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This is the only community where men care about that. In real life, they either agree that they'd also prefer not to have children, or never had a strong opinion to begin.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/23 09:46 PM
1

Apparently I hit the wall at 24 when I got my bilateral salpingectomy. Except I've literally never met a man who sees it that way. All of the fun and raw-dogging, none of the soul-sucking, figure-shattering consequences.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/23 09:44 PM
1

When we're in the mood to be treated as such by some specific guy, but the feeble male mind exists in binary; black and white.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/23 11:06 AM
2

Men want a big tiddy redhead gf? They can fucking earn it.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/23 05:48 AM
5

Well, yeah. That's why I show them the door when they get too comfortable with me.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/22 01:02 PM
1

They might not have vasectomies, but they sure don't care that I got sterilized at like 25. Hell, it's an upside. All of the fun stuff, none of the anxiety about pregnancy risks. I think most men just follow the lead of women on that. As for the difficulty getting sterilized, there's one thing you can tell an OB/GYN that'll make them book you for a bilateral salpingectomy, stat!
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/22 02:52 AM
1

I have never encountered a man who felt strongly about having children. The few that do seem to congregate here and it's weird.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/22 06:04 PM
3

If you can't convince an interesting woman with real hobbies to stick around, that says more about you than the dating pool.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/22 05:17 PM
2

We just don't want to have sex with uggos.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/22 10:48 AM
-1

Bold of you to assume there are men better than me.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/22 06:00 PM
2

I definitely don't admire or respect community dick. It sounds like Jerry had too much to drink and showed his ass.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/22 05:59 PM
2

You've never heard that saying before?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/22 12:45 PM
3

In other words, male sexuality is just gross and toxic. I prefer my friends not thinking with the wrong head all the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/22 07:05 AM
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She would have died to cancer and meningitis even if she had her kids 15 years ago. The hell are you on about?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/22 01:41 AM
-1

Let's not pretend men don't cast insanely large nets. They're not exactly picky.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/22 07:35 PM
1

I guess a woman who is abusive, but aside from, the question is not applicable. The man has to prove his worthiness and value.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/22 06:20 PM
2

Men just matter a lot less. It's a fact.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/22 04:52 PM
7

This is why we just laugh and roll our eyes at men. They're just lizard brains on legs. Get what you want or need and move on to the next. If you love them, make sure it's conditional.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/22 04:26 PM
5

In other words, men should not be listened to or taken seriously in matters of sex. This is nothing new.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/22 11:14 AM
107

All men are simps if you're hot enough.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/22 06:38 AM
12

Don't call OP a cunt. He clearly lacks warmth and depth.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/22 07:11 PM
6

I'm in my mid-30s. Most men my own age and a bit older have beer guts, receding hairlines, lingering obligations to another woman's children, resultant baby mama drama, and too much baggage. Men in their mid twenties to early thirties, however, are in a far more advantageous position for my interest.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/22 08:39 PM
1

How so? That has not been my observation. In fact, mid to late 20s is when women generally have better luck in relationships because men around their age outgrew the fuckboy phase.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/22 06:06 PM
2

Most people have a deep-seated desire for companionship. Not being alone. That's just a sociological fact. There are other factors, like men having a source of sex and wanting to pin it down so that, in theory anyway, they continue getting sex from women they enjoy having sex with. But also, they crave emotional intimacy. A lot of the male flailing we see in this subreddit is resultant of failure to meet this need. A true commitmentphobe who extends this aversion to everyone is a psychological a…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/22 04:41 PM
2

I'm not being hostile. In my experience, the phenomenon of the woman wistfully waiting around for her FWB to suddenly wake up and realize he has feelings for her is a subject of romantic comedies that doesn't really apply to the real world after high school, and maybe a traditional college path but I went to college a little older and never lived in dormitories so I can't speak for the 18-22 crowd partying through college.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/22 04:09 PM
3

What are you talking about? It is not hard for women to find committed relationships either.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/22 03:31 PM
2

It's working just fine for women.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/22 11:06 AM
1

Not really.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/22 06:12 AM
1

Female solipsism... By their own admission here in PPD, men only care about beauty, youth, and submission. Why shouldn't women treat them like the insipid, fallible creatures they are?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/22 05:42 AM
0

Men chase us. Men woo us. Men make us want to be with them. They best be several cuts above.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/22 04:55 AM
2

Men are extremely uncomplicated and insipid.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/22 09:03 PM
68

