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| 131 | TW for sexual abuse survivors. Disgusting scrotes use prostitutes to act out their incestuous nightmare. Pick-me women who enable predator kinks are also a danger to all women and children. Mass grooming has only gotten more accessible with the internet . I first came across violent porn at age 6. 💔And yet when those of us who know better through personal experience, try to warn young girls about all this, we are just insulted and laughed at because they are conditioned into believing they are "so mature and so much smarter and prettier than that jealous 30+ year old future cat ladies" trying to save their life and dignity. I just hope more and more girls see these types of posts in places like FDS and get a clue before it's too late for them. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/04/22 12:10 AM |
| 31 | Every year on International Women’s Day, Google searches for International Men’s Day spike…I keep in mind that there are also a lot of men roleplaying as women on here. Yeah, of course there are women that do this behavior but just something I think about. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/03/22 12:51 AM |
| 22 | How dare rich and successful men not have harems of 16 year old virgins, like I would have If I had even 1/10th of there powerWhy do men come after Michelle Obama like she is isn't amazing in every way? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/03/22 09:23 PM |
| 140 | A teenage boy full of gratitude to his mom & treating her after years of sacrifice is a good thing to see. This is what a (possible) baby HVM looks like. Take note, lurkersI think that's the word that needs to be highlighted here "generous". Most of us are not actively looking for insanely rich men (though men who are HV tend to set up their life to have easy access to money imo) but men who are generous with what they do have and are nice about it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/02/22 04:18 AM |
| 75 | Incel saying the quiet part out loud: we’re not people to them.I wasn't paying attention and thought a woman wrote this. Men are rarely actually attracted to the women they date for who we are as people but spend so much of their lives trying to put themselves in situations to get attention from women while complaining about very normal human behavior from us while trying to justify every single f*cked up thing they do. And they don't see us if they aren't attracted to us, that's a fact many of us know from direct experience. They discredit literally everyt… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/02/22 06:41 PM |
| 202 | Beards change way men look a lot more than makeup. Makeup comes off every day while you only see what men looks like if they shave. Don't trust men with beards.It was actually due to men not washing their hands after pooping and then touching their face. Let that one sink in. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/02/22 03:15 AM |
| 185 | Eve doesn't date single fathers, or: cultural misogyny in a nutshell, or: the audacityWhen I was using OLD, my line was "I have zero interest in children whether you already have them, want them someday, or act like one yourself" Still had many single fathers try to say that they should be the exception, this was when I was younger than 23 too. One got really excited because I accidentally matched on him because I didn't see his very last picture had his kid in it and then acted like I shot him in the foot after he messaged me and I said sorry, my bad, I don't date dads (which ag… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/01/22 03:18 PM |
| 20 | Apple AirTag: a perfect tool for stalkingThey JUST came out with the android app for it! Its called Tracker Detect and has been in the playstore for two weeks. I've only seen one small article about the app so definitely tell more women. https://play.google.com/store/apps/details?id=com.apple.trackerdetect | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/01/22 05:27 PM |
| 41 | One more reason to cut off men who watch pornAs a psychological view point (as in there have been real scientific studies) men's brains react the exact same way when masturbating to porn as they do to having sex in real life. All these men and pickmes who say it isn't cheating to watch porn while in a relationship aren't usually bringing this into account. Also, if it's not cheating, they wouldn't need to be so secretive or get so defensive. They would react like they do every other time a woman "is being ridiculous for no reason" they wou… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/01/22 03:59 PM |
| 17 | Is your boyfriend part of the secret Nude Trading Club?I tried to find out where he did his residency but he was very private ironically. I emailed his University but that got nowhere. But yes, it's very illegal and beyond creepy /did you ever see the case about the black woman that hid a recording device in her hair while she went to surgery and ended up having to sue the doctors over what was being said? You can't even trust men that are effing doctors smh | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/12/21 07:44 PM |
| 74 | Is your boyfriend part of the secret Nude Trading Club?You cannot even trust yourself sleeping around men. I found pictures on ex's computers of their ex gf's exposed asses and breasts while they were sleeping. One of their group chats had candid pictures of gf's too, the one I remember most is his friend sent a picture of a girl he just met, laying her head in his lap while he was rubbing her breasts, her head was turned and she didn't see he had his phone out taking pictures (the same guy who is an anesthesiologist and takes pictures of people whi… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/12/21 03:18 PM |
| 19 | If a man ever says something along the lines of "I am a terrible person" or "I am an asshole", take him at word, thank the Gods that he showed himself early on and GHOST/BLOCK AND DELETE. Men who say such things have nothing good to offer you. I promise you.Can someone remind me what this specific behavior is called? I talked to my friend (who is a woman I've been close with since high school over a decade ago) this past week about something she did involving me that I didn't like. I thought about it for a day and brought it up very gently. She immediately turned it into something else and started doing the whole "I guess I just suck. I'll get out of your life. Everything's my fault" she luckily didn't make it worse when I pointed out it was a mani… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/10/21 10:32 PM |
