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Only to terminally online incels (for the most part). The dynamic is flipped on most normie sites from what I’ve seen
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/24 09:58 PM

I definitely prefer mid to late 20s women over young 20s women but I think that’s just due to that being where I fit age-wise. The guys I know who are specifically OBSESSED over the young 20s bracket are typically either A) creeps creeping or B) guys in their early 30s who often regret the missed opportunities of their younger years, especially opportunities with women who are at their “peak attractiveness” in their minds. Often, the guy fits into both categories
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/24 09:55 PM
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Yeah, they are very versatile and it gives people the option to do something active at home (on a low budget too if necessary)
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/24 08:59 PM
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I got a generic one off amazon that goes up to 60kg for like $8 then moved on to captains of crush when I needed a bigger challenge. I honestly don’t think you need to spend more money than necessary on these but that’s up to you and however long you think you’ll stick with grip training
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/24 07:18 PM
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I’m bored so this one’s for the gymcels: here’s a quick review of some at home workout equipment I’ve bought in the past year. Hopefully you asocial and/or fat inkwells can get something out of this: Ab roller: 10/10. Works as advertised and you can get a pretty intense core workout at home. Kettlebells: 6/10. I understand why a lot of the dad lifters are all about it but I honestly got bored after a few workouts. Good for building that “functional” strength if you’re interested in that. Also ca…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/24 06:42 PM
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Lack of impulse control and inability to work through their emotions more maturely. Young girls are usually taught that early but boys are usually neglected in this aspect, often people encourage their aggression. Usually young women self harm or take out that angers on others through words + passive aggression instead
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/24 05:45 PM
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Going to throw my vote in for playlists. I like quite a few genres and can usually whip up a playlist of songs I like that would also suit the woman’s tastes. Its easy bonding material and I’m usually surprised when inexperienced dudes don’t go this route
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/24 05:31 PM
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The support for the man who expressed horror and left his wife for breastfeeding negates your claim entirely No it doesn’t, that anecdote on X just proved the existence of a lot of men who don’t care. You are using this singular instance as a way to disparage all potential fathers while claiming you don’t hate men (which is a bit ridiculous)
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/24 09:26 PM

Ime, a lot of the guys here seem to be reflective of a less outgoing, more socially awkward demo of men. I’m not going to claim that all men irl are normal but their issues usually come with less neuroticism compared to ppd men in general
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/24 02:36 PM

I never felt comfortable making a judgement one way or the other on how much severely weird shit he was up to. Its obvious though that any non famous man would be considered pedo adjacent if they did what he did
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/24 02:17 PM

Fair enough, in the original tiktok they both look late 20s/eary 30s imo (the filter may be helping)
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/24 03:28 PM

I guess. I think a lot of the incels here are miserable due to lack of sexual validation but it also does seem like a lot of FOMO imo. I think the sex and relationships they’re looking for are kind of overrated but I know I’m speaking from a privileged position
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/24 02:53 PM

Depends on what the working definition of average is. The average man in the US is 5’9 and some change, near 200lbs, has a 40” waist size, and has 1-4 close friends. That means the low bar of being semi social and not obese puts you in above average territory. With this being said, I think the men here might be honest about being average
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/24 02:49 PM

Yeah, she still looks like a kid to me (like, VERY OBVIOUSLY a kid). The 50+ year old does look good though, genes combined with healthy living makes some people look immortal
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/24 01:49 PM

Definitely her age. If a dude said she looked 20, I would assume he’s a pedo
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/24 01:35 PM

Finally getting over casual sex I think. I still love the FWBs I have but I’m starting to feel bored/unfulfilled with hookup culture. Probably just going to lower the frequency and focus more on friendships and hobbies at this point
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/24 01:34 PM

Semi common experience for some men unfortunately. Hope the men she touched aren’t affected
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/24 08:05 PM

Never had that issue with my exes. Pet names usually come in after a few months anyways
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/24 05:44 PM

I’d just break up in either case. I think physical is worse for me though, it would give me a certain type of revulsion whereas I would probably be more meh about her falling in love with someone else (maybe even self loathing enough to understand why she did it). I feel like this is a question that would be pretty split amongst genders
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/24 05:28 PM

Assuming she dresses classy, I would think its a flex. I’ve seen thicker women in classier functions and they do fine
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/24 04:30 PM

Jump roped for about 30 minutes but wish I did a little more. Also ate relatively clean (my favorite meal today was a creamy pesto chicken recipe with potatoes and asparagus on the side)
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/24 02:48 AM

The -cels here would probably be happy about them “looksmatching”. I’m happy for them though, its cute to see couples being genuinely happy with each other
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/24 12:50 AM

Blaming women wholesale is sexist, I agree. I guess it depends on context and the person speaking about it but I don’t think “refusing to date down” is used as a negative descriptor about someone’s actions universally but I can see some of the incels using it in that way (entitlement and all)
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/24 12:46 AM

I could see that. After seeing some of the behavior in the gaming community and other online circles, I definitely understand why someone would want to keep their gender identity under wraps or ambiguous.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/24 12:26 AM

Assuming the mentioned food isn’t interfering with your goals, why not indulge a little and have the other food tomorrow?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/24 12:20 AM

Some women refuse to date someone who is lower in status/looks/money/etc, some refuse to date for other reasons or do men refuse to do the things that would make them dateable Refusing to date these men would also qualify as refusing to date down, right? This is just refusing to date down in a way that is acceptable by most of contemporary society
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/24 12:18 AM

Always thought the same thing. The social work types in my life tried to explain it to me as “a way of highlighting the unique oppression faced by black and indigenous people”. But, if that’s the explanation, then why not just say black people or indigenous people? The acronym itself is just unnecessary
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/24 12:02 AM

I agree with that first sentence. Age will make your face look different but I don’t think that means that you’ll look bad. Leo is a good example of an unhealthy lifestyle (regular partier and hasn’t been that fit in a decade) affecting your appearance and his face really shows it
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/24 05:39 PM

Idk who this is but they look like they’ve aged well in the face (fit is a bit cringe but this looks like a modeling event so its to be expected)
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/24 05:23 PM

Thats not a bad point. When I think “pretty boy”, I don’t think of a stereotypical chad but someone slender-slightly athletic, around average height or taller, and maybe with a more feminine or androgynous face. Soft bodied men in particular are still going to be in the back especially considering that, feminine features or not, the additional weight is going to make you look too soft in the face. Men almost always need some angularity or sharpness in the face to be considered facially attractiv…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/24 05:00 PM

That’s what I was thinking! I got much more interest from women (from all age groups but especially 25-35 women) when I leaned onto more masculine features. Obviously this is anecdotal but it was a bit of a lightbulb moment for me recently
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/24 04:57 PM

Exactly which is why I understand why a lot of guys focus on it when they’re young or even into their late 20s but aging makes it hard to keep that aesthetic going forever. Doesn’t mean you can’t keep the attractive face but I feel like sexual dimorphism becomes much more important for guys post 25
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/24 04:54 PM

Exactly (though I’ve never heard of that second line happening, sad if that actually occurs)
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/24 04:52 PM

So is it universally agreed upon that the pretty boy aesthetic tends to age the worst for men? Even if the dude in question takes care of themselves, any look that relies hard on signifiers of youth tend to look odd by 30+
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/24 04:38 PM

Oof, didn’t know about that last part. Thought he was just a DILF trying to play the field around his age range. He’s honestly good looking for being 50 but the larger age gaps that he’s seeking are an extreme minority (which a lot of the redpill copers here should learn to accept)
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/24 04:16 PM

Honestly depends on how terminally online the dude is tbh. Napoleon complexes can form out in the real world too but I feel like most guys (short or not) who have normal-ish social upbringings are fine. Someone who was bullied for it or is permanently online is more likely to have it. I do think the positive reinforcement tall guys get (and short men don’t) can lead them to them being more confident which adds to their chances of leaving a positive impression on a woman
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/24 04:11 PM

It is so hard! I do feel bad bringing up my issues around some of the lonelier dudes because of this since I know they want help getting a relationship in the first place
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/24 04:05 PM

This looks fun! Tism = 3, I’ve been described as stoic and laid back but not too robotic apparently since making friends has never been that hard. Face = 7, could be cope but I think I have some good features with no real harsh drawbacks Height = 5’9 (could go with 5’10” but I don’t want to seem insecure) Weight = 175-185 depending on recent diet. Usually at 180. I would rate my body (height and physique) at like a 6. I’m lean and have enough muscle but I think the height kind of leaves girl fee…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/24 03:45 PM

I don’t think its good or bad necessarily unless you want a specific demeanor. In the past at least, I used to attract mostly aggressive women since I was shyer but not so shy that I was unresponsive. I also think I’m good at keeping a straight face whereas a lot of guys were visibly disgusted or upset about their behavior. I still get aggressive girls but also more shy ones as I’ve gotten older. They usually aren’t that into me until a couple meetings but they like my calmness apparently.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/24 01:51 AM

How? Last real relationship?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/24 01:28 AM

I’m a magnet for aggressive women for some reason. I don’t see much wrong with it though. Is it an issue for you or just an observation?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/24 01:25 AM

How so?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/24 12:54 AM

Sounds fun! Outside of that, what made you go red pill?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/24 12:18 AM

Yes, guys obsessed with the downfalls of their height will cope about it. Same with femcels and whatever negative quality they hyperfixate on
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/24 11:48 PM

More-so indifferent, I’m actually pretty jealous of couples where both people are hot AND only share a couple inches in height difference. Too much of a difference and it looks like parent and child
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/24 11:41 PM

Already said skincare and braces + plastic surgery count as hardmaxxing (all valid)
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/24 09:51 PM

9 times out of 10 I find it funny but I do get sad and concerned sometimes about that lack of self awareness. It inevitably leads to self sabotage by those dudes which they inevitably come back here with
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/24 09:43 PM

No worries, the soppiness is pretty endearing. Chad qualities of bf aside (because I know how this subreddit is), I think most would find the dedication to his wellbeing and happiness admirable
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/24 09:11 PM

Never done it but I think its a based hobby. Creative, requires an amount of dedication to learn, and you can make fun stuff with it
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/24 08:56 PM

Sheesh, that’s a lot of love. Can only hope to have a love like that one day
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/24 08:48 PM

I agree, my OP comment was very general. I put lose weight since thats usually whats necessary for most men in my country (USA) but lifting is basically a must have too for getting that ideal masculine silhouette. I especially agree about the fashion styles though. Dudes need to develop their own style that makes them attractive, bonus if it also reflects them accurately. I don’t want guys seeing my comment and thinking that they should look like another generic poster on r/malefashionadvice (re…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/24 08:27 PM

