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Only to terminally online incels (for the most part). The dynamic is flipped on most normie sites from what I’ve seen
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/24 09:58 PM
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I definitely prefer mid to late 20s women over young 20s women but I think that’s just due to that being where I fit age-wise. The guys I know who are specifically OBSESSED over the young 20s bracket are typically either A) creeps creeping or B) guys in their early 30s who often regret the missed opportunities of their younger years, especially opportunities with women who are at their “peak attractiveness” in their minds. Often, the guy fits into both categories
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/24 09:55 PM
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The absence of good doesn’t necessarily equate yo bad. You’re instilling the binary on your own
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/24 09:50 PM
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Not a good option =/= bad option. That level of binary thinking does remind me of the redpillers tbh
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/24 09:47 PM
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I get hit on by them too but I mostly get hit on by childless women who are chubby (in the 25-27 bmi if I had to guess, not complaining but I feel like that people in that bmi range are more likely to get fatter than stay stable). Oddly enough, I got hit on by a lot of older women when I was a couple years younger but that has seemed to mellow out. Why do you think only fat women and single mothers hit you up?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/24 07:03 PM
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Being black and born in the 80's in the United States, along with understanding English is my source. I've observed how the word is used. That is very anecdotal but lived experience is always nice to hear about Men really love it because it gives them plausible deniability - much like you're doing now. I don’t use “female” but I think that’s due to how I was raised more than anything else (I know how some women feel about it too which is why I more or less removed it from my vocabulary). I think…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/24 05:55 PM
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No, bruh. The entire use of it was to deride women in the first place. I guess this is going to be the most neckbeard shit I’ve ever said: do you have evidence of this? Its pretty easy to point to a number of dehumanizing terms for women (bitch, ho, thot, even newer terms such as bop) and point to its source but most feminist literature (yes, I’ve been actually fucking reading feminist literature) I’ve read on “female” kind of just points to it being an oddity of aave slang that turns misogynist…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/24 05:23 PM
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Its honestly motivating for me to see anyone who is both attractive and wearing little clothing at the gym. I do think women gym fits skew skimpier than guys but not enough for the obsession that happens in the incel/manosphere corners
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/24 05:16 PM
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In the early stages, expecting your partner to be the number one priority is a bit too much. Once they become your fiancée and eventual husband, I was under the assumption that you would both be each other’s priority in this new “family”/bond you’ve created. I don’t think your life should necessarily revolve around then but it sounds like you’re against any level of top prioritization being given to your partner which makes it sound like you don’t really want a relationship as it stands
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/24 05:13 PM
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I don’t want to be forgiven, may I be remembered for my sins
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/24 05:14 PM
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I appreciate sundresses but I agree about them being overhyped. Leggings/yoga pants or body-con dresses definitely steal my breath more often
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/24 03:06 PM
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Q4W: Thoughts on the joke in this yt short? https://youtube.com/shorts/Iduyjgp3vF8?si=O71ZoyVIYZalSiI_ I can see where some of the commenters are coming from (jokes about dv and the related morality) but I also think the phrase coochie punch is effing hilarious
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/24 01:22 PM
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Also getting some tiramisu. Its been a while for me
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/24 06:45 PM
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Going to a few clothing stores with a friend. I have a lot of leftover Old Navy cash that I plan to splurge with on some basic thing. After that, I’ll probably just see if there’s any special events happening around the city. I started doing random activities for the plot and it honestly has been pretty fun so far.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/24 06:22 PM
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Only with regards to skin color tbh
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/24 10:57 PM
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I was black and grew up in a mostly black suburb during middle and high school. Freshman year of high school was a little rough but most of the “troublemakers” that people didn’t like were kicked out or transferred by sophomore year. I’m honesty surprised I didn’t have a worse experience all things considered (considering I was chubby, antisocial for the first half of high school, and into gaming/anime)
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/24 10:44 PM
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Lot of debate on this online and politically. I will say in general, it’s true. For the more remote/poor places, there’s often only one big box store like Walmart and then a bunch of dollar stores and convenience stores. Those places usually have calorie dense, highly processed options and a limited amount of produce. I think in bigger, more accessibly cities, the lack of physical activity would be a much bigger factor than lack of food access but I know its a multifaceted issue
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/24 10:39 PM
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Fast food that’s overly processed, causes all kinds of inflammation, and wreaks havoc on gut health. That’s not to even mention all the snacking. I know a lot of people who go to their local gas station or convenience store daily to buy 3000+ calories worth of snacks. Its very sad
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/24 10:27 PM
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Depends on how well you socialize him and your particular environment/location. Just get him into a sport + make sure he’s not socially stunted and he’ll probably be ok.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/24 10:20 PM
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Jackson, Mississippi (one of the most obese cities in the most/second most obese state of the country) has between a 40% and 42% obesity rate. Its fucking bleak visiting places like that, getting something to eat is often the first, second, and third choice for outings.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/24 10:14 PM
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Considering the obesity rates in a lot of the deep southern states, this is probably a more “representative” winner. I never understood the point of pageants anyways but I can’t wait for the inevitable discourse on this one
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/24 10:05 PM
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Beautiful, I’m jealous of you and wherever you were at
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/24 09:34 PM
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Just saw another round of tiktok brainrot. My algorithm is finally normalizing (or at least sticking to brainrot on less toxic topics that aren’t dating). That being said, I saw a few interesting ones and I think I kind of agree with the dudes who think its sus that some women are so protective of having celebrity crushes. Finding a ceeb attractive is one thing but publicly thirsting for them and (in some cases) looking at them as acceptable hall passes while dating someone is foul behavior and …
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/24 09:21 PM
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Doesn't seem like you're blueballed at all my dude. Lol, true. My flairs are usually just puns related to being black Many people do it for this exact reason. The idea of that makes me sad but to each their own. I just don’t feel right doing it too much
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/24 08:43 PM
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I think properly going out with more than 2 or 3 people at at time as far as dating goes is kind of ineffective and just ends up forcing you to attach less to everyone. I never date for the sole purpose of sex though which is part of the reason why I think a lot of men go the roster route. Yes, I need to be sexually compatible with my partner but that’s not the only thing I’m looking for. I also have fwbs for that if needed, much less awkward and saves time tbh. I only date when I want to find t…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/24 08:24 PM
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Yeah, they are very versatile and it gives people the option to do something active at home (on a low budget too if necessary)
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/24 08:59 PM
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I got a generic one off amazon that goes up to 60kg for like $8 then moved on to captains of crush when I needed a bigger challenge. I honestly don’t think you need to spend more money than necessary on these but that’s up to you and however long you think you’ll stick with grip training
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/24 07:18 PM
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I’m bored so this one’s for the gymcels: here’s a quick review of some at home workout equipment I’ve bought in the past year. Hopefully you asocial and/or fat inkwells can get something out of this: Ab roller: 10/10. Works as advertised and you can get a pretty intense core workout at home. Kettlebells: 6/10. I understand why a lot of the dad lifters are all about it but I honestly got bored after a few workouts. Good for building that “functional” strength if you’re interested in that. Also ca…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/24 06:42 PM
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Lack of impulse control and inability to work through their emotions more maturely. Young girls are usually taught that early but boys are usually neglected in this aspect, often people encourage their aggression. Usually young women self harm or take out that angers on others through words + passive aggression instead
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/24 05:45 PM
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Yeah, I think most “sane” blackpillers keep the extreme content to other websites. Idk why you would waste time complaining about moderation on Reddit of all websites
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/24 05:34 PM
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Sorry, rear view cameras made me start doing it
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/24 05:33 PM
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I wasn’t even 4 years old yet. My mom says school ended early due to it but I don’t remember any of that
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/24 05:32 PM
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Going to throw my vote in for playlists. I like quite a few genres and can usually whip up a playlist of songs I like that would also suit the woman’s tastes. Its easy bonding material and I’m usually surprised when inexperienced dudes don’t go this route
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/24 05:31 PM
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I don’t think someone being publicly unattractive would dissuade them from bullying others. Just go to facebook for examples
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/24 04:04 PM
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Fair, this place does have a lot of people late teens-early 20s who come here to complain about dating dynamics. I’m sure they’ll have semi different opinions in another couple of years
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/24 03:44 PM
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Lol, I think its the opposite for me. I started being more accepting of weird schedules if they’re someone who I mesh well with
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/24 03:43 PM
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Honestly, I don’t think most of my physical standards are that wild (at least 5’2 which leaves 75% of adult women, not obese, decent skin and hair) but I have a bigger list of personality/lifestyle standards. A lot of ppd users’ standards seem to be extremely looks based first and foremost
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/24 03:35 PM
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Good luck on the degree and relationship
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/24 08:35 PM
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Some people aren’t that interested in having specifically young and hot escorts as their partner, the relationship can stil be hypergamous even if you aren’t chasing top thresholds
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/24 12:26 AM
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You could become an asmr findominatrix if you were really that serious. I also think you underestimate how many mid and ugly women still get away with gold digging behavior. It is just like men hyperfixating on Chad, you’re ignoring the possibilities for yourself because you aren’t top of the totem pole
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/24 10:01 PM
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I’ve honestly seen many instances of men being called fat to their face. Not trying to deny the finer point but I honestly think you used a weak example
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/24 09:54 PM
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Yeah but me taking bait seriously occasionally leads to decent discussion with one of the other autists here. Fwiw, I think you’re one of the best women here when it comes to bait
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/24 09:37 PM
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Didn’t think you would care about the happenings of a specifically right wing media personality but I guess the pill space affects everyone somehow. I also think this is semi hypergamous both ways, he gets someone fairly intelligent and good looking enough to serve as respectable eye candy for his little media conglomerate, she gets a billionaire and all the money that comes with their eventual split/his eventual death. Assuming they actually like each other, I’m sure they’re both fine with this…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/24 09:35 PM
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Laziness, family history, a society that continues to make it easier to consume overly processed slop while simultaneously refusing to come up with ways to keep the populace active, and mental illness. Those are just a few potential reasons though, 70+% percent of the US is overweight or obese with many other western countries starting to follow suit so we’ll probably see more dead br posts from fat people about being unattracted to other fat people
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/24 09:29 PM
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The support for the man who expressed horror and left his wife for breastfeeding negates your claim entirely No it doesn’t, that anecdote on X just proved the existence of a lot of men who don’t care. You are using this singular instance as a way to disparage all potential fathers while claiming you don’t hate men (which is a bit ridiculous)
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/24 09:26 PM
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If you’re really concerned then you can cope with shoes lifts or shoes with thicker soles soles. Honestly though, I think being insecure about it before you even see her will hurt more than help. Just focus on whatever is considered attractive about you and make sure that can shine through on the date
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/24 06:40 PM
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Eh, I’m back to thinking almost nothing about stuff like this. She wants someone who can afford a house to step into the role of wife and mother. You can yap about standards or whatever but that’s a) one less person to worry about impressing (for the single guys looking for someone more egalitarian in their relationship) and b) makes her intentions clear for anyone still interested. I honestly think I’m more upset about this opinion being used as an eventual rage bait piece by autistic pillers o…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/24 06:19 PM
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I seek out the smaller shops actually (by “smaller”, I mean companies handling multi million dollar niche software). its cushy work and comes with a lot of the benefits and far more reasonable expectations. Getting newer grads or people new to the industry to understand this is tough though, a lot of people feel like they failed if they can’t work in silicon valley directly
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/24 06:13 PM
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Lol, I can understand him. For how much friendlier people are in the south, people get oddly aggressive when it comes to driving in comparison to the north. I’m sure he’ll see enough road rage news to understand eventually
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/24 06:10 PM
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In the US, it likely would actually. The vast majority of violent crimes are felonies and you can find this info about literally anyone online. It does sound like you’re skirting around this info in favor of unconstitutional methods of “ensuring safety” when proceeding with extra caution or even dropping apps altogether would be a better plan
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/24 06:07 PM
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I like weed but it was always in spite of the smell. Edibles are great for getting around this though. I had a weed rice krispie treat edible that tasted pretty damn good.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/24 03:33 PM
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Ime, a lot of the guys here seem to be reflective of a less outgoing, more socially awkward demo of men. I’m not going to claim that all men irl are normal but their issues usually come with less neuroticism compared to ppd men in general
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/24 02:36 PM
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I never felt comfortable making a judgement one way or the other on how much severely weird shit he was up to. Its obvious though that any non famous man would be considered pedo adjacent if they did what he did
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/24 02:17 PM
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Place has corrupted me so much that I don’t think you’re joking
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/24 11:25 PM
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I did it in college, its definitely one of those “fake it til you make it things”. I’ve always been a night owl though and gave up the early riser life once I got a flexible wfh job
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/24 07:16 PM
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Unironically is probably a good idea, I don’t think makeup counts against their masculinity like it does for other races
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/24 07:04 PM
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Mostly for the prettyboy/k pop aesthetic. The rules for minorities change based on what aesthetic you fit 🤷🏾‍♂️
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/24 07:00 PM
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I’d argue that’s also a decent sign of low self esteem (doing something for the sole purpose of pissing others off doesn’t really sound like the actions of a secure and confident individual)
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/24 06:59 PM
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I don’t have it saved but the doggystyle version of these pics always kills me. Such a blank expression on the guy
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/24 06:23 PM
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Yeah, a partner having shit friends that condone shady practices usually means that the partner shares some of those values. Sorry about the cheater man
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/24 06:21 PM
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Nah, i would stop being friends tbh
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/24 05:52 PM
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A easily
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/24 05:52 PM
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Don’t like men being accused of homosexuality as a shaming tactic but these pics of Myron continue to kill me. Its tough being a hypocrite
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/24 04:28 PM
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I’m not taking it seriously, incels can be observed without making a big deal of it
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/24 03:56 PM
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She is literally a gender flipped incel. The fantasies and generalizations of both gender’s incels tend to overlap
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/24 03:49 PM
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Fair enough, in the original tiktok they both look late 20s/eary 30s imo (the filter may be helping)
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/24 03:28 PM
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I guess. I think a lot of the incels here are miserable due to lack of sexual validation but it also does seem like a lot of FOMO imo. I think the sex and relationships they’re looking for are kind of overrated but I know I’m speaking from a privileged position
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/24 02:53 PM
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Depends on what the working definition of average is. The average man in the US is 5’9 and some change, near 200lbs, has a 40” waist size, and has 1-4 close friends. That means the low bar of being semi social and not obese puts you in above average territory. With this being said, I think the men here might be honest about being average
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/24 02:49 PM
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Yeah, she still looks like a kid to me (like, VERY OBVIOUSLY a kid). The 50+ year old does look good though, genes combined with healthy living makes some people look immortal
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/24 01:49 PM
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Definitely her age. If a dude said she looked 20, I would assume he’s a pedo
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/24 01:35 PM
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Finally getting over casual sex I think. I still love the FWBs I have but I’m starting to feel bored/unfulfilled with hookup culture. Probably just going to lower the frequency and focus more on friendships and hobbies at this point
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/24 01:34 PM
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Only real positive is that he’s not giga obese. Honestly think he’s a solid 3, he needs help
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/24 11:39 PM
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Nice, I’m actually planning to join a BJJ gym soon too! I’ve also heard that Football Manager is leagues better than Fifa so I’ll probably get on that soon. I went into a little more detail with French in another comment but TLDR: I took a couple of classes in university; restarted a few years later with language learning apps like Duolingo/Memrise and ot a language transfer app like Hellotalk. After a while, the main challenge is getting consistent immersion more than actually learning new voca…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/24 11:35 PM
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Racking up the certifications is actually pretty cool! I’ve always wanted to go kayaking but I never had the courage to do it solo. Maybe this summer since its going to be hot as hell I also really want to try out skiing or snowboarding when I get the chance. Your hobbies are pretty interesting in my opinion
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/24 11:32 PM
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What esports? I only ever really followed the fighting game community and Rocket League
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/24 11:30 PM
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That’s a lifestyle that I aspire for bro, keep it up (I’m pretty sure you’re like twice my age so I doubt you need my encouragement)
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/24 11:29 PM
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Cool, I started learning French in college so my journey may or may not be of help. I started studying seriously again a few years after college and that involved Duolingo, Memrise, a few language learning podcasts, and a language transfer app like HelloTalk. That last one was very important since it got me into the habit of chatting with native speakers and correcting my mistakes in real time. Right now, its mostly just watching french shows without subtitles (or with french subtitles) and Hell…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/24 11:28 PM
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Q4M: What are your hobbies? A lot of men have issues getting some and I know a lot of guys here rot in front of their tv/phone/computer the majority of the time. Maybe this will kickstart some of them Me personally: Learning French (Almost done with this, moving to Spanish next) Drawing Rec League Sports (mainly basketball and softball) Cooking (kind of, hard for this to be a hobby when its required to live) Volunteering Lifting
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/24 11:15 PM
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Semi common experience for some men unfortunately. Hope the men she touched aren’t affected
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/24 08:05 PM
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Never had that issue with my exes. Pet names usually come in after a few months anyways
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/24 05:44 PM
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I’d just break up in either case. I think physical is worse for me though, it would give me a certain type of revulsion whereas I would probably be more meh about her falling in love with someone else (maybe even self loathing enough to understand why she did it). I feel like this is a question that would be pretty split amongst genders
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/24 05:28 PM
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Assuming she dresses classy, I would think its a flex. I’ve seen thicker women in classier functions and they do fine
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/24 04:30 PM
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Jump roped for about 30 minutes but wish I did a little more. Also ate relatively clean (my favorite meal today was a creamy pesto chicken recipe with potatoes and asparagus on the side)
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/24 02:48 AM
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The -cels here would probably be happy about them “looksmatching”. I’m happy for them though, its cute to see couples being genuinely happy with each other
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/24 12:50 AM
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Blaming women wholesale is sexist, I agree. I guess it depends on context and the person speaking about it but I don’t think “refusing to date down” is used as a negative descriptor about someone’s actions universally but I can see some of the incels using it in that way (entitlement and all)
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/24 12:46 AM
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I could see that. After seeing some of the behavior in the gaming community and other online circles, I definitely understand why someone would want to keep their gender identity under wraps or ambiguous.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/24 12:26 AM
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Assuming the mentioned food isn’t interfering with your goals, why not indulge a little and have the other food tomorrow?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/24 12:20 AM
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Some women refuse to date someone who is lower in status/looks/money/etc, some refuse to date for other reasons or do men refuse to do the things that would make them dateable Refusing to date these men would also qualify as refusing to date down, right? This is just refusing to date down in a way that is acceptable by most of contemporary society
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/24 12:18 AM
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Always thought the same thing. The social work types in my life tried to explain it to me as “a way of highlighting the unique oppression faced by black and indigenous people”. But, if that’s the explanation, then why not just say black people or indigenous people? The acronym itself is just unnecessary
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/24 12:02 AM
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I mean, being boring or not leaving any impression can be unattractive. Beyond physical appearance, some people just don’t know how to convey any vibe
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/24 08:16 PM
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What specifically made them unattractive? What could they do differently so that you thought they were an attractive individual?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/24 07:41 PM
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Probably France or England. I vibe with the cultures and I can see myself dating any of the women there that were interested in me. The only real issue would be convincing them to come to the USA (and honestly, I wouldn’t be opposed to just living in their country)
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/24 07:33 PM
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She’s a yaoi fan, I think the smut brainrot has taken over her mind at this point
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/24 01:58 PM
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Air Forces mostly. I think I’ll get more into boots in the Winter
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/24 10:51 PM
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Not to say that I don’t prefer living in the US but Cuba does have a higher life expectancy and generally higher marks in some important health care markers (including pregnancy mortality rates). Probably would’ve been better off just saying North Korea but to each their own
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/24 07:28 PM
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Ok that makes sense, him and Jordan Barrett are the two models I see all the time in those looksmaxxing brainrot edits
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/24 06:16 PM
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They definitely will. Hair is preferred but being shaved can add to the masculine appeal for some women (all depends on how fucked you are facially, of course)
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/24 06:15 PM
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I guess it can depend on how pretty. I think a lot of women were defensive of the “metrosexual” trend some years back but most of the highlighted examples were just masculine men who looked like they washed their face (like David Beckham or whoever else)
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/24 06:14 PM
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I agree with that first sentence. Age will make your face look different but I don’t think that means that you’ll look bad. Leo is a good example of an unhealthy lifestyle (regular partier and hasn’t been that fit in a decade) affecting your appearance and his face really shows it
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/24 05:39 PM
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Idk who this is but they look like they’ve aged well in the face (fit is a bit cringe but this looks like a modeling event so its to be expected)
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/24 05:23 PM
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Thats not a bad point. When I think “pretty boy”, I don’t think of a stereotypical chad but someone slender-slightly athletic, around average height or taller, and maybe with a more feminine or androgynous face. Soft bodied men in particular are still going to be in the back especially considering that, feminine features or not, the additional weight is going to make you look too soft in the face. Men almost always need some angularity or sharpness in the face to be considered facially attractiv…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/24 05:00 PM
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That’s what I was thinking! I got much more interest from women (from all age groups but especially 25-35 women) when I leaned onto more masculine features. Obviously this is anecdotal but it was a bit of a lightbulb moment for me recently
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/24 04:57 PM
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Exactly which is why I understand why a lot of guys focus on it when they’re young or even into their late 20s but aging makes it hard to keep that aesthetic going forever. Doesn’t mean you can’t keep the attractive face but I feel like sexual dimorphism becomes much more important for guys post 25
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/24 04:54 PM
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Exactly (though I’ve never heard of that second line happening, sad if that actually occurs)
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/24 04:52 PM
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So is it universally agreed upon that the pretty boy aesthetic tends to age the worst for men? Even if the dude in question takes care of themselves, any look that relies hard on signifiers of youth tend to look odd by 30+
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/24 04:38 PM
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Oof, didn’t know about that last part. Thought he was just a DILF trying to play the field around his age range. He’s honestly good looking for being 50 but the larger age gaps that he’s seeking are an extreme minority (which a lot of the redpill copers here should learn to accept)
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/24 04:16 PM
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Honestly depends on how terminally online the dude is tbh. Napoleon complexes can form out in the real world too but I feel like most guys (short or not) who have normal-ish social upbringings are fine. Someone who was bullied for it or is permanently online is more likely to have it. I do think the positive reinforcement tall guys get (and short men don’t) can lead them to them being more confident which adds to their chances of leaving a positive impression on a woman
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/24 04:11 PM
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It is so hard! I do feel bad bringing up my issues around some of the lonelier dudes because of this since I know they want help getting a relationship in the first place
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/24 04:05 PM
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This looks fun! Tism = 3, I’ve been described as stoic and laid back but not too robotic apparently since making friends has never been that hard. Face = 7, could be cope but I think I have some good features with no real harsh drawbacks Height = 5’9 (could go with 5’10” but I don’t want to seem insecure) Weight = 175-185 depending on recent diet. Usually at 180. I would rate my body (height and physique) at like a 6. I’m lean and have enough muscle but I think the height kind of leaves girl fee…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/24 03:45 PM
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Literally. I disagree with a lot of the women here but there’s literally a person in this thread talking about how they can’t help hating women
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/24 02:54 AM
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I don't really try to shame or police them on it, so they're way too comfortable revealing those parts of themselves to me, and they think I understand and accept them because of it. Really I just don't care unless it's interfering with my life. Lol this is my life. For the most part, the women interested in me weren’t up to crazy shit but they really became attached once they saw me being seemingly non judgmental
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/24 02:36 AM
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I don’t think its good or bad necessarily unless you want a specific demeanor. In the past at least, I used to attract mostly aggressive women since I was shyer but not so shy that I was unresponsive. I also think I’m good at keeping a straight face whereas a lot of guys were visibly disgusted or upset about their behavior. I still get aggressive girls but also more shy ones as I’ve gotten older. They usually aren’t that into me until a couple meetings but they like my calmness apparently.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/24 01:51 AM
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How? Last real relationship?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/24 01:28 AM
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I’m a magnet for aggressive women for some reason. I don’t see much wrong with it though. Is it an issue for you or just an observation?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/24 01:25 AM
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How so?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/24 12:54 AM
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Sounds fun! Outside of that, what made you go red pill?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/24 12:18 AM
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Yes, guys obsessed with the downfalls of their height will cope about it. Same with femcels and whatever negative quality they hyperfixate on
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/24 11:48 PM
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More-so indifferent, I’m actually pretty jealous of couples where both people are hot AND only share a couple inches in height difference. Too much of a difference and it looks like parent and child
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/24 11:41 PM
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Already said skincare and braces + plastic surgery count as hardmaxxing (all valid)
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/24 09:51 PM
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9 times out of 10 I find it funny but I do get sad and concerned sometimes about that lack of self awareness. It inevitably leads to self sabotage by those dudes which they inevitably come back here with
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/24 09:43 PM
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No worries, the soppiness is pretty endearing. Chad qualities of bf aside (because I know how this subreddit is), I think most would find the dedication to his wellbeing and happiness admirable
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/24 09:11 PM
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Never done it but I think its a based hobby. Creative, requires an amount of dedication to learn, and you can make fun stuff with it
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/24 08:56 PM
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Sheesh, that’s a lot of love. Can only hope to have a love like that one day
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/24 08:48 PM
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I agree, my OP comment was very general. I put lose weight since thats usually whats necessary for most men in my country (USA) but lifting is basically a must have too for getting that ideal masculine silhouette. I especially agree about the fashion styles though. Dudes need to develop their own style that makes them attractive, bonus if it also reflects them accurately. I don’t want guys seeing my comment and thinking that they should look like another generic poster on r/malefashionadvice (re…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/24 08:27 PM
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Don’t know about others but I would be happy to hear it. The looks blackpill is focused on a lot when other traits are rarely given the spotlight
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/24 08:23 PM
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I think the social aspect actually pops up frequently, its just often drowned out in claims of “cope” depending on the time of day and posters available
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/24 08:11 PM
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True, growing out and taking care of your hair definitely helps in my experience. I’ll use this comment as the specific “hairmaxxing for guys” part of my comment (not addressed at you obviously but I don’t feel like editing the original) - If you have enough hair, grow it out a little and style it (how to style it does kind of come down to race and I don’t want to get banned). If you have only a little hair, then either fade it or buzz it. If you have no hair, consider min+fin or a hair transpla…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/24 08:10 PM
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Yeah, asking a barber is usually a safe bet but online resources kind of suck. Its usually boomers who haven’t evolved or zoomers with too much time on their hands chasing trends.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/24 08:06 PM
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I do think calling anyone practice girlfriends is cringe but people have been easing into the dating world by flirting with less attractive people for decades. I think its a good strategy assuming you aren’t leading them on or talking down to them (I have seen a drunk dude say “I wanted to talk to you because those girls over there are too pretty” for example)
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/24 07:50 PM
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I can see the logic but considering the subreddit we’re in, I wouldn’t be surprised if a man or woman said some shit like this here unironically
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/24 07:48 PM
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Feel like looksmaxxing is pretty straightforward for guys: lose weight/get in shape, wear well fitting clothes, get solid haircut+clean facial hair style, smell good, work on your skincare, and have good hygiene. Problem is that once you hit your upper limit (i.e. genetics) you either have to make the choice to hardmaxx, maxx in ways considered traditionally unmasculine (i.e. heightfraud or wear makeup), or solely focus on maxxing out status/charisma to boost your attractiveness. That last optio…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/24 07:46 PM
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Just saying if you wanted the discussion to be about complicity in affairs, you could have just made a text post. Instead you posted rage bait that’ll just give more ammo to the pillcels and misogynists
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/24 07:36 PM
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Looksmaxx and hobbymaxx until they’re no longer copes 🤷🏾‍♂️
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/24 07:29 PM
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The point where that’s the reason for 85% of cheaters? It can be discussed here but this feels more like a “well actually” moment that ends up excusing cheaters than an actual attempt at understanding affairs (though it might feel that way since the initial tweet is so hyperbolic)
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/24 07:26 PM
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“No, I’m not interested” is probably best. “I have a bf” works on most dudes too (I take it as a rejection obviously) but I don’t think that A) you should have to lie (if you don’t have a partner) but I understand erring on the side of caution and B) I think saying “I’m not interested” is actually a bit more clearer than saying you have a partner considering people cheat all the time
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/24 07:22 PM
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Why not? Its 2024, equal opportunity for hobosexuals
