BehindtheHype Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
2	[FR] First time going out, life changing experience That was a beautiful story. I love hearing stuff like this, 'cause the douchebags seem to always one-up the decent guys solely 'cause the douche is confident. Now you have two new life goals - keep it up and bed some dames, and also...try to reach out to a buddy who is in your former shoes, and see if you can help him see the light as well.	/r/seduction	15/07/12 04:48 PM
2	[FR] First time going out, life changing experience He said it was life changing in the title of the post...I think he very well realized it :).	/r/seduction	15/07/12 04:44 PM
11	For the (relatively) older men of Seddit: if you could do college over again, what would you do differently (regarding women)? Fuck every single female you can. Nowhere else will there be that many options at all times. You don't need game, you just need attempts. Talk to as many of them as possibl,e and bed every fucking one. Leave standards for girlfriends and wives.	/r/seduction	13/07/12 03:30 AM
9	Girl told me i was beautiful and said i could get any girl i wanted. She wouldn't give me her number. Personally, I can't afford to burn any bridges with women. My friends really have no females they bring around, and their GFs never bring any of their female friends to gatherings. What this means is I'm always looking to increase my base of female networking options. Hot girls have hot girl friends (birds of a feather), so even if the one I'm talking to "has a boyfriend" or whatever it is, I still try to make a connection. Whatever this girl's deal was, I would have just gone with it. You knew …	/r/seduction	03/07/12 02:55 PM
3	A stripped down, easy to follow pickup method for all you newbies The beauty of strangers if you know nothing about them. You don't know where they're from, what they like, what makes them happy, what they do when they are bored, what they do for work, blah blah blah. Millions and millions of things to talk about.	/r/seduction	01/07/12 05:34 AM
3	A stripped down, easy to follow pickup method for all you newbies Once you take the fear out of talking to a chick, it's just like talking to a dude. You don't get nervous about talking to a random dude, right?	/r/seduction	01/07/12 03:07 AM
10	A stripped down, easy to follow pickup method for all you newbies Agreed. Sometimes I will intentionally brush over my target, so she wonders why I didn't talk to her, then go after her later. She's thinking about why you haven't flirted with her, rather than thinking about keeping her guard up.	/r/seduction	01/07/12 03:06 AM
11	Is it a good idea to live in a house full of hot girls? I'm in my late 20s, so I might be jaded by now. The thought of sharing a house with 10 vaginas just hurts my brain. Chicks are really hard to deal with. We deal with them because they have what we want. In the case of roommates, the only thing they can get you is an opportunity for pussy, but you're still going to have to do work yourself to close. Think long and hard about this. It will suck, I can promise you that. You will probably want to fuck one or more of them, and you will likely not fuc…	/r/seduction	26/06/12 05:13 PM
3	[FR] Coffeeshop + first date I really love that you went for it. Good work, hopefully it continues when she gets back!	/r/seduction	15/06/12 11:01 PM
0	[FR] Cute girl standing behind me at the cafeteria I don't like that a lot of people on here are telling you what you should have done. That isn't constructive. From what I read in the OP, this type of conversation doesn't come easy to you, and she was an 8.5. From a stranger to another stranger: I am very proud of you. You took yourself out of your comfort zone, and had a really good interaction. Maybe a bit mundane, but definitely more exciting than most mornings, right? Even if nothing comes with this girl (on subsequent interactions), hopefu…	/r/seduction	15/06/12 10:50 PM
3	[FR] S-Closed a girl That's a great story. Good work, buddy!	/r/seduction	14/06/12 03:49 PM
6	Time wasters. You might notice that there are a lot of similarities between dating and sales. So when I feel like you, I think of this analogy I got from an old sales manager of mine (at the time, I was bitching about getting a lot of cancellations from my sales)... You got a big pot and you keep filling the pot. You keep filling it until it gets to the top, and then you keep filling it. Now it's overflowing. The overflow is your success. Hope that helps, and don't get discouraged. There are decent women out …	/r/seduction	31/05/12 12:50 PM
6	Are there still crazy parties after college? Best times were after college when you actually have money. This. This so many times over.	/r/seduction	18/05/12 06:00 PM
