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| 126 | There are only two kinds of women... | Red Pill Example | BecomingReborn | /r/TheRedPill | 28/09/14 08:33 PM |
| 19 | Frame as resilience when dealing with stressors | Red Pill Theory | BecomingReborn | /r/TheRedPill | 15/12/14 05:27 PM |
| 19 | Obesity and SMV : a preponderance of overweight women is worse for men than a preponderance of overweight men is for women. | Red Pill Example | BecomingReborn | /r/TheRedPill | 29/10/14 08:50 PM |
| 15 | We should view getting laid as doing something mundane that's just hard to do and takes practice but has some level of genetic skill. | Blue Pill Example | BecomingReborn | /r/TheRedPill | 24/08/14 11:55 PM |
| 3 | Some concerns I have regarding the "alpha" and "beta" distinction. | Red Pill Theory | BecomingReborn | /r/TheRedPill | 22/08/14 12:19 AM |
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| 1 | "What Open Marriage Taught One Man About Feminism"Whenever I tell someone I stay home with the kids, they invariably say, “Hardest work in the world.” They say this because the only way to account for a man at home with the kids is to say what he’s doing is hard work. But there’s a subtext in the compliment that makes it backhanded: We both know no one ever says it to a woman. This dude is unhinged | /r/AntiFeminists | 02/11/15 12:36 PM |
| 6 | 21 and already regretful over my count and stupid sexual experimentation. Also, terrified of hitting the wall some day.The number one reason a guy wants a girl with a low notch count is that he's afraid you'll cheat. Make him feel like you won't cheat (not by literally telling him, but by showing him with your actions and the subtle ways you speak and how you react to situations) and you're golden. But guys are so sensitive to those clues that literally the only way to give off the vibe that you're a loyal woman is to actually deep in your heart be loyal and want to be loyal. He shouldn't even have to ask your n… | /r/RedPillWomen | 18/12/14 05:13 AM |
| 3 | Woman Aren't Worth The TroubleSee, that's where you're not getting it. YOU wouldn't call explaining things in a clear and rational way an "argument", but ALL females would. They are a bit more emotional and interpret opposition if any kind (even if it's just opposition about an abstract concept) in a negative light. It's like they are in permanent ad hominem mode. I just don't bother explaining things to girls I'm fucking/trying to fuck--that's the thing that's just not worth it. Girls are totally worth it though--as long as… | /r/TheRedPill | 15/12/14 09:59 AM |
| 13 | I am Beta. How do I change that?You let girls walk all over you because you're afraid to lose them. You're afraid to lose them because you don't feel like you deserve them. You don't feel like you deserve them because you don't think you could impress them just by being you. You don't think you could impress them just by being you because you don't impress yourself. You don't impress yourself because you haven't done anything or don't do anything that you personally find impressive. You haven't done anything that you find impr… | /r/TheRedPill | 14/12/14 10:35 AM |
| 8 | Woman Aren't Worth The TroubleDude, you engaged in a text argument. Fail. And yeah like the other commenter said, you gotta be careful with using the word bitch. It's kind of like a girl joking about you being a pussy. It's almost never a great humor tool. Direct name calling has always resulted in a shitty outcome for me in the past, so I tend to avoid it, even if it OBVIOUSLY a joke. Guys are just different in that regard. Girls are awesome man. Just be less serious and stop caring. It's not trouble if you just treat it li… | /r/TheRedPill | 14/12/14 06:20 AM |
| 1 | Kim K to spend the night with Saudi Prince for $1 millionI'm attracted to butts of all shapes and sizes, except gross obese butts with cellulite. But the small butts with subtle curves..... reserve a special place in my heart. 100lbs is nice. I like to think about, talk about, be around and just deal in general with many kinds if butts though. | /r/TheRedPill | 14/12/14 06:12 AM |
| 1 | Kim K to spend the night with Saudi Prince for $1 millionHaha yeah. Honestly the Saudi prince is probably pretty beta anyways. Often beta behavior coincides with patriarchal societies and alpha behavior with feminized societies. It has to do with the strategies men need to employ to get laid. Men just aren't shit tested in Saudi Arabia and so they aren't weathered like northern euro and American guys. I think buying sex really could go either way, but in the extremes. Your betas and lesser alphas wouldn't do it. An omega with cheeto stains on his t-sh… | /r/TheRedPill | 14/12/14 06:00 AM |