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/24 04:29 PM
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10.27%, not as bad as I thought. If I go harder on the extremely ideal preferences, it drops to 1.383%
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/24 01:21 AM
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That does sound like a nightmare but I’ve never met a non fat women who’s so ugly/such a butterface that literally no man would be interested
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/24 09:32 PM
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Dislike, sure. Hate should be reserved for genuinely awful people and given on a case by case basis. Hating large swaths of people just makes you a bigot
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/24 09:29 PM
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The FGC does seem pretty fun but the stereotypes about some of the players has been semi accurate in my experience (at least for the blerds that I know participate).
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/24 09:10 PM
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I agree but I do think that sets up bad examples for the kids if the other adult in the home can’t even hold up their end of a very small request. It looks like they were able to resolve it in their own way but issues like this often have a habit of recurring to the detriment of the lady’s peace (from what I’ve heard online and from others irl)
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/24 09:06 PM
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Agreed, communicate or leave at that point. Honestly, leaving the relationship is valid if you feel your partner isn’t meeting the standards of a mature and responsible adult but I know the OP is married with kids so its a little more tricky
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/24 09:03 PM
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I think conformity and obsessed stoicism to the detriment of your own mental health is just part of the experience growing up as a guy. Women have that too (the conformity part) but I feel like women as an identity are allowed more self expression without being “less” of a woman. Things are changing obviously but its not surprising that social hold overs such as holding in emotions have stuck (especially if you’re someone who has let their emotions out to then be met by social ridicule)
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/24 07:02 PM
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The Israel-Palestine conflict hypes up extremists every few months. That’s the only real explanation I can think of
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/24 06:55 PM
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Yeah usually a waste of a purchase. Oddly enough, I feel like most brunch spots near me do very mid waffles. I honestly think Waffle House is a safer spot if I’m really craving it
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/24 06:53 PM
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Honestly seems like most of the books really only have aesthetic differences for the most part but to each their own
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/24 03:57 PM
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I’m all for smut but do you never get bored of it? Seems like its your most consistent hobby so to speak
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/24 03:46 PM
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Gave up porn a while ago but assuming I’m still watching then I’m picking the location services app. I don’t think I’ve ever gone anywhere sketchy enough to raise alarms for any of my previous partners
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/24 02:14 PM
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If its that guy I’m thinking of, I’m fine with the hair doing every once in a while as that’s a cool memory to have with a teacher but the additional texting/bestie treatment makes me think this is a bit inappropriate. I’m sure every hypothetical parent has their line in the sand but I think I would want any communication outside of school between my hypothetical kids’ and their teacher to be strictly academic (and honestly, 9 times out of 10 these convos can happen in school anyways. The textin…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/24 01:47 PM
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These are the same conclusions that the red and black pillers come to about women settling. Pill horrshoe theory confirmed again
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/24 04:24 AM
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Dawn of a new era 🫡 never thought I’d see the day
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/24 01:16 AM
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GOAT cartoon dog, Scooby could never
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/24 12:55 AM
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I do think more men should have mutual sexual attraction as a bare minimum requirement for a relationship. A lot of guys here are desperate and concerned that a relationship like that isn’t possible for them hence why so many find ways to cope (i.e. by believing that women are inherently indifferent to sex) or give up
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/24 03:01 PM
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Irl, its like once and usually on the weekends. I do keep in frequent contact with a lot of people though and chat with a bunch of people over the phone throughout the week
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/24 12:38 AM
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Literally perfect weather
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/24 11:11 PM
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Anyone that obsessed about being excluded (man or woman) are entitled and/or full of self loathing which honestly explains a lot of this subreddit. It being old men probably adds an additional creep factor considering how lopsided older men/younger women relationships often end up being (its not universal but it happens often enough)
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/24 09:10 PM
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Not a dealbreaker at all, helping the furry friends go peacefully is a plus
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/24 09:04 PM
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You weren’t lying about the perfection, I’m pretty jealous True about black twitter though, the threads about dating and gender dynamics are a cesspool every time
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/24 09:03 PM
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Honestly agree with most of this. In general, I think the main problem people have with calling these women mid is A) the obvious trolls trying to tear down celebrities as a way to feel better about themselves and B) the rating of these celebrities lookswise compared to the average person. I think a lot of people have a tendency to want to rate on a evenly distributed scale that accounts for the entire population. Thats why people will go so hard for Jennifer Lawrence, for example. By virtue of …
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/24 08:09 PM
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I assumed black but the Jude obsession could be any race tbh
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/24 07:51 PM
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Very similar to my weather, I’m assuming there’s a heavy dose of humidity everyday
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/24 07:42 PM
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Can’t, the American brainrot started when I was fresh out the womb Your weather looks good though, premium weather for a light hoodie
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/24 07:40 PM
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That sounds intense, I would legit have to live like a hermit between 10am and 6pm everyday at that point
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/24 07:31 PM
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I’m going to assume that this is in Celsius. If so, great weather and lucky you!
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/24 07:25 PM
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That’s honestly a very ideal forecast, hope you can have fun with it
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/24 07:22 PM
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Fair point 🤷🏾‍♂️ gotta quit assuming any poc sub will be majority black
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/24 07:21 PM
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Damn, I forgot some people actively tolerate and live in the desert. Hope you’re staying hydrated and cool
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/24 07:20 PM
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Damn, you’ve got me beat. Not enough SPF to make me want to go out in that
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/24 07:17 PM
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A lot of the points made for women here are often repeated in other black specific spaces. There’s also a good amount of users here that post regularly in r/blackladies, r/vindictapoc, and here. Could just be me hyper fixating though, I’m still semi shocked whenever I notice a decent number of black people in mostly white spaces (especially when it comes to gender/dating subs)
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/24 07:17 PM
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Another 90 degree day in the south, another day where I’m reminded of the overrepresentation of black women and east/south asian men on these pill subs. Understandable but still weird to see
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/24 07:07 PM
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I think your last paragraph is what I’m trying to say. I don’t think genetics are the literal cause of obesity, just a component that can make it more likely.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/24 11:01 PM
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Just saw part of the recent Fat v Fit video on Jubilee. I make pretty good money but people like the Fresh n Fit guy make me slightly regretful about not hopping on the grift wagon. As far as the rest of the debate goes, I think fatness is partially genetic but mostly influenced by environmental factors and education (or lack thereof) surrounding nutrition and diet. For most post college adults, its a consequence of a sedentary lifestyle and shit nutrition driven by overconsumption and/or fast f…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/24 09:16 PM
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I feel like toontown, neopets, and club penguin produced some of the most quirky adults and runescape birthed some of the most autistic
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/24 09:05 PM
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Had to retire the P Diddler nickname because I think it sounds too fun for him. Fuck Diddy and Meek Mill
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/24 07:29 PM
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A lot of it is echo chamber brainrot and a lot of it is societal conditioning. Even as a young guy, you’re kind of expected (by a large portion of society) to always be happy with any female sexual contact no matter the circumstances. Particularly unloved dudes online see the sexual assault/rape of young male students as reasons for jealousy rather than empathy
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/24 04:28 PM
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Any details you willing to share?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/24 03:50 PM
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Cold is very rare for most men. Warm happens semi often for most non uggos assuming a decent social circle or general level of extroversion
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/24 11:52 PM
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/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/24 08:53 PM
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I think average (not too fat, not too gross looking) still have a shot but I guess thats my optimism combined with anecdotal experiences with average dudes coming in
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/24 09:11 PM
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Women being impressed by my love of cooking is going to keep me spiritually fat (and physically too if I slip up on portion control)
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/24 09:03 PM
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Unironically, the biggest cock blocker of most guys is themselves. If you’re not comfortable enough to be attractive socially, then shutting up is a good strat
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/24 09:00 PM
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Always the same posts. Some of that is due to very active modding to prevent this place from getting banned but pill debates in general rarely come up with new and interesting discussions. The bear v man drama is a good example, any interesting take on it came out within the first 2 days and the rest of it has been repeat points by salty people on both sides of the aisle. That’s more or less the lifecycle of any possible topic here
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/24 08:21 PM
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One of the few times that the pillers will band together
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/24 08:16 PM
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I feel like there’s a difference between dislike and hate. I grew up for a few years in an area with a stray dog problem and I began to dislike most dogs. After growing up in different areas and having a few pets of my own, I’ve definitely mellowed out to neutral/slightly positive to animals. I wouldn’t mind someone not liking or even disliking animals but I think it is a big deal breaker if they straight up hate animals.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/24 03:27 PM
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Damn, I think I was one of the people who said him not drinking wasn’t a red flag but the additional details (i.e. the disses about your lifestyle) probably paint it a little differently now. People like that are exhausting and should probably stick to other conservative straight edge people
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/24 03:15 PM
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Un ironically did that when I got to university. Honestly, the only career that it really dissuaded me from pursuing was teaching. Every other career I shadowed ranged from chill and low stress to outright cool (in some capacity)
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/24 06:51 PM
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I considered that or Umax but part of me feels cringy for going that far
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/24 06:50 PM
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How much muscle is the ideal amount/most attractive is subjective. I personally don’t think he has a lot of muscle but I think he has the right shoulder to waist ratio as well as a good body fat %. I think he is closer to ideal than not (on a binary scale, I assume most women would rate him as attractive body wise)
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/24 06:47 PM
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Thats fair, the fact that I’m trying to lose weight and have a pretty big appetite probably skews my perspective. Good luck forcing the protein down. How long do you have to eat this much protein for?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/24 05:43 PM
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If you’re cutting, then feeling like you have too much to eat is actually a positive. That’s why I love aiming for 40-50 g of protein on my first meal of the day. It really helps me carry that full feeling for a good chunk of time
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/24 05:14 PM
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Yeah. Ime, the best looksmaxxers are ones who can observe what makes other people attractive and emulate the changeable aspects
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/24 05:12 PM
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Impossible.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/24 04:55 PM
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I only like her when she’s on songs with others (her verse on the Pinkpantheress song was good by her standards and the Barbie collab with Nicki wasn’t bad). On her own, she’s a below average NY drill rapper
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/24 04:38 PM
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A big problem for a lot of guys is the lack of experience with women before getting to this point. People strive for what they don’t have and some dudes can’t fathom how exhausting a bad relationship is compared to being single.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/24 02:04 PM
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As much as “cunt coaster” made me laugh, your post really makes me feel like horseshoe theory for the pill-sphere is true
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/24 01:52 PM
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Still would choose money but I would be lying if I said the validation and attraction from women isn’t very fulfilling (I can see someone desperate saying that it’s more important)
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/24 12:26 AM
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I care a lot about specific women in my life and I am interested in the well being of women in general (and everyone tbh). I absolutely care about money since that more or less affords me my ideal lifestyle
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/24 11:54 PM
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I don’t think getting a relationship is impossible for any guy slightly below to well above average height and isn’t a loser (has a job + an ok income, can talk and be fun, isn’t an asshole). The issue at that point is with the men being attracted to said potential girlfriend. Dudes that have facial anomalies, have disorders affecting personality, are more shy/introverted in general, are short, are obese (or overweight if they’re in a healthier or very poor country), and/or are very broke will h…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/24 09:55 PM
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That sounds funny as a joke in front of some closer friends and I can see a group of corny dudes doing that too. That being said, I don’t think I could put a cake with anything sex related in front of anyone else (especially family)
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/24 09:45 PM
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Nice, the preferences are understandable and straight forward I feel bad when some people can’t meet my preferences based on genetics too. Everyone is inevitably going to be unattractive to someone though, as long as we aren’t assholes about it then I don’t think it matters what our preferences are all too much
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/24 09:43 PM
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Yeah I can relate, smooth brown skin is still too underrated. Your preferences aren’t too wild so I’m sure you’ll find someone compatible eventually (if you haven’t already)
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/24 07:16 PM
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Honestly nothing unreasonable there imo. Its subjective obviously but my definition of unreasonable would be preferences that end up locking out a vast majority of the population to the point where dating is more like playing the lottery
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/24 07:09 PM
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A lot of dudes are, no shame in having a short list
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/24 07:02 PM
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I appreciate the bi perspective on this, its adds an interesting dynamic. Those preferences seem pretty tame though, a lot of men and women still fit within them
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/24 06:58 PM
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Makes sense
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/24 06:56 PM
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Lol, all understandable preferences. I think its wild how shiesty masks became a thing but some dudes really want the hood aesthetic I guess
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/24 06:47 PM
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That’s fair. Thanks for the heads up! Outside of maybe the circumcised one, the preferences look pretty normal/common
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/24 06:38 PM
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Damn, hope he recovers alright! I can relate to that last line, I tried the same shit during the pandemic
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/24 06:31 PM
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I don’t relate to the belly men but I can respect it from a distance 🫡
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/24 06:29 PM
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Lol, I thought the circumcised preference was a myth so its nice to see that it does exist in the wild. Thanks for the response, the preferences don’t look too crazy
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/24 06:29 PM
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Lol, I could see some people being triggered by the nail polish and piercings one since they’re so ubiquitous. Don’t worry though, let them be triggered
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/24 06:24 PM
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That’s cute that its your bf, hope things are going well for you both! Don’t worry too much about him shaving it off. It’ll be an excuse to see him gradually grow more and more attractive as his hair comes back 🤷🏾‍♂️ assuming he is growing it out again
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/24 06:20 PM
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Both plus a general inability to imagine their day without rubbing one out to it. Some people are more susceptible to getting addicted to it (doubly so if they’ve seen their first video when they were a little younger)
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/24 06:19 PM
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Just make sure you take it easy during recovery. I heard that shit can get irritated and painful without proper procedure 🙏🏾
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/24 06:17 PM
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Looks matter for everyone. Its just that which one matters more depends on your gender and environment. Hair isn’t as important to a man’s looks as it is for women but it is still very important. Either those balders learn how to cope by improving other areas, hope on the min-fin pill, or get a transplant
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/24 06:13 PM
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Fair enough, understandable preferences that only locks out like 20% of peeps
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/24 06:11 PM
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Sheesh a lot of preferences (I can see the appeal in them though)
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/24 06:10 PM
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Right on bro
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/24 05:59 PM
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That’s nice and very white pilled of you bro
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/24 05:59 PM
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They genuinely do, I always thought the memes comparing the two sites’ meetups were BS but I lost my shit when I saw the pictures were legit
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/24 05:57 PM
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Lol, we can’t go a day without being reminded of how hair affects the looks of both genders. I can’t argue though, I prefer more hair over some hair but definitely can’t do no hair
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/24 05:51 PM
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I feel bad but the pics of reddit meetups really did boost my self-confidence a little bit. I don’t think even Discord get togethers would look as odd
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/24 05:48 PM
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Wow, think you might be the winner for most shallow preference on the thread
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/24 05:46 PM
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Metalhead with small to medium boobs sounds doable, I’m sure you’ll find someone like that
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/24 05:43 PM
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Heard many women say they don’t like chest hair in general but I think you’re the first one to say they prefer someone who naturally doesn’t have any chest hair. Interesting stuff, thanks for the comment
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/24 05:42 PM
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Disagree with your username but I can kind of relate to your comment. It is weird to see how that look is held in the highest regard when you don’t find it appealing
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/24 05:41 PM
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Fair enough, thanks for the breakdown!
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/24 05:39 PM
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Both respectable preferences. I do wish people would believe that some guys genuinely prefer smaller breasts. I’ve seen some bitter women and incels claim that’s coping just due to the popularity of certain pornstars/influencer models
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/24 05:38 PM
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Not an uncommon thought. Is this a greater reflection on the type of trad-ish lifestyle you want this ideal woman to have or is this strictly an aesthetic preference (i.e. you just think those things look ugly)?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/24 05:36 PM
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First time I’ve heard big feet as something to look out for. I know dudes who specifically avoid women who have ugly looking feet (dry, untrimmed toes, etc)
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/24 05:29 PM
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That’s pretty hype, you could get literal king treatment
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/24 05:26 PM
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Damn, this is the first one I’m surprised by! I think fades are the common suggestion for dudes because it looks trendy+mature and can last a while. What are your preferred hairstyles or is it just literally anything but fades?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/24 05:25 PM
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Damn, basically eliminates most of the modern dating market (if you did exclude them, I’m sure you do treat it like just a preference and suck it up)
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/24 05:20 PM
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I can respect that
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/24 05:19 PM
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Tried and true classic. Good luck finding that if you live in any country experiencing an obesity epidemic (I’m sure ozempic will make some people bounce back)
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/24 05:18 PM
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Ass men unite! I didn't realize how deep this preference was until I thought about what the women I usually hookup with have in common
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/24 05:15 PM
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Lol, I actually kind of relate to this one. Recently saw someone with some overplucked (I think) eyebrows and I felt bad that I couldn’t focus on anything else
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/24 05:14 PM
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Fuck it, let’s make some people insecure. Q4A: What is your most shallow preference? Doesn’t have to be strictly looks but that tends to be the usual go to 🤷🏾‍♂️ Edit: I’ll add mine just so I don’t look like a baiter. Pretty sure I’ll get banned if I say my racial preference hierarchy so I’ll go with something else: Black hair > Brunette > Redhead > Blonde Blonde hair doesn’t really give me that internal attraction boost that a lot of other dudes get
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/24 05:07 PM
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Yeah but I think that’s a very normal experience for most people. All you can really do is take a chance to self reflect and figure out what your boundaries are. Sorry about your issues with your friend bro
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/24 08:31 PM
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Statistically, vast majority of people don’t share nudes. If you’re already pretty in the face and are famous for being attractive, then leaving the penis up to the imagination of your femcel base is good enough for the salary
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/24 04:12 PM
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Man, this Drake/Kendrick beef reminded me how much I dislike the generic Toronto accent. Tough because the rest of Canada’s accents are fairly attractive (to me)
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/24 04:04 PM
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Lol, I can imagine that sub being your jam (respectfully)
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/24 03:55 PM
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Incel Tears (why they went with ITS, idk)
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/24 03:53 PM
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I only started browsing it last week but looks like r/DebateITS got banned. I have my issues with mod behavior here sometimes but clearly they’re doing something right. I’m still surprised that PPD has lasted as long as it has
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/24 03:44 PM
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Some are larpers, some are egoists that get off on glating to incels/femcels, and some are just bored and wasting time on here. I personally think the majority are in the first two camps but there are some regulars here who are just shooting the shit 🤷🏾‍♂️
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/24 12:28 AM
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Damn, so you rode the cock carousel and ended up with a tall, lower n count bf. Smh, modern women /s obviously but this is probably more suicide fuel for the black pillers
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/24 12:08 AM
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God, another reason for men here to lose weight and looksmaxx if they hadn’t already. Being top 30% for either gender is almost guaranteed if you’re lean (about 70% of the country is overweight/obese) and not fubar in the face
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/24 07:54 PM
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Fair, 2 months is quiet a bit of time. That’s actually pretty good for the deposit, most of the apartments I looked at required 1-2 months worth of rent in addition to the app fee. Good luck in the new place 👍🏾
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/24 07:48 PM
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Congrats on finally getting it. How much of a deposit did they expect? Any other oddities they make you go through?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/24 07:40 PM
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I don’t think you can solely blame your height at that point but you can be a little salty that you won’t get the same opportunities as someone more conventionally attractive height wise (6’+). It is what it is obviously but I’m empathetic enough to the loveless people we have in the daily chat
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/24 07:38 PM
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Its tough, the ig models he goes for usually look pretty damn good but he also might literally mean young girls (if the pedo claims are to be believed)
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/24 07:36 PM
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I meant decently fitted in the shoulders and not too baggy in the torso. Well fitting doesn’t necessarily mean tight but you’ll figure it out
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/24 04:44 PM
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I can’t see how unless the clothes aren’t well fitting
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/24 04:38 PM
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Just gotta aim for the golden shoulder to waist ratio. It won’t make up completely for the lack of height but short dudes can’t really go too hard with the mass or else they look like they’re compensating
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/24 04:31 PM
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While I don’t disagree about the never ending judgement, I always thought it was weird how much women care about being labeled a prude. Compared to the issue of being labeled promiscuous (and the resulting social consequences), being labeled a prude seems pretty tame. Of course women should wear whatever though, only one life to live and all that
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/24 04:14 PM
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Three but I personally feel like you have to be trolling to be bad at sex as a woman. I’m generally pretty understanding though and I know sex can be awkward the first couple of times, especially if you’re still trying to establish trust with someone who is a stranger
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/24 03:40 PM
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I’m a black hair supremacist but I feel like a minority anytime I state that
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/24 03:31 PM
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Problem is that weight loss pills are gender neutral in their application. Steroids can be used by both genders but typically a man is using them strictly to adhere closer to male beauty standards (like women and makeup). Idk if there is a true makeup equivalent for men except beards tbh
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/24 10:56 PM
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Valid in some instances (with regards to the different standards of cleanliness) but that just comes down to having a conversation that often never takes place between a lot of couples. I do believe women are socialized to spend more time on chores and household necessities but to what extent is up to whoever you’re asking
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/24 10:17 PM
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I probably would have loved that as a kid, meat and cheese was an easy way to shut me up
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/24 07:03 PM
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5'10 and under ( please dont walk on my nerves telling me its average blah blah ) Lol, it can be average and still be considered too short by some. No need to get defensive before the reply. After 6'3" face doesn't matter just don't be fugly I actually kind of disagree with the 6’3 assertion though. Anecdotal experience shows me that being 6’+ is really all you need to satisfy the tall craving that a lot of women have. A decent chunk of women will want even taller than that but I feel like being…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/24 06:59 PM
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It really depends on perspective tbh. How short do you think someone has to be for their good face to not help? How tall does someone have to be for their below average face to not matter?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/24 06:52 PM
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Honestly agree. High school sports really did help me develop healthier habits and get used to communicating with others in a variety of situations. It also is easy mode for making friends and expanding your social circle.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/24 06:41 PM
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Didn’t even know they did chicken mcgriddles, thought it was only bacon or sausage
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/24 01:56 PM
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I’ll take the under, I think its funner to think that they are their own zany internet characters rather than one incel cosplaying two accounts
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/24 01:13 AM
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Considering how often you’ve said that, you could just start including a link to the study that would lead you to this conclusion
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/24 01:09 AM
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It got a chuckle and an eyeroll when I first heard it because I thought it was mostly pink pill style trolling. Seeing it turned into this level of discourse is pretty annoying though. Its hard to believe that anyone on either side of the argument is still energetic enough to keep hashing this out but there’s plenty of men and women in this thread that keep doing it so wtf do I know 🤷🏾‍♂️
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/24 12:56 AM
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This honestly could be solved for most dudes with cardio and a month off of porn. The fact that a lot can’t even do that goes to show how much of a stranglehold porn has on multiple generations. RIP to their partners
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/24 08:53 PM
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why would you make your entire life about rolling in self pity for not being able to get something you already know absolutely sucks? Because then you can’t be blamed for your shortcomings (which in this case is a lack of sexual and/or relationship success). Even though I’m more whitepilled than most here, rejection and failure sucks and constantly having to improve for a slim chance of what you really want is daunting to some people. With that in mind, I can understand how someone who believes …
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/24 08:24 PM
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Thats fair, thanks for the breakdown! You were one of the users I was referring to in my initial post. For the most part, this is me trying to look at things from a different perspective to see how people start discovering that looks matter and how it manifests. I do think one point that you’ve mentioned is how early women see that looks affects everything about life and how people perceive you. I think a lot of guys here get to their teen years before seeing how unfair life can be to them if th…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/24 08:18 PM
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I can see why. I’ll continue to sympathize with women when it comes to the harsher aspects of their experience (like the threat of sexual violence or limited career opportunities in some industries) but I don’t think I can as easily sympathy when it comes to issues of dating
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/24 07:24 PM
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Swap out misogynistic and that honestly sounds like the logical conclusion for a lot of the male blackpillers
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/24 07:21 PM
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A couple users I respect have said that the blackpill is just normal life for women and I’m semi-skeptical about it. On the one hand, the pressure to look good starts much younger for them and seeing many guys publicly lusting for women who look nothing like you can put a dent in your self esteem. On the other hand, a woman being below average doesn’t handicap their options in the same way that it would to a similar man. Being less pretty isn’t going to give you NO options, just less conventiona…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/24 06:55 PM
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Lol, town bicycle did get a chuckle out of me
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/24 04:18 PM
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Considering how much power the average American has with respect to foreign relations, I’m mostly apathetic at this point. I do wish the military budget was reworked and that the leaders in DC thought about slowly letting other countries be responsible for their own domestic security but that seems more like a pipe-dream as time goes on
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/24 04:13 PM
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Sneako’s last 5 years have been really strange to say the least
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/24 03:35 PM
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My mom was a substitute teacher for a year and ended up teaching one of my classes. It was so strange but I would easily repeat that again over the card-making cucking
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/24 12:05 AM
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I tease my picky-eating friends about not eating sushi but the idea of eating balut makes me feel genuinely ill
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/24 10:08 PM
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Stay single. Gun to my head, I’ll take the ugly person. Sooner or later we will all look old so might as well go for someone who won’t make me miserable
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/24 09:14 PM
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Still never understood the hype around identifying as an empath. Like, society has been saying that nice guys shouldn’t feel the need to say they are nice guys for years at this point. How tf did so much time pass by with people doing the same thing with empath? Probably doesn’t help that one of the first people I saw identify as an empath was Shane Dawson
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/24 09:09 PM
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Nightmare fuel bro, I still can’t believe pants-ing people was a regular part of some kids’ school experience
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/24 08:00 PM
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I think more women than ever are interested in me but I’m honestly just more social and generally more physically attractive now compared to a few years ago. If anything, being able to talk normally with them has made it easy to standout. Mileage may vary based on age and location though
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/24 07:59 PM
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Wore some hand me down Jordans from my cousin in the 7th grade. Turns out they were fake and I got clowned immensely for it. I ended up getting some real ones a couple weeks later and then nobody mentioned it ever again 🤷🏾‍♂️ Idk, i feel kind of lucky that my last year of middle school and most of my high school experiences were so stress free (at least when it came to interactions with other students)
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/24 07:57 PM
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Agreed, things become more holistic ratings wise one you meet certain minimum physical standards (Taking a guess, I would say 26 or less bmi for women and I’ll say 5’8 or above for men)
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/24 07:48 PM
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Taking the bear for the dad lore. Either its a goated story for the future or I go out swinging 🤷🏾‍♂️
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/24 07:36 PM
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I think 3-5 is very hard to rate objectively since subjectivity ends up coming heavily into play. 1-2 are outright unattractive to the point where autistic “objectivity” isn’t even necessary. 6 is where you get to the point that, even if they’re not your type, you can see them being considered attractive to a number of people. I also think these ratings always assume a woman is around a “normal” bmi of 18-25 when being not fat in some countries like America automatically starts you at 6 assuming…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/24 07:35 PM
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So 81% of women vs 69% of men. Idk, I could see some down on their luck men being fairy unhappy about that stat especially if they break it down and find that women also have more sexual partners on average over the past year (that last part is more of a hypothetical though, idk what the average number of partners is for women over the past year)
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/24 07:12 PM
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And semi guaranteed sex/less financial restrictions in comparison to the child bearing counterparts. Companionship is a big part of it as romantic companionship is not something easily replaced by friendships (especially for men). There’s a reason why people still continue to pursue members of the opposite sex despite some fucked gender dynamics within modern dating
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/24 07:06 PM
