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I'm 5'8" and weighed 200lbs at my heaviest. I had to take a deep breath to bend over and tie my shoes. I literally cannot imagine adding another 70 on top of that and remaining any sort of functional human being.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen27/06/23 01:07 AM
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That's fair. My point wasn't to take anyone to task - though, in hindsight, I can see how my use of a general "you" could have been misinterpreted. Curse the imprecision of the English language. I've simply seen a lot of feral women use precisely that sort of reasoning to explain why they can't seem to keep a man - authoritatively stating none of the men in their pasts were good enough, never stopping to consider the possibility these men simply realized the work that would go into taming this p…
/r/RedPillWomen04/03/23 02:03 AM
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If a man has to out-Alpha you before you'll submit to his lead you're not being feminine. That's the kind of thing feral women say to justify their shitty attitude and boorish behavior. Which isn't to say one should just roll over for any man comes along; he absolutely still has to demonstrate value, but there is a world of difference between demonstrating value and wrestling the metaphorical bear into submission.
/r/RedPillWomen02/03/23 05:48 PM
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I wasn't consciously trying to imply anything. In hindsight, however, I was making an unmerited leap in logic. I don't think what I wrote was wrong but it didn't really follow from the point you were making. Mea culpa.
/r/RedPillWomen12/01/23 08:34 PM
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my first ex (who was abusive) constantly exaggerated how beautiful I was without makeup and would shame me whenever I put makeup on. Not commenting on your ex at all but some, I daresay a lot of men genuinely do prefer women wearing little to no makeup. The idea of the "natural beauty" is a thing for a reason. If you automatically assume a man who tells you you look better without it is lying or exaggerating that speaks more to your own insecurities than any problem on his end.
/r/RedPillWomen12/01/23 01:36 AM
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If her pussy was THAT tight, she wouldn't have been able to lose the first guy who experienced it. Behind every woman, no matter how beautiful or amazing in bed, there's a man who is utterly sick of her shit.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen03/11/22 02:53 AM
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It's the goddamned silver bullet of contraception. And it'll never pass muster in the U.S. because insurance companies can't bleed you for a new dose every month.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen01/11/22 07:46 PM
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I suspect he was being sarcastic there. Also, particularly in the case of self-reflection, there's a difference between shaming and simply acknowledging your previous behavior was embarrassing and counterproductive. I take the piss out of 20-something me all the time, partially because self-effacing humor is just something guys generally do, but also because I'm acknowledging, even taking a bit of pride in how far I've progressed from that point.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen11/10/22 07:58 PM
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Practically speaking, "femcels" don't exist. Even the most corpulent bridge troll can find a dude to knock her down if sex is truly all she's after. The more correct term for a woman who can't get what she wants from a man is inspin.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen11/10/22 07:45 PM
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Also, femcel spotted in the wild. (It's not a me problem, they're the problem for not picking me.) Practically speaking, "femcels" don't exist. Even the most corpulent bridge troll can find a guy to knock her down if sex is truly all she's looking for. The term you're looking for is inspin - short for involuntary spinster.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen01/10/22 07:39 PM
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Right. I think the advice you've gotten from others covered things pretty well. If he's just not interested in exploring matters of faith and spirituality there's really nothing you can do to change that. The fact he's expressed no problem with you going there yourself and sharing your beliefs with your children is probably about the best you can hope for. It may not be ideal but it is functional and keeps your family together and more or less all on the same page, which is what really matters i…
/r/RedPillWomen23/09/22 10:36 PM
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So, if I understand correctly, you changed the rules at halftime and you're upset he's still playing the game you both agreed to before the buzzer. I'm not being flippant or dismissive here; people grow and priorities change. That's life. But you need to understand that's a pretty big change. One he may not be able or willing to accommodate. I am curious; you say this wasn't a priority when you got married "years ago" but you've wanted faith to be important to your family "for years." What's the…
/r/RedPillWomen23/09/22 04:21 AM
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Precisely why so many men are opting out of the rat race. I'm altogether too average to appear on most women's radar. As a single dude ~$30k is plenty enough for me to get by on, provided I'm smart about it, and earning so little (relatively speaking) means Uncle Sam helps himself to a much smaller percentage of my income to pay for their bastards. It's not ideal. I'd prefer to be married with children in a healthy, prosperous society built on traditional western values. Alas, one plays the hand…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen22/09/22 01:58 AM
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Rights of a man, privileges of a woman, responsibilities of a child. It's a RP truism for a reason.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen22/09/22 01:31 AM
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Men are sometimes a bit clueless with their words and then we analyse them. Counterpoint: men generally say precisely what they mean then you dissect that for hidden meanings that aren't there because men aren't women. Men and women communicate differently because we think differently. He answered her question. The fact he didn't express himself the way she would have (or might have liked him to) isn't a problem to be fixed.
/r/RedPillWomen11/09/22 03:27 PM
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He would be if the rules were the same for men and women. They aren't.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen05/09/22 12:41 AM
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Removed for rule 3. You're correct her profile isn't as egregious as many we see here. That doesn't mean it doesn't fit the sub's theme. She's a 33-year-old single mother hoping to land a tall, clean-cut professional (read: financially successful) man despite offering nothing but fading looks and the added responsibility of another man's child. On top of that she plainly shows her own hypocrisy by claiming to be an "equal opportunity dater" yet ruling out men based on immutable physical characte…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen02/09/22 06:12 PM
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Sometimes, yes. It's more about picking your battles. Having an irate single mother blow up your phone because you didn't spare her feelings is almost certainly more trouble than it's worth. You don't owe her anything but there's no reason to go courting unnecessary drama.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen30/08/22 07:03 PM
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Removed for rule 1. Dude was probably just trying to be polite.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen25/08/22 05:21 PM
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With the move off reddit we're reposting some older content, both to provide material for the .red forums while they get going and because it's been long enough a lot of users won't have seen the better examples a lot of these posts provide.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen12/08/22 06:47 PM
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The only differences between myself and other men still trapped in the gynocentric paradigm are, first: I've been around long enough my testosterone is no longer doing all my thinking for me and, second: I've had the good fortune to meet and discuss these things with other men who were willing to impart their own hard-won wisdom to a dude finally ready to receive it. I never gave money to virtual whores or turned myself into a purse puppy for a woman who was only using me for favors and validati…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen12/08/22 06:12 AM
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revelatory That's precisely the word I was about to use. I'm also a dude and have generally had the same approach of always making sure the woman I'm with gets off. It's partially a pride thing, knowing I'm good enough to get her there. In truth, however, until now I'd simply never really considered it from any perspective other than my own. Generally speaking, for men the orgasm is the natural end goal of sex. The sex itself is fun too, of course, but not popping off at the end is usually at le…
/r/RedPillWomen12/08/22 05:20 AM
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I believe they are equally responsible for the crap females we discuss here. Men who enable women's bad behavior should absolutely be held to account for doing so. The trick is in how you go about it. Most men who may be described as simps have been raised with all the same gynocentric bullshit as the rest of us. Generally speaking, they don't know any better and don't realize their behavior is not only unhelpful but actively counterproductive to their own interests. That said, you should never …
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen11/08/22 10:37 PM
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The very first word you used. Removed for violating rule 1 in the side bar. Seems pretty self-explanatory to me.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen11/08/22 09:47 PM
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fathers of the kids FTFY
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen11/08/22 02:42 PM
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Removed for rule 1. You'll find use of that term generally doesn't go over well here.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen11/08/22 02:39 PM
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Yup. The problem ain't the substance or behavior, it's the maladaptive brain wiring driving its abuse.
/r/RedPillWomen10/08/22 07:43 PM
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It always amuses me how some folks seem to lose all perspective on these issues. I'm not going to poo poo porn addiction; for those who have that problem it's very real and absolutely needs addressing. For many men, however (I would venture most but I don't have any hard numbers to base that on), it's something we can take or leave without really giving it much thought and most men would eagerly choose to leave it in favor of actually having sex. The only time I've ever "struggled" with porn was…
/r/RedPillWomen10/08/22 05:23 PM
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If you genuinely believe most young women - particularly the turbosluts who manage N counts of double or triple their age before 30 - are waiting until the age of legal majority to start having sex? I have a bridge to sell you.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen27/07/22 04:44 AM
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Bold of you to assume she didn't start until 18.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen27/07/22 04:31 AM
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Removed for rule 1.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen22/07/22 02:28 PM
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Removed for rule 1. Again. Women aren't mindless automatons. Yes, most of them generally follow the lead of the dominant man in their lives (assuming there is one, which is half the problem). That doesn't absolve them of responsibility for their decisions. They still have agency. With agency comes accountability, whether they (or you) like it or not. That's the whole point of this sub (and the main site from which we share stuff here): holding women to account. If you can't get behind that you'r…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen17/07/22 02:36 AM
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Removed for rule 1. Also, stop blaming men for women's poor choices.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen04/07/22 06:03 PM
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Whats so special about this girl? Absolutely nothing. And what has she been working so hard to improve? All the wrong things.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen04/07/22 05:53 PM
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Removed for rule 1.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen04/07/22 05:43 PM
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Crap, didn't realize I'd approved that one. My eyes started glazing over after the third page of bullshit reports and I kinda' lost focus. Mea culpa.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen26/06/22 07:51 PM
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As far as advice: if you want to find a good man with whom to build a life together, don't just sit back and wait for him to come to you. You don't necessarily have to make the first move in the sense of asking him out and setting up the first date - but if you see a guy you're attracted to and he's not breaking down your door, so to speak, give him an opening. Smile at him and ask an innocuous question to start a conversation, then let him take the lead from there. Note: "take the lead" doesn't…
/r/RedPillWomen23/06/22 09:06 PM
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But did you insist the guy spend a significant amount of money on taking you out, or did you just find something else relatively cheap and casual to do? I don't like coffee either, but I've taken girls to a coffee shop on a first date and just ordered water because the coffee isn't the point.
/r/RedPillWomen23/06/22 08:47 PM
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And what about his time and the effort he put into earning the money you expect him to spend on entertaining you? I'm not advocating the OP just uncritically accept any offer that comes her way but expecting a man to pay for the privilege of sharing your time is straight out of the FDS playbook. Such advice is unhelpful at best, actively counterproductive at worst.
/r/RedPillWomen23/06/22 04:56 PM
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I fell for this at uni and a tip I would use is to not accept coffee or drinks dates, especially drinks. If he wants to hang, he can take you out to dinner. Making a guy jump through hoops just to spend time with you is one of the surest ways for him to know you're not all that into him. A lot of decent guys with perfectly genuine intentions will take a pass on a woman insisting on a dinner date, particularly at the start of things. Anymore, coffee, drinks or taking a walk in the park isn't a si…
/r/RedPillWomen23/06/22 02:25 PM
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Counterpoint: her anxiety is her problem. Her problems are not (necessarily) his responsibility. Frankly, based on OP's further posts this whole relationship seems pretty fucked. He seems to have issues with substance abuse and she definitely has issues with self-confidence and enforcing boundaries.They both sound too damaged and dysfunctional to make a healthy relationship work until they take the time and put in the effort to clean their respective rooms. Maybe they can do that together. Hopef…
/r/RedPillWomen18/06/22 08:22 PM
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Do men expect it at this point because of porn etc? Judging from both personal experience and reading the replies here I think it's safe to say women generally seem to be more into it than men are. As Uncle Vaz said above, for most men it's more of a novelty; you try it out, as much so you can say you've done it as out of any genuine desire, then go back to using the hole(s) biology designed to have an input function.
/r/RedPillWomen06/06/22 02:12 AM
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I was under the impression the anus generally has a harder limit on how much it can expand without doing irreversible damage. The vagina, by contrast, has be able to fit a whole baby. I'm big but I'm not that big. Regardless, the first thing most women who've seen me at full mast have said is some variation of "no anal," so it's generally a moot point. Which, again, is fine with me. I'd rather use one of her other holes anyway, or even between her tits if they're big enough.
/r/RedPillWomen06/06/22 02:04 AM
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I've genuinely never seen the appeal. For one, I'm rather well-endowed. It's bad enough having to be careful not to go too deep and hit her cervix, I do not want to have to worry about a potential ER visit due to things tearing. For two, to quote my older brother: "Why would you want to go there when you're half an inch away from the happiest place on Earth?"
/r/RedPillWomen05/06/22 12:37 AM
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---> The point ---> You
/r/RedPillWomen24/05/22 02:47 PM
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So you're critical of him for not taking charge but, when he does take charge, you're critical of him for not doing things your way. Pick one.
/r/RedPillWomen24/05/22 02:26 PM
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I'm glad someone else caught it. OP ain't looking for advice, she's looking to be proven right. Well, congrats OP. You're right. You should leave him. Not for the reasons you've outlined, granted, but at this point any reason will do.
/r/RedPillWomen24/05/22 02:25 PM
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Damn it, I will respond to this. Just as soon as I have more than four minutes to breathe between tasks. Stupid busy, productive life I consciously pursued and am actually really satisfied with but I'm going to pretend to grouse about the "problem" of not having a whole bunch of down time to waste on reddit.
/r/RedPillWomen18/05/22 08:09 PM
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So that rule includes other RP subs. Good to know.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen17/05/22 07:14 PM
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Removed for rule 7.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen17/05/22 02:46 PM
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I was a fat, useless fuck throughout my 20s, largely because I simply didn't know how to be better. When I was 31 I met a much more athletic guy through my D&D group, of all places, and asked him for some tips on eating better. He took that and ran it out of the stadium, proposing we start going to the gym together and teaching me all about healthy diet and exercise routines. Within the a year I'd lost 60lbs and was in the best shape of my life. I'm 36 now and haven't put on more than 10lbs sinc…
/r/RedPillWomen17/05/22 06:10 AM
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Removed for rule 1. I don't agree with the guy's actions either but that's not our focus here.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen01/05/22 05:22 PM
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Removed for rule 1.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen01/05/22 05:15 PM
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It's not just nice, it's a weight off the shoulders. I spend half of my free time most days taking care of domestic matters. I've a whole list of projects I'd like to start and new things I'd like to learn that has lain fallow for far longer than I care to admit because, by the time I'm finally done with work and choring, I just want to slump in my chair and relax for the couple free hours remaining to me. The whole point of the nuclear family is the division of labor allows both partners to ded…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen26/04/22 02:34 AM
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Because he didn't harm her except in the ways she allowed him to.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen16/04/22 04:31 AM
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This is precisely why one of the unwritten rules of the red pill is you don't share the red pill. Most dudes have to find their way here on their own time and in their own way, if they ever do. As beneficial as Steve's actions may be for this guy long-term, as lurker noted, dropping the bomb like that is seldom received well in the moment.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen16/04/22 04:23 AM
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A lot of great guys can be a little awkward when they're meeting/just getting to know an attractive girl. I should think if anyone is willing to extend a little understanding on that front it would be a woman who openly admits her own social graces could use a little refining.
/r/RedPillWomen16/04/22 12:28 AM
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OLD is a meat market. At this point, "no hookups" in a Tinder profile essentially reads as an advertisement for back-alley blowjobs. Better to simply avoid the subject of sex altogether.
/r/RedPillWomen16/04/22 12:20 AM
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She did though.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen15/04/22 10:57 PM
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Fair point. I can work with boring. Being the man who coaxes her out of her shell and introduces her to all the excitement life has to offer (as she'll see it in her romanticized view of things, anyway) is a pretty solid starting position. The real test comes when she's finally developed some confidence and starts attracting attention from other men; does she dance with the one as brought her or go out and buy a CC Deluxe Package to make up for lost time? There are signs you can watch for can in…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen15/04/22 08:20 PM
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Even dudes who are down to commit to an older woman, they’d want one with an accomplished career, hobbies, basically a man with a V. I'd sooner take a vow of celibacy and join a monastic order. Career women may not be any worse than a fat travel junkie but they sure as fuck ain't any better.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen15/04/22 07:19 PM
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Double digits? You're a goddamn wild man. I'm leery of any woman with a count higher than three.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen15/04/22 06:12 PM
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Right. I suppose I wasn't clear enough. Or perhaps I mistook your meaning. The wording of your post seems to imply women are taught the only thing they need to do to get a man is not be a bitch. That's what I was laughing at. I'm sure you know as well as I do how utterly false that notion is. To the contrary, a sizable percentage of women seem to regard being an insufferable bitch as a selling point in their favor.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen14/04/22 10:36 PM
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Just don’t be a b—— and you’d get a man. HA! If only that were true.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen14/04/22 07:43 PM
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Gods know male spaces in the physical world are essentially extinct anymore. We can at least try to curate some sort of virtual approximate.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen13/04/22 01:26 AM
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Hell, decentralization was the rule back in the early '00s before fucking social media came along and ruined the internet. There were always at least two or three different sites/forums focused on a given subject, each with their own little communities and local cultures. Granted, that decentralization wasn't by design but, for my money, it made for more interesting and just straight better experiences. We'll probably never get the days of the 'net as a virtual wild west back, but I'm hopeful we…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen12/04/22 04:27 AM
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A lot of taller guys do. I've said before I'm the only male in my immediate family under 6'. I've had discussions with a couple of my brothers on the subject and they've both been utterly blown away by the kind of vitriol a shorter guy can face due solely to being a shorter guy. They know (or at least have an idea) how nasty women can be when they feel slighted by something a man did, but the fact so many women can be so petty and vindictive about something literally hard-coded into a man's gene…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen11/04/22 02:50 PM
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Nah, she'd have no idea he's not 6'. A confident, charming guy who's 5'9" would probably have no trouble convincing her he's 6'. Women say they want a guy who's 6' because conventional wisdom states that's usually where "tall" begins. In truth most of 'em couldn't mark 6' on a blank wall if their lives depended on it.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen10/04/22 07:20 PM
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This works if you're sufficiently within the ballpark of the desired figure. If you're obviously well short of 6', lying and saying you're that tall generally doesn't end well. That said, the general thrust of your point is absolutely correct. Most women don't really know what the objective metric for 6' is, they simply sort men into two camps: Tall and Not Tall. Tall applies to any man who's sufficiently taller (or simply bigger) than she is and desirable based on physique, charisma, social sta…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen10/04/22 07:17 PM
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This shit's baked into their evolutionary psychology. You don't need to encourage it; to the contrary, our ancestors built western civilization partially around curbing women's hypergamy.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen10/04/22 07:08 PM
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Heh. I don't know about comic book villainy, but the church can certainly act like a mafia at times. Shops run by non-members competing with church-owned businesses (or owned by members who are in good with the church) have burned down or suddenly found themselves in trouble with civil authorities; people owning land the church wants to build a temple (or a mall) on have stories of being leaned on and threatened by city officials, sometimes outright blackmailed. None of it can be proven in a cou…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen10/04/22 06:45 PM
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Right. "Spinning plates" is red pill terminology for maintaining a stable of women for sex without making any financial/emotional investment into them. It draws from the idea of a stage magician setting/keeping a bunch of plates spinning on poles.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen10/04/22 06:15 PM
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Precisely. Sex is great but, even when running a marathon, it accounts for no more than a couple hours of my day at most. If I don't enjoy a woman's company when our clothes are still on it's simply not worth the bother.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen10/04/22 05:47 PM
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That's just not true. She might be insufferable to be around or simply incredibly boring. Worse, she might be fucking insane and drive away every man she meets. "Don't stick your dick in crazy" is a maxim among men for a damned good reason.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen09/04/22 11:02 PM
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Oh, she can get dates. That's precisely her problem. She dated her 20s away without ever putting in the necessary effort to convince a man to do more than date her.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen09/04/22 10:55 PM
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Dude. I was raised in the LDS church. My parents and most of my siblings are still active members. Every one of them, and every other member I've ever known, considers Joseph Smith a genuine prophet of God. None of them practice or sanction polygamy. In fact, they all believe doing so to be directly contrary to the will of God as revealed by the prophet Wilford Woodruff in 1890. Her specifically mentioning Smith as a prophet isn't some conspiratorial wink and nod. It's standard practice among th…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen09/04/22 07:39 PM
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The LDS church is facing the same problem as so many other congregations: pews full of single mothers praying for a bailout and chasing men who are genuine and fervent in their faith but still know a bad investment when they see one.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen09/04/22 05:35 PM
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The LDS church hasn't sanctioned or practiced plural marriage since 1890. Even when they did, the vast majority of men who engaged in the practice only had two wives. I understand the polygamy jab is an easy go-to for mockery of an entitled LDS woman, but you're talking about it like it's still happening today when the reality is the LDS church has forbidden the practice of polygyny for more than twice as long as they originally allowed it.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen09/04/22 05:32 PM
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I mean, I take your meaning with just needing a quick release but, given the choice, I can't imagine why you'd choose jerking off to porn over sex. Provided your wife isn't a frigid bitch who makes that more trouble than it's worth, of course. And if that's the case you should already be on your way out the door.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen09/04/22 05:18 PM
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How do you know she's divorced? We can infer she's a single mother based on the "other people's kids" line but she doesn't say anything about having been married.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen09/04/22 05:08 PM
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Fair point. I certainly can't give two shits about Islam beyond not wanting it anywhere near me.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen09/04/22 04:50 PM
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That's fair. The worse among them could teach lessons in passive-aggressive nastiness to the stereotypical southern grandma with her "bless their heart" affectation.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen09/04/22 02:07 AM
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Given you actually used it I'll assume you're correct and I'm mistaken. My brother used it briefly, before realizing OLD is a waste of time no matter how you dress it up, so my only familiarity with the platform comes from him telling me about it.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen09/04/22 02:04 AM
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The LDS church, much like most Protestant denominations and far too many Catholic parishes, has taken a much softer stance on divorce and single motherhood than it used to. Apparently they even undo sealings now. By way of explanation, if you get married in the temple the union is generally sealed as well. As I understand it that's supposed to effectively bind your souls together for all eternity. My brother got divorced several years back after getting married in the temple. Came as a real gut …
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen09/04/22 01:59 AM
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She's really not. She may not be actively reveling in degeneracy the way so many other women do but she still comes across very entitled, angry and confrontational, which isn't a good look on any woman - let alone a single mother.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen09/04/22 01:47 AM
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To be fair, the LDS church has grown well beyond ol' Joe's scheme to bilk people out of their savings and fuck other men's wives. The church itself can still be shady as fuck in some respects but most regular members are pretty decent people.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen09/04/22 01:44 AM
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I think that's what she's using. She mentions "swiping up" at the beginning of her screed. If I remember correctly Mutual users swipe up and down rather than left and right.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen09/04/22 01:41 AM
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HA! Thank you, sir. I needed that laugh.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen09/04/22 01:40 AM
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She’s not looking for a true husband. She’s looking for an accessory. Bang on. Most of the women we feature here aren't looking for a healthy, respectful relationship with another human being. As you say, they're looking for a human accessory to slot into the man-shaped hole in the perfect little life they've planned for themselves. Surely it's not their fault when us rotten men stubbornly insist on being human beings, complete with thoughts, feelings and desires of our own rather than purse pup…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen09/04/22 01:38 AM
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You need to read between the lines. As /u/Loud-Bottle-7879 noted, "financially ready to have a family" is code for being well off both monetarily and professionally. Mentally ready combines with Have "Netflix binger" in your tags or play video games regularly This is code for "mature" - i.e. you're not allowed to have any hobbies that don't directly serve her interests. To be a Good Man™ is to exist solely to provide for her and her children. Speaking of... you don't want "someone else's kids" H…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen09/04/22 01:31 AM
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Did he diddle kids? I know the man was a con artist who couldn't keep his hands off other men's wives (which is largely why he was killed in prison), but the pedo accusation is new to me.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen09/04/22 12:35 AM
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Or it's simply borne from ignorance. Or lack of giving a shit. It's no different than most people referring to members of the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter Day Saints as Mormons. Members of the church generally don't appreciate the term but most understand those using it aren't doing so maliciously, that's just what folks who don't know any better think they're called.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen09/04/22 12:30 AM
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I want to say I don't remember there being much in the Book of Mormon about the woman's duties in a relationship but it's been far too long since I read the damned thing. At least 20 years, and I never took scripture study all that seriously, even at my most fervent. Regardless, there's plenty enough the church teaches with regard to men's and women's roles within the family to back up your point. Sadly, as with women in general, most ostensibly faithful LDS women are only too happy to subordina…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen09/04/22 12:14 AM
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Huh. I've never heard him having more than the one wife. My understanding was Young was the one started the polygamy train, ol' Jo's problem was he couldn't keep his hands off other men's wives - which is a large part of why his "new church" faced so much opposition in the States, and a large part of why he was killed in prison.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen09/04/22 12:01 AM
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Meaning a woman wanted to know your number and wouldn't shut up about it 'til she got one? I want to say that seems ill-advised, given the logical response to her asking your number is you turning the question right back 'round on her. 'Course, the presence of that word (logical) handily explains why the type of woman who would actually ask that question wouldn't necessarily see the glaring flaw in her brilliant plan.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen06/04/22 08:54 PM
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Probably not all, no, but I'm willing to bet it's more than half of the guys she actually wants steer the conversation in that direction. Naturally, the fact she gets upset about them asking after her sexual history means they're precisely the kind of man she values so highly she's willing to forgive them doing so.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen05/04/22 01:59 AM
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Yeah. In my experience "locker room talk" consists of one guy quietly saying "Excuse me" so he can get around another guy to his locker, whereupon both change and leave without saying another word.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen05/04/22 01:45 AM
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I'm brown and even I don't wanna live in a brown neighborhood. The unstated however here being you presumably have no problem with having brown neighbors. 'Cause it ain't about the race, it's about particular attitudes and behaviors. Just so happens those attitudes and behaviors often correlate with certain segments of certain communities. Now, of course, correlation does not necessarily imply causation, but that doesn't mean you ignore the correlation.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen04/04/22 10:39 PM
4

