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Red Pill TheoryBeefJesusMaker/r/TheRedPill19/12/15 04:32 AM
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Red Pill TheoryBeefJesusMaker/r/TheRedPill04/12/15 04:51 AM
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This is an extremely useful concept. If you're ever in a relationship, not only will this help you sustain it, but it will prepare you for when/if it fails, all the while helping you improve yourself.
/r/TheRedPill23/12/17 03:08 PM
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Yes, it most definitely will help him out. He just needs to get the right doctor to monitor his hormone levels. I would also like to add that he should attend therapy for his back. It does help. With insurance, it should be affordable. And yes, if he is not producing an optimal amount of test naturally, he may have to do TRT for the foreseeable future.
/r/askTRP15/11/17 07:46 PM
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Balled my eyes out when I lost my dog a year and a half ago. Sometimes it still hurts when I think about her. She was there nearly everyday for half of my life. I feel your pain bro. Sorry for your loss...
/r/MarriedRedPill19/04/17 06:36 PM
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If you go out with her and a group of people, that's a friendly atmosphere. There's no chance of you getting her alone and escalating things on a sexual level. If she won't go out with just you, don't waste your time on her.
/r/askTRP17/01/16 12:48 AM
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Be curious. You've just met a new person. Find out about them. What do you two have in common? How could you possibly help them? How could they possibly help you? When you find something interesting about them, ask questions about it. Life is exciting and people are exciting. Explore into what you don't know about that person. If you can get excited about that, the other person will be able to tell and will be drawn into that excitement. That's one way to give value in a conversation.
/r/TheRedPill13/01/16 05:13 AM
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How does it "increase men's sexual power and options"?
/r/TheRedPill26/12/15 10:39 PM
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Yes, but it isn't a direct sexual strategy. You can rationalize however you'd like, but it doesn't help you improve or get women.
/r/TheRedPill26/12/15 02:29 PM
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That's why I say to never stop approaching. Even when you're in an LTR. You have to keep that abundance mentality. She needs to sense that women are still attracted to you and that you can still pull another one at any time. In order for her to sense it, you have to know it and feel it yourself. It should go without saying to never do anything out of desperation. Complacency will always come back to bite you in the ass. Good post, OP.
/r/TheRedPill24/12/15 04:29 AM
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So no more Men's Rights posts?
/r/TheRedPill24/12/15 04:17 AM
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New guys need to know that they should not be afraid to fuck up and have to move on. Don't let fear hold you back from the life you want. The more you fuck up, the more you'll learn and the better you'll get. Holding frame does take practice. Game takes practice. You gotta participate in order to eventually reap the benefits that you want. The abundance mentality and outcome independence is something that has to be developed. It takes time and experience. So get out there and experiment with som…
/r/TheRedPill23/12/15 10:18 PM
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Exactly. It's tough for guys to know when they should move on when they don't have anything to fall back on. When you have other women, you just automatically think to yourself: "I'm not gonna put up with this bullshit." Really, it's not supposed to be tough. When a girl likes you, she makes it easy for you and helps you. So when a girl is giving you a tough time, move on. She's not supposed to be making you work like that. When you have an abundance mentality, it just comes to you.
/r/TheRedPill19/12/15 09:19 PM
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Even as hard as you say it is to do it in that situation, it'll make you stand out from the others. But it's easier for both sexes to have it when in highly populated areas. That's why it's a numbers game. You have to not give a fuck and just sort them out. Find the women that are receptive and attracted to you. If they aren't, move on. They don't matter.
/r/TheRedPill19/12/15 05:45 PM
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I think everyone should strive to experience the opposite end of the spectrum like that at least once. It puts things into perspective, big time. I've similarly felt the same relief from a cancelled date, but it felt good to know that my current problems were of that caliber compared to the times when I used to complain about not even getting a date.
/r/TheRedPill19/12/15 07:42 AM
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Only give compliments when she absolutely deserves them. If you give them too often, they'll lose their value. But just keep playing things cool and it'll work out. You just have to get rid of that mentality I described earlier because it could breed neediness. Women can sense that shit and it's a turnoff for them.
/r/askTRP17/12/15 01:54 AM
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He's gonna wind up with a hard orbiter status if he does this. She's clearly not interested.
/r/askTRP17/12/15 01:40 AM
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Just tell her how he got it. She's the one who wanted him to get it. As immature as it is, it played out that way. Who cares what she thinks about it? As long as he handles it the right way, it'll play out the way he wants it to.
