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| – | Do women really sleep with the “hot guys” first and marry the average ones later?You see those types of couples every now and then, but generally it doesn’t happen because these people don’t run into each other | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/01/26 01:45 AM |
| 5 | Q4M: On the Shannon Sharpe & Karli Zuniga scandal - what did he do wrong in your eyes?You and I both know that the context is about a public figure/celebrity asking that of a sexual partner | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/04/25 09:23 PM |
| 2 | Q4M: On the Shannon Sharpe & Karli Zuniga scandal - what did he do wrong in your eyes?Do you routinely ask questions in bad faith? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/04/25 08:52 PM |
| 9 | Q4M: On the Shannon Sharpe & Karli Zuniga scandal - what did he do wrong in your eyes?True, but someone who refuses to sign an NDA gives you an indication that you shouldn’t mess with them… if the overwhelming age gap wasn’t enough somehow | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/04/25 06:39 PM |
| 2 | CMV: The Ant Edward’s Saga clearly demonstrates a flawed system that enables objectively poor decision making.This is unfortunately a common trend with athletes. A lot of them will spend a good part of their formative years training for the chance of becoming a pro, when their peers are developing interpersonal relationships and skills with people around them. And then when they are pro, various adults view them as a commodity to profit from, whether it’s their own relatives, agents, financial advisers, trainers or women who want to get pregnant at any cost. So to answer your question, the system is fla… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/04/25 01:34 AM |
| 2 | CMV: The Ant Edward’s Saga clearly demonstrates a flawed system that enables objectively poor decision making.Isn’t he a 23 year old man, and the mother to be a 38 year old woman? Adding to that wasn’t she reportedly trying to file her child support claim in California? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/04/25 01:19 AM |
| 9 | Men who were clear and consistent about not wanting kids are no morally different than sperm donors to me.Not only that, she asked him to nut insider her, which he then did. Legally he is a willing participant and on the hook for any consequences | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/04/25 11:23 AM |
| 2 | Why don't men just hang out with each other more to solve the "male loneliness epidemic"?I find that weird considering that making connections online has become so easy. Some of these connections might lead to offline friendships too | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/01/25 07:42 AM |
| 1 | "The bar is in hell" and other such sayings...Someone being honest and signaling that you shouldn’t deal with them isn’t a cause for concern. It’s a good thing when they go on and make these kinds of statements | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/01/25 11:07 PM |
| 1 | The empathy gap is real: A photo of an enslaved woman in Libya rocks RedditWhy do I hear ra ra rasputin? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/01/25 10:01 AM |
| – | Why do men crave romantic interest so much?The way men are socialised is pushing them towards seeing a wife as their sole or main social need. This is why men above a certain age without a relationship are seen as social failures and rejects. Another way of seeing this is how male friendships wither when one man gets a relationship, whether it’s due to having less time, relating a lot less with each other or simply having a partner who doesn’t approve of some friends (more common than you think) The disappearance of male only places make… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/12/24 07:21 PM |
| 1 | CMV: it's wrong to track how often your wife denies you sexIt’s a bit excessive. If there’s something from the relationship that you’re not getting, make it known. If your partner then makes it known that they don’t care about you feeling unloved or isn’t interested in trying to find a compromise, you now have the easiest solution which is ending the relationship. Tracking this data is just a way to say that you want something but don’t have the guts to go after something. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/12/24 07:00 PM |
| 3 | Many women want to be liberated feminists and trad conservatives at the same timeBeing inconsistent like that is actually very human | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/12/24 06:46 PM |
| 5 | Do we have gender flipped passport brosThere's plenty of people, male or otherwise, who travel and end up falling in love or travel for love specifically. The only difference is that they never felt the need to explain themselves or label themselves. For instance, one of my childhood friends learned Spanish and has since fallen in love with the cultures of various South American countries. Over the years she's built up an entire new life in Brasil and now lives there with her partner | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/08/24 08:24 PM |
| 3 | Do we have gender flipped passport brosStill likely a green card affair, it's fairly easy to find out who comes from a western country | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/08/24 08:12 PM |
| – | Men, who would you rather marry?Whoever can strangle me first so I can avoid reading these questions | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/05/24 04:26 PM |
| 1 | "Giving up on modern ........."Very good points, I think a lot would change if guys would do that | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/04/24 12:11 PM |
| 2 | "Giving up on modern ........."Part of it is the nature of online discourse, but generally speaking all of the well-adjusted people that are single don't often run into a well-adjusted person from the opposite gender. This becomes worse online. I genuinely believe that either way, you'll have better outcomes meeting people offline | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/04/24 04:08 PM |
| 6 | "Giving up on modern ........."In general, I think men are in a worse place in terms of having to conform to gender stereotypes or be rejected preemptively. The other side of the equation is how vicious men are towards other men who very clearly don't fall in line. Things would be much better if men were kinder towards each other. On a social level, this might even have the benefit of having more socially adjusted guys out there, which for some guys would have a net benefit on romantic relationships and non romantic ones Wome… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/04/24 04:03 PM |
| 1 | If you are a man who doesn’t have long term goals or passionate about something, you can’t expect women to be attracted to you.Unfortunately, many parents are as glued to screens as their kids are | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/03/22 01:53 PM |
| 1 | I feel that many modern women are very rude/unpleasant. What could cause this?Not to be dick or anything, but wanting others to respond positively to your kindness is a sign of insecurity. Regardless of whether you're a woman or not, people will always be rude for whatever reason. If you want to be kind to others because that's part of your values or desires, it's best to just ignore or kill them with kindness. Try not being so affected by other people being rude, it's got nothing to do with you. It's something that reflects poorly on them. You can't control how people ch… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/03/22 01:06 PM |
| 1 | If you are a man who doesn’t have long term goals or passionate about something, you can’t expect women to be attracted to you.there's probably more people, like shut ins and addicted to some type of media or internet or game than ever before. Modern society does make it easy, but there's a variety of reasons as to why someone decides to retreat into media and internet. One of the biggest is people's upbringing. telling someone ''you shouldn't do that'' will not change anything. Yes, that is obvious. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/03/22 12:47 PM |
| 1 | If you are a man who doesn’t have long term goals or passionate about something, you can’t expect women to be attracted to you.ITT: People arguing about whether their hobbies are superior to other people's hobbies | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/03/22 12:37 PM |
| 5 | If you are a man who doesn’t have long term goals or passionate about something, you can’t expect women to be attracted to you.If they are a pitfall of sedation, it just means that you shouldn't devote your entire life to it | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/03/22 12:21 PM |
| 1 | The truth hurtsHold up, what did nick Cannon say? Is he with a bunch of older women as well? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/01/22 10:00 PM |
| 3 | What's the equilibrium point on male sexlessness?Maybe radicalisation (as if that's not happening on multiple fronts already) or an increase in apathy. But I highly doubt that this is going to lead into some "oh no no, the sexless males are rallying behind the next dictator with eugenics fantasies". Primarily because women are still able to find some guy in his 30s/late 20s they can settle down with after having had all the excitement they wanted to find in their 20s. Let me also state that some of these mgtow types are also the first to bend … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/01/22 09:33 PM |
| 1 | What do you think we should we as a society do with the problem of rising loneliness to not end up like Japan?Zaun will rise | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/12/21 07:21 PM |
| 2 | What do you think we should we as a society do with the problem of rising loneliness to not end up like Japan?Thank you very much for sharing this with me. I was aware of how violent chimpanzee society can be, but the parts about Bonobo's are very surprising to me. Very nice that they put these two together so that we could see a contrast. Given that we're also close to Bonobo's, I think we should have the potential to create similar societies to theirs. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/12/21 06:18 PM |