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I honestly think the benefits mainly come down to how much you like the idea of spending the rest of your life with someone who you (optimally) connect with deeply. If you’re a guy who isn’t as social or able to connect with others, then having a wife would be a crutch of sorts as far as avoiding loneliness (I don’t recommend this, still think guys should try and make their own friends but this is just one possibility) Also, if you’re one of the dudes here concerned about lack of sex in a relati…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/24 06:32 PM
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Yeah but so are most conversations on the internet. How is this more of a waste of time than how you’ve been spending your time in this thread? In my opinion, its not 🤷🏾‍♂️
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/24 06:22 PM
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I don’t really think that much of these convos once I’m off tbh and I don’t think most guys should either. I just don’t see why you think its ridiculous that someone could possibly be offended at generalizations.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/24 06:19 PM
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Some women here do take offense to the blanket statements and I honestly don’t think its ridiculous of them. Making generalizations on large groups of people can mean you’re talking about all, some, or most of said group just based on how english works. Most people either don’t care and continue to make generalizations or care enough where qualifiers like “some” come into the mix
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/24 06:15 PM
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Yeah, its important to have perspective about stuff like this. I think more people than not have a chance to find love but I don’t pretend like it isn’t exceedingly difficult in the social media age
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/24 04:45 PM
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Add hibachi and that’s basically all the food I gave myself once I started making steady money post college
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/24 04:14 PM
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PPD really does make me feel privileged in a way. I understood how much of dating and getting interest in a guy comes down to looks + social aptitude but I didn’t realize how many guys are desparate for literally ANY attention from a woman their age. Obviously being on this sub could self select for people like that but still
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/24 03:32 PM
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Forever chemicals, yummy!
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/24 03:02 PM
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2 for 4, let’s go!
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/24 03:01 PM
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That’s close to one girl every 2 new months. I’ve had similar runs before and it doesn’t really seem that unfeasible or ridiculous time-wise
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/24 03:00 PM
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Going to write that down and try it next time
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/24 12:03 AM
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I kind of see what you’re saying. Looks much better than most 60+ year olds
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/24 11:49 PM
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Yup and Skyr is great! I don’t get it often enough tbh but it is great for hitting those protein goals
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/24 09:53 PM
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Avocado and some dairy (mainly yogurt for me right now). Otherwise, its whatever oil I’m using to cook with tbh.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/24 09:27 PM
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A little bit of online brainrot in insecure people, a little bit of natural paranoia due to the possibility of losing your money (assuming an average salary, that could set you back decades)
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/24 08:07 PM
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Nice, you definitely have the right idea! After getting comfortable talking/being more social, maxxing the niches is a step a lot of dudes should take if they’re still struggling
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/24 07:16 PM
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Best strat is probably for the man in question to be well rounded and have a couple of hobbies they’re fairly invested in. Then, when they want to nichemaxx for a certain woman or certain group of women, they can go balls to the wall autistic about whatever hobby fulfills that niche. I don’t think telling any of the unattractive and/or socially stunted -cels here to go all in on one niche is a good idea
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/24 06:57 PM
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Top 20% of men attract/get the primary interest of 80% of women (at least thats how the black and red pillers state it I think)
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/24 06:47 PM
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Others are fine with sexual activity and enjoy sex, but they never experience sexual attraction to their partner. Yeah, this specifically sounds less like asexuality and more like someone forcing themselves to be in a relationship with someone who’s not attractive to them. I guess that could be my own preconceptions at work though. Someone being asexual might just be attracted to 1 in a billion people, accepts the odds after a little time, and then decides to opt for someone who they genuinely l…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/24 06:37 PM
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The same thing I think of someone who’s wearing shorts in below freezing temps. That’s a little weird but I ultimately have no reason to care
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/24 06:31 PM
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Goated, still praying for a medium-dark brown soccer girl to have babies with
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/24 06:28 PM
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Huh, well that’s interesting. Thanks for explaining it to me, it is difficult understanding how the definition of asexuality applies to different people. Happy that you were able to marry someone that does it for you!
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/24 06:26 PM
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Getting a custom tray from the dentist (usually very cheap) and buying some whitening gel online is an easy looksmax for most people
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/24 06:15 PM
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While I think that it sucks that society is so quick to teach some people to get hitched young, I don’t see why you have had such an issue with the users telling you to take ownership of your pleasure. Being outwardly bitter because you choose to remain in a pleasureless and what seems to be an emotionally dead marriage is ridiculous
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/24 06:13 PM
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Being extremely selective and having a narrow collection of people that get you going is not the same as being asexual, right?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/24 06:07 PM
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Pretty sure studies have said shoulder to waist ratio is what they look for in a physique (in addition to height, of course)
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/24 05:56 PM
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I did not finish pun pun but I know the shit gets even bleaker. I’m over halfway done but I have a feeling the last quarter of it is going to give me dread for a few days
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/24 04:12 AM
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Lol, “way to derail the point” over an obviously joking comment about your typo
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/24 01:56 AM
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That would be most men even if you stuck to gen z averages but some people do view talk/short with that type of binary. Its tough 🤷🏾‍♂️
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/24 06:21 PM
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To an extent, I might not be as insecure about it but I do feel certain numbers start feeling like hypersexual territory which would put shared values/mental issues into question. At the same time, my body count would probably make some people scoff too so I would at least try to be respectful and a little empathetic
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/24 06:19 PM
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Fair enough, they probably will have troubles compared to more average/tall dudes with mid physiques but I don’t think its nightmare difficulty until like 5’5”.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/24 06:17 PM
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I guess it feels like there are a lot of assumptions on your part with regards to both drizzle drizzle and sprinkle sprinkle tbh. Most drizzle drizzle guys just seem like they want to be hobosexuals rather than explicitly plotting revenge against women like redpillers. I also think its a loaded assumption to assume that sprinkle sprinkle comes with the woman in question anticipating having+taking care of kids. Both movements honestly just seem like immature dream scenarios where the person in qu…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/24 06:15 PM
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What do you count as short?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/24 06:01 PM
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Tough for the red/black pillers to hear but i guess that’s just how it goes. At least you’re in a happy relationship now
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/24 06:00 PM
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It kind of sounds like you want your date to buy in to show that he is willing to commit to you in a way
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/24 05:47 PM
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Care to elaborate?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/24 05:34 PM
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I think a lot of that is less so the misogyny itself and more so the confidence/lack of inhibition. If its between a social, misogynistic dude who can look people in the eye and an autistic dude who can barely talk, then a lot of women will pick either the first option or opt out altogether.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/24 05:28 PM
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Keto gave me a bitch of a rash on my back after about a week on it. A couple days eating bread again helped get rid of it. Otherwise, good luck on the journey
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/24 05:25 PM
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Honestly think both genders are susceptible to this thinking, women just find a better way to cope with it early on compared to men. The blackpill gets to everyone eventually
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/24 05:24 PM
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Guess I’m coming at it from the opposite side but I tried to stick to only having sex in the context of a relationship and I ended up pretty miserable. I think that’s less so due to any sexual reasons and more so due to how how shit being in a bad relationship made me feel. I still want to have a serious, committed relationship in the future but being a fwb with someone who you trust and are sexually compatibly while having no romantic obligation has honestly made me feel good
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/24 04:31 PM
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I usually say they “smell like outside” or something. Puts the emphasis on the environment making them smell worse and makes them feel a little less bad. My friends smell good though and its been years since I’ve been around someone with BO that offensive
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/24 08:55 PM
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My first impression was initially from interacting with self proclaimed feminists during college and then seeing more of them in the working world. Much like inceldom, feminism is pretty diverse with a range of voices and opinions. Its easy to focus on the loud radfems plaguing twitter and reddit but I think most feminists and people in general are just trying to figure out a way to navigate the difficulties of the world in their own, peaceful way
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/24 06:13 PM
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Lol, PPD brainrot hits in strange ways
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/24 05:14 PM
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Are you suggesting that bigger is better for the men and women having sex with the dicks or are you just saying it would make most men insecure? There have been discussions on the debate posts here about how preferences for bigger sizes (at least for women) to an extent makes sense for internal clitoris stimulation and anterior fornix stimulation.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/24 04:53 PM
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Continue the date, say that I don’t see a serious relationship happening a few days later, move on with life
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/24 04:37 PM
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To an extent since most of my coursework was math/cs related. Honestly though, a lot of it was just memorization and becoming comfortable with operating under very rigid constraints. I do think the problem solving aspects has helped but I think handling pressure and understanding how to be a team player helped me way more as far as my career goes
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/24 04:04 PM
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Eh, some have it worse than others. Part of humanity and diversity of thought in general is the fact that you’ll inevitably run into someone who finds you unattractive. That doesn’t mean its over but a lot of people here really should learn to accept that
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/24 03:53 PM
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A few fwb situations with women like that. We get each other off and there really wasn’t many issues. Most seemed to be pretty supportive of men in their personal lives and extremely antagonistic to strangers/men online. I’ve tried being in a relationship with one woman like that and it was pretty draining after a while (she had other mental issues though so I just chalked it up to the game and moved on)
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/24 03:39 PM
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The Edgar cut always pulls, i don’t know how they do it
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/24 03:27 PM
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Kind of respect the commitment to the bbws. Did you always like them or did this develop as you got older?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/24 03:25 PM
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Probably, I think a lot of women underestimate the amount of low self esteem men out there. Add in the fact that sex is very validating to the average touch starved dude and I think you would be able to get a guy to have sex with those methods pretty easily
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/24 02:40 AM
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Thank god I graduated and got a job right before covid. I feel like my love life and career search would have been much worse otherwise. I do feel for people who were socially handicapped because of it
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/24 12:58 AM
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If you’re willing to cop it using bitcoin, it probably wouldn’t be that expensive to get Test or something. Thats what I know from the gymbros who wanted to ascend quick
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/24 12:22 AM
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I know a lot of parents who shy away from putting their kids in band due to fear of becoming a social outcast. Never understood this because the bands were absolute freaks when I was in high school. I honestly assume a lot of the more personable band geeks ended up having body counts similar to a lot of the athletes
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/24 12:14 AM
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I forget them for the most part. I usually have 1-3 months where I obsess about them but I eventually forget about the person and life goes on. Throwing myself into hobbies and friendships definitely accelerates the process. The only time I think about anyone is if they show up on my social media feed or if I just randomly stumble upon then in public (has only happened once)
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/24 10:40 PM
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Wider/stronger looking neck does unironically correspond to a more conventionally masculine appearance. Its one of those niches pieces of advice for men looksmaxxing
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/24 09:30 PM
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Eggs and turkey bacon for breakfast, ground beef dish for lunch, chicken breast for dinner. Trying to get a modest 150+ g of protein daily
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/24 08:47 PM
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I think you should just go for it. Low stakes opportunities while you improve your looks will help when you eventually reach your smv peak (which in this case, would be after the hair transplant I’m assuming). You may not get great results right now dating wise but the experience cannot be matched and you’ll at least become more comfortable interacting with women
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/24 08:47 PM
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I think its a combination of nice, unattractive guys finishing last. I think women hear “nice” as someone who’s generally a kind stranger to everyone they come across. When I hear nice from the incels of the internet, I take it to mean someone who is timid, full of inhibition, and who genuinely keeps to themself. Being more attractive will help literally anyone in the dating world but you have to be extremely ugly (and socially isolated) to have no chances at love. Being both ugly and reserved i…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/24 08:36 PM
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If you prioritize relationships, than being an unattractive dude is probably worse due to a lack of options. Otherwise, it depends on what you want to prioritize in your life.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/24 08:03 PM
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Going by standard deviations, one standard deviation below average height for men would be 5’7” and below. So 6’+ and athletic or 5’7 and handsome? Really depends on what the man in question is looking for but the taller dude will probably have an easier time with their appearance
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/24 05:55 PM
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Not necessarily if the person in question is in tune with themselves and knows how to properly self regulate (or manage themselves to a degree that wouldn’t result in them being harmful or unfair to their partner). I do think people with any particularly strong mental health issues or other baggage should be a little hesitant when entering the dating world
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/24 04:42 PM
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Maintaining 12%-15% bodyfat should be a priority for any man looking to maximize aesthetics. Powerlifters aren’t in the gym for that purpose but I do think some of them are coping when calling better looking people “victim weight” (I know some of it is jokes but a lot of lifters have pretty strong egos about it)
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/24 04:04 PM
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Yeah, I think the blackpill brainrot is getting to me then. I am starting to view common sense things with pill terms now
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/24 09:17 PM
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Lol, vindicta isn’t as toxic but it does look a lot like the brainrot that’s found on the male centered looksmaxxing forums (plastic surgery and all). I agree with you though, self improvement on a basic level can give a lot of people massive self esteem boosts (relatively quickly too). Unfortunately, some people don’t want to hear about the effort that needs to be put in but I absolutely think its worth it for 99% of people
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/24 09:14 PM
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True but I think some people on ppd actively avoid buying into media tropes (a lot of guys on here feel like they’ve been lied to about certain aspects of attraction via romcoms, for example). I think this is just me putting too much stock into some of the more miserable members around here though, self improvement increases anyone’s odds
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/24 09:00 PM
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Goes to show that I need to take a break from some of the neuroticism on here
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/24 08:54 PM
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I thought so too but PPD as well as the looksmaxxing forums and incel forums I’ve seen have a strong contingent of users who think this stuff is pointless if you aren’t perfect genetically. I’ve had users tell me I’m being naive, beta, or too optimistic by believing that the above would help some people. I’m not saying it would 100% solve some incel’s dating woes but it definitely helps their odds
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/24 08:53 PM
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Honestly, I’m always picking gay kid over thot kid. The lesbian daughter won’t get derailed by unintended pregnancies before getting her career started whereas the thot son has the possibility of fathering multiple kids if he isn’t safe (not to mention the risk of STDs). I would love to think the thot son would be safe and careful but that isn’t guaranteed.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/24 08:47 PM
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Does it make me blue or red pilled if I think looksmaxxing (primarily losing weight for most individuals) and getting a social circle would help most guys? Idk, it could be confirmation bias but I haven’t seen any guy personally who went from ugly+shy to less ugly+somewhat social and didn’t get ANY more/better dating opportunities
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/24 08:45 PM
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Twice. I am attracted to a lot of women but I try to keep a distinction between between attracted to someone and being infatuated with them. The latter feeling takes me quite a bit of time to develop. I had relationships in both instances but they ended for reasons and here I am
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/24 07:56 PM
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For a dude’s shaft maybe. Idk, I’ve never seen someone trimmed and automatically thought cactus when it came time to hook up
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/24 01:12 AM
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This is why trimmed should be the standard for both genders. Cleaner than full bush but not burdened by the possibility of ingrown hairs for the most part
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/24 01:08 AM
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Trimmed/not bushy = realistic Clean shaven at all times forever = less realistic. Also comes with the added possibility of the woman in question being and expecting high maintenance
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/24 12:49 AM
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Yeah, I don’t think its fair for the women to face that treatment. I think a lot of guys feel like the rug has been pulled from under them as far as traditional gender roles goes since what they were taught doesn’t work for a lot of women anymore. At the same time, I don’t think demeaning successful women for talking about their issues is right. Finding life long love is hard and even the most successful people can run into the oddest roadblocks.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/24 11:25 PM
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It can turn off many men who want that subservient style relationship talked about in the manosphere but I wouldn’t assume that’s a universal ick for men. I don’t disagree that it would take a lot of vetting and luck on her part but that’s honestly just the reality of trying to find a partner that hits your minimum attraction, personality, and responsibility thresholds.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/24 11:16 PM
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Actually last thing: you don’t think saying its not a big deal when it won’t happen to me is a little presumptuous? If we were just talking about sex crimes than I would agree but I don’t think victim blaming of murder victims is exclusively gendered. Thats kind of why I thought your response was oddly strong since this is the one part of your scenario that can happen to anybody
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/24 11:08 PM
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Fair enough
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/24 11:03 PM
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Some assholes will, I just don’t see the point of focusing on the minority of people who will find a reason to victim blame a murder victim. I also don’t think what happens after death is the most pressing matter in this man v bear question but, again, I know you have your own views on things
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/24 10:59 PM
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I’d wager most people wouldn’t blame the women immediately but its not like we have statistics on this. Does sound like you have your own pessimistic view on it though
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/24 10:26 PM
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Am I surprised by women chasing the most attractive men possible? No. I will still looksmax and will try to look better as much as i can but it is a somber reminder that there’s only so much I can do to get a random woman attracted to me
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/24 10:15 PM
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That’s tough man but I feel you. Sometimes you never know someone’s true character until its too late and its way too easy to cheat in the modern age. Good luck bro, I’m sure you’ll find what you’re looking for
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/24 09:55 PM
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Fair enough, good luck finding that if you haven’t already
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/24 09:40 PM
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If you want tall men then you want tall men. I’m not going to call it a cope but its hard to believe that your height is as much of a factor in the equation considering how you share the same preference with nearly any other woman shorter than yourself
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/24 09:37 PM
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Yeah, I think most people are fine having partners that don’t match their ideal exactly. At the same time, its hard to imagine that people with such extreme ideals such as yours would be truly content in relationships with people a foot shorter than the fantasy. It’s simultaneously wholesome and devastating if you were really able to like the 5’7” guy
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/24 09:33 PM
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Isn’t that just the generic ideal male height for most women?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/24 09:31 PM
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Some people here tried to claim it was an evolutionary thing. A very short woman having kids with a very tall men would increase the likelihood of the kids’ heights being higher. Me personally, I think they just love the additional smol/dainty feeling they get around taller dudes
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/24 09:27 PM
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What do you think is stopping you from having a decent ltr right now? Sounds like you’re in prime shape to get that lifelong relationship going if you really wanted it
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/24 08:35 PM
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Highly recommend for most guys who aren’t interested in ltrs at the moment but the process of getting there isn’t easy (especially if you have no prior success getting anywhere with women).
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/24 07:58 PM
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I guess that goes to show how I look at hookups. I thought the primary reasons for engaging in casual sex were validation and orgasms for the most part. Idk what else you would be referring to as far as what everyone wants out of the encounter, maybe I’m missing something
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/24 07:23 PM
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I think Star Trek has lost a bit of cultural relevancy over the years but I heard the original show and the Next Generation had some well written and extremely relevant storylines
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/24 07:17 PM
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Yeah, the gay scene looks much easier in comparison for hookups. I don’t think its impossible to have success as a straight guy pursuing casual sex but there are definitely a lot more hurdles, doubly so if you aren’t very conventionally attractive
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/24 07:15 PM
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Sucks but Israel-Palestine feels like one of the few conflicts that will persist until the end of time.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/24 06:11 PM
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I am not trying to normalize not having friends and thats rude of you to imply that! I post all the time about how men should work on improving their social circle since it leads to greater self fulfillment as well as increases your chances of romantic interaction. Again, I don’t disagree that humans are supposed to have friends. I think its primarily a guy’s problem to work on socializing but I think its ridiculous to act like the way society has changed doesn’t influence the difficulty of that…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/24 05:19 PM
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I’m not saying that average people don’t have friends. Just that its lessening over time due to living in an increasingly online society. Studies on friendship between millenials and gen z show this to an extent and I don’t really see it getting better. I also do question how many friends is enough to have support after a breakup for guys. I think most people still have a friend or two to rely on but I don’t think its absurd or extremely abnormal for someone to have none nowadays
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/24 04:53 PM
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I feel you, we unfortunately can’t help the preconceptions. Typically is why I suggest irl social maxxing for stuff like this as a guy since trust can be built up naturally and a little easier. Good luck though, I’m sure you’ll find a woman who’s looking for the same thing as you
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/24 04:47 PM
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I agree on it being unhealthy. Normalcy is based on what is “typically” done though and I think a lack of a non familial social group is becoming increasingly normalized (for both genders but especially men)
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/24 04:40 PM
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Last line is kind of the honest answer. After a few bad experiences with men either SAing them or lying about their intentions, its probably hard to believe that a man would be on a dating app (which is already notorious for degenerate behavior by both genders) for the sole purpose of looking for a woman that he can cuddle with non sexually.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/24 04:20 PM
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Its bleak. I advocate for men having more friendships/bigger social circles but pulling them out of that initial hole is a tough job
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/24 03:38 PM
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English muffins are the goat breakfast sandwich bread and I’m sick of pretending its not. Mcdonalds was right for once
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/24 03:19 PM
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Still fairly rare. Instilling that level of paranoia into most dudes would probably end up shafting them socially anyways, the last thing most struggling guys need is another reason to be anxious and withdrawn. Then again, it makes anyone even semi competent socially look that much better so do what you want
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/24 03:19 PM
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If you say so, don’t really see the connect between this and my initial comment
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/24 03:13 PM
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At?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/24 03:08 PM
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Context dependent but a lot of guys in the social media age just kind of get used to having no friends to support them and shoulder the burden on their own.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/24 03:08 PM
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I don’t see much reason to complain about women working out in skimpy/sexy attire specifically. Glance and move on or completely avoid them, its not that hard. Only thing I’m not a fan of are the normalization of tripods. Regardless of gender, I think it encourages time wasting and turns the gym from a place for physical improvement to a place for influencers to play around in.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/24 03:06 PM
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French, German, or Mandarin for the general and professional clout. Arabic or Russian if you want a challenge or want to open up a new world to yourself
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/24 11:30 PM
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I appreciate your response! I am cautious about the everyday stranger but probably not as much as you. I do think its an interesting question even outside of the gender dynamic aspect about it but its nice that you broke it down for me. I hope others can see this response with understanding and empathy
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/24 11:22 PM
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Having had the option of both (since a lot of women do lean one way or the other), I’m picking ass. I think small tits can still look good due to shape and whatnot. A nice ass activates something in me though, its hard to describe
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/24 10:15 PM
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Thoughts and a shotgun, I’m not suicidal. Also gun goes boom which is fun
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/24 10:14 PM
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A lot of them do indeed have EDs. That being said, I think most of them just have higher activity levels than normal people and eat much healthier outside of the mukbangs.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/24 09:55 PM
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I remember a time not too long ago when a lot of feminists did make it a point to say feminism is about gender equality and that using labels such as egalitarian was a incel red flag. The idea of being specifically for female liberation was given to people who went as “womanists”. Idk when the shift happened (maybe when terfs got big) but it looks like egalitarian and feminism are the two appropriate terms again
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/24 09:49 PM
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Nothing but bangers
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/24 09:48 PM
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Either an issue with overtraining (due to too much volume or too much weight) or diet (might not be eating enough or enough of the right things). Then again, I’m not expert on women’s fitness so maybe one of the ladies in chat can help
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/24 07:56 PM
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Its an alt because its fun to chat in the discussion threads. These debate threads are cancer though (as you can see)
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/24 07:52 PM
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Thanks for the suicide fuel ma’am. Being black doesn’t help but idk why you feel the need to remind people that women are, by and large, wary of men (to the point of generalizing them all as predators) as if it isn’t common knowledge
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/24 07:51 PM
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If you say so. Being chronically online is obviously subjective but I personally think your reddit account would qualify. I also don’t think you would really care that much about “ideological substance” based on the replies but I’m not going to argue with someone who clearly (imo) has their own goal in mind. Have fun I guess
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/24 07:32 PM
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I personally believe that’s just a question that should be asked to misandrists/misogynists of either gender. I am starting to think that you didn’t really want genuine opinions on this question from men though. Based on how selective you have been with replies, its starting to feel like you used this post as an excuse to soap box and dunk on redpillers rather than draw up genuine conversation
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/24 07:15 PM
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I think porn accelerated the brainrot at least
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/24 06:29 PM
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Man. I’ve been a victim of some pretty intense sexual trauma but I’ve never been raped by a man so some of this is speculation on what my own behavior would be. That being said, even with the additional threat of rape, I would pick man. I would rather a chance to live fighting against someone I have a realistic chance against versus an even more gruesome, near guaranteed death at the hands of a bear.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/24 05:53 PM
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I agree with that second sentence. I think porn has kind of convinced a lot of men to focus on the wrong thing
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/24 05:45 PM
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To redpillers, none. Everyone else has their own opinions on it.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/24 05:30 PM
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I’m pretty sure that it would be a benefit in certain positions. If you mean literally as steep a curve as a banana though then you may need to be careful
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/24 05:27 PM
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That’s why I’m trying to get them to be less insecure about it
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/24 05:26 PM
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This assumes that the man in question doesn’t get rejected. I’m assuming that someone getting consistently rejected has more to worry about than dick size
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/24 05:24 PM
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RIP if it curves to the side
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/24 05:20 PM
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If you’re embarrassed about dick size, go to https://calcsd.info/ and confirm if you should be embarrassed or not. Anecdotally (after years of sex), dick size is a nice bonus for some but pales in comparison to foreplay, how comfortable you make her feel, and how well you work the clit.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/24 05:18 PM
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You picky eaters make me sick
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/24 03:55 PM
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Beauty is in the eye of the beholder and all that. I think dudes desperate enough to pay for pussy would still do it for average chicks.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/24 01:05 PM
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You would have loved to be in college at that point then. I voted against him but I chuckled at a lot of the support groups that popped up in my extremely blue uni town after the election happened
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/24 01:55 AM
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Usually between pays the bills and generally like it. I wfh though and I typically have an abundance of free time between projects that I use to either work on more marketable skills or relax with self care (depending on the day). I do think I want to be more ambitious + competitive within the next year so I doubt my feelings will stay the same forever
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/24 01:52 AM
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I think prone bone or doggy with a pillow under the hips takes the cake
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/24 07:43 PM
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In the best relationships, it absolutely was. The problem is that the bad relationships really drain you and its possible to be in love with someone who clearly isn’t good for you. Only you can really say if its worth pursuing. From my perspective, its worth pursuing but not as the sole/primary purpose of your life. If someone pops up that can add to your life and give you that love and validation you have been seeking, then by all means pursue them. Otherwise, focus on what you know definitely …
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/24 04:26 PM
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Might as well try apple picking if you have an orchard nearby. Always swoons the ladies, no matter if they’re traditional or have a modern mindset
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/24 02:24 PM
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I’ve been on the fwbs route for a couple years now. Having experienced love a few times prior, I can say I do still miss the feeling of being in a loving relationship. At the same time, the search for it gets pretty draining after a while. My current lifestyle allows me to focus a lot on my own happiness and self improvement (this is probably the healthiest physically and mentally I’ve ever been). Taking a break from focusing on love might do you some good tbh, just make sure you’re able to have…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/24 02:22 PM
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Signals but I have a big social circle and make an effort to engage in some type of group activity weekly. It sometimes takes time though. A lot of dudes here have made it clear that they only have a few friends/acquaintances. It honestly took me a full year of hard effort to go from loner to socially competent guy that people want to be friends with.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/24 09:55 PM
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More embarassed about some of the personal details but there’s nothing cancel worthy. I would take it like a champ
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/24 07:15 PM
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Good luck, you got this!
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/24 02:32 PM
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Hard to tell, people used to get together for all kinds of nonsensical reasons when I graduated in 2015 🤷🏾‍♂️
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/24 12:45 AM
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I guess its my own pessimism speaking but I don’t think a woman being in a relationship with a guy speaks to her attraction to him necessarily nor does it speak to being with him for reasons that are universally positive.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/24 12:35 AM
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So about half have experience with at least one partner. I would need further statistics to judge but I don’t think that initial premise is too crazy if there’s evidence of some men in the top tier having significantly more relationships/sex than others. Like I said though, we would need more statistics for that point