/r/askTRP17/12/15 01:35 AM
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It seems to me like you're putting this girl on a pedestal. You're constantly putting yourself down while comparing yourself to her. Stop doing that. Who cares that you're a GDI? Who cares that you work at the movie theater? Who cares that you drive a 2005 VW Jetta? You're banging this girl, dude. The only one that thinks you have low SMV is you. You set the frame of your situation. If you don't care, she won't either. With that being said, don't worry about "asserting dominance". WTF? Just keep…
/r/askTRP17/12/15 01:34 AM
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You don't know if she's LTR material yet. You haven't hung out with her. Wait until about a week before you go back to school and text her to set up a date. That's it. No text conversations. Just be blunt about it and ask her out. Read my post on "Setting up a date the right way." Here it is: https://www.reddit.com/r/TheRedPill/comments/3vdm4f/setting_up_a_date_the_right_way/
/r/askTRP17/12/15 12:59 AM
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Read the sidebar. Never let a girl know you have feelings for her right off the bat like that. She absolutely needs to be nexted. How do you do it? Just do it. Don't say anything. Don't hit her up. Just move on. NEXT. It's that simple. You need to be talking to more than just one girl.
/r/askTRP17/12/15 12:52 AM
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Here's the truth: It won't get any better until you actually face your fear. You HAVE to get out of your comfort zone to see improvement. There's no way around it. It's that way with anything. I had to do it. Most of us have had to do it. But that's the only sure way you're going to get anywhere with this. You're gonna suck at first. I sucked at first. Hell, there are times when I approached a girl that it makes me cringe when a think back on it. But that's okay. I didn't give up and I'm proud I…
/r/askTRP16/12/15 11:41 PM
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Holding frame is the same in any situation. Just don't react to anything. Be cool with everything and don't let things get to you. If something bugs you, make a joke about it. As long as you respect everyone and enjoy yourself, everything will be alright.
/r/askTRP16/12/15 10:56 PM
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Eh, that sounds like a date to me. If I was you, I would just invite her over to your place, if you just want to hook up. But if you know she wants more than just friendship, you might want to steer clear of the situation. Could just make things awkward. If you want to go through with it, be honest. Tell her you're not looking for anything serious. And there's always other girls. I wouldn't pursue anything with this one.
/r/askTRP16/12/15 10:49 PM
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Yea, if she's old enough, just tell her y'all are going out for a drink. If not, go grab some pizza or something. Save the tension building for the second date when she's more comfortable about going somewhere with you.
/r/askTRP08/12/15 05:58 PM
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For one, way too much back and forth. You gotta be short and to the point. Either they schedule a date and time to meet up with you, or you don't bother. Texting is just way too impersonal. No seeing seeing facial expressions, no inflection in your voice, no touching. Just a bad way to go. Edit: Didn't realize she was giving you so much resistance. Sometimes you have to be blunt about the situation. You met this chick on Tinder. It doesn't matter what she thinks anyway. I'd say something along t…
/r/askTRP08/12/15 04:43 PM
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Yea, I don't think I meant for it to be that intense. And I'm really just talking about using this with women. But yea, use your best judgement.
/r/TheRedPill08/12/15 04:35 PM
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That could also backfire because it could come off as being butthurt, which is not holding frame. It's also passive aggressive, which is weak behavior. The best thing to do is to just be cool. Don't let shit bother you. You'd be better off in any situation acting like that.
/r/askTRP08/12/15 02:03 PM
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I've dealt with the same thing. You never know how it will go though. Most of my dates like that have gone great. Keep working on it.
/r/askTRP08/12/15 04:50 AM
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Just like everyone else is saying, there's no need for closure for this girl. Just move on silently. This is the absolute best advice you have gotten here. Trust me. It's time to move on and not entertain her with ANY attention anymore.
/r/askTRP08/12/15 04:47 AM
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The only thing I would do differently is to ask her when she's free. I think you actually lose frame when you say "Hey, let's do this on this night" and then they're not available. Having to suggest another night expresses neediness and you don't want to have to rely on a woman to suggest another night. They don't like to be in control like that. Other than that, spot on.
/r/askTRP08/12/15 04:44 AM
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Just keep doing what you're doing. But also, get more women into rotation. As long as you play it cool with her, you should be fine. I've had girls do the same thing to me and still had it work out. The worst thing to ever do in any situation is to get butthurt about it. Don't let that shit get to you. The best way to not let it get to you is to have more women to talk to. This will make it to where you really don't care if one flakes because you have others. u/Thesegates is exactly right. You m…
/r/askTRP08/12/15 04:40 AM
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Joke with her. "Do you think that's all you have to offer? Don't be so hard on yourself!"
/r/askTRP07/12/15 03:32 AM
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If she's lame or misbehaving, take her home. The point is you have control of the whole interaction.
