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A lot of women will be wearing masks then
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/08/21 08:07 PM
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Very insightful! This book is Too Good!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/08/21 04:37 PM
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It’s a guilty pleasure show, but irl I would never tf go back to that time. Literally every character including the men have been sexually assaulted. Terrible time for women just terrible even the 60’s for Claire is pretty dumb time too
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/08/21 11:06 PM
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Idk if a LVM POS tried that on me I think I’d say I only have enough for my meal and leave his ass there.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/07/21 09:02 PM
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I have a pretty face, double chins and am obese. I still get men trying to talk to me and without FDS principles I’d still be a pickmeisha taking any lvm attention. FDS made me realize my worth and I am making much better choices.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/07/21 06:47 PM
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Love this! I used to say the same to my lvm ex. I said he needed a bra 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/07/21 01:46 AM
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I see you met my BROTHERS!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/06/21 01:07 AM
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Interesting reminds me of the time...my sisters husband made a comment about me and my sister told me. He told her “he liked her boobs better than mine”.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/06/21 11:21 AM
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I’ve been trying to meet a girl for years it’s really hard to meet women.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/06/21 04:49 AM
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I just watched it yesterday. I really love the fierceness of Cruella, all the fashion and revenge/ strategy plots.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/06/21 05:43 AM
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I just read my list of shitty stuff they did to me, I started making the list in anticipation for the inevitable break up. Really helped me out.
/r/askFDS30/05/21 01:20 AM
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All abuse whether physical or emotional abuse contains mental and physiological abuse. Not all abuse is physical but all abuse is mental, emotional and psychological.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/05/21 02:24 PM
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I’m getting to this point... I haven’t met a single decent man on old.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/05/21 05:23 PM
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What helped me get over my narcissist ex to the point I dgaf about him anymore was... definitely the Lundy Bancroft book. And watching hours upon hours of YouTube videos about narcissist, Dana Morningstar and her whole thrive after abuse facebooks and videos. Also singing this song to the top of my lungs I don’t Care Anymore
/r/askFDS22/05/21 08:20 PM
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Don’t fucking question your looks! Question the fucking relationship and judge him as a man of low value!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/05/21 08:34 PM
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What helped me get over the trauma bonding from my narcissist ex was watching tons of YouTube videos about narcissist. I suggest Dana Morningstar and her thrive after abuse videos. She also has a podcast and live broadcast every week and you can ask her questions. I’ve got 2 of her books and she’s just awesome. She also has a great “Thrive after Abuse” Facebook group where thousands of women like you talk about their feelings and describe their abuse exactly what your saying. I highly suggest yo…
/r/askFDS17/05/21 06:39 PM
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I was watching this Steve Harvey show clip, he basically says these guys have several women’s numbers and they send out many texts to see which girl responded. He compared it to laying out traps like a hunter and coming back hours or days later to see what he caught. They know that the odds are against them so they lay out many traps to see who will text them back.
/r/askFDS12/05/21 07:45 PM
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Their hoping to find a pickme to use and discard
/r/askFDS11/05/21 12:31 AM
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Wow this is super fascinating. I love this. This is like an easy dating/life hack. I just looked up Drew Peterson. I don’t watch much true crime but I looked up Drew Peterson and all his victims were 9/ 30 years younger then him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/05/21 01:23 PM
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This is right on...it made me think of all the crying, stressful days I spent begging my lvm ex to help me clean up and clean after himself. And he would say I’ll do it later later. When I left him he begged for 4 years to get back together with me. Now I’m remembering his indifferent shrug, it makes me so fucking angry that I didn’t leave him sooner. I used to scream in frustration while he laid on the couch. I’d come from work at 1 am and he’d leave piles of rotting food on the floor. After 12…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/05/21 03:43 AM
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Anne of Cleves 4th wife, made out like a bandit...he never slept with her because when they met she wasn’t impressed by him and he was offended. He then decided she was too ugly. So he gave her some castles and money and she was deemed the “Kings sister.”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/05/21 01:48 AM
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It’s so sad that religion manipulates women this way.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/05/21 12:00 AM
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I’m in the same boat except my kids are a little younger. I moved across country and I don’t really have friends in my state. Just family. I’ve haven’t had a best friend in a decade or two and my last best friend was a jerk. I definitely need a circle of female friends that we hang out and do fun things together.