Fair point, but that shit's all way above my pay grade. I'm just a working class schlub who values liberty and equal opportunity. I can't do anything about billion-dollar multinational corporations acting like a tech mafia. I can take my business elsewhere and do my individual best to starve the beast and promote better alternatives. I've no illusions about my efforts amounting to much in the grand scheme o' things but the change has to start somewhere. More to the point, for all their instituti…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen04/04/22 02:57 PM
4

I appreciate the reference but we have to play by reddit's rules. Anything that could be conceivably interpreted as promoting violence, even if only in the most disingenuous light, has to be nix'd. If that's unacceptable to you, there's always our alternate site over at forums.red. Over there you can make all the off color jokes and obviously-not-actually-promoting-violence references you like and we'll all laugh along with you.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen02/04/22 11:33 PM
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That's precisely why we keep directing folks to our alternate site at forums.red. We've been able to play the game well enough so far but it's only a matter of time 'til we're shown the door along with everyone else. Reddit ain't what it was and what it was ain't comin' back. If we care at all about maintaining truly free spaces online we'll have to build our own and/or support those working to do the same.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen02/04/22 08:36 PM
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Generally speaking, I agree with you - as does, I imagine, our resident Celt. Two points, however: First, there's nothing wrong with posting a silly little meme for shits and giggles to kickstart the weekend. Second, and more importantly, we get a fair few younger guys through here who are still in the anger phase. While we do our best to help them get to the point of acceptance you describe, we understand occasionally venting frustration is part of that process. As long as it's not breaking the…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen02/04/22 04:08 AM
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Even when she says she wants a relationship and a family in the future, if her actions do not correlate her words then it's best to leave her be with her wine, tissues and STD medication. Red Pill 101: Don't listen to what a woman says. Watch what she does. Solid advice for dealing with people in general, really.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen01/04/22 02:30 PM
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And, since we're living in fantasy land, she can do so from the back of her rainbow pony rocket ship.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen01/04/22 02:25 PM
2

That's not actually true. As I understand it, common law statutes are, perhaps somewhat ironically, pretty uncommon these days. Fewer than a dozen states even have them on the books and there's generally more to it than simply cohabitating for a given period of time. In Utah, for example, where I live, the crucial element of the statute allowing for common law marriage states the couple in question must "hold themselves out as and have acquired a uniform and general reputation as husband and wif…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen31/03/22 04:52 AM
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If you genuinely believe young women in western nations are becoming single mothers by accident I have a bridge to sell you.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen28/03/22 02:23 AM
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She was only the first in a long line, and that probably only in recent history. Friends, Sex and the City, Eat, Pray, Love; doubtless others of which I'm unaware. I forget the details now, but I remember reading about a female columnist for some paper in the 1920s who was essentially a professional socialite. I've no idea precisely how promiscuous she was (that she was promiscuous seems a given), nor whether she landed a betabux once she was done riding the carousel The era and set dressing may…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen23/03/22 03:05 PM
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No, see, those aren't casual hookups. She feels a real connection with Chad. So it doesn't count.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen23/03/22 02:38 PM
3

You joke, but you're also 100% correct.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen21/03/22 02:28 PM
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Not even as much or more; generally speaking, if a man isn't out-earning his wife by at least 40% things are going to start looking shaky. Most women's ideal man is one who is better than her in literally every way. Bigger, stronger, faster, smarter, higher salary and social status; the works. Of course, most women can't achieve that, so they're generally willing to settle for a man who's better than them in enough ways. Or were, back when traditional values and patriarchal oversight was keeping…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen19/03/22 05:03 PM
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I don't necessarily disagree, however: A) Check the sub's rules, specifically rule 1. B) Fat guys can still be successful with women they find desirable if they've developed their value in other ways. Fat women generally have to settle for men they don't find desirable or remain alone and miserable. Yes, there are exceptions. Their existence doesn't invalidate the rule, they prove it.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen19/03/22 04:07 PM
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Were it not for her age, I'd foresee the distinct possibility of dual mating strategy as well. Dollars to donuts her husband has no idea she's looking to get dicked down on the side by Chad. Poor bastard. Though, in truth, their marriage was doomed the instant her salary rose above 60% of his own. I really wish we could see what the two lines obscured by the "Message me" button say. Looks like she's about to tell on herself.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen19/03/22 03:56 PM
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The problem with this is just the two requirements of no kids and not morbidly obese already eliminates at least half of the women on online dating where I live. Same here, which is why I simply don't bother. 'Course, I'm also 5'8" so OLD is a waste of time for me anyway. Though I have toyed with downloading a few of the bigger OLD apps strictly to mine my area for content for us.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen18/03/22 02:21 PM
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Yup. My list is as follows: No kids Not fat Pleasant company Shares my values That's it. That's all. Everything else can be taught. And, to your point, "not fat" is somewhat negotiable. If a woman is cute, meets all my other criteria and is overweight but willing to make the changes and put in the effort necessary to slim down? I'm happy to help her do that. "Not fat" doesn't mean X% body fat and not an ounce more, it just means not a fucking ham planet.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen17/03/22 10:09 PM
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Oh you sweet summer child. A lot of women do date those men. Or at least fuck them. Being a criminal, especially a violent criminal, makes them dangerous. As we all know from having been stupid teenagers, danger is often exciting, particularly to those too foolish to see the obvious problem with courting it. I think it was Charles Manson, or perhaps Ted Bundy - or, hell, both, and probably more besides - who (in)famously received stacks of letters while he was on death row from amorous women who…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen16/03/22 02:29 PM
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I don't. She's laying out a banquet spread of all her poor choices for your perusal. It's one of the fastest and easiest ways low-quality women out themselves and lets you get right to dodging that bullet without wasting any time.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen14/03/22 07:14 PM
1

Ha! I like it.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen13/03/22 06:08 AM
4

I almost wish I'd thought of that when I was 21. I always had an easier time talking to people 10+ years my senior when I was younger, might be I'd have found them a better fit sexually as well. Instead I wasted my time drinking and eating myself fatter every year and chasing chubby (and sometimes downright fat) chicks at the bar - most of whom were older than me, but only by a few years - because I didn't know (and didn't think I could do) any better. Part of me wants to indulge in thinking you…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen12/03/22 05:57 AM
8

Reminds me of the bit Paul Elam wrote about Daddy's Little Nightmare.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen12/03/22 05:35 AM
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it was horribly easy to find other dudes pretending to be chicks wanting to "cyber" on AOL. FTFY.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen12/03/22 03:43 AM
1

Right. That's where the "can't be arsed" bit comes in.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen12/03/22 03:34 AM
1

That's been the plan since I first realized how flairs work here. Now if only I were good at being funny.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen12/03/22 03:34 AM
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I've been able to since I was endorsed, I just can't be arsed coming up with something clever/witty to put there. Back when forums were the thing (gods I miss those days) my signature was always something to the effect of "the more I learn, the less I know." That seems a mite pretentious for a reddit flair, though.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen11/03/22 12:03 AM
3

Removed for rule 1. Edit out the man-shaming language and I'll reapprove.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen10/03/22 11:35 PM
16

I like to stay at home and be a housewife [...] I don't want to get a job. Cool. Take it up with your kids' father(s).
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen10/03/22 11:26 PM
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Glad she's letting everyone know straightaway that her version of feminism is that you support yourself. And her. And her kid. And any other children you produce unless you've had yours snipped. That's not "her version," it's just feminism. To paraphrase Baudelaire (among many others), the greatest trick the feminists ever pulled was convincing the world their movement was ever about equality.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen10/03/22 11:23 PM
1

Removed for rules 1 and 3.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen10/03/22 11:10 PM
9

Or, instead of adding unnecessary punctuation, just don't structure the sentence poorly in the first place.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen10/03/22 10:58 PM
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Yeah, the body language is stand-offish as hell all around, from the man's hand being safely placed on the back of her shoulder to her hips being in a different goddamn zip code.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen09/03/22 10:24 PM
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She says that she is a 7.5, but that is relative to other women her same age. Press X to doubt. To be clear, I'm not necessarily disagreeing with the logic of your assessment, but I highly doubt her self-assigned 7.5 has anything at all to do with comparisons to other women. The source is long gone but I remember reading somewhere, many moons ago, most people rate themselves about a 7. It's far enough below 10 to not seem conceited but still solidly in the top half of the scale to flatter the eg…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen08/03/22 03:53 PM
1

Doesn't fit rules for submission. Specifically: 5b. No posts of women who are merely fat, post-wall, unattractive, seeking sex or money, nor women merely behaving badly.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen04/03/22 11:03 PM
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On the one hand, at least you're not telling them to get a cat. I like cats. They're good people. They don't deserve that kind of train wreck in their lives. 'Course, I like dogs too, and they don't deserve that shit either. Maybe just get a stuffed animal. Lotso doesn't deserve that shit anymore than the dogs and cats do, but Lotso's an asshole.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen04/03/22 10:50 PM
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And now I'm wondering what this all means, if anything? It means he was hot and you want to fuck him. End of. There's nothing wrong with that. I see a lot of women I think are hot who I want to fuck. Everyone does. It's natural as can be. Thing is, most of us have no difficulty accepting the "want to fuck her/him" part isn't going to happen and just get on with our lives.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen04/03/22 10:33 PM
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I'm sure that she is thick and curvy also. Fat. You mean fat. Don't play their game of euphemisms.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen04/03/22 10:20 PM
5

Right. You make a solid point, but the situation you describe is also very much the exception that proves the rule. The majority of those kids went to public schools because the majority of kids period go to public schools. As did their parents and grandparents. Consequently, most people, when considering post-secondary education, likewise default to public universities. I agree with you about home and private schools generally being the better option and I encourage everyone to investigate thos…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen26/02/22 04:44 AM
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I've worked for academic institutions at the university/college level for most of the past 15 years. Having a solid moral foundation is absolutely important but, at this point, I've seen far too many good, honest kids raised by good, honest families turn into raging, blue-haired ham planets by their second year to believe that's all that's required anymore. It's certainly possible to attend university, keep your head down, get your degree and get out again with your values and sanity intact. It'…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen26/02/22 02:11 AM
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If he has $200 to spare, it should be for his sons' college. I agree with everything you wrote except this. At this point the vast majority of colleges and universities are nothing more than indoctrination centers. As Dennis Prager says, sending your children to college is playing Russian roulette with their values. If the career your kid is aiming for requires extra certification I'd strongly recommend targeted vocational training over traditional higher "education."
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen26/02/22 12:41 AM
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Or perhaps just the time for tough love. It's my understanding that, generally speaking, people who are genuinely suicidal don't threaten, they just do it. Threatening suicide is usually just a way to generate drama and make the individual doing so the center of attention. Don't feed the beast.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen25/02/22 04:00 PM
5

I'm familiar with the cliche, just treating it with all the seriousness it deserves.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen25/02/22 03:46 PM
13

Nah, they're fat. Though their bones might actually be slightly thicker than usual to support all that extra weight. Or maybe it's the opposite and they're actually weaker because of the constant strain. Either way, ain't none of 'em gettin' any of the bone they really want.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen25/02/22 03:28 PM
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You still do, you just like actually curvy women as opposed to delusional heifers.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen25/02/22 03:25 PM
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Bang on. Most men don't walk around shirtless, let alone flexing their muscles. But she doesn't see those men because they aren't the cream of the crop.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen25/02/22 01:52 AM
4

I'm pretty sure that's just patriarchy.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen23/02/22 08:28 PM
11

Removed for rule 1. We don't allow shaming men, most of whom simply don't know better because they were raised with the same bullshit blue pill programming many of us were. By all means, criticize bad behavior and poor decisions, but do so constructively. The rest of the world won't hesitate to shame a man for unwanted or "inappropriate" behaviors (which is to say, behavior they find inappropriate from you); part of our aim here is to educate men so they stop making the mistakes that lead to tha…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen19/02/22 08:18 PM
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Yeah, she's attractive enough she could probably land an older working class dude if she had a better attitude. Not for marriage, but a steady relationship with a divorcee with kids of his own? Entirely possible. Instead she'll shoot for the moon and wind up drifting cold and alone in empty space. Probably better that way for the hypothetical dude.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen19/02/22 06:21 AM
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That’s why the phrase “I want to have my cake and eat it too” exists to explain this. You don’t get both. The phrase should actually be stated "eat your cake and have it too." Implying you get to enjoy eating the cake yet still somehow have it to eat again after doing so. Somewhere along the way the wording got reversed in the popular lexicon in a way that doesn't make sense. As George Carlin famously quipped, "What good is cake if you can't eat it?!" /pedant
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen19/02/22 06:17 AM
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She's still attractive enough she might land an older working class guy if she had a better attitude. Probably not for marriage, but a steady relationship with a 40-50ish divorcee with kids of his own? Entirely possible. Instead she'll shoot for the moon and end up drifting cold and alone in empty space. Probably better that way for the hypothetical dude.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen19/02/22 06:06 AM
2

Just like the Soviet Union, then. I'm sure there were folks in the know about the impending collapse; expats, businessmen, those with solid political connections. As I understand it, however, to the average Joe on the street the USSR seemed to be chugging along just fine, just as it had done for decades prior. Right up until it wasn't anymore. ...though, thinking on it, I want to say the Berlin Wall came down a couple years(?) before the collapse, which makes me think my understanding might well…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen14/02/22 11:53 PM
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She had trouble dating because men were intimidated and thought they had to be rich too. Because they do. Stats don't lie. Relationships in which the woman out-earns the man (let alone by a substantial amount) simply don't last. Women want a man who's better than they are in every possible way. Bigger, stronger, faster, smarter, earns more money, etc. The absolute worst thing can happen to the health of a long-term relationship is for the woman to see you as her equal. Yes, I'm speaking in broad…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen13/02/22 05:18 PM
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I was gonna' say. Sure, they'll smash while they're in the clink and don't have any better options. If you think Pablo's gonna' bring the cell skank back home to Mom with him you're fooling yourself.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen09/02/22 09:00 PM
5

Man, that's Brian Thompson! Dude's fucking legendary for bit/supporting roles in various genre shows.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen09/02/22 08:44 PM
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Undoubtedly. Any time you see a woman list exclusions in a dating profile you can be pretty damn sure they're based in personal experience. Once you know how to spot it you'll find women tell on themselves all the time.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen09/02/22 02:22 AM
13

Nah, she's in the fuck zone. cue soft jazz solo
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen09/02/22 02:12 AM
13

I don't want [...] sex Newsflash, sweet cheeks: your envisioned male-shaped bailout will want sex. You are, of course, free to refuse him this desire at any time and for any reason. Just as he is free to refuse your desire for his leadership and resources at any time and for any reason. Equality's a bitch, ain't it?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen08/02/22 03:28 AM
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Right. I suppose I should have realized it was some sort of academic PC bullshit, given I work in academia. 'Course, that being the case, I've developed a pretty strong filter for such.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen07/02/22 09:43 PM
4

...right. Not enough coffee. Carry on, sir.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen07/02/22 09:41 PM
5

AAVE?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen07/02/22 07:47 PM
13

I'm willing to bet she capitulated that battle well before the troops were even lined up.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen07/02/22 07:47 PM
13

Nah, my money's on she's just lazy and willfully stupid. Nothing saying someone with a learning disability can't be lazy and willfully stupid too, of course; they're ultimately just as human as the rest of us. It's been my experience, however, most people who write like she does have absolutely nothing holding them back from doing better. They just don't care.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen07/02/22 07:45 PM
8

And just like a table I'll use her for whatever I need her for then get up and walk away.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen07/02/22 05:35 AM
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Oh, they'll still go for rough sex with the hawt guy if they feel they have a shot with him. They're just also willing to entertain the idea of twice-a-year paralyzed starfish sex with a "boring" stable guy now.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen07/02/22 05:08 AM
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Fair point. It's certainly not true men are only attracted to thin/athletic women. A few extra pounds isn't necessarily a deal breaker but, as you noted, it very much matters where and how she carries them, and attraction generally declines fairly precipitously with a body fat percentage much higher than 25-30%.
/r/RedPillWomen07/02/22 04:50 AM
1

Culture also affects how much men value certain attributes (bigger breasts/bottom) that are going to be more common in larger women. You have this exactly backward. Generally speaking, culture affects how women value certain attributes in men because women are, overall, much more agreeable and influenced by social standards. What men find attractive in women is (deeply) rooted almost entirely in biology. Golden hip-waist ratio, clear skin, long legs, symmetrical features and not excessively over…
/r/RedPillWomen06/02/22 04:31 PM
2

I'll have to look into that. Though, I'm not gonna' lie, working for a 2-year college has me pretty bloody determined to never actually attend classes at one (let alone at a "proper" 4-year indoctrination center university).
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen06/02/22 02:27 AM
4

Right. Thanks for the tip.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen05/02/22 10:27 PM
4

This whole “One day she will pay!” thing I hear so much in the RP is a huge cope. It depends how you look at it. You're right that women are rarely made to face direct consequences for their poor behavior. That doesn't mean they'll escape the natural consequences of poor decision making, as proven by all the inspins we see here. Any thin woman will always have a hundred thirsty pussy betas to date and marry her. Maybe try again without the Rule 1 violation.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen05/02/22 08:44 PM
6

It's a silly little point of pride to me that I've still never seen Titanic. At first because I was a headstrong teenager who wasn't going to subject myself to a sappy chick flick no matter how many accolades it won. Then because I'd simply forgotten about it and didn't care. In the last year or two, however, I've learned the actual story of the movie. A woman on her deathbed telling her children and (great) grandchildren about the greatest love of her life: not her husband, their (grand)father,…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen05/02/22 08:19 PM
5

Men view women as sex objects Except we don't. Women saying men objectify them is and always has been projection. Men don't objectify women. Men love women. Wholly and automatically, without ever consciously thinking about it. It's as natural to us as breathing. That's why red pill philosophy relies so heavily on discipline. Why TRP is constantly reminding men to be on guard against Oneitis and sliding back into blue pill thinking. Because that starry-eyed, idealistic/naive dreamer who truly bel…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen05/02/22 08:10 PM
2

Nobody will shame them if they start telling truth Fuck you I won't. Women who pull shit like this need to be shamed, both for their own good and that of wider society.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen05/02/22 07:22 PM
5

That's the silver lining to being "low income." I earn less than $50k annually, which ain't exactly a feather in my cap but, as a single man with no dependents, I don't need much to live pretty comfortably. More to the point, it pretty effectively weeds out the gold diggers.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen05/02/22 07:09 PM
4

I feel comfortable stating an MBA is pretty useless. Getting a business degree might give you some useful information but, generally speaking, the only effective way to learn to start/run a business is to do it. There truly is no substitute for experience. 'Course, that's generally true for everything outside STEM fields.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen05/02/22 06:51 PM
10

That's easy. Most men are either smart enough to see through or simply don't have time for that bullshit because we have to actually work for a living.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen05/02/22 06:51 PM
10

I've said it before, I'll say it again: Having big tits doesn't count if you're fat.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen30/01/22 04:21 PM
6

I'll cop to being more of a boobs guy, but that's irrelevant here. My point is I'm generally looking at the woman's face rather than either her boobs or butt, because that's where the expression of her pleasure is and seeing how much she's enjoying herself is one of the best parts of sex. I also expect cowgirl is plenty popular with most dudes but, as noted, it's a rare bird who both can and will put in the work to ride you like a porn star. Usually it's just up to the guy to go at it from below…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen29/01/22 04:11 PM
9

Alternatively, that's all she was offering. Either way, end result is the same.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen28/01/22 01:47 AM
12

"Men are not vending machines you put sex coins into until the relationship falls out!"
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen28/01/22 01:46 AM
14

It's just like Patrice O'Neal said: most guys don't "only want sex" unless that's all you're offering. I could get to know a girl over a couple months, slowly building a connection and anticipation before we have sex, then go on to build a relationship with her. I could also fuck a girl the same day I met her then go on to build a relationship with her. It's not about when the sex happens. It's about what, if any, extra value she adds to my life beyond the gratification of getting laid instead o…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen28/01/22 01:26 AM
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I haven't done a survey or anything but I'm willing to bet, generally speaking, most guys' go-to/favorite sex position is missionary. Not because we're boring or afraid of trying something new, but because one of the most gratifying aspects of sex (right up there with busting a nut yourself) is seeing the pleasure in the expression of the woman you're with as she gets off and knowing you got her there. The burden of performance is a real thing and often a real pain in the ass. As long as a man h…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen28/01/22 12:59 AM
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As with so much else for which women criticize men, part of the whole "nice guy" thing is simple projection. It's true women are not vending machines into which one may deposit kindness coins until the sex falls out. It's also true that men are not vending machines into which one may deposit sex coins until the commitment falls out. Yet we only ever hear about the first half of that dynamic.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen27/01/22 03:50 PM
21

This used to be common knowledge. The kind of basic shit passed down from parents to children as a matter of course. Dad knows what teenage boys and single young men are like and Mom knows, given the opportunity, her daughter will ruin her own life chasing tingles. That's why families and communities put controls on sexual expression and agency.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen27/01/22 03:48 PM
1

Yeah, I just listened to the first hour or so while cooking dinner. I don't expect I'll regret muscling through it, just gotta' split it into chunks, as you said.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen25/01/22 01:39 AM
1

That is a long video. And I already have way too much in my watch later queue. sighs, unzips | Here we go again...
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen24/01/22 10:50 PM
4

"Easy to learn, difficult to master" is how I've heard it described. As I understand it, that's a large part of why English has become the de-facto language of international trade and finance.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen22/01/22 07:35 PM
3

This is the best response. Which is saying something when there's also a response by Whisper.
/r/RedPillWomen22/01/22 04:48 PM
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Had to look up what an SMLE is. Now I have the Firefly quote running through my head. Jayne : Six men came to kill me one time. And the best of 'em carried this. It's a Callahan full-bore auto-lock. Customized trigger, double cartridge thorough gauge. It is my very favorite gun. Mal : [exclaims in Chinese] You offering me a trade? Jayne : A trade? Hell, it's theft. This the best gun made by man. It has extreme sentimental value. It's miles more worthy 'n what you got! Mal : What I got? She has a…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen22/01/22 04:34 PM
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Which leads straight into one of my favorite jokes. English isn't a proper language. It's three pseudo-languages standing atop one another's shoulders in a trench coat pretending to be a proper language. This is usually immediately proceeded by it following a proper language down a dark alley, knocking it over the head and going through its pockets for loose grammar. This is also why English is so much fun to play with. Hardly original, I know, but it amuses me all the same.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen22/01/22 03:18 AM
3