/r/TheRedPill06/12/15 02:23 AM
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This is great. One of the main things I tell people, when they can't force themselves to approach, is to stop looking for what you can get out of the interaction. Instead, focus on what you can give. You can't control what you're going to get out of it, but you can absolutely control what you give. And of course, when appropriate, we give value. Let's say someone is not receptive. You can't control that, but it's cool. NEXT. If they are receptive, give them your excitement, your interest, your f…
/r/TheRedPill05/12/15 06:35 PM
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I wouldn't suggest that. Just be honest. If you don't want anyone to play games with you, don't play games with others. Be honest with yourself and hold out for a real situation when it needs to be done. You know you have a backbone. You don't have to prove that to anyone. Be real and you will attract people who are real too.
/r/TheRedPill05/12/15 05:14 AM
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Couldn't agree with you more. I'm glad you were able to benefit from the info. I'll be sure to post more stuff relating to that subject in the near future.
/r/askTRP05/12/15 05:10 AM
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Yea, but she's not gonna see it that way. Most women are going to feel socially pressured to get married. Can you imagine a normal girl getting asked why the two of you aren't married? She can't handle that.
/r/askTRP05/12/15 01:54 AM
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Try to convince a girl to do that in today's society...
/r/askTRP05/12/15 01:47 AM
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They sure have. But the most recent one wasn't as bad as the one before that. And the one before that was even worse. I wouldn't take anything back at all though. I learned some valuable lessons from those relationships.
/r/askTRP04/12/15 11:50 PM
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I mean, location kinda does matter. If you find out that they live way out there, then tell them you didn't realize it would be that far and it might be better for you both to meet up. Gotta do what you gotta do. Once you build comfort with her, it won't be weird to go pick her up, if that's what you want to do.
/r/TheRedPill04/12/15 10:49 PM
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It's a college town. Very small city. Why wouldn't it work?
/r/TheRedPill04/12/15 10:05 PM
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Yea you gotta stand by your beliefs, for sure. One thing that will help you determine if it's a comfort test or a shit test is this: Comfort: Am I good enough? The correct response is to reassure her that she is and to give her some validation. This builds comfort which will bring her closer to you. Shit: Are YOU good enough? Of course, there are multiple way to handle a shit test. But the main objective is to not let her get a reaction out of you. It's a woman's biological nature to test the st…
/r/TheRedPill04/12/15 08:50 PM
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Go over to /r/marriedredpill. There are plenty of guys in there that have been in relationships for over 5 years. They can help you out more than I can.
/r/askTRP04/12/15 08:42 PM
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I completely understand the biological side. You're forgetting about the beta traits that a woman also seeks though: commitment and stability. She doesn't want to lose those. If you have a good balance of beta and alpha traits, she will want to please you. You're a rare find. There are ways to keep the excitement and unpredictability going in a relationship. And you must always be improving. Sustaining attraction is tough work, but it is very possible.
/r/askTRP04/12/15 07:27 PM
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I took a girl out the other night. We got into a conversation about relationships somehow. I told her it's the woman's job to seek out commitment (it is). She couldn't believe it and tried to say otherwise. I held my ground though. It wasn't an argument, but she seemed annoyed (or offended) and I figured I might've blown it (who gives a shit). Towards the end of the night, we were making out in my car. The next day she told me we should go out again, so we are. Point is, stand your ground. Don't…
/r/TheRedPill04/12/15 07:08 PM
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I've had a similar situation happen to me a few years back. Met this girl at a bar I was working at. She was more into me than I was into her. Like, she made the move on me to make out. I invited her back to my place and we hopped in my car. On the way, she told me to stop by her car so she could drive. I shouldn't have done it and just told her it was out of the way. Because on the way to my house, she turned onto another road and went home. Guess her ASD kicked in. She knew what we were going …
/r/TheRedPill04/12/15 06:53 PM
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I plan on having kids one day and to actually be in their lives. The only way I see being able to do that is through marriage. Marriage can be successful if handled in the right ways. AWALT, right? They're going to react to a beta exactly how you would expect them to. They're also going to react to an alpha exactly how you would expect them to. Who do you think has the better chance at getting cheated on? A disrespected, weak beta whom she grows to despise? Or a strong alpha who knows what he is…
/r/askTRP04/12/15 06:43 PM
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You're in a temporary situation. That's no big deal. Your fucking house burned down. If she can't understand that, fuck her. Own that shit dude. You have to be cool about everything. Make a joke about it. If you don't think it's a big deal, she won't either. Remember, you set the frame. Watch a movie on your laptop or something. There's always some way to make it happen. As long as you have a bed, you're good.
/r/askTRP04/12/15 06:10 PM
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Yes. I've learned from every situation and have learned from the many RP subs. I know how to handle things better and to not act like a needy bitch. I now know how the man has to guide the relationship and be in control. Every relationship I've gotten better and the next one improves. Even the heartbreak lessens. I find it worth the risk for the growth.
