BellaBaby19 Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
0	Feeling confused about this high value man (36M) that I’ve been on 5 dates with...	SEEKING ADVICE	BellaBaby19	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	23/10/19 06:04 AM

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1	Dealing with girls who counteroffer drink dates with afternoon lunch dates Some people don’t drink alcohol.	/r/askTRP	31/07/20 07:25 PM
3	The importance of having a roster I have trouble finding one man I truly like and feel chemistry with. When I do meet someone like that I’m usually too focused on him to have the time or desire to seek others.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	18/04/20 05:05 AM
5	Leaving my negative value situationship Glad you realized your worth. How long were you in this and did you formally end it or just ghost? I’m somewhat in one now so would love to hear ! Thanks :)	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	28/03/20 06:03 AM
3	Confession Time How old are you and him? That means a lot. If a girl is 30+ and a guy is being FWB with her, it shows he doesn’t care wasting her time and fertility, and doesn’t care about locking her down imo. They know you are running out of time and don’t care.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	13/03/20 04:24 AM
2	Confession Time I have been sleeping with the same person on/off but mostly very on, for 3 years. We also have a lot of fun together and are compatible but he has certain issues with commitment and we’ve never made it official. I’m 25 and he’s 32. I’ve been going on dates because I really want to get married and have a family, and haven’t found anyone I like at all or enjoy being around. The guy I hook up with has his faults of course, but I know that I enjoy his company and he’s also 100% able to fully provide…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	13/03/20 04:17 AM
8	Don’t send long paragraphs explaining how you feel to men who don’t care Did you ever talk again?	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	08/03/20 05:25 AM
7	Wow. My expectations for this holiday were so low, that all I wanted was a simple "Happy V-Day" text that shows he acknowledges my existence. I feel you girl. Don’t let it drag on for 3 years like I did. The sad thing is we stopped talking last summer after a fight, I deleted his number and we didn’t speak for 5 months. I met someone else I actually caught feelings for (shocker- I’ve only had feelings for like 2 people in the last few years). Things didn’t work out with that guy but it helped me get over my FWB or whatever he is. Then he texted me around Christmas, we reunited and have hung out almost every week since New Years. I tho…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	15/02/20 05:44 AM
1	Wow. My expectations for this holiday were so low, that all I wanted was a simple "Happy V-Day" text that shows he acknowledges my existence. Are you seeing anyone currently?	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	15/02/20 04:33 AM
10	Wow. My expectations for this holiday were so low, that all I wanted was a simple "Happy V-Day" text that shows he acknowledges my existence. I didn’t either. Have been hooking up with the same guy on and off for 3 years. We had sex last Friday and he didn’t even respond to my last text from a few days ago. I already decided I’m done sleeping with him and will only be his friend the last time we had sex. I am just over his lack of effort and ready for something serious.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	15/02/20 04:28 AM
41	Take the psychoanalysis and sign reading to another sub. It’s simple! The truth hurts sometimes! Cut your loss and move on.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	12/01/20 10:14 PM
1	Dating Spreadsheets That is insanely dumb and a waste of time imo. How many people do you date at once that you would even need to do that...	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	25/10/19 12:07 AM
-1	Feeling confused about this high value man (36M) that I’ve been on 5 dates with... No I’m saying he initiated a new conversation the next day....	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	24/10/19 12:12 AM
4	A Man who Wants a woman Makes an effort. Texting is the lowest of efforts. A Man Not texting You is making LESS than the LOWEST of efforts. Ok, I don’t get why he would make a point to go on five dates with me if he’s not interested and he’s a busy person. Usually if you don’t like someone things don’t even go past 1 or 2 dates.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	23/10/19 08:54 PM
2	A Man who Wants a woman Makes an effort. Texting is the lowest of efforts. A Man Not texting You is making LESS than the LOWEST of efforts. Thanks for the feedback. I’m super confused about it and it’s starting to cause me stress because I really like him. He’s 36 and I’m 26, he runs his own company so is really busy. We’ve been on 5 dates all initiated by him (about once a week since we’ve met), however between dates we literally haven’t texted other than usually me reaching out and just saying hi, and then him initiating plans. We have a lot of chemistry together and he even said that. We had sex on the 3rd date but he was horribl…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	23/10/19 08:48 PM
4	A Man who Wants a woman Makes an effort. Texting is the lowest of efforts. A Man Not texting You is making LESS than the LOWEST of efforts. This is something I'm super confused about. I've been on 5 great dates with this guy (once a week since we met), but between dates he barely texts me at all. He's older and runs his own company, and he's said he's bad at texting...but I don't know what to think anymore.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	23/10/19 07:57 PM
-2	Feeling confused about this high value man (36M) that I’ve been on 5 dates with... Other than this he has every single quality I want in a guy which is rare, and we have chemistry (which is also very rare).	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	23/10/19 07:30 PM
1	Feeling confused about this high value man (36M) that I’ve been on 5 dates with... He has initiating communication at times, but usually the day after I text him.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	23/10/19 07:14 PM
-1	Feeling confused about this high value man (36M) that I’ve been on 5 dates with... But did you read the post? He has been bad at texting since I met him. Since even prior to our first date.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	23/10/19 07:13 PM
1	You ever wonder why the guys you're interested in aren't interested back but the ones you aren't sure about or dont like seem to fall head over heels for you? What did you share and how many dates did you go on?	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	16/10/19 10:12 PM
2	You ever wonder why the guys you're interested in aren't interested back but the ones you aren't sure about or dont like seem to fall head over heels for you? Yeah I would never cancel a date with someone I like. Life is fragile, take every opportunity you can. Also I tend to date really high quality men, the guy I’m seeing now runs his own business and is a millionaire, he is busy as ever and is a catch, I’m not playing games with him. In fact, I’m texting him first a lot which is something I almost never do with men	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	16/10/19 10:02 PM
5	You ever wonder why the guys you're interested in aren't interested back but the ones you aren't sure about or dont like seem to fall head over heels for you? But playing games isn’t worth it. If you meet someone you really love, don’t cancel a date to play hard to get. If you’re truly meant to be you will end up together regardless.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	16/10/19 09:32 PM