| 6 | Kim K to spend the night with Saudi Prince for $1 millionPussy is never free. It's only about what you're willing to pay for it. Since you aren't as wealthy as a Saudi prince, 1 million seems unreasonable to you. But, let's assume he has 500 million and you have 100,000. He is sending the equivalent of $200 for you (much less if you're worth less): the price of a medium level hooker. She is basically a medium level hooker to him, and he gets to brag about cuckholding Kanye and hey, maybe he loves dat ass. What, you're telling me you just walk around a… | /r/TheRedPill | 12/12/14 03:28 PM |
| 2 | Kim K to spend the night with Saudi Prince for $1 millionTrue, but then there's elegantly dainty with subtle curves, which is probably what he means. He is probably using feminine to mean less aggressive in this context. | /r/TheRedPill | 12/12/14 03:10 PM |
| 1 | Alphas foster strong loving relationships, whereas relationships with betas rot and fester into toxic codependency.Yes definitely. Women will never admit that they don't want what they want and they do want what they don't want. This post is the definition of hamstering. The process of trying to convince the world with convoluted logic that they want what they say they want is just hamstering bs. The reality is that in the modern world where strength and frame are totally unnecessary, a beta makes a much more stable relationship. It's just unattractive bc women are masochists. (Actually it's really because w… | /r/TheRedPill | 10/12/14 04:12 AM |
| 1 | Women are not what you expect them to beHell yeah. They watch porn like crazy too. Their fidelity is a facade. They have nothing else to offer, so they lie, saying they would never cheat. But, all males are the same. At the drop of a hat they will cheat. The only differences between men are how many opportunities they have and how aggressive/confident that are at pursuing those opportunities. | /r/TheRedPill | 09/12/14 05:52 PM |
| 1 | Women are not what you expect them to beI partly agree. I know I can be totally in love with a girl and cheat on her. Even beta white knights have their own form of cheating: chronic porn and masturbation. It's the same for alphas, just with real women. When women cheat, it's because they simply don't love the guy anymore. A woman cheating spells disaster for a relationship. But a guy cheating might even be a good signal: the dude is probably alpha (unless hookers) | /r/TheRedPill | 09/12/14 05:48 PM |
| 1 | Women are not what you expect them to beI find this intuitive. Men (at least in my experience as a man) find the sex they're having as the best sex at the time--sure they remember that hot night with that super hot 9; but it doesn't detract from the sex they're actually presently having. A nut is a nut. But girls remember that awesome orgasm they had in Cabo with that ripped dude (who fucked her not because she was fantastic, but because guys like to fuck girls of all shapes and sizes--especially high T, ripped alphas). So the more se… | /r/TheRedPill | 09/12/14 05:40 PM |
| 1 | If you are struggling getting to the top 20% consider going to Thailand to experience what it feels likeOk. That's true. But the threshold for being this is much lower in Thailand. So a guy who's on the edge or beneath it in the US can go to Thailand and be hot stuff. | /r/TheRedPill | 30/11/14 11:14 PM |
| 14 | Women are not what you expect them to beLook, study after study has shown beyond a shadow of a doubt that men will be sexually unfaithful more often and more quickly than women (that includes studies that film interactions undercover--women refuse sexual opportunities more than men, period). It even makes evolutionary sense. Women have a finite supply of eggs and need to be more careful and choosy with who they mate with. Moreover, mate guarding males will denounce the children of a "whore" who cheated on them and even get violent wit… | /r/TheRedPill | 30/11/14 11:02 PM |
| 6 | If you are struggling getting to the top 20% consider going to Thailand to experience what it feels likeIf you were perceived as extremely wealthy and of a higher social caste in the US you would get similar reactions from women. I had a good laugh from reading that. Maybe women near the wall it post wall. This is my experience. But younger women in America are fed the semi-lie that there will always be a BB waiting to pay for everything when they reach age "30 or something". So why bother offering sex to some BB with mediocre looks now when you can have that stud with a tan and no money AND you l… | /r/TheRedPill | 30/11/14 02:13 AM |