/r/askTRP04/12/15 06:04 PM
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You're the prize anyway. She's getting to go out with you. As long as you're not showing neediness, it's not an over-investment. Most women find it attractive when a guy picks them up. When you pick her up, you're more in control of the situation. She's with you. You'll have an easier time getting her back to your place at the end of the night. I'll try to cover that in another post. I live in a smaller city. Depending on where you live, things can be in walking distance. But everyone around her…
/r/TheRedPill04/12/15 05:58 PM
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You shouldn't be investing that much into the relationship anyway. You should know AWALT. I personally enjoy LTRs and have had my heart broken a few times. I've grown from every one of those times though. If you're into LTRs, go check out /r/marriedredpill. There's no way to know for sure if she's cheating. But there is a way tiles den the chances. The guys over there have the answers.
/r/askTRP04/12/15 05:43 PM
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Woah, drop those long phone convos. The phone should only be used to set up dates to meet in person. If you're going to call, only talk for maybe 5 minutes, set up a date, and then tell her you have to run. Absolutely no text convos. The phone is just an impersonal device. There's no seeing facial expressions. No touching. It's just not a good way to build rapport.
/r/TheRedPill04/12/15 05:36 PM
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For one, why get into a marriage if you don't want to have kids? That's the only reason I can see it being necessary. It's obvious this guy doesn't know jack shit about how to manage a relationship. Or maybe he didn't know how to spot the red flags of a terrible partner. It's tough to maintain attraction throughout a LTR. But the guys at /r/marriedredpill have done a good job at explaining how to manage a LTR/marriage the right way. If you want kids one day and don't see any way around marriage,…
/r/askTRP04/12/15 05:29 PM
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There's absolutely nothing wrong with going to pick a girl up. I've done it plenty of times and it has been very successful. But you can't necessarily invite yourself into her place to pregame before. Unless you talked to her about that, don't go that route. Also, try to take her back to your place instead of hoping she invites you into your place at the end of the night. You're the man. Guide the whole interaction. One way I've successfully gotten girls back to my place is to tell them I have a…
/r/askTRP04/12/15 05:17 PM
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The only time I find it unnecessary to apologize is when you haven't done anything wrong. It's very beta when you're constantly apologizing for stupid shit. She's mad at you for taking so long to text back? Don't apologize. You were busy. She says you're being more quiet than usual? Don't apologize. You don't have to talk if you don't want to. Don't ever apologize for being yourself. Now, if you stood a girl up for a date, that's rude as fuck and you should definitely apologize. Only in situatio…
/r/askTRP04/12/15 05:04 PM
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Yea, phone calls are more of an uncharted territory now-a-days. I might have to experiment with a few things. I can definitely see the benefits of it.
/r/TheRedPill04/12/15 06:50 AM
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I agree that a phone call is very underrated. However, I would not warn about the phone call through text first. Just do it. Leave a message if she doesn't answer. It'll surprise the shit out of her. And I will say, I forgot to mention that I will call them when I get close to picking them up. It's a great way to warm them up to see you when you get there. Ask them exactly which house it is or where to park. She'll more than likely be expecting some type of communication before you show up.
/r/TheRedPill04/12/15 06:41 AM
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It does the exact opposite. Those guys are giving her validation over the phone and she will play games with them. The only way she gets any of yours is if she meets up with you. She may wonder why you don't give her the same kind of validation. She might even try to play games with you. If she starts doing that, NEXT. I don't put up with that shit. If you don't give her what she wants, she'll want you more. Women need to wonder about you and to feel unsure about you. It makes you more attractiv…
/r/TheRedPill04/12/15 06:35 AM
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This is the utmost appropriate response to this post.
/r/TheRedPill04/12/15 05:47 AM
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If you set the frame at the beginning that you're not big into texting and that you're busy. It automatically sets up dread for you. She'll be wondering about what you're doing when she's not with you or talking to you. It's a great way to keep that mysterious vibe women find attractive. And anytime you do meet up, the interaction will be more enjoyable for the both of you.
/r/TheRedPill04/12/15 05:22 AM
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It took me a while to realize the second point, but once I did, I hit some major strides in all of my interactions (not just with women). Once you start to FEEL it, other people will be able to tell there's something about you. And generally, women are better at picking up vibes and social cues than men are and they can definitely sense it. But also, the people that you start giving value to will want you around more. People like to be lifted up and made to feel good (maybe even have their egos …
/r/askTRP03/12/15 08:52 PM
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Not arguing. Polarizing.