Don’t know about others but I would be happy to hear it. The looks blackpill is focused on a lot when other traits are rarely given the spotlight
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/24 08:23 PM

I think the social aspect actually pops up frequently, its just often drowned out in claims of “cope” depending on the time of day and posters available
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/24 08:11 PM

True, growing out and taking care of your hair definitely helps in my experience. I’ll use this comment as the specific “hairmaxxing for guys” part of my comment (not addressed at you obviously but I don’t feel like editing the original) - If you have enough hair, grow it out a little and style it (how to style it does kind of come down to race and I don’t want to get banned). If you have only a little hair, then either fade it or buzz it. If you have no hair, consider min+fin or a hair transpla…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/24 08:10 PM

Yeah, asking a barber is usually a safe bet but online resources kind of suck. Its usually boomers who haven’t evolved or zoomers with too much time on their hands chasing trends.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/24 08:06 PM

I do think calling anyone practice girlfriends is cringe but people have been easing into the dating world by flirting with less attractive people for decades. I think its a good strategy assuming you aren’t leading them on or talking down to them (I have seen a drunk dude say “I wanted to talk to you because those girls over there are too pretty” for example)
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/24 07:50 PM

Feel like looksmaxxing is pretty straightforward for guys: lose weight/get in shape, wear well fitting clothes, get solid haircut+clean facial hair style, smell good, work on your skincare, and have good hygiene. Problem is that once you hit your upper limit (i.e. genetics) you either have to make the choice to hardmaxx, maxx in ways considered traditionally unmasculine (i.e. heightfraud or wear makeup), or solely focus on maxxing out status/charisma to boost your attractiveness. That last optio…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/24 07:46 PM

10.27%, not as bad as I thought. If I go harder on the extremely ideal preferences, it drops to 1.383%
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/24 01:21 AM

That does sound like a nightmare but I’ve never met a non fat women who’s so ugly/such a butterface that literally no man would be interested
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/24 09:32 PM

Dislike, sure. Hate should be reserved for genuinely awful people and given on a case by case basis. Hating large swaths of people just makes you a bigot
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/24 09:29 PM

The FGC does seem pretty fun but the stereotypes about some of the players has been semi accurate in my experience (at least for the blerds that I know participate).
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/24 09:10 PM

I agree but I do think that sets up bad examples for the kids if the other adult in the home can’t even hold up their end of a very small request. It looks like they were able to resolve it in their own way but issues like this often have a habit of recurring to the detriment of the lady’s peace (from what I’ve heard online and from others irl)
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/24 09:06 PM

Agreed, communicate or leave at that point. Honestly, leaving the relationship is valid if you feel your partner isn’t meeting the standards of a mature and responsible adult but I know the OP is married with kids so its a little more tricky
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/24 09:03 PM

I think conformity and obsessed stoicism to the detriment of your own mental health is just part of the experience growing up as a guy. Women have that too (the conformity part) but I feel like women as an identity are allowed more self expression without being “less” of a woman. Things are changing obviously but its not surprising that social hold overs such as holding in emotions have stuck (especially if you’re someone who has let their emotions out to then be met by social ridicule)
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/24 07:02 PM

The Israel-Palestine conflict hypes up extremists every few months. That’s the only real explanation I can think of
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/24 06:55 PM

Dawn of a new era 🫡 never thought I’d see the day
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/24 01:16 AM

GOAT cartoon dog, Scooby could never
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/24 12:55 AM

I do think more men should have mutual sexual attraction as a bare minimum requirement for a relationship. A lot of guys here are desperate and concerned that a relationship like that isn’t possible for them hence why so many find ways to cope (i.e. by believing that women are inherently indifferent to sex) or give up
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/24 03:01 PM

Irl, its like once and usually on the weekends. I do keep in frequent contact with a lot of people though and chat with a bunch of people over the phone throughout the week
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/24 12:38 AM

Literally perfect weather
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/24 11:11 PM

Anyone that obsessed about being excluded (man or woman) are entitled and/or full of self loathing which honestly explains a lot of this subreddit. It being old men probably adds an additional creep factor considering how lopsided older men/younger women relationships often end up being (its not universal but it happens often enough)
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/24 09:10 PM

Not a dealbreaker at all, helping the furry friends go peacefully is a plus
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/24 09:04 PM

You weren’t lying about the perfection, I’m pretty jealous True about black twitter though, the threads about dating and gender dynamics are a cesspool every time
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/24 09:03 PM

I assumed black but the Jude obsession could be any race tbh
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/24 07:51 PM

Very similar to my weather, I’m assuming there’s a heavy dose of humidity everyday
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/24 07:42 PM

Can’t, the American brainrot started when I was fresh out the womb Your weather looks good though, premium weather for a light hoodie
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/24 07:40 PM

That sounds intense, I would legit have to live like a hermit between 10am and 6pm everyday at that point
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/24 07:31 PM

I’m going to assume that this is in Celsius. If so, great weather and lucky you!
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/24 07:25 PM

That’s honestly a very ideal forecast, hope you can have fun with it
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/24 07:22 PM

Fair point 🤷🏾‍♂️ gotta quit assuming any poc sub will be majority black
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/24 07:21 PM

Damn, I forgot some people actively tolerate and live in the desert. Hope you’re staying hydrated and cool
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/24 07:20 PM

Damn, you’ve got me beat. Not enough SPF to make me want to go out in that
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/24 07:17 PM

A lot of the points made for women here are often repeated in other black specific spaces. There’s also a good amount of users here that post regularly in r/blackladies, r/vindictapoc, and here. Could just be me hyper fixating though, I’m still semi shocked whenever I notice a decent number of black people in mostly white spaces (especially when it comes to gender/dating subs)
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/24 07:17 PM

Another 90 degree day in the south, another day where I’m reminded of the overrepresentation of black women and east/south asian men on these pill subs. Understandable but still weird to see
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/24 07:07 PM

I think your last paragraph is what I’m trying to say. I don’t think genetics are the literal cause of obesity, just a component that can make it more likely.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/24 11:01 PM

Just saw part of the recent Fat v Fit video on Jubilee. I make pretty good money but people like the Fresh n Fit guy make me slightly regretful about not hopping on the grift wagon. As far as the rest of the debate goes, I think fatness is partially genetic but mostly influenced by environmental factors and education (or lack thereof) surrounding nutrition and diet. For most post college adults, its a consequence of a sedentary lifestyle and shit nutrition driven by overconsumption and/or fast f…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/24 09:16 PM

I feel like toontown, neopets, and club penguin produced some of the most quirky adults and runescape birthed some of the most autistic
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/24 09:05 PM

Had to retire the P Diddler nickname because I think it sounds too fun for him. Fuck Diddy and Meek Mill
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/24 07:29 PM

A lot of it is echo chamber brainrot and a lot of it is societal conditioning. Even as a young guy, you’re kind of expected (by a large portion of society) to always be happy with any female sexual contact no matter the circumstances. Particularly unloved dudes online see the sexual assault/rape of young male students as reasons for jealousy rather than empathy
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/24 04:28 PM

Cold is very rare for most men. Warm happens semi often for most non uggos assuming a decent social circle or general level of extroversion
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/24 11:52 PM

2
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/24 08:53 PM

I think average (not too fat, not too gross looking) still have a shot but I guess thats my optimism combined with anecdotal experiences with average dudes coming in
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/24 09:11 PM

Women being impressed by my love of cooking is going to keep me spiritually fat (and physically too if I slip up on portion control)
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/24 09:03 PM

Unironically, the biggest cock blocker of most guys is themselves. If you’re not comfortable enough to be attractive socially, then shutting up is a good strat
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/24 09:00 PM

Always the same posts. Some of that is due to very active modding to prevent this place from getting banned but pill debates in general rarely come up with new and interesting discussions. The bear v man drama is a good example, any interesting take on it came out within the first 2 days and the rest of it has been repeat points by salty people on both sides of the aisle. That’s more or less the lifecycle of any possible topic here
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/24 08:21 PM

One of the few times that the pillers will band together
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/24 08:16 PM

Un ironically did that when I got to university. Honestly, the only career that it really dissuaded me from pursuing was teaching. Every other career I shadowed ranged from chill and low stress to outright cool (in some capacity)
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/24 06:51 PM

I considered that or Umax but part of me feels cringy for going that far
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/24 06:50 PM

How much muscle is the ideal amount/most attractive is subjective. I personally don’t think he has a lot of muscle but I think he has the right shoulder to waist ratio as well as a good body fat %. I think he is closer to ideal than not (on a binary scale, I assume most women would rate him as attractive body wise)
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/24 06:47 PM

I appreciate the bi perspective on this, its adds an interesting dynamic. Those preferences seem pretty tame though, a lot of men and women still fit within them
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/24 06:58 PM

Makes sense
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/24 06:56 PM

Lol, all understandable preferences. I think its wild how shiesty masks became a thing but some dudes really want the hood aesthetic I guess
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/24 06:47 PM

That’s fair. Thanks for the heads up! Outside of maybe the circumcised one, the preferences look pretty normal/common
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/24 06:38 PM

Damn, hope he recovers alright! I can relate to that last line, I tried the same shit during the pandemic
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/24 06:31 PM

I don’t relate to the belly men but I can respect it from a distance 🫡
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/24 06:29 PM

Lol, I thought the circumcised preference was a myth so its nice to see that it does exist in the wild. Thanks for the response, the preferences don’t look too crazy
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/24 06:29 PM

Lol, I could see some people being triggered by the nail polish and piercings one since they’re so ubiquitous. Don’t worry though, let them be triggered
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/24 06:24 PM

That’s cute that its your bf, hope things are going well for you both! Don’t worry too much about him shaving it off. It’ll be an excuse to see him gradually grow more and more attractive as his hair comes back 🤷🏾‍♂️ assuming he is growing it out again
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/24 06:20 PM

Both plus a general inability to imagine their day without rubbing one out to it. Some people are more susceptible to getting addicted to it (doubly so if they’ve seen their first video when they were a little younger)
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/24 06:19 PM

Just make sure you take it easy during recovery. I heard that shit can get irritated and painful without proper procedure 🙏🏾
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/24 06:17 PM

Looks matter for everyone. Its just that which one matters more depends on your gender and environment. Hair isn’t as important to a man’s looks as it is for women but it is still very important. Either those balders learn how to cope by improving other areas, hope on the min-fin pill, or get a transplant
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/24 06:13 PM

Fair enough, understandable preferences that only locks out like 20% of peeps
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/24 06:11 PM

Sheesh a lot of preferences (I can see the appeal in them though)
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/24 06:10 PM

