| Upvotes | Title | Category | Author | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
|---|---|---|---|---|---|
| 780 | I love this message | FDS MEMES | Belovedembrace | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/08/20 02:43 AM |
| 412 | Reminder | REMINDER 👑 | Belovedembrace | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/08/20 09:49 PM |
| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
|---|---|---|---|
| 2 | Why you should NEVER accept a 50/50 relationship: THIS. Imagine how life is if she just stay single and work on her business alone.You should be getting more than the 87 on that especially if your the one who's taking him to those appointments wasting money on gas and taking time out of work. What a jerk | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/04/22 02:34 AM |
| 1 | Husband tries to get his wife to sign papers blindfolded then berates her for not trusting him. So shady!! I hope she runs!!I believe he just invented this "game" to slip in his idea to get something from her and then leave her. I hope she doesn't trust him because this is past a red flag. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/03/22 01:14 AM |
| 7 | No... just no.. we met at a tire shop and "bonded" over coffee loving but I didn't think he would actually commit to asking on a coffee hopping or whatever this is.Then he can bring you to an open field, and take you home to his clothes "nest" bed 🤣 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/10/21 07:33 PM |
| 3 | No... just no.. we met at a tire shop and "bonded" over coffee loving but I didn't think he would actually commit to asking on a coffee hopping or whatever this is.🤣 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/10/21 07:29 PM |
| 5 | What’s something that you thought you had to do but realized it’s misogyny and actually doesn’t benefit you?God this gave me flashbacks like I was in a war. I do not miss the UTIs. I don't miss any of it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/10/21 04:16 AM |
| 2 | The scrote and the stone😆 a crackhead gone wrong. I was not ready. Why is this so accurate 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/07/21 09:08 PM |
| 40 | Just for laughs ladies.Right 😆reading the 1st half I was already like 😡 ready to come in to the comment section hot. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/07/21 09:01 PM |
| 4 | Nobody in the comments section pointed out the obvious, which is that he wants to f*ck this woman if he hasn't alreadyHe doesn't have to go through debt again to get you jewelry. If he knows your a fan he can pick you out a reasonable piece for a few hundred on special occasions. It seems like an excuse to not gift you what you want. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/05/21 11:34 PM |
| 3 | Can I kinkshame yet?Did she not fully absorb the facts he gets hard at pacifiers, and bottles. ..that is a damn baby. He is a pedophile and there is no way around it. I don't understand how people don't get that. 🤢 I would never leave this guy around kids, and babies.Leave him. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/05/21 01:30 AM |
| 20 | Boy moms and their pickmeisha tendencies?What she should do?!! Why does she allow it? Has she not been having conversations since puberty about why it's wrong, trafficking, morality, addiction etc, has she not taught them from the beginning that women are not objects and just flesh. Ugh that bothers me. There is no form of ethical porn. She is letting her son destroy himself ( and his future partner) by not stopping it | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/03/21 02:41 AM |
| 16 | Boy moms and their pickmeisha tendencies?Exactly boys are harder to raise I have an 8 year old and a 13 year old, who both do chores. I'm raising them to be respectful high value gentlemen. But I've also always blocked anything that could jeopardize all the work I've done. So he gets comments from friends about not having instagram,snapchat, tiktok etc, and why he has so many parental controls on his devices. It's very hard. Society will try to undo everything you're teaching them at every turn. Especially other moms who think your rid… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/03/21 02:34 AM |
| 3 | Being/acting insecure will only ever get you a manipulative low/no effort NVM: know your worth and show it, never settleThe petty part of me would be tempted to say consider male enhancement, before I blocked him. The audacity! I bet he wasn't complaining during sex though 😒🙄🚮 Always with the negging. Trash. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/02/21 11:35 PM |
| 15 | The logic of dating: double standards of "satisfying needs". Watching porn.I think The only ideas hes going to get are who hes going to imagine you as during sex while he uses you as a human fleshlight. Porn is bullshit. There is nothing positive to be learned from it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/02/21 11:03 PM |
| 26 | Woman asks if it’s acceptable for her boyfriend to want to split the cost of her ENGAGEMENT RING. The highest voted comment is just sad. 50/50 is always a scam.I think the cheapest possible ring you can get without being outright insulting is about 1,000 and that's pushing it. It should atleast cost more than a gaming system, and it's accessories. The whole point of a ring was to show that a man was capable of providing a life with you. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/02/21 03:52 AM |
| 13 | Her scrote husband strung her along by future faking about adopting a child. Men will lie about absolutely anything to tie a woman downShe can never ever take him back. 100% divorce the hell out of him, and adopt on your own. If he were to falsely agree just to stop her from divorcing him, he would resent the child the whole time. No child deserves growing up with a peice of shit father like him. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/01/21 08:44 PM |