Yup. It may have started in universities with Marxist professors, but at this point it's a cultural affliction.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen22/01/22 02:35 AM
3

Hey! Now you're stealing my line!
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen22/01/22 02:32 AM
2

Solid rule of thumb regarding Peterson: any time he's on any sort of legacy media program, no matter which network or who's interviewing him, assume it's a hatchet job until proven otherwise. As for his daughter, the short version is after he got famous she left her husband and their son to shack up with some lowlife thug because tingles. I don't know, but I suspect the fact her dad had achieved a degree of celebrity led her to think she was now a celebrity, which obviously meant she "deserves b…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen22/01/22 02:28 AM
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Huh. I'd never considered that. I know English originally evolved out of German, or whatever the equivalent of Old German is called, which is still a gendered language (as are most European languages, to my understanding). Makes sense there would be some holdovers. Thanks for the history lesson, sir!
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen22/01/22 02:07 AM
10

In short, it means to anthropomorphize an object and speak/behave as if the object were sentient, with a personality, moods and desires of its own. In truth, it's hardly limited to men. Lots of people do this with all kinds of objects. Men do seem to engage in the behavior a fair bit more in my experience, though.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen22/01/22 01:15 AM
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Shit like this is why I argue feminist claims of men objectifying women's bodies is pure projection. They have it exactly backwards. Women objectify men. We're success objects. Or status objects. Or, indeed,sex objects. Men, conversely, subjectivity objects by feminizing them. Sailors commonly refer to their ship as "she." If a stuntman pulls off a wild move in a racecar then reaches down, pats the hood and mutters "good girl," no one thinks anything of it.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen21/01/22 09:13 PM
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She said it herself: Dude had to call the cops on her after she went to his place to confront him about it because she tried to fight him and his wife. Women always try to hide their crazy. This one straight up admits to getting violent and needing to be removed by force without even trying to justify or put a positive spin on it. Meaning she doesn't consider that to be crazy behavior. That's normal for her. God bless that man for sticking it out for the sake of his kids like he did. I shudder t…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen21/01/22 09:03 PM
8

For all the jokes about men not understanding women, I'm more convinced every day that women understand men even less. Worse, most of them don't even make the attempt. For all your average blue pill guy's social/sexual ineptitude, the dude's usually at least trying to figure out what he's doing wrong and what women want so he can aim for that. Most women never even think to consider what men want; they just list their demands and wait for a worthy applicant to show up and fill the position - the…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen21/01/22 06:00 PM
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To borrow one of u/Typo-MAGAshiv's taglines, fucker beat me to it! If you're looking abroad for a good woman you'd better be prepared to settle down and assimilate into the family and culture that made her that way. If you bring her back to the West, especially if you bring her back to a big city,1 you're effectively setting yourself up for failure. 1 I don't just mean NY and LA here. Denver, Phoenix, Nashville, St. Louis, even fucking Salt Lake - they're all "big" cities for their respective re…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen21/01/22 05:43 PM
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I have to wonder how much conflation is going on there. I technically have herpes, in that I occasionally get cold sores on my upper lip. But you and I and they know damn well that's not what people mean when they say someone has herpes.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen21/01/22 05:25 PM
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No, they just don't understand men don't care about their accomplishments. Women want a man with a good job, nice car and his own place so they just assume men must care about that stuff too. That's why they list those things as positives in dating profiles. Never even occurs to most of 'em that men might want different things in a partner than women do.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen20/01/22 06:51 PM
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This isn't absolutely true for any woman (or any person, for that matter), but it's absolutely not true for single mothers. There is just about nothing a woman can do to irreversibly retard her own romantic prospects more than having another man's child. Some men are willing to accept the prospect of raising someone else's kid if the woman offers enough other positives to balance the scales, so to speak, but there is not and has never been a man who doesn't see it as, at best, an obstacle to be …
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen20/01/22 03:39 AM
1

Fuck online dating. I’m currently in a happy relationship with my motorcycle. You too, eh? I finally got my girl back after a rear-end collision on the freeway on the way to work at the end of August. Fucking insurance company dragging their damned feet cost me the rest of the season and cost me an extra $200 to get it home now it's too bloody cold out to ride. Still the best relationship I've been in since 18.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen20/01/22 03:24 AM
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I appreciate the perspective, sir, and I agree with you.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen20/01/22 03:12 AM
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That's the ideal, but most men are pragmatic enough to be willing to settle for less. I'm 36, 5'8" and make less than $50k working for a community college. I'm in reasonably good shape and comfortably well-off as a bachelor but Chad I ain't and well I know it. Much as I'd like to shack up with a debt-free 24-year-old who's only ever had one boyfriend/sexual partner, I'm wise enough to cast a wider net than that. I wouldn't mind dating a 30-year-old woman, I'm not even fundamentally opposed to da…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen19/01/22 06:06 AM
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I wouldn't have any problem dating a 33-year-old woman (36 myself), provided she's pleasant to be around and actually adds value to my life. I suspect most "older" men feel similarly. There's nothing fundamentally unappealing about 30+ women, especially if they've taken good care of themselves. The problem isn't their age, it's their attitudes. Most of them have long since lost/forsaken the sense of childlike optimism and innocence men find appealing, and have developed absolutely nothing of val…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen19/01/22 02:00 AM
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It's like /u/Aldabruzzo said below. If there is no timely documentation, no attempt to deal with the problem here and now, one must inevitably assume no crime was committed. Maybe that means genuine perpetrators walk free. Better that than hysterical witch hunts like #metoo ruining the lives of men who may or may not be guilty but who will never receive a fair trial, let alone a chance to confront their accuser(s).
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen19/01/22 01:51 AM
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Foreign women are still women. You may have better luck in a less prosperous, more patriarchal culture, but even there you'll find ubersluts and selfish cunts who won't hesitate to lie and use their social power to ruin you over some (perceived) slight. Even the genuinely good ones will turn on you if you're naive/dumb enough to bring 'em back to the States. I don't say this to spread nihilistic, black pill bullshit and discourage guys from even trying, but to caution men against indulging in gr…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen18/01/22 08:33 PM
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Nor I, but I've known men who have and I've enough experience of my own to know, as wonderful as having regular access to sex is, it's often just not worth all the bullshit that comes along with it. It probably also helps I'm old enough now my testosterone ain't doing all my thinking for me.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen18/01/22 07:51 PM
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She was trying to make the sensible mature decision… Bullshit. She was trying to dodge the consequences of her own poor choices. One of my nieces was born to a woman who had problems with drugs and couldn't adequately care for herself, let alone her daughter1, so she gave the kid to my oldest brother and his wife to adopt. Said niece is now a healthy teenage girl, big into athletics at her school and outdoor activities, and just generally happy and a joy to be around. I understand anecdotes are …
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen18/01/22 05:40 AM
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No. Her parents may share their part of the blame for how she turned out, but ultimate accountability for her decisions lies with her and her alone. It's easy to blame shitty parenting when you weren't there as the individual in question was growing up and don't know the details. And, to be sure, there are some supremely shitty parents in the world. Probably a lot more than I realize, even. On the other hand, I've known more than enough people who were products of stable, loving homes in which t…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen18/01/22 12:16 AM
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Nah, it's a confession. It's like the old Foxworthy bit about lines women use and what they really mean: Guys, if a woman says to you "I think we should start seeing other people," trust me: she has already cut a pony from the herd and, if she ain't riding him yet, she has pulled the saddle out o' the barn.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen17/01/22 06:30 AM
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For his sake and the sake of his kids, I certainly hope so.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen17/01/22 06:25 AM
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Sorry, bitch. Your shitty life choices are not my financial responsibility. Tell you what, though; I'll offer an alternative: Put your daughter, for whom you obviously can't provide, up for adoption. It's the best thing for both of you. Keeping her by your side as you live on the street isn't love, it's selfishness, and it's exposing her to all kinds o' risks she wouldn't face otherwise. Once your daughter's being provided for by someone as can actually afford to do so, join a nunnery. They'll t…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen15/01/22 05:39 PM
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Fuck that. Her shitty life choices are not my (or your) financial responsibility. What she needs to do is give the kid(s) up for adoption and join a fucking nunnery so she can't ruin anymore lives.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen15/01/22 05:29 PM
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"For every woman, no matter how stunningly beautiful, there is a man who is utterly sick of her shit."
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen15/01/22 12:10 AM
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I mean, legally he is. 'Course, we've all seen how much that counts for lately.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen15/01/22 12:07 AM
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Fuck, what are the odds of that inside of sports?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen15/01/22 12:00 AM
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I think maybe she meant anti-BLM, not that that makes much of a difference. Oh, it makes a difference. I couldn't give a fuck less if you're black. I absolutely do give a fuck if you're a communist. Don't blame her, though, she also says she likes country music, so I see one or two confederate flags hanging up in her house. I really want to be flippant here and say something along the lines of "better a flag on your wall than your thug brother's bones in the back yard," but that's unhelpful. Alm…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen14/01/22 11:59 PM
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Fair enough. I work in shipping and receiving, so I get where you're coming from. It doesn't take much to be an entry-level box chucker in a warehouse, but if you want to move up from there you need to have a decent head on your shoulders - and it's depressing how many folks can't even seem to meet the standard for entry-level box chucking.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen14/01/22 03:08 AM
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I don't disagree at all, but that's entirely beside my point. I never said you don't need to be intelligent to be a successful tradesman, merely that you don't need to have a university degree to have a successful and lucrative career.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen14/01/22 02:55 AM
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Anyone who tells you you need a university degree to get a good job and be professionally successful is lying to you - and very possibly themselves. Have a gander at how much a competent welder makes. Or a diesel mechanic. Hell, even plumbers and electricians generally do pretty damn well for themselves (I say that not to disparage the latter, but they tend to be rather more common than the former due to supply and demand).
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen14/01/22 02:03 AM
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My thoughts exactly. He's a "naive, oblivious, childish boy with a dead-end, low-paying job, a microdick and a double digit IQ." I very much doubt even half of that is true, but we'll be generous and take her at her word. And she's the dumb bitch who agreed to marry him.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen14/01/22 01:58 AM
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This one feels borderline rule 5. She certainly has the complaining and entitled or unreasonable parts down, but she's not really looking for commitment. She's just being a cunt.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen14/01/22 01:54 AM
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I don't hate Chad for his success with women. I am critical of how some Chads choose to use that success, leaving a string of broken homes and bastards in their wake for whom you and I will be picking up the tab via taxation to fund well intended but shortsighted social programs. It all comes down to accountability.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen12/01/22 05:36 AM
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It's also a cultural institution which has value beyond the material or political. That shit matters far more than a lot of purely secular/materialistic folks believe it does. This coming from one who used to be a purely secular/materialistic type who, sure enough, didn't understand the value of the metaphysical/mythological and foolishly thought it all so much superstitious nonsense.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen12/01/22 04:41 AM
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They'll certainly eat well for a week or two when she inevitably dies alone.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen12/01/22 04:30 AM
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Your link seems to be broken, sir.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen12/01/22 04:25 AM
1

Best part of Halo 4 was Spartan Ops. I was always player 2 and I finally got to play a proper goddamn Spartan who wasn't just a mute copy of MC (of Noble 6). Even got to customize his armor. I was having so much fun I genuinely didn't even notice the maps being reused until I read about people bitching about it online while looking up why we never got a second season.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen12/01/22 04:10 AM
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When I see the height requirements, then it tells me that you are: shallow, an idiot, need people to think highly of you (so you must have low self esteem) and don't really give a shit about the person you're dating. Yup. As with so many women (especially those highlighted here), she's not really looking for a man. She's looking for an accessory to slot into the man-shaped hole in her fantasy.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen10/01/22 10:31 PM
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It's 'cause her smile doesn't touch her eyes. I'll be generous and allow for the possibility she's simply caked on too much makeup. Or maybe it's one of those stupid filters digitally smoothing out her features. Regardless, it looks like a psycho smile.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen10/01/22 10:28 PM
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Are you? Calling attention to the woman's race implies her problems are somehow linked with her ethnicity, rather than simply poor behavior which may be and is exhibited by people in general. The woman in the OP is a train wreck because of the poor decisions she's made in life. Those have absolutely nothing to do with the color of her skin. To imply otherwise is the literal definition of racial discrimination.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen07/01/22 06:41 PM
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Not a mod, actually, but definitely one of our regulars. Both the shitbags comment and his stories from Chad make for excellent reading. /u/mustangfrank
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen07/01/22 05:53 AM
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Reminds me of elementary school logic. "You just hate X because you're no good at it!" Well... yeah. As a general rule, rational people don't willingly subject themselves to unpleasant activities from which they derive no satisfaction or benefit.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen07/01/22 05:48 AM
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This talk of men objectifying women is projection: They objectify us. Yup. Conversely, men subjectify inanimate objects by likening/comparing them to women. "She's a fine ship." "She'll fly true." A man pats his car after pulling off some crazy stunt and mutters "Good girl."
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen07/01/22 05:11 AM
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This would probably work for weekend content, but as is it doesn't really fit the theme of the sub.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen06/01/22 03:10 AM
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I don't care. I wasn't objecting to your ethnicity. You could be black, brown, red, yellow or pink-and-purple-striped with ultraviolet polka dots and it wouldn't make a lick o' difference.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen06/01/22 12:42 AM
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Bullshit. Weak men have obviously played their part in this whole debacle but that doesn't absolve women, whether feral or not, of accountability for their own poor behavior. Stop blaming men for women's bad choices.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen05/01/22 08:13 PM
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Black women have been leading the charge in having multiple bastards by multiple different men for decades. Asians have traditionally lagged behind but that's changing too. This ain't a "white" problem, it's a feral woman problem. Fuck off with that racist bullshit.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen05/01/22 03:29 PM
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She keeps saying it can never work again after how much "they hurt each other." No, bitch. It can never work again after how much you hurt him. Even by your own acknowledge-I-made-a-mistake-while-trying-desperately-to-avoid-any-responsibility-for-my-own-actions account, dude fought tooth and fucking nail to keep you and save what you had long after you'd given up the ghost (but still kept stringing him along because you hadn't found anything better yet). You wanted out. You wanted to chase Chad.…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen04/01/22 03:36 PM
4

Absolutely. Turns out the folks who built the civilization we're so busy tearing down knew a thing or two about how people work and what makes for stable, prosperous societies. Who'da thunk it?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen03/01/22 03:34 PM
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I'm the youngest of six. My dad was is1 the oldest of six. My oldest brother has seven kids. My mom was somewhere in the middle of fourteen children, 9 or 10 of whom, I believe, lived to adulthood. All of us are/were happy, healthy, productive members of society. Of course, all of us are/were also the product of committed marriages which (have) lasted as long as both spouses lived. 1 Not sure how that one slipped past me. Dad's still very much alive, thank goodness.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen02/01/22 06:38 PM
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Good spot. "I do things I know full well repel the men in whom I'm interested, but I'll deal with that later." Just breezes right past it without any acknowledgement at all.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen02/01/22 12:15 AM
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He had a trade while she has a degree. OP has pointed out in other replies she mentions her degree no less than three times in her screed. Safe money's on she earned her degree (for which he probably paid) then decided a lowly tradesman wasn't good enough for her anymore, so she nuked her family, won the house and kid in the divorce and is now discovering men don't care about women's accomplishments, let alone their delusional entitlement.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen02/01/22 12:12 AM
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After college we moved to a big city There's your mistake. Most women behave like a liquid: they take whatever form the society they live in dictates. So you found a nice Mexican girl, presumably from a small town where her family and the wider community expect her to maintain positive values like chastity, fidelity and humility - then moved her to a big city where there is no community and all her new girlfriends are going to drag her down to their level to share in their misery. Hopefully you'…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen29/12/21 08:09 PM
9

Yup. If a woman mentions sex, especially in a negative context, it's because she's already thinking of fucking you.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen26/12/21 06:41 AM
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I've heard it expressed thusly: The text is for Billy, the picture is for Chad. Essentially she's trying to eat her cake and have it too, and either doesn't realize or doesn't care the men she wants are perfectly capable of seeing through the obvious doublespeak and identifying her for the opportunistic whore she is.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen24/12/21 11:56 PM
11

Man, what did Paul Wight ever do to deserve that?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen21/12/21 03:43 PM
3

'i wanted to be a mother more than a wife' - So adopt.. Haven't the orphans been through enough already?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen20/12/21 11:27 PM
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I remember someone saying a while back that women itemize tasks to make themselves look better in these "comparisons." She ran the laundry (by loading the machine and pushing a button), cooked breakfast (by throwing it in the microwave and pushing a button), cleaned the floors (by plugging in the vacuum and pushing a button), etc. Meanwhile all he did was go to work (doing, say, construction). Never mind that her list boils down to "I pushed a couple dozen buttons" while he literally engaged in …
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen20/12/21 03:52 PM
1

Oh, it's there. It's just exclusively targeted at men.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen16/12/21 04:24 PM
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r/TheRedPill
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen14/12/21 10:40 PM
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That's the thing: you can. Read the side bar on TRP. Follow that shit religiously. Work to make yourself into a man women want. Give it a year, two tops and, if you've actually done as they guys there directed you to, you'll find yourself swimming in eager young sluts. If you come back and tell me you did all that shit and none of it worked I'm going to call you a liar. It is a truly exceptional man who can't reshape his life by putting in the necessary time and effort to make it happen. You may…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen14/12/21 10:07 PM
3

Aposematism. It doesn't really translate to humans in the proper biological sense, but it's sufficiently useful as a metaphor we don't fuss over the details.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen09/12/21 03:53 PM
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Not even good boobs. Those things are gonna' flop around like sacks of suet.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen09/12/21 03:30 PM
3

Fair point. I chose my words poorly again - I've been under the weather for the past week or so, which is also why it's taken me so long to respond here. I understand feminism is not an aberration but female nature concentrated and codified into a political ideology. My oldest niece grew up on a farm, first in Utah then in North Dakota, and she seems to be turning into a blue hair radical just like my sister. I don't dream of finding an untainted unicorn on a farm somewhere. It's more a matter o…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen08/12/21 08:54 PM
10

Believe it or not, there's more to life than busting a nut, and even banging college hotties can lose its appeal once you've done it enough times.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen06/12/21 03:30 PM
4

That's still gambling with what any given caretaker may teach my child in the time they have available with her/him during the most formative and impressionable years of the child's life. That's not a risk I'm willing to take.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen05/12/21 04:19 AM
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Fortunately I'm not in Canada and, as noted, I've studied the common law statute as well as can be without having an attorney explain the details to me. If/when I reach the point I'm looking at sharing a living space with a woman I'll do that to ensure I properly understand the legal terrain I'm standing on.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen05/12/21 04:17 AM
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And maybe, just maybe, you can have a "partner" like the one you envision in a farm girl from who-knows-where that is not poisoned by the cultural war that we live in. That's the dream. I still have a fair bit of work to do on myself before I'm like to be in a position to benefit from that. Just gotta' keep plugging away. I appreciate the support, sir. Being associated with Marcus Aurelius is high praise. Not sure I deserve that either, but I'm certainly grateful for the kind words.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen05/12/21 04:15 AM
5

Best I can do is some boxed wine. The grapes don't deserve that either, but at least it'll be over quickly in their case.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen05/12/21 04:08 AM
15

That's just the thing: she's not asking that question. Not really. She doesn't give a fuck what men want. She's asking what Chad wants. Except she's not really asking that either. She's asking why Chad doesn't want her. And he's not answering because he's already moved on to the next available slut.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen05/12/21 04:05 AM
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I wouldn't say never. Good women do exist. They may be only slightly more common than hen's teeth in most western nations, but they're still out there. Additionally, while claims of non-western women being more conservative and traditional are often overblown, there is some truth to them. The trick being you have to keep the woman in the culture that instilled those values into her in the first place. Most women behave like a liquid: they take whatever form the community they live in dictates to…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen04/12/21 06:24 AM
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I appreciate the advice but, if I'm ever going to have children, I'm going to do it with their mother or not at all. Single fathers seem to do a better job of raising children than single mothers, but that may simply be down to how rare it is for a father to get primary (let alone sole) custody, so only those men with sufficient means and motivation actually achieve that, skewing the result. Also, as you noted, I'd necessarily need to be handing the kid off to someone else to help teach her/him …
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen04/12/21 04:36 AM
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Girl you are 18. Getting married should not be your priority right now. Perhaps not but, if she wants to land a good man, getting herself ready for marriage absolutely should be. Fortunately for her she can get started on that by simply following the advice offered to her above.
/r/RedPillWomen04/12/21 04:27 AM
6

Right. Silly me. Just as all the best writers will tell you "tell, don't show."
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen04/12/21 12:37 AM
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Solid point. I may have chosen my words poorly there. When I think of commitment these days I generally think of something more akin to what you describe: consciously choosing to love your partner because you understand the two of you do better pulling together than either would on their own. I'm well aware of how fleeting and ultimately useless infatuation is, not least because foolishly chasing that high is no small part of how I ended up where I am. Nor am I about to surrender myself to the f…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen04/12/21 12:33 AM
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Mgtow or RP hookups is what's left for men to stay single and happy. Well, single and not completely miserable, anyway. I've accepted the harsh truths of female psychology but understanding the nature of the problem doesn't make it not a problem. I'm still lonely as fuck and want to build a life and legacy with a partner. I can and do find other ways to occupy my time and add meaning and value to my life, but I'll always feel the absence of that intimate connection with a woman I care deeply abo…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen03/12/21 08:08 PM
21

I decided I deserve more and better Yeah, that's now how that works. You are not the arbiter of "what you deserve." Other people are. Specifically the people who have whatever it is you want. Those men expressing interest in you (only now that you're fit, mind)? They get to decide whether you "deserve" their time, attention and resources. Presumably many of them already know you're married. They probably also know how little you think of your husband - and why - because narcissistic cunts like y…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen03/12/21 04:09 PM
6

I believe you just answered your own question. She's wearing those stripper heels precisely because she's a "professional."
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen02/12/21 05:21 AM
3

No, she needs to be sterilized and shipped off to a convent. One where the sisters ain't afraid to get medieval on her ass.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen30/11/21 08:29 PM
21

I've seen it said on other posts here, and I think it generally bears out: the pictures are for Chad. The text is for Billy.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen27/11/21 09:00 PM
1

Yup. It's probably the biggest mistake women make, tied with the assumption men have the same criteria for partner selection as women do. So they put all their focus on academic achievement and career advancement but still pull sport fucks from Chad while they're young, giving them a slew of false positives that reinforce their flawed model.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen27/11/21 02:45 AM
2

Or because "fun in bed" is literally all she offers, and no woman is so incredible in the sack as to be worth the other 12+ hours (being conservative there) of putting up with her shit.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen26/11/21 12:36 AM
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Can I give a man I want what he wants? That's the key. I see this woman falling into the trap of thinking having sex too early may be what's driving these men away. "Maybe if I held the pussy hostage and made them wait longer for it they'd respect me more and I'd have more success." What she and many other women fail to realize is it's not the quick-and-easy sex that's driving (most) men away, it's the subsequent realization that's all she has to offer. She sums it up right there in her opening …
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen25/11/21 07:05 PM
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Most women behave like liquid: they take whatever form the society they live in dictates to them. Near as I can tell, this is a significant part of why patriarchal societies that heavily police women's behavior are generally the most successful.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen25/11/21 06:26 PM
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"Wake me up with a blowjob" has become one of my unspoken litmus tests for commitment, as it seems a reasonably good way to gauge her desire for me as an individual. As demonstrated by the OP, a woman who's only/primarily interested in what you can provide for her may respond positively to sexual advances in order to keep the gravy train rolling, but she's not likely to initiate herself. A woman who can't keep her hands (and other parts) off you even when you're not conscious, however, is a woma…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen25/11/21 05:15 AM
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Not for the first time: I genuinely wish I knew the individuals involved so I could show this to the husband and do my best to help him through the inevitable fallout.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen25/11/21 04:56 AM
1