/r/askTRP03/12/15 07:44 PM
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To be honest, I didn't get good at approaching women until I just started making myself do it. It's a skill. And just like any skill, it has to be practiced in order for you to get better at it. There are some times when I approached a girl, that if I think back to it now, it was absolutely cringe-worthy. Then there are sometimes that I look back on where I straight killed it. Here are some things that I figured out that helped me immensely: No matter how good you get at approaching, there will …
/r/askTRP03/12/15 07:42 PM
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You're her "Time Ho". Cut that shit out. By letting her sit in your lap, hug you, or by giving her any type of attention, you are giving her validation. Women feed off of that shit. So stop. Listen to Patrice: https://youtu.be/t9QOQNcpuiA
/r/askTRP03/12/15 07:16 PM
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Stop throwing out a day for her. Let her throw one out for you. Ask her if she would like to go get a drink sometime this week and when she'll be free. If she says she's busy all week, next. If she throws out a night, she's interested. If she throws out multiple nights, then she's really interested. It's not always bullshit when a girl says she's busy. They can actually really be busy. So now, when you ask her multiple times to come meet up with you, it looks like you're chasing her. That's a tu…
/r/askTRP03/12/15 07:07 PM
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I'm normally just really straight forward with girls on Tinder. So in this case, I would just tell her: "If we're going to meet up, then I would get your number anyway. I just don't want to set it up through this (Tinder). If not, then that's cool. I'd like to meet you, but I don't want to waste anybody's time." Also, try to go get a drink in the evening or at night instead of coffee. You always want to set it up to where there's a chance it could lead back to your place or her place. Don't text…
/r/askTRP03/12/15 07:01 PM
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Question 1: Yea, I played football in high school. Question 8: That's okay. We can tell him I'm gay. (Has worked for me multiple times) Question 12: Who said anything about sex? Bonus: Next. Immediately go talk up some other attractive girls.
/r/TheRedPill03/12/15 06:22 PM
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Get her off of that pedestal. You need to be talking to multiple girls. Not just one. You know what abundance mentality is, but once you do this, you'll actually be able to feel it and you won't give a shit if a girl isn't interested anymore. You have others and you'll just replace her. And who cares if a girl is a 6, 7, 8, 9, or what the fuck ever? If you're attracted to her, approach.
/r/askTRP02/12/15 12:03 AM
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He's talking about being vulnerable to rejection. Sticking your neck out and showing confidence. Not showing your emotions. Read it again. At least that part.
/r/askTRP28/11/15 02:20 AM
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For one, be careful about pursuing girls you work with. But honestly, she really could have just missed your text or meant to text you back and forgot. I know I've done that a few times. If she does this more than once, then you can start to assume she's blowing you off. With that being said, just act like everything is cool. Be nonchalant about it. Wait a while and text her back. But remember, texting is for logistics only. You don't need to warm her up through texts. Just set up a date and tim…
/r/askTRP03/11/15 01:49 PM
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I wouldn't ask her if she's single right off the bat like that. I would talk to her, tell her you think she's cute/sexy/adorable (whatever genuine compliment you think of) and you had to talk to her. Then ask her if she's free anytime this week and you'd like to take her out. THEN, if she says she has a boyfriend (depending on whether you still want to pursue it or not), tell her y'all can tell him you're gay (laugh about it), or to call you if it doesn't work out.
/r/askTRP29/10/15 07:10 PM
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Is it such a big deal that she's on her period? Can y'all not have sex when that happens? I personally don't give a shit if she's on her period or not. Just wear a rubber. Get those red wings! But it actually sounds like she's catching the feels for you. She wants to take the relationship to the next level. If that's something you want to do, then by letting her know you don't mind having sex while she's on her period will build her comfort with you, which is a good thing. If it's not something …
/r/askTRP23/10/15 06:26 AM
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You're spot on. She catching the feels.
/r/askTRP23/10/15 06:20 AM
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What? Everyone knows fun builds comfort and comfort does lead to sex. Where have you learned all of this? And who said not acting butthurt is walking on egg shells? Not being butthurt is just not letting things and situations get to you. Why should you get upset over a girl saying "That's all you're getting tonight."? That's some petty bullshit to get all worked up about. And honestly, you shouldn't get upset about anything anyone says! It just makes you look like a child with his lip poked out …
/r/askTRP22/10/15 09:25 PM
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If you try to show her that she's crossed a line of respect, you'll come off as butthurt, which is stepping into her frame. And if you're acting serious all night, how is she supposed to have fun and build her comfort towards you? Women's words aren't always incongruent with their actions. That "you don't take me seriously" shit test could also be a comfort test, which needs to be handled in a completely different way.
/r/askTRP22/10/15 12:02 PM
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Has she rejected you? If so, definitely don't invite her out. NEXT. Don't contact her. If she reaches out to you, then set up a date and time to get together. If she's reluctant to do so, tell her to get back to you when she figures out her schedule. You should have other girls you're working on anyway.
/r/askTRP22/10/15 05:05 AM
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Definitely watch what she does. Not disagreeing with you. But if he's in an LTR with this girl, it's a little more complicated than dealing with a plate. If she gives some bullshit reason and continues to turn down sex, then he definitely needs to take some action and probably apply some dread.
