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You just countered your own post. That’s what I’m saying, that’s all it takes to be hot. Anyone with no deficiency can do it.
/r/seduction15/07/20 01:58 AM
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Sure looks matter, but I can guarantee that if you are hygienic, hit the gym, fix your weight, and get a nice haircut, you’ll be seen as hot within a few months. Most people will.
/r/seduction15/07/20 12:36 AM
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I’ll streamline it so you can search each part individually. I don’t know at which point you are, so I’ll start from the start. First of all: Mindset change Hygiene (brush teeth, scrape tongue, wash hair, sunbathe, etc.) Be more impulsive. More impulsive = more authentic. Style. New haircut, fashion, grooming. Set long-term career goals — ambition. Work toward them, look for opportunities. Stop caring about people’s opinions. fix your weight EYE CONTACT With girls (Most of these things come natu…
/r/seduction15/07/20 12:31 AM
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Feeling lonely isn’t funny, and getting rejected isn’t funny. Props to you for trying to improve yourself. People will call me retarded for suggesting it, but the RSD content on inner game is good. Also never forget, fake it till you make it
/r/seduction03/07/20 08:11 PM
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Be more conscious of your actions, why do you do certain things? Why did you type “hahaha” twice in your title? Why did you write “I guess” in the title? Hahaha = nervousness. I guess = no confidence. Don’t text girls hahahaha unless she made you at least smile in person with her message
/r/seduction03/07/20 07:18 PM
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Reddit has no reputation system, so this is what happens. People with no knowledge try giving advice.
/r/seduction30/06/20 08:17 PM
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Acing the first date is easy, but the communication between first and second date is what makes it or break it, and show her that you’re not some loser with nothing better to do who’s gonna be clingy.
/r/seduction24/06/20 12:43 AM
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Go back to playing videogames buddy your comments scream Incel and your ‘suggestions’ to others are all shit. Literally an incel
/r/seduction22/06/20 05:43 PM
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You taking actions based on what you think is considered simp is beta asf. How the fuck is anyone gonna like you if you don’t like yourself enough to just do what you want without regards for other people’s thoughts/feelings Ok just saw your comment history. Stop.
/r/seduction22/06/20 04:01 AM
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If you’re not teasing her you’re setting yourself up for failure
/r/seduction21/06/20 11:34 AM
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We’ve all been there
/r/seduction21/06/20 03:01 AM
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She’s gonna be so dumbfounded but at the same time 100% in your frame. And if she gets mad you do a sincere apology, which is always hot for them.
/r/seduction20/06/20 11:04 PM
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Stuck at home with my dad who screams at everyone + seeing fuckbuddy once a week which keeps me in my comfort zone did the same to me. Yesterday went out and I was super stiff. The vibe you give out is the same you take in, so change your perspective, or find some hobbies/something that feels good. Also, sunbathe if you can. And remember you being promoted was a value add, not a value take.
/r/seduction08/06/20 12:45 AM
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I’m saying it more like a rule of thumb, not guidelines. Attractive people are usually proportional
/r/seduction03/06/20 09:03 PM
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Your autism sounds unique
/r/seduction03/06/20 07:47 PM
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Been there, so I can try to help you. Attracting girls, in essence is about showing non neediness, and being a well rounded person. If you’re texting her all the time, you’re showing you’re a bored person who craves attention, not attractive. What you should do is only escalate in person, have good eye contact and kino escalate (look it up if you don’t know what it is, there’s videos on it), and then if you text, text about non important things. If you’re gonna talk, just call her instead. Even …
/r/seduction03/06/20 07:27 PM
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Personally, I don’t text girls about anything other than to check up on them. Unless I’m kinda deep in a relationship. Talking about whatever it is, if it’s ‘date talk’, then it makes you seem like a needy guy who feels safe only behind a screen, and who will open up to anyone over text. Shows you’re not desired by anyone else. How far are you with this girl?
/r/seduction03/06/20 01:22 PM
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Long hair works best if your body isn’t physically large (fat or strong), because it makes your head more proportional, while if you have a big body, short hair is better.
/r/seduction03/06/20 12:30 PM