| 17 | He locks her out of the house, because men are literally the worst.Maybe I have problems (mostly with men, go figure) but I would have broken a window before I called his effing mother to open the door because her son wants his life to be ended. (But I guess thats also why im in FDS needing to level up) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/09/21 04:26 AM |
| 1 | Guys take exception when the girls fawn over pop/Kpop Idols and consider the same as detrimental to a relationship. Imagine how bad porn and only fans are - they know the stars by name and spend money on them.I wish I had an award to give you, this is amazing! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/08/21 12:02 AM |
| 40 | OLD strat: what's yours?I recently tried OLD after about 8 years of being off of it. The game has COMPLETELY changed and it is not at all the same as a decade ago. I deleted the apps within 4 days with no regrets. I don't think men really use them to find relationships anymore and the ones that say they are, will probably still hook up with anyone who they can get to meet them. Men see OLD as Door Dash for sex and it's not worth sifting through their minimum effort messages to end up with them taking screenshots of you… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/08/21 08:49 PM |
| 168 | Truly embarrassingI would like to un-experience a man doing this | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/07/21 09:15 PM |
| 38 | Please share stories of some weirdly specific rules you set after *that* one guyI had clicked to go back to the main page when I saw "must have an actual front door" and I HAD to find your comment again to see if there was an explanation... Wtf? And now that I've read the rest, want to share: A guy I was dating for 8 months said I looked like his sister and he was too into it and admitted he had "unspoken feelings" for her (he told me that as the reason for breaking up with me, so i guess it saved me the trouble) but yeah, brothers shouldn't ever talk about how hot their si… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/06/21 04:57 PM |
| 3 | Just one more reason to literally never put your nude/bikini/underwear pics anywhere online or give them to anyone. What an easy way to potentially ruin some poor girl's life or career while being an identity thiefDie mad is something I learned here at FDS and I've been saying it a lot because I also love it | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/06/21 03:32 PM |
| 12 | The Incels are DeCLaRiNg WaR on Us Again 🙄😒Could you imagine having nothing better to do in life but hate on ONE SUB out of thousands, with the amount of energy they do? No wonder they can't think straight, it must be exhausting. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/06/21 08:13 PM |
| 18 | Hating cats... a red flag or the biggest red flag?Yes. Hating any animal is a red flag (being afraid of, allergic to, dislike being around are different cases) but a man loving cats or other easily lovable animals is also not a green flag either. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/06/21 07:47 PM |
| 32 | Just one more reason to literally never put your nude/bikini/underwear pics anywhere online or give them to anyone. What an easy way to potentially ruin some poor girl's life or career while being an identity thiefLol someone with a foot fetish messaged me to say I should delete this post bc only an idiot would believe it, like we haven't deduced that it's probably a troll by ourselves but guess what else, lurker, there are men that use womens pictures for gross things like that and there are men who pretend to be women to other men, so I'm leaving it as a reminder of that too. Die mad. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/06/21 07:25 PM |
| 7 | Just one more reason to literally never put your nude/bikini/underwear pics anywhere online or give them to anyone. What an easy way to potentially ruin some poor girl's life or career while being an identity thiefI think it is a troll but also it says they request skid marks 🤮 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/06/21 07:04 PM |
| 13 | Just one more reason to literally never put your nude/bikini/underwear pics anywhere online or give them to anyone. What an easy way to potentially ruin some poor girl's life or career while being an identity thiefOh yeah, the gross guys buying completely deserve it happening to them but some man making money off of a woman's body is not the way | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/06/21 06:55 PM |
| 115 | Just one more reason to literally never put your nude/bikini/underwear pics anywhere online or give them to anyone. What an easy way to potentially ruin some poor girl's life or career while being an identity thiefTHIS! This right here! HOW can they not tell??? *someone pointed out in the comments of the post that the guys buying must not get much action so no wonder they can't tell | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/06/21 05:09 PM |
| 60 | Just one more reason to literally never put your nude/bikini/underwear pics anywhere online or give them to anyone. What an easy way to potentially ruin some poor girl's life or career while being an identity thiefThe guys profile says he writes erotic fiction but only posts in confession subs so maybe (like I really really really hope) he is just trying to get a rise out of people but yeah, I had that same reaction "wtf..." | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/06/21 04:47 PM |
| 27 | Just one more reason to literally never put your nude/bikini/underwear pics anywhere online or give them to anyone. What an easy way to potentially ruin some poor girl's life or career while being an identity thiefAll day, err day unfortunately | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/06/21 04:42 PM |
| 1 | "He never seemed to mention that he could only live those dreams because his wife was at home with the kids." I don't think many men even consider the perspective of their wives giving up their own life for them. ('Humans of New York' if you want to read the rest)After reading some other comments from this user, it appears as a male pretending to be a female but trying to do it in a convincing way so that they will be able to stay in woman spaces. Sorry if that is completely off the mark and please don't come at me about it but some of their words are aren't sitting right and I just want it to be said if that is the case. Maybe this user is just an angry woman (I mean, I get it)🤷🏻♀️ delete this comment if it's breaking some kind of rule. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/06/21 03:51 PM |