Right on bro
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/24 05:59 PM

That’s nice and very white pilled of you bro
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/24 05:59 PM

They genuinely do, I always thought the memes comparing the two sites’ meetups were BS but I lost my shit when I saw the pictures were legit
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/24 05:57 PM

Lol, we can’t go a day without being reminded of how hair affects the looks of both genders. I can’t argue though, I prefer more hair over some hair but definitely can’t do no hair
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/24 05:51 PM

I feel bad but the pics of reddit meetups really did boost my self-confidence a little bit. I don’t think even Discord get togethers would look as odd
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/24 05:48 PM

Wow, think you might be the winner for most shallow preference on the thread
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/24 05:46 PM

Metalhead with small to medium boobs sounds doable, I’m sure you’ll find someone like that
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/24 05:43 PM

Heard many women say they don’t like chest hair in general but I think you’re the first one to say they prefer someone who naturally doesn’t have any chest hair. Interesting stuff, thanks for the comment
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/24 05:42 PM

Disagree with your username but I can kind of relate to your comment. It is weird to see how that look is held in the highest regard when you don’t find it appealing
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/24 05:41 PM

Fair enough, thanks for the breakdown!
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/24 05:39 PM

Both respectable preferences. I do wish people would believe that some guys genuinely prefer smaller breasts. I’ve seen some bitter women and incels claim that’s coping just due to the popularity of certain pornstars/influencer models
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/24 05:38 PM

Not an uncommon thought. Is this a greater reflection on the type of trad-ish lifestyle you want this ideal woman to have or is this strictly an aesthetic preference (i.e. you just think those things look ugly)?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/24 05:36 PM

First time I’ve heard big feet as something to look out for. I know dudes who specifically avoid women who have ugly looking feet (dry, untrimmed toes, etc)
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/24 05:29 PM

That’s pretty hype, you could get literal king treatment
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/24 05:26 PM

Damn, this is the first one I’m surprised by! I think fades are the common suggestion for dudes because it looks trendy+mature and can last a while. What are your preferred hairstyles or is it just literally anything but fades?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/24 05:25 PM

Damn, basically eliminates most of the modern dating market (if you did exclude them, I’m sure you do treat it like just a preference and suck it up)
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/24 05:20 PM

I can respect that
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/24 05:19 PM

Tried and true classic. Good luck finding that if you live in any country experiencing an obesity epidemic (I’m sure ozempic will make some people bounce back)
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/24 05:18 PM

Ass men unite! I didn't realize how deep this preference was until I thought about what the women I usually hookup with have in common
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/24 05:15 PM

Lol, I actually kind of relate to this one. Recently saw someone with some overplucked (I think) eyebrows and I felt bad that I couldn’t focus on anything else
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/24 05:14 PM

Fuck it, let’s make some people insecure. Q4A: What is your most shallow preference? Doesn’t have to be strictly looks but that tends to be the usual go to 🤷🏾‍♂️ Edit: I’ll add mine just so I don’t look like a baiter. Pretty sure I’ll get banned if I say my racial preference hierarchy so I’ll go with something else: Black hair > Brunette > Redhead > Blonde Blonde hair doesn’t really give me that internal attraction boost that a lot of other dudes get
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/24 05:07 PM

Yeah but I think that’s a very normal experience for most people. All you can really do is take a chance to self reflect and figure out what your boundaries are. Sorry about your issues with your friend bro
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/24 08:31 PM

Statistically, vast majority of people don’t share nudes. If you’re already pretty in the face and are famous for being attractive, then leaving the penis up to the imagination of your femcel base is good enough for the salary
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/24 04:12 PM

Man, this Drake/Kendrick beef reminded me how much I dislike the generic Toronto accent. Tough because the rest of Canada’s accents are fairly attractive (to me)
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/24 04:04 PM

Lol, I can imagine that sub being your jam (respectfully)
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/24 03:55 PM

Incel Tears (why they went with ITS, idk)
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/24 03:53 PM

I only started browsing it last week but looks like r/DebateITS got banned. I have my issues with mod behavior here sometimes but clearly they’re doing something right. I’m still surprised that PPD has lasted as long as it has
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/24 03:44 PM

why would you make your entire life about rolling in self pity for not being able to get something you already know absolutely sucks? Because then you can’t be blamed for your shortcomings (which in this case is a lack of sexual and/or relationship success). Even though I’m more whitepilled than most here, rejection and failure sucks and constantly having to improve for a slim chance of what you really want is daunting to some people. With that in mind, I can understand how someone who believes …
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/24 08:24 PM

Thats fair, thanks for the breakdown! You were one of the users I was referring to in my initial post. For the most part, this is me trying to look at things from a different perspective to see how people start discovering that looks matter and how it manifests. I do think one point that you’ve mentioned is how early women see that looks affects everything about life and how people perceive you. I think a lot of guys here get to their teen years before seeing how unfair life can be to them if th…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/24 08:18 PM

I can see why. I’ll continue to sympathize with women when it comes to the harsher aspects of their experience (like the threat of sexual violence or limited career opportunities in some industries) but I don’t think I can as easily sympathy when it comes to issues of dating
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/24 07:24 PM

Swap out misogynistic and that honestly sounds like the logical conclusion for a lot of the male blackpillers
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/24 07:21 PM

A couple users I respect have said that the blackpill is just normal life for women and I’m semi-skeptical about it. On the one hand, the pressure to look good starts much younger for them and seeing many guys publicly lusting for women who look nothing like you can put a dent in your self esteem. On the other hand, a woman being below average doesn’t handicap their options in the same way that it would to a similar man. Being less pretty isn’t going to give you NO options, just less conventiona…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/24 06:55 PM

I honestly think the benefits mainly come down to how much you like the idea of spending the rest of your life with someone who you (optimally) connect with deeply. If you’re a guy who isn’t as social or able to connect with others, then having a wife would be a crutch of sorts as far as avoiding loneliness (I don’t recommend this, still think guys should try and make their own friends but this is just one possibility) Also, if you’re one of the dudes here concerned about lack of sex in a relati…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/24 06:32 PM

Yeah, its important to have perspective about stuff like this. I think more people than not have a chance to find love but I don’t pretend like it isn’t exceedingly difficult in the social media age
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/24 04:45 PM

Add hibachi and that’s basically all the food I gave myself once I started making steady money post college
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/24 04:14 PM

PPD really does make me feel privileged in a way. I understood how much of dating and getting interest in a guy comes down to looks + social aptitude but I didn’t realize how many guys are desparate for literally ANY attention from a woman their age. Obviously being on this sub could self select for people like that but still
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/24 03:32 PM

Others are fine with sexual activity and enjoy sex, but they never experience sexual attraction to their partner. Yeah, this specifically sounds less like asexuality and more like someone forcing themselves to be in a relationship with someone who’s not attractive to them. I guess that could be my own preconceptions at work though. Someone being asexual might just be attracted to 1 in a billion people, accepts the odds after a little time, and then decides to opt for someone who they genuinely l…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/24 06:37 PM

The same thing I think of someone who’s wearing shorts in below freezing temps. That’s a little weird but I ultimately have no reason to care
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/24 06:31 PM

Goated, still praying for a medium-dark brown soccer girl to have babies with
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/24 06:28 PM

Huh, well that’s interesting. Thanks for explaining it to me, it is difficult understanding how the definition of asexuality applies to different people. Happy that you were able to marry someone that does it for you!
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/24 06:26 PM

Getting a custom tray from the dentist (usually very cheap) and buying some whitening gel online is an easy looksmax for most people
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/24 06:15 PM

While I think that it sucks that society is so quick to teach some people to get hitched young, I don’t see why you have had such an issue with the users telling you to take ownership of your pleasure. Being outwardly bitter because you choose to remain in a pleasureless and what seems to be an emotionally dead marriage is ridiculous
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/24 06:13 PM

Being extremely selective and having a narrow collection of people that get you going is not the same as being asexual, right?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/24 06:07 PM

Pretty sure studies have said shoulder to waist ratio is what they look for in a physique (in addition to height, of course)
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/24 05:56 PM
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I guess it feels like there are a lot of assumptions on your part with regards to both drizzle drizzle and sprinkle sprinkle tbh. Most drizzle drizzle guys just seem like they want to be hobosexuals rather than explicitly plotting revenge against women like redpillers. I also think its a loaded assumption to assume that sprinkle sprinkle comes with the woman in question anticipating having+taking care of kids. Both movements honestly just seem like immature dream scenarios where the person in qu…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/24 06:15 PM
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Care to elaborate?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/24 05:34 PM

If you prioritize relationships, than being an unattractive dude is probably worse due to a lack of options. Otherwise, it depends on what you want to prioritize in your life.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/24 08:03 PM

Going by standard deviations, one standard deviation below average height for men would be 5’7” and below. So 6’+ and athletic or 5’7 and handsome? Really depends on what the man in question is looking for but the taller dude will probably have an easier time with their appearance
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/24 05:55 PM

Not necessarily if the person in question is in tune with themselves and knows how to properly self regulate (or manage themselves to a degree that wouldn’t result in them being harmful or unfair to their partner). I do think people with any particularly strong mental health issues or other baggage should be a little hesitant when entering the dating world
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/24 04:42 PM

Maintaining 12%-15% bodyfat should be a priority for any man looking to maximize aesthetics. Powerlifters aren’t in the gym for that purpose but I do think some of them are coping when calling better looking people “victim weight” (I know some of it is jokes but a lot of lifters have pretty strong egos about it)
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/24 04:04 PM

Trimmed/not bushy = realistic Clean shaven at all times forever = less realistic. Also comes with the added possibility of the woman in question being and expecting high maintenance
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/24 12:49 AM
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Yeah, I don’t think its fair for the women to face that treatment. I think a lot of guys feel like the rug has been pulled from under them as far as traditional gender roles goes since what they were taught doesn’t work for a lot of women anymore. At the same time, I don’t think demeaning successful women for talking about their issues is right. Finding life long love is hard and even the most successful people can run into the oddest roadblocks.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/24 11:25 PM
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It can turn off many men who want that subservient style relationship talked about in the manosphere but I wouldn’t assume that’s a universal ick for men. I don’t disagree that it would take a lot of vetting and luck on her part but that’s honestly just the reality of trying to find a partner that hits your minimum attraction, personality, and responsibility thresholds.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/24 11:16 PM

Am I surprised by women chasing the most attractive men possible? No. I will still looksmax and will try to look better as much as i can but it is a somber reminder that there’s only so much I can do to get a random woman attracted to me
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/24 10:15 PM

Fair enough, good luck finding that if you haven’t already
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/24 09:40 PM