| 38 | Her scrote husband strung her along by future faking about adopting a child. Men will lie about absolutely anything to tie a woman downWow he just dismissed her whole existence. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/01/21 08:41 PM |
| 32 | A Man Sends Hookup off With a Bag of Doritos and $40 - PickMes on Twitter: 😍😍😍😍😍😍It seems like hes trying to appease his own guilt for using women, but as cheaply as possible. Or at best a terrible way to apologize for his bedroom skills. Either way still trash. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/01/21 06:19 PM |
| 79 | A Man Sends Hookup off With a Bag of Doritos and $40 - PickMes on Twitter: 😍😍😍😍😍😍Cheaper than a cheap prostitute he values her at about $43. How can she be excited about that? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/01/21 06:17 PM |
| 13 | “yOuR wAy ToO qUiCk To JuDgE”I imagine they just live at the opposite end of the city, but he can't be bothered | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/01/21 01:15 PM |
| 90 | This is why you shouldn’t have babies with men you aren’t married to.Exactly! He could be looking at it like I love this woman who risked her health, and sacrificed her previous body, and went through agony to bring my child into this world. That should be enough of a turn on. The realization of who she is, her sacrifice,and commitment. But no. Shes just viewed as an object that's not allowed to change. 😡 He never loved her. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/01/21 07:54 PM |
| 77 | lmao the benefit is questionableThe friends part was always a lie on their end. Even if you were willing to be friends, and give the same courtesy you would your friends. They don't give a damn about that. It's only about getting theirs. Fwb is absolute bullshit. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/01/21 11:46 PM |
| 5 | This is why standards are important. Having them and enforcing them.Exactly society gaslights us, or has us gaslight ourselves into accepting it, and making us think it can't be as bad as it actually is. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/01/21 11:35 PM |
| 2 | How can anyone possibly think that buying your coworker a sex toy is ok?Exactly | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/12/20 11:46 PM |
| 8 | I'm done 🙅🏻♀️💢💔☝️👏 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/12/20 12:44 AM |
| 6 | Share your stories about dating a workaholic....nah that's what I thought about my ex, I was miles out of his league. who could he possibly cheat with I thought. The stupid asses will find a way though. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/12/20 07:03 PM |
| 3 | My husband of 3 weeks now, said he wished he married his x instead of me.annulment or divorce the shit out of him. Seriously I hope you leave him. The disrespect will only get worse. He just told you everything you needed to know. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/12/20 06:29 PM |
| 1 | "johns" = Lowest life formThat sounds like a helpful app, can you dm if you have a chance? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/12/20 06:16 PM |
| 19 | Notice how it only benefits the man (unless they get married)If he doesn't care enough to ever do things like that for you, I doubt he's the one, you clearly put in the work, you deserve, dates, flowers, and more. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/11/20 02:08 AM |
| 145 | Imagine the audacity of thinking 30k is enough to justify this behavior.I hope she gets basically everything for having to deal with him at all. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/11/20 05:18 PM |
| 25 | Dodged a bullet thanks to FDS (story in comments)Where is the story? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/11/20 12:28 AM |
| 15 | Ladies he wants to split the bills and might even make you a HARD BOILED EGG 🥺🤗🥚😮If he had his shit together as much as he thinks he does he wouldn't need or want his future partner to go 50/50 on bills with him. 😒 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/11/20 04:55 AM |
| 61 | A word about Insta-voyeurs.Sometimes they make 2nd instagrams you don't know about just to follow these things. You might think you're in the clear just because his instagram or whatever account isn't following these type of things, but be aware there could be a 2nd account used for it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/10/20 05:40 PM |
| 8 | Imagine not replying for two hours because you’re studying and you come back to this...Omg did he just mathematically neg her? Tf ridiculous | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/10/20 04:45 PM |
| 1 | The Onion nails it again: "Man Feels Like Girlfriend Hasn't Been Putting Effort into His Appearance Lately."Wow this even looks like my ex | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/10/20 06:04 PM |
| 9 | Boy bye.This picture needs a 3rd button called dump him 😌 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/10/20 08:18 PM |
| 8 | These scrotes ain't loyal, but we knew that. 🙄 Here's an idea: how about you tell your GIRLFRIEND she's beautiful, not me. Boy bye. 😤Exactly ☝️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/10/20 08:12 PM |
| 43 | No a laundromat is NOT A DATE !!Her other date was probably the dark alleyway I hope she finds this sub and realizes her worth. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/10/20 10:57 PM |
| 5 | Is going 50/50 on rent the norm?👏 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/09/20 10:23 PM |
