Benbig_ppdover Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
2	To seek or not to seek?	Fundamentals	Benbig_ppdover	/r/seduction	11/02/22 09:27 PM
1	Arms around the waist on 1st date?		Benbig_ppdover	/r/seduction	15/02/22 07:46 PM

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
1	Having male friends is absolutely KEY Thank you. Come again.	/r/seduction	01/03/22 03:06 AM
1	[deleted by user] Move on.	/r/seduction	19/02/22 01:57 AM
2	Can you just approach women anywhere? Agreed, different people go in with different mindsets. Some days I am okay with talking, other days I wanna do my thing and not be bothered. I have approached girls who were absolutely stunned and chill with giving their IG and having a convo while some didn’t give me a lot so I just moved on to the next one and never bothered them again. Some of them I regularly say hi to but I don’t want to pursue anything so I never asked them out. All depends on the person’s personality, mood and mindset. E…	/r/seduction	16/02/22 12:29 AM
4	Can you just approach women anywhere? Ye same. I always build a rapport during a few visits before asking them to workout/hangout. Disagree with gym being like work part. Different people have different mindsets, I have met and asked girls out at the gym and they are totally cool with it. It’s all about the vibe they give off when approached	/r/seduction	15/02/22 09:19 PM
1	Arms around the waist on 1st date? How else do I escalate intimacy on the first date?	/r/seduction	15/02/22 08:30 PM
13	Can you just approach women anywhere? Disagree with the gym one. Pretty decent place where you invite to workout together and then escalate from there. They can also bail if need be.	/r/seduction	15/02/22 07:47 PM
1	To seek or not to seek? Thanks a lot so essentially I should go out and talk to girls at parties, bars, clubs, uni and do cold approaches too but once I have their attention, I shouldn’t give mine away. I need to be doing my own thing and if they fit into it, that’s cool but not go out of my frame to accommodate them. Maybe a few late replies and stuff is cool too? But imo that initial interaction is quite important to let them smell the cookie aye? You agree?	/r/seduction	12/02/22 10:32 PM
1	To seek or not to seek? Thanks, the grind has been my focus for a while now and I have seen increased success with women as I have achieved more mentally, physically, monetarily and otherwise. But question however was the dynamic of approaching and having them chasing by not giving too much attention. I want to get more info about that. How does that work? What has worked for you? What’s a good amount of attention?	/r/seduction	11/02/22 09:57 PM
1	How should you ask her if she has a boyfriend? Depends. If I am cold approaching, the conversation proceeds in a way where she lets me know(when I ask for her number) or I straight up ask her. If its a social setting, they mostly let you know or when you ask them out or for their number, they will let you know	/r/seduction	05/02/22 11:01 PM
1	I (19M) have no confidence, life experience, intelligence, self esteem, etc, and Im very immature and dependent on my parents. I feel so far behind. How can I improve myself? Where can I start? Start by seeing a therapist, seems like you have a lot of issues unrelating to seduction that needs to be dealt with first mate	/r/seduction	05/02/22 06:41 AM
8	What Movie do you guys recommend for a first date ? Go ice skating, 8 ball, walks, share an ice cream, beach, laser tag, gym, hikes, anything that will increase adrenaline and takes effort. Will make her enjoy the activity and at the same time, you. Go get it bro	/r/seduction	24/12/21 06:15 AM
1	[deleted by user] no. 4 hit me hard. Need to be more heartless tbh	/r/seduction	21/12/21 11:09 PM
2	How to approach girls in the club? This is the best and most genuine reply here	/r/seduction	22/11/21 12:46 AM