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I can relate to your post, but you sound like you NEED control at all times. You expect to be allowed to be the alpha with no exceptions. The way I see it, you have to earn it. All my close friends left my city for college, and in my new friend group I am the leader, I don’t tell them what to do, I don’t teach them, cause they’re my friends. I pump them up, sometimes drop hints of things they should do to pick up more girls. Obviously they test me, I see it like a man-on-man shittest scenario, w…
/r/seduction03/06/20 12:29 PM
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Those girls are mostly broken goods from seeing my IG stories 😬😬
/r/seduction03/06/20 12:20 PM
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Honestly, not that I’ve been out of highschool three years I see that I could’ve had a WAY BETTER experience if I was the person I am now back then. Disclaimer: I went to a 700-students preppy school I joined as a shy, slightly overweight, socially awkward kid. High school is one hundred percent social circle, you know X kid and went to Y party, then people start talking to you. Now to know X kid and get invited to Y party, you need to make more friends with these people. First: if you’re trying…
/r/seduction03/06/20 12:19 PM
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Never really had that happened to me, but “no you bestie <overly girly heart emojis>” sounds like a good one
/r/seduction03/06/20 12:07 PM
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Honestly imo unless it shows value in yourself, posting hurts more than helps. On my IG story, I only post personal videos/pics (no memes), and only about exciting things: exotic places/food, breaking the routine with something cool. And as for actual posts, I only post pictures that show me as someone: Social, fun, attractive, or caring w family. All the other shit goes on close friends’ stories, and group chats. The way I see it is: I don’t want to use social media to show people that I’m like…
/r/seduction03/06/20 12:03 PM
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Stop trying to build connections through text. That’s all you need to know, be deep from the start, that doesn’t matter, just do it in person. I’m the type of person that gives off 0 ‘deep’ intellectuality, but I talk about it with most girls (as a vetting process, see their view on life) and things go just fine for me
/r/seduction30/05/20 04:54 PM
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What helped me a few years back is eye contact training videos on YouTube. On the computer it gets way out of proportion so do it on your phone. I did it for like 1 hour throughout a whole week, and that ‘fixed’ my eye contact
/r/seduction26/05/20 07:07 PM
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As a 20 year old who only kissed for the first time after highschool and am satisfied with my life now, whereas I was depressed throughout highschool, and when I finally got friends in high school, they didn’t respect me. highschool doesn’t matter for shit I saw many of my low value ‘friends’ from high school not change anything after, while I basically became a different person. I attribute much of it to my gap year, where I read a lot of theory on social dynamics, while they didn’t change for …
/r/seduction10/05/20 10:03 PM
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Playing the game means you’re aware of the mating ritual instead of being a chump who doesn’t think ahead, and doesn’t have control
/r/seduction10/05/20 08:14 AM
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Ask me about me. If the girls showing obvious interest in the interaction, but not asking about me, I know she only wants me out of neediness and I keep that in mind and not let the relationship pass a certain point. If she’s asking about me, it shows she’s trying to see if we’re a fit, and not just throwing herself at me.
/r/seduction10/05/20 08:12 AM
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Literally had sex with her for the first time two days before shit hit the fan hard, so when it hit the fan I asked her "Are you isolating?" she said yes and I called her to isolate with me. Super lucky timing, one week before and we wouldn't be far enough for her to come over.
/r/seduction08/05/20 11:48 PM
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Had three girls I was juggling as things started closing. Cut one off, other one I was just dating- still text somewhat, think things might go back to where it was at the start of this, and the third one I was fucking consistently, and since my parents knew her already, it’s easy to have her over at my house, which is what I’m doing. Other than that, TV, Video games, and learning
/r/seduction08/05/20 10:57 PM
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You’re so fucking autistic you can’t even see I never posted asking about shittests, I posted showing a shittest. HIV antibodies may take up to three months to show in tests, and at least four to six weeks For the majority of people, HIV testing will be accurate at four to six weeks after possible infection. However, for some people it may take longer — up to three months — for detectable antibodies to develop. Have fun with HIV while I fuck my hoes 😂
/r/seduction20/04/20 10:25 PM
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I don’t date girls for a few months. As soon as they start getting too attached (usually by the 4th time we hang out/ 2nd we fuck) I break things off, and keep going with my other two, keeping three in rotation. You’re having trouble keeping one from giving you STDs 😂 different levels man, different levels