| 95 | This is why we don’t dress for scrotes, dress for yourself sis!Wow, I really hope she leaves him after that. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/09/20 04:27 AM |
| 4 | Just another reason to implement FDS principles into your life. THIS is what you’re trying to avoid.I hate that this is such a common lvm thing. Why can't you just find some other person who wants a casual fling. Why must they have to destroy everyone, and everything? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/09/20 09:26 PM |
| 29 | ‘I’m totally fine with porn, but.....’Exactly I've also noticed. When I was with my ex husband I never approved of the porn use, despite our arguments, being visibly upset, so heart broken that I couldn't help but cry, and telling him it was a deal breaker he would do it anyway, and it just escalated. Towards the end of our relationship he told his friends about my refusal to accept it, and they told him I was toxic because of my boundaries on it. They all considered porn "healthy" 🤢🤮 I refuse to let anyone bulldoze my boundaries ev… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/09/20 08:50 PM |
| 10 | One of the creepy messages I got on my old account. Reading this shocked me since I never heard any man say such weird and disgusting things to me.😦🤢🙅♀️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/09/20 08:54 PM |
| 22 | Of course, LVM say how valuable she is.. I think that's so pathetic of her, are women expected to be 50/50 buddies when a man gains 100% of it??Omg. The 6.5 mark of marriage spot on | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/09/20 03:12 PM |
| 3 | I think my boyfriend cheated on me months ago and is still lying about itExactly👏 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/08/20 09:10 PM |
| 4 | I think my boyfriend cheated on me months ago and is still lying about itDump and block. He will never stop gaslighting you.he is cheating. Please love yourself enough to see that he is no good, and leave. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/08/20 09:10 PM |
| 16 | I’m not a fan of time wasters and I wrote a poem that trolls them. Saying “hey” doesn’t do it for me. Get to the point or gtfo.Yess 👏 I'm loving this poem | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/08/20 03:03 AM |
| 5 | What would you say to pre-teen you?I wish I could have told myself to trust my instincts/intuition, And to focus on school, and college ,and a career first. If I had put the effort I put into relationships into myself instead during my teens, and twenties I would have been so far ahead in comparison. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/08/20 02:20 AM |
| 36 | For those almost a year shy of being single- what do you Not miss? 😛I don't miss being gaslit, lied to, and betrayed trying to convince him to put something nice on for a date when he was content wearing old cargo pants, and a rotation of a few tshirts *never getting complimeted, even when I would dress up, and get my hair done *being stonewalled *broken promises *feeling taken for granted *having to convince him to make plans to ever go anywhere which he despised. Ew no never again. I love myself now. I date myself, and buy me flowers, and make choices that wil… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/08/20 07:38 PM |
| 2 | I love this messageI couldn't resist. I'm so happy to have found this community. It's been life changing. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/08/20 04:55 PM |
| 4 | What does this even mean?Right exactly! it's not a waste know your worth ( and if you don't feel like you are worth it do whatever you need to start feeling like you are)🙂 raise those standards. ☝️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/08/20 03:37 AM |
| 8 | I broke up with him and regret itHe was never going to put you first, he was putting in no effort, and no respect. ( I would not be surprised if he was pulling the same crap with other girls at the same time) 6 months, he couldn't be bothered to give minimum effort. Consider it a dodged bullet it's only 6 months rather than investing more time, and getting more attatched to someone who isn't treating you right. Also love yourself enough to not accept anything less than what you desire,and deserve. Use this time now to distract … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/08/20 02:11 AM |
| 2 | Summer: the season of the "swimming" date -_-"Because of the implication"-its always sunny. Is what I picture happening for a swim date scenario. I Agree it is predatory, and a half ass "date "at it's best. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/07/20 09:55 PM |
| 5 | Got banned from r/Feminism for saying that you don’t have to accept a dude’s Instagram model obsessionsometimes they'll go to great lengths to hide , aka alternate or secret Instagram and other accounts that they use to browse whatever, or do things they don't want you to find out about. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/07/20 08:42 PM |
| 3 | Finally Left the Coomer NVMThis happened to me, but with marriage and 2 kids added Endless gaslighting, and being treated like crap for 10+ years. I later found out he had been installing and uninstalling (so I wouldn't see it if I saw his phone) apps like tinder,what's app etc where he'd get pictures and videos from strangers and store in his vault app. it has traumatized me ,and turned me off of love, even with therapy. I'm so glad this sub exists. I feel grateful to have found it. It has helped so much. I'm not crazy a… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/07/20 08:57 PM |
| 1 | Cashing checks and breaking necks 💸Any recommendations on fragrance free moisturizers for acne prone skin? And yess to the advice 👏😀 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/07/20 01:37 AM |
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