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BehrGris/r/askTRP20/09/16 06:05 PM
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Yeah, I think one way to break from this paradigm is to just stop analyzing, or stop thinking altogether as crazy as it sounds. I'm trying something new, I'm actually dumbing myself down; not thinking or analyzing anything. I've watched a hundred videos & read a thousand posts & gone out a million times - it's time to dial it all the way back now. I know what the fuck to do. I know shits gonna be random. I know all of the this and that. Now it's time to stop worrying myself of the social maze li…
/r/TheRedPill03/05/17 09:29 AM
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Bro, we don't shake women's hands. "I'm not your damn business partner, I wanna fuck you." This is how I always think. If a girl wants to physically greet you it should be a hug. Touching girls isn't the magic pill to getting laid, learn to be more personable with your words
/r/TheRedPill12/04/17 02:06 AM
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What you did well was approach a lot of women and step out of your comfort zone. The only thing I'd suggest you work on is: trying less. One thing you'll notice about girls is the ones that like you make it easy for you. You don't have to force a conversation or a joke on them. They're already open to your company and will put some effort into the interaction. Don't focus so much on what you should do. Focus more on how you feel / how you should think. It'd be like if you said "I'm gonna go have…
/r/TheRedPill12/04/17 02:02 AM
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Paying for prostitutes isn't that deep bro. If you're mildly attractive and know how to fuck, she'll enjoy it as well. EDIT: Also, you're way of thinking pedestalizes sluts. Buying a slut a $100 dinner isn't any more enlightening or brag-worthy than paying a slut $100 cash. She's still a slut, and you still fucked. Only difference is you spent a hell of a lot more time (10x at least) talking and listening to her than in the latter scenario where you fuck and dip out. I'm all for gaming high qual…
/r/TheRedPill12/02/17 03:53 PM
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This is why I've come to believe that cold approach/getting laid should be easy, and not involve trying to attract 100 women a day and overanalyzing. All the women I've had flings with were easy, didn't put up a huge fight or make me wait a long time for sex. If she's attracted to you, she'll be sure to show you from the very start.
/r/TheRedPill16/01/17 10:30 AM
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I agree with both of you. I don't think you need to approach 100 women a day, but consistently approach women you'd like to meet. 1 approach every day or every other day can be seen as consistent. I also feel like this is a lesson for beginners. Once you've gotten good, you learn to pick your spots. But hey, we all see some girl we'd really like to fuck at least every 3 days
/r/TheRedPill08/01/17 01:42 AM
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This is Step 3 of not being a social retard. If you need someone to teach you how to have small talk as an adult, you're automatically weeded out of the dating pool
/r/TheRedPill16/12/16 01:04 PM
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Go out and practice until you can figure out. Stop reading material for answers because a girl will always confuse you
/r/TheRedPill16/12/16 01:02 PM
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I'll have to agree with u/bowie747. I'm 25 and started my early adult life not knowing how to approach people/women. Now, I can confidently say I'm better than most. The best thing you can do as a beginner is approach a cute girl as soon as you see her (without over thinking if it's a good idea or not; it is a good idea) and then go home & watch a few vids on how to approach/interact with women. Notice how I say to approach first. It's much more important than vids and books, and frankly, if you…
/r/TheRedPill16/12/16 12:44 PM
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*please make your own thread about it
/r/TheRedPill22/10/16 05:58 PM
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OP isn't saying to stop fucking women, just to stop worrying about it, and trying so hard / overanalyzing, which will in turn (in my opinion) help you get girls. Stop caring so much
/r/TheRedPill08/10/16 01:28 PM
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Yeah, not to shit on the TRP community but I feel like this is one of the nerdiest posts on how to get a girl I've ever read on here. "Do this, do this, then say this, but only if she's wearing red". This post seems like a gameplan that guys who can't get hot girls interested in them and are afraid of rejection would use. Have you ever been to a club and partied with drunk girls? If you have, then you'd know that a huge part of nightclub game is the element of randomness. You may not event get t…
/r/TheRedPill30/09/16 06:16 PM
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Put yourself out there. Ask her for her number or a date or something. Get rejected or accepted, none of this safe middle ground bullshit.