/r/seduction20/04/20 08:11 PM
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Not gonna read this lol write me a summary and I might
/r/seduction20/04/20 08:04 PM
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Yet I have three babes for the quarantine while you’re out here threatening a girl that has methhead vibes, and not being able to read disinterest from a girl that’s obviously disinterested. Wouldn’t be surprised if you had autism
/r/seduction20/04/20 08:04 PM
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They who? I can tell if a girl is bad news by the second time I see her
/r/seduction20/04/20 04:34 PM
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Your first post in this account you say you told a girl you’re gonna ‘end her’ if she ever does X again. You’re an aggressive man, sad. I feel bad for you, if you got this mad over $650 I wonder how mad you’re gonna be when you’re eventually thrown in jail, which will happen, since you’re a loser with no self control, and who never gets what he wants. The only girls you have sex with are STD-ridden sluts, who you also fall in love with btw, while all three of my quarantine fuck buddies are stunn…
/r/seduction20/04/20 04:28 PM
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Where I got that in this story? When you assaulted her then took her property because you were dumb enough to have unprotected sex with someone you don’t know. Reevaluate your life dude... Read another post of yours. Would be surprised if you don’t have a mental illness.
/r/seduction20/04/20 03:17 AM
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Question to something I’m shit at: Social/Friend game. I’m having success getting with girls, but my social game is pretty weak. Guys in my circles of friends usually don’t respect me as much as I want, but don’t disrespect either. If girls are looking for an ‘unattainable man, that they earn and prove themselves to’, what are friends looking for? Can you post a guide about how to make lots of friends? What is it about? How do you get to be invited into social circles after meeting the people? H…
/r/seduction19/04/20 07:59 PM
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Girls around our age (pre 25/before junior/senior year college) will always be more sexually closed than women with experience who are straightforward about what they want. Also, girls peak at what? 18-20 years old, from there it’s downhill, they start getting more and more desperate for male attention
/r/seduction19/04/20 07:54 PM
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Omg dude ur so cool! Can I be u?
/r/seduction19/04/20 07:53 PM
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Make it verbal as soon as you meet them, a compliment should do fine. So she knows you’re not seeing her as a friend, from there escalation won’t be rejected. Just either: 1) Earn her affection (can be hard because it might show you’re too invested and that you’re too ‘easy’. Or 2) Let the idea ferment in her head (long timeframe play), and flirt/escalate whenever possible. Depends on the speed you want things to go. For me, girls within my social circle I let it ferment, start with a compliment…
/r/seduction19/04/20 07:50 PM
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Lol you’re a controlling freak. Reevaluate yourself.
/r/seduction19/04/20 07:41 PM
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If she legit got mad fuck her. If she just turned a little cold fuck her. Fuck her anyways, take her being mad as a joke, unless it’s your fault and something really hurtful, in which case apologize
/r/seduction06/04/20 06:28 AM
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Gives a weak frame. You can still get sex from it, don’t get me wrong, but your frame is way weaker. And from OP’s post, he’ll definitely end up being the bitch of the relationship. Regardless, I personally never do it. It clouds my self confidence. Getting rejected once is whatever, but trying again and getting rejected again fucks my mental
/r/seduction29/03/20 04:05 AM
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If she said no at first she isn’t interested, and if she changes her mind she will text you again. Now if she said no, you stopped talking for a week, then you came back, even if she says yes, you start the relationship as the pussy because she disrespected you, and you still came back to her. If she ever says yes again, it’ll be out of pity, you will get way more attached, and she’ll dump you and break your heart. Love and respect yourself before anyone else
/r/seduction29/03/20 01:42 AM
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So she rejects you, and you reward her by texting her again? Lol
/r/seduction29/03/20 01:18 AM
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You didn’t ask her out in person when you had the chance. I would’ve turned that first catch up into a date. In your case, you should’ve asked her out. If you’re beating around the bush trying to get courage, 100% chance it will turn off any girl who’s not just wanting you because of desperation
/r/seduction29/03/20 12:13 AM
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Invite her out in person, or expect her to reject you unless she’s not a high value woman
/r/seduction29/03/20 12:10 AM
