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| 1 | Where have all the good men gone?Did that with a Chinese family for year I had a great time 🤷♂️ | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/03/23 09:20 PM |
| 1 | Who should men model themselves to and look up to?He's just such a shit comic tho 😷 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/02/23 03:46 AM |
| 2 | Who should men model themselves to and look up to?Met Travis Ryan of Cattle Decap outside a venue before a show he was just hanging out with everyone taking pics super cool dude | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/02/23 03:41 AM |
| 1 | How can men find high libido women? Is it even realistically achievable?For me it's about not giving into every impulse. When I indulge with one thing it bleeds into other areas of life so if for example I have sex every time I want it then I also start smoking weed whenever I want it or not exercising whenever I don't want to. It's more about volunteering for struggle to make yourself more resilient and makes other hard shit not so hard to do. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/01/23 09:08 PM |
| 1 | It is kinda arrogant how many women openly say they know men very well, and yet they keep falling for bad relationshipsWhy can't you tell her? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/01/23 08:02 PM |
| 2 | With the current state of modern women, more men than ever are taking the asianpill.I was about to say so many of these dudes think they're just gonna go to Japan or Korea with no problem then boom it's grammar, Kanji, polite form vs casual form vs very casual speech, learning how natives actually speak day to day, adjusting to the very collectivist culture, making friends so you're not lonely while you're there, renouncing US citizenship so if you do decide to go back you're starting from square 1, learning the countries culture and history for context on why things are the wa… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/01/23 11:53 PM |
| 2 | Green card marriages are for true love, right guys?Why is it always assumed the foreign woman is poor though? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/01/23 11:40 AM |
| 1 | Men value the availability of sex, women do not. This is the most important factor in dating / relationshipsI remember someone saying "pussy is definitely not pussy" and for some reason that always stuck w me 😂 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/12/22 05:48 AM |
| 2 | Men value the availability of sex, women do not. This is the most important factor in dating / relationshipsI've seen a good number of dudes here proudly say they have no standards for casual sex it's almost shocking. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/12/22 02:20 AM |
| 0 | For red pillers, what blue pill opinion do you hold? And for blue pillers, what red pill opinions do you hold?Yeah maybe dude | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/12/22 12:08 PM |
| -3 | For red pillers, what blue pill opinion do you hold? And for blue pillers, what red pill opinions do you hold?Exactly the first sentence. Even when I go on grindr I think to myself like who's getting on their knees for these dudes? So many men seem so lost on whether or not they're attractive but it's like bro would YOU fuck you? Edit: don't know what's so controversial about what I said. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/12/22 11:14 PM |
| 4 | What's your unpopular dating opinion? Something you truly believe based on lived experience, but would get down voted to all hell if you said it?If a woman doesn't wanna date or sleep with an average everyday man I can see exactly why. I've traveled a good bit within the US and no matter where I'm at most dudes are just painfully average in how they present themselves (except Huntington Beach, CA a lot of people there look like fitness models whenever I've been) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/12/22 06:42 AM |
| 9 | Men being f*ckboys is propagated by women, and ultimately beneficial for menIt's a movie reference | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/12/22 01:52 AM |
| 2 | As a leftist man, I believe that men are better off not pursuing progressive/feminist/leftist women for long-term relationships.It's his duty | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/12/22 02:34 AM |
| 2 | As a leftist man, I believe that men are better off not pursuing progressive/feminist/leftist women for long-term relationships.Wait, like Xiaoping modern China or Jinping modern China? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/12/22 02:31 AM |
| 1 | Bi men (especially tops): Do you find having your sexual needs met with men contributes to your confidence with women?Why not? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/11/22 09:59 PM |
| 2 | Women: Can you expand on or give examples of men not "getting it"?That's a big thing I don't get especially when men here say "you gotta do chores to get some coochie🤓" like no if someone has to take out the trash or wipe down the showers I'd rather it be me than her. Sure she can do the dishes, laundry, make the bed or couch, etc. but I'd rather I do the nastier or tougher jobs than her. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/11/22 08:18 PM |
| 1 | Women: Can you expand on or give examples of men not "getting it"?He take out the trash?? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/11/22 07:12 PM |
| 1 | Women: Can you expand on or give examples of men not "getting it"?Interesting points for sure. Kinda like ruling by respect rather than fear. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/11/22 06:55 PM |
