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I don't know if it's bad reddit form to reply to my own comment but I wanted to add that through my immersion and practice of red pill and red pill-related content about men and women, I completely lost sight of what love really is. I developed a transactional and results-oriented view of love and relationships. I hated the power-struggle, which he always had the upper hand in as the physically and financially stronger partner, but didn't mind it so much when the power struggle occasionally work…
/r/ExRedPill02/02/23 07:32 PM
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I got into Red Pill Women because the man I was with was emotionally abusive toward me, and Red pill content suggested that if I become more respectful and submissive, he would stop being shitty. It really did brainwash me in hindsight. I ended up marrying him and having a baby with him, and now that I've woken up and am coming out of the RP fog, I can honestly say RP ruined my life.
/r/ExRedPill02/02/23 06:02 PM
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I have a different take about that marriage counselor. I am guessing they were experienced enough to know people like your husband need a lot of validation before they can hear that they're being garbage humans🙃. If he is going to change, I think that path will look like you looking past his tone and words and instead listening for the content itself, and responding to that in a validating, respectful way. Do this for a month and then sit him down in an unrelated moment and point out that you ma…
/r/RedPillWives27/08/22 06:59 PM
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Relatable.
/r/RedPillWives18/08/22 09:18 PM
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Snacks/drinks are toddler magic. Sometimes they're magic for me too😂
/r/RedPillWives17/08/22 02:17 PM
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It made a night and day difference when I set expectations for my son's behavior at that age before the excursion. I'd set the expectation at home, then again while we are driving, and then as we are getting out of the car. "We are going to the grocery store. You will be in the cart the whole time. When we are at the store we need to be calm and patient and don't touch." Keep it consistent and simple. Over time, they memorize it so you can include them in the expectations by letting them fill in…
/r/RedPillWives17/08/22 02:16 PM
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This is a nice subreddit. Thank you for maintaining this space for us.
/r/RedPillWives06/08/22 03:02 AM
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Side note: I don't think there was a thread to report back in this week? My challenge this week is to mentally challenge the negative thoughts that creep into my mind about my marriage.
/r/RedPillWives06/08/22 12:31 AM
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I also am a bit like you. I'm fairly liberal in theory and so is my husband. But we like to keep things traditional for ourselves. I have never been able to extrapolate my own conservative nature to insisting upon it politically/legally for anyone else. Edited to add: I totally understand and empathize that many conservative people feel a strong calling to politically/legally strive for what they feel in their heart is right for the world. I just mean that I have never personally felt that and a…
/r/RedPillWives05/08/22 06:17 PM
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Sounds so good....yummmmm. thank you for sharing this!
/r/RedPillWives03/08/22 05:33 PM
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Well now I'm intrigued about this recipe! How did you make it?
/r/RedPillWives03/08/22 04:17 PM
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Yesterday while I was prepping dinner, out of nowhere my 3 year old said to me from the other room, "I like your delicious cooking." It melted me, because I was starting to question if my new commitment to cooking most our meals was really worth it.
/r/RedPillWives02/08/22 07:12 PM
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I took a thorough look at this in last week's field report thread where i brainstormed how to be more successful, but the short answer to your question is my 3 year old is a tornado and I don't have a good place to fold the laundry. This week I have new strategies in place, so I'm excited!
/r/RedPillWives30/07/22 05:58 AM
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My challenge last week was to stay on top of the domestic tasks that are most meaningful to my husband: laundry and meals. I nailed meals but didn't even touch the laundry. I think ultimately my husband does care more about the clothes than the meals, but he sees how important it is for children to eat dinner at the family table, and he sees that it matters to ME. He also just loves that I take care of dinner. So he's been very enthusiastic and has done me the kindness of not even mentioning the…
/r/RedPillWives30/07/22 02:01 AM
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My challenge for the week is to get the clean laundry put away every night before I go to sleep, and to make 3 family dinners this week. The dinners totally happened. I just now put stew in the crockpot for later. The other dinners I did were a sandwich picnic for a little league game, and Asian style crispy tofu with rice and veggies. The laundry challenge, though... I haven't been successful with this but the silver lining is it got me thinking about why I haven't just made it happen. It's bec…
/r/RedPillWives27/07/22 08:28 PM
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Neutrogena makes makeup remover wipes that are my go-to on nights I'm just not making a real face-washing happen. You can even just keep it in your nightstand and wipe the makeup off when you get in bed. Target makes a generic dupe of these wipes too.
/r/RedPillWives27/07/22 08:03 PM
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Well this is embarrassing to even have to need accountability or encouragement about, but this week my goal is to get clean clothes put away before I go to bed and to make at least 3 dinners for my family.
/r/RedPillWives24/07/22 03:51 PM
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I have a different take.... he sounds like he is aspergers and doesn't realize it. It can be very well masked even to the self. I myself get frustrated over nit picky communication things like meanings/tones/phrase accuracy, and until I knew the real reason why (that I'm wired to find it frustrating and confusing), I would look for emotional/interpersonal reasons to explain my frustration. Obviously this is just a different perspective that came to mind for me and to be taken with a grain of sal…
/r/RedPillWomen24/04/22 01:05 PM
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It's good to have hobbies. However, I don't see that as the "fix" here (but still, you should have hobbies). What I'm gathering here is you're not very in touch with your day, your feelings, or your experience. That is a recipe for you to not be a very engaging conversation partner to your romantic partner. Connect with your feelings and surroundings throughout the day and then share them with him later. Here are some examples: "School felt really intense today. I didn't understand the professor…
/r/RedPillWomen09/12/21 08:20 PM
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