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Yeah I hate making eye contact. I don't think I have autism. It just feels more comfortable and less confrontational to avert my gaze or at least for us to not try to pierce each others souls with eye contact
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/22 02:15 AM
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While everyone is different and has their own set of values, women aren't "dating up" and men aren't "dating down." They're dating their equivalent on average. It's just that men and women typically value different things. In general for women, looks are less important while status + financial security valued more. That's why we so often see guys who don't really go to the gym or eat well paired with gorgeous women, and when a rich millionaire dude is dating a woman who looks like a 10 according…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/22 10:47 PM
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It's toxic masculinity. It's the idea that a man is supposed to be the bread winner, player, alpha, Chad etc. Our backwards virgin-shaming society associates getting women to sleep with you with status. In that system, paying for sex makes you a "beta." If we had futuristic VR sex experiences that were physically indistinguishable or even more stimulating than the real thing, people would call men losers for going this route, even though it would be safer and easier. Deeply engrained into our so…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/22 08:00 AM
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You act like this entire subreddit is a singular person. The comment sections on this sub are usually a battleground a lot of times because it's a diverse mix of different types of people, guys, women, queer people, feminists, incels, redpillers, and everything in between. You assume everyone on this sub thinks the same because you're used to your wall street bets hive mind
/r/MensRights25/10/22 05:35 AM
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I agree that those are all possibilities and there are risks on both sides. I was speaking moreso in common situations with regular sane people, moreso the women who won't falsely accuse the man of rape the next day and men who won't get violent or abusive while hooking up In those situations, I think that women have more negative consequences for hooking up with the wrong person than men do, partially because there's a chance they can get pregnant (no contraception is 100%). Also, socially it h…
/r/MensRights25/10/22 05:02 AM
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Yeah I agree it does kinda suck :/, especially in today's world where it's becoming more and more frowned upon for men to hit on women in public (which normally offsets women being more selective)
/r/MensRights25/10/22 04:14 AM
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Vetting partners is easier for men because the repercussions of making the wrong choice isn't as bad
/r/MensRights25/10/22 02:29 AM
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Imagine you were in those shoes. Would you let any and every guy smash knowing that you're gonna get a metric fuckton of swipes and knowing that pretty much any guy you hook up with can physically overpower you and knowing that you're the one with the chance to get pregnant (being a single mom is a life-changing experience) No, you probably wouldn't. I don't think this is an issue with men or women being trash or women having too much confidence etc. It's the predatory design of the dating apps.…
/r/MensRights24/10/22 02:16 PM
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I don't think that you should let your fears keep you from pursuing a fulfilling relationship. That being said, you've no need to get married. You don't need the government to get involved to validate your love for someone; the weird and dated rules aren't worth the tax breaks
/r/MensRights24/10/22 01:40 PM
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I'd say class is a way bigger determinant. In this world where money decides everything, being poor means your life is worth less than someone who is rich. The only part where gender comes into play is when you're really poor, as women have an easier finding someone who can keep them from being homeless, and there is a lot less stigma around them getting mental health help and really just help in general
/r/MensRights24/10/22 01:29 PM
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It's likely him being handsome and confident more than anything. Pretty privilege is a thing and it goes hand in hand with confidence This guy gets laid in spite of being redpilled and not because of it. It clearly doesn't work for him in long term relationships either
/r/ExRedPill10/10/22 07:56 AM
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Unattractive people get shit on by everyone in society
/r/MensRights05/10/22 06:43 AM
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Sorry you've had to go through that series of rough dating experiences. The reality is that you're going to have to make yourself vulnerable again and trust people for them to trust you. Sometimes our past relationships can be a lesson and can help us identify red flags in the future, but a lot of times we just get unlucky and our past traumas do nothing for us except traumatize us set us back. If you feel discouraged, I get it, but know that a lot of people in the world are kind and compassiona…
/r/MensRights05/10/22 06:39 AM
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I think that in theory it makes sense, especially when pushing for an egalitarian society and values. The issue is largely that almost nobody in feminist spaces is enforcing the idea that it's not cool to shit on men. Regardless of if anyone thinks misogyny is worse than misandry or if they think that the two or are not directly comparable, neither is cool and both should be condemned heavily
/r/MensRights04/10/22 11:49 PM
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That actually makes a lot of sense. Hopefully she's open to doing that
/r/MensRights04/10/22 11:40 PM
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Part of the issue with the toxic gender wars in society is in shaming young dudes for being a virgin. There shouldn't be status and self worth attributed to getting laid. The pickup artist people who teach that getting laid and pulling 9s is all that matters doesn't help, but shitting on people for being a virgin is much more problematic
/r/MensRights04/10/22 06:24 AM
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To be fair, all Reddit mods are delete happy regardless of the sub
/r/MensRights04/10/22 06:19 AM
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It's more about the petty competitions to see which gender struggles the most and which ones have all the power, no power etc. Deep down, we are all kind loving and compassionate beings, yet there's so much divide and judgement in the world A matriarchy could be just as problematic as a patriarchy. We need neither
/r/MensRights03/10/22 02:33 PM
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My comment was moreso to agree that everyone has it bad, not just women. Patriarchy cucks everyone
/r/MensRights03/10/22 04:54 AM
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I'm just saying patriarchy sucks for men and women and that's not all men's fault. It's moreso the society we live in and cultural norms. Patriarchy is the reason men are more likely to be homeless and die in war and why they almost never win child custody. The issue is in how classic masculinity is defined and the beliefs that all men should be a certain way, that they should all be strong bread winners and never talk about their feelings and never cry etc
/r/MensRights03/10/22 12:53 AM
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It's not just reinforced by rich white men. It's reinforced by people of all genders and racial background including minorities and women. Even general concepts like "men should pay for the meal" is reinforcing it.