/r/TheRedPill30/09/16 06:13 PM
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Me: "Wanna do some coke?" Her: "Hell yeah" Her friend: "Hell yeah" She brings 5 other girls
/r/TheRedPill29/09/16 11:39 PM
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I can definitely see why you'd say this. My dad is 6'3", and got locked up for 15 years when I was born, so he's jacked. Now he's a car salesman, making good money, and has a new girlfriend every 2 weeks, literally, every 2 weeks. And the weird part about it is he doesn't even try, he's a Christian, gave his life to God (that whole thing) and doesn't even go out chasing women, 20 something year olds just come to him
/r/TheRedPill28/09/16 06:24 PM
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Exactly. I bring pools of random hot girls and bottle waittresses to the after parties with coke, although a lot of times most of them besides one or two friends don't do coke. Not saying that it's a good way to try and game women, but I've been going out doing sober game for a couple years and actually know how to game women without drugs; it's just fun for me. And for a lot of guys the lure might be alcohol or weed for the girls. I just find girls who like to do what I like to do
/r/TheRedPill28/09/16 06:17 PM
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I hit my stride of actually having a social life at 24, I'm 25 now. I've been going out as much as I can since I hit 21, but now I actually have a crowd of cool people to party and after-party with where before I was going out by myself and making random friends for the night. And we do this every night, best clubs in Milwaukee, don't have to pay cover or wait in lines (I party with a few club promoters as well). All of this is still so fun and new to me as I'd never gotten invited to parties in…
/r/TheRedPill28/09/16 12:30 PM
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the core component of confidence really comes from self improvement and development I completely disagree. It's already been proven that you don't need a reason to be confident. It's called "irrational confidence"
/r/TheRedPill27/09/16 12:39 PM
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The modern woman isn't geared for anything long term, with a guy. Great quote. Pretty much sums up the entire red pill mating strategy
/r/TheRedPill22/09/16 06:35 PM
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Willpower is a muscle that you have to exercise. You aren't just gonna stop gaming and watching porn and get rid of all your vices in a night. You will slip up. If you cut out porn completely, cut down your gaming by a few hours. I personally did NoFap for 156 days a few years ago. Now I'm starting again and I'm deciding on watching porn either: every Sunday, every other Sunday, or every 30th day of the month. I'm not gonna delude myself into believing I'll never jack off again because I joined …
/r/askTRP22/09/16 01:20 AM
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A sure sign a woman is cheating / wants to cheat on you is if she constantly starts arguments out of nothing. She's trying to make you out to be the enemy so she can justify fucking someone else
/r/askTRP22/09/16 01:10 AM
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You just gotta keep bumping your head against that wall until it breaks. Your experience is common to anyone learning how to approach women, especially if it's his first time putting it into practice. Fail again tomorrow
/r/seduction21/09/16 05:18 AM
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Not sure if I'd recommend losing your virginity to a hooker, but as someone who uses hookers regularly they're definitely a good choice for quick sex. Getting women when you aren't a natural is a process. Trust me. Watch videos and practice. If you find you can't get any girls interested in a conversation with you and hundreds of girls are disgusted, then something is wrong with you. Find out what that something is and fix it. There is no magic pill advice I can tell you to get a woman attracted…
/r/seduction21/09/16 05:06 AM
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But really, who takes a woman to dinner and doesn't pay for it. You can explain "equality" to her all you want; you'll just look cheap. Having her pay if you take her out for drinks, I can understand
/r/askTRP20/09/16 06:15 PM
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I like that way of thinking
/r/TheRedPill20/09/16 05:53 PM
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A good circle of friends breeds confidence? Pretty sure there are tons of shy guys with friends. Most of the irrattionally confident guys are just that... "irrationally confident".