Agreed. Such shameless exploitation of another human's desires is among the most vile sins an individual can commit. These women are not sympathetic victims of circumstance. They're loathsome parasites deserving of nothing but scorn and derision.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen25/11/21 04:53 AM
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This only happens because men put these attributes out there Bullshit. No one's forcing these women to marry a man toward whom they feel no sexual attraction. They're making that decision because they see a direct benefit to themselves in doing so. Stop blaming men for women's bad behavior.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen25/11/21 04:43 AM
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The natural thing is for women to conform to the values of the society in which they live. In the modern west that means exactly what you said. A hundred years ago and for a long time before that it meant, in broad strokes, learning to be virtuous and pleasant, to keep a home and remain chaste until married. Of course, even a hundred years ago there were exceptions to this, particularly amongst wealthy socialite women in the prosperity of big cities. Generally speaking, however, even the wildest…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen24/11/21 06:18 AM
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There were. They were raised by The Patriarchy™ and everyone was better for it - especially the women.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen23/11/21 03:40 PM
3

Bold of you to assume she ever managed to convince a man to marry her.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen23/11/21 03:30 PM
2

I mean, it's right there in his flair.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen21/11/21 06:16 PM
4

"You have to understand, I hurt you for your own good. When I ruined your life, I was actually doing you a favor." I'd make a comparison to cartoon villainy but I'm pretty sure Snidely Whiplash would be offended - and rightly so. He never did anything nearly so sociopathic and vile.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen21/11/21 06:14 PM
2

I mean, it's right there in OP's flair.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen21/11/21 06:11 PM
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Women will cry all day that they can only seem to find jerks to date, and why aren’t there any niCe gUyS, The corollary to this is when women say "All men are [insert your epithet of choice]." To which the correct response is, "No, the men you choose to date/fuck are [insert your epithet of choice]. It's not all men's fault your partner picker is shit."
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen21/11/21 06:10 PM
4

Not for the first time, I genuinely wish I knew the people involved here. I'd show the man this post and do my best to help him through the inevitable fallout.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen21/11/21 06:06 PM
3

She asked what she should do. I answered.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen21/11/21 06:04 PM
2

True, but I wasn't offering this as a prediction. She asked what she should do. I simply endeavored to answer.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen21/11/21 06:02 PM
4

Agreed. I've literally no expectation anything even approaching this scenario will actually come to pass, but she asked what she should do, so I answered.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen21/11/21 06:01 PM
3

I never said it would. She asked what she should do. I answered.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen21/11/21 06:00 PM
5

No, that's what feminists said feminism was about. Red Pill 101: Don't listen to what women say. Watch what (and who) they do.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen21/11/21 05:57 PM
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What should I do? Understand you've lied to, misled and cheated this man you claim to love. Accept full responsibility for your sins and set about making things right. Sit your husband down, explain the situation, apologize for deceiving him and agree to an annulment of your marriage. Do not ask for or expect anything from him following this decision and do not allow him to give you anything out of any sort of misguided sense of obligation. Have the both of you get together with an attorney to g…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen20/11/21 08:08 PM
3

I think I feel a name change comin' on.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen20/11/21 04:10 AM
7

Man, what did cats ever do to deserve that?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen20/11/21 04:09 AM
3

I believe the scientific term is "hippopotamic landmass."
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen20/11/21 04:07 AM
4

She probably assumed, as we all did, that one went without saying.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen20/11/21 04:06 AM
8

Yes, officer? I'd like to report a murder.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen20/11/21 04:03 AM
5

"Hiding" implies it isn't the cow wearing the dress.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen20/11/21 03:58 AM
1

Except the last three, which are the qualities her exes did have but she doesn't like (anymore).
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen20/11/21 03:49 AM
2

UK English slang for redhead.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen20/11/21 03:48 AM
4

Yup. She's telling on herself and doesn't even realize it.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen20/11/21 03:39 AM
15

Marriage market value. Also expressed as RMV, or relationship market value.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen20/11/21 03:37 AM
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I never liked when someone says "They want to learn and grow with you." It really just means they want you to be better than they are. A: All women want a man who's better than they are. B: While it's doubtless merely a pleasant-sounding platitude in the case of this one, a woman learning and growing with you as you build a life together is actually the ideal way of doing things, or so it seems to me. The trick being she has to be young and chaste enough to contribute her fertility and support t…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen18/11/21 11:15 PM
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I want to experience love without trust issues & commitment issues & 3rd party situations & lack of integrity & sneaky link ups behind my back & not having to beg to be loved & treated right & heard & seen & reciprocation is mutual?? Good grief. If you know what to look for you'll find most women tell on themselves, but this is another level entirely. Combine that with her "interest" in money, getting money, "real" men and... "melanated" men. Jesus wept.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen17/11/21 12:58 AM
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she/her And I've already moved on.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen16/11/21 07:33 PM
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You noticed that too, eh? My guess is she cheated on him, possibly with her "abusive" ex. It's worth noting she stayed with Mr. "Abusive" for four years. No mention of when they moved in together but I'm gonna' go out on a perpendicular tree trunk and assume that didn't happen at 3 years and 11 months.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen16/11/21 06:24 PM
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Women do what works to get commitment. The existence of this sub strongly suggests otherwise.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen16/11/21 05:41 PM
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Looks like we've found ourselves a [https://heartiste.org/2009/05/19/be-a-skittles-man](skittles man). Edit: I've tried editing the formatting three times and don't see what I'm doing wrong. Fuck it; it stays broken.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen16/11/21 05:27 PM
2

I'm calling bullshit. She may well be kind and helpful to her friends and family but she is not a good person at heart. Good people don't want shit people in their lives.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen16/11/21 05:22 PM
1

Even then, they're not tired of the games. They still love the games. They're just tired of losing.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen16/11/21 04:54 PM
3

I am, as ever, honored. I'm still hoping to someday be witty enough to merit one of you giving me a flair unprompted. Which is totally not me just passing the buck because I'm too lazy to come up with my own. That's my story and I'm stickin' to it.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen12/11/21 11:49 PM
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I think u/fry11j hit the nail on the head: She: sapiosexual Also she: looking for an athletic tall guy Look, women, we get it: you like tall, athletic guys for the same reason men like thin girls with big tits. It makes your no-no spot happy. Difference being most men don't bother obfuscating it behind fancy language in an effort to not appear shallow.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen11/11/21 10:57 PM
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currently I've been 5'8" for at least 20 years now, but I was told when I was little I can be anything I want to be. Keep that dream alive! Seriously, I don't know why, but that had me laughing my ass off. Thanks for the pick-me-up, sir.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen10/11/21 07:06 AM
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Accusations of bigotry have lost all power for me. If I'm speaking to someone and they tell me another individual is a racist or misogynist or any other type of istophobe my immediate response is to wonder what angle the person providing that information is working, followed immediately by wanting to get to know the one being accused based on the likelihood they're probably just a regular Joe or Jane who simply doesn't buy into the bullshit. Which isn't to say genuine bigotry doesn't exist, of c…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen10/11/21 07:01 AM
5

In Utah? That would be something to see.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen09/11/21 01:31 AM
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Don't fall prey to the apex fallacy. Celebrities and the ridiculously wealthy don't live in the same world as the rest of us. The stuff they deal with and how things fall out for them don't necessarily track to the experiences of normal folks.
/r/RedPillWomen09/11/21 01:27 AM
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No "sometimes" about it. It's a fundamental truth of the universe right up there with the infinite abundance of human stupidity: attraction is not negotiable. I met a girl at a convention several years back who immediately piqued my interest. A little chubby, but not terribly overweight, and very cute. We hit it off and, as the con was ending for the night and she lived nearby, she invited me back to her place so we could continue enjoying each others' company. Naive idiot that I was, I didn't s…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen09/11/21 12:53 AM
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I haven't looked into the matter too closely myself, I've just seen propaganda "news" reports about her being a "maverick" and immediately rolled my eyes so hard I pulled a muscle. I generally don't keep a particularly close watch on most news beyond what I hear directly from friends and neighbors, as precious little of it has any appreciable impact on my day-to-day affairs and I learned long ago the futility of allowing myself to stress about things over which I have absolutely no control. Not …
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen07/11/21 10:48 PM
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I can't speak to the other guy, but Sinema is anything but centrist/conservative. She's as dyed-in-the-wool lefty as they come. Why she's dragging her feet on this I don't know, though I suspect she's simply playing the role The Swamp has assigned her to reel in the more ridiculous demands of "the Squad."
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen07/11/21 10:20 PM
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He (obviously) wasn't referring to your physical location, Tony. Just never encountered this level of lacking self awareness before You must be new here. Pull up a chair, stick around a while. And prepare to lose any and all hope you've somehow retained in the inherent wonderfulness of women up to this point.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen07/11/21 04:25 PM
1

Sure they do. They'll just run 'em off the printer like they did last year.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen07/11/21 03:59 PM
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There are a couple salient observations to be made here. First and foremost is the reinforcement of what some of us learned in grade school before IQ tests fell out of fashion for being too objectively accurate. Generally speaking, men have much better spatial perception and understanding than women do. This is why men are generally better drivers than women. Yes, young men pay higher insurance premiums than young women do, but that's not because young men are more accident-prone; quite the oppo…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen06/11/21 11:11 PM
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Yup. I'm the youngest of five boys and, at 5'8", the only one in my immediate family under 6' (fuck you too, genetics). My dad is the oldest of six boys, their heights ranging from 6'2"-ish all the way down to 5'6". Their dad, meanwhile, was right about my height in his prime.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen06/11/21 10:32 PM
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It's been ages since I've seen Gone with the Wind, but as I recall the entire reason Rhett Butler was regarded as such a scandalous character was precisely because he took Scarlett out to dinner somewhere without any familial supervision.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen05/11/21 11:51 PM
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What really got under my skin though was after the Chads I knew got a wedding ring the number of women interested in them actually increased somehow. Preselection is a hell of a drug. And the bane of every normal single guy's existence 'til he learns how the game is played.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen05/11/21 11:41 PM
2

Hey, I resemble that!
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen05/11/21 05:50 AM
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I agree, but I think this one's pretty clearly telling on herself: No hook ups! [...] I want to get to know a guy for once.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen03/11/21 10:20 PM
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I've also experienced the latter a couple times. Knowing what I know now, I can't help but wonder how many times that request was actually/also an IoI I was way too naive to pick up on.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen03/11/21 05:29 AM
1

Why not both?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen01/11/21 10:22 PM
3

Which is funny, as I know a fair few folks would argue (and not without reason) my insistence on capitalizing letters in an abbreviation is born out of a certain degree of anal retentiveness.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen01/11/21 02:41 PM
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I suspect, similar to Utah, the details of "if you look like you're married" are the important bit there. Regardless, it's important to know the details for where you live; maybe even chat with an attorney in your state who can explain to you where the line is so you ensure you always remain well short of crossing it.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen30/10/21 11:04 PM
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It's more a matter of tact and knowing attraction isn't determined unilaterally like that. A woman isn't going to find an otherwise attractive man completely unappealing simply because he's not as tall as she'd like, and openly stating "no guys under [insert arbitrary height limit here]" shows a complete lack of social graces.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen30/10/21 06:56 PM
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Common law marriage is pretty uncommon these days. Fewer than a dozen states even have it on the books, and there's generally more to it than simply cohabitating for a given period of time. In Utah, for example, where I live, the crucial element of the statute allowing for common law marriage states the couple in question must "hold themselves out as and have acquired a uniform and general reputation as husband and wife." Standard IaNaL disclaimer applies here, of course, and it might/probably w…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen30/10/21 04:41 PM
2

Don't be fatuous, Jeffrey.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen26/10/21 07:44 PM
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She can't just leave him because she hasn't yet found a "better" man to whom to monkey branch. She'll continue to string this poor bastard along for a while until she either finds a likely candidate or realizes that's not going to happen, instead settling for marrying and probably divorcing him several years down the line. I genuinely wish I knew the people involved. I'd do my best to try to let the guy know in a circumspect manner. He's obviously too good for this selfish cunt.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen26/10/21 07:30 PM
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For most women, arousal is not a scale. It is binary. I think that's generally true for women and men both. I've certainly known enough women who were physically attractive but who, for one reason or another (usually because of a distasteful personality or values), did absolutely nothing for me. The difference being a lot of men will still fuck a woman even if he isn't aroused by her, whether as a slump buster or simply because he can't know when/if he'll get another chance to touch another huma…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen26/10/21 07:21 PM
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See, the problem is you're thinking of this logically, because you're a man. Women don't work that way. For most women, height is not a scale; it's a binary. A man is either Tall or Not Tall, and neither of these have any direct relation to objective height. A Tall man is a man a woman finds attractive who's sufficiently taller than her to qualify. Conversely, a man who's Not Tall is, necessarily, short - regardless of his actual height relative to other men.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen25/10/21 06:51 AM
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Girls don't like to be treated with disrespect and objectification like they treat men. Oh, they do. Or, if they don't actively want to be treated poorly, they're perfectly willing to put up with it - provided such treatment is coming from Chad. It's only a problem when a man who doesn't set her hamster wheel to humming treats her that way. Or even just treats her like an equal, depending on how much of an entitled cunt she is.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen22/10/21 04:55 AM
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Aye, trashy is no respecter of region - nor of skin color. I've known urban blacks who were every ounce the train wreck this woman is, including fucking people to whom they're related (and much more closely than 3rd cousin, for that matter).
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen20/10/21 03:47 PM
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Probably. I never went to university, only did a year at junior college before I figured out higher education and I just don't get along (you'd think I'd have figured that out about schooling in general after I dropped out of high school despite acing all my tests, on account of I was bored out of my fucking skull, but I'm a slow learner). As a result, most of the single women I knew were world-weary working class stiffs like myself. Once a woman's out of school and having to make her own way in…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen20/10/21 01:55 AM
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Nah. 22, 25 at the latest. Hell, I'd even go as low as 20. Any woman older than 25 who's being "quirky" around you is putting on an act. At best, it's because she's attracted to you so she's turning on the charm to try to make it a mutual attraction. Far more often she's simply using it to manipulate you into doing what she wants in a given situation.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen19/10/21 10:11 PM
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Mahana, you ugly! I've seen some homely women in my time, but that may be the single most unfortunate face I've ever encountered. I genuinely hope the composition of the photo (positioning, facial expression, haircut, glasses, clothing style, etc) is making it look worse than it is. Of course, on the flip side, it's entirely possible she really is that ugly - and some dude(s) has still nutted in her at least twice. Thus handily proving the idea of a female incel is, practically speaking, pure fa…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen19/10/21 03:44 PM
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My experience leads me to believe it would be an exceptionally rare woman who would see how astronomical her standards are and not just immediately assume she's the exception who proves the rule.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen18/10/21 04:43 AM
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Come on, man; the cat never did anything to deserve that.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen17/10/21 06:01 PM
3

Hey, I did get two scam messages from "girls" wanting to fuck me after posting this. Things are already looking up!
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen17/10/21 04:09 PM
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Right. Near as I can tell the other site's been down all day. I'll have to check that again, see if I can't finally get through.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen17/10/21 01:52 AM
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Sounds like Dennis Prager. Whom I really like, generally speaking, except when it comes to his blanket admonition to young folks to just get married. Granted, it seems to have worked out pretty well for him (at least the second time 'round) and I'm genuinely glad it did, but he's at least two generations removed from the young adults he's targeting with that message and, as far as I'm aware, has never really addressed any of the reasons young men, in particular, have for avoiding the institution…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen17/10/21 01:44 AM
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Hell, I think it's even simpler than that. I know an awful lot of BP men who have no understanding of what a shit deal marriage is or how hypergamy works yet still never tied the knot for the simple reason they can't find a woman they're willing to marry who's willing to marry them. All of what would have been the nice, normal, average girls with whom they'd happily have settled down are too busy going to college, chasing a career, traveling all over the world on someone else's dime and hopping …
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen16/10/21 11:27 PM
2

The term for leftovers like OP is inspin. Short for involuntary spinster.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen16/10/21 11:10 PM
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when a woman uses height, jawline, muscles and penis size Hell, the latter only comes into play when the former factors measure up. Source: am hung like the proverbial horse, but otherwise just an average dude. Every woman I've been with has remarked on my size, but I haven't been with terribly many because there's no correlation between dick size and height or natural musculature or any of the other aspect of a dude's appearance that attracts women's attention before they see what you're packin…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen16/10/21 11:02 PM
1

Being anti-coof shot ≠ being anti-vax. I was given the MMR, polio, etc. vaccines when I was born and have absolutely no problem with those being standard issue because those diseases indisputably killed a whole lot of otherwise-healthy people. The commie coof largely only kills the elderly (who were already on their way out) and those already in poor health (primarily obese folks, from what I understand). And even then, the actual numbers are orders of magnitude below those caused by the disease…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen16/10/21 10:16 PM
1

Do you have a source for that?
/r/TheRedPill16/10/21 06:08 PM
2

Right. I thought I may have been missing something there (hence the "seems" and "presumably"). Thanks for the info, sir.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen15/10/21 07:50 PM
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Hell, seems to me even pills could be taken selectively. An ex took a pill every day for her BC; had she been so inclined she presumably could have simply stopped taking them for a few days until the deed was done then picked up where she left off.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen15/10/21 07:00 PM
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Say it with me now: Responsibility is a tool of The Patriarchy™!
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen12/10/21 09:15 PM
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I'm already pretty firmly of the opinion that "mental health awareness" included in a woman's profile is telling on herself, but it was certainly nice of her to make it that bright red color to really draw the eye.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen12/10/21 09:14 PM
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RabbitNRaccoon. I was referencing the other reply to your post above, just didn't see it necessary to tag the guy.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen12/10/21 09:12 PM
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Kind, loving women don't have issues keeping men. Simply finding them isn't the problem, as RNR intimated.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen12/10/21 07:37 PM
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Pfft. Next you'll be telling me Tinder is a hook-up app and shouldn't be used for finding relationships either. Who hurt you? /s, in case it wasn't obvious
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen11/10/21 10:23 PM
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Big tits don't count if she's fat.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen11/10/21 03:06 PM
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I do, and I ain't riskin' it on this hippopotamic whore.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen11/10/21 03:05 PM
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Don't listen to what women say. Pay attention to what they do. "No hookups/ONS/FWB" is a shit test. She's on Tinder and has a bunch of trashy boudoir shots. She's low-effort trawling for a Juan or Tyrone to walk right through her token protestations of virtue and treat her like the filthy whore she obviously is.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen11/10/21 03:03 PM
1

Right. Didn't intend to cast aspersions there, just making an obvious joke.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen08/10/21 07:27 PM
3

I mean, dude did hang out with prostitutes.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen07/10/21 03:44 PM
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This seems to me to be the best way to handle things. Not that I've always done it that way, but with age, experience and sharing notes with other guys here and elsewhere I'm finally starting to figure out some o' this shit. I'm still lonely as shit, of course, but I can (generally) handle lonely. And I've made the mistake of chasing casual sex enough times to know the price of getting my dick wet usually ain't worth all the bullshit it comes with. Far better, as you said, to first find someone …
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen07/10/21 03:43 PM
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...they do, though. I mean, I take your meaning, but my experience with folks who are actually relatively wealthy is they don't go in for flashy and expensive displays of wealth. That's what people who've suddenly come into money and don't understand how to maintain a high income do, which is why most of 'em are right back where they started within a year or two of that happening.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen06/10/21 03:51 PM
1

It really is. I ordered the book in question yesterday, looking forward to reading it when it arrives.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen04/10/21 04:30 AM
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It's projection. They care a great deal about men's height so they mistakenly assume men must naturally care about it too.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen04/10/21 04:17 AM
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My thoughts exactly. Any woman truly worthy of a ring will understand and acknowledge what an absolute shit show marriage is for men and won't begrudge the man with whom she allegedly wishes to spend the rest of her life an extra layer of ostensibly unnecessary protection (flimsy as that protection is in the case of a prenup).
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen03/10/21 02:17 AM
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The language seems cruel, but you ain't wrong. Any woman truly worthy of a ring will acknowledge what an absolute shit show marriage is for men and not begrudge the one with whom she allegedly wants to spend the rest of her life an extra layer of ostensibly unnecessary protection (flimsy as it is).
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen03/10/21 02:03 AM
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Tradition is a set of solutions for which we have forgotten the problems. Throw away the solution and you get the problem back. Sometimes the problem has mutated or disappeared. Often it is still there as strong as it ever was. (Donald Kingsbury - Courtship Rite)
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen03/10/21 01:55 AM
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You too, eh? I'm just waiting for the day my sister and my brothers' ex-wives show up here. I may actually die of schadenfreude overdose.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen03/10/21 01:41 AM
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She's Thai; I can damn near guarantee she's nowhere near 5'11". I'd be surprised if she's even 5'6". Just another bigot judging others on immutable characteristics.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen02/10/21 03:14 PM
2

Right, I know the mods assign flairs, I was just curious about the story behind yours. Still working on being funny enough to get a custom job o' my own.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen30/09/21 09:14 PM
2

Aye, they're pretty strict on Rule 1. Which is fine with me. If it helps, "no shaming" doesn't mean you can't be critical of stupid decisions and behavior, you just need to frame the criticism constructively.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen30/09/21 09:13 PM
2

I can't understand what either of 'em ever did to merit being saddled with this dumpster fire of a woman.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen30/09/21 03:19 PM
2

Now I'm curious how you got that flair. Have a link handy?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen30/09/21 03:18 PM
1

Flairs are assigned by the mods. Hang 'round and provide enough decent input and you'll eventually get a Jr./Sr. Hamster Analyst. Give 'em something particularly funny to work with and you'll get a custom job like Mr. Not a Potato is sporting.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen30/09/21 03:18 PM
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Aye. I usually just quietly roll my eyes at posters here declaring a woman is "obviously" 10-15 years older than what's listed, but in this case I genuinely doubt the number she's given. That's not just a rough 29; that would be a rough 40.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen30/09/21 03:14 PM
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Eh. I'm not putting in any effort to learn a new language here so I'm not bothered either way. 'Sides, as the mods have said, dude puts more effort into his titles than many others who post here, which is appreciated far more than them rubbing a few whiners/pedants the wrong way. Not targeting you with the pedant bit, by the way, simply speaking generally.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen30/09/21 12:09 AM
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evaluating herself Is she, though? I didn't hear anything even remotely approaching introspection in that clip, nor did she say a single word about what she'll do for the man she expects to make these grand romantic gestures for her. Sounds to me like Chad's started passing her up for sport fucks in favor of her younger sisters so she's making the lateral move to the tried and true Offer Less While Demanding More strategy. Give it 5-10 years and I'd bet dollars to donuts she'll be headlining her…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen28/09/21 09:35 PM
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Right. It's just another example of women trying to be men because that's what Holy Feminism tells them they're supposed to do. Men want women. Women need men. Granted, a lot of women have made do to one extent or another by substituting Big Brother for a man, but Big Brother is nothing but an impersonal provider. He doesn't give them tingles. He doesn't hold them while they cry or set solid boundaries and call them on their bullshit when they're being hysterical like they (usually subconsciousl…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen28/09/21 07:28 PM
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Because Holy Feminism told her she shouldn't need a man to be happy. So she lies to herself about being "happily" single to avoid going against the orthodoxy.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen28/09/21 03:28 PM
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The two aren't equivalent, though. Height is an immutable characteristic. Barring an incredibly expensive and potentially dangerous surgical procedure I literally can't get any taller than I am. Weight, however, is entirely within the individual's control. All you have to do is put down the fork and hit the weights/treadmill. Which isn't going to stop women from preferring taller men, of course, but it's one thing to have such a preference and another to openly discriminate on the basis of an im…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen28/09/21 03:16 PM
1