/r/askFDS06/05/21 04:37 PM
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He’s playing the long game he’s hoping overtime you will develop feelings for him and all that stuff you said you will forget about it because you’ll be on love with him.
/r/askFDS06/05/21 03:19 AM
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🙌🏽 I try to not let it happen once!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/05/21 08:41 PM
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I’m so with you! Wtf they always want to rush you. I can’t stand that. It’s like did you ask me about my self at all or have a conversation with me yet, but I’m supposed to go fucking meet you. Every time I’ve ever went on a date without vetting I was disappointed within the first few minutes of meeting them. The guy that smelled like weed and didn’t have a car, the guy who had the worst dragon breath ever, the guy with wet hands and then got mad that I didn’t want to shake his hand. I want to t…
/r/askFDS05/05/21 06:32 PM
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This is brilliant and SO TRUE...When my kids are good I take them out for ice cream. 😂😂😂
/r/askFDS02/05/21 03:06 PM
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This is really helpful I’m reading through all the comments too
/r/askFDS02/05/21 10:47 AM
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Yep! I’m a big girl too and I used to work security at WTC in NYC with mostly men and they’d talk so disgusting,ogle and cat-call women walking by. I used to feel like shit. It was like I wasn’t even a woman. For me I find lots men look at big girls to do them sexual favors but not as a long term partner. They think big women are desperate and therefore would be happy to chill with them for mediocre sex.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/05/21 01:14 AM
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It will take some time to get over someone you loved, in the meantime invest in yourself and practice self care. Try some new hobby you’ve always wanted to try. Travel or whatever interests you. Keep yourself busy and enjoy your life! I was madly in love with my nvm ex narcissist and this advice helped me A TON!! Also huge make a list of all the shitty stuff he said and did during the relationship and read it whenever you miss him, it will piss you off.
/r/askFDS01/05/21 08:48 PM
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Thank you I rejected the ice cream date. I need you Queens to teach me. I will block and delete. I’ve always wanted to be nice, but I’m learning they don’t care about being nice so why should I?
/r/askFDS30/04/21 03:55 PM
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Hilarious, since I rejected the ice cream date he has left me on read since yesterday! 😂
/r/askFDS30/04/21 03:50 PM
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Wow I’ve had so many times where a guy promises me a dinner date and never comes through. I’m through with that bullshit. How much can a decent restaurant cost? If he’s that hung up on money he ate worth our time!
/r/askFDS30/04/21 03:49 PM
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No more fear and sadness No more broken heart No more psychological mind games Less anger CONTROL OVER MY LIFE
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/04/21 10:15 PM
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This might be a dumb answer but walk around with big headphones and sunglasses. I’m also from New York but did not receive that much attention to get the harassment. I was followed once and cursed out twice. I just nodded to avoid a violent outburst, but I kept it moving.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/04/21 11:09 PM
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I was talking to a white guy once and he said “ I hear black girls are wild in bed” and then kept asking me for anal! Fuck you Im not ripping up my asshole for your sexual pleasure! I realized he just wanted to use me for sex. He was trying a “black girl” to see what he can get out if it
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/04/21 08:52 PM
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Lol reminds me of the time I was hit on by a cop at a kids camp festival at a park and I had to explain to him I was 11.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/04/21 08:27 PM
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Lol reminds me of time, I was crossing the street and some guy was cat calling me and I didn’t respond and he preceded to insult my “fucked up” hairstyle. Thank you for revealing your true self within seconds = no time wasted on a lvm.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/04/21 05:42 PM
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Omg Me too, I’m 40! Last year personally was a great year!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/04/21 02:38 AM
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We broke up 3 years ago. He was trying to form a friendship and when I brought up the terrible shit he did that caused the break-up he kept saying he wants to stay positive and doesn’t want to talk about the past stuff.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/03/21 01:38 PM
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Damn this is my exact shit I’m going through right now!!!! They try to gaslight you. It wasn’t that bad get over it already. Fuck that!!! I need to see you actually be apologetic!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/03/21 04:21 AM