| 0 | Be wary of double standards and the pussy pass - it can ruin friendshipsAss in your face? Rude. Them getting pissed bc you had boundaries is lame. But the racial comment. What was the point? | /r/TheRedPill | 03/11/14 07:55 AM |
| 8 | Girls are like talent scouts - all of themRight. Absolutely right. What we forget at TRP about evolution is that in the past, when we were developing our current traits, the chance to successfully reproduce and generate viable offspring was small. Thus, the optimization process that women are instigating when they seek a mate involved a constraint: mating with an absolute loser is better than not mating at all. There's also a time constraint. So certain "buttons" evolved that statistically correlated with survival success as a male (sor… | /r/TheRedPill | 03/11/14 07:32 AM |
| 2 | Obesity and SMV : a preponderance of overweight women is worse for men than a preponderance of overweight men is for women.I think you're right. It's a common thing to say, but if you think about it, what does submissive even mean? Every Asian girl I've dated has been quite the opposite of submissive. They love to tease you and do NOT like to be told what to do (just like any human). What they are, rather, is kind. Yes, kind. AKA, considerate, polite, whatever. It has nothing to do with male-female relationships (I would hardly describe Asian males as "dominant") and everything to do with basic human conscientiousne… | /r/TheRedPill | 03/11/14 07:16 AM |
| 5 | Obesity and SMV : a preponderance of overweight women is worse for men than a preponderance of overweight men is for women.What's weird is I could never imagine letting myself go. Why can't women get joy out of being healthy and attractive for its own sake? It's all just a show for them until they get married. My ex-girlfriend was extremely hot and after half a year of dating she gained a lot of weight. Meanwhile I continued lifting and eating healthy regardless of the fact that I was in a stable relationship. I dropped her eventually, a and suddenly she lost the weight again and started combing the beach for guys. … | /r/TheRedPill | 30/10/14 04:40 AM |
| 3 | Obesity and SMV : a preponderance of overweight women is worse for men than a preponderance of overweight men is for women.Yeah. I'm not saying it's bad. I'm saying you don't really see this obsession develop among societies without an obesity epidemic, because it doesn't need to. Among the naturally higher T guys, there will be plate spinning. But a lot of guys who would otherwise be content with a nice wife and kids to come home to are forced to become alpha plate spinners to avoid being some land whale's chihuahua. | /r/TheRedPill | 30/10/14 04:34 AM |
| 2 | Why women won't admit they like muscle?My girlfriend said "hot guys aren't my type" the other day. I ignored it. Like many women she says a lot of nonsensical things and has no idea what she wants. | /r/TheRedPill | 22/10/14 06:11 AM |
| 5 | Why women won't admit they like muscle?Yeah true. But you still have to lift a lot of weights for a long time to look like Ryan gosling or brad Pitt. Most guys are so far from this that the focus on gaining muscle is only helping them. Just like most girls are so fat and gross that the focus on being skinny is only helping them. | /r/TheRedPill | 22/10/14 05:59 AM |
| 2 | you MUST lift. Not yoga, stretching, pushups (body weight), fighting, or any of that other bullshit.In past days it wasnt about strength either. Humans are weak as fuck and we rule the world. | /r/TheRedPill | 15/10/14 06:16 AM |
| 2 | Height > Celebrity status, money etc.Might as well worry about your penis size too. Let's all get multiple kinds of cosmetic surgery to be physically hot and attract women based on our looks. Oh wait. We're not girls. Never mind. | /r/TheRedPill | 15/10/14 05:59 AM |
| 1 | 33 Techniques To Disarm The Male LeaderTry to do these in most corporate settings and no one will like you. Some of these might work in a straight up argument. But most powerful people avoid engaging in those. | /r/TheRedPill | 15/10/14 05:53 AM |
| 1 | Sexually frustrated guy tears into his female friends for not fucking him. (x-post from /r/cringepics)His anger may even be self-directed but expressed outwardly as an ego defense mechanism. If he expresses his rage outwardly strongly enough, he just might signal to others that he is not the cause and will then get others to feel sorry for him and receive attention from females indirectly. So it's still just an extreme version of passive aggression. The guy literally cannot express himself genuinely, even his anger. | /r/TheRedPill | 15/10/14 05:34 AM |
