Beezneezman Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
1	"You go too fast, we barely talked" I've been turned down for numbers on tinder plenty but often time if things keep going smooth the girl will just offer her number later unprovoked in my experience. Most recently a girl did this and she told me to text her with her number about 24 hours after the first time I asked. (But we were having a really good conversation the entire time basically). Ended up having 6 dates/meet ups/whatever before we broke it off due to wanting different things. My advice: if you like talking to her keep …	/r/seduction	08/10/15 07:55 AM
1	My outlook on dating women is purely for sex. I have been very successful with it. I'm starting to think it might be wrong. I'd like your opinion. There are a lot of risks with being promiscuous that can be threatening to others. The risk of diseases, the moral issue of not really caring about your partners (i don't know how many of these girls you're open with this is how you feel beforehand, but you could be leading them on and using them for sex). Everyone will view it differently. One day you might want something different and one day it might be too late, but you do you. Personally, my mind doesn't work like yours. I like having an em…	/r/seduction	08/10/15 07:26 AM
3	[24M] Can't set up dates with girls I only know from Apps like Tinder. Ok that wasn't clear. Just go. You enjoy girls? You enjoy people? You enjoy talking with others? Then go out and have fun.	/r/seduction	28/08/15 11:12 AM
1	Using online media - tinder, dating sites, etc. for noobs and introverts - avoid or go for it? Tinder can be whatever you want it to be for (but I've missed opportunities to sleep with girls multiple times because I assumed they'd be interested in longer term things). You can always make your intentions clear during a conversation so this doesn't happen. Online dating sites are whatever you make of them. If you don't have high self esteem then I wouldn't recommend it. Hinge and coffee meets bagel are tinder-like apps. A lot of people on this sub don't seem very for tinder. Online stuff in…	/r/seduction	28/08/15 10:26 AM
1	Me and my Girlfriend are taking a break(What do i do now?) You're young. So this reddit doesn't really apply to you. However. You're 17. High school is a weird phase. If you want to see other people, then this girl probably isn't the one for you, and why would you string her along if that's the case?	/r/seduction	28/08/15 09:59 AM
1	[24M] Can't set up dates with girls I only know from Apps like Tinder. Are you using tinder in the states? Your grammar is definitely going to throw some girls off unless you can fit it into part of your charm? But the simple look at how a tinder conversation goes. Guy opens - comment about a picture, something in profile, witty pun. Girl is either receptive to opener or not. Work from there Ask for number and/or suggest meeting up with an activity already in mind before the conversation dries out. (This could be 10 minutes or 10 days, feel it out) If you have a he…	/r/seduction	28/08/15 09:56 AM
1	Junior in college and have had nothing with any girl and I feel so depressed about it Confidence building. Sex isn't your end game. Don't chalk up your experiences to how many girls you're sleeping with. Stick your neck out. Girl in swim class? Hey I saw you did this stroke well, is that your best stroke? How long have you done this? Blah blah I don't know shit about swimming.	/r/seduction	28/08/15 09:51 AM
1	What you did to become from most boring to most interesting person? Just going off your hobbies alone it seems like you have more than five minutes in you. Leading her into a topic of sports in general you can see how she clicks. Ask what she plays/played or watches (I'm from Pittsburgh so this gets hits frequently). If she has no interest ask her why she never got into it or what she did instead while everyone was into activities. Hiking is cool. Any stories? Ask a girl to take a walk at a state park maybe. Ever seen a raccoon kill a blue jay? Not the most exci…	/r/seduction	28/08/15 09:32 AM
2	I'm driving 5 hours to see her. I think I need more context to your situation. How long have you been talking and how seriously do you guys talk. What place online did you meet her? Etc. I was in a rough spot once and meeting people online just to socialize and feel good about myself. I ended up having this conversation with this girl that was just so much fun and we had so many common interested. We continued talking and the more we talked, the more interests we found. We would go back and forth. All day long, every day, text…	/r/seduction	16/08/15 08:12 AM
1	Girls in Tinder profile R/tinder can help you I bet	/r/seduction	12/08/15 07:30 AM
1	When can/do you move from 'r/seduction' into 'r/relationships?" When you like her and want to see her exclusively. It depends on you. I can like a lot of girls but I'm really in a learning what I want and branching out period. Unless a unicorn comes by, I'm keeping it casual. When I find a girl I've seen a couple times and I like how easy it is for us to talk and do things together though, then I just ask for exclusivity. Either she feels it too or she doesn't at that point.	/r/seduction	11/08/15 09:00 AM
1	How Soon After Getting a Girl's Number Online Should I ask to hang out? I think it might depend where you get the number, but I use tinder and the order of events normally goes something like 0-3 days of chatting - goofy conversation, learning a little about each other, trading stories. This can take an hour. I've talked to some girls for around a week just because schedule conflicts, but it was discussed that there was interest meeting during this time. After that I look to secure a meet up. Which should really be as simple as "do you want to x on this day" or "I'm…	/r/seduction	11/08/15 08:55 AM