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0) don’t have a crush. Go talk to her the moment you find her attractive
/r/seduction27/03/20 05:47 PM
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Wear clothes that are nice, but you don’t ‘vibe’ with and ur game will be shit. Wear OK clothes that you like, and you’ll game like a god. It’s all in your head
/r/seduction15/03/20 10:53 PM
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The posture is making your headspace more clear, which is its intention
/r/seduction15/03/20 09:00 PM
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Imagine the type of girl you want to attract: how would she deal with being ignored? If you’re attracting a psycho, yeah she’ll probably be more attracted. If you’re attracting a supermodel, probably just move on from you. Also varies on the level of investment she’s had on you. If it’s a supermodel that you’ve been seeing for months and she loves you, then yeah it’ll probably boost attraction. Or if it’s a psycho that doesn’t give a shit abt you, it’ll probably not mean anything to her.
/r/seduction14/03/20 10:56 PM
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It is easy as fuck to do a threesome if you approach girls with another girl. Get them to kiss, hop in for the triple kiss, go from there
/r/seduction13/03/20 02:31 PM
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Play some really famous sing along songs, and... sing along. Party in the USA type shit. Tell her to sing with you
/r/seduction06/03/20 04:48 AM
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Shh
/r/seduction29/02/20 10:22 PM
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You don’t have to feel the need to respond texts fast.
/r/seduction29/02/20 05:59 PM
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I was the one who told this guy to call the girl autistic. I do it all the time if I know she likes me but she’s shy, and usually they laugh and try to validate themselves, “I’ll stare you down any day”, “hahahahaha no way you said that”, “OMG my brother has autism you insensitive fuck (this one is super into me btw)” The point being: be yourself say what comes to your head, “I wanna pee in your butt” worked for that one guy. I don’t agree with telling everyone exactly what to do, but at the sam…
/r/seduction27/02/20 05:38 PM
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Alright then approach 100 girls saying “you look nice” vs. 100 girls using a specific compliment and let me know the results. Girls, especially on college campuses, beach, bars, and clubs are used to being approached. An approach alone isn’t memorable for shit
/r/seduction26/02/20 09:22 PM
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That’s too basic. You won’t be memorable.
/r/seduction26/02/20 01:07 AM
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No. Never get the number without a purpose. And don’t open like a little bitch. Open with a sincere compliment (think what made you attracted to her) “I love how you walk with confidence. Have we met?”, “I love your outfit. Have we met?” Etc.
/r/seduction24/02/20 07:16 PM
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This is Reddit. Look that shit up yourself
/r/seduction24/02/20 03:14 PM
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I’m planning on having kids when I’m in my mid thirties. After 40s your semen starts to become weaker and the chances are your kid comes with mental disabilities. Maybe freeze my sperm and push my kids back ten years
/r/seduction23/02/20 09:37 PM
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For people out there who wanna know what this social momentum feels like: after-sex glow. After a weekend that I get new pussy (not a FWB) I always feel amazing Monday and Tuesday.
/r/seduction23/02/20 02:16 AM
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Love your writing style dude. You should take more risks, fucked the girl in the dress right there, or suggested a place to go eat (maybe back to your place and order food. To get her back to your place, once you feel things might escalate that far, mention something about your place, a pet, a decoration, a movie, so when you’re doing the ‘where we’re going next’ line you can tell her “let’s come back to my place so you see my pet/movie/decoration”.) It definitely was a shittest of sorts, she di…
/r/seduction23/02/20 02:07 AM
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Read more. Learn from experiences. Create more experiences so you can learn more
/r/seduction20/02/20 06:20 PM
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Improve yourself. If you’re: in a healthy weight range, hygiene check, and have a good posture. That’s the bare minimum. Start going to the gym, go out 2 times a week at least to try and meet girls, not get with them, just meet girls and people in general. Read about seduction, watch in field footage, and approach girls. In two months you can be fucking one girl a week.
/r/seduction20/02/20 04:21 PM
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Seems like you’re trying to convince yourself it’s for the sex but it isn’t really. There’s 4 Billion women in the world, you really think you found the perfect one out of all of them? There’s probably a woman within 10 miles of you that would do better than her. Just move on, improve yourself- you have a lot of room to do that- and hook up with other girls