| 1 | What do you think we should we as a society do with the problem of rising loneliness to not end up like Japan?Like I said, in many ways it hurts their bottom line | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/12/21 06:10 PM |
| 1 | What do you think we should we as a society do with the problem of rising loneliness to not end up like Japan?I'm guessing this will create a lot of situations like the movie Her | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/12/21 06:09 PM |
| 1 | What do you think we should we as a society do with the problem of rising loneliness to not end up like Japan?Do you happen to be a fan of Arcane? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/12/21 06:08 PM |
| 1 | What do you think we should we as a society do with the problem of rising loneliness to not end up like Japan?I'm the worst :( | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/12/21 10:59 PM |
| 1 | What do you think we should we as a society do with the problem of rising loneliness to not end up like Japan?I don't know, that's why I asked you lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/12/21 10:58 PM |
| 1 | What do you think we should we as a society do with the problem of rising loneliness to not end up like Japan?We couldn't look at matriarchal societies and study how they work? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/12/21 07:30 PM |
| 2 | What do you think we should we as a society do with the problem of rising loneliness to not end up like Japan?Consent needs to be recorded in real time on video tape, otherwise you just have that person's consent in that point of the interaction and they may have retracted it later. The lawyer then says that no consent was given for the recording and then continues to build an entire blackmail narrative | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/12/21 07:26 PM |
| 1 | What do you think we should we as a society do with the problem of rising loneliness to not end up like Japan?Fair | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/12/21 07:24 PM |
| 1 | What do you think we should we as a society do with the problem of rising loneliness to not end up like Japan?This reminds me of a Twitter thread where the same was suggested. Then black women went and spoke about how the slavery Era wasn't entirely a male endeavor | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/12/21 07:20 PM |
| 1 | What do you think we should we as a society do with the problem of rising loneliness to not end up like Japan?Yeah I see what you're getting at. It will be too late for them | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/12/21 07:15 PM |
| 4 | What do you think we should we as a society do with the problem of rising loneliness to not end up like Japan?My bad, I just misunderstood you Compulsive heterosexuality means people who already aren’t straight are only straight bc of socialization. I think making it acceptable for people who aren't straight to be more open in their own sexuality is a good thing and it seems society is heading that way. I just don't know if that means a major shift for men, because there's a lot of differenced on the kinsey scale | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/12/21 07:11 PM |
| 10 | What do you think we should we as a society do with the problem of rising loneliness to not end up like Japan?The biggest obstacle to this is men like TRP who want to drag us back to patriarchy and religious fundamentalists. They're delaying things a lot. I think that you'd have the status quo even without them. Do you really think that low status men on the internet are the only ones who uphold patriarchy? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/12/21 06:58 PM |
| 12 | What do you think we should we as a society do with the problem of rising loneliness to not end up like Japan?Encourage men to live a life not entirely motivated by women’s attention. This is probably the most healthiest way to solve this, if only male desire wasn't so profitable. Fund education, activities, and programs that get young men outside and motivated to find happiness and accomplishment through art, sports, science, whatever might interest them outside of dating and relationships. Social programs that focus on men? Now that's a thing I think won't happen. Democrats wouldn't want to hurt their… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/12/21 06:54 PM |
| 4 | What do you think we should we as a society do with the problem of rising loneliness to not end up like Japan?It will probably lead to eugenics to be honest | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/12/21 06:48 PM |
| 1 | What do you think we should we as a society do with the problem of rising loneliness to not end up like Japan?Would be a shame if someone tinkered with it | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/12/21 06:48 PM |
| 3 | What do you think we should we as a society do with the problem of rising loneliness to not end up like Japan?It's a problem that will correct itself due to war or a big number of people passing away | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/12/21 06:47 PM |
| 2 | What do you think we should we as a society do with the problem of rising loneliness to not end up like Japan?Just open a consent form business and get it over with | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/12/21 06:47 PM |
| 2 | What do you think we should we as a society do with the problem of rising loneliness to not end up like Japan?I like how this implies that women aren't capable of the worst as much as men are. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/12/21 06:46 PM |
| 2 | What do you think we should we as a society do with the problem of rising loneliness to not end up like Japan?I think men should look for wives from other countries and cultures to be honest, where women still have a more traditional outlook on life and marriage. I get what you're trying to say but I'm willing to argue that the type of woman who would be into that is the type that wants to escape her culture to begin with, so you'll get more than you bargained for. On that same note those same dudes who try to get relationships that way, a bunch of them do get taken advantage of in some way. I don't und… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/12/21 06:43 PM |
| 3 | What do you think we should we as a society do with the problem of rising loneliness to not end up like Japan?Has the throw em in a meat grinder solution worked for the generations of men that led to this phenomenon? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/12/21 06:37 PM |
| 1 | What do you think we should we as a society do with the problem of rising loneliness to not end up like Japan?Aren't the youngest millenials almost thirty? I'm guessing they'll need it more than you think | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/12/21 06:34 PM |
| 7 | What do you think we should we as a society do with the problem of rising loneliness to not end up like Japan?Are you seriously going to suggest people should somehow change their sexuality? Kinda weird | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/12/21 06:30 PM |
| 4 | What do you think we should we as a society do with the problem of rising loneliness to not end up like Japan?Wouldn't this end up with dudes forming militias that will turn their back on the government or something like that? I'm not sure why you'd want to put weapons in the hands of disenfranchised men | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/12/21 06:29 PM |
| 3 | What do you think we should we as a society do with the problem of rising loneliness to not end up like Japan?If there were roughly equal numbers of males and females looking to meet someone, there could be a social program for matchmaking or dating or something along those lines. I don't know any matchmakers but I highly doubt this won't end up any different than online dating | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/12/21 06:23 PM |
| 1 | What do you think we should we as a society do with the problem of rising loneliness to not end up like Japan?This doesn't even touch on why women are opting out of marriage either, but there is a perception that marriage restricts freedom there for both men and women. I would argue that partly due to the internet, this sentiment is growing in the western world as well | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/12/21 06:19 PM |
| 19 | What do you think we should we as a society do with the problem of rising loneliness to not end up like Japan?I keep hearing about sexbots as a solution but I'm very skeptical in regards to this | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/12/21 06:16 PM |
| 9 | What do you think we should we as a society do with the problem of rising loneliness to not end up like Japan?Men aren't viewed as in need of protection, therefore anything that happens to men is just something men need to figure out themselves | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/12/21 06:14 PM |
| 1 | WGTOW - why do some men resent this?I've always been a bit apprehensive about church folks and their views on marriage. Lacks a lot of nuance imo. The old biddies go out of their way to say "She never married" dripping with gleeful pity, but the old maids will always be accused of trying to chase men even when they don't do anything but sit there looking at the floor. That's because for some reason, people think it's perfectly fine to go after the outsider but not the person they should actually call out, their partner. At least I… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/12/21 05:45 PM |
| 1 | WGTOW - why do some men resent this?That's sad, writing someone off based on something like that | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/12/21 05:33 PM |
| 1 | WGTOW - why do some men resent this?It's like a man that is getting plenty of dates but he doesn't like that the only women who date him are fat. A lot of people oftentimes don't really understand who they attract and why If you want a different outcome, you're going to have to do some self-reflection and then some work. Exactly. There's only one common denominator after all. Attractive people are not going to just fall on your lap. Especially when you're very average or in a highly competitive environment | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/12/21 05:32 PM |