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/24 12:26 AM
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Yeah, as far as western social media I can easily see this being a year long blip like MGTOW. Any normal person who’s gotten anything out of the movement or has followed through on their promises will be on to better things while only the most bitter and discontent individuals will continue talking about it online
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/24 12:23 AM
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Lol you’re better than me
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/24 07:14 PM
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I know it is. I don’t want to be impolite when my white friends invite me over and serve that but its a really sad sight everytime
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/24 07:06 PM
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It took me years before I ate potato salad that I actually thought tasted good. There are way too many bland potato salads out in the world (especially whatever the fuck potato salad with raisins is)
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/24 06:43 PM
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Your enthusiasm has convinced me! I’ll give it another shot and will let you know how it goes
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/24 05:11 PM
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Cyberpunk must have really cleaned up its act after launch if you’re saying that. I can’t judge though, I used to turn down opportunities to go play Civ or Sims
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/24 04:54 PM
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No problem, good luck man
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/24 04:39 PM
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I don’t know about casual short shorts but I have some 5” gym shorts that tends to get me compliments from women here and there
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/24 04:05 PM
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I think excess body fat has negative effects on both genders but it definitely affects the men harder and earlier. I think women can still be considered conventionally attractive with more bf but there is a point where its too much for most people
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/24 03:53 PM
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Fattier cuts of meat, milkshakes, smoothies with oats or full fat yogurt, lots of juice (soda works too but I’m trying to spare your teeth). If you’re really desperate, you can just straight up drink a tbsp or two of oil a day to beef up your final numbers
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/24 03:26 PM
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Very common problem fwiw. Our perceptions of attractiveness irl are often shaped very specifically by who we’re around the most. Most people aren’t thinking about how conventionally attractive they are compared to the average person nationally (in the US, women are 170lbs on average and men are 200lbs on average). The truth is that if you and your friends are even semi fit, then you might be closer to the top attractiveness wise than you think. This is especially true the older you get as stayin…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/24 03:20 PM
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I do think most men could benefit from being friends with women but I do think a lot of them get put off after one or multiple relationships with someone who is adamant about dropping opposite sex friendships. I do think the solution is for those men to grow a backbone and stick up for themselves but desperation is a bitch when you’re young and don’t know any better
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/24 03:07 PM
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I eat ridiculously healthy on my normal days during the summer just so I can binge with friends and still maintain my progress. Hopefully you can find a method that works for you!
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/24 03:05 PM
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Pretty much. In a just world with no obesity epidemic, most non fat people with plain faces would be a 4 or 5. Being not fat in a lot of countries jumps you to a (relative) 7 without much additional work
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/24 03:02 PM
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Had thoughts and conversations about this since I’m primarily interested in educated women. I would want her to take it easy during pregnancy as well as afew months after (maybe do a temperature check after a month or two, see if she feels she may need to see someone about post partum depression or pelvic floor therapy). I wouldn’t want her to stop working completely though, I think sahm households make a lot of sense during the first few years but there’s no need for the woman to put her career…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/24 11:51 PM
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Not untrue but I don’t want to make excuses for my poor behavior. They ended up breaking up due to unrelated reasons soon after anyways so it could’ve been worse I guess
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/24 07:19 PM
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Slept with someone who was knowingly taken. I was young and their bf was pretty shitty but I still felt bad afterwards.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/24 06:59 PM
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No problem
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/24 06:49 PM
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Some of it is societal. Clean shaven was all the rage a couple decades ago for metrosexual individuals then hipster beards entered the picture as the big trend. Some of it is the fact that its one of the only appearance copes that is societally accepted for men. Beards being makeup for men is partially true as it can hide blemishes, shit skin texture, and a weak/soft chin or jaw. That last part is very relevant since we’re living in an obesity epidemic and extra weight can dull your facial featu…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/24 06:09 PM
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I prefer my fwbs and my regular friend group to be separate but it wouldn’t bother me that much. I have other people that I can turn to if I was feeling particularly insecure about that
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/24 04:46 PM
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Aesthetics and strength. I prioritize staying lean now (I’m trying to stay at a good shoulder to waist ratio) and maintaining my strength but I go for maxes every few months. I’m actually working more on getting my cardio right because of all the benefits (health and sex wise)
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/24 03:56 PM
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Damn, the mods are getting sassy now
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/24 12:26 AM
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5 times. Looking back, I was just doing it cus I was bored and had a lot of free time. I wasn’t ever that fucking horny
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/24 05:36 PM
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Anecdotally speaking: I’m an average height, fit, and somewhat educated black guy. I think I’ve have decent success hooking up everywhere but I definitely feel like a chad in more diverse cities. Some of that does have to do with obesity rates (being fit in the black community raises your value pretty highly just due to you being a rarer commodity so to speak) but I do think location can genuinely change how one’s options look. Its not feasible (unfortunately) for most people to just up and move…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/24 02:01 PM
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Sorry to hear about that. But yeah, I feel very lucky how involved my cousins, aunts+uncles, and grandparents were in my early upbringing. I’ve seen guys in similar situations as me that didn’t have nearly as much support as I did. It can really fuck you over in the long term
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/24 01:50 PM
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Yeah, once your fwb starts pushing for a relationship/catching feelings is usually when you should call it quits. Being cowardly like this just leads to further heartbreak (speaking from experience)
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/24 12:59 AM
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Absent father, mildly abusive mom. The help of other relatives (including some decent male role models) I think kind of saved me from going too far off the deep end. Life is good now, pretty good job and I have a good relationship with most people on my mom’s side of the family (I made my peace with my mom a few years ago and things haven’t been too bad since). Dating wise I’m ok, I do feel like having a father as a guise to navigate relationships would have helped some of my earlier relationshi…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/24 08:58 PM
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Honestly, I think most of the fab five minus Midorima (one trick pony) should have washed Kagami and Kuroko. I still love the show though
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/24 08:51 PM
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AA12 with a switch /s
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/24 07:44 PM
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Exactly. I think a lot of them think, incorrectly, that romantic relationships will fix both the lack of connection and sex for them completely. That’s just a recipe for perpetual loneliness because who would want someone like that as a partner or a friend?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/24 06:45 PM
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I think both “more men are struggling to find sexual partners” and “men struggle with forming a community to the detriment of their mental health” are true statements. Its just really odd how the “male loneliness epidemic” is often referring to the first point whenever its discussed (by both men and women) when the term would literally make more sense in reference to the second
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/24 06:36 PM
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Wish I could help you there but I don’t know of any. I’m sure you can look up black parental abuse on yt and get decent results but idk any influencers specifically.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/24 06:23 PM
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No problem bro. My own mom was like that (because I needed to know how to “act like a man” or whatever) until halfway through middle school and would yell at me as much as possible after that. I feel like a few more negative influences would have made me more misogynistic but good friends/relatives and a decent chunk of therapy in college got me through it. A lot of dudes don’t have the privileges that I had though so I’m sure they might go down that road pretty quick
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/24 05:45 PM
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I think expecting everyone to have had a relationship is too much. That being said, my hot take is that I think it does say something about most individuals if they’ve had absolutely no one interested in them throughout college (assuming the individual in question was even semi-social).
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/24 05:38 PM
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For the first question, its all context dependent but I think most deadbeats (i.e. fathers who make no effort to be in their kids’ lives) usually do it out of cowardice for their own responsibilities vs actual spite. The second question is that it can depending on the individual. Single moms are statistically more likely to be abusive and utilize corporal punishment so it is possible to have resentment since your mom would obviously shape how you view others in the long run. At the same time, th…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/24 05:36 PM
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Breakdown in general family dynamics (single mom households skyrocketed in between the 60s and now, lot of deadbeats) and a culture that doesn’t look down as much on degeneracy as other cultures. 1 in 3 black women and 1 in 4 black men experience dv in their lifetime not to mention the general misogyny/misanthropy, gun violence, and other toxic shit. A lot of black women experience some pretty bad sexism, colorism, sa, and other harsh treatment while young and gain a sense of distrust for black …
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/24 05:21 PM
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They’ve never experienced the horrors of an old group of guys air drying their balls in a YMCA locker room
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/24 03:11 PM
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Obviously I switch it up more often than not but typically - Breakfast: A few eggs with cheese, some turkey bacon, and a green smoothie Lunch: Usually a healthy snack or small meal. Usually its a big salad with chicken but sometimes I’m lazy and opt for some carrots/celery, some fruit, and a protein bar or protein shake Dinner: Usually chicken (sometimes steak, sometimes fish), a large amount of a green veggie (usually asparagus or broccoli), and maybe a rice dish or potato dish as well dependin…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/24 03:08 PM
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Man, I think having abs itself is overrated but being lean enough to have abs really does make me look better. This cut before summer is going well, I’m surprised I haven’t gotten sick of the chicken breasts yet
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/24 02:44 PM
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I think the non stop search for virgin women is a bit played out and gross. That being said, I’ve seen incel and redpill forums and I’d guess like 5% of them would actually be good at sex. A lot of them are autistic about getting a woman off with quite a few dedicated spaces to it. That being said, it does feel like they hyper focus on getting visceral desire and attention like the tallest, hottest men so they could get sex without needing to put in the effort to make the women feel good about a…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/24 01:50 PM
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A lot of them are probably chatting about whatever their social media algorithm decided to show them. That being said, dating app gender ratios more or less allows some women to be as shallow and manipulative as possible since most of the dudes have to compete with 1000s of others. I know a few women who more or less swipe as an excuse to get free dinners or gifts whenever they’re bored. I don’t think extending that generalization to all women ever is fair but it happens enough online that I thi…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/24 01:13 PM
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I know some of the more intense black fraternities in college brand symbols onto themselves. Personally, I think hazing of that level is ridiculous but they probably had more fun than idea
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/24 02:54 AM
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Could’ve just said due to its reputation as a safer part of the city (most people, woke or not, would accept that answer)
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/24 11:58 PM
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Assuming things are going good with them, significantly. Its been a few years but I tend to be a big romantic when I really like someone. I daydream about them and think about planning dates and stuff (whereas I’m usually a go with the flow type of person). I do get sad when I don’t see them for a while though so I’m trying to get better about having my own thing going. That way, my happiness isn’t solely on them. A bad relationship does make me very exhausted though so it all depends
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/24 11:50 PM
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I would have to wash myself, wash and condition my hair, manscape everywhere, and decide to start trying face masks for 30 minutes to be exceeded tbh (and even then I wouldn’t see it happening that long)
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/24 11:43 PM
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Anyone showering beyond 30 minutes is a psychopath (and even that is a bit long assuming you’re not also washing your hair or something)
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/24 11:35 PM
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I mean, most of the married men at my job seem more or less happy with their place in life. Most of the older single men seem happy too. The most miserable I know are the ones who had a rough divorce
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/24 10:35 PM
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Pretty sure there’s an anime about that (it gets cursed pretty quick though if you know what I mean)
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/24 09:35 PM
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I actually think I’m more interested in Fallout media outside of the games at this point. I can’t wait to try out the show!
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/24 09:35 PM
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I used to think I preferred being alone but I can’t go back to the isolation after experiencing some really good friendships and regular contact with others. I definitely do believe that having a community can be beneficial to most people’s mental health
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/24 09:26 PM
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Like a 7. Not my type personally but I see the appeal. Being not fat probably pushes her to a 9 for most in America I think
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/24 09:22 PM
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Me, definitely feel my mental health improving when i touch grass on the weekends even if I have no specific plans. I’m excited this weekend though
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/24 09:07 PM
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I do think the “we’re done with the 90s” trend is taking things too far but to act like any of the oldheads could guard Bron and the other current legends playing is crazy. The fact that the league legitimately banned zones for most of its history still blows my mind tbh.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/24 08:18 PM
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Idk why Butters works so well as a character but he kills me every time I hear him
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/24 07:59 PM
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A 9 inch height difference feels awkward to me regardless of if the girl is taller or shorter than me. Good for them though
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/24 07:34 PM
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Oof, kinda spicy but kinda true
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/24 03:36 PM
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I feel bad for turning down big women but I know they sometimes feel more confident approaching me than they would someone of a different race. Then again, I know a lot of black gym bros who genuinely seem to fetishize globe shaped people. The couple is cute though, they genuinely look happy together which is more than what most people can day
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/24 03:26 PM
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Overly aggressive response and technically counts as revenge porn but underage antics like this will probably keep happening.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/24 03:19 PM
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Thanks, hope you have a good weekend!
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/24 03:14 PM
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I was split between the slow cooker and dutch oven. I think I feel better using the slow cooker (plus easier clean up). Modelo sounds like a good idea!
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/24 03:05 PM
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Assuming you’re respectful and back off as soon as she made her rejection clear, than its usually never that bad afterwards. Most guys anticipate more awkwardness than they need to tbh. You might also just be getting more experienced which lessens the impacts of the rejections over time. Proud of you bro
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/24 02:52 PM
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Handjobs should only ever really be a precursor to the real deal imo. Hands can only do so much for men in comparison to what it can do for women
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/24 02:44 PM
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Museums + maybe go to the bar Saturday, outlet mall on Sunday. Also going to try to make a pot roast for the first time too
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/24 02:34 PM
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Unironically agree, its not like these newer adaptations are going to put that much of a unique spin on it
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/24 01:16 PM
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It is when you’re young, horny, and into milfs 🤷🏾‍♂️
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/24 01:15 PM
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Sounds like a few green flags and no hard red flags. As long as he respects boundaries and you both can communicate throughout the first few dates, maybe this can be something good. Good luck!
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/24 01:39 AM
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Best I can do is a glass of milk
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/24 01:32 AM
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If you can handle spice then yeah. Its hard making small servings of stuff like this so there’s plenty to go around
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/24 01:02 AM
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Have a special friend coming over for the night. Making gumbo and cheddar bay biscuits right now (she’s bringing over fried mushrooms). Should be fun!
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/24 12:06 AM
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Weed, ecstasy, and shrooms are fine in my book (I look at those the same way I look at alcohol consumption). I won’t look down on people doing harder drugs but I do think they’re taking a bigger risk than they should. I actively try to avoid people who do the extreme shit like crack or meth, I hope they get help but its too likely that they’ll end up as liabilities sooner or later if you’re their friend
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/24 11:29 PM
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I’m trying to be less judgmental as I get older but I am starting to dislike my friends who can’t go out to eat without getting chicken tenders or burgers only. I think a partner that’s a picky eater is a personality defect that I can’t look past unfortunately
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/24 11:27 PM
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If you are willing to afford calipers (pretty cheap), you can use those for semi accurate results. You can also get an estimate using the “navy method”. Last idea would be eyeballing it but that’s the least accurate of the options for obvious reasons
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/24 10:44 PM
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Unironically goated advice if the dude isn’t anti social. Lifetime fitness and Equinox have a lot of these older wealthier women who pass their time keeping their looks and wasting money
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/24 09:10 PM
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I honestly was surprised that he was able to come up with enough material for another 4 seasons after the initial break. He really is a great writer, deserves his flowers for sure
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/24 04:12 PM
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I think the earlier seasons were better but I’m still sad that Curb Your Enthusiasm has finally ended. Hell of a run
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/24 03:54 PM
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Realistically, I feel like the wall hits everyone pretty visibly by 30 (in America). Assuming you stay at a healthy weight and take care of your skin, then I don’t think age hits as hard looks-wise for another decade
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/24 03:05 AM
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Damn, good for you!
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/24 03:01 AM
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Congrats on the degree! Got a job lined up yet?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/24 02:56 AM
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Yeah, looksmax.org’s best of the best section is really the only good part of the site. I guess I’ll have to do similar searches through each forum
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/24 12:46 AM
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Testing kits are cheap/free in a lot of cities
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/24 12:23 AM
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It took 20+ years of my life before I was made aware of nailbrushes (I used to spend a lot of time rinsing under my fingernails). That shit really should be the standard as far as hygiene goes
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/24 12:17 AM
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I think its a bit of a spectrum. I’m a bit insecure about extra sheer fashion nova pieces but I don’t mind a little cleavage or a body contour dress. A slim fitting LBD drives me crazy.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/24 12:06 AM
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Japanese curry? Fuck I miss making tonkatsu
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/24 12:04 AM
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Are there any autistic looksmaxxing subs for men like Vindicta? Looksmaxxing forums get too incelly and defeatist but I don’t think the fitness subreddits really satisfy either
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/24 12:03 AM
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Most people would probably say friends with benefits due to the inherent risk associated with regularly sleeping with multiple people compared to just sleeping with one person. That being said, i’ve seen a lot of serial monogamists who jump from relationship to relationship with the next attractive person they can find for the near guarantee that they’ll get regular sex with that person for a few months. I could see people thinking that’s a bit more morally dubious than fwbs assuming the person …
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/24 12:01 AM
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Everyone I know who’s into League describes it like an abusive relationship. I still want to try it tbh
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/24 08:58 PM
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Well, those dudes usually end up getting hit by karma in the form of loneliness and aversion from others. Sucks that they ruin things for everyone else that they’re near though
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/24 06:00 PM
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Honestly, give people back the energy they give you. It’s one thing if you are friends and you want to give them a bit of space and time but texting every 3 days in an era of near constant online interaction means they might not care about those plans as much as you do
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/24 05:35 PM
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Yeah, I get being frustrated that you won’t get that visceral attraction from everyone like the most conventionally attractive people do but its odd how much that ends up translating to “only the top 20% or whatever of men will have success in dating” from some PPDers. A lot of women just need time, comfort, and familiarity before they can appreciate a guy’s looks and let loose (at least from my experience with relationships and friends with benefits)
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/24 04:05 PM
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1) 3-4 days per week, been working out consistently for 8 years but only dialed in the nutrition in the last 3 years. Got down to 12% for the first time a couple years ago and my treatment was night and day. I also consistently groom and I made sure my skincare routine was on point before putting myself out there. 2) Multiple fwbs (not to mention a good, supportive social circle) so I would say I’m doing better than the average dude who is probably more introverted and less social. Haven’t found…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/24 01:14 PM
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Not big on wrestling anymore but his villain arc is kind of cool. I think that’s more credit to the scriptwriters more than anything though
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/24 12:01 PM
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Good for hookups/fwb situations but not much luck relationship wise. I actually have much better luck trying with strangers as far as relationships go
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/24 09:23 PM
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I think its less so conserverive aversion and more so a general apathy as a response to a world they think isn’t worth existing in. Why try and improve yourself to contribute to a society that views you as less than when you can NEETmax? That’s not my opinion but it is becoming increasingly common amongst others. There’s also been a lot of talk about the standard K-12 system being more beneficial for young girls than young boys but I also think part of it is the messaging we’re giving the respec…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/24 04:43 PM
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As someone who’s part of a demographic where out of wedlock births and poor people behavior is common, I more or less stopped seeing that behavior once I went to college. A lot of college educated men here have made it clear that they have no/unideal circles though. That plus the fact that OLD tends to attract less than stellar individuals means that some men here, already struggling with dating under modern gender dynamics, will build up a lot of ire for single moms/women that choose poorly. In…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/24 12:32 AM
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I made a post about a woman I dated with a similar condition. If the women in question wasn’t extremely insecure about it, then it wouldn’t be a dealbreaker assuming I genuinely like her
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/24 11:36 PM
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That just sounds like a lot of 2+ year gym girls. Assuming I like her face and she has some body fat, I wouldn’t mind too much tbh
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/24 09:40 PM
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Anecdotally, I know plenty of women that refuse to move in with their respective partner until a ring is on the finger
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/24 09:34 PM
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That’s why people should get married after moving in together. I think people actually waiting to test the waters as housemates is getting rarer and rarer
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/24 09:11 PM
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They’ll do anything for clout
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/24 09:10 PM
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Can you be more specific?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/24 08:43 PM
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That youtuber getting kidnapped in Haiti made me remember how much I used to devour conflict tourism videos. Man, I was such a weirdo in my late teens
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/24 07:42 PM
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Entitlement and embarrassment 🤷🏾‍♂️ A lot of people aren’t taught how to handle rejections and other failures maturely
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/24 06:19 PM
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I think people are less likely to be publicly shitty/creepy with women due to their proportions but its not like it ever went away unfortunately
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/24 05:59 PM
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I was never under the impression that the double standard stopped tbh. Overly sexualized plus the constant threat of back pain 🤷🏾‍♂️ rip to the big titty ladies
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/24 05:48 PM
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Being confident and being the right amount of complimentary definitely has gotten me further than looks I think. There’s obviously a fine line between complimenting someone and sexually objectifying them but, in my experience, women very much like the validation that comes from their date finding them attractive
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/24 05:35 PM
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The constant rebranding of MGTOW/WGTOW always confuses me. Its completely free to opt out of dating at any point and those who feel the need to constantly advertise their single status don’t exactly seem like content people
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/24 05:32 PM
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Reminds me of a schizo version of Morticia from the Addams family. She’d definitely find a man if she wanted one
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/24 03:50 PM
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Overwatch has the sexiest character designs (men and women) out of all the hero shooters. Those designers are always cooking
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/24 03:38 PM
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Commits DV then gets a partner that mogs him. Celebrities live on a different planet
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/24 03:15 PM
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Yeah, more common than people think unfortunately. Hopefully that young man can find a good support group and some peace
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/24 01:13 AM
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I can see it being confusing so I’ll try to spell it out a little easier (I am hungover so hang in there with me). Women want someone similarly educated and with similar incomes + black women attain degrees at higher rates than black men = black women pursuing white men to lower the risk of ending up with someone less educated. I’m not saying being educated is a negative, quite the opposite in fact. Being educated and not stereotypical as a black man is actually a big positive for a lot of black…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/24 03:29 PM
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I’m sure some of the black women on the sub with white partners can answer. I’m assuming a lot of the responses would be due to shared interests, educational levels, and coincidental timing. Most black women are in relationships and marriages to black men but, assuming that women want someone on a similar level education and income wise, then white men would have an easier time than black dudes pursuing a lot of these relationships. Can only speak from my perspective but, being educated and not …
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/24 03:17 PM
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Not much different than the Swifties’ obsession with Taylor’s life. Parasocial relationships are acceptable forms of entertainment nowadays
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/24 02:45 PM
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If I was going for only white girls, sure. Being fit and not too short has made things relatively easy with girls of my race and other minorities. Also helps being educated and not looking like I’m scared to talk to women but that’s something that takes time.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/24 01:47 PM
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SZA gotta quit breathing life into songs that don’t deserve it
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/24 03:01 AM
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Another esteemed anime still on my watchlist
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/24 03:00 PM
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No idea who this is. In spite of that: he has a tidy haircut, ok skin, and has the nerd aesthetic that appeals to more women than you would think. If he’s even somewhat charismatic then I can imagine him having options. You don’t need to be a stereotypical chad to get a gf
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/24 02:58 PM
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Sounds like the right idea
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/24 10:57 PM
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Fair enough, stick to your standard king 👍🏾
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/24 10:56 PM
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At what age do you guys think banking some sperm + getting a vasectomy is the obvious choice? Vasectomies are “reversible” but I don’t think anyone should go into one with that mindset. I think after having a kid or two is when I would do it but idk. Just thinking based on some of conversations here around declining sperm quality
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/24 10:49 PM
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I thought Americans were going to start using “cunt” like they do in Australia+the Uk but it looks like its going a completely direction than I thought. Good for the women and gays I guess
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/24 06:37 PM
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Sucks that I like air forces so much. A lot of people are starting to assume any dude wearing it is using it for a height boost. Not gonna stop wearing air forces but damn, why can’t I just happen to like the shoe?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/24 06:25 PM
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Validation and sexual fulfillment?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/24 04:41 PM
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I try to tell people, condoms are an investment. Also fresh and fit probably have the worst advice if you’re an average dude struggling
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/24 04:24 PM
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Yeah, that’s fucked up
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/24 04:11 PM
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Either he’s a old man who’s coping or a young struggling guy who doesn’t want his dream scenario shattered. Either way, name em and shame em if you want 🤷🏾‍♂️
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/24 04:00 PM
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I agree with both but I was just assuming we were talking about the basic, standard American pancake from like IHOP or something
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/24 03:32 PM
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French Toast > Waffles > Pancakes. Pancake propaganda is too strong nowadays
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/24 03:22 PM
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Honestly, if they dropped the homophobia then they would find a lot of things in common with lesbians who struggle in dating. Dating dynamics are usually only discussed here within the context of a hetero relationship though so I doubt that’ll happen to often
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/24 03:22 PM
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Again, gentle reminder that a lot of people here are literal teenagers. That doesn’t mean we can’t have conversations but we really should start taking things here with a grain of salt (you can trace a lot of the discussion posts on here to teens copying recent podcast topics)
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/24 03:17 PM
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Haha yeah that’ll do it. I think it takes only 2-4 days for it to clear out for most people so don’t fret too much about it
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/24 03:15 PM
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Sorry to hear that bro, you deserve better. Take a small break if you feel that dating is hurting you more than it should. There’s no point in participating if you’re just going to be a depressed ego boost for stranger women
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/24 02:53 PM
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Assuming you’re already getting enough water and aren’t overindulging in things that cause bloat (i.e. alcohol and sodium), then you might just need time. Our bodies regularly cycles through water weight and we can’t really 100% predict when or how it’ll happen. The good news is that you’ll probably get a new low weigh in once the water weight is gone (assuming you’re cutting)
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/24 02:47 PM
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All the time. Usually not negative but it feels like I get a better view of how varied their taste is.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/24 02:23 PM
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Its amazing how the first movie was made such a big event! Second one was a letdown tbh but you could only do so much after what happened to Chadwick
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/24 01:12 PM
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I’m assuming that bag ain’t cheap
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/24 01:44 PM
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Unfortunately, someone self identifying as an incel has become a red flag in recent years for decent reason. I feel bad for proper, non toxic incels since I think most of them are loners who have isolated themselves from society, convinced themselves that no one would ever engage in a relationship with them (romantically or platonically), and took up time consuming but ultimately fruitless hobbies to disengage even further
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/24 01:34 PM
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Sounds exhausting to be around tbh but some people genuinely never grow out of childish behavior like that. I hope he didn’t ruin the vacation for you all
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/24 01:29 PM
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I thought it would be weird but pussy isn’t that bad tbh. Just gotta have realistic expectations and listen to her feedback. Eating ass/doing anal has never really appealed to me but to each their own
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/24 01:50 AM
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Good luck! Do you like anything about him immediately or do you want to wait to meet him before judging?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/24 12:36 AM
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That and nobody cares that much since its societally acceptable to be obese here. It isn’t easy but a lot of people simply won’t try to avoid that fate in the first place
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/24 11:23 PM
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19-22 is fine as well but I do like some curves and I try to be realistic about what a healthy balance for most women would look like 🤷🏾‍♂️
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/24 10:54 PM
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In past relationships, I would buy little treats or small gifts from time to time just because. I tend to wait for specific occasions (holidays, birthdays, valentines) for the specific gifts but I know some couples who share a running wish list with each other
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/24 10:45 PM
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Damn, what I would give for a 23-25 BMI degree haver that splits the bills with me
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/24 10:33 PM
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That’s a better experience than most for what it’s worth. I like what my job affords me but I could give less of a shit about the ceo and his thoughts on our company
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/24 09:50 PM
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Because he thinks his experience couldn’t happen to him since he’s still simping
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/24 09:37 PM
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Nah, just arrogant and delusional
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/24 09:30 PM
2