If you want tall men then you want tall men. I’m not going to call it a cope but its hard to believe that your height is as much of a factor in the equation considering how you share the same preference with nearly any other woman shorter than yourself
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/24 09:37 PM

Yeah, I think most people are fine having partners that don’t match their ideal exactly. At the same time, its hard to imagine that people with such extreme ideals such as yours would be truly content in relationships with people a foot shorter than the fantasy. It’s simultaneously wholesome and devastating if you were really able to like the 5’7” guy
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/24 09:33 PM

Isn’t that just the generic ideal male height for most women?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/24 09:31 PM

Some people here tried to claim it was an evolutionary thing. A very short woman having kids with a very tall men would increase the likelihood of the kids’ heights being higher. Me personally, I think they just love the additional smol/dainty feeling they get around taller dudes
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/24 09:27 PM

Highly recommend for most guys who aren’t interested in ltrs at the moment but the process of getting there isn’t easy (especially if you have no prior success getting anywhere with women).
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/24 07:58 PM

I guess that goes to show how I look at hookups. I thought the primary reasons for engaging in casual sex were validation and orgasms for the most part. Idk what else you would be referring to as far as what everyone wants out of the encounter, maybe I’m missing something
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/24 07:23 PM

I think Star Trek has lost a bit of cultural relevancy over the years but I heard the original show and the Next Generation had some well written and extremely relevant storylines
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/24 07:17 PM

Yeah, the gay scene looks much easier in comparison for hookups. I don’t think its impossible to have success as a straight guy pursuing casual sex but there are definitely a lot more hurdles, doubly so if you aren’t very conventionally attractive
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/24 07:15 PM

Sucks but Israel-Palestine feels like one of the few conflicts that will persist until the end of time.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/24 06:11 PM

French, German, or Mandarin for the general and professional clout. Arabic or Russian if you want a challenge or want to open up a new world to yourself
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/24 11:30 PM

I appreciate your response! I am cautious about the everyday stranger but probably not as much as you. I do think its an interesting question even outside of the gender dynamic aspect about it but its nice that you broke it down for me. I hope others can see this response with understanding and empathy
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/24 11:22 PM

Having had the option of both (since a lot of women do lean one way or the other), I’m picking ass. I think small tits can still look good due to shape and whatnot. A nice ass activates something in me though, its hard to describe
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/24 10:15 PM

Thoughts and a shotgun, I’m not suicidal. Also gun goes boom which is fun
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/24 10:14 PM

A lot of them do indeed have EDs. That being said, I think most of them just have higher activity levels than normal people and eat much healthier outside of the mukbangs.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/24 09:55 PM

I remember a time not too long ago when a lot of feminists did make it a point to say feminism is about gender equality and that using labels such as egalitarian was a incel red flag. The idea of being specifically for female liberation was given to people who went as “womanists”. Idk when the shift happened (maybe when terfs got big) but it looks like egalitarian and feminism are the two appropriate terms again
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/24 09:49 PM

Nothing but bangers
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/24 09:48 PM

Thanks for the suicide fuel ma’am. Being black doesn’t help but idk why you feel the need to remind people that women are, by and large, wary of men (to the point of generalizing them all as predators) as if it isn’t common knowledge
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/24 07:51 PM

I personally believe that’s just a question that should be asked to misandrists/misogynists of either gender. I am starting to think that you didn’t really want genuine opinions on this question from men though. Based on how selective you have been with replies, its starting to feel like you used this post as an excuse to soap box and dunk on redpillers rather than draw up genuine conversation
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/24 07:15 PM

Man. I’ve been a victim of some pretty intense sexual trauma but I’ve never been raped by a man so some of this is speculation on what my own behavior would be. That being said, even with the additional threat of rape, I would pick man. I would rather a chance to live fighting against someone I have a realistic chance against versus an even more gruesome, near guaranteed death at the hands of a bear.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/24 05:53 PM

You would have loved to be in college at that point then. I voted against him but I chuckled at a lot of the support groups that popped up in my extremely blue uni town after the election happened
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/24 01:55 AM

Usually between pays the bills and generally like it. I wfh though and I typically have an abundance of free time between projects that I use to either work on more marketable skills or relax with self care (depending on the day). I do think I want to be more ambitious + competitive within the next year so I doubt my feelings will stay the same forever
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/24 01:52 AM

I think prone bone or doggy with a pillow under the hips takes the cake
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/24 07:43 PM

Signals but I have a big social circle and make an effort to engage in some type of group activity weekly. It sometimes takes time though. A lot of dudes here have made it clear that they only have a few friends/acquaintances. It honestly took me a full year of hard effort to go from loner to socially competent guy that people want to be friends with.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/24 09:55 PM

More embarassed about some of the personal details but there’s nothing cancel worthy. I would take it like a champ
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/24 07:15 PM

Good luck, you got this!
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/24 02:32 PM

Your enthusiasm has convinced me! I’ll give it another shot and will let you know how it goes
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/24 05:11 PM

Cyberpunk must have really cleaned up its act after launch if you’re saying that. I can’t judge though, I used to turn down opportunities to go play Civ or Sims
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/24 04:54 PM

No problem, good luck man
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/24 04:39 PM

I don’t know about casual short shorts but I have some 5” gym shorts that tends to get me compliments from women here and there
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/24 04:05 PM

I think excess body fat has negative effects on both genders but it definitely affects the men harder and earlier. I think women can still be considered conventionally attractive with more bf but there is a point where its too much for most people
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/24 03:53 PM

Fattier cuts of meat, milkshakes, smoothies with oats or full fat yogurt, lots of juice (soda works too but I’m trying to spare your teeth). If you’re really desperate, you can just straight up drink a tbsp or two of oil a day to beef up your final numbers
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/24 03:26 PM

Very common problem fwiw. Our perceptions of attractiveness irl are often shaped very specifically by who we’re around the most. Most people aren’t thinking about how conventionally attractive they are compared to the average person nationally (in the US, women are 170lbs on average and men are 200lbs on average). The truth is that if you and your friends are even semi fit, then you might be closer to the top attractiveness wise than you think. This is especially true the older you get as stayin…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/24 03:20 PM

I do think most men could benefit from being friends with women but I do think a lot of them get put off after one or multiple relationships with someone who is adamant about dropping opposite sex friendships. I do think the solution is for those men to grow a backbone and stick up for themselves but desperation is a bitch when you’re young and don’t know any better
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/24 03:07 PM

I eat ridiculously healthy on my normal days during the summer just so I can binge with friends and still maintain my progress. Hopefully you can find a method that works for you!
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/24 03:05 PM

Pretty much. In a just world with no obesity epidemic, most non fat people with plain faces would be a 4 or 5. Being not fat in a lot of countries jumps you to a (relative) 7 without much additional work
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/24 03:02 PM

Aesthetics and strength. I prioritize staying lean now (I’m trying to stay at a good shoulder to waist ratio) and maintaining my strength but I go for maxes every few months. I’m actually working more on getting my cardio right because of all the benefits (health and sex wise)
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/24 03:56 PM

5 times. Looking back, I was just doing it cus I was bored and had a lot of free time. I wasn’t ever that fucking horny
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/24 05:36 PM
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Sorry to hear about that. But yeah, I feel very lucky how involved my cousins, aunts+uncles, and grandparents were in my early upbringing. I’ve seen guys in similar situations as me that didn’t have nearly as much support as I did. It can really fuck you over in the long term
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/24 01:50 PM
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Absent father, mildly abusive mom. The help of other relatives (including some decent male role models) I think kind of saved me from going too far off the deep end. Life is good now, pretty good job and I have a good relationship with most people on my mom’s side of the family (I made my peace with my mom a few years ago and things haven’t been too bad since). Dating wise I’m ok, I do feel like having a father as a guise to navigate relationships would have helped some of my earlier relationshi…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/24 08:58 PM

Honestly, I think most of the fab five minus Midorima (one trick pony) should have washed Kagami and Kuroko. I still love the show though
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/24 08:51 PM

AA12 with a switch /s
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/24 07:44 PM

Exactly. I think a lot of them think, incorrectly, that romantic relationships will fix both the lack of connection and sex for them completely. That’s just a recipe for perpetual loneliness because who would want someone like that as a partner or a friend?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/24 06:45 PM

I think both “more men are struggling to find sexual partners” and “men struggle with forming a community to the detriment of their mental health” are true statements. Its just really odd how the “male loneliness epidemic” is often referring to the first point whenever its discussed (by both men and women) when the term would literally make more sense in reference to the second
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/24 06:36 PM

Wish I could help you there but I don’t know of any. I’m sure you can look up black parental abuse on yt and get decent results but idk any influencers specifically.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/24 06:23 PM

No problem bro. My own mom was like that (because I needed to know how to “act like a man” or whatever) until halfway through middle school and would yell at me as much as possible after that. I feel like a few more negative influences would have made me more misogynistic but good friends/relatives and a decent chunk of therapy in college got me through it. A lot of dudes don’t have the privileges that I had though so I’m sure they might go down that road pretty quick
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/24 05:45 PM

I think expecting everyone to have had a relationship is too much. That being said, my hot take is that I think it does say something about most individuals if they’ve had absolutely no one interested in them throughout college (assuming the individual in question was even semi-social).
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/24 05:38 PM

For the first question, its all context dependent but I think most deadbeats (i.e. fathers who make no effort to be in their kids’ lives) usually do it out of cowardice for their own responsibilities vs actual spite. The second question is that it can depending on the individual. Single moms are statistically more likely to be abusive and utilize corporal punishment so it is possible to have resentment since your mom would obviously shape how you view others in the long run. At the same time, th…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/24 05:36 PM

Breakdown in general family dynamics (single mom households skyrocketed in between the 60s and now, lot of deadbeats) and a culture that doesn’t look down as much on degeneracy as other cultures. 1 in 3 black women and 1 in 4 black men experience dv in their lifetime not to mention the general misogyny/misanthropy, gun violence, and other toxic shit. A lot of black women experience some pretty bad sexism, colorism, sa, and other harsh treatment while young and gain a sense of distrust for black …
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/24 05:21 PM

They’ve never experienced the horrors of an old group of guys air drying their balls in a YMCA locker room
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/24 03:11 PM

Obviously I switch it up more often than not but typically - Breakfast: A few eggs with cheese, some turkey bacon, and a green smoothie Lunch: Usually a healthy snack or small meal. Usually its a big salad with chicken but sometimes I’m lazy and opt for some carrots/celery, some fruit, and a protein bar or protein shake Dinner: Usually chicken (sometimes steak, sometimes fish), a large amount of a green veggie (usually asparagus or broccoli), and maybe a rice dish or potato dish as well dependin…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/24 03:08 PM

