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| 1 | My solution to approach anxiety. Real stuff here.The OP's post was a bit over the top but this is probably some of the more useful content on this subreddit. It's a bit of a body hack to channel your sex drive to help you betas overcome initial approach anxiety. No need to read into it so much; just take it for what it is | /r/seduction | 15/07/14 06:56 PM |
| 3 | [FR] Came to the beach alone, then had sex on the beach.Question for op: did you cum inside her? | /r/seduction | 04/07/14 01:43 AM |
| 1 | TRP Strategy is for more than impressing women.I wasn't threatening you, I was showing concern. Seeking validation from women (or anyone) is not trp and a horrible way to live your life. I understand that you learned a valuable lesson in sticking up for yourself but you need to relax. In no way was my comment threatening at all, especially in context. | /r/TheRedPill | 04/07/14 01:18 AM |
| 1 | TRP Strategy is for more than impressing women.I'm going to hope this is a joke playing off your username, Wrong_Opinion...for your sake. | /r/TheRedPill | 03/07/14 11:02 PM |
| 1 | Natural Alpha vs Unnatural AlphaI find this post very sincere, genuine, and most of all hilarious. I bet most trp'ers have in some point felt this way. The ones who deny it on this sub aren't any different, they're just better at maintaining frame. | /r/TheRedPill | 03/07/14 08:43 PM |
| 1 | TRP Strategy is for more than impressing women.Regarding your title, Trp is not about impressing women | /r/TheRedPill | 03/07/14 08:19 PM |
| 1 | I recently discovered TRP and I would like to share something my pastor once taught during a sermon.Being alpha is about being a leader and looking out for those around you. People need boundaries and need a leader to follow. As a good husband (and man in general) you need to fill that role and be alpha. | /r/TheRedPill | 03/07/14 08:14 PM |
| 1 | My journey to taking the pill, and my most important lesson.Agreed. Life isn't about just fucking women and your major life accomplishments shouldn't revolve around the number of girls you've fucked. Sadly though most r/trp'rs become fixated on this and totally miss the point. It also doesn't help that pua companies prey on these insecurities and game people for money. | /r/TheRedPill | 03/07/14 08:07 PM |
| 1 | Girl leaves guy for a richer one, gives a total bullshit excuse(crosspost /r/India)Traditional Indian girls are wifey material. They have a sense of obligation and duty that most girls lack today. Unfortunately for the poster, it looks like the girl feels more obligated to obey her family. It's not like they're being unreasonable either. Poster is just butthurt. | /r/TheRedPill | 12/06/14 09:44 PM |
| 1 | Do I want to kiss them or do they want to kiss me?As you said these are not mutually exclusive. You want to kiss her and she wants to kiss you. Both apply. I understand it can be fun to think about but seriously don't overthink these things. It's important to stay out of your head while you're interacting with others. | /r/TheRedPill | 12/06/14 09:24 PM |
| 2 | When someone is giving you shit?It's about frame control. Don't get worked up and give the other person shit back in a playful tone. If you're really alpha you shouldn't feel threatened. If they cross the line however, like they hit you or anyone in your group, get serious and tell them they took it too far and to stop. Key is to have everyone around you on your side so the other person is shamed and outnumbered. If you yourself are outnumbered, best to defend yourself as best you can and eject. Don't be dumb and get killed ov… | /r/TheRedPill | 12/06/14 09:19 PM |
| 2 | Curiosity regarding finances and TRP.Completely agree. Id also say pua yolo brainwashing also has a part to play in it. Companies like RSD like to game betas into thinking life is about going out and picking up girls. They prey on people's insecurities and it's effective. They should really advocate a balanced lifestyle but that unfortunately isn't as appealing. | /r/TheRedPill | 12/06/14 09:08 PM |
| 0 | Curiosity regarding finances and TRP.Money is obviously important and unfortunately it doesn't get talked about here because people view it as a provider quality aka beta. It really isn't beta however to be making shit tons of money. What's beta is letting a woman suck you (financially) dry while she fucks other men. Beta bux, alpha fux only applies when you're not an alpha. It's okay for you to spend money on a girl and okay for a girl to think your wealth/status is attractive. Just be alpha and make sure you keep your options ope… | /r/TheRedPill | 12/06/14 08:29 PM |
| 6 | AskHamsters: Newly graduated doctor wonders why women are suddenly are so interested of himTo be honest, the guy is inadvertently pea cocking wearing his scrubs or white coat out and about. It will naturally draw more attention to himself and obviously having your shit together (ie being a doctor) is attractive. I don't know why any of you have a problem with this. Sure the poster is being an idiot, but it's not like there's anything wrong with women behaving this way. | /r/TheRedPill | 12/06/14 08:16 PM |