/r/seduction20/02/20 03:59 PM
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The parallels meet. Agreed with all you said. I haven’t been in the situation where I pussied out from moving forward in 3+ years so I can’t really relate to his situation and how to salvage it. Tbh might be unsalvageable or the girl stays with him because she’s lonely, both of which are awful outcomes
/r/seduction20/02/20 05:32 AM
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Then you have more to worry about than whether you get to kiss the girl or not. If you can’t even work out the courage to move on her, you’ll get heartbroken for sure. Calling the girl I did autistic was probably one of my funniest lines while on a date, and her reaction was perfect and exactly what I expected. Which was her wanting to prove herself for me and saying “I will stare you down any day, bitch” jokingly, which led to a kiss. But basically I was calling attention to the fact that she w…
/r/seduction20/02/20 05:07 AM
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Ya ur right u should beg for a kiss instead. Also buy a leech so she can put around you neck so you can literally be her bitch
/r/seduction20/02/20 03:53 AM
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🧠
/r/seduction20/02/20 02:57 AM
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Ehh guess you’re right but I went to parties/clubs for 4 days straight, felt tired but at the same time could check “fuck a milf” off my bucket list
/r/seduction20/02/20 02:55 AM
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Her friend was uggo I would’ve gotten a threesome if she was hot
/r/seduction20/02/20 02:54 AM
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It was a neediness shittest where she said “I think we better go. Please get me an Uber” (her friend being alone being the reason), and I responded with “sure” then gave her the phone for her to enter the address, showing I’m not needy. Then giving her an escape a few minutes after she was left biting her nails.
/r/seduction20/02/20 02:53 AM
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It was my house she came to not my friends. I have my own business. She could tell I pull girls. That’s high value mate, takes one to know one
/r/seduction19/02/20 11:37 PM
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Fair point :) thanks and good luck out there
/r/seduction19/02/20 11:36 PM
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Do not listen to this. What the fuck? “Can you give me a kiss?” Really? You have to be the man of the relationship, look her in the eyes then mouth, then kiss. Not that hard. If you want to cheat this without losing value, tell her she can’t keep eye contact with you (a few weeks ago I asked a girl if she was autistic, obviously jokingly, because she couldn’t maintain eye contact), she will get defensive and say she can stare you down, or you suggest it, and while em looking at her straight in t…
/r/seduction19/02/20 11:35 PM
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From experience (three different girls who I got too needy with a few years ago before I started ‘studying’ seduction), it takes them three to four months. This is pure guesswork, but my guess is that when they’re in the period of the month where they’re the horniest, they think about you the first time, the second they think more and wonder whether to text, the third and fourth they can’t hold it any longer— IF she’s still attracted to you. Actually just last month I saw an Ex from two years ag…
/r/seduction19/02/20 11:30 PM
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The fundament here is that you’re not chasing— you’re not looking for pussy (in a literal way), so the pussy comes to you
/r/seduction19/02/20 11:21 PM
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Unless the girl is very receptive (I.e: you can get her to come over the same night) escalating through text usually leads to a possibly-awkward next face to face interaction, or to losing value in her eyes.
/r/seduction19/02/20 11:19 PM
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Slimy, but there’s no calling dibs on girls. Nice strategy, might do with my friends :P
/r/seduction19/02/20 11:16 PM
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Sure 🤷🏻‍♂️
/r/seduction19/02/20 11:15 PM
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Wanna do a weekly field report with the content I wish I saw here more often. Will improve the writing in the next one If you don’t understand, the shittest was her saying she wanted to go right before things got heated, and I said “sure you can go” (with my actions), which showed her I wasn’t a needy person
/r/seduction19/02/20 11:10 PM
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I passed with flying colors I’d say
/r/seduction19/02/20 07:30 PM
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She was basically saying “I wanna go” and I said “sure lol” by giving her the phone
/r/seduction19/02/20 07:27 PM
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I didn’t need game to get with this milf, but I needed to use my game to fuck her. Left the club, found a bunch of people from my country outside speaking our language, talked with all of them (a girl that’s 24 gave me her number without me asking even), and then my friend pulled up in my car (he’s the designated driver). The milf that I fucked hops on the back, her friend in the front. I jumped in the car without even noticing it wasnt just me and my friends, looked to my left, saw her and star…
