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Bencousinwater/r/MarriedRedPill22/09/17 07:59 PM
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Bencousinwater/r/askMRP08/10/18 02:15 PM
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Bencousinwater/r/askMRP16/10/18 01:28 PM
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Welcome to adulthood. Enjoy the next 50-75 years.
/r/askMRP06/12/17 08:42 PM
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Attaboy. Challenge yourself in there.
/r/askMRP13/10/17 02:17 AM
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Your lifts are garbage for a guy your size. You should be a beast in the gym. You are NFL defensive lineman size man.
/r/askMRP12/10/17 10:13 PM
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It's a joke you mouth breathers.
/r/askMRP03/10/17 04:08 PM
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We need to start an application process for comments. Because so many of these are fucking shite.
/r/askMRP28/09/17 06:51 PM
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Honestly, by being more mindful of my speech. Instead of letting physiological symptoms of fight/flight takeover, I relax and realize that the outcome depends on me. I have tried and failed to defend, explain, excuse or rationalize my actions so many times...something finally clicked recently. Bill Burr's monologues on his wife being made at him...(paraphrasing) what's the worst that could happen? He's bigger than she is. What's she gonna do, withhold sex? Big deal, rub one out.
/r/MarriedRedPill27/09/17 02:45 AM
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Ok faggot it isn't that hard try reading any post in MRP ever and you'll find your answer. But since you breath out your mouth I will help you out. Obviously there is no "harm" in it but the mantra here is text for logistics. To each their own. If you want to text your wife...text your wife. No need for a group of strangers to give you the "ok" to do so.
/r/askMRP26/09/17 10:08 PM
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This is my first OYS. My backstory is like many of yours (betabitch--> no sex --> frustration--> r/deadbedrooms --> MRP --> change ) so I will spare the details. I'm copying a template I saw below. Here goes. Week 1 - 28, 6'1", 193lbs, 18% BFI (Navy Method). Physical Fitness and Physique Lifting for a few years, fuckarounditis for awhile. Bounced around between programs...some bodybuilding.com ones, PPL, nSuns, ICF, SL, PHUL are examples. My problem was always progression and consistency to one …
/r/MarriedRedPill26/09/17 07:04 PM
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Thanks for sharing that site. Looks a great resource.
/r/askMRP22/09/17 07:29 PM
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This is a covert contract. You cuddle up to her expecting her to what...nestle into your semi? She's tired dude - you know she is. Why not just cuddle up because YOU want to, not because you want/expect her to do something in return. Could cuddling up not be kino?
/r/askMRP21/09/17 07:56 PM
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Good post. Shit ain't that hard.
/r/askMRP21/09/17 07:54 PM
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There's a lot of work before you. This isn't a quick fix and you will discover many more hard truths about yourself. You sound like you're not very fun. If you're uncomfortable around the person who knows you best, who are you comfortable around? Be fun. Don't give a fuck. Be goofy. Tease her. Joke with her. Scare her (playfully). We know nothing about you...you say she's hotter, ok, by how much? Have you read MMSLP? The author posits that if the sexual ranks are different, inevitably one partne…
/r/askMRP21/09/17 06:32 PM
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Come on dude. You one year ago: https://www.reddit.com/r/bodyweightfitness/comments/4vtkp0/afraid_to_gain_muscle/?st=J7USFZ1L&sh=81ffa1ae It's not too hard. Just start. Something is better than nothing. You could start with calisthenics/body weight. Buy a few sets of modest Dumbbells. You can do a lot with a set of Dumbbells. I'd recommend StrongLifts. It's simple and there are lots of videos on YouTube that can guide you. You need to eat too. I know from your post you are scared of getting fat …
/r/askMRP21/09/17 06:27 PM
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Also send noodz
/r/MarriedRedPill16/09/17 12:06 PM
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First off what is askmrp becoming. We are on a continuing decline of quality questions here. To this post...after deciphering the rambling.. Your husband is 49 and has Facebook and Instagram? First I would say it doesn't really matter. When you watch movies and tv shows, he's look at women. He is looking at women in the street and at work. Pretty much everywhere. It isn't necessarily a comparison each and every time; rather it is just fun to look. I love my wife and think she is gorgeous but I s…
/r/MarriedRedPill16/09/17 12:04 PM
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You're hamstering.