Call me "skinny fat" and describe my face as plain in the same paragraph as explaining you wanted to date me, and I'd also stay far away from you. You thought you could settle for her. She was too good for that. Joke's on you.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/22 04:29 PM
6

Of course you would need a woman with low standards.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/22 04:43 AM
2

He can can have a big tiddy redhead, or settle for airbrushed skanks you cannot touch, smell, taste. If he'd rather indulge fantasies outside of our relationship, then so can I.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/22 06:04 AM
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I keep seeing it mentioned around here that women gatekeep sex, men gatekeep commitment. I scratch my head every time because I haven't witnessed that theme except in movies maybe. In the real world, men chase us down, woo us, impress us. Even if we have sex, thus giving an inch, men push for a mile and try to stake their claim. Men take the initiative, women decide to accept it or not. Women initiate the majority of divorce proceedings (which isn't the same as cause.) Look up Walk Away Wife Syn…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/22 03:26 PM
5

I think you misunderstood. I'm saying we gatekeep both.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/22 06:04 AM
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That women gatekeep sex and commitment.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/22 05:37 AM
1

What is the issue? Men chase us. Men woo us. Men impress us. This has been the expectation before online dating was a thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/22 08:26 PM
2

That's why you discard them at any revelation that they settled.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/22 04:39 AM
2

I'd remind him that I am the table and ghost him after that date.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/22 06:54 PM
2

They broke up in 2009 after he assaulted her.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/22 02:56 AM
3

Chris Brown is a washed up has-been and the only women who want to marry him are broken. Shitty people attract shitty people.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/22 04:41 PM
3

For a one-night stand, or for his money only.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/22 03:24 PM
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Then he's not valuable if he cheats and lacks the forethought to understand I'll take the house, the sports car, and enough alimony to say he's putting me through grad school.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/22 10:33 AM
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You either meet their standards, which are at the bottom of the ocean, or you can be their Achilles heel. Be the latter.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/22 08:10 PM
6

He's just salty that men actually have to be good at it and listen to basic instructions for women to derive any pleasure. If he won't do those things, he's a waste of time in bed.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/22 04:50 PM
1

I have not even bothered with online dating. Go be triggered by erectile dysfunction somewhere else. Shoo.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/22 10:23 PM
1

Let me guess, "hunter eyes"?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/22 05:18 PM
3

Yup. Most men either explicitly don't want children, or they are fine either way: open to it, but it's not a priority. This sub seems to attract the vocal minority who do.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/22 03:32 PM
3

Different women consider different men to be "top 5%".
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/22 03:25 PM
1

Took you a whole week to think of that, huh? Nah, I'm a 10. If some guy has ED, that's a him problem. There are plenty of men out there who don't.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/22 03:24 PM
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You're assuming she wants children. What fertility wall? I had those parts removed in my mid-20s because I enjoy disposable income, alone time, peace, quiet, and rawdogging. Haven't met a man who gives two shits about fErTiLiTy.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/22 05:33 AM
6

What do you think we do? Settle? Gods no. Yes, we marry top tier men.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/22 04:36 AM
4

Negative. He's getting the better end of the deal.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/22 10:30 PM
8

Good thing there are positions where I don't open my legs!
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/22 03:11 PM
45

No. Men grossly overestimate the power of their penises if they believe that they have the ability to change my value.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/22 03:54 AM
1

Men lead women on to get laid anyway. There's no reason for women not to treat men like walking lizard brains.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/22 03:29 PM
1

None. They're a dime a dozen.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/22 05:38 AM
1

I don't even look at it that deeply. They can have a big tiddy redhead they can feel, smell, taste, or they can have pixels. It's a no-brainer.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/22 10:58 AM
0

I have job that keeps me financially comfortable. I can get myself off. I am perfectly happy to find companionship in myself. I can protect and support myself. So impress me. And don't let the facade slip because there's no incentive beyond your company to make me stick around, so if I'm not enjoying the company part, then bye.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/22 04:25 AM
2

How would he find out? It's like asking if these pants make your ass look fat.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/22 03:08 PM
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Why change your view when we can just tell a harmless little white lie?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/22 02:35 PM
2

Nah, if I like you enough to want you as my friend and fuck you, I'm making you mine and I don't share.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/22 05:11 AM
5

They'd be fine if they just went their own way and shut up about it, but they're still creepily obsessed with us.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/22 12:24 PM
13