/r/seduction19/02/20 04:46 PM
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Nah it was good. She’s hooked on me said next time she’s in town she’s giving me a call. I just like to look at every experience as a learning experience. Could’ve been better, like every other successful or unsuccessful situation.
/r/seduction19/02/20 04:31 PM
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Imagine caring so much about what people think that you’d change your taste in sexual partner for society’s acceptance. This sub disappoints sometimes
/r/seduction19/02/20 04:30 PM
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I did wonders to her pussy. But I last 30-40 minutes during sex. Typically by the end we’re both tired. We drank some water, and then she said she was exhausted overall, slept, I woke up at 6 and fucked her, back to sleep. Then got up and just played around.
/r/seduction19/02/20 04:29 PM
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I always saw him just as RSD pandering to overweight people. His game is disgustingly bad, and his ‘tips’ are even worse. Saw him saying once that every men should only go on dates with 3+ girls at a time. 1) You’re gonna go broke before you even recoup yourself from that. 2) when one of the 3+ girls gets there and sees what’s happening, she’ll leave and all others will get weird vibes. 3) how the fuck do you cold approach someone then invite them on a date with you + at least 2 other girls? It’…
/r/seduction19/02/20 01:56 PM
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Of course always happy to help love seeing people genuinely trying to improve themselves in this sub. Nowadays there’s a bunch of sexism and very dumb points of views being ditched out by people who are lost but think they’re in the light
/r/seduction17/02/20 09:38 PM
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It’s not holding yourself back. It’s being aware that nowadays people have so many options and so many things going on, that the ‘fairytale’, ‘typical’ love doesn’t exist in that way anymore. We’re connected with people all around the globe, there’s a lot happening. 100 years ago, you only knew the people you knew. Keep that in mind, seduction and love changed
/r/seduction17/02/20 09:33 PM
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Neediness goes both ways. Have you ever kinda thought about starting a relationship with a guy, then changed your mind after he 1) texted you too often, 2) texted you out of what seems like boredom, 3) put you on a pedestal? If you have, see if that’s what you’re doing to this guy you’re interested in. If you’re doing that, hold yourself back- remember that there’s literally billions of men out there who’d fuck you, and probably hundreds of thousands if not millions within 50 miles from you.
/r/seduction17/02/20 08:40 PM
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I’m guessing you’re in your teenage years and she’s sending it to like ten people at a time
/r/seduction16/02/20 06:53 PM
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Nah not really. You think everyone’s in the same boat as you, but you don’t realize you’re on a lazy river, each person is in their own floater. Once you’re happy by yourself (which I learned by having a 2 year gap year with no friends in town), girls swoon over you no matter what. And at that point you’re in the girls shoes, you have all the opposite sex attraction and can choose anyone, that’s how girls feel. I used to think shittests were dumb until I started having 5+ girls approaching me in…
/r/seduction15/02/20 01:03 AM
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What I see is a needy guy who got outgrown by his (now ex)girlfriend- for being too needy. Being needy again with other women, then blaming them for not liking him. Love that stems from neediness isn’t love. It’s just picking someone to be bored with you. Bored people are boring. Boring people aren’t happy with themselves or successful with girls. Which is proving true in your case. I gave you the recipe. It’s up to you if you want to bake the cake or order some dominos pizza and play videogames…
/r/seduction15/02/20 12:59 AM
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Never said people are busy 24/7. What I said is that women shittest. Maybe girls don’t like you because you can’t even take the time to read properly, imagine satisfying them or having boundaries. It’s true they can smell it. Also you seem to have a lot of hate in your heart to say that girl deserves/should get punched, or whatever other nonsense you said. Sad to see people like this in this sub when a few months ago it used to be only people trying to better themselves.
/r/seduction14/02/20 08:33 PM
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But it is like that. If you were in their shoes with the same social conditioning, you’d do the same. If you don’t want to be an ‘asshole’ or follow PUA things, just have very strong morals: don’t cancel your plans for girls you barely know, don’t text them constantly (do things, have hobbies, meet other people, hang out with friends), and love yourself before you even think of loving someone else- hit the gym, use skin products, get a nice haircut. These are the cores of attraction in a primal …
/r/seduction14/02/20 06:53 PM
1