| 1 | Women: Can you expand on or give examples of men not "getting it"?Elaborate on that 2nd half for me? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/11/22 05:54 PM |
| 1 | Women: Can you expand on or give examples of men not "getting it"?ok | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/11/22 09:05 AM |
| 1 | Women: Can you expand on or give examples of men not "getting it"?About your point on the bedroom Chinese wall thing, do you mean a sort of foreplay in day to day life? Like remaining sexy for your partner? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/11/22 07:11 AM |
| 3 | Women: Can you expand on or give examples of men not "getting it"?Your boyfriend doesn't make the coffee in the morning? Why not? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/11/22 03:27 AM |
| 1 | Q4Bi/Pan/Trans people: as the ones caught in the middle of the gender war, I'm curious what your unique experiences are with the sexes.No 😂 I felt like the predator because their insecurity almost came off as childish | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/11/22 01:07 AM |
| 2 | Q4Bi/Pan/Trans people: as the ones caught in the middle of the gender war, I'm curious what your unique experiences are with the sexes.Not femme like crossdressing or something but more twinkish yeah like Timothee Chalamet. I'm not attracted to masculinity at all in a man especially physically like I find body hair super unattractive for example. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/11/22 04:24 PM |
| 2 | Q4Bi/Pan/Trans people: as the ones caught in the middle of the gender war, I'm curious what your unique experiences are with the sexes.No as I'm certain I'm heteroromantic. Hooking up with men is just a like an itch I get occasionally but I've found it was easy to overcome when I've been seeing women more seriously like I'll just watch some gay porn or something yknow More to your point about relationships, I think with women there's this feeling of the puzzle pieces fitting with the masculine and feminine temperaments. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/11/22 03:27 PM |
| 1 | Q4Bi/Pan/Trans people: as the ones caught in the middle of the gender war, I'm curious what your unique experiences are with the sexes.I'd say it seems like they want it too much. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/11/22 03:12 PM |
| 2 | Q4Bi/Pan/Trans people: as the ones caught in the middle of the gender war, I'm curious what your unique experiences are with the sexes.I've never used dating apps so can't say for those but I'd say men on grindr are just as nice or polite or whatever as women tend to be in person but it still feels like simp energy a lot of the time. Kinda like a puppy or something if that makes sense. They might put more effort into the interaction (whether online or in person) but it comes off as just trying to say the right things so we can hookup most of the time. For real life I haven't noticed too big a difference. Sure, some women will o… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/11/22 03:09 PM |
| 2 | Q4Bi/Pan/Trans people: as the ones caught in the middle of the gender war, I'm curious what your unique experiences are with the sexes.Definitely women I just prefer the softer more feminine energy | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/11/22 11:32 AM |
| 0 | Q4Bi/Pan/Trans people: as the ones caught in the middle of the gender war, I'm curious what your unique experiences are with the sexes.The one's who don't accept no for sure but I moreso meant when someone's real nervous or awkward it feels predatory for ME to hookup with them yknow? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/11/22 11:31 AM |
| 7 | Q4Bi/Pan/Trans people: as the ones caught in the middle of the gender war, I'm curious what your unique experiences are with the sexes.I'm happy to answer probably all questions lol I find this stuff real interesting. I'd say it hasn't changed a whole lot even before hooking up with dudes cause I was raised in a house of women so I grew up hearing their side of dating/relationships when there weren't any men to sorta save face around which I think has helped a ton. Informed? Probably being able to get a glimpse of what they have to deal with when interacting with dudes especially when there's an undertone of sexuality. Like if … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/11/22 11:33 PM |
| 7 | Q4Bi/Pan/Trans people: as the ones caught in the middle of the gender war, I'm curious what your unique experiences are with the sexes.As a bi guy (masc top for perspective) I definitely see why most women don't wanna fuck most men. Even dudes on grindr are either nasty, awkward, boring, needy, or pushy and it's such a turn off I can't even imagine how bad it must be for a bottom or woman who has to have stuff put INSIDE them I'd probably never fuck if I were one of those groups. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/11/22 10:27 PM |
| 0 | Women prefer men who at least offer to pay for things first, rather than assume an equal split.I mean what's wrong with being cheap? Shit I make good money for my age (20) and on track to grow my income but I'll be cheap till the day I die no doubt. I'll buy things for loved ones or spot them on bills no problem but I'm pretty damn frugal for myself. I've heard the argument "well what if you go to a nice restaurant?" but I don't go to nice restaurants I vastly prefer hole-in-walls. Sure I'll pay if she's a broke student or something no problem. To your point about the "trying to impress s… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/11/22 04:19 AM |