| 1 | Sexually frustrated guy tears into his female friends for not fucking him. (x-post from /r/cringepics)Blue rage... I honestly just can't relate. My whole life I've intuitively known (even when I was more blue pill/beta) that girls don't come to you. You go to them--and no, being nice to them doesn't count. You actually have to make your sexual intentions explicit--albeit in a subtle way. If you don't, your sexual urges will all boil over into crazy and angry internet posts that creep every girl out. Blue rage is essentially cowardly-passive-aggressiveness-turned-temper-tantrum. Here's how I thin… | /r/TheRedPill | 15/10/14 05:13 AM |
| 6 | you MUST lift. Not yoga, stretching, pushups (body weight), fighting, or any of that other bullshit.Physical strength is the most important thing in life. Give me a break. Increasing strength surely increases happiness as a man (all else equal), but it's a far cry from being the most important thing in life. Apes are stronger then men. Men rule the world. The must powerful man in the world is surely not the strongest. The most important thing in life is what is the most important to you...it's subjective. | /r/TheRedPill | 15/10/14 04:54 AM |
| 1 | Let's debate this once and for all. Does money make you Alpha?money is not going to help you unless you can use it to overtly advertise social status in a tactful way. Alpha is about dominance. Dominance among modern humans relates mostly to social prestige and social value. This is not the same as having money, but it's related. | /r/TheRedPill | 08/10/14 05:11 AM |
| 1 | There is a "new masculinity" wherein women & betas re-label traditional markers of male success as "sexist" or "divisive". It's a comforting mechanism by which losers will try to redefine failure as success and success as wrong.Survival (especially financial survival) is all about taking value and opportunities away from others. That's not true. You're confusing the sexual market place with what it is to be human in general. When it comes to mating, you're right. But survival in general often requires people to work together and ADD value to the table. Alpha males TAKE sexual partners away from other men by adding value. Note: this does not mean cowtowing. You may have to take someone else's position or credit etc... t… | /r/TheRedPill | 07/10/14 04:37 PM |
| 1 | Can't find a better man.Keep this in mind: if you are top of your game in terms of your work or whatever it is you have a passion for, women will make it much easier for you to approach them. Suddenly women who would have turned a blind eye are being flirtatious with you and offering you food or making excuses to be around you. They may be passive creatures, but they know what they want and have their own "game" too. | /r/TheRedPill | 07/10/14 06:08 AM |
| 2 | There are only two kinds of women...Yeah, I will have to agree that women also like gentle traits in men. They have instincts about what kind of man, given their "look" will be a good combo of masculine but also gentle enough to be a "safe choice"--someone who will stick around and raise a kid. And if those kind of men, as humans (since humans are unique in needing to raise their children for quite some time), will get a lot of female attention, it would make sense for women to have "evolved" a desire for them. It is a narrow view… | /r/TheRedPill | 06/10/14 02:57 AM |
| 1 | What does The Red Pill think of hiring an escort/prostitute?I disagree, and I'm not a psychopath either. I want to feel desired, sure. But I genuinely enjoy the act of sex just for itself, even if the only reason the person is doing it with me is because I paid them. Now, I would feel uncomfortable if she was being forced and was disgusted by the act. Just like I would feel a uncomfortable paying someone who hated cooking to cook for me. So I would prefer to sleep with those escorts who enjoys the job (even if they don't crave me in particular it whateve… | /r/TheRedPill | 06/10/14 02:50 AM |
| 0 | Have any guys in here actually had success with good looking American women?Yeah. It's hard. You need money money money. Money will give you connections you never thought possible. | /r/TheRedPill | 05/10/14 02:13 AM |