/r/TheRedPill20/09/16 05:20 PM
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This is a GREAT post, very underrated. A lot of TRP content is about having external and internal accomplishments in order to feel worthy of a certain woman. When in reality, the scumbags who do nothing with their lives and fuck hot women choose confidence without any evidence of actually being better than the next man. They just do it. Their confidence is their proof that their better than the next guy.
/r/TheRedPill20/09/16 12:29 AM
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Can we just ban this guy? Good Lord
/r/TheRedPill18/09/16 12:04 AM
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As someone who doesn't work a 9-5, I'd have to say it completely depends on the person. Personally, I can't work a 9-5 job; I get sick of it after 2-3 weeks. However, sometimes I try to bring people into making money with me, but they prefer the secure paycheck and low risk of a standard job, even if the paycheck is a hell of a lot less than what I'd teach them to make. Not everyone is meant to work for themselves and though that may seem strange to me, it's perfectly fine.
/r/TheRedPill17/09/16 06:00 PM
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Wow. What would you attribute to the 8 year dry spell? Not approaching enough? Low confidence? How many women did you approach in 8 years???
/r/TheRedPill17/09/16 05:50 PM
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Gratitude. As strange as that may sound. When you're out at the bar, just take a step back and look around...you're in a fucking bar, drinking, and there are girls there. Be GRATEFUL. You could be in fucking jail, or handicapped, or in a hospital, or a number of places you'd rather not be, with a lot less women present. Just be easy on yourself. Be glad you can hangout in a bar.
/r/TheRedPill25/06/16 08:41 PM
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How ironic would it be in a "Don't Trust Anyone" post if op went to the police without a lawyer. Please lawyer up and go after this woman
/r/TheRedPill25/06/16 08:33 PM
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Sometimes you just gotta man an up & say hi. Regardless of if she gives you a special look or not smh
/r/TheRedPill28/05/16 05:23 PM
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Some women won't realize they're attracted to you until you open your mouth. Women aren't as visual as men
/r/TheRedPill28/05/16 03:09 PM
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Wherever you see them
/r/seduction20/05/16 06:39 PM
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Well, you have to take the first step and approach them. But you don't have to give her all your time and attention.
/r/TheRedPill20/05/16 08:13 AM
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Personally, I just use Uber.
/r/TheRedPill06/04/16 02:29 PM
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You can actually have a lot of fun for 80 bucks. Then again I like girls with fat asses
/r/TheRedPill17/12/15 12:12 AM
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A lot of people here seem to be discrediting this post as if raising your smv through cash (which is the most effective way to raise your smv if you had to choose one) isn't important. I completely understand and agree with the point of this post, great job.
/r/TheRedPill15/12/15 11:34 PM
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Our subreddit's definitely getting removed lol
/r/TheRedPill10/09/15 03:03 AM
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I go out alone 99% of the time. I can't blame not meeting women on not having friends
/r/TheRedPill11/07/15 09:34 PM
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Someone should make a thread about this point of view; a business transaction
/r/TheRedPill07/04/15 06:09 AM
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You got it right, my sales have been slipping lately (I'm broke). Do I take Monk Mode to focus on money or continue pursuing women in my free time?
/r/askTRP26/01/15 04:53 AM
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Bars are where I do best. And I don't have time during the day (work). Just wanted an answer to the actual question
/r/askTRP26/01/15 01:57 AM
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It's actually been the reverse for me. Through learning sales I've learned I can apply these same skills to dating: handling early and late objections, icebreakers, the Law of Averages, taking control, indifference, closing with confidence; all things I can use to get bitches
/r/TheRedPill31/12/14 08:06 PM
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This isn't RedPill, this is PUA
/r/TheRedPill24/12/14 12:14 AM
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Can't discover soomething if someone already lives there brah
/r/TheRedPill25/11/14 01:59 PM
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I'd hardly call this an attention fest
/r/TheRedPill18/09/14 08:56 PM
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