| 3 | Q4All: What are some traits you're "supposed" to find attractive but don't?Even as a man I don't get the overly friendly extroverted shit like why are you so happy to see everyone. I get being friendly and whatnot by why overly friendly? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/11/22 09:10 PM |
| 1 | What is your toxic dating trait?I'm ridiculously frugal and though I'd say I'm an empathetic person I can be a bit judgemental about people's life choices or lifestyles in general | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/11/22 01:53 AM |
| 2 | How are men supposed to communicate better?No they wouldn't but I suppose I was taking it as you advocating for that behavior in the same way a lot of red pillers say "enjoy the decline" which always feels wrong in a very "live on your knees vs die on your feet" sort of way. Kind of like John the Savage in Brave New World. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/11/22 05:24 PM |
| 3 | How are men supposed to communicate better?I mean is it really that hard to not deceive people just to get sex? I mean if you have to say things you don't mean, outright lie, etc. Either become someone people wanna fuck or you don't get to fuck. Sure, it's gonna be a lot of hard work but seems a lot of men (and women, to be fair) don't place a lot of value on things like integrity. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/11/22 05:07 PM |
| 1 | Q4W What are some physical & non-physical traits do you dislike in men?Like calesthenics lean? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/10/22 04:03 PM |
| 4 | There is concrete respect and there is abstract respect. Most women need some form of it as a component for their attraction towards men... but abstract is more important!Narcissistic personality disorder? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/10/22 03:30 PM |
| 2 | Women of purple pill debate, what things do you agree with from the red pill perspective and what things do you not agree with?I see that yeah. My favorite example was suggesting people check out the book 'Brave New World' (quick summary: kind of like Orwell's 1984 but instead of being controlled by force the population is controlled through pleasure and instant gratification) saying it not only had great takes on self discipline, dating, and the role of believing in something bigger (does NOT have to be religion tho) and got a few comments saying something to the effect of "fuck that, reading's gay, philosophy's for ne… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/10/22 03:06 PM |
| 5 | Women of purple pill debate, what things do you agree with from the red pill perspective and what things do you not agree with?Seems even a lot of red pill guys lack and even openly mock that idea of a code of conduct/moral framework | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/10/22 02:44 PM |
| 1 | Average men struggle to date because they haven't/aren't building lives any woman in her right mind would want to be a part of.Link to any of his stuff? Sounds fire | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/10/22 08:54 AM |
| 1 | Average men struggle to date because they haven't/aren't building lives any woman in her right mind would want to be a part of.Have you dated a girl from asia before? And I say not have sugar babies cause why would you wanna be with the type of girl to be a sugar baby? Isn't that perpetuating the behavior you guys morally disagree with? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/10/22 03:37 AM |
| 2 | Is it harder or easier to date as a man with a low sex drive ?As a guy with a pretty high sex drive even I don't deal with it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/10/22 02:10 AM |
| 1 | Average men struggle to date because they haven't/aren't building lives any woman in her right mind would want to be a part of.Why would you want sugar babies? And what do you mean by fun? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/10/22 02:07 AM |
| 2 | Average men struggle to date because they haven't/aren't building lives any woman in her right mind would want to be a part of.Yeah I mean to me the idea of spending your entire life on one chunk of land (especially as an American) is just terrifying. I mean I don't go around telling people what they can and can't wear and all that but the way I see it if someone wants a diamond bad enough they can go dig it up themselves. I get people say they're rare but if there's a jewelry store every 5 miles selling the same product and it's a cultural standard to have it isn't that the opposite of rare? 🤷♂️ Designer I can maybe b… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/10/22 01:55 AM |
| 1 | Average men struggle to date because they haven't/aren't building lives any woman in her right mind would want to be a part of.No I'm judging by what I see which is a cultural norm of guys using their free time to play video games and get fucked up with their buddies. And it still doesn't answer the question of why a woman would want that in a guy Edit: also if I thought I knew everything I wouldn't take it upon myself to study new things and let older mentors take the wheel which I constantly do at work | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/10/22 11:19 PM |
| 1 | Who do young people look up to?Why do people on this sub love taking things to black and white extremes? Can someone answer this please? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/10/22 10:13 PM |
| 1 | Average men struggle to date because they haven't/aren't building lives any woman in her right mind would want to be a part of.Nice. Looking to plan a trip to Japan to catch Dir En Grey live within the next 2 years or so those guys are aging like fine wine with a fuckin insane bassist | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/10/22 09:58 PM |