Men would stop death gripping their dicks, first off.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/22 12:19 PM
5

Word's tiniest violin.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/22 12:18 PM
1

Then share screenshots of your DMs with the class. Prove it.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/22 03:42 PM
1

Get therapy.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/22 05:31 AM
27

Act like that, and she'll actually fuck Chad behind your back. Play stupid games, win stupid prizes. 😏
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/22 05:22 AM
2

All hetero men love redheads. 😏
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/22 03:22 AM
4

That's when you keep seeing him, at least one more time. Bring a large bag of frozen peas, remove ice from his fridge ice maker, replace with frozen peas. Leave and block. Hardball mode: keep seeing him, bring a phillips head, remove all exterior door hinge screws while he's still sleeping, step outside, finagle the door closed, leave, and block.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/22 12:45 AM
1

I'd run for the hills regardless of how long he wants to wait just because he sounds like a fuckboy.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/22 05:28 PM
0

They can have me, or they can have these vapid videos on a screen; airbrushed that they cannot touch, smell, taste, etc. Or they can lie, and I'll laugh at them in CASP+.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/22 05:00 AM
0

Again, go to therapy if you think busting a nut justifies being intentionally dishonest and manipulative. Or just hire sex workers.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/22 08:47 PM
1

Because you're targeting gullible, damaged women. Just get on Tinder or hit up any bar near a college campus. These avenues are crawling with women just looking to hit it and quit it. There's no need to be an awful person in your pursuit of mindless, meaningless sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/22 08:26 PM
0

Why is what the only strategy that works? Lying?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/22 08:20 PM
3

If your sample is the men of this subreddit, most of them are one-dimensional.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/22 08:14 PM
0

Go to therapy.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/22 08:11 PM
0

It's not a valid excuse to manipulate people or treat them poorly.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/22 07:39 PM
3

It's amusing that you assume I do this to non-violent partners who aren't trying to rape my throat. Shoo.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/22 05:21 PM
5

You know what's a good way to catch an ass whooping? Assaulting someone by aggressively, repeatedly trying to force your dick down their throat. Loons like that shouldn't be having sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/22 04:44 PM
0

I believe there might be a biological process that results in a dopamine spike after getting off, but I see it in the context of, "PNC hit and you realize you don't like her as much as you thought you did." That's just using PNC as a justification for shitty behavior and manipulating people into sleeping with you.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/22 11:51 AM
2

"Post Nut Clarity" is just a cop-out for playing a shitty bait and switch game. That's probably what these guys are doing.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/22 03:35 AM
3

If I like him enough, or we're in a serious relationship, and I am in the mood for it. Note that I mentioned "aggressively", which means pushing hard or repeatedly on the back of my head to achieve his desired effect.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/22 01:05 AM
5

Trying to force his dick down my throat when I don't want it there is assault.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/22 12:56 AM
2

I bite and twist his nuts with my hand when they do that push on the back of my head thing too aggressively. Ladies, it's a good trick. Fuck around and find out. If I want him in my throat, I'll put him there.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/22 11:39 PM
3

I bute and twist with my hand when they do that push on the back of my head thing aggressively. Fuck around and find out.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/22 11:38 PM
1

You're overthinking makeup way too much. Not one woman thinks of it as "false advertising". It's just making ourselves look and feel good, same as dressing in certain ways or getting a flattering haircut. That's all there is to it. I'm not really sure why women should take the opinions of lizard brains on legs seriously (many of us don't), the hand-waving is a two way street, but that's a completely separate topic than makeup.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/22 11:35 PM
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If they think all we offer is sex, then why do they expect us to be their unpaid therapists too?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/22 11:03 PM
1

We laugh about what men say in all areas as well, but it's the men complaining about the divide and wondering why we don't really care about what y'all believe. Makeup is no different than men wearing a button down flannel to mask a gut, but we don't think of it as catfishing or false advertising. He's just trying to look and feel his best. So what's your solution? Outlaw makeup? 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/22 05:02 PM
1

You really can't tell the difference between red lipstick and the flush of blood? Subliminal messages are not synonymous with false advertising.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/22 05:38 AM
1

Slapping on a fresh coat of paint for the day is false advertising? If some idiot thinks my lips are naturally blood red and I woke up with a smoky eye look, that's his problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/22 10:31 PM
1

I don't watch it. As far as relationships go, it's a hard no. I communicate this early on, that I won't be with a man who gets off to other women. He can either have his vapid porn, or me. It hasn't been an issue since like high school.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/22 01:11 PM
-2