| 1 | WGTOW - why do some men resent this?Yeah I do hear that Korean gender discourse is vastly different from here in the west | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/12/21 02:01 AM |
| 4 | WGTOW - why do some men resent this?Given how competitive Korean culture seems to be, this is a recipe for disaster. They are setting the future generation up for failure | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/12/21 02:00 AM |
| -1 | WGTOW - why do some men resent this?But like, my comment is about guys who have resentment towards wgtow feeling hurt on a personal level. I don't mean to he rude, but I don't see how your comments are related to this. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/12/21 01:57 AM |
| 1 | WGTOW - why do some men resent this?What are you even talking about? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/12/21 01:33 AM |
| 1 | WGTOW - why do some men resent this?So basically, the lack of success they have depends on how many of their demands and needs have been met | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/12/21 01:31 AM |
| 1 | WGTOW - why do some men resent this?It's not so much the taking care of parents, it's the loneliness. Many cultures outside of western ones still do this, but generally in the past you used to have the grandparents live in with their son or daughter. The grandparents getting to see their grandchildren, the parents having people who can help with the children sometimes, etc. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/12/21 01:25 AM |
| 5 | WGTOW - why do some men resent this?That's quite odd. Families getting certain rights makes sense, as Korea notoriously has a dwindling population and in general it makes sense to support people who are building families cause they're the ones raising the next tax payers, brilliant citizens and all that | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/12/21 01:13 AM |
| 1 | WGTOW - why do some men resent this?If you put it like that, it's quite sad | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/12/21 01:06 AM |
| 4 | WGTOW - why do some men resent this?I see your point, but are they like that with some wgtow woman who they aren't related to? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/12/21 12:56 AM |
| 4 | WGTOW - why do some men resent this?They HATE men because they cannot HAVE men. The women on there are probably unattractive, socially awkward, lacking social intelligence, etc etc all leading to their lack of success with life & dating. It baffles me how in this day and age women could have a lack of success dating, unless you mean bad dates/relationships | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/12/21 12:44 AM |
| -1 | WGTOW - why do some men resent this?Just don't ask for my tax dollars to do it, like the women in Korea are. Wait what? Are you for real? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/12/21 12:27 AM |
| 10 | WGTOW - why do some men resent this?I don't particularly care. It's a bit weird to be so interested in the lives of complete strangers. And chances are I'd never really encounter a WGTOW anyway, because it's not something you write on your forehead as you go about your own life. If I were to give an educated guess, it is because WGTOW comes across as a statement about how a woman feels about men in general, which in some dudes will cause some hurt on a personal level. Thinking about the internet though, there's very likely a diffe… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/12/21 12:17 AM |
| 23 | WGTOW - why do some men resent this?The resentment some men have is akin to the resentment some women have when they see attractive men date much younger women. They see potential sex/relationships with those individuals. To then see a non-trivial number of those potential options disappear can be disappointing. This makes a lot of sense. The resentment some dudes seem to have does come across as a very personal hurt | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/12/21 12:10 AM |
| 2 | WGTOW - why do some men resent this?Kinda feels bad for my mother | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/12/21 12:07 AM |
| 2 | Why is this sh*t so addictive?It's free real estate! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/02/20 10:08 AM |
| 1 | Why is this sh*t so addictive?Thanks, I needed a good laugh. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/02/20 10:06 AM |
| 1 | Men do not want to LTR nice, chill, low maintenance girls.But they like tell me stories and send me screenshots of text messages. So my barometer isn’t too far off. Anything, or just a curated version? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/02/20 10:37 PM |
| 13 | Men do not want to LTR nice, chill, low maintenance girls.Isn't it because being nice and sweet is kind of supposed to be the bare minimum? I can't see any guy with properly enforced boundaries thinking that someone who is horrible and mean to them is the person they want to start an LTR with. Most friends I have asked what they saw in the girls they were dating, would usually say something that can be boiled down to "she's nice and sweet +...". What I'm trying to say is, that guys also to be into you and not get bored beyond you just being nice and sw… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/02/20 10:30 PM |
| 2 | Men do not want to LTR nice, chill, low maintenance girls.I slightly disagree, but only because it's not always clear what aspect of the parent the kids have taken on. On top of that, there's people who grow up being the exact opposite of their parents. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/02/20 10:23 PM |
| 8 | Men do not need or want to control women.A lot of backseat drivers. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/11/19 09:23 AM |
| 3 | What are the less subtle 'alpha' male traits?It becomes obvious once you understand the group's dynamics. Sometimes it will be that one quiet guy, other times it's the loudmouth who gets himself into fights, sometimes it's the group mascot. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/10/19 01:40 PM |
| 1 | Men need to stop seeking validation through sex.But I am LOL at the dudes who can’t shut up about how awful, gross and mentally ill women with high n counts are but when someone suggests men who sleep around are no different, they lose their shit and start demanding “studies.” Again, I think you have the wrong comment. You see, I only come to this sub to see how out of touch with reality people are. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/09/19 06:15 AM |
| 1 | Men need to stop seeking validation through sex.So we're going by anecdotes? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/09/19 01:48 AM |
| 2 | Men need to stop seeking validation through sex.Disconnected from reality aren't we? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/09/19 12:11 AM |
| 1 | Men need to stop seeking validation through sex.Could you share some reputable studies which support the claim? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/09/19 11:55 PM |
| 4 | Redpill is beneficial to absolutely NO woman todayThis post reads like it was written by a dude trying to get a raise out of people. If you are a dude, kudos for the effort you put into writing that. If not, this would be one of the most awkward "lmao, femcel" posts I've seen on this sub. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/09/19 09:31 PM |
| 1 | Redpill is beneficial to absolutely NO woman todayThat still means that she's not attractive herself | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/09/19 09:25 PM |
| 2 | Redpill is beneficial to absolutely NO woman todayThe more I encounter these types on reddit, the more I believe you can't teach being an attractive person. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/09/19 09:23 PM |
| 1 | Redpill is beneficial to absolutely NO woman todayBecause only morons on the internet are stupid enough to think that them being short is holding them back from finding a girl who likes them as much as they like her. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/09/19 09:21 PM |
| 1 | Maybe some men just weren't meant for hookup cultureI'm just answering a question. You're calling guys stupid and I'm saying it also has to do with women leading the guy on, lying and having him believing that she's not ready for sex yet instead of just telling him to fuck off I know. I was saying that in general. I'm calling guys stupid because they commit to someone leading them on. They didn't see the signs. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/09/19 05:07 PM |
| 1 | Maybe some men just weren't meant for hookup cultureThat's what guys hear when they wait for women to put out. Because most guys know that if you are the right guy, the whole "I want to trust you more" talk is very unlikely to be given to you. Not to be a dick, but either the sexual tension is there or it isn't. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/09/19 04:47 PM |
| 0 | Maybe some men just weren't meant for hookup cultureBut that's just them being stupid. Why invest in someone who doesn't put out? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/09/19 10:01 AM |
| 5 | Maybe some men just weren't meant for hookup cultureAll the more a reason to not put much stock into what she says. It just sounds like "I got mine, so". | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/09/19 09:57 AM |
| 2 | Currently 41% of working women are single. Cnn reports by 2030 this number will rise to 45%. Do you think this trend will keep moving forward?Maybe it will, maybe it won't. Pointless to worry about the x amount of women being single. Find you a nice girl before you hit 30, that's all. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/09/19 09:49 AM |
| 2 | Currently 41% of working women are single. Cnn reports by 2030 this number will rise to 45%. Do you think this trend will keep moving forward?Then again, if wages continue to drop wrt the inflating dollar, work days will rise, who’ll have time to date? Those with enough money to somehow have time . Or those who control how their time is spent. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/09/19 09:42 AM |
| 14 | Currently 41% of working women are single. Cnn reports by 2030 this number will rise to 45%. Do you think this trend will keep moving forward?Question is are those relationships great? Or those the type where they're together because they don't want to be alone? Not to mention, dead bedrooms and all that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/09/19 09:40 AM |