| 31 | r/relationship_advice provides a classic example of why you don't wife up a whoreIt's very common and if you consider the fact that the woman is a known cheater, it makes sense that she barely fucks him. She's off having sex with other men instead. Beta bux alpha fux. Nothing new. | /r/TheRedPill | 12/06/14 08:09 PM |
| 3 | Most women truly have no honor or accountability.Although this is an interesting story, keep in mind that this is not something exclusive to women; there are plenty of men who lack accountability/honor. I can sense your bitterness in your post and it only makes your argument seem weaker. Part of being red pill is being rational and objective so please do keep in mind that we are not a women hating group. | /r/TheRedPill | 12/06/14 08:04 PM |
| 3 | Married Man Theory -- Next Best AlternativeIt depends on the girl and what she personally values. For most girls, I'd argue that it's not the degree itself that's attractive but what you have done (or can do) with it. A degree can get your foot in the door but if you fail to do anything it, what's the point. Moreover, in 10 years from now, it's not about what college you went to but how successful you are in your career. At the end of the day though, as you mentioned, this is a provider quality that is useful in securing a wife--someone … | /r/TheRedPill | 12/06/14 07:57 PM |
| 1 | I know this sounds fucking ridiculous but have any other guys got skype plates?It doesn't necessarily have to be sad or pathetic, but from how you've presented the situation, it sounds like you're embarrassed and ashamed. Master frame control even to us fellow trp'ers and either develop a strong rationale for why this isn't bp or stop the skyping | /r/TheRedPill | 12/06/14 06:33 AM |
| 1 | How do i stop being so sensitive?Realize there's no reason you're not enough. Negative opinions, comments, and insults should not faze you in the slightest, for you are enough. Nothing anyone says or thinks about you will ever change the fact that you are enough, so who gives a shit? Master frame control. | /r/seduction | 25/07/13 06:21 PM |
| 2 | [FR] 8 F-(you) closes!I'm glad you can laugh these things off. It sounds like you had a not so stellar night. Although I'm sure there were plenty of bitches out on nye, I think there's something off in your approach if you faced such animosity from 'happy new year'. I can't tell from your FR, but there must be something wrong with your nonverbals. How hot were these girls anyway? | /r/seduction | 02/01/12 07:36 AM |
| 1 | What do you think of this mindset when approaching ANY situation? Give me your pro's & con's...Interesting idea. It may prove useful in the short term, but I don't like it. It is a way of avoiding problems and furthermore may disorient you into not fully appreciating some of the beautiful experiences in life. I think at the end of the day you should be able to deal with any problem that comes your way because you know you are a competent person capable of achieving anything you put your mind to. I just don't like the idea of falling back on a little mindtrick. However, like I said, in the… | /r/seduction | 25/12/11 12:38 PM |
| 6 | Girls With BoyfriendsI agree with your list, but at the same time, women in those categories will only cheat on you if you give them reason to. (i.e. beta behavior) Let's clarify something though. This is only an issue if you're an AFC. You see, if you're an AFC, you might argue that a girl shouldn't need to do these things, specifically go to the club without you or participate in some random ass activity without you. This is because to an AFC, a girl truly in love with him wouldn't feel the need to do these things… | /r/seduction | 25/12/11 12:17 PM |
| 5 | Girls With BoyfriendsI refrained from posting my view, but I think it's time that everyone face the truth. The truth is, it hurts to be the guy who gets cheated on/dumped. But that's life. Women reward alpha male behavior. If you're a self-actualized, worthwhile guy... 1) Your girl probably won't cheat on you 2) Even if she does, you're better off without her & you can let go of the past, even if it isn't what you may have wanted. That being said, I argue that isn't immoral to go after a girl with a bf. I however do… | /r/seduction | 25/12/11 11:18 AM |
| 7 | SimplifyKnowledge is power; it's absolutely essential for AFC's. However you are right: what use is knowledge if you can't put it to use. Experience is the number one teacher. But like they say, you can lead a horse to water, you can't make it drink. Cliche's are awesome btw | /r/seduction | 25/12/11 10:37 AM |
| 5 | [FR] Night Game + Serious Thoughts on Group DynamicsNice FR and contribution. I commend you on your efforts. Here are some things I think could benefit you: Being outcome independent. If you weren't so focused on results, I think you would have had an even better time and probably wouldn't have had any issues with these other dudes. You'd seem (and would be) more sincere and would also make better impressions on the girls too. It's interesting how you mentioned a zen-state, when you were in your head during all of these interactions. This is abso… | /r/seduction | 25/12/11 10:25 AM |
| 2 | KissingBest not to think about it too much, but in general, watch your saliva & go with the flow or momentum of the kiss. You should never be going full out unless you worked up to it or the situation calls for it. Best thing you can do is just get out there and get more experience. Even if it psyches you out at first, like anything, try to enjoy it and make it enjoyable for her too! Kissing is wonderful | /r/seduction | 25/12/11 10:03 AM |