| 3 | "He never seemed to mention that he could only live those dreams because his wife was at home with the kids." I don't think many men even consider the perspective of their wives giving up their own life for them. ('Humans of New York' if you want to read the rest)There is quite a lot to unpack there but you should probably go to the Humans of New York Facebook page and read the rest of the story first. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/06/21 05:49 AM |
| 9 | "He never seemed to mention that he could only live those dreams because his wife was at home with the kids." I don't think many men even consider the perspective of their wives giving up their own life for them. ('Humans of New York' if you want to read the rest)I'll bite, where are you going with this? I'm curious why her being in the US has anything to do with it? Many women don't plan as young women growing up, to have as many children as they do, even if that number is just one. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/06/21 02:03 PM |
| 21 | "He never seemed to mention that he could only live those dreams because his wife was at home with the kids." I don't think many men even consider the perspective of their wives giving up their own life for them. ('Humans of New York' if you want to read the rest)Taking classes in things that interest you are a good way not only to meet like minded people but also enrich your life, it's never too late to invest in yourself. Even learning something by yourself online (there are sooo many free learning resources) will help you learn how to bring out your individuality again. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/06/21 02:19 AM |
| 344 | "He never seemed to mention that he could only live those dreams because his wife was at home with the kids." I don't think many men even consider the perspective of their wives giving up their own life for them. ('Humans of New York' if you want to read the rest)Another one I'd like to highlight is "he learned to cook three good dishes"... A CHILD is more capable than that. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/06/21 07:09 PM |
| 7 | Jealous scrote tells his girlfriend that he hopes she gets raped - she asks ‘Should I end this relationship?’This is not arguing to be disrespectful but my bf was raped by his male neighbor. A large majority of my gay friends have been assaulted by other men. Two of my brothers were raped by a trusted family friend. It's a much larger problem than just prison. I'm NOT here to say "men have it just as bad we should feel bad" but a big problem is that men are not only dangerous to women but to other men as well so it doesn't make sense that it's not a motivation for males to help change how men treat oth… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/06/21 10:09 PM |
| 10 | Jealous scrote tells his girlfriend that he hopes she gets raped - she asks ‘Should I end this relationship?’She should entirely end that relationship immediately. I don't wear pants when I'm at home and made a JOKE to my ex one time (I was 19) when I was getting ready to leave that I'm just not going to put any on, let's just go, and he told me "fine but I'm not stopping anyone who tries to rape you" He ended up raping me at a later date when we got back home after he fed me drinks all night until I blacked out and he thought I wouldn't remember anything. When I brought up the next day of having blips… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/06/21 06:09 PM |
| 17 | Jealous scrote tells his girlfriend that he hopes she gets raped - she asks ‘Should I end this relationship?’The problem is that men do get raped by other men and men as a whole still don't care. So what would it really take to get them to be even slightly empathetic? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/06/21 05:56 PM |
| 4 | If he visits strip clubs, assume he is soliciting sexI was a bartender in a topless sports bar in my early 20's and can confirm this. The girls that were giving "extras" where the ones most likely to talk about how degrading it is that some of the dancers do that. side note: it definitely contributed to my hatred of men. I still have never had a man want to spend any money on me willingly while dating but men go to strip clubs to just throw money at nude strangers that don't even like them and then complain that women only want them for their mone… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/06/21 07:28 PM |
| 11 | A take on the libfem stance on victim blamingI've literally been told by other women that I deserve to be r*ped (which I have been, so thanks internet strangers for the triggers) when I suggested maybe don't drink so much in public and it will be somewhat easier to avoid some situations where drunk people get taken advantage of. Of course me even implying that people should take responsibility for theirself in public meant I was victim shaming. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/06/21 07:12 PM |
| 14 | A friendly reminder on flairs.It's almost easy to tell when the scrotes do that. While the comments will say the "right" things, the tone will usually be off. They come off as very "you should pat me on the back for saying this" rather than genuine discussion. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/06/21 06:40 AM |
| 4 | the shit ppl do for cloutHave you seen the tiktoks of guys "jumping" at their gfs/wives like they are about to hit them? It started being a "prank" trend but I think the guys quickly realized better because they were getting instantly smacked in the face as the women went from "oh hey baby" to "you've got the wrong bitch" in zero seconds flat and I wanted nothing more than for the girl in this video to do that too. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/01/21 04:53 PM |
| 3 | the shit ppl do for cloutThis for real! But not even limited to dating relationships, I was 12 years old when my dad said to me "you are so smart... It's a shame you're such a bitch" because he had told me to do something and I gave him a logical reason why I wasn't going to. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/01/21 04:39 PM |
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