| 2 | Have any guys in here actually had success with good looking American women?Money and status. These women flock to men who have huge networks and are very very high status. I come from a kind of high status background and see men dating these women all the time. They aren't particularly huge guys (though they are tall and have strong jaws and wear a suit every day). The whole AFBB thing is a little over played. I do not see huge guys with no money and tattoos dating hot blond girls all the time. The girls the are with are usually hot, but not of the same echelon as the … | /r/TheRedPill | 05/10/14 01:59 AM |
| 4 | How should I approach this shit-test?It's definitely society...partly. Also youth. Here's how it works. Humans are very sexual and we use intuition to pick up on that. You think that girl likes you? You're probably right, unless you are a straight up megalomaniac (which is rare). Evolution has given you amazing communication skills. But humans also need to cover up the subtext to avoid embarrassment that may come with miscommunication. So there's this tension where everyone is sexual but covering it up. But we deal by using our ama… | /r/TheRedPill | 05/10/14 01:50 AM |
| 1 | There are only two kinds of women...All I can say is I hope you get a relationship that is this open and secure. But unless you are open and direct about your needs and desires (in the way I mentioned in the original post), and have level of self satisfaction that allows you to leave a relationship that is not helping you, that won't happen. You have to understand that a lot of guys coming here have had to have their eyes "opened" by relationships that went sour because they were taught (or perceived society as teaching them) to f… | /r/TheRedPill | 05/10/14 01:38 AM |
| 1 | How should I approach this shit-test?Following your intuition is a sign of self confidence and self respect, man. So yeah. Sexuality is everywhere. As biological organisms all our interactions with the opposite sex are literally dripping with sexuality. If you have an intuition, you should go for it. | /r/TheRedPill | 01/10/14 11:58 PM |
| 1 | An Analysis of "The Destruction Instinct"I think I could work with most women in that scenario. | /r/TheRedPill | 01/10/14 11:56 PM |
| 1 | There are only two kinds of women...You sound pretty smart for your age. And you're right in a sense: do what gives your life fulfillment. Go have a great relationship, if you can. That's awesome. But remember that you're an ape that evolved by natural selection and it didn't give a fuck whether you had a "fulfilling" relationship or not. It cared whether you mated and produced viable offspring. The simple fact is that the ultimate biological imperative for a female (with a precious finite supply of eggs to spare) is to fuck the g… | /r/TheRedPill | 01/10/14 11:26 PM |
| 1 | There are only two kinds of women...The century in which divorce rates are over 50% and most divorces are instigated by the female? | /r/TheRedPill | 01/10/14 11:03 PM |
| 3 | An Analysis of "The Destruction Instinct"The obesity epidemic may have something to do with this. I imagine that if no women were obese or overweight, the majority would be attractive to me. | /r/TheRedPill | 01/10/14 02:58 PM |
| 2 | Why Evo-Psych is a JokeEvo psych is a lot of different things. But it's not a theory. It's a branch of study. A framework for making theories. Conflicting theories exist within evo psych. Natural selection doesn't seem to suggest (to me) that women will be more monogamous. Rather it only suggests that women will be choosier and consider the likelihood that the man will invest in protecting her and her offspring. On the other hand, she may have brothers or friends or a cuckolded husband who could protect her. It's comp… | /r/TheRedPill | 01/10/14 06:29 AM |
| 4 | There are only two kinds of women...A corollary: keep your SMV high and continually practice dread game, and your woman will always be responsive if you hold frame with her and make your demands clear. If you are up to the challenge, marriage does have something to offer a man. The key a lot of guys miss is seeing that unless you have the skills to pull it off successfully, you won't really see the good side of marriage even if you manage to avoid divorce. What's the good side of marriage?: basically you have a cheerleader who's d… | /r/TheRedPill | 29/09/14 02:55 PM |
| 0 | There are only two kinds of women...Right. If you have unreasonable demands then you're just being a selfish dick by threatening to leave any women because she won't bend to your unreasonableness. But a lot of guys are dealing with relationships where the woman, not the man, is being a selfish prick. They disrespect their man, who provides for them and is sweet to them day in and day out. Women will inevitably sink to this level given time and opportunity in any ltr. I've seen it happen before my eyes time and time again. In fact … | /r/TheRedPill | 29/09/14 02:45 PM |