Bold of you to assume they're prettier. 😏 There hasn't been any decline.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/22 04:14 AM
2

It's not a very big or impactful concession unless you're addicted or something.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/22 01:15 PM
3

You can if it's unhealthy and bothers you. A better comparison is like saying "being disrespectful to me is off the table" or "stop leaving piles of dirty dishes next to the sink." Many women don't want their husbands getting off to and deriving sexual gratification from other women. It's not an unreasonable boundary to establish.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/22 09:29 AM
1

That's what I believe too, yeah. They start trying to hide and/or justify it. I just can't wrap my mind around what's so addictive about such meaningless content.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/22 03:07 AM
6

The normalization and acceptance of porn. I don't really care about its existence and function for single guys, or what other people accept in their own relationships, but I lurk in the marriage advice subreddits and it's always bombarded with women complaining about their husband's porn use. They communicate that porn is off the table, whether as a boundary at the onset of something they grew to resent, and then it continues to be this festering issue. Enter the coomers and pickme's who call he…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/22 02:53 AM
39

I'll explain something about the friend zone. It's a difference in the way men and women are conditioned to view friendships. Women are emotionally intimate with their friends, sharing everything, opening up, etc. Who are men doing this with? It's certainly not their buddies they watch baseball with. Answer: their partners. That is why men perceive opening up and emotional intimacy as romantic interest, then develop fee fees. They're confused.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/22 07:42 PM
2

No. If a man expects me to sacrifice my own career to be a house wife and take care of him, the house, the kids if we have any, then he cannot reasonably ask me to sacrifice the hobbies that give me joy.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/22 06:41 PM
1

It's a form of roleplaying or playacting.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/22 03:31 PM
2

You sound like you should be living on a commune.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/22 01:19 PM
1

I haven't seen the original clip, but the other four women look very uncomfortable while Sharon is cackling about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/22 09:52 AM
2

But they don't, so complaining about strangers on the internet is pointless.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/22 09:34 AM
2

If buying the occasional dress from a department store would mean poverty, then don't marry a woman and expect her to be a house wife.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/22 03:44 AM
3

If the lady wants dresses, she shall have dresses. If you want her to buy her own dresses, marry a woman with a career. It's simple.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/22 03:32 AM
3

If he expects me to be a house wife, then he'll have to pony up for the hobbies that make me happy. That's not necessarily following high fashion trends, but yes, he'd have to buy me a few dresses to wear at formal functions.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/22 03:03 AM
3

What is even your point anymore?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/22 02:51 AM
5

Suits. Suits cost money. Nice sweaters cost money. Leather jackets cost money.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/22 02:41 AM
6

Nobody's stopping you from dressing in rags and denying yourself simple pleasures if that makes you happy. What exactly is your point?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/22 12:12 AM
9

Of course not. Dressing well is part of looking presentable and attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 09:46 PM
2

I'm a succubus.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 07:52 PM
19

Well, good thing I was born in a foreign country. Oh wait, your attitude about women sucks and that's unattractive, even to foreigners. Good luck on your sex tourism. Maybe you'll meet a woman willing to use you for a green card.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 07:46 PM
18

Who is going to Walmart to pick up women?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 07:42 PM
3

That the men who subscribe to their philosophy have some intrinsic value. Negative, Ghost Rider. If you can't act right, you're replaceable.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 07:37 PM
9

If a woman enjoys jewelry, what exactly is the issue with that? Some jewelry is very valuable, by the way. Clothing is kind of a basic necessity.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 06:02 PM
3

I don't know any woman who's having lots of casual sex and complaining about feeling used. If having casual sex makes them feel bad, they just stop doing the thing. If they're hoping to get a commitment from a fling, that only works on certain types of men, and they have to read their audience to keep them coming back for more.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 05:53 PM
8

Of course it is. We want nice things and a safety net.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 05:34 PM
4

Because their standards are leagues above the mouth breathers on PPD.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 04:46 PM
28

If they actually want us to be trophy wives or house wives, they need to bring home enough bacon for both of us (and the kids if there are any) to live comfortably.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 02:40 PM
1

I'm aware of the statistics, but that doesn't seem to stop them.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 02:21 PM
51

Big agree. So make more money, daddy.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 02:16 PM
1

Then they shouldn't ask rude, overly intrusive questions.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 01:02 PM
1