The conservative outrage influencers definitely had some outrage about west side story. It just always pales in comparison to the outrage about black actors/actresses
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/24 09:28 PM
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I feel old as shit, how tf is Jojo 20?!!
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/24 08:57 PM
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Being a fit black dude makes you catnip for obese women (speaking from experience). A lot of it is due to stereotyping but its not like there aren’t some dudes that play into it
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/24 07:46 PM
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Sounds like you’re both playing to your strengths, I’m happy for you both
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/24 07:19 PM
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Is strongcurves not advanced enough for you? Idk any other glute based programs tbh
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/24 07:10 PM
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Yeah but that level of self awareness takes time for people (and in some instances never happens at all)
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/24 06:45 PM
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I appreciate you keeping hope alive bro. We can’t let the blackpillers drag others down to their level
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/24 05:40 PM
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I’m sure some of it are weak willed men having their thoughts and opinions shaped by society. I think most of the dudes marrying high n count women are men who don’t care that much or men who are happy to have someone who’s sexually open so they can be freaks together consensually
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/24 05:39 PM
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I have a physical set for the 9th. Probably a good idea for me to ask about it
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/24 04:26 PM
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Finally getting back on track with my water consumption. Trying to get 3-4 liters a day but I’m sick of pissing so often
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/24 04:16 PM
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Damn, soviet giga stacies mogging again
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/24 04:15 PM
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$100 isn’t really that much value for the risk of embarrassing my date. I’d tell them to fuck off (politely, of course)
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/24 04:07 PM
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So like a personified version of confirmation bias? Its strange, I came up in a fatherless household with plenty of opportunities to be toxic and I somehow avoided rabbit-holes like this in high school.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/24 04:05 PM
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On single life, she kept bringing up how he talked about how she smells “down there”. They both seem pretty shameless but I had sympathy for her based on the limited clips. I might binge season 2 just to see what’s up
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/24 04:04 PM
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Depends on the relationship but sex isn’t always guaranteed. Sometimes the relationship for sugar parent is strictly for clout (associated with being with a young hot person) + company (presence from a young hot person). I always thought relatively well off older men would be better off going for escorts but it looks like a lot of them definitely want a relationship with a woman even if sex is off the table
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/24 04:02 PM
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I never saw the Danielle 90df season, I saw her on single life though. Didn’t know she had a poor reputation. Angela is a good example though, idk how I forgot her
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/24 03:56 PM
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To England apparently. Surprised he still has the following he does considering how obvious of a grifter he is
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/24 03:46 PM
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That’s the way to do it tbh, avoids you getting ghosted after a date
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/24 03:42 PM
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Those grannies still get less heat than the men in similar positions (fuck Debbie)
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/24 03:41 PM
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Fuck allergy season
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/24 03:05 PM
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A lot of women are height fetishists but I also think the height is more of a status symbol for some rather than an actual factor in their attraction. Otherwise, there wouldn’t be such a thing as 6ft+ incels
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/24 03:16 AM
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I got the worst farmers tan this one summer playing baseball in high school. I looked burnt on my face and arms and my torso looked orange comparatively. Gonna have to disagree with you on this one
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/24 02:51 AM
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Yeah, hiding a partner for sure. On to better men then
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/24 01:38 AM
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On a sidenote, I fucking love the Hugo dance and idk why. Its always fun to watch
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/24 01:32 AM
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Thats tough. Best case scenario, its a family member or roommate (which is embarrassing for some men). Probably a partner though. Good luck with that
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/24 01:28 AM
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Sorry to hear that. Did he think you were going to be cool with it or something?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/24 12:51 AM
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Sad to say that I still haven’t tried the moscow mule yet. The others you mentioned are classics though!
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/24 11:05 PM
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Sheesh, sorry to hear that
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/24 10:53 PM
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1 or 2 I guess. Feminine but not too extreme (although my favorite in this pic is the second to last lady in the 4 column)
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/24 08:26 PM
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Honestly, anything from -4 to 5 works for me. These images are all above average women though so Idk how representative this chart is
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/24 08:03 PM
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Thanks for the recommendations, I’ll try them out next time!
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/24 08:02 PM
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Working on your outfits and style will help. Just making sure you have proper fitting clothes (especially as you lose weight) will help your rating a bit
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/24 07:36 PM
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Still don’t like beer but I like normal cocktails (big rum and coke or whiskey and coke guy). Its amazing how much more comfortable feel when you also drink with them vs just drinking water while they get buzzed
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/24 07:29 PM
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I currently use a Nivea water gel from Japan. Reequil’s SPF 50 for oily skin is an Indian one I’ve used that is lightweight and doesn’t white mask (Takes like 30 seconds total for the sunscreen to absorb)
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/24 07:17 PM
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I guess it comes down to how much you believe these men have no chance with cute women. I’m under the assumption that if you’re under 30, relatively fit, and not completely autistic then there isn’t much of a barrier to a relationship (aside from environmental factors such as location and demographic makeup of your neighborhood). Some incels are un-savable but a lot of them shoot themselves in the foot or give up without trying
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/24 07:03 PM
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Damn, sucks the korean one didn’t work out. I do find brands with Indian founders work well for darker skin (especially if you’re working on hyperpigmentation). Good luck finding the sunscreen that works for you
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/24 06:56 PM
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Fair enough, I won’t argue there
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/24 06:53 PM
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I got sick of white cast from sunscreens and a lot of the brands here that don’t white cast have a price hike. Highly recommend you just order a japanese or korean or european sunscreen. Idk why but they cracked the code on ideal sunscreens
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/24 06:34 PM
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I don’t think its a universal trait among all of them but I think a lot of those men are looking for someone conventionally very attractive that’ll overlook their own shortcomings. Not a good play dating wise but that’s what they decided for themselves
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/24 06:32 PM
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Yeah? I think they’re similar justifications even if the stakes involved are different
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/24 06:28 PM
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No but I think a lot of men have so little self esteem and self worth that they genuinely believe no other woman would like them. I still think men are in the wrong for settling for whoever comes by (the woman in question deserves someone who is truly into them) but getting these men into the mentality that its possible for them to have mutual attraction with a woman is an uphill battle for some
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/24 06:26 PM
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This is un-ironically the same justification for women avoiding men until proven to be trustworthy/not dangerous. I think both are good justifications but you would think both genders would be empathetic to these feelings
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/24 06:18 PM
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Whatever she can get with her degree that leaves her fulfilled, not overworked, and not poor.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/24 06:09 PM
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Hobosexuals don’t have to be chad, just decent at sex and somewhat charismatic
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/24 05:58 PM
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Well shit, who woulda thought. Still counting my days on mfp but at least I can use the scanner for the time being
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/24 05:27 PM
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Will that work around the paywall?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/24 05:06 PM
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Bet, first response is my answer. I’ll download it now
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/24 05:02 PM
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Welp, I think its time for me to delete myfitnesspal. Had it since high school but the underarmour buyout and hiding the barcode scanner behind a paywall has finally gotten on my nerves. Any opinions on the next app? I think it’ll be between Cronometer and Lose it.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/24 05:00 PM
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That doesn’t really excuse a woman hitting anyone though. Assault is assault regardless
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/24 04:57 PM
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Congrats!! That’s number 4 right? Hope you and your fam enjoy the new member 👍🏾
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/24 04:29 PM
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Fair enough 🤷🏾‍♂️
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/24 04:22 PM
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Is literally every man in your life looking for a subordinate? Would me saying I don’t want a subordinate change that opinion?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/24 04:12 PM
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100% agree
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/24 04:02 PM
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1) Abusive prenups get thrown out more often than not 2) Prenups really only protect assets pre-marriage anyways. Assuming he’s successful and you’re with him for the duration of the child’s life or whatever, you would be entitled to decent money post divorce. Anything men do out of self interest will inevitably get called a red flag though so it is what it is
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/24 04:01 PM
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Daily discussion has more engagement than usual! Are people finally letting go of arguing in the regular posts?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/24 03:46 PM
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I thought it was a rite of passage for preteen/teen girls to go to Claire’s or similar stores to get their ears pierced for the first time. I guess I don’t understand the problem with waiting a few years before you kid expresses they actually want the earrings (unless you’re getting them pierced for traditional reasons)!
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/24 03:43 PM
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Even as someone who prefers to date educated woman, I’m not exactly jerking off at the thought of dating someone because of their successful career. Its not like the career itself makes them less desirable but a lot of them (similar to some men in these careers) expect the career to do all the talking when, in reality, there’s much more men are going to be looking for beyond that.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/24 03:40 PM
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Is my gf not attractive in this scenario? I’m assuming I’m with her because I do find her attractive. I also believe the grass is greenest where you water it so I would just continue being happy and explore new ways that I find my gf attractive
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/24 03:36 PM
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Good luck bro
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/24 12:59 PM
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If I had to guess, its probably relatable for the average post high school/college american. Kind of a societal cope in a way
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/24 02:37 AM
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Lol at the Indian ratio
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/24 12:19 AM
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Ever since I talked about that one relationship happy weight tiktok couple, I’ve been getting non stop recommendations for the same thing from other people. I’m happy for them but this is the lamest trend I’ve had to see in quite some time
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/24 12:16 AM
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Its all that plus gender. We should acknowledge the important of social skills and rizz while also understanding that the unsuccessful here will probably continue to be unsuccessful despite their best efforts.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/24 12:13 AM
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Emrata had a feminist podcast that was the most mind numbing experience I’ve had in a long time. I think women deserve better choices as far as empowerment goes
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/24 12:09 AM
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Fair enough, I don’t think there’s a wrong answer between those two. I hate to say it because I love his game but the Mbappe simps confuse me
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/24 12:00 AM
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At the possibility of sounding homosexual, I’d say peak Neymar > current Jude. Jude still has some time though (also, Neymar is starting to show his age a little too much recently)
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/24 11:48 PM
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Maybe that’s more of a reason than you think? While I am all for male -cels touching grass, they still won’t get nearly the opportunities that you just did
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/24 11:39 PM
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Seeing that pre college is pretty wild
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/24 11:32 PM
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Man Purple I think, agree with some points from each but I think pure blue, black, and red pillers are a bit too delusional Single Think last time it said ISTP. Idk, I commented it somewhere on this sub but I don’t feel like looking for it I’m looking for a relationship where me and my partner genuinely look forward to seeing each other each day and want to build a future together. Still iffy on kids but, if I did, I would want to be an involved and responsible father and that would require a re…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/24 10:04 PM
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Honestly, the greatest thing most male lifters can for do for their looks is stay at or below 15% bodyfat. The rest is finding clothes that fit appropriately. Women will still check you out even if you aren’t roided, I promise
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/24 09:09 PM
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Who said I didn’t? The topic was twitter
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/24 06:05 PM
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Think Elon opened the floodgates but there was always racists and gore videos on twitter. I don’t think it was ever a good social media for anything but circle jerking
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/24 05:31 PM
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Wow thanks for the inspo. Might have to make a purchase soon!
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/24 04:15 PM
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Do you send them indicators of interest? Nowadays, the majority of men hitting on stranger women are going to be hood dudes. Most normal men just wait to see if they vibe first instead of taking a blind/selfish gamble
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/24 04:00 PM
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I think most people do it every few months. I have to do it more often but I’m very sensitive to dust and pet dander
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/24 03:47 PM
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Some people have a natural pout that looks better than a smile. There’s also the possibility of too much gum showing, crooked/missing teeth, irregularly sized teeth, and teeth discoloration which all can affect how your smile looks.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/24 03:20 PM
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I guess that first line is a bit of a tossup depending on region. Idk where she lives though so I’ll just assume that online dating to find possible suitors would be better than what’s happening irl. I live in a pretty big and diverse city so black women being hit on by variety of characters is still a thing. Last line is a strong point of debate for some women though. If she wants kids, then capitalizing in her “fertile years” makes sense. If not, than there’s not much reason to rush (especiall…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/24 03:17 PM
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Sheesh, that last line is probably suicide fuel for blackpillers (sounds like she could use your advice though)
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/24 03:02 PM
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I’m rooting for Croatia in the Euro. 2nd place followed up by 3rd place in the world cup considering their competition is amazing!
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/24 12:24 AM
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Yes. I like my daily routine, I’ve gotten better at keeping in touch with family over the past few years, and I’m much better about getting social interactions when I feel I need it. Only thing I’m really regretting is not doing more travelling but I have a couple places in mind for this summer
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/24 11:25 PM
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Seeing a stream of that happening was the hardest I laughed in a while. Like they really are finding a new way each day to push the degeneracy further on twitch. I think someone being painted greenscreen-green is next on the list
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/24 10:17 PM
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Nothing wrong with that
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/24 10:02 PM
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Sounds like cope but you could just buy it and go to dinner with friends or some shit
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/24 09:46 PM
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Hookups = condoms Relationships = I prefer her taking over BC duties but I don’t mind condoms if she doesn’t want BC or if the hormonal BC options affect her negatively. Condom sex is still sex so its whatever
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/24 09:45 PM
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Lasagna. Trying to perfect my recipe but lasagna is hard to fuck up so it should be fine
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/24 09:05 PM
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Kind of, depending on your perspective. A lot of people blame a slowing metabolism (true to an extent, your tdee lowers naturally over time) not to mention a possible lack of time once you’re an adult with responsibilities. Also, a lot of people underestimate how much they’ve lowered their physical activity levels post-college. Going from being on the move all the time in college versus being extremely sedentary in a generic 9 to 5 office job will lead to most people getting chubby surprisingly …
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/24 08:42 PM
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Me, think I’ll go to the farmer’s market with someone this weekend
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/24 08:23 PM
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Damn, I guess that would be a good strategy if you want to prevent more competition. Never thought about that
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/24 07:26 PM
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Thats what I originally thought but, especially in the USA, happy weight ends meaning any amount of weight gained after you’ve entered a long term relationship
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/24 06:55 PM
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It is weird to think about. I always thought chick is more pc but I have heard men in certain settings call a group of women “birds” and that has always felt much worse to me. Sucks but ladies is really the only alt term for women that I think is generally acceptable (girls depends on the women in question, a lot of them are not a fan of that)
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/24 06:33 PM
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Takes me back to all the white dudes I saw rocking a hoodie and shorts in below freezing temps. Damn, I miss midwestern winters
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/24 06:23 PM
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They claimed to be happy and the dude was hearting all the comments about happy weight. From that, I assumed she let her hair down and felt so secure in her relationship that the need for additional physical activity and dietary restriction was unnecessary in her eyes (happens semi often from a lot of couples I see)
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/24 06:20 PM
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Taking that cash is basically asking for an L. Afterwards, when the FBI inevitably arrest you, your only options are to either publicly testify like Tekashi 69 (while becoming P Diddler’s number 1 opp) or eating the charges and spending god knows how long in jail
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/24 05:52 PM
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There are a shocking amount of women who openly fantasize about how attractive their kid will be. Doesn’t mean they’re literally attracted to kids but I imagine a lot of them would be disappointed if the kid doesn’t reach those imagined expectations (I’m sure most wouldn’t care though once the kid is birthed since that’s literally their kid)
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/24 05:48 PM
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That’s true, we don’t know what he likes or doesn’t like appearance wise. He likes her though which is good enough for me
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/24 05:41 PM
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Yeah, it was pretty sad. I don’t see the need for chastising otherwise happy people but that’s most of social media at this point I am glad they didn’t put that on ig reels, comments would’ve been Chernobyl levels
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/24 05:41 PM
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Man has had the oddest character arc. Imagine where he would be if he just waited for the Israel-Palestine conflict to ramp up again before talking about jewish people. I think they make sense as a match. I hope Kanye is finding some level of peace considering how up and down his mental health has been
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/24 05:37 PM
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Saw a tiktok recently featuring a couple where the lady had some massive weight gain after 800+ days (so a little over 2 years; went from straight sized to obese). I do think that people attacking the lady’s appearance gotta relax (they looked a happy couple which makes me happy for them). Outside of that though, there were a lot of seemingly serious people in the comments who were like “your relationship isn’t real if there isn’t some happy weight gained” which I think is weird. I do believe th…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/24 05:34 PM
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I don’t like Gwyneth that much but I respect her openness about it versus the rich people cosplaying as poors
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/24 03:18 PM
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Irresponsible and a dumb decision (unless you have millions to take care of the kid after death like a lot of these actors and, even then, the likelihood of the early death of their father will affect them no matter what redpill copers say).
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/24 03:45 AM
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I saw a bunch of tiktok memes about women loading up the pepper spray due to this. Pretty crazy and I feel like we hear some new stories about assaults like this in nyc every few months
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/24 12:02 AM
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Do you have the study this graph is referencing or did you just save it and hope it would speak for itself?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/24 11:53 PM
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Outside of Luka, Wemby has my favorite stat lines of this season. Pop is so lucky to have him. He definitely deserves some awards after this season (and teammates that will pass him the ball more. Watching the spurs is a frustrating experience due to how often his teammates absolutely refuse to pass the ball to the 7’4” beanpole who’s practically always open)
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/24 11:24 PM
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Sounds delicious! I wish America was more lamb oriented tbh. I’m starting to prefer it to beef and pork nowadays
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/24 09:40 PM
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Lol, that makes more sense. That is still good though, people underestimate how difficult something as simple as jump rope is
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/24 09:27 PM
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Not him but I thought the same thing about a lot of Tate followers. The amount of glazing over him was baffling for those few months before he got locked up
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/24 09:10 PM
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Nice, another skipper. Your must be good if you can do 30 minutes straight, no breaks
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/24 09:10 PM
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If you’re able bodied with no chronic health conditions, it works fine enough. It is pretty fucked once you start having those issues though, a lot of my coworkers specifically picked my company because the insurance included a high premium, low deductible option.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/24 07:09 PM
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Men aren’t a hivemind so not really. I or any other average man can’t really control the actions of desperate simps. I’ll continue to advocate for men to be pickier with who they pursue but, like I said, better for everyone to be aware of how the “sexual market” looks and decide how they’ll act moving forward
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/24 07:00 PM
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Don’t disagree but it doesn’t change the larger point overall 🤷🏾‍♂️ average men will have to work harder than average women to get sex or relationships. Better for men to learn that now and act accordingly
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/24 06:42 PM
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I remember that study about single women being the happiest was a big reason a few months ago but I’m half certain it was debunked recently.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/24 04:53 PM
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I’m pretty sure stats on that have women in their 20s-30s wanting relationships more and then the dynamic flips from 40 onwards. I don’t have the stats at hand though so I could be mistaken
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/24 04:45 PM
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I’m like Larry David but black and worth 400 million less
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/24 04:06 PM
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I do have a tiny pinch of sympathy for women who are extremely happy to be celibate and following life on their own terms now. I’m sure social conditioning edged them towards non ideal relationships but I do assume people gloating about living in the default state of singleness probably have their own traumas and past issues to work past. I’m happy to be single but a lot of my lady counterparts make it seem like this revolutionary, religious, eye opening experience which does confuse me but I ju…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/24 04:00 PM
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Lol, even my mom mentioned that Diddy has had allegations of sus shit going back to before I was even born. Dude’s lucky he is (or is close to) a billionaire or else he would have gotten the R Kelly treatment a lot quicker
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/24 03:52 PM
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Irl socializing for the most part. Group activities, places where socializing are expected parts of the experience (bars, raves, etc), and being a part of multiple friend groups are probably the best bet for the average man. Sucks that its come to this but apps aren’t worth it unless you’re top tier lookswise (and even then, women tend to be pickier on apps than they are irl so being top tier isn’t enough a lot of the time)
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/24 03:23 PM
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I think that’s an accurate assessment on dating apps. Regardless of if you want to get laid or get into a relationship as a guy, I think sticking to irl methods are much better and less exhausting (once you get enough experience at least, the first few rejections are hard if you’re not used to it). Sucks that the apps are taking over the dating sphere more and more
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/24 03:19 PM
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Even taking into account those different goals, women are more likely to hit their goal (long term relationship) than men on dating apps. That doesn’t mean the majority of their swipes won’t end up in hookups and flameouts but they are drastically more likely to get that relationship than their male counterparts.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/24 03:00 PM
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I’m sure only being able to get mid sex from commitment phobic men is a exhausting but, again, thats also way more engagement than most men on the app. That’s not to downplay the risks inherent with women trying to date but i don’t think the reasons you stated really makes anyone feel better
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/24 02:30 PM
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That tinder post does remind me of how lopsided modern dating can be. Seeing how most women could have thousand of options at their finger tips does make it harder to sympathize, especially considering how much more effort the average man would need to put into their profile in comparison. Leave the OLD alone guys, its better to pursue women in a more even handed environment
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/24 02:12 PM
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Makes sense, hate to say it but death grip havers do ruin the general vibe of the dating pool when it comes to sexual encounters. The fact that women nowadays are sometimes surprised when a man can get off with them illustrates that point pretty well
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/24 04:34 AM
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All but maybe leg lengthening surgery, sure. Leg lengthening looks too risky for the possibles pros of the procedure. I would invest in 3” shoe lifts at that point and deal with whatever judgement came from that action (I’m assuming very short for a man means at or below average height for women so about 5’4”). I’m sure there’s a convo worth having about my parents seeing me as a baby popper versus my own human being but I’ll play along for the purpose of your question.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/24 04:31 AM
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I hate that its become a cliche among manosphere and redpill influencers because they can make anything cringy but I think telling people to get active is genuinely the best advice you can give most people. Coming out of the gym knowing you put in work is very validating
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/24 12:07 AM
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That’s nice insight on it, thanks for responding. I know I don’t “have” to but I just think it would be better for me mentally to avoid it during a relationship. Makes me feel more present in a way if that makes sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/24 11:37 PM
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I’m still baffled by women that say they have trouble finding men without a porn addiction. Even before I stopped consuming porn altogether, I scrapped porn usage whenever I was in a relationship just so I could focus on my woman. Idk, I don’t want to cast doubt but its just weird to think about
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/24 10:57 PM
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You’re welcome, no problem =)
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/24 07:50 PM
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Yup, not really that uncommon (especially if you were strangers until recently)
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/24 07:29 PM
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Non present father but I had other male role models in the family that made it a little easier to navigate dating. I do feel like not having the presence available at home 24/7 (not literally but close to it) did affect how I engage in dating and took a while to get over. I think its similar for others as well, even if they don’t have any strong trauma.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/24 07:27 PM
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Hella respect for people who can accessorize multiple rings without looking cringy
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/24 06:54 PM
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Yeah. I feel like I shouldn’t but the lizard brain hits in weird ways.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/24 05:55 PM
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Happy b day!
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/24 05:32 PM
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Sure.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/24 04:51 PM
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I don’t see anything funny about it (again, gang violence isn’t exactly a joke and the amusement you’re getting out of it is pushing DJ Akademiks levels) but do you.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/24 04:43 PM
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Men crack me up. Glad the gender can amuse you 🙄 I don’t see much need to cape for someone who was very adamant about taking credit for multiple murders in a city rife with gun violence
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/24 04:30 PM
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Serial killers are defined as having killed at least 3 people. He was a gang member but also a serial killer (a gleeful one at that)
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/24 04:19 PM
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True but I still try to stay optimistic about people, even the people here
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/24 04:11 AM
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Exactly. I still think there’s more to life than a relationship but I remember the FOMO I felt before my first long term one so I try to be empathetic to the guys here. I think a lot of people grow out of that feeling as they age but some people can’t help but get obsessed about it until they experience it
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/24 04:08 AM
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Glad you liked it! Its rare Netflix releases movies that are actually good but I think they nailed it here. I’m down for a sequel that’s inevitably not as good 🙏🏾
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/24 04:00 AM
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The internal answer would be N/A
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/24 03:43 AM
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I’m sure there are a few reasons for that. Obviously, a lot of people here are neurotic and self-loathing to a pretty strong degree. I think for some of the men, a couple possible reasons include: Lack of bad relationship experience. Bad relationships are exhausting but a lot of guys here haven’t even gotten to the point of having a relationship. Thus, that support system that I’m mentioning hasn’t been used to its full extent in this manner. Lack of intimacy outside of relationships. The easies…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/24 03:42 AM
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Honestly, flirting with girls that vary looks wise would do it. Its obviously not 1 for 1 since girls often like guys that aren’t in their league (higher or lower) but that should give you an ok average to work off of
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/24 03:31 AM
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Men who have an alright support system (a few friends and close family members) have much less of an issue dealing with romantic loneliness compared to loners. I know that’s a bit of an obvious point to make but dealing with that lack of romance with and without friends was like night and day for me. It got to the point where being single felt better because I never truly felt lonely since I had people to connect with still (also dating is kind of an exhausting experience when you end up with mu…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/24 03:22 AM
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I thought the movie would be a wild experience but I’m still shocked about this plot description
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/24 02:26 AM
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Guess I would need to know how rare the men you’re referring to claim they are 🤷🏾‍♂️ Feels like a lot of your posts have unironically begun generalizing to the same degree that redpillers do but its not my battle to fight
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/24 02:16 AM
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Haven’t seen the notebook yet but the romance was my least favorite part of the titanic. Brokeback Mountain clears it easy, its a shame that it lost best picture to an Oscar-bait movie
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/24 02:04 AM
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Pretty sure 6ft+ is about 14% of men in America. Does that make them unicorns? No. Does that limit the dating pool to the point where you may have a much harder time finding a person you’re compatible with? Probably.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/24 02:00 AM
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I asked a similar question and the consensus seemed to be that 5’7”-5’9” should stick to irl approaches and below 5’7” really start feeling the weight of height preferences. A lot of women just don’t want someone shorter than them though so I’m sure the opportunity will still present itself
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/24 01:35 AM
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Virtually none, has to be pretty extreme for me to notice. Even most (natural) gym chicks don’t have shoulders so wide that they take away from their attractiveness imo
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/24 01:02 AM
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Don’t feel like calculating net worth but I’m close to 6 figures salary wise. I think its more than enough but I generally go for educated women I find attractive versus the typical ig model-esque lady
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/24 11:04 PM
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Unironically agree. Appearing to be responsible and somewhat decent at making food is a panty dropper
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/24 10:44 PM
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I respect them as athletes but I think motor vehicle sports are very fucking boring.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/24 10:36 PM
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Exactly! Being inexperienced at that age is not as crazy as they think it is. The last thing they need are the opinions of people here influencing how they go about hitting their early milestones
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/24 09:54 PM
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If you’re leaning more progressive: Episcopal or UCC. If you’re leaning more conservative: Baptist. Otherwise, just try a few out. Catholicism is probably the best bet for networking opportunities as well as just having that big old school style community.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/24 08:28 PM
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No but I always thought certain cosmetic procedures (like lip fillers) are more-so status signifiers for women to other women.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/24 08:04 PM
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Comment doesn’t really add much to the conversation tbh. Do you think that this dynamic is a good thing?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/24 07:59 PM
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I get that (as my previous comment alluded to) but it sounds like you’re assuming a more even distribution along the kinsey scale that isn’t really backed by any data
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/24 05:20 PM
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Based on what?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/24 05:13 PM
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That first sentence more or less invalidates a lot of people’s sexualities for no reason. Sexuality is a spectrum but to assume that no one exists on the end of it is pretty ridiculous
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/24 05:10 PM
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Yeah, its always fucked when someone refuses to date their own race until its time to build a future/family. Than its all racial pride and “we should keep the community together” when they clearly looked down on their opposite gender counterparts for years. Pathetic indeed
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/24 05:07 PM
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An athlete? In all seriousness, the amount of simping I see from black men and women for their white counterparts (snowbunnies/pasta and lobster) in social media is starting to get a bit ridiculous. I think the future of the community will be mixed in a couple decades tbh (I know you said men of color in your comment, my experience is mostly with black people hence the comment)
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/24 04:52 PM
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I don’t think I’ve been on here long enough to experience an older demographic. I am always shocked to realize the sub itself is a decade plus old at this point so I have probably missed a few eras
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/24 04:43 PM
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Dynamics for that are still different for adults too fwiw. You’re right though, I’m probably overstating how many dudes want proper relationships here
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/24 04:30 PM
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One of the reasons I started to use ppd less (outside of the obvious misery that this sub tends to bring) is the unironic usage of this place by high schoolers (quite frankly, anyone under 21). I have sympathy for people college aged still struggling but the dynamics in dating for slightly older adults looking for ltrs are very different. Not to mention the general weirdness that comes with people in their 40s giving dating advice to strangers in their teens. Anywhere else on the internet would …
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/24 04:21 PM
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What about a son that’s the only child of a single mom 😏
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/24 03:18 PM
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That whole cast had some weird choices tbh. Katara’s audition tape was horrible!
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/24 11:14 PM
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Pinkpantheress, a few reality shows, and skincare (I’m getting very autistic about what products I’m using)
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/24 06:09 PM
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Sheesh, I feel bad for dudes that get bombarded by the heightpill but I guess thats just nature in action
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/24 03:43 PM
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As an only child, I think sibling havers have a slight advantage. There is still a bit of a stigma against only children to an extent (expected to be more selfish and less social) and a lot of your pros do assume the best case scenario with regards to parents.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/24 03:41 PM
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I do want to get back into making coffee at home. The routine felt like a nice starting point to my day. I just settled on buying packs of energy drinks on sale from the store for now
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/24 11:12 PM
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Honestly, each point sounds pretty valid. I appreciate your honesty on the matter, its refreshing
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/24 11:09 PM
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Feel like the tretinoin is still working for me but the peeling is starting to get annoying. I feel goofy for having to put vaseline on my face at night but its the only thing that has helped really
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/24 08:16 PM
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I think a lot truly empathize. I also think a lot internally eyeroll and give whatever their version of a pc response is. Overall, I think whatever they tell you is more or less useless since there are too many variables at play as far as dating success goes and generic platitudes only work for some. I especially think skepticism should be added for family members older (15 years +) than you since they did the bulk of their dating in a different time period and those family members probably don’…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/24 07:19 PM
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Highly recommend Tyrone. Warning, it does get pretty weird as the title suggests but I had a good time. John Boyega was way too good at playing an American but I think the whole cast did their job.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/24 05:47 PM
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Even the super woke people I know thought it looked kind of corny. If anyone’s looking for decent+recent black flicks, I’d suggest “They Cloned Tyrone”, “Book of Clarence”, or “Honk For Jesus. Save Your Soul.”
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/24 03:33 PM
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Not doubting the delusion of men here but this comment is just another underhanded variation of “single parents are shit” that we see on the sub daily. Starting to think that you’re not that much different from the red pillers at this point
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/24 02:40 PM
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Honestly makes sense to aim for taller women if you’re tall. I couldn’t tell you why but all the basketball height dudes I know go for shorter women all the time despite any possible awkwardness
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/24 03:21 AM
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Both anecdotal answers: For me - 5’6” From other men I’ve talked to - I’m guessing about 5’2, they tend to want shorter than average but not too short
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/24 03:04 AM
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I guess I’m under the assumption that more people than not are hypocrites when it comes to matters like this. I do disagree with the protestors fwiw (especially in NY, not like there’s so much space left to build new properties).
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/24 12:46 AM
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I have seen more than one scrub shack up for free with women due to rizz/sex game. I assume those men aren’t at absolute rock bottom yet though
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/24 11:27 PM
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I’m trying to be less of an annoying leftist but property values really are a quick way for even the most zen american to turn into a bit of a bigot
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/24 11:19 PM
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I appreciate your response. It does feel like people are getting more and more comfortable putting up barriers to resource access like this and its hard to watch
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/24 11:13 PM
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Copying and pasting from the previous daily since I want some discussion: Apparently, some people tried to stop a men’s shelter from being built in NY (https://twitter.com/susanzhuangnyc/status/1769152384591188151)? Any ppd members want to give any thoughts to it? Assuming it is real, I kind of get both sides. Even putting aside the male only descriptor, homeless shelters in general are breeding grounds for degeneracy and putting them by schools would probably raise eyebrows in any neighborhood …
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/24 11:06 PM
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Apparently, some people tried to stop a men’s shelter from being built in NY (https://twitter.com/susanzhuangnyc/status/1769152384591188151)? Any ppd members want to give any thoughts to it? Assuming it is real, I kind of get both sides. Even putting aside the male only descriptor, homeless shelters in general are breeding grounds for degeneracy and putting them by schools would probably raise eyebrows in any neighborhood of the country. Then again, homeless men in particular face unique challen…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/24 10:57 PM
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Unfortunately, this level strawmanning is pretty common on all sides when it comes to this sub. Rest assured, any negative viewpoint of a person automatically will get applied to their gender as a whole
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/24 05:28 PM
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Yup, absolutely. I only have relationships with people I an attracted to but, sometimes, you’re just not in the mood. With that said, i still get a confidence boost knowing someone I find attractive wants to have sex with me. Some of that may be cope a little bit since I’ve seen what happens when you turn down sex from some women. Insults about sexuality and sexual assaults have happened when I turn some of them down (unfortunately). Even not going that far, I think a lot of women take a big con…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/24 04:25 PM
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The biggest benefit of an actual jump rope is the improved coordination and ability to do tricks. If you just want a workout though then you can get ropeless jump ropes for mostly the same cardio benefit
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/24 04:24 PM
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I do want to do more traditionally masculine things when I’m into someone but its hard to tell how natural that is vs societal conditioning. I try to get more creative but doing typically chivalrous stuff is always an accepted form of appreciation, no matter who I’m dating
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/24 02:59 PM
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Ass and thighs men on top. Boob men are still cool though. Gotta watch out for the feet dudes. Send armpit lovers to the gulag
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/24 02:53 PM
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I am sitting my cis ass down and I 👏🏾 Am 👏🏾 Listening 👏🏾 In all seriousness, I don’t have that much dislike for trans people. I feel bad that they’re affected by thoughts that the majority of the population wouldn’t want anything to do with. I also think their presence in normal society is overblown due to a loud minority. You’re still more likely to see a ginger in public than a trans person and I rarely see either tbh (and I only live in major metro areas at this point)
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/24 02:36 AM
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That level of optimism is pretty wholesome but I think a lot of guys lose that spark after a few dry months or even years. Honestly, if you’re still that upbeat after the rejections then you should have no problem finding the love of your life. Godspeed bro
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/24 02:32 AM
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I don’t think rejection has ever been fun. Sure you can be happy to look at it as an experience to learn from after the fact but I do think its pretty exhausting after a while. Then again, I’m good about taking a break when I start feeling worse and about decentering romance in general. Some dudes wallow in misery and hop back in to the dating scene immediately and repeatedly to the detriment of their mental health
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/24 02:22 AM
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Honestly, after elementary school. I was a good student for the most part and I had better luck asking teachers in school for help anyways. Then again, I knew a lot of high achiever parents that watched their kid’s progress like a hawk (and a lot of those students ended up successful). What works for some doesn’t always work for others, I know I would have been exhausted with the constant helicoptering
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/24 01:24 AM
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I’ve seen enough on incel/looksmaxxing forums to understand the difference between the despair one feels when there are no options vs the irritation certain people feel when their preferred option isn’t available to them. I never would have thought stolen valor amongst incels was a genuine concern but here we are
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/24 11:26 PM
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That last sentence is key. I think a lot of people are competent but the ability to socialize will really further your career, especially in this age of hyper individualism.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/24 11:18 PM
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Both. I’ve been playing basketball and running lately. There are some affordable shoes that work and feel great but look like absolute dogshit. I think I go for look for my everyday shoes and function for shoes built for sports or specifically for getting my steps in
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/24 11:11 PM
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Maybe he’s spamming 30+ reps of lateral raises or something. I think most < 15 lb dumbbells should be reserved for pilates for the most part
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/24 11:07 PM
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This seems fairy petty since it really doesn’t take that much effort to write a recommendation letter. I got two in high school the same afternoon I asked
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/24 10:58 PM
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That or they just flat out ignore their options. Most incels and femcels have options available, they just don’t like them (because those options are not conventionally attractive enough or whatever dealbreaker they have set for themselves is, despite the fact that those -cels have pretty low smv as well)
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/24 10:56 PM
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Your takes are falling off (like most men’s hair post 35)
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/24 11:50 PM
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Jesus, the femcels and incels on this subreddit are getting kind of redundant at this point. In for the drama though 🍿
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/24 10:25 PM
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Thats fair, I can appreciate that viewpoint
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/24 08:16 PM
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I’ll do it but be petty about it. I do think I’ve started being more judgmental of people my age who are scared of bugs to the point where they’re deathly afraid of being near them. I’d honesty be less upset about her waking me up to make a sandwich
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/24 08:14 PM
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I wish that was my case but maybe I’m not looking hard enough I guess
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/24 07:56 PM
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I genuinely like how air forces looks but it sucks that people assume I’m in it for the height boost.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/24 07:46 PM
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Top tier restaurant bread. Make sure they give you a box of rolls to go.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/24 07:32 PM
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My two trips to California had me in awe of how beautiful the natural surroundings are. Ubering onto the highway was such a fun experience everytime. Too bad about the living costs 🤷🏾‍♂️
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/24 07:26 PM
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Kind of why I do think both genders should spend a little time exploring their sexuality prior to engaging in committed relationships. Not necessarily even being a hoe but just confirming that you are indeed the sexuality you think you are is necessary prior to committing to someone. She was 23 when she got married and it took her a few days to figure out who she really was when some bit of self reflection from 18-23 probably would have saved both her and this man this heartbreak. Now they both …
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/24 06:31 PM
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Such a disappointing season only for them to come around and pull some GOAT level shit on one of the league leaders. Man, I love the premier league
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/24 06:18 PM
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A fleshlight plus a vr headset is < $350. Probably cheaper than whatever these hyper realistic ai bots would feasibly cost
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/24 06:11 PM
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I heard she went off in that Griselda show (i also loved her on modern family). I do think using celebrities as counter points to the single parent or wall narrative is weak though. Like, obviously the literal millionaires aren’t low-value (despite what some of the delusional here think)
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/24 05:22 PM
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I prefer not to but you’re kind of fucked for options on that front as a man. I do think more men should stick to their standard first and stick to dating women who see you as your own person. Someone seeing you as an exception will eventually wear you down even if you think you can handle it
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/24 05:13 PM
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Yeah, I know its somewhat childish for me to feel that way on others enjoyment. With regards to your second statement though, I don’t think its that much better. These examples are carefully curated and edited by the production teams. There’s also the fact that most of the contestants are still relatively more outgoing than the general population and more conventionally attractive. Idk, feels like discussions you want around dating dynamics would be better off using speed dating vlogs or yt dati…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/24 05:07 PM
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Sheesh, that sounds like a cesspool waiting to happen. That’s also one of my least favorite parts of reality dating show fandoms. Rather than enjoying the drama happening, every action by each cast member has to be viewed as an example of some greater societal trend. Its like people don’t even watch the shows to enjoy them anymore but I guess what I see as enjoyment is different from others
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/24 04:58 PM
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I opened with no expectations and now my day is better already
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/24 03:43 PM
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I think a lot of those guys on here are lacking social skills to get to that point. I agree though, having women friends inherently validates your social status in a way. I also think those friends end up making the best wingmen. A lot of incels can’t really imagine liking a woman unromantically though so it would take some time to get into that mindset
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/24 04:29 AM
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Agreed, it sounds like those men are trying to make up for “lost” time versus actually playing with the reality at hand
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/24 03:01 AM
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Honestly think either whoring around with women in their 30s-50s or getting committed to one and staying childfree are the most optimal outcomes for men at that point. I feel bad for men who get to their 40s and haven’t had a kid yet but going for a younger woman just feels like a risk that isn’t worth it at that age
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/24 02:06 AM
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ISTJ, 26 year old guy
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/24 12:01 AM
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I respect Nate’s dunks (especially considering his height) but I remember my favorite dunk of that contest being Iggy’s dunk where he caught a behind the backboard lob from Allen Iverson. In hindsight, Nate should he a 2 time dunk contest winner (not 3)
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/24 11:53 PM
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Still a very casual fan but I feel bad for Harry Kane. Man is still amongst the best strikers in the world and is currently in a record setting debut season in the Bundesliga but he just can’t get that title he deserves. I hope Bayern can pull off some magic in the champions league but I’ve been more impressed with Arsenal and Real Madrid this season tbh
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/24 11:32 PM
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I understand those dunks Zach did would never get rated < 10 in most circumstances but you got to make an exception when someone is doing the shit that Aaron was doing. My personal least favorite dunk contest winner is Blake Griffin still (man was a hell of an in game dunker though but come on, he jumped over the hood of a car when others are dunking 3 basketballs)
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/24 11:28 PM
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Damn, thats a good chunk of time. How different do you think you are since the time you first started lurking?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/24 11:22 PM
1