And on Reddit. What a chap. I’m with my boys about to go to dinner. Good we’re leading fulfilling lives
/r/seduction09/02/20 02:28 AM
1

Stop overthinking. Get out of your head dude. That’s your problem. Literally try and keep your mind quiet, you can’t. And that’s the most important skill in pickup, living in the moment.
/r/seduction08/02/20 10:55 PM
3

How many girls have you talked to in real life in the same timeframe? My guess is zero, or close to zero. Which means you don’t even know if you’d vibe with someone you know in person better than you vibe with her.
/r/seduction08/02/20 10:50 PM
1

Then she holds it to you, you go do whatever, come back then start the conversation. Looking like a complete chump. Indirect openers aren’t the same as starting attraction, leaving to- what seems to her as you trying to get courage to ask her out- then coming back and asking her out. Maybe if you don’t have the awareness to see why this opening is shit, then you also don’t have awareness to realize you’re creepy.
/r/seduction08/02/20 07:01 PM
1

Can u send it to me please
/r/seduction08/02/20 06:47 PM
0

Attention seeking, but you blew it up by 1) taking too long to open. At most on the second eye contact. 2) Not properly opening and instead telling her that you need her to do something for you, instead of properly chatting her up Or she thought you were creepy or something of the sort which is why she was looking at you. You need awareness to know this one.
/r/seduction08/02/20 06:46 PM
4

Piss before so you last 4 times longer. Sometimes you last too long though
/r/seduction08/02/20 03:57 AM
3

I Juul if anything, but after sex ALWAYS cigarette Basically tradition at this point
/r/seduction08/02/20 02:21 AM
8

Cig
/r/seduction08/02/20 01:30 AM
1

Enjoy. The. Moment. Talk to people, have fun. Do your thang
/r/seduction02/02/20 09:52 AM
1

Agreed except that last point. If a girl doesn’t respond in a day I usually send a meme like “That’s rude, n-word” (Kevin harts face; I’m white). Usually sparks shit back up with laughter if she’s interested. If she’s not, she won’t respond or will do a low effort response. In which case you interact with it (Like thru IG or iMessage) and move on. She’ll see you as someone with a sense of humor and no neediness
/r/seduction01/02/20 07:58 PM
2

Abundance. Just because she responds to you it doesn’t mean she’s interested. That’s delusion. You invited her, she said she has the flu. Let her make the next move, and move on. You have some of the same friends so you’ll see her again someday and then you do all the seduction in person. You’re being needy as of right now
/r/seduction01/02/20 07:51 PM
1

Germany or Russia for sure
/r/seduction31/01/20 02:51 AM
1

Tease her. If she has a big nose say she’s sucking all the air from the room. Also just treat her like a friend and the ice will break naturally. Works for me
/r/seduction31/01/20 02:48 AM
1

People approach me about twice a week at uni, and talk/look at me pretty often in clubs. It’s all about the vibessssssss walk with reason, chin up, proper posture. Create the energy that you want and go with it.
/r/seduction28/01/20 07:21 PM
1

I don’t watch any PUA guys or anything, but I’ve had interactions that started sour then turned gold
/r/seduction25/01/20 02:29 AM
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If you’re sitting side by side and talking, just get your arm around her and put her head on your chest/shoulder. Then caress her arm for a bit, then kiss, lead her on your crotch and say “look at what you’re doing to me <name>”. TELL her to play with it if she doesn’t pull it away. Cross your legs to hide her from other people (no slut shaming in her head).
/r/seduction22/01/20 02:27 AM
1

Your first response should’ve been “oh god sorry didn’t see your message sooner with so much going on at work/school” followed by talk If you talked already, when she responds tell her you usually don’t take that long to respond but your weeks been crazy and you haven’t been too connected with your phone
/r/seduction17/01/20 10:19 PM
2