...what married couples are you talking to? No, they're not all like this.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 12:07 PM
3

I mentioned in another thread that I could tell these loons I'm 22 and they'd buy it. Maybe I lucked out on the gene pool, maybe they grossly exaggerate the decline of a woman's physical attractiveness. As for fertility, who cares? I enjoy having disposable income and a full night's sleep.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 12:02 PM
2

No. I could tell these loons I'm 22 and they'd believe me. As for fertility, who cares? I enjoy having disposable income way too much to procreate.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 03:19 AM
0

And it's up to them if their sexual history is anyone else's business. 🤷‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 03:09 AM
0

You assume a woman would overshare about her sexual history.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 03:04 AM
0

What's up with this myth that attractive, successful men are difficult to seduce for LTR/marriage?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 03:03 AM
1

Most women just lie about it anyway. It's a white lie because it doesn't really matter.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 02:52 AM
2

Okay, then go overseas. The rest of the men will still be here to fawn over us.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 02:46 AM
16

Women over 30. It has zero effect on them because I could say I'm 22 and they'd believe me.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/22 03:08 PM
1

You've never seen an attractive man with a less attractive woman?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/22 05:45 PM
1

Or about contraceptives?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/22 03:55 PM
1

I am an otherworldly, unattainable celestial being. Dafuq you talking about, son?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/22 03:55 PM
-1

We date/marry those 10s. Why are you assuming we accept a pump and dump?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/22 03:38 PM
4

Exactly. So worship me, peasant.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/22 06:29 PM
5

Cows are wonderful animals with adorable faces and beautiful eyes. Thank you! 😏
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/22 04:43 PM
3

Explain the joke.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/22 03:45 PM
8

Nah, I only consider men who worship me.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/22 02:40 PM
1

Nope. I'm better than fuckzone/forever girlfriend material.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/22 01:53 PM
1

That women suddenly turn into hideous hags at 30. I tell them I'm 22 and they believe me. Dumbasses. XD
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 07:30 AM
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It's not marriage that prevents naps. It's children.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 06:16 PM
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Marry some hot schmuck. Kill him if he turns out to be an ass, since divorce is illegal, but not being widowed.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 07:21 AM
1

No. A man has to be really hot and check other boxes to earn my commitment. For a fling, I might be willing to settle for above average looks, since I'm kicking him out after.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/21 02:48 PM
2

Yes, when I was 14, a freshman. He even had his dumb friends around to laugh and throw stuff at me when I said yes. I did have a moment of schadenfreude at our 15 year high school reunion which happened in 2020 like a month before the lockdown in the US. I was in my hometown to see my family anyway and figured I had nothing better to do. He apologized and admitted that it bothered him now that he's older. I accepted his apology and he bashfully asked if I wanted to ditch the reunion, hit a bar i…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/21 02:52 PM
1

They're aware that I would terminate a pregnancy. I guess it's possible that they might suddenly change their minds when put in that situation themselves, but that's just too bad for them.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/21 04:34 AM
1

I don't even have a TikTok account but nice try. Remind me why society is worth the inconvenience though?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/21 12:46 AM
1

All the men I've dated identified as conservative but were pro-choice, or at least pro-choice enough not to care what other people choose to do with their lives. The anti-choicers seem to be a very vocal, annoying minority on the far end of the right wing spectrum.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/21 08:59 PM
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Most of my views lean towards conservative except that one. My future and financial stability matters more than a pregnancy I don't want to follow through with, and nothing good comes from bringing more unwanted children into the system. No man is worth ruining my life and figure over. Now watch as the same imbeciles who hate single mothers are triggered by this. I've had no trouble finding men who are both pro-2A and pro-choice though.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/21 06:57 PM
0

It's lazy, low effort, and boring.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/21 03:40 PM
2

Why don't conversations about expectations happen? A lot of heartache could be eliminated by just stating what you're looking to get out of the situation before it gets to the point of bumping uglies.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/21 05:19 PM
5

Even male commitment is pretty dime a dozen.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/21 06:01 PM
4

It's easy enough to tell if someone is settling for you, no? I don't even like men. I'm just attracted to them.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/21 06:00 PM
1

Sure I do. A relationship is a two way street.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/21 01:16 AM
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They need to be loyal, kind, funny, hot, and able to provide for me. I'm still in postgraduate school, so daddy better have his shit together. ...Carpenters make a decent living though. Some of them anyway. Plus, wooden figurines make nice little gifts.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/21 03:38 PM
1