| 1 | There are only two kinds of women...Not sure I said the only thing that's attractive to a woman is masculine behavior. Now, if you want to talk about sexual attraction, then yes. Only masculinity is sexually attractive to heterosexual women. Masculine attitude. Masculine look. Etc... Women like men. Sexual attraction is about the aspects of you that give you your sexuality. Now, are all masculine traits attractive to women? No. | /r/TheRedPill | 29/09/14 02:40 PM |
| 12 | How should I approach this shit-test?Man you're fine. She digs you. What do you expect her to say "ok I'll fuck you for free ice cream"?! In fact, SHE brought up hugs. You suggested a trade and her mind went to physical contact. Read between the lines man. You laughing was good. Change the subject. Don't sit there and try to haggle for sex with free ice cream, even if you play it off as a joke. That will just make you look autistic. Her pre school comment was actually kind of funny. Very "agree and amplify" of her. Girls LOVE it wh… | /r/TheRedPill | 29/09/14 01:42 PM |
| 2 | I am not attractive. My personality is as interesting as that of a doormat. I have depression, anxiety, and ADHD. No females whatsoever in my life. Where do I begin?Ah this post again. First of all, continue to work out, lose weight and gain muscle. Second of all, get shoes with thick heels to raise your height to like 5'9". (But at 1 standard deviation below the mean you're not as short as you think you are and people notice it a lot less than you think they do.) Finally, "I still watch silently"... Um, are you asking girls out, keeping your standards reasonable and escalating/being sexual? Because if not it does not matter how high your SMV is. You will n… | /r/TheRedPill | 29/09/14 01:06 PM |
| 2 | Being a sexually undesirable guy in my college days still haunts me even though I am doing much better with women now, how can I be happy?You are being a lot more honest than most guys. Best of luck to you. Seriously, go try to fuck those girls. Hit in girls outside of yoga studios (because tinder is just a crutch right?). Do 100 cold approaches. Hit on every pampered hot blond girl you see at bars, coffee shops. You'll see that it's never enough. Your ego will never be okay because rejection is STANDARD material in that game. Far from it, your ego will take a nose dive until you just learn to throw your ego on the garbage to begi… | /r/TheRedPill | 21/09/14 03:39 PM |
| 2 | Being a sexually undesirable guy in my college days still haunts me even though I am doing much better with women now, how can I be happy?Unhappiness is about perspective more than anything. Objectively speaking, we all have SOMETHING to be unhappy about in our past or present (or future too--we all die, usually in pain and alone wearing an adult diaper). The past is the past. You lacked some traits in college, and in that context it resulted in you not getting laid by popular sorority girls. That could have been aggression, game, social proof (not in a frat), looks or whatever. You've either changed those traits, or the context i… | /r/TheRedPill | 21/09/14 03:17 PM |
| 2 | I'm 5'6" with small hands and narrow shoulders. I'm 28 and rapidly losing my hair. I don't have money to flaunt. Should I just give up?I had a fwb who told me not to get any bigger because she hates big muscles. I got bigger. She was rubbing my muscles and loving it. She didn't know what the fuck she wanted. | /r/TheRedPill | 16/09/14 05:20 AM |
| 1 | Harsh RP Truth: The guy who is going to steal your girl is going to be taller than you.If you're short, this is likely true simply because on average more men are taller than you. But it's not because women will always desire a taller guy. That's bull shit. If it were true then sexual selection would have bred shortness out of the gene pool. Height disparity between men and women would be huge. Nothing "trumps all". Women are voluntary agents that differ among themselves with respect to their preferences. Yes, there are universal trends, but the ranking and relative importance of … | /r/TheRedPill | 16/09/14 05:14 AM |
| 0 | Because Uber was built by misogynists...What about female customers harassing male cab drivers? http://m.youtube.com/watch?v=8AMrdB5f2vY | /r/TheRedPill | 11/09/14 12:49 AM |
| 4 | I'm 5'6" with small hands and narrow shoulders. I'm 28 and rapidly losing my hair. I don't have money to flaunt. Should I just give up?Being much taller than 5'6" or 7" is kind of a new phenomenon and doesn't apply to all ethnic groups. I'm almost proud to be 5'7". I walk among groups of guys all of whom stand several inches taller than me and I feel completely fine. I sometimes think of my stature as a unique aspect of me that sets me apart. Not sure how to explain the feeling. | /r/TheRedPill | 07/09/14 05:43 AM |