| 1 | Average men struggle to date because they haven't/aren't building lives any woman in her right mind would want to be a part of.Then don't date those women duh | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/10/22 09:53 PM |
| 1 | Average men struggle to date because they haven't/aren't building lives any woman in her right mind would want to be a part of.I didn't and am not doing anything for women if a man is that's his first fuck up as it's honestly pathetic | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/10/22 08:53 PM |
| 2 | Average men struggle to date because they haven't/aren't building lives any woman in her right mind would want to be a part of.Well we're not chad so we do what we can to try and level the field. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/10/22 08:50 PM |
| 1 | Average men struggle to date because they haven't/aren't building lives any woman in her right mind would want to be a part of.Exactly and that sucks so why would a woman want a guy who's done/doing nothing to improve that | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/10/22 08:48 PM |
| 2 | Average men struggle to date because they haven't/aren't building lives any woman in her right mind would want to be a part of.What a great user-flair | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/10/22 08:47 PM |
| 1 | Average men struggle to date because they haven't/aren't building lives any woman in her right mind would want to be a part of.Because It's different rules for men and if a young guy knows the economy is shit and still decides to just play games, watch Netflix, smoke or drink with friends in his free time (especially if he wants kids or is unhappy with his situation) of course I think he's a loser how else would you describe a guy like that? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/10/22 08:46 PM |
| 1 | Average men struggle to date because they haven't/aren't building lives any woman in her right mind would want to be a part of.I don't place much importance on wealth aside from being able to not severely limit my nieces and nephews opportunities. I don't believe in jewelry, dislike designer clothes, see no point in a mansion, etc. I don't know why everything has to be taken to black and white extremes with this sub. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/10/22 08:43 PM |
| 1 | Average men struggle to date because they haven't/aren't building lives any woman in her right mind would want to be a part of.Of course and I think this is a symptom of that bigger issue but I see so many young guys operating under 1950s rules of things when today it's a different game. An average life (financially) is objectively not a good life. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/10/22 08:40 PM |
| 1 | Average men struggle to date because they haven't/aren't building lives any woman in her right mind would want to be a part of.Very true, I look at it as how you handle the asset of your coochie says alot about how you'll handle other assets | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/10/22 08:37 PM |
| 2 | Average men struggle to date because they haven't/aren't building lives any woman in her right mind would want to be a part of.Loser women preferred the loser version of you otherwise they wouldn't have preferred you | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/10/22 08:36 PM |
| 1 | Average men struggle to date because they haven't/aren't building lives any woman in her right mind would want to be a part of.I've seen some good points brought up but I mostly agree yes how is indirectly telling a woman "if our child struggles with cancer I can NEVER afford that" not the modern equivalent of visibly bad genes in caveman times? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/10/22 08:35 PM |
| 1 | Average men struggle to date because they haven't/aren't building lives any woman in her right mind would want to be a part of.No but it doesn't hurt | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/10/22 08:32 PM |
| 1 | Average men struggle to date because they haven't/aren't building lives any woman in her right mind would want to be a part of.Well yeah KIND confidence not some tyrant with a chip on his shoulder | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/10/22 08:26 PM |
| 2 | Average men struggle to date because they haven't/aren't building lives any woman in her right mind would want to be a part of.For sure for sure. I will say I don't mean a lavish life of all the best things possible and all that bs as I really just want a simple life. I don't believe in jewelry, think most designer clothes are tacky looking (which working with musicians I just keep that to myself lol). Don't think you're implying that but a few others have. This is mostly me speaking for myself and perhaps I did speak for others but personally I do have this heavy itch to see other countries, cultures, and growing up I'… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/10/22 08:23 PM |
| 0 | Average men struggle to date because they haven't/aren't building lives any woman in her right mind would want to be a part of.For sure, but these men shouldn't complain they're not getting the benefits that time or luck grants which I think we can agree on | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/10/22 05:36 AM |
| 1 | Average men struggle to date because they haven't/aren't building lives any woman in her right mind would want to be a part of.There's nothing inherently wrong with an average life the problem comes when an average life means you cannot do the things you want to (like in the US). And yes lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/10/22 04:40 AM |