/r/askTRP22/10/15 04:58 AM
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Agreed. Definitely don't go the butthurt route. That is NOT holding frame. The shit that women or anybody says shouldn't bother you. Do some more research on how to hold frame.
/r/askTRP22/10/15 04:52 AM
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This is too easy, man. You could go a few ways at this. Turn it around on her with, "No, that's all YOU'RE getting tonight!" with a smirk on your face and tickle her or some shit and keep making moves on her. You gotta keep situations light and fun. It's holding frame and showing her that it doesn't bother you. You could also just laugh and say "You're funny!" and tickle her or do something playful. Or, just laugh. You could even ignore it completely! Remember, just keep it light and fun. As lon…
/r/askTRP22/10/15 04:49 AM
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First, ask her what she means. It's that simple. Pull it out of her with questions. Tell her not to leave anything out and listen to what she says. You can't have a clear understanding of how to approach the situation until you know exactly what's going on. If you're the masculine figure that she trusts, she's going to want you to open her up emotionally and to get these things out of her. I wouldn't make any unnecessary moves until I found out what the deal was. Try to find out what you can, co…
/r/askTRP22/10/15 04:38 AM
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Look up Patrice Oneal's definition of a "time-ho". Here it is: https://youtu.be/t9QOQNcpuiA A woman's currency to you is the sex she provides to you. Your currency to her is your time/attention/resources. A guy who gives away his time/attention/resources too easily is considered a "nice guy" just as much as a girl is considered a slut when she gives away sex too easily. I would stop even hanging out with her. If you like the girl, tell her you're not interested in anything platonic and to call y…
/r/askTRP21/10/15 10:50 PM
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I do believe in that, BUT punishments have to be subtle and indirect. Do not threaten anything. Just take away some of your attention from her. Go lift, hang out with buddies, or any other hobbies you have. When she reaches out to you, she wants to feel your masculinity. So meet up and give her your time/attention (and have sex). That would be rewarding good behavior. Your time/attention/resources to her is what her body and sex is to you. When you talk to her about the situation and then back i…
/r/askTRP21/10/15 02:52 PM
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I wouldn't believe she has never let anyone else do that. You've known this chick for 8 days and she's slept with you 12 times and let you do that already. Seems like a red flag to me. I would not LTR a girl like that. If I was you, I would just have fun for a while. Get to know her a little more. I think you'll see more red flags pop up. I would keep pursuing other women to work on your game while keeping her as a plate. But that's just me.
/r/askTRP21/10/15 02:39 PM
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What do you mean "the why"? The reason why she does this (all women do this) is to test to see how strong of a man you are. Women need to know that they are with a strong man. They need to feel comfortable with him. It is a biological tendency that has evolved over thousands of years. Women are emotional beings. They need an emotional rock to hold onto that lets them know it will be okay and can get her back to a comfortable emotional state. The way I would handle it, like I said above, is to te…
/r/askTRP21/10/15 06:12 AM
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Honestly, it's up to you man. I don't know how long you've been seeing her for. I personally like to wait a couple of months before I make that decision. But I wouldn't bring up any conversations about exclusivity. That's the woman's job. When she does it, ask her what she means. She'll elaborate and let you know whether she wants you to be a boyfriend or whatever. Then you let her know what you're willing to do.
/r/askTRP21/10/15 05:59 AM
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Don't let it affect your mood, but don't let her walk all over you. You need to tell her that you won't tolerate being treated that way or talked to that way. If she's mad, she needs to wait until she calms down so that you can both have an adult conversation. By doing this, you're letting her know that she is acting ridiculous and childish. When she sees that you aren't getting angry or showing any reactionary emotions, the tests that she throws at you will slow down and eventually disappear (c…
/r/askTRP21/10/15 05:53 AM
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Her ASD is going to go off with that one. If your place isn't an option, pick her up from her place. When you take her back home that night, park, get out, walk her to the door and go for the kiss. If you've done everything right, she will invite you in. I advise you to be pursuing other women as well. When you actually do have options, you will naturally do things that will attract her.