Man, I think having abs itself is overrated but being lean enough to have abs really does make me look better. This cut before summer is going well, I’m surprised I haven’t gotten sick of the chicken breasts yet
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/24 02:44 PM

I think the non stop search for virgin women is a bit played out and gross. That being said, I’ve seen incel and redpill forums and I’d guess like 5% of them would actually be good at sex. A lot of them are autistic about getting a woman off with quite a few dedicated spaces to it. That being said, it does feel like they hyper focus on getting visceral desire and attention like the tallest, hottest men so they could get sex without needing to put in the effort to make the women feel good about a…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/24 01:50 PM

Idk why Butters works so well as a character but he kills me every time I hear him
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/24 07:59 PM

A 9 inch height difference feels awkward to me regardless of if the girl is taller or shorter than me. Good for them though
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/24 07:34 PM

Oof, kinda spicy but kinda true
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/24 03:36 PM

I feel bad for turning down big women but I know they sometimes feel more confident approaching me than they would someone of a different race. Then again, I know a lot of black gym bros who genuinely seem to fetishize globe shaped people. The couple is cute though, they genuinely look happy together which is more than what most people can day
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/24 03:26 PM

Overly aggressive response and technically counts as revenge porn but underage antics like this will probably keep happening.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/24 03:19 PM

Assuming you’re respectful and back off as soon as she made her rejection clear, than its usually never that bad afterwards. Most guys anticipate more awkwardness than they need to tbh. You might also just be getting more experienced which lessens the impacts of the rejections over time. Proud of you bro
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/24 02:52 PM
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I honestly was surprised that he was able to come up with enough material for another 4 seasons after the initial break. He really is a great writer, deserves his flowers for sure
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/24 04:12 PM
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I think the earlier seasons were better but I’m still sad that Curb Your Enthusiasm has finally ended. Hell of a run
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/24 03:54 PM

Well, those dudes usually end up getting hit by karma in the form of loneliness and aversion from others. Sucks that they ruin things for everyone else that they’re near though
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/24 06:00 PM

Honestly, give people back the energy they give you. It’s one thing if you are friends and you want to give them a bit of space and time but texting every 3 days in an era of near constant online interaction means they might not care about those plans as much as you do
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/24 05:35 PM

Yeah, I get being frustrated that you won’t get that visceral attraction from everyone like the most conventionally attractive people do but its odd how much that ends up translating to “only the top 20% or whatever of men will have success in dating” from some PPDers. A lot of women just need time, comfort, and familiarity before they can appreciate a guy’s looks and let loose (at least from my experience with relationships and friends with benefits)
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/24 04:05 PM
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1) 3-4 days per week, been working out consistently for 8 years but only dialed in the nutrition in the last 3 years. Got down to 12% for the first time a couple years ago and my treatment was night and day. I also consistently groom and I made sure my skincare routine was on point before putting myself out there. 2) Multiple fwbs (not to mention a good, supportive social circle) so I would say I’m doing better than the average dude who is probably more introverted and less social. Haven’t found…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/24 01:14 PM

As someone who’s part of a demographic where out of wedlock births and poor people behavior is common, I more or less stopped seeing that behavior once I went to college. A lot of college educated men here have made it clear that they have no/unideal circles though. That plus the fact that OLD tends to attract less than stellar individuals means that some men here, already struggling with dating under modern gender dynamics, will build up a lot of ire for single moms/women that choose poorly. In…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/24 12:32 AM

I made a post about a woman I dated with a similar condition. If the women in question wasn’t extremely insecure about it, then it wouldn’t be a dealbreaker assuming I genuinely like her
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/24 11:36 PM

That just sounds like a lot of 2+ year gym girls. Assuming I like her face and she has some body fat, I wouldn’t mind too much tbh
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/24 09:40 PM

Anecdotally, I know plenty of women that refuse to move in with their respective partner until a ring is on the finger
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/24 09:34 PM

That’s why people should get married after moving in together. I think people actually waiting to test the waters as housemates is getting rarer and rarer
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/24 09:11 PM

Can you be more specific?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/24 08:43 PM

Yeah, more common than people think unfortunately. Hopefully that young man can find a good support group and some peace
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/24 01:13 AM

Validation and sexual fulfillment?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/24 04:41 PM

I try to tell people, condoms are an investment. Also fresh and fit probably have the worst advice if you’re an average dude struggling
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/24 04:24 PM

Yeah, that’s fucked up
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/24 04:11 PM

Either he’s a old man who’s coping or a young struggling guy who doesn’t want his dream scenario shattered. Either way, name em and shame em if you want 🤷🏾‍♂️
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/24 04:00 PM

I agree with both but I was just assuming we were talking about the basic, standard American pancake from like IHOP or something
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/24 03:32 PM

French Toast > Waffles > Pancakes. Pancake propaganda is too strong nowadays
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/24 03:22 PM

Honestly, if they dropped the homophobia then they would find a lot of things in common with lesbians who struggle in dating. Dating dynamics are usually only discussed here within the context of a hetero relationship though so I doubt that’ll happen to often
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/24 03:22 PM

Again, gentle reminder that a lot of people here are literal teenagers. That doesn’t mean we can’t have conversations but we really should start taking things here with a grain of salt (you can trace a lot of the discussion posts on here to teens copying recent podcast topics)
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/24 03:17 PM

Haha yeah that’ll do it. I think it takes only 2-4 days for it to clear out for most people so don’t fret too much about it
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/24 03:15 PM

Sorry to hear that bro, you deserve better. Take a small break if you feel that dating is hurting you more than it should. There’s no point in participating if you’re just going to be a depressed ego boost for stranger women
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/24 02:53 PM

Assuming you’re already getting enough water and aren’t overindulging in things that cause bloat (i.e. alcohol and sodium), then you might just need time. Our bodies regularly cycles through water weight and we can’t really 100% predict when or how it’ll happen. The good news is that you’ll probably get a new low weigh in once the water weight is gone (assuming you’re cutting)
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/24 02:47 PM

All the time. Usually not negative but it feels like I get a better view of how varied their taste is.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/24 02:23 PM

Its amazing how the first movie was made such a big event! Second one was a letdown tbh but you could only do so much after what happened to Chadwick
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/24 01:12 PM
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I thought it would be weird but pussy isn’t that bad tbh. Just gotta have realistic expectations and listen to her feedback. Eating ass/doing anal has never really appealed to me but to each their own
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/24 01:50 AM
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Good luck! Do you like anything about him immediately or do you want to wait to meet him before judging?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/24 12:36 AM
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That and nobody cares that much since its societally acceptable to be obese here. It isn’t easy but a lot of people simply won’t try to avoid that fate in the first place
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/24 11:23 PM
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19-22 is fine as well but I do like some curves and I try to be realistic about what a healthy balance for most women would look like 🤷🏾‍♂️
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/24 10:54 PM
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In past relationships, I would buy little treats or small gifts from time to time just because. I tend to wait for specific occasions (holidays, birthdays, valentines) for the specific gifts but I know some couples who share a running wish list with each other
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/24 10:45 PM
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Damn, what I would give for a 23-25 BMI degree haver that splits the bills with me
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/24 10:33 PM
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A lot of women are height fetishists but I also think the height is more of a status symbol for some rather than an actual factor in their attraction. Otherwise, there wouldn’t be such a thing as 6ft+ incels
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/24 03:16 AM
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I got the worst farmers tan this one summer playing baseball in high school. I looked burnt on my face and arms and my torso looked orange comparatively. Gonna have to disagree with you on this one
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/24 02:51 AM
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Yeah, hiding a partner for sure. On to better men then
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/24 01:38 AM
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On a sidenote, I fucking love the Hugo dance and idk why. Its always fun to watch
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/24 01:32 AM
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Thats tough. Best case scenario, its a family member or roommate (which is embarrassing for some men). Probably a partner though. Good luck with that
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/24 01:28 AM
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Sorry to hear that. Did he think you were going to be cool with it or something?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/24 12:51 AM
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Sheesh, sorry to hear that
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/24 10:53 PM
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1 or 2 I guess. Feminine but not too extreme (although my favorite in this pic is the second to last lady in the 4 column)
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/24 08:26 PM
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Honestly, anything from -4 to 5 works for me. These images are all above average women though so Idk how representative this chart is
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/24 08:03 PM

If I had to guess, its probably relatable for the average post high school/college american. Kind of a societal cope in a way
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/24 02:37 AM

Lol at the Indian ratio
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/24 12:19 AM

Ever since I talked about that one relationship happy weight tiktok couple, I’ve been getting non stop recommendations for the same thing from other people. I’m happy for them but this is the lamest trend I’ve had to see in quite some time
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/24 12:16 AM

Its all that plus gender. We should acknowledge the important of social skills and rizz while also understanding that the unsuccessful here will probably continue to be unsuccessful despite their best efforts.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/24 12:13 AM

Emrata had a feminist podcast that was the most mind numbing experience I’ve had in a long time. I think women deserve better choices as far as empowerment goes
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/24 12:09 AM

Fair enough, I don’t think there’s a wrong answer between those two. I hate to say it because I love his game but the Mbappe simps confuse me
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/24 12:00 AM

At the possibility of sounding homosexual, I’d say peak Neymar > current Jude. Jude still has some time though (also, Neymar is starting to show his age a little too much recently)
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/24 11:48 PM

Maybe that’s more of a reason than you think? While I am all for male -cels touching grass, they still won’t get nearly the opportunities that you just did
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/24 11:39 PM

Seeing that pre college is pretty wild
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/24 11:32 PM

Man Purple I think, agree with some points from each but I think pure blue, black, and red pillers are a bit too delusional Single Think last time it said ISTP. Idk, I commented it somewhere on this sub but I don’t feel like looking for it I’m looking for a relationship where me and my partner genuinely look forward to seeing each other each day and want to build a future together. Still iffy on kids but, if I did, I would want to be an involved and responsible father and that would require a re…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/24 10:04 PM