| 1 | Dave Chappelle's comment about abortion and abandonment in his Netflix stand-up special is a watershed moment for recognition of society's hypocrisy in how it addresses the consequences of men's and women's sexual expression.Ah I see. Thank you | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/08/19 10:31 AM |
| 1 | Dave Chappelle's comment about abortion and abandonment in his Netflix stand-up special is a watershed moment for recognition of society's hypocrisy in how it addresses the consequences of men's and women's sexual expression.LPS? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/08/19 08:35 AM |
| 2 | Dave Chappelle's comment about abortion and abandonment in his Netflix stand-up special is a watershed moment for recognition of society's hypocrisy in how it addresses the consequences of men's and women's sexual expression.Guys can opt out of being a dad anytime they want. By becoming a fugitive so he doesn't risk jail time for not paying up. If I knock up a woman I'm likewise financially responsible. That's just life -- deal with it. You know full well that anti-abortion folks come with that same angle when it comes down to women. So what is it going to be, rules for thee not for me? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/08/19 08:25 AM |
| 3 | Are all sex-specific subreddits toxic?I do think that the sub goes far to protect women's feelings. Still, /r/AskMen has more meaningfull discussion than /r/AskWomen. /r/MensLib is just a bunch of dudes singing kumbaya around a campfire | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/07/19 07:18 PM |
| 5 | She's at that ageSerious question: where did you learn all of this? I'm rather surprised to hear someone is making a profit over their bitcoins and it not being just because they were first adopters. | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 05/06/19 11:17 PM |
| 3 | Should a man tell his gf that he struggles with depression?In all honesty, you should tell. It's important to tell your loved ones when you're dealing with something. I do have to add though: the number of men on r/askMen who have made the observation that women lost their attraction to them as soon they opened up emotionally is not exactly small. Of course r/purplepilldebate will waive this away as a bunch of incels that were looking for a mom and failed to realise that a healthy relationship needs two adults, but I digress. Regardless of the outcome, … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/05/19 02:01 AM |
| 2 | CMV: Nobody is missing out when career women do not become mothersWhat I don't understand is why TRP cares enough to mock women who struggle balancing their career and relationships. It's like dunking over a midget. Who cares? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/09/18 03:03 PM |
| 1 | CMV: Nobody is missing out when career women do not become mothersIsn't a good part of TRPs tradcon? I doubt they care much for you calling them out. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/09/18 02:57 PM |
| 1 | Why do so many men still follow the red pill philosophy when there are so many women against that kind of thinking?I don’t know which guys you are talking about, but the ones I’m referring to definitely have prominent bone structures and masculine features. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/09/18 03:19 AM |
| 2 | MILFs should be 40s and 50s, so why are women only 30 or 35 considered that now?Nah, all I’m saying is that it is not that deep and that not every other guy out there has the same tastes as you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/09/18 03:16 AM |
| 1 | MILFs should be 40s and 50s, so why are women only 30 or 35 considered that now?Validation | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/09/18 02:31 AM |
| 2 | MILFs should be 40s and 50s, so why are women only 30 or 35 considered that now?And why would other guys agree with your tastes? Beauty is in the eye of the beholder and yours sure as hell ain’t mine. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/09/18 02:28 AM |
| 1 | Why do so many men still follow the red pill philosophy when there are so many women against that kind of thinking?Also, actually good looking guys (male models, 10% that most women INITIALLY want) are often feminist or leftist and sadly many short guys (very short) are these sort of various anti-feminist. They often don't know that they are 10%. Most of the guys I’ve known to fit this, are neither feminists nor leftist. Matter of fact some think it’s a sport to pick up bleeding heart types of girls. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/09/18 02:09 AM |
| 4 | Women should not be afraid of RP game, they should be afraid of "beta game".So basically, what a lot of dudes do? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/06/18 09:11 PM |
| 2 | What are behaviors that we accept in men but not in women?I've been told to cheer up often. And bouncers sure love the permanent scowl I have. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/03/18 02:33 AM |
| 1 | What are behaviors that we accept in men but not in women?You're conflating two different emotional responses: getting teary vs display of anger. Women's tears, especially if white and UMC, are very powerful. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/03/18 02:27 AM |
| 1 | What are behaviors that we accept in men but not in women?I'm told to cheer up often. And bouncers think I want to start trouble. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/03/18 02:24 AM |
| 1 | How malleable is personality?This sounds like nature vs nurture. I'd argue that we have a blueprint that has specific personality traits, but upbringing, environment and experience determine how these traits come to surface. For example as a kid I was very outgoing and turbulent, but growing up my personality did a 180. Our family doctor once casually told me that he noticed that I could sit quietly like a normal person whereas younger me couldn't sit still, effectively telling me that the difference was like night and day. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/03/18 02:09 AM |
| 5 | CMV: There is no "non-objectifying", "feminist-friendly" way of getting laid.A good part of this sub could use this advice. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/03/18 01:46 AM |
| 2 | A new perspective on dating Beta nerdsChalk it down to poor social skills. A lot of intelligent people fail at displaying their intelligence in a way that isn't adversarial. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/03/18 11:17 AM |
| 1 | Would a marriage where a woman is ten years younger work out better than two people of the same age?Yes, going by the prevalence of those type of couples I'd say it's better. For men, at least. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/02/18 12:39 AM |
| 3 | The SMP is fucked up because of menThe reality is that most people are fine. Only a very few people are truly undatable because sooner or later most people settle down. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/02/18 12:15 AM |
| 11 | Your experiences with men/women are what causes your opinion of them, but your opinions aren’t true for all members of the opposite genderWell yeah? I mean, it being an opinion aside, it sounds like common sense. But people who buy too much into it tend to give the dumbest kneejerk reactions. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/02/18 10:30 PM |
| 1 | Do young women keep their hair long for themselves or for Chad?Well what doesn't help, is that over here there's this widespread phenomenon of straight women getting bad haircuts as soon as they hit the age of 30 or have their first kid. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/02/18 10:28 PM |
| 1 | Do young women keep their hair long for themselves or for Chad?Both, actually. This mainly come down to long hair being universally considered attractive and beautiful. A friend of mine used to tell me that women who can't grow their hair long often get the short end of the stick. She made it sound like they're suffering. As a man, I don't really relate that well to it but I can see it. Over here there's this stereotype of white women getting a very unattractive short haircut as soon as they hit the age of 30 or have their first kid. I've seen it happen to … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/02/18 10:16 PM |
| 1 | Do young women keep their hair long for themselves or for Chad?As for lesbians, I think having short hair is often a "signaling" thing, and most straight women with short hair don't have the same kinds of haircuts that lesbians get. Experience has led me to think that very few women know how to make a short haircut look cool, cute or sexy. Unfortunately, those who do tend to be lesbian. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/02/18 10:05 PM |
| 1 | Q4MEN: Men who had successful career mothers, did you also end up marrying successful women?sounds fun, though I can see how that could end up being troublesome at times. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/02/18 09:49 PM |
| 1 | Girls only - does red pill work on you?Personally I think divorce and avoidance of marriage is a societal ill. It is contributing to the demolition of the stable family unit. So yes, I think it is a bad thing. I guess this is where we differ then. I don't see marriage as something that is holy anymore, and yes I do think that the ease of divorce has made things take a bad turn. I also don't think that everyone is made for marriage and that marriage shouldn't be a bucket list goal, so I'm assuming we'll never see eye to eye on this. O… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/01/18 04:39 PM |
| 2 | Girls only - does red pill work on you?You could make arguments that society at large seeks to infantilize women and treat them like children. For instance that whole ordeal with a woman who had a bad date and suddenly thinking it was sexual assault. That this even became such a big story and a topic of discussion only further proves that society has trouble telling women to take personal responsibility where it matters. Loyalty huh. For each TRP dude who says that I could probably find a misandrist who says the same thing about men.… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/01/18 06:39 AM |