| 7 | I'm 5'6" with small hands and narrow shoulders. I'm 28 and rapidly losing my hair. I don't have money to flaunt. Should I just give up?Can confirm. Women who say they don't like buff men are liars. Women fucking love muscles. Unless you're a freak hulk, the more the merrier. | /r/TheRedPill | 07/09/14 05:28 AM |
| 1 | I'm 5'6" with small hands and narrow shoulders. I'm 28 and rapidly losing my hair. I don't have money to flaunt. Should I just give up?Too buff is ridiculous, yes. But it would take ridiculous amounts of obsessive lifting to get too buff, unless you naturally have the ability to pack on muscle. Most guys are barely near or could barely ever get "too buff". I've been lifting with all my might for several years and I've gotten much bigger, and I only look better--not too buff. (I'm just over 5'7" btw). As for the shoes, I don't use these, but they make insoles that raise your height in a non-obvious way. Okay, if you're hung up o… | /r/TheRedPill | 07/09/14 05:12 AM |
| 34 | I'm 5'6" with small hands and narrow shoulders. I'm 28 and rapidly losing my hair. I don't have money to flaunt. Should I just give up?Yeah, looks matter. But not as much as you think, and it varies depending on the girl. Here's what I would do in your situation though: You are about one inch shorter than the point at which a guy starts to look noticeably short by others around him. Get some shoes that give you a little lift. 2 inches will not make you tall, but it will make you so you don't look shorter than average. Your height will go from a mark against you to neutral. Also, go for tall women. They are more used to being ta… | /r/TheRedPill | 06/09/14 08:58 PM |
| 2 | On looks and maximizing sexual opportunity.Man I've been there. I think making close male friends is critical. If I were you, I'd start looking at your life and asking yourself some basic questions, like: what do you want to do with it?; how do you want to make a living?; how do you want to spend your free time (hobbies? live music? sports? shooting the shit at a bar? working out (lifting, running)); Then, ask yourself how you'd go about achieving these goals--how to live the life you want. Getting friends is a byproduct of that. And The… | /r/TheRedPill | 28/08/14 04:46 PM |
| 1 | On looks and maximizing sexual opportunity.I think you're doing it. Basically you work towards your goal and then you let your own pride in your work define how much value you think you have. You don't let how much someone else values you define how much you value yourself. | /r/TheRedPill | 25/08/14 04:52 AM |
| 1 | Simple score for sexual interest from women.5'7" 139.5 lbs of lean body weight, ~10% bodyfat 13 pts 4 women: 7/10 (fwb), 8/10 (fwb), 8/10 (ons), 9/10 (ltr) I have very good facial aesthetics but I'm very small. Luckily I'm fit and don't have much fat, and I'm well proportioned. I don't think your theory is correct though. Confidence matters a lot. I've found that many women are receptive if I just grow a pair and escalate with confidence. It's a crapshoot and I haven't really found any clear patterns. I think of you're "fit", you pass som… | /r/TheRedPill | 25/08/14 04:44 AM |
| 1 | Some concerns I have regarding the "alpha" and "beta" distinction.Yeah I hear you. Sometimes I get frustrated bc I have many beta instincts and think "why should I change?". It's largely about pragmatism I guess. Just do the extent of what you're willing to do to survive in the strange modern sexual market. | /r/TheRedPill | 24/08/14 11:45 PM |
| 1 | On looks and maximizing sexual opportunity.Among all your characteristics that are in your control, rock solid frame is the most important. Not just for women, but for your own happiness. If you can be the source of your own self worth, you've mastered life. It's the cheat code to happiness, because no matter what is true about you (short, bald, ugly, etc...), you are internally self-satisfied. You will most likely meet a woman who appreciates this. Maybe even an attractive one. Will you bang hot broads every weekend? No. But it doesn't … | /r/TheRedPill | 24/08/14 11:40 PM |