Honestly, the greatest thing most male lifters can for do for their looks is stay at or below 15% bodyfat. The rest is finding clothes that fit appropriately. Women will still check you out even if you aren’t roided, I promise
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/24 09:09 PM
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I’m rooting for Croatia in the Euro. 2nd place followed up by 3rd place in the world cup considering their competition is amazing!
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/24 12:24 AM
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Yes. I like my daily routine, I’ve gotten better at keeping in touch with family over the past few years, and I’m much better about getting social interactions when I feel I need it. Only thing I’m really regretting is not doing more travelling but I have a couple places in mind for this summer
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/24 11:25 PM
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Seeing a stream of that happening was the hardest I laughed in a while. Like they really are finding a new way each day to push the degeneracy further on twitch. I think someone being painted greenscreen-green is next on the list
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/24 10:17 PM
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Nothing wrong with that
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/24 10:02 PM
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Sounds like cope but you could just buy it and go to dinner with friends or some shit
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/24 09:46 PM
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Hookups = condoms Relationships = I prefer her taking over BC duties but I don’t mind condoms if she doesn’t want BC or if the hormonal BC options affect her negatively. Condom sex is still sex so its whatever
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/24 09:45 PM
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Lasagna. Trying to perfect my recipe but lasagna is hard to fuck up so it should be fine
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/24 09:05 PM
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Kind of, depending on your perspective. A lot of people blame a slowing metabolism (true to an extent, your tdee lowers naturally over time) not to mention a possible lack of time once you’re an adult with responsibilities. Also, a lot of people underestimate how much they’ve lowered their physical activity levels post-college. Going from being on the move all the time in college versus being extremely sedentary in a generic 9 to 5 office job will lead to most people getting chubby surprisingly …
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/24 08:42 PM
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Irresponsible and a dumb decision (unless you have millions to take care of the kid after death like a lot of these actors and, even then, the likelihood of the early death of their father will affect them no matter what redpill copers say).
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/24 03:45 AM
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I saw a bunch of tiktok memes about women loading up the pepper spray due to this. Pretty crazy and I feel like we hear some new stories about assaults like this in nyc every few months
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/24 12:02 AM
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Do you have the study this graph is referencing or did you just save it and hope it would speak for itself?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/24 11:53 PM
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Outside of Luka, Wemby has my favorite stat lines of this season. Pop is so lucky to have him. He definitely deserves some awards after this season (and teammates that will pass him the ball more. Watching the spurs is a frustrating experience due to how often his teammates absolutely refuse to pass the ball to the 7’4” beanpole who’s practically always open)
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/24 11:24 PM
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Sounds delicious! I wish America was more lamb oriented tbh. I’m starting to prefer it to beef and pork nowadays
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/24 09:40 PM
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Lol, that makes more sense. That is still good though, people underestimate how difficult something as simple as jump rope is
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/24 09:27 PM
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Not him but I thought the same thing about a lot of Tate followers. The amount of glazing over him was baffling for those few months before he got locked up
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/24 09:10 PM
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Nice, another skipper. Your must be good if you can do 30 minutes straight, no breaks
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/24 09:10 PM

Makes sense, hate to say it but death grip havers do ruin the general vibe of the dating pool when it comes to sexual encounters. The fact that women nowadays are sometimes surprised when a man can get off with them illustrates that point pretty well
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/24 04:34 AM

I hate that its become a cliche among manosphere and redpill influencers because they can make anything cringy but I think telling people to get active is genuinely the best advice you can give most people. Coming out of the gym knowing you put in work is very validating
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/24 12:07 AM

That’s nice insight on it, thanks for responding. I know I don’t “have” to but I just think it would be better for me mentally to avoid it during a relationship. Makes me feel more present in a way if that makes sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/24 11:37 PM

I’m still baffled by women that say they have trouble finding men without a porn addiction. Even before I stopped consuming porn altogether, I scrapped porn usage whenever I was in a relationship just so I could focus on my woman. Idk, I don’t want to cast doubt but its just weird to think about
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/24 10:57 PM

You’re welcome, no problem =)
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/24 07:50 PM

Yup, not really that uncommon (especially if you were strangers until recently)
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/24 07:29 PM

Non present father but I had other male role models in the family that made it a little easier to navigate dating. I do feel like not having the presence available at home 24/7 (not literally but close to it) did affect how I engage in dating and took a while to get over. I think its similar for others as well, even if they don’t have any strong trauma.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/24 07:27 PM

Hella respect for people who can accessorize multiple rings without looking cringy
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/24 06:54 PM
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I thought the movie would be a wild experience but I’m still shocked about this plot description
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/24 02:26 AM
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Guess I would need to know how rare the men you’re referring to claim they are 🤷🏾‍♂️ Feels like a lot of your posts have unironically begun generalizing to the same degree that redpillers do but its not my battle to fight
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/24 02:16 AM
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Haven’t seen the notebook yet but the romance was my least favorite part of the titanic. Brokeback Mountain clears it easy, its a shame that it lost best picture to an Oscar-bait movie
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/24 02:04 AM
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Pretty sure 6ft+ is about 14% of men in America. Does that make them unicorns? No. Does that limit the dating pool to the point where you may have a much harder time finding a person you’re compatible with? Probably.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/24 02:00 AM
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I asked a similar question and the consensus seemed to be that 5’7”-5’9” should stick to irl approaches and below 5’7” really start feeling the weight of height preferences. A lot of women just don’t want someone shorter than them though so I’m sure the opportunity will still present itself
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/24 01:35 AM
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Virtually none, has to be pretty extreme for me to notice. Even most (natural) gym chicks don’t have shoulders so wide that they take away from their attractiveness imo
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/24 01:02 AM
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Don’t feel like calculating net worth but I’m close to 6 figures salary wise. I think its more than enough but I generally go for educated women I find attractive versus the typical ig model-esque lady
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/24 11:04 PM
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Unironically agree. Appearing to be responsible and somewhat decent at making food is a panty dropper
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/24 10:44 PM
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I respect them as athletes but I think motor vehicle sports are very fucking boring.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/24 10:36 PM
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If you’re leaning more progressive: Episcopal or UCC. If you’re leaning more conservative: Baptist. Otherwise, just try a few out. Catholicism is probably the best bet for networking opportunities as well as just having that big old school style community.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/24 08:28 PM
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No but I always thought certain cosmetic procedures (like lip fillers) are more-so status signifiers for women to other women.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/24 08:04 PM
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That whole cast had some weird choices tbh. Katara’s audition tape was horrible!
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/24 11:14 PM
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I do want to get back into making coffee at home. The routine felt like a nice starting point to my day. I just settled on buying packs of energy drinks on sale from the store for now
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/24 11:12 PM
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Honestly, each point sounds pretty valid. I appreciate your honesty on the matter, its refreshing
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/24 11:09 PM
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Feel like the tretinoin is still working for me but the peeling is starting to get annoying. I feel goofy for having to put vaseline on my face at night but its the only thing that has helped really
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/24 08:16 PM
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I think a lot truly empathize. I also think a lot internally eyeroll and give whatever their version of a pc response is. Overall, I think whatever they tell you is more or less useless since there are too many variables at play as far as dating success goes and generic platitudes only work for some. I especially think skepticism should be added for family members older (15 years +) than you since they did the bulk of their dating in a different time period and those family members probably don’…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/24 07:19 PM

The biggest benefit of an actual jump rope is the improved coordination and ability to do tricks. If you just want a workout though then you can get ropeless jump ropes for mostly the same cardio benefit
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/24 04:24 PM

I do want to do more traditionally masculine things when I’m into someone but its hard to tell how natural that is vs societal conditioning. I try to get more creative but doing typically chivalrous stuff is always an accepted form of appreciation, no matter who I’m dating
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/24 02:59 PM

Ass and thighs men on top. Boob men are still cool though. Gotta watch out for the feet dudes. Send armpit lovers to the gulag
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/24 02:53 PM
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Thats fair, I can appreciate that viewpoint
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/24 08:16 PM
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I wish that was my case but maybe I’m not looking hard enough I guess
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/24 07:56 PM
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I genuinely like how air forces looks but it sucks that people assume I’m in it for the height boost.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/24 07:46 PM
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Top tier restaurant bread. Make sure they give you a box of rolls to go.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/24 07:32 PM
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My two trips to California had me in awe of how beautiful the natural surroundings are. Ubering onto the highway was such a fun experience everytime. Too bad about the living costs 🤷🏾‍♂️
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/24 07:26 PM
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Kind of why I do think both genders should spend a little time exploring their sexuality prior to engaging in committed relationships. Not necessarily even being a hoe but just confirming that you are indeed the sexuality you think you are is necessary prior to committing to someone. She was 23 when she got married and it took her a few days to figure out who she really was when some bit of self reflection from 18-23 probably would have saved both her and this man this heartbreak. Now they both …
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/24 06:31 PM
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Such a disappointing season only for them to come around and pull some GOAT level shit on one of the league leaders. Man, I love the premier league
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/24 06:18 PM
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A fleshlight plus a vr headset is < $350. Probably cheaper than whatever these hyper realistic ai bots would feasibly cost
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/24 06:11 PM
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I heard she went off in that Griselda show (i also loved her on modern family). I do think using celebrities as counter points to the single parent or wall narrative is weak though. Like, obviously the literal millionaires aren’t low-value (despite what some of the delusional here think)
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/24 05:22 PM
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I prefer not to but you’re kind of fucked for options on that front as a man. I do think more men should stick to their standard first and stick to dating women who see you as your own person. Someone seeing you as an exception will eventually wear you down even if you think you can handle it
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/24 05:13 PM
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Yeah, I know its somewhat childish for me to feel that way on others enjoyment. With regards to your second statement though, I don’t think its that much better. These examples are carefully curated and edited by the production teams. There’s also the fact that most of the contestants are still relatively more outgoing than the general population and more conventionally attractive. Idk, feels like discussions you want around dating dynamics would be better off using speed dating vlogs or yt dati…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/24 05:07 PM
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Sheesh, that sounds like a cesspool waiting to happen. That’s also one of my least favorite parts of reality dating show fandoms. Rather than enjoying the drama happening, every action by each cast member has to be viewed as an example of some greater societal trend. Its like people don’t even watch the shows to enjoy them anymore but I guess what I see as enjoyment is different from others
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/24 04:58 PM
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I opened with no expectations and now my day is better already
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/24 03:43 PM
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Still going to the chinese buffet tomorrow to get the last of my vices out before I go hard on the cut. Have a cute ramen date today though, haven’t been to a ramen shop ever so it should be fun
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/24 05:17 PM
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Feels like thot fell off considering how little people use it nowadays
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/24 03:35 PM
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Life kind of punishes single mothers on its own. Idk what else you would want that counts as fair punishments
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/24 04:56 PM
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Make sure you’re getting those electrolytes in still 🙏🏾 Potassium, magnesium, and sodium can save your life
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/24 04:45 PM
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I just found out from your post. RIP a legend, I hope overwork wasn’t a contributing cause (68 isn’t abnormal but still feels too young)
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/24 03:56 AM
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Someone has to be legitimately evil for me to get enjoyment out of it. I feel like a lot of users here legitimately see the struggles of others as entertainment though so guess it varies by person
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/24 11:47 PM
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Then why are you here?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/24 04:56 AM
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I’ve always preferred cooking to baking. That said, I made some bread and small cakes that I’m proud of lately. I think your post is new inspiration for me to get a pan set and commit to more
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/24 01:20 AM
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Are you a dark chocolate type of person? That shit always cures my hunger for a few hours somehow
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/24 11:12 PM
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Going into a cut in preparation for summer. I’m willing to fit in the carbonata gnocchi for one of my cheat meals. My tdee has gotten pretty high over the past few months of working out
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/24 11:04 PM
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Trader Joe’s really is the GOAT grocery store, I might try that cauliflower gnocchi soon. I go there once a month
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/24 11:01 PM
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I’m not a fan of most pumpkin derivatives but that doesn’t sound too bad tbh. I’ll give it a shot too
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/24 10:59 PM
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A little fatter but not too much. I think eventually ozempic will be easier to access than insulin but a select few won’t want to make that commitment (either due to monetary concerns, potential side effects, or lack of interest due to the change in beauty standards). I don't think political polarization is going to end (internet echo chambers are here to stay) but I think progress that benefits all of society (infrastructure improvements, changes to the healthcare system, etc) will pass in some…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/24 10:36 PM
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Might try that next. I ate it with a pesto sauce today
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/24 10:28 PM
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Wish I found out about potato gnocchi sooner. This shit is delicious
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/24 10:13 PM
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Not surprising, a lot of countries have much younger leaders. France’s PM is fucking 34
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/24 09:43 PM
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I’m sure there’s some vegas website that will take it 🤷🏾‍♂️ political betting is just a more socially unacceptable sports betting
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/24 09:27 PM
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I thought my first election being Trump vs Clinton was exhausting enough but the fact that this upcoming election is going to end up as a geriatric rematch makes it so hard to take this country seriously
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/24 09:18 PM
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I’d honestly get a chuckle out of it but I’m sure that is too corny for some people.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/24 06:34 AM
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Yes, because I like it, at least twice a week, would rather it be a committed partner or from a fwb that I’m familiar with (random ons never appealed to me tbh)
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/24 03:24 AM
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Un ironically yeah. I think university is way better overall but casual activities like video games, rec sports leagues, and volunteering have been great ways to meet surprisingly connected people (assuming you aren’t antisocial)
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/24 12:59 AM
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I agree for the most part. Some of the incels on here are generally mean spirited and deserve a bit of slander for trying to drag others down to their pathetic levels. With that in mind, I don’t think someone who is truly happy and content with their life would spend time here flexing on losers who have already lost their zest for life. That’s just bullying for shits and giggles at that point
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/24 10:27 PM