Female, 34, married. The thing I always got hung up on was when the relationship becomes about logistics and scorekeeping contributions. Nope. Nope. Nope. Hey, remember when you were trying to impress me and the pleasure of each others' company was enough? The moment you start complaining that I didn't load the dishwasher that day or some other I and gripe, I'm out. It's clear that you are at this point.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/21 08:08 AM
1

Every other woman now looks like Mr. Ed.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/21 01:22 AM
1

Right? The way women have flings is not that different from the way men have flings, at the end of the day. I didn't have them because I couldn't "score" commitment from these super mega hot men; in fact, I'd say they were hot but less so than the men I ultimately wound up in relationships with.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/21 01:44 PM
2

Alright, I'll entertain this joke post. What does anal have to do with respecting someone?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/21 01:36 PM
2

Half of my first reply got eaten, so I just deleted it and I have to type it up all over again. For courtship, there are a lot of little things to do that show respect and interest. I'll touch on three. Thoughtful or meaningful gestures. Is he Star Wars fan? Bring him a little Storm Trooper figurine on a date. It doesn't have to be particularly expensive. Inviting him over for dinner? Ask what his favorite dishes are. Making time for him. Even the busiest people can make time for you if they wan…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/21 07:24 PM
3

Right? It's not even a matter of the ONS guy being so much hotter than the relationship guy. Sure, ONS guy might be passably attractive for a night, but not hot enough to put in a relationship category. And yet, they all seem to think ONS guy must be a supermodel, lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/21 06:56 PM
1

If I like someone enough to pursue a relationship, then I'd treat him with respect. It's not complicated. There's obviously something about him that makes him worth getting to know.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/21 04:26 PM
0

Making men wait for a few dates before sex when the woman in question may or may not have jumped into bed right away in the past. They think it must mean he's not as hot or whatever as these ONS guys. On the contrary. If I put a guy in ONS category, he gets zero effort and I'm kicking him out of bed if it's unsatisfactory, kicking him out of my place (or leaving) when we're done. Why would I care about someone I don't know and whose name I won't remember? I sure as hell ain't spending the night …
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/21 03:13 PM
2

There are also a myriad of contraception options like IUDs and hormonal birth control, so I don't see how abortion is necessary to the equation, unless the government bans contraception too?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/21 09:07 PM
12

As a childfree woman, I've never had this issue, and I always mentioned my lack of desire for kids very early on in getting to know each other. All of the men I've dated were either completely with me on that, or said they didn't care either way about having children at some point. They were not hard to find.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/21 08:35 PM
1

I'm technically a homemaker after going back to school full time, especially since all my classes have been online after the pandemic started. This semester only one of them is in person. It's not feminism that let me down, it's office culture. I'd rather stick my right arm into an inferno than go back to the office; I cycled through quite a few office jobs before going back to school in my 30s.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/21 02:32 PM
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The plummeting birth rates is a societal reaction to an economic crisis. People wait longer to have children because it now takes longer to gain enough financial stability. Having a baby doesn't even become an attractive option until a woman's 30s, and with the fertility issues that come with putting it off so long, it sometimes doesn't happen, or they're only able to have one. Honestly, blame wages not keeping up with inflation. That's why women are procrastinating, in general. It's usually not…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/21 03:01 PM
1

My point was more about how gradual loss of attraction in marriage or a long term relationship is usually a death by a thousand papercuts type of deal, rather than a singular, pivotal event. That is why it devolves over a long time. Also, why should anyone settle for someone they're not attracted to?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/21 02:20 AM
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I think that in some marriages, resentment festers over things that have nothing to do with looks. What does that have to do with losing attraction? Well, for me at least, if I find someone's personality problematic, it affects the overall image I have of them. I wouldn't exactly get turned on by Chris Hemsworth if I lived with him for a few years and he acted like a total jerk for a lot of that time. I'd be eyeing the horizon. This is pretty typical for women, but men here don't seem to underst…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/21 04:56 PM
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Yes. Show me that chivalry is not dead and I'll think about a second date. Plus, I state beforehand that they're paying so if they sit there and insist on going halfsies, that's my cue to leave.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/21 02:42 PM
0

Just take her to the Italian restaurant. If there's no chemistry, at least you get a good meal out of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/21 04:47 PM
1

Neither.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/21 03:35 PM
12

Men will have to use their imaginations. The horror. /s
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/21 10:29 PM
3