| 2 | Average men struggle to date because they haven't/aren't building lives any woman in her right mind would want to be a part of.Oh for sure and I'm extremely grateful this stuff has given me the ability to be my own boss, get into other businesses/projects (me and a friend working on a computer program for dual subtitles for language learners as all the others are ass), and keeps growing | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/10/22 04:35 AM |
| 0 | Average men struggle to date because they haven't/aren't building lives any woman in her right mind would want to be a part of.I have my own car and home but at 20 I'm still not anywhere near I wanna be. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/10/22 04:33 AM |
| 1 | Average men struggle to date because they haven't/aren't building lives any woman in her right mind would want to be a part of.The boss an average man has. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/10/22 04:23 AM |
| 2 | Average men struggle to date because they haven't/aren't building lives any woman in her right mind would want to be a part of.Heavily agreed but they're not mutually exclusive yknow | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/10/22 04:23 AM |
| 1 | Average men struggle to date because they haven't/aren't building lives any woman in her right mind would want to be a part of.I never said not a real man but when I see a lot of young guys out here they're mostly goofing off, smoking weed and turning on the Xbox instead of trying to build the best one THEY can. Not the most EXTRAVAGANT one they can, but just one where they can give their loved ones the most opportunities. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/10/22 04:21 AM |
| 2 | Average men struggle to date because they haven't/aren't building lives any woman in her right mind would want to be a part of.I have rarely yes you're right but in the past year it's been more and more frequent interactions with men making about 1-200,000 a year. Granted, I work with musicians so their schedules are more flexible than say an engineer or a lawyer or something like that | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/10/22 04:18 AM |
| 2 | Average men struggle to date because they haven't/aren't building lives any woman in her right mind would want to be a part of.Maybe not you but I'm saying your average man | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/10/22 04:15 AM |
| 1 | Average men struggle to date because they haven't/aren't building lives any woman in her right mind would want to be a part of.? I think my learning disability is showing right now | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/10/22 04:13 AM |
| 4 | Average men struggle to date because they haven't/aren't building lives any woman in her right mind would want to be a part of.No I'm a male I grew up in a shit hole town pretty poor with a single mother and a learning disability. The first person in my family go to college is my sister and my entire family has the crabs in a bucket mentality where they constantly lament about she thinks she's so much better than them (although I'll give it to them there she is better than them). Your 2nd point: the same can be said about broke families. 3rd: Mostly true yeah. 4th: again, agree | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/10/22 04:10 AM |
| 2 | Average men struggle to date because they haven't/aren't building lives any woman in her right mind would want to be a part of.I'd say that's fair yeah | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/10/22 04:05 AM |
| 5 | Average men struggle to date because they haven't/aren't building lives any woman in her right mind would want to be a part of.Especially in the west, not everyone gets to fuck, sorry. If they have the money they can move if it's that important to them shit that's what I'm planning to do. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/10/22 04:04 AM |
| 1 | Average men struggle to date because they haven't/aren't building lives any woman in her right mind would want to be a part of.Sorry I'm confused do you agree or disagree with my post? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/10/22 04:01 AM |
| 3 | Average men struggle to date because they haven't/aren't building lives any woman in her right mind would want to be a part of.Not quality ones most of the time | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/10/22 04:00 AM |
| 4 | Average men struggle to date because they haven't/aren't building lives any woman in her right mind would want to be a part of.Cooking is the job of anyone who's hungry at the moment unless they're disabled or a child or something. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/10/22 03:58 AM |
| 0 | Average men struggle to date because they haven't/aren't building lives any woman in her right mind would want to be a part of.No I don't so I don't go for average woman duh | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/10/22 03:58 AM |
| 1 | Average men struggle to date because they haven't/aren't building lives any woman in her right mind would want to be a part of.You guys seem to keep conveniently missing the "built OR building" part | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/10/22 03:56 AM |
| 2 | Average men struggle to date because they haven't/aren't building lives any woman in her right mind would want to be a part of.Seemed to miss the "building" part and you shouldn't be dating at your lowest | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/10/22 03:54 AM |