Clicky. OP always includes a comment detailing the translation of his Irish slang for the benefit of us monolingual saps.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen27/09/21 11:35 PM
8

OP is Irish and likes to inject a little of his native the local language in to spice things up. It may help to know he always provides a translation in the comments. First thing I do whenever I click one of his submissions is close all the main reply threads 'til I find his.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen23/09/21 07:36 PM
10

...anymore.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen23/09/21 02:37 PM
17

Fun little game to play with women's dating profiles: whenever she explicitly tells you what she's not looking for, you can be reasonably sure there's an unspoken "anymore" left off the end of that statement.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen22/09/21 04:28 PM
16

government benefits Fuck that. Her shitty life choices are not my financial responsibility. Do the decent thing and give the kid up for adoption to someone who can actually provide for him without sucking off the public teat.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen22/09/21 02:56 PM
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I must give other things, material things, introduce him to great connections that could help his business, invite him to a beach house to enjoy a vacation, a fancy dinner at my house, let my super successful intresting uncles ( sarcasm) have a conversation with him.. Basically make his life more rich and exciting. This is a wonderful list of benefits one would do well to look for in a prospective business partner. Not so much a wife.
/r/RedPillWomen22/09/21 02:50 PM
3

Seven years ago when that article was published, maybe. Anymore, "college" and "education" are mutually exclusive options.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen17/09/21 02:50 PM
3

Shit, I've been a nerd all my life and I'm not certain I could answer any but 2, and even that I'm shaky on. Something about it was made by... Black Isle? I think? Or was it Obsidian? The studio (and, more importantly, the team) wot originally developed Fallout, at any rate, rather than Bethesda's hack team. I suppose I might guess at Cap's hobby being shooting marbles based purely on a loose understanding of popular games during that period of history, but it's strictly a guess. I take your mea…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen17/09/21 02:46 PM
1

Holy shit. Thank you for cluing me in. That's fucking brilliant.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen17/09/21 02:28 PM
2

Man. The way y'all are talkin, my parents obviously raised me in the wrong fuckin' church. Not that I've any doubt the LDS have their own fair share of turbosluts, but I never knew any of 'em. Fuckin' not being Chad. It's the worst.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen16/09/21 07:42 PM
10

All together now: Men don't red pill men. Women red pill men.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen15/09/21 07:49 PM
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Better link, because fuck Google.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen11/09/21 02:19 AM
2

It certainly wasn't inaccurate.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen11/09/21 01:59 AM
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You noticed that too, eh? I almost wish I still had an OLD profile. I'd put my height as "less than 7'" and doubtless still be closer to the truth than she is.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen10/09/21 02:27 PM
5

(I am white...so I can trashy whitey) I'm white and have absolutely no compunction with trashing blacks, browns, yellows, reds or neon greens with fuchsia polka dots. Shitty ideas and stupid, harmful behaviors are shitty ideas and stupid, harmful behaviors regardless of who's expressing/criticizing them. Fuck this "progressive" identitarian nonsense.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen10/09/21 01:26 AM
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Aye. It's an outstandingly colorful laundry list of her poor judgment in prior relationships, but it doesn't really fit the theme of the sub.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen09/09/21 09:39 PM
5

Yikes. Mine just made a couple hit-and-run comments painting me as an incel. Sounds like you have yourself a Stage 5 Clinger.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen08/09/21 09:45 PM
9

I honestly don't know. I haven't spoken more than a dozen words to her in several years because she's an imperious, insufferable cunt with a massive chip on her equally massive shoulder.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen08/09/21 07:57 PM
4

You have one o' those too, eh? I had one follow me in here from RPW where she was singing the inspin version of Woe Is Me.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen08/09/21 07:51 PM
2

It's a generally inaccurate derivation of "incel," which itself is an abbreviation of "involuntarily celibate" - AKA dudes who genuinely can't get laid short of paying a prostitute because no woman will have 'em (usually because they're blue pilled as fuck and haven't put in the work necessary to raise their value in order to change that)
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen08/09/21 07:40 PM
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No, sike and MRG are correct: it's not about refusing to acknowledge the facts to protect their narrative, it's that those facts genuinely don't even register with most of them. My own sister firmly believes the feminist narrative of the entire world bowing down for men. She has five brothers. None of us make six figures. None of us are corporate CEOs. Most of us are blue collar laborers. She knows all the above, but she still believes the entire world is built specifically to advantage men as a…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen07/09/21 10:58 PM
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It's still possible to live off a single salary, you just have to be smart about it. And I don't mean having an education that ensures a six-figure salary or early investments. $60k is still sufficient to buy you everything you need to raise a healthy, happy family. Hell, $30-40k is enough to get you started. Especially as that number will only increase over time as your husband strives to be better at his job in order to better provide for his family. Granted, you won't live in the biggest hous…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen07/09/21 10:48 PM
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I didn't even make it to the text. Between the filters and the Thousand Cock Stare she was already weapons-grade Nope.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen06/09/21 04:58 PM
7

I mean, I appreciate the clever word play, but what did Chris ever do to deserve such an association? Dude just wanted to make people laugh. And do coke but, y'know, no one's perfect.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen06/09/21 04:51 PM
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Oh, I'd have no trouble accepting she may well have contributed to the situation in some way. Generally speaking, even if one party bears the lion's share of the blame, there's usually at least something the other could have done differently to encourage a different outcome. That said, while certainly possible, I don't think that was necessary in this case. He was a powerful man surrounded by gorgeous and willing young women. Nature took its course.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen06/09/21 03:54 PM
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we see all the time how that is just distorted to meaningless Exactly that. It's just hysterical exaggeration to inflate her own victimhood, because apparently "my husband was a cheating piece of shit" isn't enough anymore.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen05/09/21 02:59 PM
7

These people are many things, but "liberal" ain't one of 'em.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen05/09/21 02:37 PM
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Logic is a tool of The Partriarchy™.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen05/09/21 02:24 PM
3

women being terrified (but pretending to be nonplussed) about being, and showing anything genuine about themselves (make up, fake eyelashes, high heels, push up bras, mirroring behaviors, not taking emotional risks, etc.) Fuck, this one hits too close to home. My biggest frustration in dating, beyond simply finding a woman who's worth the effort, is getting a woman to let down her guard and just be fucking human for a minute. They all want a strong man with whom they can be vulnerable, but they'…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen05/09/21 02:14 PM
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I agree Tinder can be a reasonably useful tool in that respect for women. For the average guy, however, OLD as a whole is generally nothing more than an exercise in frustration.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen04/09/21 06:05 PM
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Once you know how to spot it, it's absolutely astounding how often women tell on themselves like this. Any time you see "mental health awareness" in a woman's dating profile you can be all but guaranteed she's a fucking head case.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen04/09/21 05:47 PM
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Once you learn to see it, it's absolutely dumbfounding how often and consistently women tell on themselves.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen04/09/21 05:42 PM
7

DC/CS?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen04/09/21 05:38 PM
3

I can almost buy this reasoning, if only because I don't use condoms (on account of I literally can't feel a damn thing through one). 'Course, that's simply dealt with by just not sleeping with women I can't trust to be on top of their own birth control. Well, that and simply not swimming in options in the first place 'cause Chad I ain't.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen04/09/21 05:36 PM
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Whoa, hey. I'm a lot o' things, but a nice guy ain't one of 'em. 'Least not anymore, thank God. Yeah, I've heard o' those women. Even met a fair few of 'em in my time. In my experience, most are perpetually single for the same reasons I was alone most o' my life: they've overweight and/or otherwise unattractive, have bad attitudes that chase away any dudes who might otherwise have been interested (see OP), have cultivated bad habits and/or values, project what they want in a partner onto the opp…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen04/09/21 05:20 PM
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Or they do but she doesn't offer enough beyond sex to convince them to stick around.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen04/09/21 04:19 PM
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Might be she actually is/has been attracted to some of the guys have been into her. Problem by my reading seems to be she simply doesn't offer enough to convince any of 'em to stick around after they've gotten their glass o' free milk. Shock and horror, ladies: turns out men ain't as shallow as your projection wants us to be. Yes, looks are important, but most men will happily settle for a 5 or 6 who brings other, less tangible qualities to the relationship rather than chase the unattainable 10 …
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen04/09/21 04:17 PM
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I get plenty of now unwanted interest because of how I look but I can't land an actual boyfriend. The attention isn't even because of who I am Seems pretty cut and dried to me. OP is likely reasonably attractive to garner so much interest from men but is either chasing Chad, who has more/better options, or has a terrible attitude and/or personality that chases away any guy who might have had a mind to stick around longer. Fortunately for her, addressing the issue couldn't be simpler. Starts with…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen04/09/21 04:08 PM
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If they would just stop putting these hoes on a pedestal and hit the gym, they'd have no issues. They'd have fewer issues with getting laid specifically. If you want more than a quick fuck, well... being in good shape will still help you, but all the self improvement in the world won't make the number of available quality women any higher. There are plenty of men who, like myself, have either gotten over the novelty of casual sex or simply never felt any great desire for it in the first place. W…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen04/09/21 03:28 AM
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I laughed, but we both know all three of your examples are far too academic for your average thot. At best she's like to make some vague reference to the '50s, not really having any idea of what postwar America was like beyond "[second wave] feminism didn't exist yet, so it was obviously horribly oppressive to women."
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen04/09/21 03:04 AM
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They aren't femcels. Even this bridge troll can find a dude to blow her back out after last call on a Saturday night. What they are is invonluntary spinsters, or inspins for short. Doesn't matter how many times Chad uses her as a slump buster, ain't no self-respecting man gonna' want to wake up to that face paired with that attitude, let alone take her back home to meet Mom and Dad. She's going to die alone, having never gotten any quality man to commit to her, and she's going to be bitter as fu…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen04/09/21 01:32 AM
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Men do indeed prefer women with stable income and an ability to support themselves. No one said they get hard thinking about it, just that it is valued above the alternative. No we don't. No it isn't. This is pure blue pill cope. Most men will appreciate that a woman is capable of taking care of herself and we don't want to take on mountain of debt when bringing you into our lives, but that's generally about as far as it goes. Objective_Climate938 is absolutely correct. Men don't care about your…
/r/RedPillWomen04/09/21 01:04 AM
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I could see a reasonable argument being made for Islam "curing" feminism, in the same sense Stalin attempted to "cure" the kulaks. Sometimes, of course, the cure is worse than the disease. Especially when we have traditional western civilization sitting right over there in living memory showing us a better way than both.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen02/09/21 09:51 PM
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Not wanting to live in a "progressive" post-modern communist hell hole doesn't mean I do want to live in a regressive pre-modern Islamist shithole.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen02/09/21 07:30 PM
6

Bold of you to assume they aren't being driven before 18.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen01/09/21 07:52 PM
2

There are plenty of women taller than 5’4 that also want to date someone taller than them, what will they do if all the guys left are shorter than them but still 2 or 3 inches taller than the short girls that demand tall guys? Wanting a man who's taller than you (even if you're on the tall end yourself) is all well and good; that's just how women are wired. Emphasis added. Every woman wants a tall man. Every. One. It's biological. Height is one of and the most visible signifier of good genes in …
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen31/08/21 10:25 PM
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It's so perfectly textbook FDS I can't help but wonder if it ain't a troll. As I have no evidence to support this suspicion, however: Thar she blows!
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen31/08/21 06:28 PM
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don't know why this is a mark for American women, should not it be relative to their height? Practically speaking, it is. I'm 5'8" (172 cm for you as don't use Freedom Units), well short of the mythical 6' figure, but I can do reasonably well with women when we're actually interacting with each other face-to-face. In the absolute shit show that is online dating, however, you're not dealing face-to-face with real people. You're dealing with static images and numbers. A lot of them. Combine the se…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen31/08/21 06:14 PM
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I wouldn't say their success is owed to their height. Correlation is not causation, after all. Being tall gives you a leg up1 in many areas but, especially in a professional setting where you're (ideally) being evaluated by other men, you still need to demonstrate competence to advance. Of course, competence having been established, the tall guy is more likely to get selected for advancement than an equally qualified shorter guy. Which sucks for us but, well, we gotta' work with the stupid monke…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen31/08/21 03:07 PM
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There's a distinction to be marked between reasonable and unreasonable physical requirements, though. Wanting a man who's taller than you (even if you're on the tall end yourself) is all well and good; that's just how women are wired. Demanding no less than 6' as a purely arbitrary benchmark when you're 5'4" at best is pure entitlement and fully deserving of scorn and ridicule. That's not even getting into the naked bigotry of judging a man primarily (if not solely) on a physiological aspect ove…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen31/08/21 02:53 PM
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Just because she's the "short one" in her family, her guy has to be tall? No, her guy has to be tall for the same reason my hypothetical girl has to be thin: because the alternative, generally speaking, simply isn't attractive on an instinctive biological level. Or, to use a more modern parlance: he has to be tall because short guys don't give her the tingles. Of course, she can't simply come out and say that, as it would make her appear incredibly shallow to judge men based on a single, superfi…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen30/08/21 07:34 PM
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"Best" part is that situation is just one detail away from your statement being entirely genuine instead of sarcastic. 23yo, preggo and married. That's actually the recipe for a bright future.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen29/08/21 10:14 PM
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That's the worst part; IME most of these women were raised in solid middle class nuclear families where their parents taught them solid values and character. Then they went to college and got indoctrinated and... welp. Also, you may want to edit your comment. I don't know if this necessarily violates rule 4, but the mods tend to frown on direct links to other subs as a matter of principle.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen27/08/21 05:50 PM
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Forget the age, this woman is a strip of beef jerky in a dress.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen25/08/21 03:16 AM
4

Yeah, this is textbook dual mating strategy. Chad and/or Tyrone pumped three kids out of her, now she's looking for Billy to finance their raising.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen25/08/21 03:10 AM
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Not a weird question at all. To the contrary, it seems a rather pointed observation to me. Generally speaking, what you deserve is what you earn - nothing more, nothing less.
/r/RedPillWomen23/08/21 07:42 PM
4

Aw shucks, boss. I'm honored.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen23/08/21 06:59 PM
6

First, as fun as it often is, WAATGM doesn't exist solely to mock the entitled. It also serves to hold women to account for their own poor decisions - of which this woman, by her own admission, made several doozies throughout her life, starting with sleeping with a man 16 years her senior who was also her manager at her job. This woman wasn't dealt a shit hand by life, she drew one. Second, and more importantly: I finally decided to have an anonymous IVF so that I could have a child because I co…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen22/08/21 07:55 PM
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"Never attribute to malice that which can be adequately explained by stupidity." Feminism doesn't require some shadowy cabal of elites to implement, it simply requires well-intentioned but short-sighted people to not realize the harmful long-term effects of a well-packaged bad idea.
/r/RedPillWomen22/08/21 04:03 PM
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Perhaps not, but the focus of WAATGM isn't solely to mock the overly entitled, it's also to hold women accountable for their own poor decisions. Any pity I may have felt for this woman was washed away the instant I got to the IVF bit. In her late thirties, single and overweight with herpes, and she unilaterally elected to bring an innocent little boy into her raging dumpster fire of a life purely for her own selfish gratification.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen22/08/21 03:58 PM
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I don't. I feel sorry for the little boy she elected to bring into her raging dumpster fire of a life purely for her own selfish gratification.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen22/08/21 03:48 PM
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First of all, she said she was in college when she dated the guy from whom she got herpes, not high school. Second, any pity I may have felt for this woman was utterly wiped out by her supremely selfish decision to bring an innocent little boy into her absolute shit show of a life purely for her own gratification.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen22/08/21 03:46 PM
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The question of whether she knew about the herpes before sleeping with him is useless speculation. The man was 16 years older than her and her manager; she'd already made several extremely poor decisions before ever reaching that point.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen22/08/21 06:21 AM
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Her weight may not be her primary problem, but it is her most immediate one: the chances of my taking the time to learn whether a woman even has a pleasant personality are essentially zero when the first thing I notice about her is an extra 30+ lbs.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen22/08/21 06:01 AM
2

Nah, she's just a cunt.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen22/08/21 05:01 AM
2

Seems to me you need to figure out what your goals and their priorities are then seriously ask whether finishing a degree would help you achieve them. If your primary goal is to find a good man with whom to have children and raise a family, well... mission accomplished. If you're more interested in finishing your degree and establishing yourself professionally, follow through with your studies - but understand your boyfriend may not want to wait around and you could lose out on the family angle.
/r/RedPillWomen20/08/21 09:42 PM
1

It would if she were using the word correctly to refer to an hourglass figure. 'Course, we all know what the odds o' that are. I keep hoping women will collectively decide to move on from "curvy" to "thick" so we can go back to using the former properly.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen19/08/21 07:53 PM
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Part of it may be because I’m not finished with school yet, so maybe I’m insecure that my life has been stalled recently. Men don't care about a woman's credentials or career beyond their ability to establish you're capable of taking care of yourself. Beyond that, Whisper hit the nail on the head.
/r/RedPillWomen19/08/21 02:40 PM
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First and most important step in fixing our utterly fucked higher "education" system: immediate cessation of gov't guarantee of student loans. I want to add blanket pardon of all student loans to that list just to stick it to the banks, but I'm fully willing to accept I'm just being overly spiteful with that one.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen19/08/21 03:11 AM
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God, I fucking hope so. I've actually heard some fairly convincing arguments in favor of copyright lasting a long time, but Disney in particular deserves to eat rancid ass for a century for all the fuckery they've pulled to protect that fucking mouse.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen19/08/21 03:09 AM
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Fucker beat me to it. I can almost guarantee she's had exactly that in the form of several different men throughout her life, especially when she was younger. Trick is those weren't high-status and/or charismatic men to whom she was sexually attracted so, in her mind, they didn't exist. Chasing Chad is a hell of a drug.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen17/08/21 07:38 PM
1

You're singing a hell of a siren's song there, sir. Sadly, I lack any such degree. I discovered early on in my collegiate career, such as it was, higher indoctrination and I don't get along at all. Though I do work for a college, ironically, as one of the blue collar stiffs in facilities. I'd certainly be amenable to a change of scenery, though. God knows there's nothin' keeping me anchored where I am.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen10/08/21 11:10 PM
3

Hell, even Weinstein got a raw deal and rammed through the "justice" system at mach speed to accommodate The Narrative. Don't get me wrong, the dude was 100% in the wrong for his part. Corrupt as all get out and abused the absolute fuck out of his power. To my knowledge, however, he never forced himself on anyone. Every single woman who laid back on his casting couch did so of her own volition. I'm sure ol' Harvey had an excellent sales pitch; he'd been doing it long enough by the time he was ta…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen09/08/21 07:16 PM
1

I wouldn't know. I've never had any doubts about being male or straight, so I couldn't begin to guess what goes into getting these folks to the point they feel they're supposed to be on the other team's roster. I'm reasonably sure, however, cutting bits off and leaving gaping wounds in their place ain't a reasonable solution to the issue.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen09/08/21 06:45 AM
2

So I've heard. I'd certainly like to believe it, but I'm not like to be going there to experience it any time soon regardless. My job is where I live, and it ain't the type I can do from anywhere. Maybe if my voice recording hobby becomes something more somewhere down the line, but that's a way's out if it ever happens. I appreciate the encouragement, though. Gotta' have a goal to work toward even if I'll probably never get there, otherwise I'm just giving up.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen09/08/21 06:39 AM
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"I don't care if you're 6' tall, you just need to be close enough to 6' that most women can't tell the difference. And my obvious double standard is okay because false equivalency." She's so close to waking up, yet obviously fighting tooth and nail to stay asleep.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen08/08/21 07:14 PM
7

She said it herself: she doesn't even see those men because they don't meet her ridiculous standards. She wants and believes she deserves an AlphaBux and won't settle for anything less, even as a small part of her brain is obviously screaming at her about the Wall looming in the distance.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen08/08/21 07:12 PM
2

This one definitely set off my bullshit meter, as it's a rare (read: nonexistent) woman who's so open and direct about... well, anything, really; but especially about her own flaws. The fact this doesn't even try to cast them in a positive light is the clincher for me. However, since I have no evidence to back up this suspicion, and proceeding on the assumption the profile is actually genuine: I don't believe I've ever seen a woman all but explicitly admit she has children for the paycheck befor…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen08/08/21 06:09 PM
4

Yup. It's projection, plain and simple. Same reason so many younger dudes who ain't natural Chads fall into the trap of being nice; they attempt to emulate the characteristics they want in a partner, not realizing by doing so they're actively repelling the very women in whom they're interested. The difference, of course, is women largely come to this faulty conclusion under their own power, while little boys are literally set up to fail by every woman in their lives from the moment they're old e…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen08/08/21 12:42 AM
2

Being smart and fit is a requirement. Being smart ≠ having a degree. If anything, the opposite is true these days. Anymore, when you attend a university you're basically paying for your own indoctrination. Sure, there are some (largely private) holdouts where this isn't the case. The exceptions prove the rule. Not taking shit from people lowers the amount of maintenance. That's all well and good when it's actually true. The problem is what most women mean by "I don't take shit from anyone" is "I…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen08/08/21 12:37 AM
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Better, sure. Still not a good one. I know I'm better off being single than in a soul-sucking, dead bedroom marriage. That doesn't make having spent virtually the whole of my adult life not being touched any less lonely, though.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen08/08/21 12:16 AM
8

Slightly? Before I saw the listed age I thought she was 30-something. I'll grant she ain't hideous, but "slightly below average" is being entirely too generous.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen04/08/21 10:46 PM
1

Never really heard the term soggy knees before Huh. I'm genuinely surprised you've never run into it, as much as I've seen you 'round this sub. At any rate, it's a wordplay on misogyny. Basically taking the piss out of the accusation, as virtually all such instances of it deserve.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen04/08/21 10:25 PM
1

Soggy knees? By the sounds of it they painted him as a misogynist incel or something? Pretty much, yeah. Which, again, dude was definitely a villainous character, but he wasn't just an out-and-out sociopath like Joffrey was (and Cersei is). To my mind the main thing Sansa is learning is how to stay alive. I still don't see how she has a major role in the books (not that they will ever be finished). Agreed, on both counts. Whether because he's old and fat and has made his millions so he just does…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen04/08/21 12:55 AM
2

Fair point. I'll make more of an effort to do the same.
/r/WhereAllTheGoodMenAre03/08/21 10:31 PM
1