Wholehearted agreed. I think a live action series going over the novels or even a limited series going over a few of previous Avatars would’ve been hype. Adapting a series that is already seen as more or less perfect is dumb but I know Netflix is still pulling viewers from it
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/24 08:44 PM

Man, I love the og series and I tried to go into it with fresh eyes but I think that Avatar live action was a real 6/10. The costume and set design was outstanding and I really loved a few of the characters but the magic isn’t there like it was for the original cartoon. It honestly feels like they crammed too much of the series into 8 episodes. I would have preferred the season have 12 episodes and a different release schedule (drop the first 6 episodes then drop the next 6 in like a month or so…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/24 08:33 PM

There is, I still want to travel across Canada and see how the provinces differ up close.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/24 08:13 PM

Honestly, if it weren’t for how bad the housing crisis is as well as just the general dice roll that is immigration, I would consider moving to Canada. Toronto, at least when I visited 5+ years ago, was lit and I feel like I would fit in well enough (I’m already used to harsh midwestern winters)
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/24 07:48 PM

I agree in general but I don’t think you can deny the trauma that a lot of those dogs are already coming with. That’s additional training and time that many don’t take into consideration. I’m not a fan of most breeders but I can’t judge too much assuming the new owners give the dog a comfortable, humane life
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/24 04:00 PM

I used to hate having thick hair when I was in college but I’ve come to appreciate how it looks and I think you should too. Detangling it is a bitch though and it takes 2 hours for mine to dry naturally after the fact 😭 I think the pros outweigh the cons though, especially once you’re at a certain age
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/24 03:28 PM

Honestly just looks like the generic tik tok sad boy aesthetic. Idk, I think the problem is that inceldom is surprisingly diverse enough that trying to curate an aesthetic out of it will only be able to show a fraction of the whole identity (if that makes sense)
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/24 03:13 PM

I gave up apps within 2 days of being on them so maybe I’m not the best judge but there’s no way I can see any good justification for spending any amount of money on them. Idk, maybe I’m not being empathetic enough to the lonely people. I think, especially for men, that irl socializing will always be the best method (even if you’re an awkward incel)
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/24 03:09 PM

I really think people overestimate the amount of trans people that are purposefully hiding their trans status with new partners tbh. From my understanding, they typically get that info out of the way early just to avoid future heartbreak/assault.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/24 03:02 PM

Basketball league yesterday was a 30+ point blowout win. Still feel like I’m missing too many open shots though. Next game is in two weeks so I’ll probably spend the in between time lifting + practicing shots. Jump rope to keep the cardio up too.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/24 02:55 PM

I remember hearing 60 miles by him and going “this probably isn’t right but it wouldn’t be the first time a pre-pubescent rapper has done this. Can only hope that he can live in a more positive environment as he gets older”. Then I started seeing youtubers use him in “smash or pass” videos and wanted to bleach my eyes
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/24 02:47 PM

That’s good! Some of the grad programs ask for relevant experience and will let you talk about any relevant projects you’ve done. Making even like a small project with some of the usual python data libraries can help you in a couple years. Good luck!
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/24 03:57 PM

Highly recommend if you can handle being in front of a computer for long stretches 🤷🏾‍♂️ Also helps if you’re social. Even the most mid developers will get far if they have people skills. Its not as bad as a few years ago but, based on my two jobs so far, most developers still tend towards anti social behavior. The higher ups always appreciate someone who doesn’t look like they hate talking
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/24 03:54 PM

Nice! Congrats on being accepted to those schools and good luck on the journey 👍🏾 Having a company pay for even just a portion of my grad degree is going to be my dream for the next few years
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/24 03:51 PM

At my uni, that was actually what most of the math department’s faculty recommended to me after undergrad for grad degrees. It’s understandable too, its technical but still utilizes your degree in a applicable manner. Have you done any data related projects in school yet?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/24 03:47 PM

Finally, running into more Math people. I kind of wish I pursued the grad degree right after undergrad but its never too late to start some applications I guess. Did you major in Math in undergrad? I know a lot of the grad programs have a unique blend of students in them
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/24 03:29 PM

Here’s my routine as a wfh software developer: Wake up at 7, go to gym by 7:30 (or go for a walk in a nearby park, basically whatever I’m counting as my exercise for the day), back by 9:30, wash up and finish grooming by 10. Quick breakfast and start work by 10:30. I work until whenever I feel I’ve done enough work for the day. This is typically based on whatever project/assignments have been given to me. I give myself a hard cut off of 7pm unless I’m really behind on deadlines but I’m generally…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/24 03:22 PM

A fall from grace is high key comedy tbh, a lot of his serious efforts are
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/24 11:04 PM

Why not break up with her and devote time to the fitness and social curation. Again, ignoring the moral implications, I imagine you would free up more time to properly focus on those objectives. 6 months of dedicated gym progress looks different if you’re going monk mode vs if you have a lot of background drama (from my experience)
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/24 07:54 PM

I agree but I know plenty of men and women who think otherwise. The thinking is that as long as nothing goes further than online flirting, then there’s no issue. I think more people need to agree early on that dating apps and online flirting are no go’s once you’re exclusive (as ridiculous as it sounds)
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/24 07:45 PM

Ignoring the moral implications of what you’re doing, I don’t think your plan is great logistically. You can’t give full effort to dating efforts since you’re in a relationship (even if you think you can).it also sounds like you’re trying to monkey branch but I think its a bit egotistical to think that you can A) quickly break up with your gf in a manner that is respectful once you have someone new and B) Hide the fact that you have a new gf from said ex. For as much as some guys on here think o…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/24 07:44 PM

He should do it anyways. Partner you’re attracted to > Single > Constantly thinking about being single while stringing someone along
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/24 07:29 PM

I wasn’t a hater of random women when I was a 30+ bmi but I definitely have a higher level of respect for more people now I think when it comes to looks. I am generally more appreciative of fit women or women who continue to look good as they age because I began to understand the level of effort that was necessary to just maintain that beauty. I also don’t really obsess over the less conventionally attractive like I used to since A) Being and staying attractive takes effort that they might just …
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/24 07:25 PM

I wish this was more common with the women I run across but a level of social media usage (even just an IG profile with a few pics) is always seen as better than none at all. I think some of it is to show that the guy in question can properly engage in the modern internet landscape when necessary but I also think a lot of them would prefer to see somewhat of a trail just to confirm that the guy who is who he says is (for safety concerns). This is speculation on my part though, maybe they just li…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/24 07:20 PM

First one, I’ll give you (the labor that goes into birthing and taking care of kids is something that should be taken into account no matter what). Second point is kind of bleak but its generally the same advice I give to men. I want people to feel loved in the union that is marriage but to know that you can lose so much money through no issue of your own except the fact that you make more is depressing. Probably is the ultimate blackpill for otherwise normal dudes which is why there should be n…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/24 07:08 PM

Can’t ever go wrong with pizza. I can’t wait to hop on an exercise bike tomorrow, feels like even just a few days off has made me feel sluggish.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/24 07:04 PM

On a flight back to Texas after visiting the home state. Always good to see the fam. How is everyone doing this Sunday?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/24 06:46 PM

I think this is also true of single men as well but the societal pressure on women to be affable is astronomical in comparison.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/24 08:49 PM

A little lower actually but I think some of that was self esteem/body image issues. If you don’t feel as sexy as usual then you might not want sex as much. I’ve met other women with PCOS though who have libidos that I would rate as normal to high so I’m sure a lot of this is individualized
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/24 08:34 PM

True but there’s not enough players like Joel in the league. Assuming Wemby can put on some size, I think he will be the big man of the league (with Jokic)
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/24 07:36 PM

I think Wemby will be a better defender than Jokic so future matchups can be more even. I think Jokic has a few more years at the top though
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/24 06:40 PM

Using the ramblings of a stranger to project your own dissatisfaction with the treatment of women by incels with too much time on their hands is a choice. Regardless though, I think having more or different standards going forward in future relationships is part of being human. No one can be expected to remain stagnant which is why I try my best to be understanding of those who have a long list of standards, even if I may not understand where they’re coming from
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/24 06:38 PM