| 1 | [FR] First in a long time. Nightclub. F-closed as a wing-man... sort of. Strange LMR.lol. From your disclaimer, it sounds like you just SETTLE for girls that want you. How about you stop settling for things and actually go after things you want in life. Stop being a typical AFC that gets butthurt when girls instinctively choose alpha men over chumps like you. Do something better with your life. Let me break down the statement, so you can rationalize it. DISCLAIMER: Don't get butthurt over this. I don't care if it doesn't align with your perception of the world. This is how it is… | /r/seduction | 25/12/11 09:51 AM |
| 1 | [FR] First in a long time. Nightclub. F-closed as a wing-man... sort of. Strange LMR.Yes I do. If it makes you feel better, I'll revise it to: Most girls don't know what they want. | /r/seduction | 25/12/11 02:13 AM |
| 34 | So, I manned up and asked!Good job putting yourself out there. Overcoming the fear of rejection/failure is one of the greatest things you can achieve in life. There are some inconsistencies that I would like to point out though. I don't know why you used the word rejection. From her response, it doesn't seem like you were rejected at all, rather it seems like you're just selling yourself short by interpreted her response as one, which is an entirely different matter. If anything, I am going to "ASSUME" that YOU chose to … | /r/seduction | 25/12/11 01:46 AM |
| 3 | How to Avoid Emotional Stock Too SoonThe OP's tip is a valuable one that is meant to extinguish validation seeking beliefs and behavior. Regardless of how ridiculous the tip may seem at face value, it is only meant to help others improve themselves. Being genuine, as you mentioned, is the end goal in the path to self-actualization, but do not forget that this is geared towards AFC's who need these little mind tricks to overcome years of limiting social conditioning. Mind tricks like these are more likely to gain results than tellin… | /r/seduction | 25/12/11 01:31 AM |
| 2 | [FR] First in a long time. Nightclub. F-closed as a wing-man... sort of. Strange LMR.Girls don't know what they really want. I can see how you may have felt conflicted, but never forget that a woman wants a man to take control. But hey, you got results so awesome either way | /r/seduction | 25/12/11 12:19 AM |
| 1 | Social anxiety and insecurity.Yes meditation is key. It helps you get out of your head and teaches you how to live life in the moment, so you can act without thinking. Ideally, you should be able to interact with others without having to consciously think about things, like where the conversation is going or how the other person views you. You need to learn how to stop detaching yourself. Meditation helps you 'live in the moment'. For me personally, it really helps me gain perspective in my life and helps me overcome alot of… | /r/seduction | 23/12/11 05:42 PM |
| 6 | Nervous, but time to get out there again....Watch tyler durden's video about one-itis. They helped me. The only solution is to look within yourself and realize that you don't need her in your life. Read the articles about inner game in the sidebar for more about this. My personal tips to you: Separate reality from idealized fantasy. Recognize that you're in "scarcity mode" (see tyler's videos) Realize that you live a life of abundance. Do your best not to think about her and live your life. Live in the moment and continue improving yourse… | /r/seduction | 18/12/11 06:42 PM |
| 1 | Crosspost from /r/science regarding a woman's looks + interest, as well as a woman's understanding of man's desire. Sorry if this is wrong subreddit.Interesting article. Reaffirms the idea that it doesn't matter what a HB initially thinks or says. Just go for that shit, change her mind, and get results. If she rejects you, who really cared anyway? | /r/seduction | 14/12/11 08:14 AM |
| 2 | [FR] Drink a little, smoke a little.Marco, brotha, nice post and nicely played. Hats off to you, sounds like you know exactly what you're doing. BUT, reading this reply you wrote bothers me. It sounds like you're making excuses as to why you didn't escalate, when in fact, it seems like you just simply didn't want to f or kclose--which is perfectly fine. I'm gonna hope you're just trying to get moovinonup off your dick, because I know you could have escalated if you really wanted to. And even if you couldn't have and failed in the … | /r/seduction | 14/12/11 08:03 AM |
| 2 | Building attraction in a dying relationship?I usually just lurk, but I wanted to give you my 2 cents, as I've recently experienced a similar issue. You probably don't want to hear this, but you really shouldn't let yourself get attached to ANY girl. If you're feeling yourself getting attached, continuing with this relationship will only make things worse. End things now while you have the chance. There are plenty of other girls out there--don't let the illusion of scarcity fool you into thinking otherwise. That being said, you should dump… | /r/seduction | 14/12/11 07:39 AM |
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