/r/askTRP21/10/15 05:43 AM
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For one, don't worry about getting an apology. Just look for corrected actions. If a woman wants to apologize, she will. But I believe seeking an apology is butthurt behavior and weak. Instead, just state what you will and will not tolerate and do not budge on those boundaries. She is definitely disrespecting you. Also, you're in a relationship with this girl. Don't tell her you aren't going to talk to her for however long because of something she did. That looks weak, man. You have GOT to hold …
/r/askTRP21/10/15 05:37 AM
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Yea, man. You're wasting your time with this one. Don't reach out to her and start pursuing other women. If she reaches out to you tell her you think she's great, but you're not interested in anything platonic and to call you if she changes her mind. Just take it as a learning experience. It's not a bad thing. And yea, when you're in bed with a woman, you have to just go for it. If she puts up some LMR, take a step back (two steps forward, one step back) and then go for it again later. You'll fi…
/r/askTRP21/10/15 05:23 AM
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Have you started hitting the gym yet? Are you keeping up with your diet (how many calories you're consuming)? It's an amazing feeling when you start seeing results from all of the hard work you've done with your diet and workouts. That will give you an INCREDIBLE confidence boost. If you want more info on this, let me know. And the truth is: you don't really need approval/attention from anyone. In fact, that is considered weak behavior when you actively seek it. You have to accept yourself first…
/r/askTRP21/10/15 05:13 AM
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Don't ever suggest a date and place like that (she might really be busy). Instead, ask her when she's free. When she gives you her free times, set up a definite date to go pick her up. Don't do lunch. It's best to do drinks at a few different places and then back to your place. If she says to take her out to dinner, say "Sorry, I only take girls that I'm dating out to dinner and I haven't even really gotten to know you yet." She'll respect that and will be more inclined to go out with you.
/r/askTRP21/10/15 04:54 AM
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Sometimes they can be busy. But if she's really interested in you, she'll try to reschedule. If not, then you should. When you talk to her, make it short and always make it about meeting up. If she won't meet up with you, don't waste your time. Also, don't initiate conversations. Let her come to you. Let her wonder about you for a while. When she's ready, she'll reach out to you. Until then, be dating other women. You should have options and continue to accrue more. That will help you get rid of…
/r/askTRP21/10/15 04:46 AM
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Damn. She's wasting your time and is definitely trying to put you in orbit. I would have said something along the lines of, "Oh, well call me when you ARE in the mood." And then gotten out of the car and left. Have you had sex with this girl?
/r/askTRP21/10/15 04:42 AM
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You can go to the top of the page, click "top", and then switch to all-time and see some great material. The more people that subscribe to it, the more they will become involved and bring life back to that sub.
/r/askTRP21/10/15 04:35 AM
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Anytime, brother. Message me if you ever need anything. And I think you're making the right decision.
/r/askTRP20/10/15 10:32 PM
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I felt the same exact way after my last LTR. And I play in a band in a college town! Here are some books I can recommend to you, but the best thing you can do for yourself is to get your buddies and go out to actively hit on women. The more you do it, the easier it gets and the easier it feels. Models by Mark Manson is a great one. Mode One wasn't my favorite, but it's about being straightforward with your intentions. Watch some RSD footage. AND SUBSCRIBE TO r/TRPGAME!!!
/r/askTRP20/10/15 09:46 PM
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Look up "Eddie Fews" on Google. He has a great article on abundance mentality on his website. Covert contracts are mainly in No More Mr. Nice Guy, but I'm sure you can find some stuff on YouTube and Google. Approval seeking behavior, you might just need to Google.
/r/askTRP20/10/15 08:32 PM
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You really liked the girl. Might've put her on a pedestal a little. I've dealt with a similar situation. You might be bummed that you know you screwed up and think she's going to be tough to beat. But it is very possible to find someone better. You just have to go talk to women you never would have talked to before and that's the only way to get rid of that feeling. If you think there's still a chance to make things right with her, then go no contact for a while and eventually hit her up to get …
/r/askTRP20/10/15 08:30 PM
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Yea, women are the ones that are supposed to do the chasing. Quite the opposite of the bullshit you see in these romance movies and rom-coms. It also gets to the point where everyone wants what they think they can't have. You can trick yourself into thinking that they're unattainable. You need to realize that there is actually action in inaction. So, by not contacting or doing any chasing, you let her emotions for you grow. If it turns you off when women bring up commitment, then I don't think t…
/r/askTRP20/10/15 08:13 PM
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I know some guys can feel like they're "running out of time" or some other excuse they tend to lean towards when getting older. But really, all it is, is a lack of an abundance mentality. It starts to let fear settle in and it's never good to base decisions/actions off of fear. If that's what you're feeling, you need to realize that it's only going to hurt you to feel that way. Get back to building your life, enjoying the hell out of it, and feeling that abundance again. It's completely fine to …
/r/askTRP20/10/15 06:23 PM
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It's ok to like one more than the others. That doesn't mean oneitis is creeping up on you or anything. It's natural to be drawn to one person more than others. Now, if you start dropping plans for the girl, putting things in your life on hold for her, or letting her shit tests get under your skin, THAT is a sign of oneitis. But if you like the chick, then let her bring up exclusivity if that's the route you're wanting to go.
/r/askTRP20/10/15 05:13 PM
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What she's doing is looking for validation. There are certain circumstances where it could be considered a comfort test, but you do not know this girl. Therefore, do not give it to her. Instead, try to turn it around to setting a date and time to meet up (you should not be holding conversations with women over tinder in the first place). If she is not willing to meet up, then tell her indirectly that you don't have time to talk to anyone that is not willing to meet up, and move to the next one.
