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One to one texts and if they don't text back never text them again. If they aren't putting in effort they aren't interested but can often become interested if they see your not chasing.
/r/seduction06/10/22 04:48 AM
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Was voted the best in the world 3 years in a row by the seduction/pua community.
/r/seduction29/09/22 03:37 AM
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Same, it's very easy
/r/seduction02/09/22 01:41 AM
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Hahahaha definitely not
/r/seduction01/09/22 10:53 PM
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I love to get her Instagram because I can use my IG as a marketing tool. Women are more likely to give their IG to a random stranger and then they can see a cool, fun lifestyle and reach out. Displaying the same thing through a text is too try hard. That said, I actually don't ask for the number until I have a date set up with her, then the number is just a matter of handling logistics so they give it out easily at that point.
/r/seduction01/09/22 04:29 PM
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Sounds like there another guy involved. So if you pursue this I would just be aware of that. She is hiding the stories with her BF from you so you don't get mad. My guess is she saw you at the concert but didn't say Hi because her BF was there. Obviously, this is just speculation but I suspect this is the case.
/r/seduction29/08/22 07:20 PM
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Hahahahhahahahahahha Adam's game is better than ever. He has been with the same woman for 8 years and consistently has 5 to 8 girlfriends he has threesomes with and they all know about each other. He occasionally breaks it off with all of them and within a week has a whole new group. He has 5 children, who are great kids. He is an excellent father and owns 8 businesses. He's literally up stairs from where I'm at right now teaching and one of the best guys I've ever met.
/r/trpGAME27/08/22 04:28 PM
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I am 310lbs currently. I have no problem getting women. A lot of attraction for women has nothing to do with looks. If you are funny, spontaneous, can generate pre-selection, a leader, a provider, well groomed despite your weight, confident, then getting women is not hard. Now it is still easier when you lose weight but for most women they want a man with ambition and drive over a dude with a perfect body. Own what you've got. Push for better. The drive is attractive.
/r/seduction25/08/22 06:08 AM
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I will sometimes where a white hat that stands out, I also like Robert Graham shirts because they are nice, high quality shirts that a woman can mention but they aren't ridiculous or over the top. No need to go all Mystery and dress like an 80's rockstar.
/r/seduction25/08/22 05:54 AM
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Cold approach can work but it is harder, by far, than social circle game. Cold approach works well if you are in a scenario where cold approach makes sense, for example, if you are new to a community or at like a comic book convention where you know everyone there has the same interests. Even approaching women in bars is a lot easier if you build up a lot of social proof in the bar first then approach. My preference is social circle game and if I am going to cold approach I do it by building a s…
/r/seduction25/08/22 05:22 AM
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Attraction is investment. You do things that get her to invest more than you invest, little favors for you and she'll like you. Make her laugh and don't chase her.
/r/seduction17/08/22 02:20 AM
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Men, in general, are in a space of scarcity and begging when it comes to women, so they have all the power in the situation. Build an abundant social life, full of the type of women you want to date and don't date any of them. Just be the guy they can't have but that they all want.
/r/seduction16/08/22 04:40 PM
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Alright do what ya want. Not sure why you wouldn't just do a small group get together. There are so many advantages to the group get together, like being able to bounce her out of the group and be with her on an impromptu date...
/r/seduction14/08/22 04:20 PM
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Because you are just taking her number and not using it as intended. Imagine if she wasn't into you and you happened to mistake the signals... how do you think she would feel? Now... let's say you aren't misreading it at all, you are 100% right, it still brings up that feeling for her of crossing lines. She would likely overlook it because she is into you but it would plant a little seed in her mind. Now... If you do a group party and she comes that is full consent. She makes the choice. You alw…
/r/seduction14/08/22 04:16 PM
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Doesn't matter if she is into you or not. She didn't specifically give you her number and by just using it without permission it starts giving off stalker vibes. You just need a reason to contact her outside the group chat that isn't directly asking her out. Honestly, the way I would play it is suggest a group get together to study or hang out outside of class then get her number directly from her at the live group meeting. This takes all the pressure out of the situation and builds attraction f…
/r/seduction14/08/22 04:07 PM
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It's gonna be creepy. If you're gonna text her outside the group chat you need a reason to do it that is not asking her out. What is the intention of the group chat?
/r/seduction14/08/22 04:00 PM
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There are only a handful of coaches that are Great with women. Adam Lyons, is a damn legend and the best there is. Lloyd the single guy on YouTube has some serious game and Jason Capital. The guy who taught Tripp, from Tripp advice, was taught by Adam Lyons. Search for ask the dating coach.
/r/seduction05/06/22 01:01 AM
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Adam Lyons. That's who you need. He is the best.
/r/seduction29/05/22 10:01 PM
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Get hobbies and go do them at least once a week. Dance classes, yoga, martial arts, hiking, business...lots of activities to do and you can meet people while doing those activities.
/r/seduction29/05/22 04:05 PM
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Open all the groups around the target group. Open the target group after the others are enjoying your company. Start introducing everyone to each other. Buy the whole group a drink and tell the hot one you're after to come help you carry them. Make her laugh while at the bar, then take her back to the group. Be the most fun of everyone in the group. Offer to order an uber at the end of the night for her and her friend, ride with them. Drop friend off first, at her house ask to use the restroom. …
/r/seduction20/05/22 01:51 AM
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Can't steer a boat that isn't moving. Unless you have a specific issue you're dealing with then I've got no advice other than get her to invest time, effort and energy in you.
/r/seduction19/05/22 04:33 PM
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I drop ideas into their mind of fun things I do. When they say one sounds fun I say we should do that, when are you free?
/r/seduction09/05/22 04:08 PM
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Your cortisol levels are high so do something fun before you meet her so you're in a good state of mind. Be entertaining. That's all you need to do. Don't worry about how much money she has, whether yiu can take her to fancy places, etc. But do create a fun experience. For example, I took a woman on an international super spy date. She loved it. Nerf guns, silly talk about taking out targets, being playful is powerful. So go have fun.
/r/seduction29/04/22 04:43 PM
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Teasing makes her laugh, or it should.... Laughter triggers dopamine. Sounds like He is escalating rapidly through voice tone and tempo and bypassing laughter by turning her on. Won't work on all girls but will definitely get ya laid.
/r/seduction28/04/22 02:47 AM
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You need to transition from normal chat to a conversation about people, then relationships, then sex. Sex conversation should be about sex in general to start, not sex between the two of you. Small touches. Hands first. Hand to forearm. Shoulder to shoulder. Arm to shoulder, head to head, kiss. Hand to body. Mouth to body, mouth to... :) Gradual Escalation of mental, verbal and physical touch is required. Can't have sex if she won't hold your hand.
/r/seduction25/04/22 11:40 PM
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I've had terrible luck in Austin with dating apps. I'm quite good with the ladies in real life though so whatever.
/r/seduction21/04/22 04:58 PM
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The issue is not being nice, the issue is that you don't break rapport. You have to tease her. Make her laugh. You're being boring and women do not respond to boring men.
/r/seduction16/04/22 11:39 PM
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I wouldn't worry about it and if you are going to do something about it then I would pull away from her a little bit and make her think you might ghost her. She clearly likes you, as she admitted. If she does ghost you 100% do not chase her, let her come back in her time.
/r/seduction11/04/22 11:45 PM
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