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What should I look out for in a male therapist, so i can vet properly
/r/askTRP07/01/21 07:07 AM
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22 turning 23
/r/askTRP06/01/21 06:57 AM
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I was expecting to have a sense of urgency after what happened, and given our living situation (relative poverty, lack of justice, constant police power tripping in my area). But I just can't seem to summon that strength right now, when I need it the most.
/r/askTRP06/01/21 04:22 AM
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I'm still trying to learn how to screen crazies. I've known to look out for overt red flags, but I'm still a bit lost with the subtle signs And I admit, I've gone a little too close for comfort with handling a crazy girl in the past few months
/r/askTRP28/06/19 03:08 PM
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Looking at it that way, I guess she realy was one of the closest to my ideal. What steps do I take to deal with the loss
/r/askTRP05/03/19 04:56 PM
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Yes, I've had her sleep over at my place. But so have half of my plates, and I never got one bit of attachment That's an interesting observation though, I never saw that as a factor. Thank you
/r/askTRP05/03/19 02:57 PM
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How does one start in learning these two?
/r/TheRedPill25/12/18 06:04 AM
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No choice, I can't get with liberal women as much as I used to anymore without getting fucked over online
/r/askTRP17/07/18 05:17 PM
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This is golden, thank you
/r/askTRP16/07/18 11:55 PM
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"no u" "nice" "does that line work on others"
/r/askTRP16/07/18 07:36 PM
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I admit, I used the wrong term. Idk what to call it, having left my PUA phase 3 years ago. All four qualities you've mentioned I've made progress in, I can most certainly say I was my comfortable self in my approach, and she loved it. I'm just thinking that my usual style when it comes to sealing the deal won't work the same way as it does on more "experienced" women. I've never had a girl of her upbringing dig me before
/r/askTRP16/07/18 07:11 PM
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I can feel when a more experienced girl is putting on an act of innocence, and every girl that is interested can be gamed. The Catholic culture of my country, especially in the provinces this girl comes from, just enforces women to wait for the right guy or else get punished by god, family and friends. This girl just so happens to be interested, and idk how to "adjust" my usual aggressive approach
/r/askTRP16/07/18 07:01 PM
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I'm relatively new to TRP, what TRP-ish behaviors should I start honing now so that I don't make an ass of myself publicly
/r/askTRP05/07/18 03:21 AM
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Where can I find more of these videos?
/r/TheRedPill04/11/16 04:53 PM
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No I have not, thank you for the recommendation
/r/askTRP09/10/16 02:48 PM
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I had something easy with me for my first before. Until I found out she gave me chlamydia
/r/askTRP04/10/16 01:43 PM
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stay at arms length Hm, maybe that's another part of my problem. I tend to get too engrossed in the moment, and the overall seduction process. I've always been told by my main girl and all of my plates that I unintentionally put out "movie-like" scenarios every time I'm with them. Almost every part of my escalation process usually happens at night in the city, involving smokes or coffee. I get too attached to the moment themselves, that I find myself replicating them over and over again with dif…
/r/askTRP04/10/16 01:38 PM
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Looking forward. I guess I've never thought of that tbh. The links also strike a chord. Thank you ♂
/r/askTRP04/10/16 01:13 PM
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Don't contact them in between hook ups unless it's to arrange next hook up I'm going to have to practice this one. One plate ended up being too close, trying to replace my main girl. But for all the women I've been with, I can't help but connect more after the first lay. I'm talking hanging out for tea and that gay shit
/r/askTRP04/10/16 01:00 PM
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It's not necessarily the women, it's the interaction. It's vapid, but comfortable in a sense
/r/askTRP04/10/16 12:57 PM
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I worded that wrong. I can creep around fine. She tries to creep around and it's over
/r/askTRP04/10/16 12:56 PM
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I did have 2 plates at once, and I did have a girlfriend all throughout most of these events. Still do, she knows I creep around though
/r/askTRP04/10/16 11:49 AM
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