| 2 | The Blue Pill is merely an anger phase response to the Red Pill's callBut hey, now you too can become an Alpha if buy this seemingly normal t-shirt! TRP are good at marketing, you gotta admit. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/01/18 03:32 AM |
| 2 | The failure of traditional courtship in the #metoo era proves why prostitution is the best system for sex and intimacy allocationWhich is mostly what I was saying. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/01/18 10:55 PM |
| 1 | How do men avoid the kind of women the redpill talks about?You can't. Most men have to go through a bad woman to understand what they really want in a woman, whether they want an LTR, an FWB or a mini harem. See it as part of growing pains. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/01/18 02:43 PM |
| 0 | The failure of traditional courtship in the #metoo era proves why prostitution is the best system for sex and intimacy allocationAverage guys don't exactly need to be a girl's friend in order to get sex. Just be open with your desire to fuck her. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/01/18 02:34 PM |
| 12 | The failure of traditional courtship in the #metoo era proves why prostitution is the best system for sex and intimacy allocationI get a lot of satisfaction from porn and masturbation, and I also receive companionship, kindness, intimacy, and even sex from prostitutes. Do you really think that a prostitute gives intimacy? I do know that escorts offer lonely men someone to talk to, but does it really beat having a close friendship or even a long term relationship? I really doubt that. In the future we will be ordering girlfriend or boyfriend experience on our smartphones and the transactions will be settled on a decentrali… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/01/18 02:31 PM |
| 1 | This subreddit should have a moderator who is a red-pillerThere is no need to be so toxic. I do think it's odd to call for a mod to step down without any claim or evidence of him/her doing a bad job, but is it really necessary to be this hostile? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/01/18 02:16 PM |
| 1 | If trp is wrong, why are so many people vouching for it?Because many red pill ideas are sort of already prevalent in society. RP just gives it a whole bunch of new speak and whatnot. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/01/18 01:35 PM |
| 3 | I was one of the white women who voted for Trump but I now regret my voteI'm still looking for the punchline of this otherwise amusing post. It would've been nice to include one. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/01/18 11:42 AM |
| 3 | Why do so many extremely high value males marry post-wall women?Not only are these women not that old, they also are some of the most prolific women out there. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/01/18 11:33 AM |
| 2 | Rise in narcissism among womenIsn't this prevalent in pretty much men and women? I think this is one of those things society at large is going through. It's very similar to how the number of people with asshole behaviour has increased. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/01/18 09:50 PM |
| 1 | CMV : Lying about the use of contraception or cumming inside someone who asks that you don't is not a crime in the United States.We fishing. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/01/18 09:42 PM |
| 2 | How widespread is The Red Pill?I fully agree. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/01/18 10:19 PM |
| 2 | How widespread is The Red Pill?Yeah, I got that. Honestly don't even see how someone could construe that as racist. Count yourself fortunate to not having witnessed how far mental gymnastics can go. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/01/18 09:39 PM |
| 1 | Redpillers, how would you change western society if you had the power?war. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/01/18 09:34 PM |
| 1 | Could anybody explain a 'solution' from different strands of the manosphere?Thanks for the link, gave me some insight. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/01/18 09:16 PM |
| 3 | How widespread is The Red Pill?"waaah, how racist!" In all seriousness, yeah. Duh, of course. Source: Am Black. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/01/18 09:08 PM |
| 2 | How widespread is The Red Pill?That's usually the endgame of an ideology. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/01/18 08:51 PM |
| 2 | How widespread is The Red Pill?Infighting between liberals is not unheard of. Especially when progressives are present. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/01/18 08:47 PM |
| 1 | Redpillers: What's your take on the idea of vulnerability as a strength?That's only because the confirmation that a champ is a normal person after all, gives a lot of relief to people out there. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/01/18 08:40 PM |
| 3 | Q4M: Would you date a woman who has seen multiple prostitutes?I'd probably be curious enough to ask why. Seems to me that she could have gone on tinder and gotten laid without paying. But guys and girls look at this differently. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/01/18 08:27 PM |
| 1 | Could anybody explain a 'solution' from different strands of the manosphere?I relate to certain parts. However, I don't see myself as the pushover-type INFP sounds like. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/01/18 10:02 PM |
| 5 | Alpha Widows and Stacie Widowers (mostly the latter)From what I seem to gather, men and women supposedly go through the end of a relationship differently. As long as you see it as a learning moment, it will be fine I think. A friend of mine gave me the best advice for dealing with the end of a relationship. She told me that "the best way to get over somebody, whether romantically or not, is to do the things for yourself that the person used to do for you". For example, if your ex used to tell you to pay attention to certain things in your life, y… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/01/18 09:59 PM |
| 1 | Could anybody explain a 'solution' from different strands of the manosphere?I don't know. I've done the test several times, and I always get INTJ or INFP. So for me, not having a clear type sounds fishy to me. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/01/18 09:44 PM |
| 1 | Could anybody explain a 'solution' from different strands of the manosphere?you want to screw communism? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/01/18 09:29 PM |
| 1 | Could anybody explain a 'solution' from different strands of the manosphere?Isn't the test incredibly inaccurate? Like, pop psychology level? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/01/18 09:27 PM |
| 3 | Could anybody explain a 'solution' from different strands of the manosphere?I don't know r/TRP well, but aren't you as a BP, not really a credible source on those manospherian types? After all, isn't the Blue Pill position one of always opposing Red Pillers and other manospherian groups? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/01/18 09:25 PM |
| 1 | Will the categorization "divorced" eventually go away? And when?This reminds me of stuff George Carlin used to say. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/01/18 02:04 PM |
| 1 | Who has a vested interest in promoting the notion of the blank slate when it comes to gender differences?People who really want change, people who talk in platitudes and people who need their "blank slate" theory to legitimize certain thoughts and rationale. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/01/18 01:03 PM |
| 2 | Q4ALL: Is not telling a woman about your vasectomy similar to dating a sterile woman who never told you about it?As you said, it depends on how serious the relationship is. Marriage aside, kids are a serious dealmaker or dealbraker for people who want or don't want kids. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/01/18 12:58 PM |
| 1 | Q4Men: would you marry/ LTR a woman who doesn’t do her hair, wear makeup, or dress stylishly?I don't mind make up, I mind "excessive" make up. What I mean by that is that if I were to touch a woman's face, I wouldn't want to have to wash my hands afterwards. At the same time, I also want to be able to recognize a woman with or without make up. As for surgery, I'm a bit split on that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/01/18 12:36 PM |
| 2 | Why do women have such a hard time giving a direct no?I think that the situation you described is very close to what she must have gone through. She might have been open to spending the night with him, but his action invited some awkwardness and discomfort that just became a deal breaker. That said I agree 100% with your second paragraph. If she wasn't into it she had ample opportunity to leave, and ultimately what happened to her wasn't that big of a deal and has happened to pretty much every girl who's gone home with a drunk horny dude. Agreed. A… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/01/18 04:55 PM |
| 1 | Feminist hatred for "nice guys", a discussion and the reason the "nice guy" is a jerk is that he stops being friends after being rejectedThe thing is that it will appear that way to a woman. A woman knows very quickly if a guy is just wanting to be friends with her or really wants more. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/01/18 04:16 PM |
| 10 | Feminist hatred for "nice guys", a discussion and the reason the "nice guy" is a jerk is that he stops being friends after being rejectedThere's a vast difference between becoming friends with a girl and sex being a consequence later on, and becoming friends in hopes of fucking her. Even the way you address this reeks of the cost-benefit analysis nice guys use to rationalize their sexual strategy. If you want to become her dickless friend, that's fine. But if you want to fuck her, approach her like someone who wants to fuck her. Trying to get closer by establishing a friendship and hoping it becomes more is just weak shit. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/01/18 04:25 AM |