| 14 | Women who sexually like men, are you personally not that visually stimulated by our bodies?You really thought you ate with that | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/10/22 05:13 PM |
| 5 | Women who sexually like men, are you personally not that visually stimulated by our bodies?Literally just made a post about the behavior in the comment you're replying to 😤 they literally refuse to see the positive in anything | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/10/22 05:00 PM |
| 1 | If a man isn't interested in people he should not be confused when people are not interested in him.Don't even entertain this person I don't wtf their deal is | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/10/22 04:41 PM |
| 1 | If a man isn't interested in people he should not be confused when people are not interested in him.Who did I stereotype? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/10/22 04:36 PM |
| 1 | If a man isn't interested in people he should not be confused when people are not interested in him.Good God do I need to spell out every single thing for you people of course not all men or not all women are ONLY interested in one of the 2. It doesn't make you more attractive but it helps you connect with most of the opposite sex | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/10/22 12:54 PM |
| -1 | If a man isn't interested in people he should not be confused when people are not interested in him.Do you take everything so black and white? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/10/22 12:50 PM |
| 1 | If a man isn't interested in people he should not be confused when people are not interested in him.Well yeah it's not that literal. As I said men TEND to lean more toward things but IME being more interested in people while still having masculine traits that women want in a man has been a winning combo for me. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/10/22 12:49 PM |
| 3 | If a man isn't interested in people he should not be confused when people are not interested in him.I'd say Aldous Huxley (with Brave New World in particular) is the one author who most contributed to much of my moral/philosophical framework and still makes me think about purpose, discipline, and what it means to be free. James Baldwin had some incredible speeches on a man's place in the world and his responsibility to others. Hayo Miyazaki has great takes on our relationship with nature. Cus D'mato had pretty interesting bits on violence, resilience and pushing yourself to be the strongest yo… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/10/22 04:48 AM |
| 0 | If a man isn't interested in people he should not be confused when people are not interested in him.Personally I've never seen use autism to virtue signal but with some of the VS girls I've known I wouldn't be surprised if they heard it was autism awareness month and their ears perked up at the opportunity | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/10/22 01:22 AM |
| 3 | If a man isn't interested in people he should not be confused when people are not interested in him.Exactly what I'm saying. For example, I live in an area with a SHIT ton of Chinese immigrants and students (some could even say TOO many /joking) and I'm very interested in Chinese culture, films, history, etc. If I'm out n about and hear some girls speaking whatever dialect I can ask if they're Mainlanders and 9/10 the convo goes as follows: "You guys Mainlanders" "Yes we are/ I am" "Nice, china's beautiful, love Chinese movies, what province?" "X province" "Oh yeah I just heard about that news… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/10/22 01:20 AM |
| 0 | If a man isn't interested in people he should not be confused when people are not interested in him.I think like virtue signaling | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/10/22 01:01 AM |
| 1 | If a man isn't interested in people he should not be confused when people are not interested in him.Well not a whole lot you can do about how your face is structured of course but yeah, the life of an average man sucks. He cannot see the world, has no passion(s), not very good at anything, not that smart, not that funny, does not workout, has no interesting thoughts or opinions. If you were a woman would you really look at the life the average man has built for himself and want to be a part of it? Probably not. I had this realization at 15 and started working my ass off to make the life I want… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/10/22 11:40 PM |
| 3 | If a man isn't interested in people he should not be confused when people are not interested in him.Isn't this moving the goalpost? First you said you have to be Chadwick now you're saying it's enough to be short but have your own aesthetic | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/10/22 11:20 PM |
| 1 | If a man isn't interested in people he should not be confused when people are not interested in him.Sure did 😂 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/10/22 11:16 PM |
| 2 | If a man isn't interested in people he should not be confused when people are not interested in him.Well of course it's gonna be hard to hit the target if you don't know what you're supposed to aim for. Have you been thinking about what you want in a woman? And early 40s? What have you been doing the past 20 years to build the life you want to live? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/10/22 11:14 PM |