/r/askTRP20/10/15 01:31 PM
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Bro, you are WAY overthinking it. I PROMISE YOU, none of those people are thinking any of the things you think they are. In fact, I guarantee you most of them are thinking "Look at that guy getting in here and doing something good for himself! Good for him!" And most of the intimidating looking guys are actually some of the nicest guys if you got to talk to them. But the main point is: FUCK WHAT ANYONE ELSE IN THERE IS THINKING! You're there for YOU! You have a goal and you should be proud to be…
/r/askTRP19/10/15 11:21 PM
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Don't do it. The phone is strictly for setting dates and times to meet up. You need to be busy doing other things while you both are not together. She needs to know you're a busy guy and you have a lot going on in your life. SHE NEEDS TO WONDER ABOUT YOU. Women need time to think about things and to let their feelings grow. If you're hitting her up all of the time, you don't leave any room for you to be mysterious. You're going to come off as being needy and you don't want that. Set up a date an…
/r/askTRP17/10/15 04:53 PM
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Good job man. Women need your attention. When they don't get it, they feel like something is going wrong and they need to do something in order to make it right. If you keep her guessing and wondering about you, you'll always be winning.
/r/askTRP16/10/15 10:45 PM
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This.
/r/askTRP16/10/15 10:16 PM
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To avoid the situation with Girl A, you have to set up a definite date and time, preferably to pick her up. When you don't talk to her until you show up, it builds anticipation on her end. That builds sexual tension. She'll be more excited to see you. If she texts you before the date, cut the conversation short (you're really busy) and tell her you're excited about "insert day" and you'll see her then.
/r/askTRP16/10/15 10:14 PM
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Wait a couple of days and then ask her when she's free next. If she doesn't give you any free days, NEXT. She's not into you. If she does, set a definite date when you'll both be available. Now I will say sometimes, if they don't have any free days, then they really are busy. You'll just have to gauge that on your own. If you really think that she is busy, tell her maybe next week and then hit her up the next week to ask her when she's free. If she doesn't give you any free days then, that's a f…
/r/askTRP16/10/15 10:06 PM
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THE PHONE IS FOR SETTING DATES OR TIMES TO GET TOGETHER. When she calls you, tell her that you're glad she called, but you're busy at the moment and you would love to hear about it when you both get together (but you know what will really happen when you both get together). Or just don't take the call! Shoot her a text and say the same thing. If she keeps giving you the run around, just tell her to get back to you when she figures out her schedule so you can meet up. I guarantee you, if you don'…
/r/askTRP16/10/15 09:54 PM
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You also have to realize that ALL WOMEN have a sexual side. Some are just more open about it. But they all love sex just as much as guys do. When meeting any girl, you have to get it into your head that she DOES want to have sex and they are actually rooting for you to be able to get into their pants. Quit doing them and yourself a disservice by putting them on a pedestal.
/r/askTRP16/10/15 09:42 PM
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Just be suggestive. You don't have to come right out and say "suck my dick" or anything else similar to that. A simple "I know what you can do with me" with a suggestive smirk on your face can be enough. And then make out with her or something. Or "I know what I'm going to do with you" with the same thing. You have to remember that you have to make light of every situation. Nothing is a big deal to you. Another helpful thing is to always be playful. You could could even say "Haha! I know, right?…
/r/askTRP16/10/15 09:34 PM
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Jesus Christ. Sometimes the shit I see on here really makes me fucking sick. It really is a cruel world out there and you really need to watch your own back. A friend of mine said this to me a while back and it really stuck with me: "There's a reason for that feeling you get in your gut. If you're picking up a certain vibe, almost every time, that's the vibe you're supposed to be getting." Good thing this guy trusted his instincts. If he would've listened to the shitty advice he was getting here…
/r/TheRedPill16/08/15 08:36 AM
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You need to make a post on this.
/r/TheRedPill28/07/15 04:56 AM
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If something floods the marketplace and is easily accessible, it's not worth very much. That's what I was getting at.
/r/TheRedPill28/07/15 03:58 AM
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It's basic economics. If supply is high (she lets a ton of guys get with her), demand is low (nobody is going to want her or keep her around).
/r/TheRedPill27/07/15 03:10 PM
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I'm glad someone on here has made a post about Coach Corey Wayne. I've gotten some great advice from him. I recommend everyone check out his videos on YouTube. There's over 1700 of them.
/r/TheRedPill06/07/15 02:52 PM
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I'm from the states and I respect the fuck out of him. He has no problem standing up and saying exactly what needs to be said, even if it's going to piss off the people he has to work with. He sticks to his guns and let's everyone know what he believes in. Just watch his posture here as he gives the other EU representatives a piece of his mind: http://youtu.be/2gm9q8uabTs
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