Or just stop bumblingly wanting to have sex with your friends.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/21 01:56 PM
1

Bodyguard/security guard is literally a job.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/21 12:49 PM
1

They can fuck right off.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/21 01:17 AM
1

A male me would land me because we'd be awesome, never disagree on anything, and make beautiful babies.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/21 02:04 AM
1

Have these guys pushing the idea of "the wall" even seen women in their 30s who take care of themselves?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/21 05:41 AM
1

As a technically overnight woman, here's my 50 cents. Lower your MFing voice when you speak to me and buy me a Maserati. I'll settle for a Subaru.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/21 06:18 AM
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1.) I would think that in a long-term relationship, both partners ought to strive for sexual compatibility, where possible. If I say no to sex for whatever reason, it's a no for right now, this very moment. He can do what I would do, then, and either revisit later when it's more convenient for us both, or go rub one out with this novel, rare thing called imagination instead of lusting for, and spending energy on, raunchy, airbrushed images and videos of other people. 2.) Same issue as above, but…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/21 12:15 AM
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Playing video games is a legitimate hobby, I personally don't understand why some women hate it. Maybe that's because I'm a gamer myself. I see how it's a problem when someone games excessively to the point of neglecting other areas like school, work, quality time, etc. However, that applies to any hobby. Porn is a different matter. You can have me, or you can have your hand and fake pixel poon. Never both. Also, if you get off on human trafficking, you're inherently gross. Why are we lumping vi…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/21 04:31 PM
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I don't think that many men will dump a woman after sex on the first date. I've had those turn into long-term relationships, including my marriage. PPD just has a screeching vocal minority of men who overthink it way too much.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/21 02:03 PM
4

The first few dates are not the time to hold your cards close to the vest because you can weed out sources of incompatibility and either go your separate ways (before wasting more time on a poor match), or find some common ground to move forward on. Why do people play coy when it's so counterproductive?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/21 03:21 PM
4

Y'all approach anything and everything. If you don't approach me, then you must think I'm one ugly mofo. Or out of your league, but what a cop-out.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/21 03:11 PM
12

Most women are dishonest about their body counts for this reason.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/21 03:08 PM
2

This is precisely why I cold shoulder anything other than best behavior.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/21 06:00 AM
2

She's just gonna lie about her body count if you're going to be a judgemental fuck.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/21 11:37 PM
3

Right? I nope away from men who cast their net wide. Nobody wants a loser without standards.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/21 05:51 PM
1

It's just a subreddit to bash single moms.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/21 11:51 PM
6

Because they hear the 30+ part and instantly assume you're a hideous, shriveled up crone. No. It's far from over. Men who think so are tools anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/21 07:44 PM
5

There are some people, a lot I think, who enjoy the games, the uncertainty, and the dancing around. It can be fairly painful when one person does, and the other doesn't. I think OLD attracts mostly people who enjoy it, so the ones who don't and make profiles anyway end up frustrated and burnt out.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/21 06:15 PM
2

Not really. Maybe if they're poly or agree that it's a casual arrangement so they both see other people. I have made it clear that I don't share and I don't compete. Not worth my time or energy. And the crazy part is that it usually works to state your expectations upfront. Most men appreciate the honesty and lack of playing games.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/21 05:15 PM
1

Your SDE is showing.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/21 06:11 AM
2

Don't look it up, it's gross as shit. Basically, rosebudding is when the recipient of a... Super hardcore anal scene has a rectal prolapse. And for some bizarre reason, it was apparently a very popular search for a while. I simply used anal sex as an example of something that certain women are fine with or even enjoy, certain women are averse to. I do think it's a big deal, personally, because it requires so much preparation (not something to do spontaneously) and I'm only willing to engage that…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/21 04:41 PM
5

I mean among my family members, friends, peers, etc. That's why I'm surprised to see it here.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/21 03:39 PM
4

I'm against it for both reasons. People have covered why the porn industry is harmful already, so I'll just cover why I find it unacceptable in a relationship. "It gives me variety!" If you want variety, just stay single. "Sometimes I just want to bust a quick nut!" There are these groundbreaking, novel things called... Ready?... Quickies and handjobs. Mind blown! "But the women in porn do stuff my SO would never agree to!" If you're nutting to women shitting their rectums out (rosebudding) or s…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/21 03:30 PM
5

I've never heard a woman say that, and if a guy wants to date me, he better not be settling.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/21 03:17 PM
1