| 1 | Why do women have such a hard time giving a direct no?Nah, I really think she didn't want to fuck him. At least not right away. Reading her experience makes me think she really wanted a romantic encounter but got something entirely different. Ultimately it was on Aziz to make clear what he wanted, but also on her to firmly say no. (Even if some signs should have stopped him in his tracks). But even then I still find a it ridiculous that a bad date gets so much attention in a period of outing Sexual Assault. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/01/18 04:15 AM |
| 4 | Why do women have such a hard time giving a direct no?Fuck off with that demonization. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/01/18 04:09 AM |
| 1 | 25 % of millennial men think asking someone for a drink is harassment. 33% of millennial men and women say that if a man compliments a woman’s looks it is harassmentYou and your neckbeards should get a room. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/01/18 03:40 AM |
| 1 | 25 % of millennial men think asking someone for a drink is harassment. 33% of millennial men and women say that if a man compliments a woman’s looks it is harassmentI'm still waiting for Terry Crews to get some justice. It's a very interesting case. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/01/18 03:38 AM |
| 1 | What percentage of the opposite sex are objectively inferior to masturbation, in your view? (Long)Guy reporting here. I'd say a range between 40% and 50%. I've experienced dry months, but that never made me want to have sex with a women I had already deemed boring and unattractive to fuck any more than in times where I get laid. This is because a weird thing occurs after we ejaculate: we basically become as asexual as a woman doing her taxes. Previously, a homely woman still seems like a good candidate for fun times, but after, all of that disappears. Happens with masturbation too. A guy is … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/01/18 02:57 AM |
| 3 | Is there any evidence that spermjacking is common? It's something MRAs and TRPers bring up a lot but I haven't seen any evidence to confirm that it is at all widespread.Rather than spermjacking, I think it's more realistic to ask yourself about how often women lie about BC. Happened to a cousin of mine. Now, seven months later, he does love his son. He absolutely cannot stand the mother though, for reasons I can somewhat understand. But if she really did forget, then I'd feel bad for her even though she fucked up. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/01/18 02:47 AM |
| 2 | The Downsides/Dangers of Lack of Sexual or Romantic Experience for WomenI'm sure you have encountered men whose actions, mannerisms and speech patterns are very incel like. Some guys, even when they're not really incels, have similarities that surface in specific situations. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/01/18 08:56 PM |
| 4 | The Downsides/Dangers of Lack of Sexual or Romantic Experience for WomenExactly. I think even Red Pillers will agree that no healthy individuals do this. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/01/18 11:51 AM |
| 5 | The Downsides/Dangers of Lack of Sexual or Romantic Experience for WomenI don't get the virgin fetishism at all. I perfectly understand not wanting to LTR/marry a slut, but why the virgin obsession? Aside from all the insecurities and anxieties they're bound to have around sex, those types of women are gonna be incompatible with the vast majority of terps anyway. I chalk it down to ego and incel-like mentality. In fact, most men I've seen being obsessed with virgins tend to be incel types. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/01/18 11:33 AM |
| 1 | The recent #metoo case (Aziz Ansari) and the reactions to it proves that the average woman can't presume to be safe in the private company of a male.Media blasted him over it, but time over time I see dudes mentioning this rule. So I think a pence unwittingly became the PR for a rule some men in positions of power have been using for decades. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/01/18 11:28 AM |
| 7 | The recent #metoo case (Aziz Ansari) and the reactions to it proves that the average woman can't presume to be safe in the private company of a male.Equating the guys like Aziz with the guys like Weinstein is exactly the problem the metoo movement is creating. Congratulations on becoming a zealot. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/01/18 11:25 AM |
| 2 | Do BPers think overweight young females are average in look?No black European dude I know is interested in fat women. The only times I've seen a black guy with a fat woman is when he himself is fat. Most of my peers think that this is a strictly Afro American stereotype, that Americans other Anglosaxons wrongly ascribe to black dudes as a whole. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/01/18 06:19 AM |
| 1 | Do BPers think overweight young females are average in look?One day I'll get rid of this stereotype that black dudes like fatties. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/01/18 06:13 AM |
| 1 | Let's talk about Aziz.If I took a guess based on your initial comment, I guess some more might reply. Not entirely suprised though. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/01/18 05:30 AM |
| 5 | Let's talk about Aziz.My thoughts on the matter: "As I went down on him, he refused to recognize my non-verbal cues." | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/01/18 05:09 AM |
| 7 | Let's talk about Aziz."As I went down on him, he refused to recognize my non-verbal cues." | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/01/18 05:07 AM |
| 2 | Let's talk about Aziz.Yet she is still out there, trying to slander Aziz. Give me a break with your no true scotsman fallacy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/01/18 05:05 AM |
| 2 | How is the Aziz Ansari story any different from slutshaming?Hollywood going nuclear. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/01/18 05:03 AM |
| 3 | How do you cope with being unattractive?I'm guessing most answers will be self improvement, apathy or seeking fulfilment outside of the romantic aspect of life. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/12/17 01:19 AM |
| 1 | How do you cope with being unattractive?You get a nice personality and pray that will do the trick. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/12/17 01:11 AM |
| 1 | What's the deal with Elon Musk?The problem is that the 6-7 might not bring to the table what he desires, because judging from his relationships he's looking for a woman with a specific look and then some. It's the latter part that's most likely part of his unsuccessful attempts at finding the one. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/12/17 08:48 AM |
| 3 | Q4ALL: Do you view PPD and the pillosphere as an addiction or as something useful in your life?I would also argue that there's probably good sources (such as well-regarded books) out there to improve your flirting and humor, but they are never mentioned. I suppose the effort of reading such books is shunned. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/12/17 08:44 AM |
| 2 | Q4ALL: Do you view PPD and the pillosphere as an addiction or as something useful in your life?Teaching how to tease a woman is just weird. It's something you do (from an early age) without being prompted to or taught by anyone else. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/12/17 07:20 AM |
| 4 | Q4ALL: Do you view PPD and the pillosphere as an addiction or as something useful in your life?"You're fired, and you're fired. You are fired! Everyone is fired!" | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/12/17 07:15 AM |
| 1 | Are sexual assault allegations preventing young men from developing the appropriate assertiveness that women find attractive?Aye , I see where you're coming from. Coffee breaks turn into gossip rounds fast. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/12/17 07:12 AM |
| 1 | Are sexual assault allegations preventing young men from developing the appropriate assertiveness that women find attractive?And all of that because a man dared to ask a woman for drinks. They have way too much time on their hands. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/12/17 07:11 AM |
| 1 | Are sexual assault allegations preventing young men from developing the appropriate assertiveness that women find attractive?That has failed. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/12/17 10:49 PM |
| 1 | Are sexual assault allegations preventing young men from developing the appropriate assertiveness that women find attractive?isn't complimenting on how a person smells prone to be seen as creepy regardless? You set yourself up for failure opening with that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/12/17 10:35 PM |
| 1 | Are sexual assault allegations preventing young men from developing the appropriate assertiveness that women find attractive?obviously, sexualizing interactions It's pretty exciting though. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/12/17 10:34 PM |
| 1 | Are sexual assault allegations preventing young men from developing the appropriate assertiveness that women find attractive?If you're not a creep, it'll be fine I guess? Or just have a conversation with multiple people. No one says you need to sit next to Jennifer and continuously engage in conversation with her, mingle! Worst case let her initiate if you're worried. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/12/17 10:30 PM |
| 1 | Are sexual assault allegations preventing young men from developing the appropriate assertiveness that women find attractive?This. Exactly this. It's already bad enough that you need to spell it out for people. This scenario seems common. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/12/17 10:27 PM |
| 1 | Are sexual assault allegations preventing young men from developing the appropriate assertiveness that women find attractive?Both are fair points. I'm just very curious to see where this is going. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/12/17 10:21 PM |
| 1 | Are sexual assault allegations preventing young men from developing the appropriate assertiveness that women find attractive?Elevator gate? lol wat? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/12/17 10:18 PM |
| 1 | Are sexual assault allegations preventing young men from developing the appropriate assertiveness that women find attractive?You Pence rule? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/12/17 10:11 PM |