Smart thinking, very popular method amongst fitness influencers (combined with a decent cardio session earlier in the day)
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/24 08:12 PM
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Thanks bro! Hope you and the fam are having a good saturday 👍🏾
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/24 08:10 PM
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It was. Honestly recommend going to a ramen bar to unwind (when you’re done losing weight, of course)
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/24 08:06 PM
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Ramen date was good, surprised how much I liked actual ramen. Also had a couple of drinks and some wings, honestly had a pretty good time overall
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/24 08:00 PM
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Still going to the chinese buffet tomorrow to get the last of my vices out before I go hard on the cut. Have a cute ramen date today though, haven’t been to a ramen shop ever so it should be fun
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/24 05:17 PM
1

Easily the worst of the social medias imo. Concerns about body image aside, its much easier to cultivate a positive space on instagram (minus ig reels)
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/24 02:50 AM
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Wish I had a ppd stalker. Feels like my opinions aren’t inflammatory enough for one
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/24 11:37 PM
1

I used to when I was younger but part of maturing is realizing that someone sharing unchangeable characteristics with you doesn’t mean they reflect who you are. I’m also black too so its just a similar lesson I had to learn with regards to race
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/24 09:42 PM
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I try to give everyone a chance but people online and irl keep proving your point
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/24 07:28 PM
1