How does feminism affect a man's approach, unless said approach is gross or too forward?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/21 06:59 PM
1

There's no way to find out.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/21 05:11 AM
2

You're deluding yourself if you think pointless, empty sex is any better than just doing your own thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/21 04:46 AM
1

What does being feminine even mean in this context? I'm legitimately confused. Wearing pink and projecting a feminine appearance? Working the double shift with the household chores and logistics? (Yeah, no.) Cultivating traditionally feminine interests/hobbies like makeup, gardening, etc.? Not having opinions?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/21 04:46 PM
1

I am going to assume she's using Tinder, and maybe some of the slightly more serious OLD services like OkCupid. Those are cesspools for maladjusted fuckboys.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/21 02:49 PM
1

I'm a single man aged 30 who slept with two different women on Friday and Saturday this weekend and made out with a girl on a night out on Thursday and a comfortable double-digit N-count so without bragging I do OK. I'll take things that never happened for 500, Alex.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/21 03:46 PM
2

Get outta here with pining after your ex.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/21 01:04 AM
3

A random fuckboy does not get to act like he's my boyfriend when he does not want to be my boyfriend.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/21 12:03 AM
1

The OP mentioned having AAA.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/21 05:31 AM
1

If you want to wait at least 30 minutes, probably 60 or more, for AAA or some other roadside assistance service to come out and change your tire, have fun.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/21 04:35 AM
1

Well, yeah. Hookup culture gets boring after your early 20's or so, but there are men and women who don't like that cyclical game, or outgrew it. You're just not going to find them on Tinder, which I believe is designed specifically for meaningless hookups. I agree that the current dating landscape does make it more tedious to sort through the trash. And... let's not even talk about how you can meet people during the Coronavirus pandemic.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/21 11:24 PM
1

I don't think most men want a woman who is completely helpless. If you want to take a more submissive role in a relationship, that's fine, but submission does not mean lack of self-sufficiency. ETA: I'm not accusing you of being unable to adult, you're clearly a very successful person outside of the tire example you showed us. However, a partner you always have to "save" becomes exhausting.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/21 09:42 PM
1

A real man should be happy to show and teach you how to perform this particular task. The skill will benefit you in the long run. Surely this hypothetical real man will not be in the car with you every time you go somewhere. But if you show no desire to let him help you by guidance because you'd rather let him do everything, then of course he will not take you very seriously.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/21 09:37 PM
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No. But if you're interested in these men as romantic partners, show some degree of respect and interest in their hobbies, even if you don't plan to actively partake in said hobbies. Ask them to explain hockey rules. Engage them in conversation about things they like talking about, and they will be more interested in listening to the things you like talking about.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/21 07:10 PM
1

Unless you don't own a car, there is no reason not to learn how to change a tire. That's just a basic life skill, and not even difficult to do if you have a proper jack. It's not masculine or feminine. Why would you gender something like that? Getting a flat tire and needing to fix that is not a gender issue. Maybe your male friends are snarky towards you because you depend on them for certain things and they see you as a bit of a damsel in distress?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/21 07:03 PM
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The dating game is a woman's world. Get used to it, or get gud.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/21 04:00 PM
1

Women generally draw a deeper connection between sex and emotion, especially as they mature past the party ho stage in their late teens.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/21 06:13 PM
1

Keep thinking like this, and women will just start downplaying their body counts when it comes up. I suspect many already do.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/20 07:02 PM
3

Dude's balls-deep in his own Madonna-whore Complex.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/20 05:13 PM
4

I've committed with men I slept with on the first date. I've committed with men I got to know for months before having sex. There's no magic formula or timeframe. The question is, are you talking about two adults who agree on a casual fling and then the woman changes her mind? Or did he mislead her into believing he wanted a relationship? If it's the latter, it boils down to lying. I'm generally pretty good at reading people and quickly yeet the bullshit artists. If it's the former, a woman shou…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/20 02:53 AM
9

There are many other ways to make positive contributions to society than pumping out 2.1 kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/20 05:16 PM
1

I get bored of a partner if we can't switch or play with power dynamics and roles. Shrug.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/20 03:16 PM
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It's pretty laughable when men think that women suddenly turn into hideous, wrinkled crones the moment they turn 30.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/20 05:44 PM
1

I won't harp on what's already been said here. The belief that women turn into hideous crones the moment they turn 30 is laughable.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/20 05:03 AM
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