| 2 | Are sexual assault allegations preventing young men from developing the appropriate assertiveness that women find attractive?Look, I'm actually pro-porn (love it! Both personally and with my husband), but there are guys who use it as a substitute for actual intimacy. The increasing number of those guys - not to mention the guys who use it as an instruction manual - is concerning. The first question that comes to mind in me is "do men and women even seek the same thing in sex?" Because if they don't, then the girl can desire all the intimacy she wants, but those guys won't care about it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/12/17 10:06 PM |
| 3 | Are sexual assault allegations preventing young men from developing the appropriate assertiveness that women find attractive?Japan isn't the canary in the coal mine. Different culture and norms, for starters. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/12/17 10:02 PM |
| 1 | Are sexual assault allegations preventing young men from developing the appropriate assertiveness that women find attractive?And yet it seems so often is what they push for least the more radical kind. As least on reddit in the feminist subs they actually do advocate for this. I never thought I'd ever say this but internet feminists are a minority. Yes, feminists don't call other feminists out often, but internet feminists have a tendency to say what they say because the internet isn't a microcosm of reality. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/12/17 09:36 PM |
| 2 | What's the deal with Elon Musk?He probably wouldn't wanna keep her around in the first place if she was a 5. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/12/17 09:31 PM |
| 2 | What's the deal with Elon Musk?Why not just look for someone with blonde hair, good looks that does meet his other criteria's? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/12/17 08:16 PM |
| 1 | Are sexual assault allegations preventing young men from developing the appropriate assertiveness that women find attractive?I doubt they will cheer at this. I mean, the Pence-Graham rule was immediately labelled as sexist. Like your article suggests, men avoiding contact with women is the last thing they want. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/12/17 05:54 PM |
| 1 | Who are the real romantics?No. What I meant is that the couple should seek to grow in a way that doesn't stray the relationship. It's very hard to maintain the relationship when one partner is changing. For instance if a husband is working out more and moving up the ladder at his job, then this might create a strain at home because his wife isn't growing with him. EDIT: I misunderstood what you said, my bad. Yes, you're right. They shouldn't grow apart. Instead, they should seek to grow together again. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/12/17 05:43 PM |
| 1 | Who are the real romantics?Very few couples grow together. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/12/17 04:40 PM |
| 1 | Are sexual assault allegations preventing young men from developing the appropriate assertiveness that women find attractive?I've just read the article. Really surprised how much the FUD you mentioned has progressed. Yeah now I see where you're coming from. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/12/17 04:36 PM |
| 1 | Who are the real romantics?r/deadbedrooms is leaking. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/12/17 02:58 PM |
| 1 | Who are the real romantics?20? Aren't you giving a little too much credit there? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/12/17 02:53 PM |
| 0 | Q4ALL: What exactly do you look for in a (1) ONS or a (2) fling/fuckbuddy?In a way, men who want ONS have to manage the interest they inspire so as not to get women too much in love with them. No we don't. Or rather, we're not obliged to. If you're an adult getting into a ONS, you know what you got into. Catching feelings is your own problem, whether you're a guy or a girl. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/12/17 02:40 PM |
| 1 | Are sexual assault allegations preventing young men from developing the appropriate assertiveness that women find attractive?Pence rule....... Yes, the Pence rule is a great way to prevent an accusation of having any affect. Thanks for mentioning it, I think that men should adhere to that rule. t won't but the FUD has already started and its growing. And there's a possibility with all the progress for women in workplace goes away. By that I mean men mentoring women may decrease or that stop at some point. Men may avoid being with women one on one in a room. Etc etc. Has it really? I have yet to hear guys try to get an… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/12/17 02:28 PM |
| 2 | Who are the real romantics?The true romantics are incels. As in, their ideas of romance are so strong, that upon failure they morphed into what constitutes the incel mentality. But if men are the true romantics, why do they not typically enjoy romanticism in media and in some forms of consumerism? Men enact romance, women reciprocate romance. With that in mind, men kind of have to be romantic even out of reluctance. Romanticism in media and some forms of consumerism is largely based on what women find romantic, which lead… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/12/17 10:57 PM |
| 3 | Are sexual assault allegations preventing young men from developing the appropriate assertiveness that women find attractive?You do what a lot of men before you have done. You date, fail, and gain enough experience along the way to find out what kind of woman you want, what kind of woman is attracted to you, and how to attract the woman you want an LTR with. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/12/17 10:46 PM |
| 1 | Q4ALL: Suppose that the TRP gurus are indeed thriving/successful men. What is their motivation for spending their spare time on TRP/PPD?You should hang out on other subreddits more to understand that all kinds of people spend time on Reddit. Good shitpost though. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/12/17 10:42 PM |
| 1 | Q4ALL: Suppose that the TRP gurus are indeed thriving/successful men. What is their motivation for spending their spare time on TRP/PPD?Opening that can of worms huh | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/12/17 10:38 PM |
| 1 | Q4ALL: Suppose that the TRP gurus are indeed thriving/successful men. What is their motivation for spending their spare time on TRP/PPD?Shouldn't you pm him if you have an issue with him? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/12/17 10:36 PM |
| 8 | Are sexual assault allegations preventing young men from developing the appropriate assertiveness that women find attractive?On the dating level it wouldn't affect men as much, since it would only happen for those who fuck women or those who encounter a particularly nasty woman. On the professional level though, good luck trying to defend yourself when an accusation flies towards you. It will probably be a thing, but it won't be an epidemic the mgtow's and other neurotic guys fear. Either way, it's far too early to talk of such dramatic scenarios. Relax and enjoy the current status quo of casual sex. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/12/17 10:29 PM |
| 4 | CMV: Women, even "good girls," look down upon guys they perceive as being sheltered/less experienced with the world than themselvesHuh? I thought most people looked down upon sheltered people? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/11/17 10:02 PM |
| 4 | CMV: There's nothing easier than to earn a "Honorary Male" title for a womanBut from the moment a woman is accepted as an "honorary man", it's no longer a male space. The dynamics within the group now changed. To be honest I'm not really interested in the grievances around gendered spaces, as I think that male and female spaces will exist for quite some time. In the case of male spaces gatekeeping against women however, I often wonder if men should just treat everyone the same (so men should treat women like they treat other men) or should men coddle women? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/11/17 10:35 PM |
| 4 | CMV: There's nothing easier than to earn a "Honorary Male" title for a womanI don't get it. You had a great debate with him, but then you had to go and pull a "you're one of those people". | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/11/17 10:24 PM |
| 1 | CMV: There's nothing easier than to earn a "Honorary Male" title for a womanUnless it's something specifically gendered I don't think it's heavy gatekeeping. Because if male video gamers all treated everyone the same (which a good amount most likely does), you'd still have people throwing harsh insults at others over online games. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/11/17 10:15 PM |
| 2 | CMV: There's nothing easier than to earn a "Honorary Male" title for a womanIf it's about personal relationships, I don't really agree. I think that in a good relationship, you more or less act like a team. This doesn't necessarily mean that you constantly negotiate and try to get things done together. At one point one of the two will lead and the other will follow up, at a different point they switch roles. Take parenting for instance: great parents often tend to raise kids as a team, consistently making the effort of following up on the other's action. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/11/17 10:12 PM |
| 1 | Men have to create lust or die alone! Society will do nothing to fix men's problem in the SMP.That's an argument I can agree with. It would be interesting to see how those bots would influence dating and human relationships. And whether they will cause a shift to occur amongst women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/11/17 03:50 PM |
| 1 | Men have to create lust or die alone! Society will do nothing to fix men's problem in the SMP.Ah, that is true as well. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/11/17 09:35 PM |
| 1 | How the Harvey Weinstein scandal will harm men as well as womenThanks for the explanation | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/11/17 09:34 PM |
