BenScopato Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

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2	Do you guys ever just, cry? If you don't pay attention to those inner beasts and let them run wild from time to time then they'll just fuck you up. Meditating is great. Just feel what you're feeling for a while. Let it play out. Be done with it.	/r/askTRP	17/04/17 05:09 AM
11	What does it mean when a girl asks how she preformed sexually? "I don't remember, let's try again..."	/r/askTRP	13/04/17 08:27 AM
2	How do you overcome the "grass is always greener" syndrome when you're in a long term relationship? Nope. You just have to get to the point where your desire for a family, desire to maintain this one LTR, outweighs the desire to go find new poon. It won't ever go away. It will just become less important.	/r/askTRP	31/03/17 04:38 AM
3	Own Your Shit Weekly - March 28, 2017 I'd been doing pretty well until tonight, or so I thought. Taking care of myself. Investing in my own happiness. Trying to strengthen my marriage by consciously opening up about things I enjoy about our relationship. ...only I didn't get the reaction I wanted and my reaction made me realize it was the positive feedback I was really seeking. I was trying to gain external validation. I need to pull back again and reassess my motives more closely before speaking.	/r/MarriedRedPill	28/03/17 09:02 AM
4	LTR caught me lying Too late now, but next time it comes up (and it will): "She's a friend. I get to choose who my friends are and who I hang out with. I'd hoped that what we have is strong enough that you'd feel more secure about it." Take control. Don't play the jealous game. Don't pander to it.	/r/askTRP	27/03/17 04:09 PM
3	[FR] Massive fail on my part ...wasn't that a Prince song?	/r/MarriedRedPill	27/03/17 08:46 AM
3	Advise on dealing with post-baby wife. It may not be that you aren't physically attractive, you might look fine, but one of your behaviors might be a turn off. That said, it's very common for women to lose confidence after giving birth. It doesn't matter what compliments you give her, if it doesn't jive with her own self-image then it's not going to stick. She needs to feel good about her new normal or get back to her old one. Find out which she prefers and help her get there. Maybe that means a gym membership and creating opportunit…	/r/askTRP	27/03/17 05:13 AM
3	NMMNG, disbelief Up vote. Also agree with OP, it was definitely a hard read and hard to accept. But the book fucking nailed everything else, I had no rational reason to deny this aspect of it other than being butt-hurt. I still allow myself to do things for other people, particularly family members, but before I do I give my motives a thorough investigation. If there's even a hint of a chance I'm expecting something from it, I stop myself. If I'm taking care of business someone else should be doing on their own,…	/r/askTRP	25/03/17 05:41 AM