Basically. Make plans, set date and time, then phone number. That’s my new rule. No time wasted, no awkwardness (which I haven’t really felt recently, even in situations that would usually be awkward). It’s all in our head. I’m so glad I found this community. So much personal growth
/r/seduction15/01/20 09:26 PM
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My rule of thumb is: make plans THEN get the number. After having a nice talk and feeling it... “How do you like XXX places?” “I like them blablabla” “Let’s go Thursday night. What’s your phone number” The objective isn’t the phone number. It’s seeing her again. Don’t fool yourself. I approached over 50 people in a week last week (Very... VERY... tiring) and realized phone numbers don’t mean jaaaaaack shit
/r/seduction15/01/20 01:54 AM
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Yup you’re 100% right. But also remember. ABUNDANCE. Don’t stick to just one girl fuck that. Love. Is. Dead.
/r/seduction14/01/20 03:13 AM
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Girls being nervous about a date and flaking last second AND TEXTING YOU SHES NOT GONNA SHOW UP is not a disrespect of your time. If anything it shows that she respects you time but was shit testing him by not saying she won’t show up, and instead saying she’s not sure about it. She obviously wanted to be convinced otherwise.
/r/seduction14/01/20 02:45 AM
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Also want to know. I bet probably in Torrey sites. I’ll try some private trackers and if I find it I’ll update this comment
/r/seduction12/01/20 04:56 PM
2

Two responded saying they’re going to the party today. Other one is a literal model and needs more social proof, is my guess. I’m not posting this for pity or praise. I’m posting this as a field report, and as a proof that mentality change works. The model chick I’ll talk to her in person. Bet she’ll make it
/r/seduction10/01/20 01:37 PM
2

Only downside is how PHYSICALLY and MENTALLY tired I feel. I’m definitely over working myself.
/r/seduction10/01/20 03:18 AM
2

30 girls to 6 guys at the party we goooooood
/r/seduction09/01/20 09:27 PM
2

I think you’re missing the point. I’m reconditioning myself to not be shy, which I used to be.
/r/seduction09/01/20 09:26 PM
3

This is basically saying “you’d be a great husband, but this won’t work out between us”. Basically you’re too nice, going out of your way for people and being a pushover sometimes. Honestly what I figured helps is when people try to press you to do something don’t laugh and say “I don’t know man” just to end up doing it. Say stearnly and firmly “I can’t today sorry”, don’t smile, don’t apologize profusely, just maintain a strong frame
/r/seduction02/12/18 06:59 PM
2

Don’t date coworkers.
/r/seduction02/12/18 04:19 PM
1

My trick is usually 3rd/4th date movies, then have my hand around her and about 1/3rd of the way of the movie, start passing my fingers on her arm VERY LIGHTLY. It gives them goosebumps, after a while I get close to the ear, say “you like that don’t you?” She’ll say yes and laugh, then I nibble on her ear a little bit (more goosebumps), then play The Weeknd whenever you’re in the car ride to the next venue and say that you should go to your place and she should meet your dog (or whatever). I mea…
/r/seduction02/12/18 04:15 PM
3

Become more high energy so that high energy girls see you as an equal/superior (since their culture is 100% based on people’s energy), and low energy girls see you as a superior.
/r/seduction02/12/18 04:11 PM
3

Give her a small compliment like “because your eyes make me think of bad things” or something along those lines. It also serves as a reward for her responding positively
/r/seduction29/11/18 06:04 AM
4

“Thanks! It was a gift from my mom” then compliment her on something like the way she walks or whatever
/r/seduction28/11/18 07:04 PM
3

Let me just point out how bad those example responses were. If you don't want to talk, that's fine too". What are you doing. That makes you too compliant. Why self deprecate yourself with that last sentence?
/r/seduction27/11/18 09:15 PM
2

Fix your Inner game
/r/seduction26/11/18 08:07 PM
1

Update?
/r/seduction25/11/18 06:32 PM
1

1) This is a huge issue. Most girls don’t feel comfortable bringing a guy they barely know into their house, plus you can’t really lead her there. 2) “You’re too young for me too. I only date 60 year olds” or agree with her “Alright Granny” 3) Need help with this too 4) High Fives, Other ‘excuses’ to touch (“I learned palm reading this week, here give me your hand, let me try it on you.” Make up some random BS then in the end say that you don’t actually know how to read hands. other funny things…
/r/seduction25/11/18 04:19 PM
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