…maybe there are too many schizo men here. Can’t believe I’m starting to relate to the femcels more
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/24 07:18 PM
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I’m shocked that a game like dead by daylight still has such a big player base with regular new content coming out. Idk, I thought a horror multiplayer game would have lost its steam long ago. Might download it and try it out tonight
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/24 07:11 PM
2

Feels like thot fell off considering how little people use it nowadays
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/24 03:35 PM
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Damn, you definitely are one of my favorite new users. I do think its odd how into discussing “evil hypergamous female nature” some of the hitched users are but I guess I shouldn’t be too surprised considering this is a pill sub
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/24 02:02 AM
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Might as well @ them. Sneakdissing isn’t nearly as fun or productive
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/24 01:51 AM
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I agree, its hard to tell. Anecdotally, my experience in the past mostly lines up with yours but its been mixed lately and I can’t really act like an authority on it. I just try to hit the marks that have universal appeal (healthy skin, good grooming, good body fat %) and adjust based on who I’m trying to appeal to
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/24 01:46 AM
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Yeah, gay guys are way more looks-conscious than the average straight man so I would assume I’m doing something somewhat right looksmaxxing wise. Then again, there are ways to improve your looks that will make you appeal more to gay men than straight woman so I would try to be cautious of that as well
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/24 01:31 AM
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F Doja, Marry Jennie, Kill Anya I actually like Anya the most from the group talent-wise (very talented actress, love everything I’ve seen her in) but the buccal fat removal kind of made her scary looking. Pre paint the town red doja is so damn hot
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/24 01:00 AM
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The most unhinged podcast I saw in my life. There’s no recreating that magic
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/24 07:49 PM
2

Life kind of punishes single mothers on its own. Idk what else you would want that counts as fair punishments
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/24 04:56 PM
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Make sure you’re getting those electrolytes in still 🙏🏾 Potassium, magnesium, and sodium can save your life
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/24 04:45 PM
1

Don’t let your dreams be dreams
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/24 04:19 AM
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You would think the covid pandemic would erase those places form existence but they’re still here and I’m still spiritually fat
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/24 04:18 AM
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Thanks bro, its the little things that make life a little more enjoyable
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/24 03:32 AM
1

“Low tier normie”, cringe lingo from incel/looksmaxxing forums referring to below average dudes
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/24 03:31 AM
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There to take care of business (also Monsters Inc is a top 3 Pixar movie, don’t @ me you uncultured fucks)
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/24 03:30 AM
1

I didn’t try crab rangoons until very late (in college) but they are fucking delicious. Definitely having some
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/24 03:04 AM
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I used to love chinese buffets as a fat ass kid. Now, as a less fat adult, its time to make my return after some 15 years. Sunday will be a good day
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/24 02:59 AM
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Couch 2 5k is the goat beginner running protocol. Its way better outside, I think the treadmill can’t account for the variations in pace that happens naturally for us. Highly suggest getting some cheap running shoes to use for the duration of the program then get better shoes after you’ve completed it
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/24 06:42 PM
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Damn, I thought that was ridiculous but I just read the comment guidelines. Apparently you can’t use that word as a rebuttal in a debate reply. Don’t know if that means any mention of the word results in a ban but that’s pretty wild
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/24 06:40 PM
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Lol, why did you censor cope?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/24 06:32 PM
1

What’s worked for you? I have been using zyrtec and prayers for years but I think I might try something even stronger
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/24 06:06 PM
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Lol, I get what you mean especially if you already curated a wardrobe with a more straight/mature hairstyle in mind. That lady’s haircut is cute though and you could try out a new aesthetic altogether if you got it, especially with summer coming up
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/24 06:05 PM
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Were you the one that said you wanted to cut and dye your hair? Don’t see why you wouldn’t try it out one at a time
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/24 05:44 PM
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General statistics on dating and relationship status suggests that women have the most success in their mid 20s and men have their most in their early to mid 30s. I think ppd dudes assume that this means their time to shine will come soon enough but I think they fail to realize how below average they must be if they genuinely have no dating experience (let alone any social interactions with the opposite gender).
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/24 05:19 PM
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Thats super kind of you and I appreciate your words 🙏🏾 I pray you hit every goal you’re aiming for and that life in the near future is good to you
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/24 12:29 AM
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I wouldn’t class my partner as a Chad, but I’m still quite attracted to him. That’s good! This is what most normal people should aspire for tbh. As long as you can see him as your Chad and he can see you as his Stacy, then the rest will fall into place
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/24 10:04 PM
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Another Tuesday, another day of rec league basketball. Quick reminder to everyone (but especially dudes) that sports rec leagues are an easy way to socialize and get a good workout in regularly. It isn’t my only cardio for the week but I have definitely shed a good amount of weight lately. Got 100 days til Summer now
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/24 09:42 PM
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Depends how communicative the woman in question is. If she makes her intentions clear and expresses that she wants a proposal by x date then I’m not too upset (I think both partners should be upfront on how quick they think things should escalate). That being said, I know some women with walk dates who want the man to somehow intrinsically know which is dumb for obvious reasons
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/24 09:21 PM
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Put the fries down and pick up the celery you fatty mc fat fuck (I’m bad at fatshaming, please rate my attempt)
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/24 08:58 PM
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Makes sense. I imagine that the internet and how easy it is to connect to other miserable individuals isn’t helping (at least for millennials + zoomers who spend a ridiculous amount of time online on average). I do feel bad for people in the negative feedback loop, only so much you can do for them unfortunately
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/24 08:52 PM
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I feel you. I felt so normal and well adjusted once I stopped obsessing over this place
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/24 08:47 PM
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Definitely have enjoyed not being on here as much and just existing irl (I finally feel less like an autist when talking to people now). While I do think Chads have a leg up on average dudes when it comes to sexual encounters (Chads have to put in MUCH less energy to get a ONS), I’m seeing a lot of average to below average dudes still have pretty active sex lives. Honestly looks like they went hard on getting charisma and either opted for a gf that is compatible + attractive to them (this probab…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/24 08:25 PM
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That and adam’s apple are usually the big 2 but I’ve been told that some are trans women are more convincing than others.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/24 09:11 PM
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Convincing enough surgery and voice practice 🤷🏾‍♂️ the exaggerated beauty standards of ig influencers helps them blend in much more easily than in the past
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/24 09:03 PM
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Looks like one of the latest trends is the rice purity test? Took it and got a 57.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/24 06:07 PM
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I just found out from your post. RIP a legend, I hope overwork wasn’t a contributing cause (68 isn’t abnormal but still feels too young)
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/24 03:56 AM
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Someone has to be legitimately evil for me to get enjoyment out of it. I feel like a lot of users here legitimately see the struggles of others as entertainment though so guess it varies by person
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/24 11:47 PM
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Fwiw, I think your last paragraph is not bad advice for anybody. Being selective about who you decide to emotionally engage with seems pretty rational to me. Thanks for your thoughts, I appreciate you explaining how you got to your flair
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/24 08:21 PM
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Honestly the first option. I feel like that second option is glorified when you’re younger but I’d always rather have less encounters but more compatibility.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/24 07:03 PM
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Probably the best ranking tbh, I do overrate chicken but its usually cheaper than pork entrees near and gives me the same feeling
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/24 06:45 PM
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Having moved to Texas and having visited a lot of southern states (both on vacation and to visit family), I have come to the conclusion that most pulled pork is not that good. I can only imagine choosing pulled pork as my main option if I live somewhere with trash brisket and chicken.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/24 06:30 PM
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My bad, I misread your comment wrong 🤦🏾‍♂️ Congrats on the engagement + future marriage
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/24 06:24 PM
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Are you quieter and not weak looking? People mistake that combo for confidence pretty often when you’re a guy (in my experience)
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/24 05:47 PM
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I appreciate the response! Its interesting to see where you’re coming from. Based on the description of yourself, I wouldn’t have immediately classified you as pink pill but I think I’m used to associating both redpillers and pinkpillers with the more extreme examples of their respective communities. Good luck on your journey, I pray you find the relationship that you're looking for
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/24 05:24 PM
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I’m sure it has similar enough roots but I couldn’t tell you exact origins. One of the dating forum boomers here probably has more knowledge on it
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/24 05:19 PM
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I agree to an extent but that does feel like a bit of a cop out in the grand scheme of things. I genuinely feel like pinkpill style forums would have popped up regardless of redpill/manosphere ideology just due to how fucked modern gender dynamics have gotten. The redpillers just gave the pinkpillers an easy template to copy and an easy enemy to aim for when it came to their grievances about modern men
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/24 05:13 PM
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Another similarity they share with redpillers. Maybe this really is just brainrot horseshoe theory
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/24 05:08 PM
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There has been a boost of pink pill adjacent women here which I appreciate for diversity of thought. I do think women deserve their own echo chambers too to figure out what works for them in the dating world, toxic or not. That being said, I genuinely can’t tell the difference between some of the red pill and pink pill ideology (minus the gender). Feels like forums for both exhibit a combination of looksmaxxing autism and a general misanthropy that gets applied to not only the opposite gender (p…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/24 04:58 PM
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I guess I’m under the assumption that the group saying the first sentence aren’t usually the ones doing the raping but I guess you have your own experiences
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/24 04:46 PM
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Want to explain the correlation or?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/24 04:35 PM
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I am planning to watch them soon but the shock I get from my friends when I say I haven’t seen the LotR trilogy yet is always funny
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/24 03:18 PM
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Thats beautiful, congrats on finding your one
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/24 02:22 PM
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Yup
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/24 02:15 PM
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Dream was never funny but the shit he had to deal with post face reveal is nightmare fuel
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/24 02:09 PM
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Then why are you here?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/24 04:56 AM
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I’ve always preferred cooking to baking. That said, I made some bread and small cakes that I’m proud of lately. I think your post is new inspiration for me to get a pan set and commit to more
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/24 01:20 AM
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I am always so surprised whenever I find out about the mods here
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/24 11:36 PM
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Are you a dark chocolate type of person? That shit always cures my hunger for a few hours somehow
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/24 11:12 PM
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Going into a cut in preparation for summer. I’m willing to fit in the carbonata gnocchi for one of my cheat meals. My tdee has gotten pretty high over the past few months of working out
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/24 11:04 PM
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Trader Joe’s really is the GOAT grocery store, I might try that cauliflower gnocchi soon. I go there once a month
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/24 11:01 PM
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I’m not a fan of most pumpkin derivatives but that doesn’t sound too bad tbh. I’ll give it a shot too
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/24 10:59 PM
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A little fatter but not too much. I think eventually ozempic will be easier to access than insulin but a select few won’t want to make that commitment (either due to monetary concerns, potential side effects, or lack of interest due to the change in beauty standards). I don't think political polarization is going to end (internet echo chambers are here to stay) but I think progress that benefits all of society (infrastructure improvements, changes to the healthcare system, etc) will pass in some…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/24 10:36 PM
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Might try that next. I ate it with a pesto sauce today
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/24 10:28 PM
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Wish I found out about potato gnocchi sooner. This shit is delicious
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/24 10:13 PM
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Not surprising, a lot of countries have much younger leaders. France’s PM is fucking 34
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/24 09:43 PM
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I’m sure there’s some vegas website that will take it 🤷🏾‍♂️ political betting is just a more socially unacceptable sports betting
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/24 09:27 PM
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I thought my first election being Trump vs Clinton was exhausting enough but the fact that this upcoming election is going to end up as a geriatric rematch makes it so hard to take this country seriously
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/24 09:18 PM
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I appreciate the explanation, this is super interesting to learn about. I know the differences between the classes has been a point of contention throughout all of British history so its nice to see that elements unique to to working class has permeated and remained in the greater culture for centuries
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/24 09:12 PM
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Honestly, even if the concepts itself are alien to me, I do love that for you all. I love when nations have such a distinct cultural attitude to the point that they can be seen throughout the generations
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/24 09:10 PM
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Icks are often unreasonable. As long as you aren’t insulting people or putting them down because of it, don’t feel too bad
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/24 08:04 PM
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I say go for it if given the chance. I know a lot of expats have their complaints but I never heard anyone regret trying to live in a separate country. Worst case scenario, you figure out what you truly don’t like and you can adjust accordingly in the future
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/24 07:54 PM
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Walkable towns and the ability to travel to other countries with less of a hassle is worth the tradeoff in my mind tbh
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/24 07:53 PM
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I’m still down bad for the low class accents from the women 🫣
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/24 07:52 PM
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I feel like growing up in the USA kind of forces a more optimistic approach on life even if life realistically is kind of shit in a lot of the states. I remember being extremely young and having teachers repeat that the sky is the limit, that any of us could be the president, etc. I know realistically that no one in my class would become the president but there was never a reason to not aim high and be as ambitious as possible. Most of my UK friends from uni and, from what I see on the internet,…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/24 07:50 PM
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I do think a lot of that is just how male coded sports has been throughout history until the recent past. I know a lot of women support women’s sports vocally but the monetary support as well as viewership is still mostly men (at least for shit like the WNBA)
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/24 07:45 PM
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I bet your voice is more attractive than you think
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/24 07:38 PM
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I do think, minus salary, my life in England would be an upgrade for the most part 🤷🏾‍♂️ I do think the general pessimistic attitude would be hard to understand but I’m sure I’ll acclimate
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/24 07:37 PM
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Good taste 👌🏾
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/24 07:35 PM
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That is one of the main reasons I said England or France tbh. They have a richer history of darker skinned individuals compared to some of their neighbors. I also seem to get along with people from those countries well enough (granted, this is only through online video chats and a few experiences in uni)
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/24 07:26 PM
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If I were to be a passport bro, I would probably just go for England or France tbh. I don’t really want to go somewhere where my money is the main thing doing the talking 🤷🏾‍♂️ i also feel like the women in europe are closer to the mindset that I’m looking for in a relationship anyways, I’m not really aiming for uber traditional roles
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/24 07:18 PM
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Daily. If I workout then I shower right after. I’m usually in there ten minutes (unless I need to do hair stuff). Maybe an extra shower thrown in there if I’m going to a special event and want to show up my cleanest
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/24 05:13 PM
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If you say so lil 🤷🏾‍♂️
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/24 03:42 PM
1