Conan >>>> I don’t mind the rest but they kind of blend in together in my mind unfortunately
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/24 06:05 PM

I feel like “western” is always short hand for chronically online American women tbh. And even then, a country of 300+ million is bound to have women that don’t fit that characteristic
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/24 05:55 PM

Yeah but I prefer doggy+prone bone in most cases. Sex is sex though, if we vibe then I’ll do missionary and cowgirl and whatever is comfortable for her
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/24 05:51 PM

Eh, I had recent experiences from pretty (at least to me) and insecure women that made me shy away tbh but I won’t doubt that maybe the changes in appearance sped up the deterioration of that specific relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/24 05:42 PM

I once dated a woman who had to come off of BC due to liver issues. This resulted in symptoms of her PCOS getting much stronger (mainly hair loss up top and strong facial hair growth in general). Crazy shit is that, although I wasn’t as attracted to her physically, I was still committed because I liked who she was deep down. But man, the amount of additional validation she needed from that point on was too much. She would point out her hair loss to literally everyone she would come across and ha…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/24 05:20 PM

I see women shaming the behaviors of broke and unattractive men fairly often but I won’t deny that men shaming particular women is a larger group. I’ve always been a “if they’re not for you, leave them alone” type of person which is why I’ve never been so anal about holding women accountable like the incels do. I think there’s enough negativity everyone has to deal with in the world, I don’t see a need to shame single mothers or fat women as if society doesn’t already have a bone to pick with th…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/24 05:15 PM

Being honest = being accountable for me personally. I think a lot of the men here want a version of accountability that involves some level of self-flagellation from the women that have shallow preferences. I think that’s too far. Rather, if you have somewhat specific preferences, are honest about the shallow preferences, and take responsibility for the fact that your potential love life may be affected by it then you are taking accountability in my opinion. I don’t see much point in asking for …
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/24 05:07 PM

Yeah, I think most regular (i.e. not desperate) woman won’t want additional time with you if they think you’re not attracted to her. That’s often the bare minimum that they expect out of a new date
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/24 04:52 PM

Depends on the man tbh. I think looks are a factor, an important one that should be discussed open and honestly instead of with shame. I don’t think men as a whole would be happy if that was how women engaged in the conversation but, if that sentiment about looks were true, then I would prefer those men had that truth available to them. If an individual woman specifically said looks are most important for her, I would think she was a bit shallow but I would respect the honesty about how she’s mo…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/24 04:47 PM

Agreed. I genuinely believe that you should behave a little differently once you made that level of commitment to your partner but a lot of people of either gender think single activities are still fair game as long as you aren’t smashing someone else
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/24 04:41 PM

Nothing wrong with it but you have to say it like you really mean it in a non creepy way (which most men imo can’t do). Instead, maybe focus on once aspect of their appearance that you genuinely believe they put in work for (maybe their hair, makeup, etc). At worst, you’ll get amused indifference from the comment but they tend to appreciate it more times than not
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/24 04:36 PM

More or less, just being honest about what they’re looking for. I don’t think looks is everything but it feels like there is a decent subset of women that are committed to the narrative that looks mean absolutely nothing. I can understand the skepticism with this answer though, I’ve seen how a lot of the red/black pillers here doubt any answer for what women here like if it doesn’t include 6+ft sex gods. Even if they did only like those particular men, I don’t think there’s much you can do for h…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/24 04:28 PM

I never put any thought into how voice affected my attraction to someone until some of the women in here started discussing how voice affected them. Now that I think about it, very squeaky Michel’le style voices have always given me instant irritation (like the same feeling others get when they’re near someone chewing with their mouth open). I feel bad about it but I haven’t ever told anyone that that was a reason for me not seeing them again so I figure I don’t have to feel too bad
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/24 05:53 PM

Thats what I thought, thanks for the response. I think Kickball, Bowling, and Softball were the recommendations someone gave to me for low effort casual leagues
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/24 06:45 PM

The anecdote was for both genders, I just referred to the incels since that seems to be the main demo in this sub. I was referring to the average person, people in the hollywood world aren’t really relevant in this discussion imo
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/24 06:44 PM

Unironically my philosophy with interactions like that. I don’t mind flirting back with someone but I’d rather be overly respectful than overly aggressive. The possibility of making someone’s day worse or making an innocent woman feel pressured is enough to make me err on the side of caution
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/24 06:42 PM

I thought about joining a bowling league but I’m shit. Did you join to become a more competitive bowler or was it to just chat with new people?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/24 06:31 PM

Anecdotal but, from what I’ve seen, yes. I know the generic incel nightmare is a chad coming in and swooping the girl off their feet but a lot of those cheaters just want discreet sex (even if they think the sex partner in question isn’t that attractive). Scary stuff
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/24 06:30 PM

I do have familiarity with how the southern baptist crowd (a lot of my extended family) put a lot of emphasis on presentability. Thanks for explaining how it goes for you, super interesting to learn about. Edit: I also lol’ed about what you said about Texas being more liberal (at least compared to other southern states). I have said the same thing to my midwestern friends and they straight up couldn’t comprehend how I could think that
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/24 09:13 PM

No shame in that, genuinely think this is a good philosophy to have. On a sidenote, I’ve lived in various parts of the south throughout my life and currenty live in Texas. Is being southern really part of the reason that you like heels so much? Don’t think I ever heard that justification before
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/24 08:14 PM

Fair enough. I relate to your bf, heel boots can be sexy af
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/24 08:12 PM

What made you feel bad about it specifically? Did you not feel feminine or was it due to the perception of others (in your opinion)? That’s a lot of people to cut off height wise but I can’t ever be that mad about someone setting up their own physical standard. Let’s pray you and your man stay together forever 🤞🏾
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/24 07:42 PM

I think thats an admirable outlook to have on it. I do think the intersection of dudes that like to discuss the things you like, aren’t too egotistical so to speak (anecdotal but the dudes i know irl who choose to discuss general philosophical topics tend to be full of themselves), and give a shit about their health is kind of thin. I’m sure you’ll find what you’re looking for one day, good luck 👍🏾
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/24 07:39 PM

That sounds reasonable. I can appreciate bigger height differences but it always looks uncomfortable when the gap is more than like 6 inches. Hugs, kisses, and sex kinda becomes awkward at a point
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/24 07:32 PM

I appreciate the in depth answer, I don’t think those are unrealistic standards. It sounds like you prefer someone bigger but it isn’t an absolute requirement for fulfillment in a happy relationship for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/24 07:29 PM

I don’t doubt that, I’m not trying to imply the all woman need someone who is taller in 6 inch heels or whatever. If anything, I think the general height tier list for women, from what I see, is 0) Taller than you in heels (for some women who are really attached to the height difference) 1) Taller than you 2) Same height 3) Shorter
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/24 07:25 PM

Not doubting that but, respectfully, that doesn’t really answer my question. What are your feelings personally?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/24 07:17 PM

I can see a couple issues with that. If the man were to suggest doing that, than a non-insignificant portion of his dates will think that he is mad insecure. If the woman were to suggest that, then the man would feel less attractive because he knows that the woman has an ideal height she’s aiming for that he doesn’t necessarily meet without enhancements. I guess that would be a greater conversation on why the woman in question is so insistent on fitting this particular standard
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/24 07:15 PM

Q4W: How much does your ability to wear heels and still be shorter matter in choosing a partner? I’m sure a lot of men are insecure if they are shorter than their partner in heels but I never really minded (Fucking love LBD + heels on a date night for example). I can’t tell if this is manosphere algorithms pushing the heightism-pill again or if a big portion of available women genuinely take this into account.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/24 07:04 PM

Get a passable femboy and close your eyes
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/24 06:46 PM

I’m still baffled that breeding is a fetish when its more or less just the basic conclusion for hetero sex without protection. People have been doing this for thousands of years without it turning into a fetish
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/24 06:43 PM

In general, I try to be understanding since people typically don’t learn a lot about the other gender’s genitals all at once. That being said, the CIA wouldn’t be able to torture OP’s confession out of me
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/24 06:42 PM

Honestly one of my favorite things about becoming a post-college adult was finding an apartment. The shit I had to put up with in college communal living was annoying
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/24 06:30 PM

That sounds like a good plan of attack for this type of behavior. I don’t want society to throw their hands up at nuances like this but it is bleak to talk to the average person and hear their thoughts on people with behavioral issues.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/24 05:46 PM

What treatment options were discussed? Feels like the only 2 options I hear are leave them alone and let them ruin their (and others’) lives until a severe negative repercussion occurs (such as jail or homelessness) or restrain them into a modern day asylum until they are “cured” so to speak.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/24 05:35 PM

I hope so. I feel like I’m getting more attractive and I finally figured out how to enjoy some aspects of looksmaxxing (like skincare and working out) for myself. The fact that women I don’t know are willing to compliment me on these things is a pretty big boost to my self esteem but I’m trying to not focus too much on external validation
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/24 05:13 PM

It is shocking how many people can’t come to that conclusion on their own. Kudos to you for making her aware of the changes she can make but its disappointing to think that someone would continue to live a life that clearly is working against them
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/24 04:43 PM

Had multiple, unrelated women say they were jealous of my skin recently. Either I’m so ugly that I’m finally getting pity comments or my skincare routine finally got me glass skin. Either way, I’ll take it 🤷🏾‍♂️
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/24 04:23 PM

Lol, there are a lot of places that are pretty shit for women and I thought it was common consensus that India was one of those places (at least from the women and other travelers that I know)
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/24 04:22 PM

I do think that your situation makes it less scary fwiw. I can see a free/discounted msw being worth it but the salary scaling (and lack thereof) would scare me off personally (kind of the same reason I decided against becoming a teacher). Then again, its about what you want and you deciding how you want the rest of your professional career to play out. Its not impossible to be successful post MSW, just much harder for the first few years of graduation. Also helps if the programs you are looking…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/24 02:38 PM

Currently seeing someone who has an MSW. I know them well enough to say that the degree isn’t worth it unless its something you have intense passion in. If you’re really good at networking and can have a position lined up post graduation then you’ll be ok. Otherwise, you will have to accept that you’ll be making less than most advanced degree holders for a long time and that you will be expected to deal with stressful jobs that a good chunk of the population have no interest in personally helpin…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/24 02:26 PM

I downloaded Prizepicks and I’m pretty sure March Madness is about to annihilate my balance
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/24 09:18 PM

I feel like this statement could extend to most internet forums tbh.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/24 09:16 PM

Eh, feels weird to actually be commenting here after lurking here for so long. Q4A: Any plans for the weekend?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/24 09:10 PM
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