/r/askMRP15/09/17 09:07 PM
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How hard is it to respond to that? You need a group of strangers on the internet tell you what to say? Why don't we help you put it in too. This shit isn't that hard man.
/r/askMRP15/09/17 09:07 PM
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And how is one 23% bf at 140lbs? Something tells me none of those numbers are true.
/r/MarriedRedPill12/09/17 02:17 PM
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You bench that much at 140? By most standards you are an elite lifter. Same for deadlift. How are you 23% body fat if you're banging out those numbers?
/r/MarriedRedPill12/09/17 01:22 PM
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Don't do that.
/r/askMRP12/09/17 01:17 PM
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There's an app for a program. 5x5 StrongLifts. It is idiotproof. Check it out. Simple, efficient, and excellent.
/r/askMRP10/09/17 12:39 AM
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https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=LQCU36pkH7c
/r/MarriedRedPill15/08/17 02:04 PM
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If you're asking a group of strangers who don't know you or your girlfriend, you know your answer already. Quit looking for validation you faggot.
/r/askMRP15/07/17 12:08 PM
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Fuck you.
/r/askMRP07/03/17 03:25 AM
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Don't fix her problem(s)..."fix her feelz". http://archive.is/rZ7DN
/r/askMRP18/01/17 02:32 PM
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Don't get butthurt about this shit. You could go and do something else instead of waiting around like one of Pavlov's dogs, waiting for his reward. This might get her hamster going...she could think, why isn't he waiting like the good boy I trained? Where did he go? What's he doing? Is he getting it from someone else? Why doesn't he want me? etc... Alternatively, as others have mentioned, and probably what I would do (not that it matters) is just pick her up, carry her to bed/couch/wherever. Thi…
/r/askMRP11/01/17 06:09 PM
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You guys are fucked. If it is like this about ketchup, what is the rest of the relationship like? Does she dictate everything in your life? It sounds like a mother scolding her kid. Want a tip? It's not really about the ketchup. These incredibly stupid, mindless, pointless fights and arguments over trivial bullshit have their roots in something else. She is frustrated about something you're doing, or you in general, and the ketchup crap becomes the vehicle to release that frustration. I'd guess …
/r/askMRP11/01/17 05:58 PM
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When did askmrp become a Facebook timeline?
/r/askMRP11/01/17 05:49 PM
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Say, "oh shit you know about her?"
/r/askMRP08/01/17 02:29 PM
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Quit being a whiny (whiney?) little bitch-ass faggot and lead by example.
/r/askMRP06/01/17 08:49 PM
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Wow. Putting your shit on pause while you go to work somewhere else for 9 months. Why not man up and face your problems? Divorce her instead of hoping she'll fuck Chad while you're away, thus giving you an out. Pathetic. And what about your kid, you little faggot? Just going to ditch him and be a shit dad as well as a crap husband? Grow up.
/r/askMRP21/12/16 08:43 PM
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At least my girlfriend doesn't have tiny titties
/r/askTRP10/12/16 01:05 AM
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Little bro, keep up the good work. I think most of us wish we knew what we know now at your age.
/r/askTRP09/12/16 11:54 PM
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He absolutely is.
/r/askTRP09/12/16 11:49 PM
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Jeez bro. That's it - there's no confront. This shit is over IMO.
/r/askTRP09/12/16 11:47 PM
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You should play with your own instead, you fat fuck.
/r/askTRP09/12/16 11:46 PM
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Hint: it's not them, it's you. Yep, you ugly. Time to get more attractive.
/r/askTRP09/12/16 11:45 PM
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If you're asking this, you know the answer...faggot.