Gah, yeah. Cat was absolutely the ruin of her own house(s), and Sansa... people keep saying she's going to be a big deal, that she's learning under Littlefinger and developing into a major player. I'll admit she's not quite the stupid little bird Sandor so aptly characterized her as, but she still doesn't actually do anything. Chett's a minor character at the Wall; the angry guy with the wen on his neck who was stewarding for Aemon before Jon got Sam the gig. I've no idea if he showed up in the …
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen03/08/21 10:21 PM
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Oof. That was genuinely difficult to watch. I used to think women just naturally know how to move in a way men find appealing. Leave it to a fucking "supermodel" to prove me wrong.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen03/08/21 09:57 PM
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Heh. I appreciate the compliment but I'm not bothered about not being a top 5% man. That shit looks like way more work than it's worth. I've never been terribly ambitious, which is probably a good part of why I've never been especially successful with women (y'know, in addition to being a BP moron until my early 30s). As long as I can pay my bills, put something in savings and still have a little bit extra to play with once the work's done I'm content. I've definitely thought about looking more …
/r/WhereAllTheGoodMenAre03/08/21 09:54 PM
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Seems like there's been an influx of BP posters over there recently. I've seen lots of comments pushing career advancement as a primary means of self-improvement and telling younger women not to worry so much about trying to find a good man while they're young. No idea where they're all coming from, but it's discouraging to see.
/r/WhereAllTheGoodMenAre03/08/21 09:24 PM
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“If we like someone we let them get away with A LOT” (this was in the context of humour and also celebrities and them saying that they really need to stop when those celebs prove to be awful but it is still a challenge) I feel like I've seen this sentiment expressed somewhere before... When you're a star, they let you do it. You can do anything. Grab 'em by the pussy. You can do anything. But of course that was a terrible, horrible, no good, very bad man telling on women. Not women telling on th…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen03/08/21 09:05 PM
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It's a running joke among several of my friends that I'm the weirdo who just doesn't like music. Which isn't true, of course, I just don't like most music - especially most popular music, because it's mostly crap. Of the small percentage that isn't crap, most simply isn't to my tastes. 'Course, where the joke comes from isn't simply that I don't like most music, it's that I'd genuinely rather listen to nothing at all than something I don't enjoy. I generally seem to be much more comfortable with…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen03/08/21 07:41 PM
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They are doing one on A Song of Ice and Fire and trying really hard to say things like “people only hate x character due to internalised misogyny”. Christ, the number of times I've seen people try to defend and excuse Cersei's actions with "she's a woman in a misogynistic system!" and the like. She's the reigning scion of one of the most powerful families in the Seven Kingdoms and the fucking Queen of Westeros. You literally cannot be less oppressed than she is. People don't hate Cersei because …
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen03/08/21 07:18 PM
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The older I get, the more I understand why men on this sub don’t want to marry or be in relationships. That's just the thing; I and, I think, a lot of other men still want to be in relationships. Ideally, I'd even like to get married. It's still the best way to raise children, after all. Sadly, what I want has no bearing on what is, and what is is a fucking dumpster fire. Reasonably attractive young women spurn the advances of decent guys to compete with every other woman for the fleeting attent…
/r/WhereAllTheGoodMenAre03/08/21 06:28 PM
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Being mad at non-Chads would require she notice them in the first place. She's just mad at Chad. Everyone else doesn't even factor in.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen31/07/21 03:09 PM
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The thing you're missing here is the old canard, "your right to swing my fist ends where my nose begins." Tolerance of others' beliefs and values is a hallmark of classical liberalism, but tolerance is not acceptance. If the values being espoused infringe on another's liberty they've crossed the line into tyranny and should no longer be tolerated - indeed, they should be actively opposed.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen27/07/21 02:35 AM
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Looks to me like we're more or less on the same page. People, men and women both, need structure and discipline in their lives in order to reach their full potential. Women, left to their own devices and absent paternal guidance, organize themselves (or submit to being organized) into harems for the most powerful men in their society. This naturally leaves the vast majority of that society's men out in the cold, which creates inherent and significant instability within that society. Men, left to…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen25/07/21 06:26 AM
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Video unavailable. :-/
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen25/07/21 02:58 AM
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Ah, right. Good old 58008.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen24/07/21 05:05 PM
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Feminism didn't "corrupt" anything, it simply freed women to act as they naturally will without restraint. /u/loneliness-inc, I think, wrote a piece on the topic over on WATGMA; hopefully he can supply a link.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen24/07/21 05:02 PM
11

I'm familiar with Captain Save-a-Ho, but 304?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen24/07/21 04:33 PM
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That's the plan, the goal and the dream, all wrapped up in one. Though I sometimes despair of ever finding such a woman in the wild at this point.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen24/07/21 05:12 AM
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women prefer a BIGGER (girth) penis for one night stands and hook ups, but when they are looking for a long term partner, they prefer average or a bit below. That's discouraging, even from the other end. I'm one of those "bigger" guys but I have precious little interest in casual sex or short-term affairs (not least because I'm historically not terribly successful in that arena). I don't want to be a curiosity and I sure as fuck don't want to be the "bull" she has fun with on a given weekend the…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen24/07/21 04:24 AM
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Right, I get what she meant now. Just worded it really poorly.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen23/07/21 05:09 AM
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Hell, even if it's actually not what she's looking for, the simple fact a woman is on Tinder in the first place means she's clearly okay with that stuff happening.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen22/07/21 08:55 PM
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Hell, even dual mating strategy only applies by the letter of the law here. I don't care what she wrote in her bio, this girl clearly ain't looking for a relationship - unless it's with Chad. Edit: Right, missed the OF listing first time 'round. There, indeed, is the DMS. Well spotted, sir.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen22/07/21 08:48 PM
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Eh. I think this one's running afoul of Rule 5. She's not bitching about her previous poor choice in men. She's not looking for a bailout. She's not displaying egregious entitlement. In fact, aside from the well-camouflaged "ideally" /u/InevitableOwl1 spotted, there ain't nothin' special about this profile at all. I suppose I may be missing something in the "Alphas only swipe right" line. Frankly, I've no idea what the hell she means by that.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen22/07/21 08:39 PM
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Satire. You read satire. ...this time.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen21/07/21 11:40 PM
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I didn't say I'm alone. I said I'm lonely. Understanding marriage is a raw deal for men does absolutely nothing to diminish my desire for lasting comfort and companionship. That shit goes way deeper than mere legal formality.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen21/07/21 11:34 PM
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I'm well aware of the difference between the two. I'm highly introverted, spend the great majority of my time alone and generally like it that way. I'm not simply looking for company, I'm longing for companionship.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen21/07/21 11:30 PM
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The good news for men is that you can find meaning without getting married and having a family, but I understand completely that there are some men who still want that. My advice for them is to become a fully well rounded man so that they can live a fulfilling life even if they cannot get that but will be ready to achieve that if they are able to find a worthwhile woman. That's the bit I'm struggling with at present. I don't necessarily want kids myself, I'm just tired of being lonely. I've plen…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen21/07/21 01:45 AM
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Hard to enforce them when the legal body ostensibly responsible for said enforcement is on the take. The degree of cooperation and collusion between "our" government and giant, multinational corporations - especially Big Tech - is nothing short of modern-day fascism.1 1 By which I of course mean actual fascism, not you-said-something-my-humanities-professor-told-me-is-wrongthink "fascism."
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen20/07/21 12:21 AM
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If you're a man feeling hurt that you don't have a degree, remember that Bill Gates and Mark Zuckerberg dropped out of college to become multi-billionaire captains of industry robber barons. FTFY. Mostly joking, as I get what you were going for, but those two in particular have become out-and-out fucking supervillains.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen18/07/21 02:39 PM
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Funny you should say that; apparently that's exactly what my sister is doing now. Wouldn't you know it, she's still a miserable, man-hating cunt.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen18/07/21 02:34 PM
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“I suppose it’s horrible to say, but I guess if someone is more intelligent or better-qualified, I feel less that I have to be wooed by them,” says Holly, 27, who has an MA and works in post-production for television. She is mainly attracted to Oxbridge graduates, she says with a small laugh. “I do prefer dating people who are intellectually superior.” For her, she says, it’s a curiosity thing – the idea that her partner will be able to teach her things. Ain't nothin' "curious" about it. Women w…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen17/07/21 08:50 PM
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Men don’t like when their gf or wife makes more than them - period. Women don't like it either, of course, which is why men don't like it. In a man's mind, OP, you're looking to take on half of the masculine leadership role in the relationship. Not a masculine leadership role - THE masculine leadership role. Protection and provision is what men have evolved for. It's what we do. By putting so much focus into maximizing your own incomes you're signaling to your man that you doubt his ability to e…
/r/RedPillWomen14/07/21 03:53 PM
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Not just a small percentage of men: the small percentage of men she chose. It may very well be some or even all of those men genuinely mistreated her. That scenario is within the realm of possibility.1 Far more likely, however, is she simply made poor choices based on fleeting emotional highs the great majority of the time. 1 Of course, if they did, it was probably only one side of the mutually abusive coin flip, as most such relationships are.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen13/07/21 07:19 PM
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Hating non-Chads for not being Chads would necessitate she notice the non-Chads in the first place. Her ranting makes it abundantly clear this woman is a certified, Grade AA Chad Chaser. Normally I'd say if a man doesn't give her immediate tingles she doesn't even see him as a man, but this one's so far gone I can't help but wonder if she actually doesn't see him at all, even as a utility.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen13/07/21 02:21 PM
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I'm just hoping all the stupid thots move on to "thick" and we can go back to using curvy to describe actual body shape.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen13/07/21 02:21 AM
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I didn't want kids when I was his age either, and I spent over a decade loudly declaring that to anyone who would listen with the kind of supreme confidence only fools and young people can have. I'm 35 now. Two or three years ago, after making some pretty significant lifestyle changes, I realized, despite all the noise I'd made over the issue for so long, I'd actually kind of like to have kids of my own. I don't expect it's going to happen at this point, but it's still something I consider when …
/r/RedPillWomen12/07/21 02:59 PM
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Casey casum ...who? As for the rest: yeah, sounds like standard useless celebrity bullshit. No thanks.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen09/07/21 03:16 PM
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Sigh. I miss when Bill Burr was actually funny.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen09/07/21 01:10 AM
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Agreed, on all counts. I came to the conclusion years ago that a little hypocrisy now and then is, if not good for you, at least to be expected. We're all human, after all, and thus tend to be... inconsistent, even at the best of times. The thing to look out for isn't someone failing to live up to their own standards at all, but the degree to which this happens and, as you noted, how much of a spectacle they make about it. If, when caught out, an individual reacts with open mouth to object, paus…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen09/07/21 01:06 AM
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On the one hand, I'm a lifelong country music fan and I've literally never heard of Bobby Bones. On the other hand, actual country music hasn't had a place on any "country" station I've tuned into for at least 20 years. Also, /u/trumpasaurus_erectus is absolutely correct. Shania Twain is more of an actual country music artist than Taylor Swift is.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen09/07/21 12:48 AM
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Yup. If a woman acts like a bitch, accept it and move on. If a woman straight-up tells you she's a bitch, don't wait around for her actions to prove it; take her at her word and move on. In either case you'll be better off for having done so.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen09/07/21 12:43 AM
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Best part of this delicious sarcasm is it's actually correct if read genuinely. If she wants things to change she does need to start respecting herself, first and foremost by being honest with herself about what she brings to the table and the nature of the men with whom she chooses to "associate."
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen08/07/21 06:28 AM
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Dude. Stop being me. It's freaking me out. Right down to "I would have no problem dating a religious woman, but I suspect she'd have a problem with dating someone who doesn't share her faith." It's fucking uncanny.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen07/07/21 07:57 PM
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That's the point, though; if you don't know if she's really into you yet you shouldn't be chasing in the first place. Save that for the women who've demonstrated they're worth the effort.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen07/07/21 07:33 PM
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Of course. I was perpetuating thought crime, after all. Thanks for the assist, sir.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen07/07/21 07:24 PM
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In terms of dancing, I just feel like there's always a little pocket pistol leveled at you, should you fail to entertain her, or should your corpse promise greater entertainment than your company. John Hembling wrote an excellent article on this subject 7 years ago for AVfM. I wish I had some sort of continuation or advice on how to fix the issue. Unfortunately, I don't think it's one that can be fixed. Protection of women is hardwired into our biology. It's a holdover from our ancient history w…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen07/07/21 12:13 AM
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Bang on. In my experience, they're not wrong about men enjoying the chase - provided we can be reasonably sure it's going somewhere. As u/DeeplyDisturbed1 said, it's a dance between clearly mutually-interested parties, and when done properly it's a lot of fun. Problem is a lot of these women have confused the chase/dance with "making the man jump through hoops," and a lot of those who haven't seem to want to lead the dance, then get upset when the man either disengages or doesn't read her mind a…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen06/07/21 06:22 PM
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See, my observation has been married fathers work harder than bachelors like myself precisely because they know they're responsible for the wellbeing of others. I want to do well in my job and move up the ladder but I very rarely work overtime. I make more than enough to pay my own way and play however I want to on the side, so the prospect of the extra pay I could earn holds very little appeal. Put simply, my free time is worth more to me than the extra money I might make. Contrast that with th…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen04/07/21 08:09 PM
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Oh shit I keep forgetting I need a motorcycle and tattoos. Shit, get the motorcycle anyway, just for yourself. I bought a little 250cc Rebel when I was 19, over my parents' (mostly my mother's) objections, and it was one of the best decisions I've ever made. Ain't nothin' better than being up on two.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen04/07/21 07:44 PM
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The best female tennis players in the world would be manhandled by any competent male tennis pro giving lessons at a suburban tennis club in Boise, Omaha, or Des Moines. Funny you should mention that...
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen04/07/21 06:23 AM
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Solid point. Even before that, you had the Seneca Falls Convention of 1848 which gave use the Declaration of Sentiments (tl;dr - women are oppressed and it's all men's fault. Sounds familiar...). Thinking further on it, you could go as far back as the advent of the Industrial Revolution. Possibly even before, but the invention and proliferation of mechanization was a real game changer with regard to division of labor. Before the invention of the vacuum cleaner, microwave, convection oven and oth…
/r/RedPillWomen04/07/21 01:26 AM
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And then .gov turns right around and facefucks your paycheck to fund all the social programs these women are enrolled in.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen03/07/21 11:46 PM
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The future is going to be bountiful for men. Harems of various broads for Chad and Tyrone. Regular guys like virtually all of us posting here will be left out in the cold even more than we already are. There are a lot of reasons the West rose to a position of global prominence, and one of the most important of those was the institution of monogamy. "One man, one wife" gives the vast majority of men who make up your civilization a direct stake in its health and prosperity because those men will w…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen03/07/21 11:42 PM
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Because, as one example, female athletes are being expected to compete against biological males, and to accept that as a fair competition. When it's obviously not. Women's Olympic teams compete against high school boys teams to prepare for the Games. And they usually lose.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen03/07/21 11:26 PM
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Leaving aside the obvious bigotry: that first edit picture. chefskiss.jpg Men can't fix this shit because men are not the arbiters of social acceptability. Women are. The instant a man steps into that mess and tries to set things right he'd be mocked, ridiculed, shamed and crucified in the public square by all the women involved. Which is precisely how we all got here in the first place. You want things to be different? Step up to the plate and shame the everloving fuck out of these oikophobic c…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen03/07/21 10:00 PM
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Aye. I'd peg LBJ and his "Great Society" as the start point.
/r/RedPillWomen03/07/21 09:42 PM
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They want to make sure they can make it on their own because they have been taught they can't rely on others. Which is a fair concern, but it does nothing to diminish the point being made. These women, regardless of whether they provide for themselves, still expect a man to be both capable of and willing to provide for them as well as himself, yet they invariably offer essentially nothing in return beyond the "pleasure" of their company and (often highly) conditional access to their body. The ma…
/r/RedPillWomen03/07/21 09:39 PM
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Yup. As far as pure animal attraction is concerned, women are every bit as visually-oriented as men are, and nothing turns 'em on like well-defined muscles. Which is precisely why TRP stresses lifting so much. It's the simplest and most straightforward thing you can do to (dramatically) improve your SMV.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen03/07/21 09:31 PM
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I've often made a similar point, though with regard to blue collar vs. white collar work (which, of course, falls along very similar lines). If every corporate executive, manager, doctor (excepting emergency/trauma surgeons), lawyer and financier took the same day off, society would keep right on trucking. We'd probably face some financial hiccups, but nothing we couldn't recover from relatively quickly and without too much in the way of pain and effort. If every tradesman, trucker, farmer, etc.…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen03/07/21 05:53 PM
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Correct, but it also isn't tall, which seems to amount to the same thing. Most women seem to see male height not as a range but as a binary. You're either Tall or Not Tall, and if you're Not Tall you are, by definition, Short, regardless of your actual height and how it compares to the majority of men around you.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen02/07/21 11:00 PM
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The same is true of a large percentage of men as well, of course, but as agreeableness is much less prominent in men there are a lot more of us who have a lot less trouble kicking against the pricks, as it were. I trust that a certain amount of very religious women can keep to their beliefs (as I plan on doing), even in a harshly contradictory environment. There are exceptions to every rule, of course. I've known a few of 'em in my time, but they stand out precisely because they're exceptional. …
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen02/07/21 10:56 PM
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Eh, I think people generally grow better together, which is kinda' the whole point. I'm in a much better place now than I was 18 years ago, but given the choice between meeting and settling down with someone now vs accomplishing the same goal without having spent half my life alone and miserable, I know which I'd choose.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen02/07/21 10:36 PM
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You joke (and I laugh), but you're not wrong. Just substitute "built" for "taller." It won't solve all your problems but, as much as it sucks being a short dude, it does you absolutely no good to focus on one of the vanishingly few immutable details about yourself. Far better instead to work on improving the damn near everything else you can change.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen02/07/21 09:58 PM
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It's not enough to simply find a woman from another culture with better values, though; you have to keep her in that culture as well. Generally speaking, women conform to the values of the dominant group in the region in which they live, even if they were raised with dramatically different values. If you find a solid woman in a conservative culture, wife her up then move her back to a commie shithole city, odds are pretty strong she'll eventually contract the mind virus, divorce-rape you and lea…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen02/07/21 09:53 PM
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I have a fairly similar story I've told here before. When I was 18 I dated an incredible girl who was head over heels for me. Gorgeous, witty, pleasant to be around and knew she wanted to be a wife and mother from the word go. Which isn't to say she didn't have her flaws, same as any other woman, but there was a damned solid foundation upon which to build. Unfortunately, because I was 18 and didn't know my ass from a hole in the ground (and because I'd effectively been raised without a father be…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen02/07/21 05:07 AM
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"I'm a gold digger AND a men's rights activist." I, too, enjoy illuminating the world by shooting out every light I see.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen01/07/21 07:16 PM
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Heaven forfend. This is quite possibly the most aggressively BP OP I've ever seen on this sub.
/r/RedPillWomen25/06/21 12:52 AM
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Love is in the mundane. Having previously used way too many words to (usually more poorly) express the same sentiment, I am stealing the fuck out of this in future discussions.
/r/WhereAllTheGoodMenAre24/06/21 09:56 PM
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I'm well aware it's unlikely, but I refuse to give up and take the black pill. The pursuit of virtue is itself virtuous, regardless of whether one ever achieves the goal.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen24/06/21 12:51 AM
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No, you just want to wait at the finish line and be swept up by the winner as he moves through the crowd. Part of a healthy, long-lasting relationship is growing together and, as a result, making each other better. The ideal man you're dreaming of has dozens of women - younger, more attractive and more pleasant than you - throwing themselves at him every day. Why should he settle for you when your sense of entitlement thunders over every word you write?
/r/RedPillWomen24/06/21 12:44 AM
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I've said it before: understanding the extent to which height utterly short circuits most women's sexual selection mechanism is one of the blackest red pills most dudes ever swallow. Being tall covereth a multitude of sins. I genuinely can't think of a single red flag most women won't ignore for a man who's topping 6'+. Which isn't to say being tall is the Be All, End All of male sexuality. It'll get your foot in the door and make it easier for you to bang bar sluts, but you still need to develo…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen23/06/21 10:00 PM
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Sounds like my brother's ex-wife. I want to say they were married for three or four years, which is exactly the number of times I saw her during that period. Like you said, even when she was here she wasn't really here. Never made any real effort to become part of the family. Wouldn't have been difficult to do, either. We're a big LDS family; always happy to welcome new arrivals with open arms. Hell, my Mom is still good friends with the girl I most seriously dated after high school. It's really…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen22/06/21 10:03 PM
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Not by default, but it can be taught. No one starts out with stellar character, which is why intact families and fathers are so important.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen22/06/21 02:43 PM
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I’m a “supporter”, not a leader. I’m happy for him to shine and grow [...] I’m super confident in my feminine skills, as a home maker, lover, supporter and eventual mother What you've just described is damn near the ideal in the minds of most men looking for a lifelong partner. Which doesn't guarantee things will work out between you, of course, but that's a damned solid base upon which you're building.
/r/RedPillWomen20/06/21 06:58 PM
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Right. I was thinking more long-term. For something more casual and self-serving the rules are, of course, different.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen20/06/21 06:53 PM
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That's assuming any of the remaining 10 actually want her. The thing about men with options is they don't have to put up with bullshit like she's guaranteeing. They can just find another hot slut who won't come to them with a list of demands as long as the miles of dick she's taken and get what they want from her.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen20/06/21 06:30 PM
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You misread. She didn't say "maybe I'll add you as a friend," she said "maybe I'll add your friend." Unless this is some stupid "how the kids talk these days" thing I'm missing because I'm an "old" man and simply can't be fucked to keep up with the lingo of teenagers1, she's either too stupid to articulate her point correctly or she's being "sassy" and saying she'll give you secondary contact to her glorious presence via your friends. Either way, she ain't worth the neurological and physical eff…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen20/06/21 06:26 PM
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Also, most of them are educated—which makes me respect them somewhat. HA! HAHAHAHAHAHAHA! HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA! Sincerely, A man who's spent over a decade working a blue collar job at both the junior college and university level
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen18/06/21 10:45 PM
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Pack it up, gents. We're done here.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen12/06/21 12:45 AM
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Don't know why you're getting downvoted here. You're not shaming those men or claiming it excuses women's poor behavior, just stating a fact. Lots of men do chase the wrong women. I've been one of 'em at various points in my life, as have most of my friends. The trick isn't to never make the mistake, it's to understand and accept that's what you're doing and take the necessary steps to correct it.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen11/06/21 02:00 AM
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Minor correction: The analysis to which you're referring was from OkCupid, not PoF. And obviously from close to if not over a decade ago, back when OkC was actually a quality dating site rather than the glorified Tinder ripoff it's become today.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen10/06/21 07:04 PM
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Women like that they can pull high-smv men off Tinder and get sport fucked. Women hate that other women can also pull high-smv men off Tinder and get sport fucked. Fixed that for you.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen10/06/21 06:35 PM
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Sarcasm preferred People who hide behind sarcasm generally do so in an attempt to mask insecurities. The better among them, who may yet grow out of it and make of themselves a decent person, are simply afraid of sincerity (read: honesty) because they know it will expose their flaws for all to see. These ones, if willing to do the work necessary to improve, can be saved - though, as always, be wary you don't enter into Captain Save-a-Ho territory. I spent far too many years as a young(er) man hid…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen09/06/21 01:40 AM
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Sometimes quantity has a quality all its own. Of course, this is generally in reference to offensive ordinance output, not fat chicks.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen08/06/21 02:33 AM
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For a woman who wants to get married and have children, "your best you" is almost necessarily going to include youth and fertility. Yes, some women are able to focus first on career and education and find a man later in life who helps them accomplish all their goals. We hear stories of these women precisely because they are the exceptions who prove the rule. I'm not dictating behavior here, simply providing information. If you want to roll those dice and take on the house I wish you all the luck…
/r/RedPillWomen06/06/21 04:15 PM
1

Never heard of it, I'm just an English nerd with an appreciation of and interest in the history and evolution of common idioms within the language.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen05/06/21 04:29 PM
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"Finally" nothing. She said it herself: he was only keeping her around for the pussy. The woman's a fucking train wreck, but if you don't have anything better going on at the time she's still fuckable (far more so than most women her age, in fact). Dude took what she was offering 'til it was no longer worth the bother then moved on. Good on James.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen05/06/21 03:50 AM
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Literally all most men want in a woman is that she be attractive (which most women are by default, they just have to not fuck it up with poor choices and self-destructive behavior) and, far more important in the long term, supportive. Your third line is perfectly emblematic of that, and it's the stuff dreams are made of.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen05/06/21 03:43 AM
0

