRP14/02/18 08:14 PM
3

That's pretty personal. Changes from person to person but usually its career, crushing bad habits, getting in better shape, getting smarter etc.
/r/askTRP14/02/18 08:07 PM
1

Just make sure you don't change who you are for women. That's what betas do.
/r/askTRP14/02/18 08:04 PM
1

I was talking about the first 2 line there
/r/askTRP14/02/18 02:13 AM
1

Missed the late 20s thing. Yeah man be careful she's gonna have baby rabies soon ha.
/r/askTRP13/02/18 08:05 PM
1

Exacly that. I believe that nice guys need get fucked over to actually swallow the red pill. I didn't know something was wrong until my unicorn left me a fucking wreck. That's when I figured something was wrong and I needed a big change. You know, sometimes I try to help my beta friends with their problems and they just don't fucking get it. They take my words and then they do the opposite. I really think you need to get crushed and built from the ground up.
/r/askTRP13/02/18 08:02 PM
1

this
/r/askTRP13/02/18 06:53 PM
1

Sounds like you were the backup plan and she failed to get commitment from the other alpha in the picture. You are not her first choice and she tried to settle for you. She was probably pretty surprised when you denied her wasn't she? Don't LTR that woman, she clearly doesn't see you as high value and won't value your attention/time.
/r/askTRP13/02/18 06:49 PM
1

you are an orbiter and she does whatever she feels is necessary to keep you interested. The nudes are just a carrot on a stick. She is addicted to male attention and validation. Just another insecure attention whore. If you are not getting what you want, why should she? If she pushed you away only once then give it one last go. Escalate hard and if it doesn't work: get up, don't act bothered by it all, don't act butt hurt... just tell her you gotta go. Then ghost her ass and next her for good.
/r/askTRP13/02/18 06:41 PM
1

First mistake is to argue with a woman. You should withdraw attention instead. Arguing with a woman NEVER fucking solves anything. Second mistake was to be butt hurt from her withdrawing sex. Thing is man, women think in the moment. The very instant she texted you, she really believed that she didn't want to have sex with you. But when you two get over there and you ramp up the sexual tension and you tease her and all, she won't be able to resist riding that dick like nothing happened. You are f…
/r/askTRP13/02/18 06:30 PM
1

Not sure whats the point of this post but the fact that she saw that you have balls and don't care getting rejected is a good thing if that's what you're asking.
/r/askTRP13/02/18 06:18 PM
4

That sounds pretty bad already lol. How sure are you that nothing happened? Do you have proof that her friend was with them? Anyways, You must apply dread man, you need to show her that you have options and that she can't fuck around or else she'll lose you. You can't stop her from cheating. What you can do is make her dread losing you and making her understand its a very real possibility. Oh and she fucking knows its grinding your gears. She plays dumb like all girls would do in this situation …
/r/askTRP13/02/18 06:14 PM
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Sounds like she wants to be more than a plate. Cuddling without sex, cooking a great dinner for you etc. If you want her to stay a plate you have to limit the cuddling and leave whenever you realize no sex is going to take place. Make sure you don't come off as butt hurt however. Don't act bothered by it all, you are a busy man and you have stuff to do.
/r/askTRP13/02/18 06:05 PM
1

reads title reads 1st line ??????????????????
/r/askTRP13/02/18 05:09 PM
2

Dude, I've tried both really. Here's my experiences. When they know I have money they act like GOOD GIRLS and lie about n count, push for commitment early and spit out so much bullshit for me to view them as higher value than they actually are. Its like they play a strategy game where they plan out each and every move to make me think they are good LTR material. Most of the time (100% of the time) I find it all really fucking cringy. When they don't know about money they are much more fun and tr…
/r/askTRP13/02/18 04:49 PM
1

brother, you don't HAVE to let this one go so quickly lol. She just told you she did want to kiss. She knows she fucked up a little and will think about you all night long probably. Just take the lead, set up 1 more date and escalate. It's gonna be REAL easy this time because she's gonna be dying for you to make a move. If she's not interested then next her for good. Don't listen to all the wanna be redpill meatheads who think they figured it all out lol. Sometimes in the real world the girl jus…
/r/askTRP13/02/18 04:28 PM
1

read the sidebar ''girls night out'' You must let her go. Don't even make it a big deal, just get some work done and if you're really busy with work when she gives you a call, don't even answer and call her back an hour later or some shit. Make 100% sure you don't come off as the worried guy who is scared to lose his gf because he doesn't have options.
/r/askTRP13/02/18 04:13 PM
0

Dude relax, you can get much younger and hotter women. You have a lot of time in front of you and she doesn't.
/r/askTRP13/02/18 03:58 PM
2

Do it if you feel like it man, if it makes you feel good and didn't cost much whats the big deal? Don't ask for permission here or whatever, do what you want.
/r/askTRP13/02/18 01:11 AM
1

^
/r/askTRP12/02/18 11:50 PM
7

Sounds like shes gonna push for commitment hard... Trying to guilt you for wanting sex, teasing you enough to keep your attention but making you wait for it cause she's a GOOD GIRL NOW. We all know she gave it up on the first day to plenty of other dudes... but with you; she wants more than that! c: Fuck that. Happens all the time if they know you have money. If she doesn't give it up on the next date then block her for wasting so much of your time.
/r/askTRP12/02/18 08:38 PM
1

to stop being needy and to stop putting girls on top of the priority list. That's how you lose them in the first place, so ironic.
/r/askTRP11/02/18 09:57 PM
1

lmao didnt know that cuckold shit was actually real. what the fuck did i just watch, why would you want to be the cuck lmao
/r/askTRP11/02/18 09:52 PM
1

Here's what you need to do: Go to her place, tell her you are breaking up with her, don't explain why and don't justify yourself. Don't act bothered by it all just be very stoic. Go back home, block the bitch and work on yourself.
/r/askTRP11/02/18 07:03 PM
9

Never decide why a woman shouldn't fuck you, let her do that herself. What's this staying in your lane shit? The worst that can happen is you getting a bit of experience. That's fuckin it
/r/askTRP11/02/18 05:35 AM
1

This might come from the lack of validation your ex LTR was filling. You used to want to fuck all these chicks cause you felt worthy and good about yourself. Now you are more depressed and less confident which makes you crave the validation another LTR would give you. You need to find why you have that lack of confidence and how to fix it. Could also be that you just don't like being a player. If you are not interested in plating women then don't. Some people just prefer LTRs and that's fine. Ju…
/r/askTRP11/02/18 03:14 AM
1

I'm not sure tbh, I haven't been here for that long. Just make sure you don't justify/explain yourself to her. That's what betas do. I'm sure someone's gonna have a better answer soon enough
/r/askTRP11/02/18 03:03 AM
1

She's obviously not into you if she asked why lol. If you were chad she would've been dying for you to kiss her all night long. Remove attention and work on yourself man
/r/askTRP11/02/18 02:55 AM
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