Throw an egg or two in there to feel like Rocky Balboa
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/24 03:38 PM
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Ehh, that boyfriend could have been a once in a lifetime soulmate or whatever. I don’t think you need to view every relationship under that potential lens but I don’t see why you wouldn’t just breakup well beforehand if you think you would go on stage at a concert and do something like that. That’s just an unnecessarily embarrassing experience, no matter the gender of the partner left behind
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/24 03:38 PM
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I feel like I’ve seen commercials with plenty of athletes, name on screen and all, and forgot about them more or less immediately afterwards. I think thats less likely with a Simone Biles but not as implausible as you’re thinking. I thought the hate towards her man should have been more-so aimed at his arrogant attitude rather than the accuracy or inaccuracy of his knowledge of her
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/24 03:35 PM
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A little bit of both I’m assuming. Using old RnB and Soul singers for example, a lot of them were born into gifted families and often didn’t have to work hard to naturally have a good singing voice. However, the transition from being an ok singer to being able to “sang” came from hours of repetition in groups like church choirs. Nowadays, a lot of those initial hours of practice have been dropped in exchange for learning how to brand yourself and be a pseudo-influencer in a way that didn’t exist…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/24 12:21 AM
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If you mean ed twitter, then it depends on how the hate manifests imo. I think a lot of onlookers are quick to be degrading to these people which is always fucked up (especially considering since so much of ed twitter is young women who clearly have body image issues and other mental disorders). That being said, I think we should dislike and criticize any social media environment that breeds that level of discontent with one’s self (same can be said about the darkest parts of bodybuilding twitte…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/24 11:30 PM
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This is honestly my preferred set up as a guy that likes to cook 😩
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/24 11:10 PM
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Thank god I didn’t commit to the WOW subscription when I was younger. Feel like I would have been even more of a degenerate than I already am
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/24 10:19 PM
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Its going to sound judgmental as shit but I do want to go to Vegas just to people watch shit like this. Houston has its share of different individuals but I know Vegas is probably the top spot for that purpose
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/24 10:15 PM
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Having had a pedicure and manicure before, I think only the pedicure was really worth it for me. The manicure was nice but I feel like I can clip/clean my nails as well as trim my cuticles at home for basically the same effect. Nail shop techs were always mad nice though
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/24 10:12 PM
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Yeah and because its not that hard to be loyal. I think breaking up with someone is always the simplest and most obvious choice over cheating. I’m not saying breaking up itself is easy but once the possibility of cheating pops up, thats probably the time to either work on the relationship if I think there’s still something there or let it go and avoid disrespecting the monogamy that my partner has shared with me.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/24 10:09 PM
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Honestly is the same reasoning that leads some women to chase men who are very fresh out of relationships. You already know that they are more commitment oriented and are in a more vulnerable place. The only issues tends to be with how over the recent breakup the man is 🤷🏾‍♂️
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/24 09:54 PM
1

Honestly think FM may be my next purchase. The community behind the game looks very dedicated yet not toxic
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/24 09:52 PM
1

I wish more of my friends played TF2. Its amazing how fun the concept and gameplay is. I honestly prefer it to a lot of modern shooters
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/24 09:44 PM
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Sheesh, you are dedicated if anything
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/24 09:43 PM
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Sheesh, you are dedicated if anything
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/24 09:43 PM
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Thats how I was in high school when GTA V dropped 😂 I’m sure some of gen z + gen a will have the same feeling when GTA 6 drops
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/24 09:42 PM
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Both good choices (those were prime 2k years tbh)
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/24 09:19 PM
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That is a lot of time 😶 I used to not get the sims hype until they made Sims 4 free for playstation users. I think playing sims with a controller is clunky as shit but I still managed to waste 200 hours on it without even thinking
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/24 09:19 PM
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Me too to an extent. Shouldn’t be embarrassed about it looking back, just have to move forward accordingly 🤷🏾‍♂️
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/24 08:17 PM
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Fuck, thats a good one. I guess its because there’s no casual audience for them but large scale strategy games seem like the sweatiest experience ever to a newcomer
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/24 08:16 PM
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Thats fair, I remember being a dedicated CoD player through Black Ops 4 despite how much the series had degraded in quality by then
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/24 08:14 PM
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Fighting games are an underrated time sink. I never knew you travelled to play them though, thats a much better justification than me trying to escape Tekken green ranks
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/24 08:13 PM
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Even as a teen, I did not understand playing roblox. I still watched roblox yt vids for some reason
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/24 08:11 PM
1

Oddly enough, I don’t feel nearly as much shame following sports then I do playing games.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/24 08:10 PM
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LoL gamers always seemed like they were in the most abusive relationship of all time with that game. I’m kind of glad I missed out on it but I also do have a bit of FOMO over that and Dota.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/24 08:09 PM
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Was a better Playboi Carti than Carti himself. I’ll never forget the slave memes from Die Very Rough
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/24 08:07 PM
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Q4A: What video game do you think has been your biggest time sink/waste of time? I’ve been reflecting on how much of my yourh was spent inside with little outside interaction. I could say CoD/Apex/Minecraft but I rarely played those alone and I think multiplayer gaming with a group of friends you genuinely like is a great experience. I think Fifa has been easily the worst waste of time for me by far. Its way too easy to get sucked into the ultimate team grind for no reward other than having a be…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/24 08:06 PM
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I guess it depends on perspective. As a former fatty, I just always have had a large appetite and rarely feel super full. I imagine having the same appetite while in a woman’s body would be trash but I guess most women wouldn’t feel that level of hunger in the first place
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/24 08:01 PM
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Damn, good suggestion. Guess I can see what the academics have to say about it
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/24 07:56 PM
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I think the attractiveness toss up is something a lot of people wanting to test out these fetishes aren’t willing to concede on. Most of these people hanging out in BDSM forums may be good people but they aren’t going to necessarily be the most attractive 🤷🏾‍♂️ You don’t ever see goth mommy gf memes with the average american woman
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/24 07:01 PM
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Looksmaxxing brainrot is becoming part of terminally online internet culture at this point. -max is just an extension of that I think
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/24 06:59 PM
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Fair enough. I also don’t want to downplay the social aspect of Pilates when going to classes either. I can get gym bros to lift with me but I think typical resistance training in a commercial gym is a very isolated experience. Sometimes, having that connection with others really does help you push through a workout and stay consistent
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/24 06:57 PM
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Not untrue. As much as I understand why men would be scared of gold diggers for example, i think most women wanting to behave in that manner telegraph that well before a relationship (let alone marriage) is in the picture. Some people are genuinely that desperate to be loved though 🤷🏾‍♂️
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/24 06:54 PM
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That is a distinction I’m trying to figure out fwiw. I think there’s a big difference between happening upon a collection after buying a few stuffed animals vs making a concerted effort to buy every stuffed animal ever made by Mattel. Idk, it doesn’t sound like you would classify yourself as a collector the way other users responding to me do
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/24 06:36 PM
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The history aspect does make it sound more interesting. Glad you’re able to enjoy collecting them. Thanks for explaining to me. Also that doll has drip, I’m used to most dolls being kind of plain jane looking (I’m assuming so the kid or whoever buys can project their imagination onto the doll)
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/24 06:33 PM
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Fair enough, sounds like you enjoy it and I’m happy for you. Thanks for helping me understand a little more
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/24 06:30 PM
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This is the most reasonable explanation I’ve heard so far. I think people like to get really autistic about 1-2 hobbies and I can see doll collecting easily fulfilling that
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/24 06:13 PM
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When did it start? What kinds of dolls?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/24 06:10 PM
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I know it makes me sound smooth-brained but honestly, yes 100%. I don’t see a point in collecting things that are meant for only collecting
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/24 06:10 PM
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Yeah, part of maturing is realizing not everything’s for you 🤷🏾‍♂️ It was fun to try though
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/24 06:09 PM
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In the least judgmental way possible, a little bit. Idk, when did this collection start? Do you have an emotional attachment to dolls due to your past or something?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/24 06:02 PM
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That makes sense though I prefer other ways of building a core (whether thats through lifting or calisthenics). I guess pilates is good as a low impact, low cost of entry way of doing it? Idk, pilates girls usually look great so I’m not going to dump on their work but it just felt like a weird, inefficient middle ground of cardio and resistance training
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/24 06:00 PM
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The one hobby I could never understand was being a collector of semi niche items. I somewhat understood the hypebeasts that were eager for new sneaker releases because they would (usually) war they’re new shoes at least once. Mofos collecting stamps or coins or baseball cards or whatever confuse the hell out of me tbh
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/24 05:56 PM
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Another day where I’m grateful that I don’t have the caloric needs of a woman. On a semi related note, I respect Pilates as a form of exercise but I was bored to shit the three times I tried it with women I knew. Even when there were added challenges, I could only imagine how a 2+ mile walk would be way more enjoyable. Yoga is hype though, I definitely want to make stretching a daily habit
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/24 05:54 PM
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An increasingly online world and isolated society will do that unfortunately 🤷🏾‍♂️
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/24 05:32 PM
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Eh, I like him more than most of the blackpill and redpill dudes here but I do think he can be egotistical at times. He is also way too happy to talk shit about dead people for my liking
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/24 04:32 PM
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I do think some of the reluctance from people here to do that is how we view drinking culture in some parts of the US. It is liquid lubrication though and you can spend a few hours sipping on one or two drinks while chatting with other locals very easily
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/24 03:40 PM
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There’s many tales of trad men having families on the other side of the same city. I don’t think most trad men are like that but I also don’t think there’s really any guarantee that a partner won’t leave you. With that in mind, it does feel like a lot of women I’ve talked to seem to fantasize about the stay at home lifestyle a lot. Even ones that went to college and got a degree. I’m sure some of it is socialization to a point but I can’t really imagine going through most of life with the expect…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/24 03:38 PM
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Exactly. This is one of those times where fake it til you make it absolutely works imo. They might not be used to it at first but you at least get a feel for how to engage in those social situations after a few attempts
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/24 03:31 PM
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I do feel bad repeating the idea that being more social and generally welcoming can help you get laid more (assuming ok looks) since its pretty clear a lot of incels on here are neurodivergent or antisocial due to a mixture of things in their upbringing. At the same time, I don’t think hiding these ideas is a good idea for them either. Being a recluse and expecting to go on dates, get laid, or even just meet people is delusional
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/24 03:25 PM
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I’d honestly get a chuckle out of it but I’m sure that is too corny for some people.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/24 06:34 AM
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Yes, because I like it, at least twice a week, would rather it be a committed partner or from a fwb that I’m familiar with (random ons never appealed to me tbh)
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/24 03:24 AM
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Un ironically yeah. I think university is way better overall but casual activities like video games, rec sports leagues, and volunteering have been great ways to meet surprisingly connected people (assuming you aren’t antisocial)
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/24 12:59 AM
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I agree for the most part. Some of the incels on here are generally mean spirited and deserve a bit of slander for trying to drag others down to their pathetic levels. With that in mind, I don’t think someone who is truly happy and content with their life would spend time here flexing on losers who have already lost their zest for life. That’s just bullying for shits and giggles at that point
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/24 10:27 PM
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Has less costly hair methods not worked for you (such as finasteride, minoxidil, and derma rolling)? Good luck on the journey though, the chin implant and jaw implant recipients I know took quite a bit to recover but they seem happy with the results
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/24 10:07 PM
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On a sidenote, what’s the 20k in your flair going towards? Looksmaxxing through a bimax?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/24 09:57 PM
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Slaveowners, slumlords, literal terrorists, etc. have existed in the long history of this country. I think leftists and righties, despite their differences and the general issues that exist with the bipartisan system, aren’t doing much worse than what this nation has dealt with in the past
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/24 09:56 PM
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My manlet cutoff comment just caught the “woe is me” warning. Didn’t realize that it would be an issue but I guess that makes sense with hindsight 🤷🏾‍♂️ Height discussions usually lead to some pretty bleak, blackpill conclusions on here
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/24 09:38 PM
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Hmm I see. I think I see the appeal a little bit, its not stringent standards imo but there is a certain look that you’re going for. It feels like the androgynous look and when its considered sexy comes in waves and we happen to be in a pretty good period for it right now.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/24 09:09 PM
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Lol, I was about to say she did kind of skate past that quick
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/24 08:56 PM
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Thats fair. If its not too personal, what is the “more” you like? I know what a stereotypically attractive man’s face is supposed to look like but I know that what is one person’s ideal can easily look different from another’s
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/24 08:54 PM
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Thanks for answering, best of luck in the future. Sounds like you both have a good thing going
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/24 08:52 PM
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Guess it depends on how you define good face. One with decent definition (i.e. being at a good body fat percentage), being appropriately shaved, and having decent skin care can take people further than most would expect
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/24 08:47 PM
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That general area seems to be the consensus
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/24 08:42 PM
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Definitely an uphill battle for dudes that short unfortunately
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/24 08:36 PM
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I feel like 5’7” to 5’9” can’t sell on height alone but face, grooming, style, and general attitude can make people look past that much easier irl. Different experiences and anecdotes though. A lot of this can be influenced by location and the age range being dealt with 🤷🏾‍♂️
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/24 08:35 PM
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Any awkward interactions with his family, racial or otherwise? What makes him a chad? On the flip side, would you describe yourself as a Stacy? Do you you think things will last? Do you feel previous relationships helped or hurt your chances here?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/24 08:34 PM
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So, what is the manlet cutoff? I think below 5’7” is where you really start to get fucked by height while 5’7” to 5’9” is 99% ok irl but a bit of a handicap on apps. 5’10” to 6’5” shouldn’t have any issues (think you have to be trolling in between 6’1” and 6’4” and not getting any interest considering that height is the male equivalent of big boobs+skinny waist, just a golden genetic coin flip). 6’5”+ is mostly good but starts to be awkward for some
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/24 08:27 PM
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I think that was Peaky, they show that clip on all the netflix previews
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/24 08:13 PM
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You have good tastes at least 👌🏾
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/24 08:12 PM
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First thoughts, Cillian Murphy is dapper af. I get why the cringy sigma edits used him and Patrick Bateman
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/24 08:09 PM
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Work is done for the day. Going to chill and see if Peaky Blinders meets the hype
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/24 07:56 PM
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Man, what happened to everyone having their own preferences? Why does the sex appeal of a celebrity have to be emblematic of societal trends instead of just being an example of one type of beauty?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/24 07:40 PM
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In addition to what that one user said about guys reading what some women say as negative by default here, I think this one is also a bit of a gender divide on how to describe someone as hot. I don’t try to read it negatively but it does feel like the more effort someone puts into describing someones attractiveness, the more likely it is that they are trying to appease someone’s feelings. I understand that this usually isn’t the case but I’m used to guys being very quick and to the point with ho…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/24 07:36 PM
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Lol, “certain demographic”. Just say it and eat the ban like a man
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/24 06:57 PM
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Makes sense. I feel like the general concepts of looksmaxxing are easy to understand as there are plenty of examples online. The military kind of forces the discipline for you whereas loners online will probably struggle to get to that point
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/24 06:32 PM
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Idk, I feel like that whole “its ok to be an asshole as long as you are self aware” mentality has evaded me as I got older. Now I just wish people weren’t assholes from the jump. (A lot of my older aunties and grannies love her though which doesn’t help, kinda wish they had a less toxic talk show host to follow)
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/24 03:38 PM
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First reply got removed so I’ll try again. This comment (https://np.reddit.com/r/videos/comments/7diwik/wendy_williams_says_ https://np.reddit.com/r/videos/comments/7diwik/wendy_williams_says_that_terry_crews_coming/dpy8b31/ that_terry_crews_coming/dpy8b31/) has a good starting list. She’s the brutality of British tabloids distilled into one fragile American woman
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/24 03:36 PM
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I’m still shocked that DDG is with her but they seem to be supportive of each other which is always nice to see
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/24 02:50 PM
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I do think that Wendy Williams doc smells like some premium exploitation but I can’t think of any other on air (non political) personalities I disliked more than her. I wouldn’t wish someone with dementia being used like that though, no matter how much I disliked them in the past
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/24 02:46 PM
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Are you in a pre-dominantly white sorority?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/24 05:14 AM
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Kind of. I do think that having attractive women as friends and seeing so many women just through internet osmosis has somewhat desensitized me to the point where I don’t have porn brain. Idk, I’m much less shallow when it comes to judging appearances and can appreciate a wider range of beauty but now i focus on personality and realized that maybe I just truly don’t like a lot of people in general
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/24 05:13 AM
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Back on ppd after a few days. Honestly just spent some time alone and with people I liked irl and realized how much more self-confidence I had after a while. Think I’ll put a timer on this account and will delete by the summer.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/24 04:40 AM
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Thats fair. I don’t like that a lot of people write off the community as a whole due to preconceived notions but I can’t act like some of the dynamics that are exhibited often aren’t concerning. Also, gender dynamics within the community are pretty bad
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/24 04:37 AM
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Always assumed black men/women like this were suffering intense trauma but I definitely got less judgmental with age. As long as yall are getting partners that love and respect you 🤷🏾‍♂️
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/24 04:29 AM
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Wholehearted agreed. I think a live action series going over the novels or even a limited series going over a few of previous Avatars would’ve been hype. Adapting a series that is already seen as more or less perfect is dumb but I know Netflix is still pulling viewers from it
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/24 08:44 PM
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Man, I love the og series and I tried to go into it with fresh eyes but I think that Avatar live action was a real 6/10. The costume and set design was outstanding and I really loved a few of the characters but the magic isn’t there like it was for the original cartoon. It honestly feels like they crammed too much of the series into 8 episodes. I would have preferred the season have 12 episodes and a different release schedule (drop the first 6 episodes then drop the next 6 in like a month or so…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/24 08:33 PM
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There is, I still want to travel across Canada and see how the provinces differ up close.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/24 08:13 PM
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Honestly, if it weren’t for how bad the housing crisis is as well as just the general dice roll that is immigration, I would consider moving to Canada. Toronto, at least when I visited 5+ years ago, was lit and I feel like I would fit in well enough (I’m already used to harsh midwestern winters)
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/24 07:48 PM
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I know this might not be the best place for it but this Meek Mill/Andrew Tate beef is the weirdest shit I’ve seen all year (especially seeing as its coming off of the back of some intense allegations against Diddy and his associates). The entertainment and music industries really are just a home for abusive degeneracy, right?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/24 03:38 AM
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Back from the videos, absolute bangers 👌🏾
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/24 03:19 AM
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Her music is such a fucking vibe ♥️ she is blessing me and my playlists now
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/24 03:06 AM
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Bet, I appreciate the recommendations 😭 I can’t get enough of her music
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/24 02:58 AM
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I have not been obsessed with an artist in a while the way I’m obsessed with PinkPantheress. I’ll give Ice Spice credit for hopping on that one track and exposing me to her. She can do no wrong
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/24 02:54 AM
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That was how I used HelloFresh the one time. The full price of it is absurd in my opinion but taking advantage of the discounts probably makes it worthwhile.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/24 11:43 PM
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Thats fair, if its between eating out and Hellofresh then I can’t blame you too much 🤷🏾‍♂️
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/24 11:17 PM
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With curbside delivery available at most grocery stores, I think HelloFresh can only appeal to those absolutely slanmed time-wise. The meals were tasty though and easy to calorie count
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/24 11:11 PM
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I’ve been putting off the wisdom teeth because I’m trying to save for other ventures but that first tip is intriguing. Might go for it soon
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/24 06:25 PM
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Congrats bro, always a great feeling
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/24 04:49 PM
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I agree in general but I don’t think you can deny the trauma that a lot of those dogs are already coming with. That’s additional training and time that many don’t take into consideration. I’m not a fan of most breeders but I can’t judge too much assuming the new owners give the dog a comfortable, humane life
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/24 04:00 PM
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I used to hate having thick hair when I was in college but I’ve come to appreciate how it looks and I think you should too. Detangling it is a bitch though and it takes 2 hours for mine to dry naturally after the fact 😭 I think the pros outweigh the cons though, especially once you’re at a certain age
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/24 03:28 PM
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Honestly just looks like the generic tik tok sad boy aesthetic. Idk, I think the problem is that inceldom is surprisingly diverse enough that trying to curate an aesthetic out of it will only be able to show a fraction of the whole identity (if that makes sense)
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/24 03:13 PM
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I gave up apps within 2 days of being on them so maybe I’m not the best judge but there’s no way I can see any good justification for spending any amount of money on them. Idk, maybe I’m not being empathetic enough to the lonely people. I think, especially for men, that irl socializing will always be the best method (even if you’re an awkward incel)
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/24 03:09 PM
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I really think people overestimate the amount of trans people that are purposefully hiding their trans status with new partners tbh. From my understanding, they typically get that info out of the way early just to avoid future heartbreak/assault.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/24 03:02 PM
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Basketball league yesterday was a 30+ point blowout win. Still feel like I’m missing too many open shots though. Next game is in two weeks so I’ll probably spend the in between time lifting + practicing shots. Jump rope to keep the cardio up too.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/24 02:55 PM
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I remember hearing 60 miles by him and going “this probably isn’t right but it wouldn’t be the first time a pre-pubescent rapper has done this. Can only hope that he can live in a more positive environment as he gets older”. Then I started seeing youtubers use him in “smash or pass” videos and wanted to bleach my eyes
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/24 02:47 PM
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Bout to go hooping. I hope the people in here in pain and misery find peace (assuming they aren’t hurting others). Otherwise, have a good evening everyone (or morning if you’re living in places ahead of my time zone). ✌🏾
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/24 03:18 AM
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I will say, I felt bad for some of the accidental hard fouls I did in these first games but it did make people play differently around me. Defense was really the only thing I felt comfortable giving full effort since my shot/inside game has gotten so rusty in comparison. I play in an hour so I’ think about what you’re saying
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/24 02:25 AM
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Based on the tweet, I was expecting something more lewd but its just a bunch of white girls dancing lamely like a bunch of white girls 🤷🏾‍♂️ the issues some people have with others feels so alien sometimes
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/24 01:28 AM
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Basketball rec league is tonight. We’ve been getting washed by other teams but my cardio has improved immensely over two games. I think I have decent handles, defense, and court vision. Just need to find ways to score points now. Probably just going to spam euros tbh
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/24 01:16 AM
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Kind of have to sense the vibe but that comes with experience. Most of my experiences have started with small talk about pop culture or similar hobbies, then led to compliments (both about personality and appearance) once she felt comfortable around me, then minor teasing, and then eventually casual flirting. I think a lot of people skip making sure the lady feels comfortable and safe. Sometimes it takes a while and requires multiple interactions together
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/24 12:59 AM
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