No, it should be the norm. Routine infant circumcision is a fucking barbaric practice with absolutely no place in any kind of civilized society. The fact a lot of us in the states have had it done (at the behest of our parents, no less) and can still function sexually does nothing to change its being a gross violation of individual bodily autonomy and integrity.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen05/06/21 03:25 AM
10

have their cake and eat it too *Eat their cake and have it too. Somewhere along the way the wording got reversed in the popular lexicon despite the former not really following in a logical way. After all, as Carlin famously quipped, "What good is cake if you can't eat it?!"
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen05/06/21 03:17 AM
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I draw a hard distinction between single mothers and widows, as do most here in this sub. Widows, generally speaking, are genuine victims of circumstance (which isn't to say they can't come with their own problems). Single mothers, whether through shitty behavior and poor choices or simple neglect, chose their lot in life.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen03/06/21 05:40 AM
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Hell, no diamond in any case. A diamond is nothing more than a chunk of super-compressed carbon - one of the most common elements in the universe. Take a big piece o' coal, subject it to enough heat and pressure and voila: you have a diamond. The only reason the damn things have any perceived value is marketing and monopoly. If, for whatever reason, I ever wanted to gift a woman a pretty rock I'd get her a ruby or emerald or such - something actually relatively rare. And I'd still pay less than …
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen03/06/21 05:27 AM
10

Marcus Aurelius wrote his Meditations nearly two thousand years ago, yet somehow it still remains relevant. Wisdom doesn't have a use by date.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen01/06/21 10:14 PM
7

Except it obviously didn't.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen01/06/21 04:43 AM
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The good ones do. The fact there are comparatively few of them anymore does nothing to diminish that.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen01/06/21 04:42 AM
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/thread
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen31/05/21 01:11 PM
1

Hey now, what did water buffalo ever do to earn that comparison? They're supposed to look like they do.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen31/05/21 01:08 PM
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Ain't no "supposedly" about it. I've never felt even the slightest bit of physical/sexual attraction to another man and I'm entirely comfortable in stating I never will.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen31/05/21 01:06 PM
4

Why not both?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen31/05/21 01:02 PM
3

Aye. Dude has his blind spots, of course, just like everyone does, but he talks a lot o' sense about a lot o' shit most people desperately need to hear. Crucially, at least to my mind, he also seems to be more interested in preserving and rebuilding western civilization than simply hedonistically enjoying the decline, as so many of the TRP crowd seem to favor.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen30/05/21 02:59 PM
8

It really, really doesn't. As I said above, I'm 5'8". This time two years ago I was in the best shape of my life; 140 lbs of lean muscle with barely any fat to speak of. Granted, that ain't much, but I'm not a very big guy. The brother I mentioned in the footnote is 6'3" and grossly overweight. Pushing 260, I think, all of it sitting right in his giant gut (I love the guy, but Christ he needs to start eating better). We'd go out places together and, as is my wont, I'd low-key keep an eye out to …
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen30/05/21 02:43 PM
11

I understand the frustration and I also despise hypocrisy, but in this case it has nothing to do with conscious thought. Women aren't choosing tall men to spite anyone, they're doing it because their genes tell them to. Because height and broad shoulders in men correlate strongly with health and "good" genes. The reasons they come up with for this "preference" is just the prefrontal cortex trying to generate a post-hoc rationalization for an impulse buried much deeper in our cerebral wiring. Fir…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen30/05/21 12:14 AM
7

Confidence is sexy, and there's a lot for which it can cover, but as a woman you simply don't, perhaps even can't understand how significant a role height plays in sexual selection for men. You said it yourself: when you're with a man who's not sufficiently taller than you you feel butch and unfeminine. Not because of anything he's done wrong, but because it's hardwired into your genes to seek out tall men, to the point there's very little in the way of negatives most women won't willfully overl…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen29/05/21 11:46 PM
7

Hell, women being attracted to tall (relative to their own height) men is less a preference and more a fact of our evolution. Height and broad shoulders in men strongly correlate with health and "good" genes. Feeling butch and unfeminine with shorter guys and "petite" with taller guys is just your prefrontal cortex trying to come up with post-hoc rationalizations for what's hard-coded into your brain. It works the same way with men being attracted to relatively slim young women with clear skin, …
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen29/05/21 11:25 PM
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They don't date short guys because they don't want short sons. This implies there's a degree of conscious thought involved, which I don't think is the case. Children are the product of both parents' genes, after all, and a tall man making babies with a short woman can absolutely turn out short(er) sons (I should know; I'm the only male in my immediate family under 6' - fuck you too, genetics). Even people living thousands of years ago, no less intelligent than we are, would have been plenty obse…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen29/05/21 11:14 PM
6

That better?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen29/05/21 08:07 PM
57

Understanding the extent to which height utterly short-circuits most women's selection mechanism is one of the blackest red pills most dudes ever swallow. Being tall covereth a multitude of sins. It's actually difficult to think of a red flag most women won't actively ignore for a man who's 6'+. Myself, I'm 5'8". Which ain't short by any means, and I'm still taller than most of the women I run into day-to-day, but neither am I tall. I am, however, the only male in my immediate family under 6' (f…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen29/05/21 07:00 PM
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Understanding how height utterly short-circuits most women's selection mechanism was one of the blackest red pills I ever swallowed. Something over which none of us have even the slightest degree of control, yet it covereth virtually every other sin a man might have (at least as far as getting your foot in the door, especially for casual sex)
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen29/05/21 06:07 PM
2

Oh, I whined, complained and blamed everyone else plenty, and for far longer than I'd care to admit, let alone am proud of. Fortunately, a few years back I finally realized that didn't seem to be accomplishing anything and it's time to adjust my tactics. I still have a long way to go, and I'm still lonely as fuck, but I wouldn't go back to the way I was for anything. Even if I weren't any better off than I was 5 years ago, just knowing all my problems are my own stupid fault and it's entirely wi…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen28/05/21 08:38 PM
4

Ha! Aye, sir!
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen28/05/21 08:30 PM
3

Right. I think I made it sound worse there than it is. I definitely regret my error, but I don't generally dwell on it much in my day-to-day life, and on the occasion I meet a woman who seems to have what I'm looking for I'm not doing any mental comparisons to The One I Let Get Away. I do think about it a fair bit more than I did for most of the 15 years following, but that's mostly because it wasn't until about 32 that I finally pulled my head out of my ass and started seeing things for what th…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen28/05/21 08:28 PM
61

"The best revenge is a life well-lived."
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen28/05/21 03:36 PM
56

Fortunately for me, I am an old-fashioned man.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen28/05/21 03:32 PM
2

Number six is desperately trying to convince everyone she's not lying. Especially herself.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen28/05/21 05:48 AM
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Worst part of it all is I had my shot when I was 18. Dated a girl for 8 months who was head-over-heels for me, but I was too young and stupid to realize how good I had it. Not two months after I dumped her she met a new boyfriend who was smart enough to wife her up. They moved over to the next town and have two adorable little girls together. My mom still keeps in touch with 'em, on account o' they're just damn good people. Meanwhile I've hardly been touched in going on 18 years. I could have ha…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen28/05/21 05:38 AM
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Four years, she says. Four. Whole. Years. Bitch, I'll be 36 in September and I've been alone virtually the whole of my adult life. The closest I ever got to having a successful, lasting relationship was when I was 18. It lasted 8 months. You want to talk about fucking loneliness, get back to me when you're coming up on literally half your fucking life having gone by without anyone to whom you aren't genetically related touching you in any sort of intimate way. Fuck outta' here with your fucking …
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen27/05/21 10:23 PM
12

That's what always amazes (though never surprises) me about all this. I'm 35. Have a decent job, but nothing amazing. I don't make anywhere near six figures and I'm well under 6' tall. I'm in reasonably good shape, but Chad I ain't and never will be. As such, when I'm looking for a partner, I throw a much wider net than "18-24, blonde, DDs and child birthing hips." Those women are going to save themselves for men who have more to offer, or they're going to waste themselves on Chad and Tyrone. Ei…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen27/05/21 10:16 PM
1

Rule 4. Don't ask for links and don't post any you find.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen27/05/21 10:05 PM
1

Ah, a man of culture, I see.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen27/05/21 03:10 PM
3

It's almost like there's a reason traditional social mores strongly discouraged such poor behavior. Not because we're all secretly a bunch of misogynists; rather, near as I can tell, it seems to be the only thing that actually works. Turns out the men who built the civilization we're living in the ruins of understood human nature pretty well. Women in particular seem to respond better to the negative social pressure of shame and ostracization - which is presumably why they use it on each other a…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen26/05/21 12:34 PM
2

Was my first thought as well. Thing is, the idea of fun ass-energy could be a real selling point for some women. ...y'know, the actually attractive ones.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen26/05/21 12:25 PM
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Turns out the men who built the civilizations we're living in the ruins of understood human nature pretty well. The wider culture shaming and ostracizing single mothers wasn't done because we're all secret misogynists, but because, by all appearances, that's the only social pressure to which they respond positively. Simply incentivizing good behavior doesn't work. The carrot means nothing if it ain't backed up by the threat of the stick.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen26/05/21 12:15 PM
3

I don't think she's speaking about her appearance there. Reading between the lines, I'm seeing an even less eloquent version of the infamous Marilyn Monroe quote.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen26/05/21 03:12 AM
3

It's amazing how often these women make negative statements to which you can simply add "anymore" to get at the truth they're so poorly trying to hide.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen23/05/21 11:19 PM
11

I agree with sjamad_oc that feminists never truly allied with Muslims. The more I see of the Cult of "Woke," the more I think Doctor Randomercam nailed it. The video's long but well worth a listen if you have the time. These people are not xenophiles, as so many mistakenly assume. They don't actually love the other - if they did they'd put more (read: any) effort into seriously adopting non-western customs and values in their day-to-day lives. What they are is ideological oikophobes. They don't …
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen23/05/21 11:06 PM
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In my experience (at least among single women), most women are happy to see other women in their circle do well provided the other women's status never supersedes her own. As soon as one's personal perception of being Queen Bee within a particular group is threatened, however, the knives come out. I've no idea if this is true for happily married women, but I'd like to think those in a healthy (/red pill) relationship have had their worst tendencies and impulses curbed by that and they're just ge…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen23/05/21 03:27 PM
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Straight from the whore's "horse's" mouth. Jesus wept.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen23/05/21 02:39 PM
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It's not "blaming the woman" to hold her to account for her actions. On the one hand, she knew the man was no good and slept with him anyway. On the other, she opened her legs for him before she could accurately assess the quality of his character (and, further, elected not to avail herself of the myriad of options available to women for terminating an unwanted pregnancy, or even putting the child up for adoption). A man's shitty behavior does not absolve a woman of responsibility for her own po…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen22/05/21 02:15 PM
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the guys usually stay in the country. That's the key. People adapt to their environment and the standards of the society in which they live. You can find the most tradcon wife in the world and, if you bring her back to a "progressive" hellhole city, she'll morph into yet another screeching harridan, divorce you and leave both your lives in shambles. Western civilization works because of patriarchy, not in spite of it.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen22/05/21 02:07 PM
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Even if he was, she chose him. She either elected to sleep with a loser despite knowing what kind of man he was (chasing tingles) or she opened her legs for him before she could accurately assess the quality of his character. A man's shitty behavior does not absolve a woman of responsibility for her own poor decisions.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen22/05/21 02:03 PM
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male birth control is way harder to make because it's easier to shut down the production of one egg vs tens of millions of sperm without crazy side effects. Not true, actually. A doctor in India developed a method of male birth control about 40 years ago that's proven effective, safe, reliable, semi-permanent and easily reversible with essentially no complications. Getting it done (or reversed) is a simple outpatient procedure, no more complicated than getting a vasectomy, and it's dirt cheap - …
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen22/05/21 01:55 PM
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Hell, even the latter is on it's way out. This young woman is a prime example of "only hot because she's young."
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen21/05/21 03:45 AM
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Because I'm a man and I take responsibility for my actions. I don't go into it here because Rule #1, but I think every bit as poorly of the irresponsible and destructive behavior of Chad and Tyrone as I do the single mothers they leave behind. Both are responsible for the weakening of western civilization and values, thus making the world a more dangerous and unstable place for the rest of us.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen21/05/21 03:43 AM
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This right here is a prime example of "only hot because she's young."
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen21/05/21 03:38 AM
12

Nah, even if you're the owner and sole proprietor of your own business you have a boss: your customers. They're arguably the worst boss of all, as most of 'em won't even tell you you've been fired; they'll just no-call no-show like the worst employees, and you're left to puzzle it out after the fact as you scramble to save your livelihood.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen19/05/21 09:29 PM
9

Even with the 'shopping, these women are way too young and attractive to be believable as FDS posters.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen16/05/21 07:45 PM
9

I've known a few men who enjoy some crazy, convoluted shit but, generally speaking, most dudes are every bit as simple inside the bedroom as we are everywhere else. Missionary is genuinely my favorite position. Not because I'm vanilla and believe sex is strictly for procreation, but because I enjoy seeing the pleasure I'm giving her in her facial expression. Visually speaking, that's the hottest part of sex. I honestly get bored with doggy because it lacks that visual stimulation. 'Sides, what m…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen16/05/21 02:03 PM
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It's the latter. She's perfectly fine with being a slut - downright reveled in it, in fact, judging by the excerpts from her other posts MehowSri posted above. She just doesn't want to deal with any consequences for her shitty behavior.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen15/05/21 09:56 PM
4

*Eat your cake and have it too. Somewhere along the way the wording of that phrase got flipped and folks have been saying it wrong ever since, in a way that doesn't make any damned sense. As Carlin famously quipped, what good is cake if you can't eat it?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen15/05/21 09:44 PM
4

On the one hand, I chuckled. On the other hand, I guaran-goddamn-TEE you there are more women by orders of magnitude who fit your qualifications than there are men who fit even 1/3 of hers.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen15/05/21 04:15 AM
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I agree. The only parts of her profile really stick out to me as red flags are her being an attorney and stating she's "not looking for ordinary." Sure, she ain't the Platonic Form of Wife, but I ain't exactly Chad Thundercock myself, and other than the above potential hitches there are a lot of positives to work with here.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen13/05/21 10:59 PM
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I'll buck the trend here: aside from "not looking for ordinary," I don't think this one's too bad. She's reasonably attractive for her age, doesn't appear to have any crotch goblins in tow and isn't actively looking to change that. Yes, she's "looking for an alpha male," but that's negotiable. Not in the sense of talking her down to settling for Billy Beta, but in the sense of "alpha" being contextual. You don't have to be Chad or Tyrone to be an alpha male, you just need to have your shit toget…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen13/05/21 10:51 PM
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With as much makeup as she's wearing, the tats/piercings and the "works out sometimes?" She'll be lucky if she still has 4 good years, let alone 18.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen13/05/21 07:49 PM
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I was wondering if anyone else was going to catch that. I'm 35. Been single the vast majority of my adult life. Closest I ever got to having a successful relationship was when I was 18. It lasted 8 months. I'm so lonely I'll occasionally need to head to the bathroom so I can have a private little emotional breakdown at work because I've hardly been touched in 15 fucking years.1 Meanwhile, she got married and had fucking children, but no one ever paid any attention to her. Fuck this cunt. In the …
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen13/05/21 06:49 PM
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Ain't nothin' "recent" about it. This is basic human nature, as highlighted in many of our oldest stories. The evil queen hates Snow White because she's younger and more beautiful. Medea murders her own children when Jason puts her aside to marry the (presumably younger and more beautiful) daughter of King Creos - both of whom she also kills. Women have always pursued the best option available to them, and the leftovers have always hypocritically chastised the behavior of younger women doing exa…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen13/05/21 02:53 PM
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The amount of wisdom regarding human nature found in old folklore is staggering when you actually understand enough to see it. People living in the distant past may not have known as much about physics, chemistry and engineering as we do, but they generally had human behavior and motivations nailed the fuck down.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen12/05/21 02:41 PM
5

Are you referring to the EDC post showing a man's hand? 'Cause that totally wasn't posted by OP.
/r/WhereAllTheGoodMenAre11/05/21 03:51 PM
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I honestly think it's more likely her kid gets saddled with serious attachment issues due to her pouring all her attention into him for lack of any other human connection. Shit like this is how weak, coddled men and the kind of fucked up, incestuous relationships Freud got so worked up about happens.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen10/05/21 07:43 PM
5

If your best life involves meeting and marrying a quality man and having children with him you're shooting yourself in the foot by putting that off to chase a career. You can always go back to school and start a new career later in life. Having babies and raising a family, however, has an expiration date. Not necessarily a hard one, but the longer you wait the longer your odds get. Far better for a whole host of reasons to get started on the family while the getting's good. Of course, as you int…
/r/RedPillWomen10/05/21 01:32 AM
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There's always a way...just live in the moment and take each day at a time. This is terrible advice. Even worse than simply advocating work first, then family. Building a family takes time. Building a career takes time. There aren't enough hours in the day to effectively do both. You can't have it all. Anyone who says you can is selling something.
/r/RedPillWomen10/05/21 01:16 AM
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I think most family-oriented men would rather marry a woman who's clear in her also being family-oriented. As others have stated, you can always go back to school and start a new career later in life. Having babies and raising a family, however, has an expiration date. Not necessarily a hard one, but the longer you put it off the longer your odds get. Far better for a whole host of reasons to get started on the family while the getting's good. Of course, as you noted, all of this hinges on her h…
/r/RedPillWomen09/05/21 08:18 PM
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Hopefully you can do both You can't, though. Not realistically. As OP said, something has to give. That's precisely why women being told when they're young to go to school and get established in a career before they start thinking seriously about starting a family are being so horribly misled. You can't have it all. Anyone who says you can is selling something.
/r/RedPillWomen09/05/21 08:08 PM
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Sucks to be us too. Who do you think is paying for all the social programs they depend on to actually maintain the kids?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen09/05/21 02:27 PM
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I've taken to describing the situation using celebrities, on account of it makes the women I occasionally speak to about this stuff somewhat more like to grok the message. Taylor Swift will expect the man she wants to marry to be at least as wealthy and successful as she is, with a high profile career and the respect of his peers within both his private and professional social circles. Conversely, George Clooney in his prime could have met a girl living in a trailer park in Arkansas and spent th…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen08/05/21 04:16 PM
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privilege That's a funny way of spelling delusion.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen04/05/21 05:16 AM
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I'm biologically wired to want a lot of things I know aren't good for me and don't let myself have too often. Women aren't toddlers. They're fully capable of exercising restraint and self-control, even if most of them elect not to. I agree with your overall point, but I refuse to absolve grown-ass women of responsibility for their own shitty, shortsighted decisions. They can do better, and we should judge those who fail to do so every ounce as harshly as we do men who make similarly catastrophic…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen03/05/21 07:14 PM
8

Man, what did cats ever do to deserve this shit?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen01/05/21 04:57 PM
10

Excepting a dramatic uptick in tyrannical government overreach, the world is no more dangerous today than it was in January of '19. You have absolutely nothing to fear from the Commie Coof unless you're 80 years old, morbidly obese or already in extremely poor health (but I repeat myself).
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen01/05/21 04:56 PM
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I want to believe it's a Hail Mary. She knows full well what an absolute dumpster fire her life is so she's swinging for the fences because, hey, what's she have to lose? I know I'm wrong about that, of course; the above being true would require she actually have some modicum of self-awareness. That shit's as rare in young, single women (even the ones with crotch goblins in tow) as Chads who actually commit to 'em.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen30/04/21 02:55 PM
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I think it's more accurate to say physical attraction isn't negotiable for men. Of course we'd all prefer to have a woman who looks like our favorite porn star in her prime but, functionally speaking, all that's really required is she be fun to look at. That's the thing though: it is required. It doesn't matter how much you like a woman on a personal level, how thoroughly you may enjoy her company; if you don't feel a visceral desire to see her naked, ain't nothin' doing for it.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen24/04/21 12:08 AM
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I mean, I agree, but the dude you responded to wasn't the one as said it. ...is this another /u/typo-magashiv Ben Franklin misattribution?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen23/04/21 03:01 AM
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A large part of this the fact the static nature of OLD plays to a woman's strengths. It goes back to the old idea of "women are human beings, men are human doings." Male attractiveness is dynamic. It's based on your social status, your fitness, your competence, your personality. There are some static metrics that correlate with the above, such as height and income, but, generally speaking, male attractiveness is only truly shown and witnessed in action. Female attractiveness is much more static.…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen22/04/21 10:26 PM
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I've heard too many stories about prenups being thrown out in divorce proceedings, often from legal professionals, to put any real faith in 'em. Fact of the matter is the "family" courts system simply doesn't give a shit about how the law is supposed to work. They have an agenda to push and a payday to collect, and they'll run roughshod over you as man without hesitation in order to make that happen. And unless you're exceptionally famous and/or wealthy (and sometimes even then), there ain't a d…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen17/04/21 01:52 AM
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She looks pretty good for 44. The downward angle and caked-on makeup in every photo don't help, of course. To say nothing of the duck lips. I'll never understand how that became a thing, or how women somehow convinced themselves it's attractive.1 The fact she feels the need to state up front she's not an escort is alarming. Like... anymore? "Very special in cases many men like" seems pretty telling here. 'Course, it's also vague and doesn't really mean anything, so it could equally well be the s…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen15/04/21 11:04 PM
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I mean, I feel for the kid. It doesn't deserve the shit sandwich of a life to which this stupid cunt's poor decision making will invariably subject it. Not enough to take responsibility for the poor bastard, of course, but I still feel for the kid.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen15/04/21 01:46 AM
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Reminds me of an old Foxworthy bit about what women really mean when they say various loaded phrases. Relevant one here was "We should see other people." Guys, if a woman says to you "I think we should start seeing other people," trust me, she has already cut a pony from the herd and, if she ain't riding him yet, she has pulled the saddle out o' the barn.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen12/04/21 03:16 AM
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Good point. I think I was putting the cart before the horse there. Thinking further on it, women listing their professional and financial accomplishments in dating profiles seems more like a post-hoc value signal. A tactic more generally employed by older women, but not necessarily exclusive to them - I've known a fair few women who had already bought a home and/or started building a fairly successful career by their mid-20s who were just as quick to list these "assets" in their dating endeavors…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen12/04/21 01:48 AM
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It's projection mixed with insecurity. Women are attracted to high status men. High status men are, generally speaking, almost necessarily accomplished men. Pair this with the fact a lot of young people naively assume the opposite sex must be attracted to the same things they are (which is fair enough when you're a stupid teenager and still figuring out the difference between your ass and a hole in the ground), then combine that with women's SMV being entirely front-loaded and their propensity t…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen11/04/21 02:44 AM
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For the vast majority of them (we're talking probably close to 99% here) it's not. There was an article came out a while back detailed the average earnings of everyone on OF. I forget what the number was, but it wasn't high. Thing about averages, though; they can be skewed pretty heavily by exceptional outliers. The median income of OF "creators?" Absolute bupkis. There are a few whales on the site (using the financial sense of the term, not the... colorful metaphor sense) who rake in absolutely…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen10/04/21 11:24 PM
4

"I'm not like other girls." -Literally every woman I've ever met, let alone dated. And lest you think I'm some sort of amazing, exception-sniffing gopher, I can assure you the truth is far less exciting.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen10/04/21 08:48 PM
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I forget what the average was for OF "creators," but the actual median? $0. Plug whatever time frame you want into that, won't change the number. The vast, vast majority of people selling content on OF are actually losing money by doing so. They'd be better off getting a part time job at a McDonald's. The OF whales (using the financial sense of the term) are very much the exceptions who prove the rule.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen10/04/21 08:43 PM
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Now I'm torn between upvoting you all because funny and downvoting you all because funnier.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen09/04/21 11:13 PM
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It's not, though. Would need a third line with 5 syllables to complete it. "You entitled cunt," perhaps.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen09/04/21 11:05 PM
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My cats are super happy to see me every day when I get home from work; they run to the door, tails straight in the air and weave between my legs while purring loudly and meowing for my attention. They love playing with me even more than they enjoy going outside and having a chance to hunt, and when I go to bed they jump and curl up on either side of me, where they generally stay all night until I wake up the following morning. I mean, I get what you were going for and upvoted the joke, but there…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen09/04/21 11:03 PM
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You also have to develop it. Just like men, good women aren't born, they're made. It's the male equivalent of the old military wife wisdom: if you want to be married to a general find a lieutenant with potential. I probably have the ranks wrong there, but hopefully you take my meaning.
/r/WhereAllTheGoodMenAre09/04/21 10:44 PM
14