4	Are there still crazy parties after college? We had some really great parties at the last house we rented. 3 of us, 3 bedroom house with a HUGE backyard and a large guest house. Our ages were 27, 27, and 26. Some stuff would be more on the "chill" side, like a weekend BBQ, or a beer pong tournament. Other stuff was way way more ridiculous. We'd move all the living room furniture outside to create a hookah lounge, setup a DJ station inside, that turned into a pretty good hip hop concert later in the night. Fog machine, and laser show as wel…	/r/seduction	18/05/12 06:00 PM
0	[FR] 2 Hour F-Close on a Monday.. Did that just happen? I think you need to go buy some lottery tickets, and let me know which stocks to go with :). Good for you though. Remember this one.	/r/seduction	15/05/12 10:16 PM
4	Just tried this ice breaker at a party that went really well. Thought I'd share it [x-post faimprovement] Nice work. Anything that opens them up, without being too forward too fast is always great. What's worked for me is this one: If you had an entire day to yourself, what would you do? It usually comes with follow up questions, which makes it feel like a game. Stuff like "do I have unlimited money?" or "am I living my current life, or any life I want?" and then you can start making up rules as you see fit.	/r/seduction	13/05/12 01:36 PM
6	Don't know if this is the right place... but as a woman, this worked incredibly well My guess - just a guess - is that likely wasn't verbatim. Personally, I usually walk the fine line between educated and arrogant, but I'm generally pretty funny so it seems to work fine for me. So yea, I've said some stuff that you might not expect a 20 something to say. I enjoyed the way he phrased it. The way we gotta look at getting a number has got to completely change. It's just another normal (and expected) part of the conversation. If you made a genuine connection with another human, for …	/r/seduction	13/05/12 01:26 PM
1	Pro tip from Winnie the Pooh. My life motto, which I got from a cold call a few years ago...Closed mouth don't get fed	/r/seduction	30/04/12 01:08 AM
2	Caring level is over 9000 Yea, I sometimes over-analyze myself and turn into my own worst enemy. You just gotta work on getting out of your own way, if that makes sense. Most sincerely - best of luck to you.	/r/seduction	25/04/12 07:36 AM
2	Caring level is over 9000 It can perhaps be likened to how "free" people feel on the internet - the anonymity makes us feel as though there are no consequences. I like your idea of being a good kid. I think most of us strive to have our parents proud of us. I also think, as a result of that inherent need to do good, you probably put a lot of pressure on yourself. That pressure leads to stress - probably not enough to notice, but still enough to play a role. Seems to me there's something about your relationship with your …	/r/seduction	25/04/12 06:48 AM
2	Caring level is over 9000 That's a really curious dilemma. For most people, it's the exact opposite: they aren't comfortable with strangers, but are completely at peace with their loved ones. Do you maybe recall when this started? Has it always been tough for you, or maybe more recently? Any specific events surrounding it?	/r/seduction	25/04/12 12:59 AM
1	[FR] Wait, so it's just that easy? Are you freakin kidding me? #close Good work, man! I really like hearing about people taking the leap, if you will. Once you realize it's just some mental block in your head, you can get past it and make life a whole lot better. As for your PS - the reason is usually just seeing that person again. I think most girls figure you're talking to them for some kind of end goal. The beautiful thing, as you might have seen, if you're both into each other it's just as normal as you asking for her name. You need this piece of information t…	/r/seduction	25/04/12 12:48 AM
1	does confidence matter for girls? I think confidence is key in all facets of life, for all people. I always compare dating to sales, for instance. You're always selling yourself whether it's to get a girl, get a job, land a client, get a promotion, etc. A lot of that is presentation. Two people could spit the same game - one confident and one apprehensive - and the person you gain a rapport with and trust is who you'll go with. I had an old sales manager that explained confidence and rapport like this: "if a friend tells you abo…	/r/seduction	18/04/12 12:19 PM
1	[FR] 420 f-close and other reflections I seem to feel the same way as you do, but for me the chase is more exciting than the close. Coming up with random shit is easy for me, since I was a sales douche for 7 years, and I'm just a really good people's person. A lot of that comes from breaking out of your comfort zone. To do that, I always prepare myself with some things to say. It's like going into a test and not having studied - if you do no leg work, it'll show. Rapport is a state of mind. If I'm showing you the signs of "we've know…	/r/seduction	18/04/12 12:10 PM
2	Little trick! Any port in a storm.	/r/seduction	18/04/12 11:59 AM
-1	Little trick! Different strokes for different foolks is what you were looking for. Or even to each their own.	/r/seduction	18/04/12 11:58 AM