| 1 | If a man isn't interested in people he should not be confused when people are not interested in him.Well yeah most people are not very intelligent, hardworking, or passionate so why would I be concerned with what most women's preferences are? I don't want to date a woman who's like most women, do you? Same as women don't want to date a man who's like most men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/10/22 11:10 PM |
| 1 | If a man isn't interested in people he should not be confused when people are not interested in him.I mean I wasn't born in a very privileged position at all. I am white, but I'm autistic and grew up poor in a shithole town with no father/positive male role models and I'm perfectly happy with my dating/sexual life. If men are just talking to women for the sole purpose of sex when they are not physically attractive enough to elicit that reaction purely on looks (like me) then they need to fall back and develop traits to counteract their lack of looks. I don't expect these men to do that but see… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/10/22 11:07 PM |
| 2 | If a man isn't interested in people he should not be confused when people are not interested in him.Anyone at all? Do you have an idea of what you're looking for in them? Besides obvious shit like cute and nice | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/10/22 10:56 PM |
| 1 | If a man isn't interested in people he should not be confused when people are not interested in him.When you say "you" you mean me or just men in general? I don't talk to anyone for the sole purpose of sex I have better things to do. Personally I don't believe in sex without any sort of emotional connection the lowest I'll go is fwb and I have heavy moral disagreements with promiscuity (not religious tho) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/10/22 10:54 PM |
| 1 | If a man isn't interested in people he should not be confused when people are not interested in him.True but as a very horny, very introverted young guy I do think you can develop or nurture other characteristics that can balance it out lol it's not easy at all but it can be done | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/10/22 10:46 PM |
| 1 | If a man isn't interested in people he should not be confused when people are not interested in him.That's what I'm saying 🤝 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/10/22 09:11 PM |
| 1 | If a man isn't interested in people he should not be confused when people are not interested in him.Good point 🤔🤔 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/10/22 09:09 PM |
| 3 | If a man isn't interested in people he should not be confused when people are not interested in him.Yeah that's a good point but you won't be attractive or interesting to everyone of course | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/10/22 09:09 PM |
| 2 | If a man isn't interested in people he should not be confused when people are not interested in him.I don't think the narcissistic traits you're describing are inherent or anything but I hear you for sure | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/10/22 09:07 PM |
| 2 | If a man isn't interested in people he should not be confused when people are not interested in him.I mean I'm not very attractive at first glance. I'm 5'9, big gweeto nose, crooked teeth, ears that stick out, but I smell good, workout, impeccable hygiene, intelligent, passionate, ambitious, dress good, empathetic, forward with what I want. I do not put girls on a pedestal and if they are detracting from my mission in life (screenwriting and directing) they are gone and they know that. I go for girls (20 here) that are looking for either something serious or at least don't give it away to a gu… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/10/22 09:05 PM |
| 3 | If a man isn't interested in people he should not be confused when people are not interested in him.I got aspergers too, do you mask well? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/10/22 08:56 PM |
| 4 | If a man isn't interested in people he should not be confused when people are not interested in him.I never said the men who succeed with women are these emotional intelligence powerhouses but for Non-Chads it certainly helps. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/10/22 08:55 PM |
| 2 | If a man isn't interested in people he should not be confused when people are not interested in him.-Of course men and women have some degree of interest in both. -Not behave like women but just take an interest in other cultures, viewpoints, etc. They should not overinvest their time into drama via people like many modern do but definitely investing SOME time into understanding people different from you is healthy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/10/22 08:53 PM |
| 7 | If a man isn't interested in people he should not be confused when people are not interested in him.What are some examples of society not giving a shit about you? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/10/22 08:46 PM |
| 3 | If a man isn't interested in people he should not be confused when people are not interested in him.Any cultures where it's the opposite? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/10/22 08:42 PM |
| 2 | If a man isn't interested in people he should not be confused when people are not interested in him.When you say interested in getting to know them how do you mean? Getting to know/understand them in what ways? Also as said before I'm not just talking about being interested in women (particularly ones you find attractive) but in others as a whole. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/10/22 08:40 PM |