/r/askTRP09/12/16 11:44 PM
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Fucking your wife at her family's house
/r/askMRP09/12/16 03:22 AM
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Sounds like she was joking. You're getting faggoty about nothing.
/r/askMRP08/12/16 07:28 PM
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Seems a bit desperate. Your marriage doesn't exist anymore, only in legality, thus there is no way to have the upper hand. She's already fucking someone else...doubt she cares about your passive-aggressive little antics.
/r/askMRP01/12/16 01:46 PM
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Wow man. I want to say "it's only porn" but I guess every one looks at it differently. Still...seems harsh.
/r/MarriedRedPill22/11/16 07:09 PM
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Bruh. I think you are better off - she sounds like a stage four clinger. This isn't just hamster, but outright paranoia. It will be hard to regain trust (not sure how you ever lost it??). No trust = no love = no sex = no relationship. It sounds like you guys have had a rough road for some time. It's hard to work on yourselves (individually and as a couple) when you are struggling financially and medically. The work of self-actualization and self-esteem naturally take a backseat to security and h…
/r/MarriedRedPill22/11/16 04:45 PM
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Oh, you said "lurking for awhile" so I assumed it meant longer. There is a lot to take in - the information overwhelmed me at first. Reading is one thing, but internalizing is another. It'll take time. Honestly, speaking from experience, loosening up your needy grip on your wife, and thus letting her up for air (metaphorically [hopefully]) could do a lot of good. You want her to want you to be around you...you can't force this. It'll only occur through making yourself more attractive and a bette…
/r/askMRP22/11/16 04:36 PM
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That was tough to read. I think your desperation is obvious and your marriage on the brink of collapse. Listen to the advice you are given here. You are smothering her. Clearly, she is not attracted to you and your beta ways have buried you in a deep hole of faggotry and shite. You need to man up. You're looking at MRP for the wrong reasons. I don't believe you are a happy guy and is translates into a lot of marriage problems. Instead of looking at MRP for your wife, look at it for you. This is …
/r/askMRP19/11/16 12:38 PM
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Sounds like a shit test. Don't respond to it. Could also be a total coincidence. I wouldn't worry about it whatsoever.
/r/askMRP18/11/16 07:07 PM
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Awesome man. Thanks for sharing.
/r/MarriedRedPill18/11/16 01:07 PM
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Shit post.
/r/MarriedRedPill17/11/16 01:27 PM
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I warm up by lifting a lower amount for higher reps. Works fine for me. E.g. If I am going to deadlift or bench I will do a few sets of 135lbs just to get the blood flowing and the movement down. Throughout my workout I will periodically static stretch different muscles as well.
/r/askMRP17/11/16 11:10 AM
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Does she want to lose weight? That's the question to ask (rhetorically). If - and I doubt this is so - she is happy being overweight, then you are probably stuck in your current situation. If she wants to lose weight and is unhappy with herself physically, then there are way more options...
/r/askMRP16/11/16 07:30 PM
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Nothing to add but thank you to everyone here for making this sub exist. It is slowly but surely repairing my relationship but more importantly, making me a better man. Thank you.
/r/MarriedRedPill16/11/16 06:36 PM
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"Cover Contract Maestro"...legend
/r/askMRP16/11/16 06:19 PM
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Both.
/r/askMRP16/11/16 06:18 PM
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No, she is simply not interested in you. Do you Lift? Or read the materials?
/r/askMRP16/11/16 12:08 PM
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Quit complaining you little bitch. If you don't see results, whose fault is that? Yours. You aren't eating right. Your program in the gym is shit. Do some research and figure your shit out. Hit up the fitness subreddit and bodybuilding.com. Check your macros on IIFYM and track them. It's not that fucking hard.
/r/askMRP10/11/16 12:42 AM
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You're an idiot. Grow up and pick a woman yourself, both of which you probably made up while you jacked off looking at yourself in the mirror.
/r/askMRP01/11/16 03:17 PM
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