| 1 | Think men are the unfaithful sex? A study shows WOMEN are the biggest cheats - they're just better at lying (read: hamstering) about itGetting cuckolded is part of your sexual reputation. I take issue with the idea that women have it harder regarding their sexuality. Men are judged all the time as to whether they are promiscuous enough or whether they get cuckolded. I assumed the author was trying to claim that women have it harder than men regarding sexuality (a common claim I hear). It's similar to how people often claim women struggle with media portrayals if perfect females all the time, neglecting to remember that men/boys… | /r/TheRedPill | 22/08/14 11:24 PM |
| -1 | Think men are the unfaithful sex? A study shows WOMEN are the biggest cheats - they're just better at lying (read: hamstering) about it"There is something particularly humiliating for a man about being a cuckold...sexual reputation still matters more to women". WHAT?! That's a contradiction. | /r/TheRedPill | 22/08/14 01:57 PM |
| 1 | The Disposable Heroes - A theoryIf you die you could still pass your genes on if you mated beforehand. (Which is why there's that trope about dying a virgin.) but if a woman dies, there's a good chance the offspring won't survive. Either she hasn't given birth or she's still nursing. Either way, women are more important for YOUR genes to make it to the next generation than even you are. | /r/TheRedPill | 22/08/14 04:23 AM |
| 40 | To Everyone Struggling With the Red PillMy only beef with TRP is the obsession with details about what particular behaviors are beta. Not every action can be interpreted in terms of beta or alpha. Some behaviors are associated with being beta (which, to me just means too cowardly to just aggressively take what you want), like complimenting a girl, being in a monogamous relationship, providing, etc... But that doesn't make the guy who does them beta per se. He just appears beta in a certain context (ie, the modern western world). If yo… | /r/TheRedPill | 22/08/14 04:09 AM |
| 1 | Some concerns I have regarding the "alpha" and "beta" distinction.I guess maybe my real issue is with the overuse of the term beta. We talk at length about what's beta and what's alpha. At the end of the day, beta just means cowardly--too cowardly to do what you want. But then all the details about whether saying something is beta, or being too eager is beta, complimenting a girl is beta etc... is kind of trivial. I feel like if you want to do stereotypical beta things, that doesn't make you beta at heart as long as you are just doing what you want. The proble… | /r/TheRedPill | 22/08/14 03:53 AM |
| 2 | Some concerns I have regarding the "alpha" and "beta" distinction.I'm not saying don't try to improve at all. I'm saying that the dichotomy of "supplicating-white knight-mangina-beta" vs "dark triad-plate spinning-alpha" is a false dichotomy. Not every guy wants that and there's no reason to feel like a failure if you don't. | /r/TheRedPill | 22/08/14 12:46 AM |
| 1 | A glaringly clear example of AF/BB. It's painful to read.Women should read this too, to get a sense for how guys really are. He says he would take bland missionary sex if he could just be certain she loved him and would accept him for who he was. Guys just want to make sure their woman loves them. This is why the fact that she would give another guy something that she won't give him is so painful for him. Guys cannot control that it is painful to be in his situation, just like women are pained when a man they love doesn't commit or treats another girl… | /r/TheRedPill | 10/08/14 12:41 PM |
| 2 | White Huffpo Women writer hamsters about men dating asians. Says we must be cured from our "yellow-fever."Let's assume, for arguments sake, that the majority of White male-Asian female relationships formed because the white male wanted a submissive woman. Since these relationships typically work out better and last longer, this would imply that Asian women ARE more submissive. (Otherwise, there's no way the relationship would work out.) So, implicit in her argument is that Asian women are more submissive. NOW who's racist? For God's sake, you can date any race you like. And most guys I know who date… | /r/TheRedPill | 30/07/14 09:44 PM |
| 21 | I Don’t Regret Cheating On My Boyfriend, Here’s Why"I think part of the reason I cheated..." That is a classic example of what a straight lie looks like. And anyways, she claims she wanted to experience "hookup culture". She did not do this. What she experienced was actively going out of her way to cheat on her boyfriend. If she wanted to experience hookup culture, the honest way to go about it would have been to ask her boyfriend if she can go to a bar and get picked up by a random not-so-hot frat guy and have drunken and lame sex. | /r/TheRedPill | 23/07/14 02:47 PM |
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