/r/MensRights02/10/22 01:59 PM
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Patriarchy cucks everyone, both men and women
/r/MensRights02/10/22 07:17 AM
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Not everyone likes to be hugged, especially if it's unexpectedly. Holding up your hand for a high five or stretching your arms out for a hug is also asking for consent nonverbally. You don't have to be a jerk about it lol
/r/seduction13/08/22 06:58 PM
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You should. Asking for consent doesn't make you a beta and it's only awkward if you make it awkward
/r/seduction13/08/22 06:56 PM
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Like someone else said, those seem like normal responses. Rejection sucks, but don't let that take away from the fact that your text conversations seemed normal
/r/seduction12/08/22 10:12 PM
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I'm 100 lb now but I just can't drop those last 10 which are making me look fat On second thought, I think you need therapy. Even if you're only 5 feet tall, that's not fat. I don't know if your wanting to be so thin comes from a fear of having breasts as a guy, but I think that you're probably better off gaining muscle if anything. But definitely gain confidence first, whether that's through the form of therapy or earning more money. I don't think losing weight will help you too much as far as …
/r/seduction12/08/22 03:35 PM
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This isn't really relevant to the sub lol
/r/seduction12/08/22 05:12 AM
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Don't lower your standards. You just gotta put in more money and effort into looking better. It sucks that the world we live in is so superficial, but that's how it is Buy yourself a gallon water bottle, healthy foods that you like the taste of, a scale, lipo (if you can afford it), a gym membership, any edge you can get to make yourself look better. Get well fitting clothes for you right now. It's better to wear the same 2-3 outfits than to have a variety of bad fits. Make sure to get a haircut…
/r/seduction12/08/22 05:08 AM
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I don't think people really care that much about dating experience. Just be well groomed, smell nice, have nice breath and wear well fitting clothes (don't wear heavy and long sleeved sweaty clothes if it's hot out). You'll feel more confident about talking to people when you look and smell nice and aren't sweating. Hell, if you look nice enough, women will talk to you first
/r/seduction12/08/22 04:59 AM
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"Is it alright if I give you a hug?" goes a long way
/r/seduction12/08/22 04:53 AM
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Failing at what??? If the intention is to make someone feel better about themselves, it's a success unless they don't read it Trust takes a bit of courage, but you should trust that their intention ends there and that they're not secretly scheming for the poster will climb into their dms and flirt with them
/r/seduction13/04/22 05:56 PM
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Regardless of how your hair is, make sure it's well groomed. Cut hair often looks better because it's usually groomed when it's cut, especially if you get a fade and shape up the sideburns and beard Long hair can be beautiful if it's not dry/greasy, you don't have a bunch of split ends, no receding hairline, and your beard and sideburns are still shaped up
/r/seduction12/04/22 05:10 AM
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Why would you want to date someone you find annoying? Ask yourself if you find them attractive first
/r/seduction12/04/22 04:57 AM
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You have to recognize that the shy butterflies feeling is fear. It could be a fear of judgement or being rejected, a mix of both, or something else. Outgoing people get the same feelings you're getting. The difference is that they face that fear (sometimes lol) You can still approach people and have fun conversations with people while feeling like "omg omg omg..." on the inside. Just as you wish people would just come up to you first, other people wish for the same. They'll probably be too conce…
/r/seduction12/04/22 04:51 AM
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I "simp" because it's fun. My simping isn't limited to one gender. I'll comment the same shit on my guy friends' posts too. I don't see commenting something positive as cringe. I don't see complimenting someone "mildly attractive" as cringe. To me, the real cringe is in the guys who pretend they're better than everyone else because they sparingly give out attention and compliments. When you look at one post and see a million compliments, it's easy to see them all as simps, but if you look at mos…
/r/seduction12/04/22 04:42 AM
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Alternatively, if you're not looking for casual sex, putting "not looking for hookups" will drastically improve your matches (for guys)
/r/seduction17/03/22 09:08 PM
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You wooshed op so hard lmao
/r/seduction17/03/22 09:04 PM
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