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| 60 | Red Flag???Two things: Aunts be knowing. Trust elder women who love you. He’s under functioning. He had the courage to buy you gifts but stopped just short of bringing them into what I assume was a ceremony? Is that enough for you? Someone who halfway shows up for you? Either he was too nervous to come inside, which is immature. Or he’s intimidated by you outshining him. Never underestimate the male ego. Will he too nervous to show the **** up during major life downturns as well? The most important questio… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/04/22 11:57 PM |
| 28 | Negs her, calls her response a meltdown, asks reddit if he is wrong or if she is overreacting.Did you write “testerical” ?!? Brava! I love it! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/01/22 02:48 AM |
| 22 | To all the romantics out there, learn from Princess KaguyaIt’s bittersweet. Highly recommend watching it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/01/22 10:51 PM |
| 23 | quick and easy ways to vet: how to tell there is a mask in the first placeHold on, hold on . . . He had his ex wife reach out to you?!?! She needs FDS, the pickmeism is strong with that one. Just wow. Or maybe she’s playing chess, and just trying to get him another woman so he won’t bother her. 🤔 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/10/21 09:40 PM |
| 3 | Never trust dudes who have the female “best friend” in adulthood. Normally this woman is someone they strung along for years as a back up hook-up. 90% chance he is already sleeping with her.I admire your writing and phrasing. “Pit of iniquity” really paints a picture. Glad you’re out | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/08/21 05:40 PM |
| 28 | “It’s men in their thirties with huge beards, and they’re pretty much all stay-at-home dads...Their wives work office jobs and they work on the vans so the family can go out and vanlife on the weekend.”Louder for the back | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/08/21 09:18 PM |
| 20 | Just seen on relationshipadvice... guess it's about usI smell a troll | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/08/21 09:08 PM |
| 20 | I can’t evenQueen Incestia?!?!?!!!!!! Hilarious 🤣🤣😆😆🤣😅 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/08/21 04:24 AM |
| 13 | Tips on acting like someone does not exist when you have to be in their presence?Avoid eye contact by looking through them instead of at them. Focus on the something behind them, and if you must look at them, gaze at their shoulder or another neutral body part. And don’t look away quickly because they’ll know you’ve seen them. Sweep your gaze steadily. Story time: Tried this with a female associate who’d been condescending to me in the past and she got the empty-looking-through-you-gaze and I can tell it bothered her. Bothered her enough that she got next to me into my space… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/08/21 03:59 AM |
| 136 | The level of pick me that is expected of you of you if you're a black womanShe didn’t the memo about us refusing to cape or mule anymore. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/08/21 02:54 PM |
| 122 | looking for examples of hyper-competency and then low-value behaviorGood idea OP! One thing I noticed with my college boo was his complete lack of excitement when I had good news. I got a flat “congratulations” when I shared an accomplishment. Then a little worrying if I was bragging. Or if I did something wrong. Ugh. I have internalized the teaching the the male ego needs boosting. Now I’m thinking, “are young men also being taught how to be a supportive & encouraging partner? Or are only women expected to be the ‘helpmet’”? So a HVM would have given me an “att… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/07/21 12:14 AM |
| 6 | LVM’s idea of a first date is going to her residence, expect a home cooked meal and most likely sex.Cold blooded. I like it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/07/21 01:29 AM |
| 93 | My best friend's BF dumped her on the day she got a PROMOTION!Your friend got two promotions. One was the job. The other was getting rid of him. 😉 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/07/21 01:35 AM |
| 20 | Futurama: A Cautionary Tale About an LVMThat’s one of my favorite episodes! The scene when Alcazar is fake-sobbing about his people to gain Leela’s sympathy makes me laugh. Knowing his LVM ass is lying the whole time. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/07/21 06:53 PM |
| 8 | Your preference of not dating single fathers, is valid.He doesn’t have a car. Wow. (unless you’re in a major, major city) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/07/21 10:32 PM |
| 74 | I am so glad I didn’t end up with any of the losers I pined over in my pickme yearsComedy gold! “A fucking hula hooper” is hereby decreed as the new catchphrase for a useless man. Love that you missed that bullet was. A fucking hula hooper. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/07/21 06:37 PM |
| 121 | Eye-Openening40-something and same! FDS put specifics to my general feeling of bad-assery. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/07/21 04:21 AM |
| 9 | Tl;dr I hate that my girlfriend is more successful than me and takes decisions about her life without consulting meHe is beneath her like a slimy little bridge troll. She is not impulsive, she thoughtfully planned big adulting things - house, dog, job, degrees. Impulsive is doing something without forethought and it usually causes something detrimental. She is blessed! And he’s jealous because he wants “consequences,” i.e. to see her fail somehow and wah! it’s not happening. I’ve had female friends who’ve done similar. Didn’t really celebrate good things going on in my life and literally asked, “what makes y… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/06/21 05:33 PM |
| 29 | ‘Make sure they are invested in you first’ erm I’m sorry but as women our default is skin in the game🙄It all makes sense now. And not in a good way. Beware those men. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/06/21 12:47 AM |
| 54 | ‘Make sure they are invested in you first’ erm I’m sorry but as women our default is skin in the gameIndeed. What the Kevin Samuels/Steve Harvey is going on?! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/06/21 12:26 AM |
| 17 | Eve - You Had Me, You Lost Me 🎶And she married a billionaire. Not saying that alone makes him HV. But she did. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/06/21 01:42 AM |
| 29 | HVM will respect your time; LVM have no worries making you wait around for them because they have no respect for you.That was so gangsta - I love it | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/06/21 02:21 AM |
| 4 | I have gotten banned from two subreddits now for “victim blaming” for saying women have an obligation to themselves to carefully vet men and be on the lookout for signs they’d be abusive. What gives?Can you provide more details about what those little odd behaviors were? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/05/21 04:30 PM |
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