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I left my ex husband years ago. I’m having the most awesome time being single. Me and my kids do wtf we want and I will never live with a man again! They’re fucking slobs and won’t clean up after themselves. He caused us to get evicted twice and was so dirty we got roaches and mice. He always invited some stupid friend over and ate all the food. It’s so great having control over your home. I want my name on the mortgage/lease and no other names. Therefore he doesn’t have the upper hand. My siste…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/03/21 03:24 PM
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I CONCUR! This time last year before I discovered FDS I cringe at the pickme I used to be and I’m so GLAD I found FDS. I feel so empowered and mentally strong. I check FDS everyday. So much I have learned and I learn each day! Seriously the posts here should be taught to every girl in school and I’m teaching my daughter the PG version of this sub.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/03/21 11:13 PM
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Lol a guy on OLD once asked me what kinks do I have. I said I have a kink for being respected and having pleasant conversations. Wonder why I never heard from him again.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/03/21 05:41 PM
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Hahaha reminds of a lvm I was talking to earlier this year before I found Fds. He stopped talking to me because I didn’t want to try anal. Sorry I won’t let you rip my asshole up for your pleasure like the pornstars you jerk off to everyday! I should have known he was garbage, he kept saying women treated him so badly. Thank God I found Fds!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/03/21 12:23 AM
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I love this post! I am super militant now. I hate that pick me I used to be and I am angry with her for letting my narcissist LVM ex take so much advantage of me. I’m glad I left that piece of shit while he was at work. So hilarious him texting and crying. His tears don’t come close to all the tears I cried during the relationship and after I left.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/03/21 06:10 PM
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I hope if they are lurking at least, they learn how to treat women better. Not for manipulative gains but a genuine reprogramming of how women should be treated and hopefully level up.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/03/21 04:43 PM
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God this is so accurate! 🙌🏽 my sisters married to this lvm , and they are obsessed with talking about his ex wife. Meanwhile this lvm treats her like shit. I’m trying to tell my pick me sister that he’s the one with problem but she don’t wanna hear it. I guess Jodete 🤷🏽‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/03/21 08:14 PM
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I’m curious and this is probably a naive question, but how are the guys like in Ireland? What’s the dating scene like in Ireland? I know men everywhere can be terrible, but I wonder how much of American culture contributes to American men acting the way they do as opposed to the men being naturally depraved or raised that way?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/03/21 02:36 PM
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Wow reminds me of my ex-husband he used that excuse to never get me anything for Valentines Day and he even missed his first born son first birthday. Saying he didn’t celebrate birthdays.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/02/21 03:40 AM
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🏅🏅🏅
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/01/21 10:49 PM
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Omg can I just say this lady’s personality and mannerisms are awesome.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/01/21 01:00 AM
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Hope you getting those survivor benefits
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/01/21 12:53 AM
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Well said! Never thought of it this way but you’re so right
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/01/21 12:18 AM
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That is definitely something I worry about that’s why I started bringing my concealed carry with me. Just in case
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/09/20 02:53 PM
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I can’t stand when they say “Females”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/09/20 05:44 PM
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😂 So true I second that! I was dating a lvm that wanted to move in after 1 month😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/09/20 03:39 AM
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I demand a man makes me orgasm or I lose interest. Especially if he doesn’t give it his all and make it his priority to make me feel good
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/08/20 05:35 AM
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Wow that is such a good point! She hasn’t done nothing to no one but they drag her through the mud! If I were her I wouldn’t read any of that garbage and go on loving my life. It’s good they escaped.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/08/20 04:55 PM
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There’s pics of him with underaged girl and he lied and said he never met her
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/08/20 04:53 PM
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