| 3 | If a man isn't interested in people he should not be confused when people are not interested in him.I mean interest. Interest in different cultures, ways of thinking, languages, history, etc. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/10/22 08:39 PM |
| 6 | If a man isn't interested in people he should not be confused when people are not interested in him.How do you mean when you say take an interest in those that treat you like trash? Do you mean women in general? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/10/22 08:38 PM |
| 1 | If a man isn't interested in people he should not be confused when people are not interested in him.Plenty of people do, sure but the ones who can't aren't helping themselves by not taking that interest. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/10/22 08:36 PM |
| 0 | If a man isn't interested in people he should not be confused when people are not interested in him.How do you mean? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/10/22 08:33 PM |
| 1 | If a man isn't interested in people he should not be confused when people are not interested in him.Maybe Chad doesn't but you're not helping yourself at all in social situations (even outside of dating) if you don't take an interest in other cultures, viewpoints, etc. Taking an interest in others will certainly help level the playing field with Chadwick. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/10/22 08:32 PM |
| 0 | If a man isn't interested in people he should not be confused when people are not interested in him.Maybe not understanding but moreso having something in common even with someone from a vastly different culture such as liking similar films or music, learning about their history, stuff like that surely helps from only seeing the "other" in other people/ways of life. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/10/22 08:29 PM |
| 0 | If a man isn't interested in people he should not be confused when people are not interested in him.Elaborate for me 🤔 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/10/22 07:21 PM |
| 2 | What do you most appreciate about the opposite sex?Man here speak for yourself | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/10/22 05:53 PM |
| 1 | Manosphere icons like Patrice O’Neal and Andrew tate are highly overratedWasn't dante's method a more soft, emotionally intelligent way? Feel like I remember that episode | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/10/22 02:47 AM |
| 1 | Some men low in emotional intelligence give women the 'ick'. Are there any things some women do that give men the 'ick'?How old are you? Cause even at 20 I'd say pussy is NOT pussy | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/10/22 01:38 AM |
| 7 | Some men low in emotional intelligence give women the 'ick'. Are there any things some women do that give men the 'ick'?I'd marry a Ms. Honey type for sure but you cannot tell me Ms. Trunchable wouldn't absolutely SLOP it up. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/10/22 01:24 AM |
| 2 | What is something you wish your own sex would stop doing? Mega-ThreadHomelander Pilled 😂 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/09/22 06:27 PM |
| 1 | What is something you wish your own sex would stop doing? Mega-ThreadAs a guy with a larger member I still find the size shaming to be such a turn off there's no way to do it and not sound needlessly mean | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/09/22 06:17 PM |
| 1 | Straight women, is Asian squatting unattractive in a man?Yeah when I see it w the heels raised their legs are always shaking like they're nervous. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/09/22 02:34 PM |
| 1 | Straight women, is Asian squatting unattractive in a man?Not in the mall 😂 but if I'm hanging out w friends in the city and we're standing around for a smoke or something for more than 10 mins man I'm squatting it's happening. I've come a long way growing up (money, nutrition, working out, skills, etc.) but I think that's the broke thing I'll keep forever lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/09/22 02:32 PM |
| 1 | Straight women, is Asian squatting unattractive in a man?Yeah no I feel like it's way more of a Mainland Chinese thing | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/09/22 02:21 PM |
| 1 | Straight women, is Asian squatting unattractive in a man?For the record I'm Italian lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/09/22 02:19 PM |
| 1 | Women fuck emotionally distant men, and keep "good communicators" in the friendzoneWhat's the best MA for actual self defense? Thinking of taking up boxing | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/09/22 03:46 AM |
| 98 | What's your "hot take" or unpopular opinion when it comes to dating?Seems to be unpopular among other young guys but I truly believe masculinity is more for making other's feel safe rather than intimidated | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/09/22 08:25 PM |
| 1 | What is the goal for red pill men?Saw a thread yesterday (Maybe it was this sub?) with the majority of women there saying they pretty much always develop relationships from hookups, so if a guy wants to maximize his chances wouldn't that be the best way to go considering what he's seen and heard from women either in his life or online? For the record, I do not morally agree with promiscuity so I can't sympathize too much but I can understand it I guess. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/07/22 05:38 PM |
| 2 | Dating women as a woman has made me more sympathetic to the dating woes of men.God I miss the =3 era. 19 here lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/07/22 06:19 AM |
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