Agency and accountability are tools of The Patriarchy™.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen08/04/21 02:49 PM
1

I never said being tall is the Be All, End All of male sexual success. Quite the opposite, in fact; I explicitly stated it won't help you if your game isn't sufficiently up to par. What it does do is give you better odds with most women out the gate compared to shorter men, especially in OLD, where so much of the dynamic nature of game is lost. Which, again, isn't to say you're guaranteed to succeed, nor are shorter men guaranteed to fail. It just gives you better odds. How well you play 'em rem…
/r/TheRedPill06/04/21 10:25 PM
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Eh, that seems like a fool's errand to me. There are apparently operations to extend your leg bones or something and add a couple inches, but from what I understand they're both incredibly expensive and excruciatingly painful. Instead of fixating on the thing(s) you can't control, far better to focus on improving what you can. As I said, my height works against me in OLD, where I'm competing with every 6'+ Chad and Tyrone in a 50 mile radius, but that's much less the case in real world interacti…
/r/TheRedPill06/04/21 10:07 PM
2

Oh, I agree. Near as I can tell 5'8" seems to be about average male height, at least where I live. That's why I put "short" in quotes like that. Crucially, however, 5'8" also isn't tall, which seems to be functionally identical to short in most women's minds regardless of whether the man in question is actually below average height. At least with respect to OLD, at any rate. Which is, again, part of why I generally avoid that.
/r/TheRedPill06/04/21 09:57 PM
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Keep in mind that I'm 6'0 It's probably not impossible to overstate the significance of this, but it's pretty damn close. A man being tall (5'10"+) fucking short circuits most women's brains. Doesn't matter if you're in shape, financially and/or professionally successful, well-groomed and -dressed or even fucking unemployed; being tall covereth a multitude of sins which would she would otherwise consider deal breakers. I'm not just talking out of my ass here. I'm the youngest of five brothers, a…
/r/TheRedPill05/04/21 08:21 PM
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Fuck a pill. RISUG is the silver goddamn bullet of male contraception. That's where any efforts should be focused, and fuck pharmaceutical companies trying to bury it because they won't be able to bleed men for it every month like they can women.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen05/04/21 03:51 AM
6

Read up on RISUG/Vasagel. It's a simple procedure using a dirt cheap chemical compound that lasts 10 years with no complications, 100% success rate and is easily reversible. It was developed 40 goddamn years ago by a doctor in India. As I understand it, it's effectively the silver fucking bullet of contraception. And it will never pass muster in developed markets. The reason for that is simple: it costs about $20, maybe $30 for all the materials including syringe. And it's a simple outpatient su…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen05/04/21 03:49 AM
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I appreciate the sarcasm, but I imagine we both know it's exactly the opposite. Women opposing male birth control has nothing to do with them fearing we won't stay on top of it; to the contrary, they know we will, and that will take the control out of their hands, which is what they're really afraid of. If they no longer have exclusive control over if and when they get pregnant they can't baby trap men and put 'em on the hook for 18 years of child support. They'd actually have to take full respo…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen04/04/21 05:44 PM
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.gov That's a funny way of spelling "we."
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen03/04/21 05:53 PM
2

There seriously needs to be a fucking black market for RISUG/Vasagel/Smart RISUG/whatever-they're-calling-it-these-days. I'd readily shell out $100 for it, even knowing it should only cost about $15.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen03/04/21 05:53 PM
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I feel for her predicament, but it must be said: if she'd never fucked Tyrone in the first place she never would have had that problem. Play stupid games, win stupid prizes.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen03/04/21 05:24 PM
3

Aw, shucks. I'm just here to cast my pearls before swine, same as the rest of you. Much appreciated, sir!
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen03/04/21 12:27 AM
5

Because she's an emotional child with no sense of self-awareness. Thing is, she's not lying when she says she doesn't do all that shit for men. She is lying about doing it for herself, though. Who she's really doing it for is other women. The bit she wrote about waking up tomorrow and "society" deciding none of that shit is necessary anymore, after which she wouldn't do it? Horse shit. Because "society" is women. They are the abiters of social acceptability. And she knows damn well other women a…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen02/04/21 05:50 PM
33

Responsibility is a tool of The Patriarchy™.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen28/03/21 02:23 PM
2

What's wrong with liking country music? Unless you're talking about the vapid pop/hip-hop shit radio stations try to pass off as "country," of course.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen28/03/21 02:21 PM
4

because they've been over-exposed to horror divorce stories Hell, I never even made it that far. My lack of desire to get married when I was younger had nothing to do with divorce horror stories, it had to do with virtually every model of marriage I saw around me looking like purgatory for the husband, if not outright Hell. TV shows and movies were full of incompetent, worthless husbands propped up by brilliant, wonderful, always-right-about-everything wives who seemingly only kept the man aroun…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen27/03/21 01:50 AM
3

And she chose him. I'm not taking blame away from the man here. I fully believe he's every bit the scumbag you say he is. Nor am I saying she necessarily deserved whatever hell he put her through. All I'm saying is she isn't completely blameless. Generally speaking, men are naturally and rightly held to account for our own poor decision making. Even when those poor decisions were predicated on ignorance and/or manipulation by another, we're at least expected to learn from the experience and not …
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen23/03/21 11:05 PM
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You forgot “homebody” which I assume is code for either lazy and/or no job I'm less critical of this particular adjective as I'm a homebody myself, and I'm neither particularly lazy nor unemployed. I'm just highly introverted and genuinely don't have much desire to go out most days. Everything else, though... Yeah. Not with a barge pole.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen23/03/21 12:13 AM
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Glad I wasn't the only one spotted that. I said in response to the top reply above: she's not upset at men treating her like a sex object. She's upset they're doing it without being Chad inspiring tingles.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen21/03/21 10:07 PM
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I'll buck the trend on this one. Y'all are missing the crucial qualifier here: emotionless She's not upset at being treated like a sex object, she's upset it's being done poorly by dudes who don't (understand how to) inspire tingles. Which isn't a mark against the dudes, necessarily; I imagine she does get hit up/on by a lot of emotionally inept guys, but she can hardly expect any better when she's deliberately presenting herself like the whore she obviously is.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen21/03/21 09:28 PM
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Radical 3rd wave modern day Feminism The latest crop are a lot more open about their intentions, sure, but make no mistake: all this shit was baked into the core of the ideology from day one.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen21/03/21 02:11 PM
5

You're fighting human nature here. However noble the goal, it's completely unrealistic and never going to happen.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen20/03/21 02:15 AM
5

Are you, by chance, familiar with RISUG? Cliff's Notes version: it's a simple chemical compound injected directly into the vas deferens which, through electromagentic stuff, "shred" the sperm cells as they pass through the tube on their way out, rendering them sterile. Fully reversible, lasts 10 years with a 100% success rate and virtually no complications. The only downside is, like a vasectomy, it does require an outpatient operation, but that's a price I'd gladly pay for 10 freaking years of …
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen15/03/21 05:22 AM
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To attract men your age who are commitmen minded, a woman needs to be commitment minded herself. That means she looks for a marriage minded man as soon as she can, not left for later because she wants her fun first. Men who desire marriage do not want a woman who avoids it until the last moment. That sends a message that she does not really value him. As I've seen succinctly expressed elsewhere on this sub, "A man with a future doesn't want a woman with a past."
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen11/03/21 05:17 PM
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It is rude, even now, but gold-digging whores like the one in the OP don't care.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen09/03/21 09:23 PM
3

Agreed. Swap the gender at the beginning and I almost could have written this myself.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen08/03/21 09:16 PM
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I agree with the general thrust of your point, but your characterization of men is... inaccurate. We compete with each other to establish our place in the pecking order, as it were, but once that's done we're generally more cooperative within that order, as that's how shit gets done. Men don't hate each other anymore than we hate snow for existing and needing to be cleared from the streets before people can effectively drive on them, we just respect the reality of the situation and deal with it …
/r/RedPillWomen07/03/21 05:30 PM
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Yup. Same reason so many women list their academic and professional accomplishments and financial status as selling points: these are the things they look for in a man so they naturally assume men are looking for the same things in a woman. Which is fair enough, honestly; I think everyone makes that mistake at first. I certainly did. Of course, anyone with any degree of self-awareness and/or introspection eventually realizes that isn't working and starts trying something new, whereas these women…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen06/03/21 07:33 PM
3

Aposematism strikes again!
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen04/03/21 10:59 PM
6

IMO, she should become a single mom. Hard disagree. The kid she'll inevitably fuck up doesn't deserve that.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen04/03/21 05:10 AM
2

I used to be pretty keen on "feisty" women like she's trying to present herself as. I thought it spoke to a level of metaphorical fire that would make her more fun to spend time with. I've since realized this is generally a warning sign this woman feels she has something to prove and will never, ever let you rest until she feels she's done so to her own satisfaction. Whereupon you'll have submitted to her frame, thus making you boring, and on to the next one she moves. It bears pointing out ther…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen02/03/21 09:50 PM
8

Almost certainly fake: the smile doesn't touch her eyes.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen02/03/21 05:08 AM
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I mean, you do generally want your livestock to be fat...
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen01/03/21 12:16 AM
1

Not disagreeing with your point, but I would argue an individual's character is the walk. If their actions don't line up with their speech they're a hypocrite, which is a mark of poor character. As you noted, some folks are really good at deceiving others with regard to their character for a time, but that doesn't make them stand-up guys. Just means you didn't realize what a piece o' shit they are until well down the line.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen28/02/21 04:52 PM
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I made it about half a second in. You, sir, owe me new eyeballs. These ones are broken. Thank goodness I'm a proficient touch typist.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen28/02/21 04:46 PM
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I mean, they can't really. But they've allowed themselves to be fooled into thinking otherwise, so.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen27/02/21 07:18 PM
6

Purely out of curiosity, which service would one use for that? My experience is pretty well every dating app/site has invariably regressed to the LCD of Tinder. Doesn't matter what their ostensible purpose when founded was; now they're all just about pictures over profiles no one reads and everyone trying to look as adventurous and exciting as possible for the meat market. That's largely why I don't even bother anymore. Well, that and the fact I'm neither Chad nor Chad-adjacent and I refuse to l…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen26/02/21 11:57 PM
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Glad I'm not the only one. I couldn't keep straight which guy she was talking about at any given time; it's all just a jumbled, stream-of-consciousness mess.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen25/02/21 09:54 PM
14

The latest crop may be more open and explicit about their goals, but the seeds of the bad ideas they're espousing and the damage the implementation thereof is causing have been baked into the core of the ideology from the very beginning. A few genuinely good things have come out of the feminist movement over the past ~170 years, but make no mistake: anyone who tries telling you feminism is fundamentally a good thing and it's only the modern radicals who've taken things too far is selling somethi…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen25/02/21 09:52 PM
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I don't think I've been on over 20 dates with 20 different women in my entire life. Which is something I need to work on, obviously, and I imagine I'm somewhere in the lower range of male romantic/sexual success (for a variety of reasons), but I also imagine that ratio isn't much different for most men who ain't Chad or Tyrone.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen24/02/21 06:05 AM
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Progressives are many things, but "liberal" ain't one of 'em.
/r/RedPillWomen21/02/21 04:49 PM
1

Fair enough. Point being there was no stupidity or deception involved, just human error. As opposed to someone contracting HSV2, which all but requires either or both of the above to take place.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen19/02/21 09:06 PM
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Right. Your example was obviously exceptional, but the style of it was familiar to rejections I've faced myself. More to the point, however, even when they're not a mega-bitch about it, the obvious disgust many women feel at the prospect of dating a man they consider beneath them is generally all too plain to see. It took me 'til just a couple years ago to finally get over my apprehensions and realize these women aren't even worth my consideration. Live an angry, aggressive cunt who chases off a…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen19/02/21 09:02 PM
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It's not a silver bullet, no, but it opens doors for you and gives you easier access to opportunities you'd otherwise have to fight like hell for with no guarantee of them ever coming through. It's also not something you'd really be consciously aware of, as you've presumably been tall since you hit puberty, so that's all you know. Building on a point made by u/mustangfrank, I have a question for you: of all the women who've turned you down after you asked them out, how many have done so with ext…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen18/02/21 09:45 PM
6

Progressives ain't liberal. Not by a long shot.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen18/02/21 09:03 PM
2

Would depend for me on how she came by it. I've had HSV1 all my life. So do all my siblings, I believe. We seem to have inherited it from our Mom. If that's the case for her, fair dues. If it's the alternative, though: that's a great big NOPE. I mean, she's a great big NOPE anyway for all the other reasons, I'm just addressing the one aspect.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen18/02/21 12:15 AM
1

Right. Apologies, sir.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen16/02/21 08:24 PM
3

dog pill I suspect I may have an idea what you mean here, but could you elaborate?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen16/02/21 02:30 AM
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My mother isn't a drug. She didn't fuck over my father and leave his life in shambles. She gave him six children whom they raised in a loving home to be healthy, productive adults, and they're now enjoying their twilight years together, spoiling the grandkids and looking back on a life damn well lived. Same was true for my grandparents. Same is true for most of my aunts and uncles. And half my siblings. What you're selling is no better than feminism. Women aren't men, but neither are they the en…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen01/02/21 10:02 PM
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I thought the coffee thing was odd too, but it ain't my list. That said, I don't drink coffee myself (was raised LDS) and, while I take no issue with other folks doing so, there's a line to be drawn between recreational use and dependency. Some people literally can't function properly without their morning cup o' joe (or 4). I don't see any difference between those people and alcoholics. Chemical dependency on caffeine may be more socially acceptable, but addiction is addiction. It's a problem n…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen01/02/21 09:53 PM
5

Fair enough. Maybe I'm just a naive romantic (which might well be due to my lack of success with women), but I still think a committed, long-term relationship with a quality woman is pretty much the best way to live. I love my friends and my brother, but I have needs and desires going well beyond sex which they simply can't help with in any meaningful way. But hey, if MGTOW works for you, I ain't gonna' naysay that. It's kinda' the whole point, after all.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen30/01/21 01:55 AM
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Maybe it's because I'm coming at it from the opposite direction, but I think you're going about it half-wrong. Absolutely look for a woman who's interested in more than just your height, but don't cut off your nose to spite your face. Yes, it's stupid that your height gives you such an unfair advantage with women because, as you noted, you did nothing to earn it and can't change it. But you are tall, it does give you that advantage and you can't change that. So rather than giving into cynicism a…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen30/01/21 01:27 AM
3

I don't know about "based on," I was just referring to a prescient bit of comedy from back in the days when comedy was still allowed to be funny. Here's the link. I'm honestly kind of surprised it's on YouTube, even though it's SNL (and thus big media).
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen30/01/21 01:06 AM
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I need to save that Twitter post so I can show it to every single person who tries to tell me "being a nerd is cool now!" Being a nerd isn't cool. It's tolerated if you're also a successful, high-value male. Generally speaking, most women see any passionate interest of yours that isn't focused on them as a character flaw1. There are some for whom this isn't true, but they're vanishingly fucking rare these days, and virtually all of them are already married. Of course, if you didn't have and purs…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen30/01/21 12:58 AM
4

The older I get and the more I learn about women, the more I realize how utterly true the old SNL skit about workplace sexual harassment really was, in ways and on levels to which the vast majority of women will never, ever admit.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen30/01/21 12:31 AM
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It's really difficult sometimes not to let myself get resentful about that. My older brother is 6'3". Hell of a guy; best work ethic of anyone I've ever known, pure salt o' the earth type. Unfortunately, he's also thoroughly blue pilled and an absolute headcase because of his ex wife (these things are not unrelated). Any time a woman expresses interest in him he begins mentally panicking, and any time he actually starts thinking about dating again his thoughts immediately go to the worst possibl…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen30/01/21 12:28 AM
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At least she's not shaming dudes who are put off by the 4 kids thing... She is, though. As SolidStateDynamite noted, "panic" implies an emotional deficiency on the part of the man, that you're not up to the task as opposed to simply not interested in providing for and raising another man's children. It's subtle compared to the blatant shaming language we usually see from women's profiles posted here, but it's definitely still there.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen25/01/21 09:11 PM
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She said nothing about being a good wife, though. As usual, it's all stick and no carrot.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen17/01/21 06:47 AM
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He's not blaming men, he's simply reiterating what has already been established through study of psychology. A man who's not related to a child is far more likely to physically and/or sexually abuse that child than a man who isn't, because there's no genetic investment present. The same is true of women, though they tend to sexually and/or emotionally abuse children. None of which is to say a step-parent or (boy/girl)friend or other unrelated adult will necessarily abuse a child to whom they're …
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen16/01/21 04:58 PM
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TL;DR: Attractive 23-year-old woman joins OF in June (back when most folks still believed the Covid restrictions were actually about Covid), makes bank. Four months later an overweight 22-year-old joins and, shocker of shockers, doesn't do as well. There's also a reasonably attractive 36-year-old who hasn't had much success. The Wall takes no prisoners.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen16/01/21 01:09 AM
1

I'd say most people still aren't, they just aren't as worried about tip-toeing around sensibilities anymore. Why bother when you know the snowflakes are going to take offense and pitch a fit regardless?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen12/01/21 11:30 PM
3

I've said before, there's never been a better time to be a genuine bigot than now. The woke crowd have gone so far off the deep end, labeling anyone who simply doesn't agree with them quickly/convincingly enough Nazis and ists and phobes, the terms have effectively lost all meaning. I'm honestly more likely to talk to the person being vilified and find out where they're coming from than I am to give any credence to the accusations being thrown their way.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen12/01/21 08:41 PM
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because the normal well adjusted ones are busy doing what we normal people do which is work, keep learning things and generally not go around telling people what to do or we throw epithets at them. Or, as my best friend so eloquently phrased it many moons ago, "Crazy people run the world because normal people have shit to do."
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen10/01/21 04:44 PM
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I don't have sources anymore, but I distinctly remember "if you wouldn't date a trans-wo/man you're a bigot!" being a thing in my late 20s. At least 6 years ago. They may bring it back 'round for another tour this year, but make no mistake; they've already gone there.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen10/01/21 02:20 AM
3

I just wish I knew what I could do about it. I live in Utah, my state's senators are the fucking swamp, couldn't jump ship and take aim at Trump fast enough. I'm absolutely furious this corrupt shit show seems to be moving forward according to plan, but what the fuck can I do to stop it?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen07/01/21 08:08 PM
1

That's a damn good point. I've always thought my family got broadband internet access pretty early, and we did compared to many of my peers, but, thinking back on it, I would have been around 15 when it became available in the area I grew up in. By that point my friends and I had long-since started raiding his older brother's stash, so when I stumbled my way into online porn it was really just another avenue to acquire something I already knew about and wanted - and hardly an unrestricted one. A…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen06/01/21 09:50 PM
1

Because I've been wrong enough times to learn not to immediately dismiss those with whom I disagree. Maybe they know something I don't, or maybe they're approaching it from an angle I haven't thought to consider. My disagreeing with someone doesn't necessarily mean they're wrong.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen06/01/21 09:27 PM
2

I agree with you about moderate porn usage as a normal dude (though I think the numbers name who responded to your first comment made a solid point re: little kids given unrestricted internet access), but I don't think advising against marriage is necessarily a bad idea. It should be, because a man and a woman getting married and creating a stable home life in which to raise healthy, well-adjusted children is the most reliable means of creating a prosperous and successful civilization in all of …
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen06/01/21 09:19 PM
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I wonder sometimes whether these folks who bang on about how harmful porn is are just wired differently or something. It's interesting sometimes to watch performers do stuff I'll probably never get to do but, honestly? I don't really want to have sex in crazy acrobatic positions, to say nothing of incorporating foreign objects or strapping my partner into convoluted sexual contraptions. What matters is the intensity, not the shape it takes. Missionary with me on top is genuinely my favorite posi…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen05/01/21 09:58 PM
2

I suppose that's where we disagree: I absolutely still value such women. Not because of their scarcity, though that certainly plays into it somewhat, nor even because of their sex (though, again...), but because the only way to become such an individual is to have made the conscious decisions to cultivate high-value habits and attitudes in oneself in the first place, speaking to an undeniable quality of character which is precisely what one should be looking for in a prospective mate or partner.…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen30/12/20 10:48 PM
3

I was thinking specifically of relationship value with my reply, actually. Cooking, housekeeping, being supportive, learning to lock the hamster in a box and trust your man knows what he's doing (provided you've vetted him properly and have determined his judgment can be trusted, of course); all the domestic stuff that doesn't necessarily have anything to do with a woman's appearance (SMV) but absolutely makes her a much more likely investment prospect for a man than a more attractive woman who …
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen30/12/20 06:57 PM
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To be fair/pedantic, women absolutely can have value that doesn't degrade over time, but that type of value has to be actively cultivated. Doing so even puts them on equal moral footing with the men around them, as they're effectively engaging in the same behavior we do. Of course, for a variety of reasons, this is no longer encouraged (if even taught), and most women get so high on their own supply of intrinsic sexual value it never even occurs to them to try a different tack even after that in…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen30/12/20 06:35 PM
1

Yup. Ironically, New York is having a much better time of this "second wave" than other states precisely because Gov. Cuomo already killed off most of the vulnerable population.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen28/12/20 04:12 PM
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To say nothing of the men in this scenario. A majority of (young) men having no stake in their society and seeing no real way to improve their station in life is how revolutions are fomented. It's a surefire recipe for corruption, violence and instability. Look at every harem-breeding species in nature: you're only the king until someone else comes along to kill you (and all your offspring) and take everything you had - and those reigns never last particularly long. Those who advocate for a poly…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen19/12/20 08:17 PM
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Being a shitty person is hardly exclusive to women, it's just much easier for them to get away with it right now (and for the past 40+ years in most western cultures, but you take my meaning). They're certainly producing the bulk of the exports, though.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen19/12/20 07:44 PM
3

It's absolutely about personality. Specifically, it's about confidence. Everything flows from confidence. Being tall and/or attractive will get your foot in the door, maybe even net you a quick-n-easy, but if you have significant insecurities that start showing through even those women will bail on you. And how big your dick is won't make a lick o' difference without swagger. I'm packin' - in fact the first girl to see me at full mast broke out in nervous giggles because she was intimidated by m…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen19/12/20 07:28 PM
2

To be fair, he's not wrong that Covid affects far more than old people. Or, at least, that's the justification given. I quit the job I had back in March to accept a better offer from another company, only to have that offer rescinded the day before I was supposed to start because the company put out a hiring freeze due to Covid hysteria. When I called my manager at the old job and explained the situation I was told they'd just been handed a similar order from the Higher Ups. I was then unemploye…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen16/12/20 09:43 PM
2

Eh. There's red pills and red pills. Most men want to find a good woman with whom to spend their life and raise a family together. Consequently, most men have personal experience of being burned, or at least shunned, by entitled women they can relate to the content generally found here. Far fewer have direct experience with how full of shit the media and political establishments throughout most of the western world is, and fewer still have put in the time and effort necessary to research the top…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen16/12/20 09:11 PM
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It's one thing to take reasonable precautions on an individual basis to protect yourself and those you love, it's quite another for an authoritative government to impose a lockdown which guts your economy and tramples all over individual rights in the guise of protecting people who are already at the end of life. The vast, vast majority of old people who've died from Covid would have died in the next year or two in any case. Meanwhile they're prevented from seeing and spending time with their lo…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen16/12/20 05:15 AM
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I mean, I give no fucks about Covid because I'm not 80 years old with multiple comorbidities. That's the one part of her profile I actually think is reasonable.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen16/12/20 05:01 AM
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I don't think you should necessarily disqualify a man out-of-hand for having knowledge of red pill ideas. There are some valuable insights and tools to be mined from TRP even if he isn't interested in spinning plates - or at least, that's been my experience there. You do need to step carefully, though, and I agree a more traditional, conservative man with natural Captain qualities is probably ideal.
/r/RedPillWomen15/12/20 09:37 PM
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You can kill a man, but you can't kill an idea.

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