| 1 | Women Will Never Care About Men's Problems in the Sexual and Relationship Marketplaces. The Best Way For Men To Address This is to Stop Caring About Women's Problems in Society.You still didn't answer him though. You're dancing around it using a strawman. Not saying he's entirely right in going toxic warrior, but if you can't even give a straight answer back to OP, you're just validating him in his perceived plight. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/10/17 09:25 PM |
| 1 | Women Will Never Care About Men's Problems in the Sexual and Relationship Marketplaces. The Best Way For Men To Address This is to Stop Caring About Women's Problems in Society.Mod. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/10/17 09:18 PM |
| 1 | Men have to create lust or die alone! Society will do nothing to fix men's problem in the SMP.IF you want to see the 80/20 rule in action, look no further than the world of sperm donors. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/10/17 09:00 PM |
| 1 | Men have to create lust or die alone! Society will do nothing to fix men's problem in the SMP.But even back then there were men who died alone. If anything, in those days it was still the men with the most money/power/connections/looks who got the best women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/10/17 08:59 PM |
| 2 | Men have to create lust or die alone! Society will do nothing to fix men's problem in the SMP.Not really. Your scenario is dependent on if the top 20% of men will actually go for sexbots instead of just doing as they've always have: having their pick of the best women. Hell, even if the 30% under the top 20% (the top beta's so to say) were to run off with sexbots, I doubt it would put that much of a dent in the whole 80/20 scheme. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/10/17 08:56 PM |
| 2 | Q4All: Are women graduates taking more from society than they give back?So in the end, TRP's are Beta Cucks who projected their own grievances around being Beta Cucks, but couldn't grow out of being Beta's? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/10/17 08:36 PM |
| 3 | Q4All: Are women graduates taking more from society than they give back?I don't think the premise is that good. I mean, it's only fairly recent that women have begun to outnumber men in college degrees obtained. This "are they giving back to society" question can only be asked after these female college grads actually have had some years to establish a career. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/10/17 08:32 PM |
| 1 | Q4All: Are women graduates taking more from society than they give back?I used to be told BP'ers were encouraging Beta Cucks to stay Beta Cucks. So which one is it? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/10/17 08:26 PM |
| 1 | If sex with a woman is an achievement for men, why doesn't the average man fuck a bunch of land whales?That's fun and all for you but in the end nobody cares. You could stand on a soapbox as much as you seem to want, nobody will remotely care because their own point of view is more superior than some stranger's point of view. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/10/17 08:23 PM |
| 1 | Female attractiveness: grooming vs fitnessShort term satisfaction vs long term benefit. And a cute face does wonders. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/10/17 07:59 PM |
| 1 | If sex with a woman is an achievement for men, why doesn't the average man fuck a bunch of land whales?Attraction does not work like that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/10/17 07:53 PM |
| 1 | If sex with a woman is an achievement for men, why doesn't the average man fuck a bunch of land whales?He said Condoleeza Rice though.... Oh wait. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/10/17 07:50 PM |
| 1 | If sex with a woman is an achievement for men, why doesn't the average man fuck a bunch of land whales?Here's what I wonder though: who's to say you represent all guys? There's guys for who this will be an achievement. Maybe even a highlight of their existence. But there's also guys who seek companionship, a soulmate, someone to build a family with etc. People will define for themselves whether sleeping around a lot is an achievement or not, your point of view has as much value as some PUA going from woman to woman. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/10/17 07:48 PM |
| 2 | If sex with a woman is an achievement for men, why doesn't the average man fuck a bunch of land whales?if only he could get his dick hard to every one of them. Isn't this the answer in itself? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/10/17 07:38 PM |
| 1 | An actual thread about discussing what advice you would give post-wall women for datingAgreed | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/10/17 07:10 PM |
| 1 | CMV: The male epidemics of loneliness and sexual frustration aren’t problems that warrant societal fixingInteresting that you're one of the rare people who says equity instead of equality. On the subject, just wait for a decade. If things continue, society is in for a very rude awakening. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/10/17 11:49 AM |
| 3 | CMV: The male epidemics of loneliness and sexual frustration aren’t problems that warrant societal fixingI don't see the issue. Everyone likes a car crash. Just sit back and enjoy the show. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/10/17 11:30 AM |
| 2 | Females, are you concerned about the state of gender relations, and why?Don't be so negative! Surely you have qualities that a man would fancy in a woman. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/10/17 11:14 AM |
| 1 | Females, are you concerned about the state of gender relations, and why?"Divorce rape" is usually justified. wow. I mean, I'm not sure how often the "rape" part actually happens in terms of reported claims. However, I don't think it's justified for a man to lose a large part of his assets as well as custody of his children (of course, if he's a danger to his children then yes they should not be the recipient of his threatening existence). | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/10/17 10:51 AM |
| 1 | How the Harvey Weinstein scandal will harm men as well as womenThe problem is that if there are women who simply refused, there will a whole slew "well why didn't you say no? Obviously he wasn't forcing that much, because X refused and nothing happened to their career" type of arguments. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/10/17 10:16 AM |
| 1 | How the Harvey Weinstein scandal will harm men as well as womenAnecdotal evidence. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/10/17 10:05 AM |
| 1 | How the Harvey Weinstein scandal will harm men as well as womenI've seen this term being thrown around a lot. Could you tell me what a FUD is? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/10/17 10:03 AM |
| 1 | An actual thread about discussing what advice you would give post-wall women for datingSince you can't read the context outside of the lens of bias you have: Do all you can to improve your physical appearance. Lose the damn excess weight. Hair long. Makeup on. Dressed tastefully and femininely. In what world is giving someone the advice that they should ensure that their appearance is great (and that to do so they should lose excess weight, dress more attractively and get a nice hairstyle) derogatory? Yes, I agree he said don't be a bitch. He could have done a better job at phrasi… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/10/17 10:00 AM |
| 1 | How the Harvey Weinstein scandal will harm men as well as womenOf course not. A lot of relationships don't necessarily occur due to some guy stepping up to a girl. some relationships just happen. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/10/17 09:47 AM |
| 1 | [q4w] Does having a degree give you an advantage in datingI've never particularly cared about a woman's degree. This is probably also because I've never really met a woman that wasn't in one way or another my peer. So, I wouldn't say that a woman having a degree makes her attractive. What it does, however, is determine whether I'd present her in my social circles and how fast I would consider a serious relationship. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/10/17 10:46 PM |
| 2 | An actual thread about discussing what advice you would give post-wall women for datingGuys don't really hit the wall though. And if he's got a good social circle it's likely that he'll avoid much of the "what's wrong with him". | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/10/17 10:32 PM |
| 3 | An actual thread about discussing what advice you would give post-wall women for datingNow now, to his credit he didn't say fat bitches. Both you and him have wonderful biases. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/10/17 10:29 PM |
| 2 | QForRPMen: what is supposed to happen if people start to care about or understand the male “problems” in the sexual marketplace?On the other hand, I think that if men listened to feminism more, they'd become more empathetic and it would become easier and more fulfilling for them to have relationships, both sexual and otherwise. It's already a problem that boys are being taught mostly by female teachers. Do you really believe this? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/10/17 10:06 PM |
| 1 | Discussion: Is debating TRP pointless?So, Reddit in a nutshell? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/10/17 09:25 PM |
| 1 | Discussion: Is debating TRP pointless?There's a very big divide between making your partner jealous and coercing someone into having sex with you through fear. I think you're conflating those right now. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/10/17 09:23 PM |
| 1 | CMV: "The Wall" hits women at 50.I wouldn't say they "age better" as aging (well) can be influenced by variables such as social/emotional connection, income, health & exercise, time for leisure, stress levels, etc. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/10/17 09:12 PM |
| 2 | CMV: "The Wall" hits women at 50.I always thought that this wall phenomenon occurs whenever an old woman realizes that men approach her differently. Something like the biological clock narrative, only applied in a superficial manner. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/10/17 09:07 PM |
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